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miss.a.p1600
06-26-2021, 04:28 PM
L’s ex wife is leaving out of town and taking their kids.

After hearing them staying up all night, yelling at each other, arguing, and his daughter constantly talking in a whiny voice……….

I can honestly say I’m kind of glad.

Although he does regulate n mediate, Im not sure I’m cut out to deal with that on a regular basis. It’s one thing to tell your own kids to stfu but with someone else’s kids it’s like their parents have to step up n enforce.

He said they broke his tv remote yesterday.

I’m glad they won’t be tearing up my shit.

when they come over. If they come over. I’m putting up all my valuables and covering everything with plastic.

LoveyDovey
06-26-2021, 08:33 PM
All I could do today was eat and sleep. Lazy lazy lazy!

whirlerz
06-26-2021, 09:03 PM
He said they broke his tv remote yesterday.

I’m glad they won’t be tearing up my shit.

when they come over. If they come over. I’m putting up all my valuables and covering everything with plastic.

LOL!

Sooo tempted 2 call cops on ratchet couple's party, 10 people no less LOUD Music, can hear over my phone music & a/c!

indiegirl
06-26-2021, 10:52 PM
Gurl!! I'm spending my night relaxing at home watching track & field opponents. Shelly-Ann Fraser-Pryce vs Sha'carri Richardson for the 100m. I want to see this race so bad. What is wild to me is how petite these women are in height. This is gonna be a legendary one!! Sha'carri even dropped out of the 200m. That's what you do when you're preparing to win for the main event. So psyched :)!

This is the only type of sports shows I like to watch. The Olympics lol. I'm ready for it to start already.

WendiStarr
06-27-2021, 04:04 PM
While doing laundry I found some of BD's clothes in there and a wad of cash that obviously must be his. I'm not going to say anything about finding it. I consider it payment for doing laundry.

Kylie8585
06-27-2021, 08:53 PM
I feel like I'm going to need to drop my main booty call. He's getting too attached :( The dick is amazing and his oral skills too but starting to see little things turn into him wanting a relationship which just is not what I want.

JenniferNorth
06-28-2021, 04:41 AM
He said they broke his tv remote yesterday.

I’m glad they won’t be tearing up my shit.

when they come over. If they come over. I’m putting up all my valuables and covering everything with plastic.

You mean his kids???!

Oh girl, hell NO.

miss.a.p1600
06-28-2021, 07:24 AM
L tried some edibles and actually got pretty high lol!!! I was pissed that he agreed to smoke weed with me twice but kept botching the inhale so he would never get high. So I thought to myself 'ill fix that' and got some thc edibles.

He's not a drinker or smoker and rarely to never indulges in these sorts. So it will be an every now in then, 2-3 times a year type of thing to do together.

Then the next day he was like 'damn! now I see why our neighbor smokes weed all the time......that felt gooood'

He still doesn't know I have my own personal stash of thc capsules that I do on my own solo time.

LoveyDovey
06-28-2021, 07:41 AM
^^^weed is great. It's the only rec drug use I condone.

miss.a.p1600
06-28-2021, 10:16 AM
^I concur

trustfundkiller
06-28-2021, 03:21 PM
I'm planning on taking the rest of the summer off and then returning to the strip club in Sept. I have some things in my personal life that I want to take care of first, plus I want to give myself some time to mentally/physically prepare. I'm nervous, but excited. It's weird to think that I'd be nervous about something as familiar as stripping.

Aurora_Sunset
06-29-2021, 10:17 AM
Never thought I'd say this as a heavy introvert, but I'm really socially lonely and miss having friends. I just don't know how/where to find any. I feel like I've outgrown a lot of the friends I had in my 20s. The few I would still consider good friends who kinda have their shit together live in different states. I feel like everyone my own age is either a stay-at-home mom with super young kids who can't get out anywhere at any time, or else is just... really lazy, super negative, with a drinking problem. Everyone else I meet is 10 years my junior, and I feel so old when they start talking about things. Or I feel really off my game if they're already far ahead of me in life.

I also feel like it's really hard to find people to relate to in our current political climate. I'm in a red state, and everyone here is either a raging Cheeto fan/conspiracy theorist, or they're so aggressively "woke" that they can't let people enjoy air conditioning, Chick fil a, or Cards Against Humanity without a holier-than-thou lecture. Like, fuck.

WendiStarr
06-29-2021, 11:22 AM
If my period doesn't stop soon, I'm going to just order menstrual suppression drugs off of callondoc. I know I should probably see a gyno but I don't have time for that shit right now. I really don't want to be sitting in gyno office right now with an 11 year old and 16.5 month old baby, both of who are going to be bored and looking for something to get into/driving me nuts. Besides, we're going upnorth for 4th of July this week.

ava$
06-29-2021, 11:55 AM
I'm planning on taking the rest of the summer off and then returning to the strip club in Sept. I have some things in my personal life that I want to take care of first, plus I want to give myself some time to mentally/physically prepare. I'm nervous, but excited. It's weird to think that I'd be nervous about something as familiar as stripping.
I’m doing the same, I always get nervous before starting again after long breaks I’ve been on break since March 2020 lol

indiegirl
06-30-2021, 04:10 PM
I'm starting another weed strength. LORD, please don't put me in couch lock. They were limited on edibles this time.

carmen_b
06-30-2021, 06:44 PM
I was not pleased to hear that my brother ended up randomly working in one of my strip clubs towns lol.
Like ..... how in the HELL did his work send him three hours away from his house to my secret little club town ?

Anyway ..... I'm not bending on my dancing days so lets hope he doesn't feel inspired to seek out the local nightlife and entertainment options if we are in this little town on the same days hahaha .

I don't *think* I'll be there for 8-10 days.
I may have to re-con first and see when he is up that way.

WendiStarr
06-30-2021, 07:27 PM
I hired someone to cut the grass. I don't feel like doing it anymore.

indiegirl
06-30-2021, 11:40 PM
I would probably lose my shit if I was Britney Spears right about now. If she decided to blow through her 60 million dollars, let her. I wouldn't work either if someone was controlling my money like I was 12. Can't believe she was denied in the conservatorship.

miss.a.p1600
07-01-2021, 06:20 AM
^probably cause she’s been on a conservatorship so long that actually taking her off it could be detrimental. Brittany had a history of people using her. Her ex husband, her ex boyfriends, her own dad (allegedly), and more.

There might be more to the story. She might have some mental illness like bipolar and when unmedicated can wreak havoc on ones life. Ex. Overspending like there is no tomorrow during manic phases.

If mental illness is the reason behind a conservatorship Her team doesn’t want her to end up like Amanda Bynes whose unchecked bipolar caused her to lose her fortune and more. She went from beautiful looking A list celeb to a homeless looking woman with a failing career.

After all Brittney does have 2 mouths to feed and whoever else she’s supporting financially.

But also she’s damn near 40 so ……. She needs to have the chance to learn to be independent again.

trustfundkiller
07-01-2021, 10:26 AM
This time next year, I'm going to be vacationing on the Italian Riviera, eating spaghetti, and having a summer fling with a dark, tall and handsome Italian guy. Claiming it now.

I'm so tired of not doing the things I want to do, doubting myself, and thinking too small.

indiegirl
07-01-2021, 11:20 AM
This time next year, I'm going to be vacationing on the Italian Riviera, eating spaghetti, and having a summer fling with a dark, tall and handsome Italian guy. Claiming it now.

I'm so tired of not doing the things I want to do, doubting myself, and thinking too small.

That sounds amazing. If I reach a certain money point I want to hire a hot male escort simply to escort me and go on a trip near the ocean looking at attractions and get an air bnb for a day. Absolutely no sex and just a few hours. I want to feel like a queen. Normal men can be too annoying with their sexual needs. I just want hot arm candy and to enjoy myself.

One time I was looking up male escorts to do doubles with and found the guy who was talking to me online. He was hot but mehhh I lost my interest after finding out we both have the same secret.

miss.a.p1600
07-01-2021, 11:27 AM
That sounds amazing. If I reach a certain money point I want to hire a hot male escort simply to escort me and go on a trip near the ocean looking at attractions and get an air bnb for a day. Absolutely no sex. I want to feel like a queen. Normal men can be too annoying with their sexual needs. I just want hot arm candy and to enjoy myself.

One time I was looking up male escorts to do doubles with and found the guy who was talking to me online. He was hot but mehhh I lost my interest after finding out we both have the same secret.

Yes!!!!!

I loathe how men have these ridiculous sexual “needs” they expect you to fulfill especially in relationships.

It pisses me off they literally expect sex.

Ok mf. I expect money or something of monetary value then.

carmen_b
07-01-2021, 11:52 AM
^ I would also love to hire a hot non-sexual companion for a day. :)

I wonder if a lot of sex workers have wanted that.

My current partner wouldn’t dig it haha so I won’t. :/

I would take cuddles though if they wanted.

miss.a.p1600
07-01-2021, 01:21 PM
That sounds amazing. If I reach a certain money point I want to hire a hot male escort simply to escort me and go on a trip near the ocean looking at attractions and get an air bnb for a day. Absolutely no sex and just a few hours. I want to feel like a queen. Normal men can be too annoying with their sexual needs. I just want hot arm candy and to enjoy myself.

One time I was looking up male escorts to do doubles with and found the guy who was talking to me online. He was hot but mehhh I lost my interest after finding out we both have the same secret.

i remember saying the same thing roughly last year

that I just wanted to hire a male escort cause a lot of these dudes have zero clue how to treat a lady. It’s like a needle in a haystack.

mid rather shorten the time searching n just pay a male escort.

i found a site with some fine ass men and was so tempted.

Elektra Luxx
07-01-2021, 02:46 PM
Bf's birthday is the 9th and luckily it lands on a Friday. So we'll probably stay home, watch Netflix and "chill". I suspect alcohol will be involved and we'll probably chill several times and around the house. I may even let him "chill" in the back if I get relaxed enough. I know that's what he's hoping for.

indiegirl
07-01-2021, 04:54 PM
I was invited to go to an Angels Game in a few days and had to admit that I am banned from the stadium LOLLL! They took my information down. Woops! It was a booze filled night when I was underage.

I secretly love the fact I have an excuse not to go to a baseball game. I remember going on a date to a baseball game just to please the guy. Now I just say no or come up with excuses for things I don't wanna do.

miss.a.p1600
07-01-2021, 05:30 PM
Watching sports with a dude is never fun……..unless he put down some gwop for reeeeeaaaallly good seats

Aurora_Sunset
07-02-2021, 06:07 AM
I'm taking a mental health day from work today. Which just means I'm using my unpaid time to not go in. I feel like I need it, but I also feel lazy, like this is why I never get ahead financially. I'm gonna try to enjoy it...

My husband was incredibly sweet when I called him last night and told him I was thinking about taking the day off but felt lazy. He made a big speech about how I work my ass off, I'm the least lazy person he knows, and I need a full day off to do nothing, because my days off are always full of other chores and errands. He told me to take care of myself instead of him and other people for a change. And that the reason he works so hard in school and never misses a day is because he wants to get a job that pays so well that I can stop working so much, or not work at all for awhile, maybe go back to school myself, and he can take care of me for a change. He's like a sincere little kid when he gets on a roll like that, so I know he meant it. It made me cry. I'm lucky.

miss.a.p1600
07-02-2021, 07:49 AM
I’m feeling kind of depressed

And it always happens when I feel like I am not financially abundant.

Then it starts this cycle of “why even try anymore”

indiegirl
07-02-2021, 09:03 AM
I don’t know how the hell some of these drivers have a drivers license issued to them....hell I don’t even know how I have a drivers license.

carmen_b
07-02-2021, 09:35 AM
^^ I'm also fighting this weird period of fear with July coming up and worried I won't make enough.

It's only July 2 so it's a little too early to gauge at all .

I think it's a good time to just keep " going through " the motions .
I'm planning to run a July / Aug. deal just to help with my anxiety ( I'd rather offer a bit of a discount in my vanilla biz and know i have enough work ). Then I’ll pull the deal when I get a few bites on it.

Everything feels “ off “ right now.
I just refuse to indulge in fear behavior .

Basically .... keep moving. Keep going !! Everyone who even expressed the slightest interest in buying something will hear from me soon haha.

lynn2009
07-02-2021, 09:49 AM
I have been counting down this three day weekend for probably a month. It's kind of pathetic.

carmen_b
07-02-2021, 12:42 PM
I am just so horrified with how J handled this thing . :/
I will stay out of it though.

I guess his daughter complained an hour into her three hour activity out of the house.
I don’t know the full details but in a nutshell I think he went back up there and hung out like 45 min during his work day.

This is just NOT what I’m used to seeing. No one in my family would ever do that.
If it was us ( me and siblings ) we would have have heard “ I’m working why in world would you call me ? I’ll be there in two hours ”. Hopefully it will settle better next week.

carmen_b
07-02-2021, 02:45 PM
^ Ok .... NOW I will stay out of it.

I found myself blurting the info about how that never would have occurred growing up in my family ( it wouldn't ) but that will be all I will say.
I *think* I did say it tactfully . It was in a " I am very surprised you even went up " type of way .

Now .... DONE as far as any involvement.

EDIT : He later admitted he handled it wrong haha and killing an hour of his work day was not the right course of action. :)

I'll probably remove these .

carmen_b
07-02-2021, 03:07 PM
I feel like it's funny that a few of us seem to be pre-panic mode about July.

It just seems like there a few odd factors that come together this month.
People tend to kind of pull at you more for your time in summer.
I think that is a main factor.
I'm already in protection mode of my business hours but I feel like it gets harder in July / Aug. !

I swear business slows down with extreme heat too.
Like .... people procrastinate EVERYTHING included making buying decisions.

I just really hope it pans out this month ! :/

This is a personal factor too applicable to just me but what I'd *really* like to do in July is not run any type of sale at all for the vanilla business and just be at the club three days a week . I feel like I just can't do it to my partner and have to choose " more reasonable " options to fit dancing in. Old me would just leave town in a few days ( there are no club in my town where J and I live ) and come back WHEN I have the money I want for the week.

miss.a.p1600
07-02-2021, 03:53 PM
^yes.

Prospective clients seem to have “forgotten”

When they magically cure their amnesia then all of a sudden they are “busy”

When they mysteriously free up their schedule and meet you then now they seem to be so “broke” but yet they live in 250k+ homes.

I’m sick of their shit!

miss.a.p1600
07-02-2021, 03:55 PM
^ Ok .... NOW I will stay out of it.

I found myself blurting the info about how that never would have occurred growing up in my family ( it wouldn't ) but that will be all I will say.
I *think* I did say it tactfully . It was in a " I am very surprised you even went up " type of way .

Now .... DONE as far as any involvement.

I know the feeling L coddles his daughter too.

His ass inconvenience himself all the time by dropping what he’s doing n driving all around town to get her or pick her up.

you can voice your opinion. They’re just gonna do what they want to do regardless

carmen_b
07-02-2021, 04:05 PM
^ I know it's a little early to panic but I feel like everyone ( all the adults involved ) worked very hard to find options to get her out of the house and protect everyones hours during the day. The ex found the 1 - 4 p.m. option ( it's every day M-F ) . Then I found this other one 9-Noon that runs two days a week during our days that starts in a week.

So on the days her has her I would drop her at 9a.m. for example on the days with both, then he would get her at Noon and drop her at next one at 1 . He *should* get 6 solid focused work hours with the plan on Mon / Wed which is much better for him than having her around all day..... but only if we stick to the plan ! On Tues. it only covers three hours but it's what we have come up with so far.
I am trying to help by doing one of the routes for him at each class ( such as the 9a.m. and 4 p.m. times with driving and he'd do the middle hour OR vice versa ).

miss.a.p1600
07-02-2021, 05:04 PM
^something about men with their daughters

If she were a boy he probably wouldn't give 2 shits about it.

Hell I'm gender/age inclusive.....little crumbsnatchers can get enforcement of rules from me anytime, any gender, any age lol!!! IDGAF!

indiegirl
07-03-2021, 12:57 AM
Sha'carri richardson....GIRLLLLLL. So bummed. This 100m race ended for her. I acted like a weirdo when a customer told me during the appointment and acted shocked.

UGHH I'm so bummed! I was so excited for this event but I understand she was in a bad place due to her mother though :(.

miss.a.p1600
07-03-2021, 05:52 AM
^its messed up

She probably indulged in some weed to help cope with the difficulties going on in her life.

The US is still ass backwards when it comes to weed. Controlling it and then stigmatizing the hell out of it. Yet no one bats an eyelash when folk out here getting sloshed n destroying their liver using alcohol.

Had she got drunk af no one would care

It’s pure hypocrisy

She would have smoked her competition (pun intended)

And the “United” States government need to quit acting like uptight neurotic domineering bitches when it come to weed.

LoveyD
07-03-2021, 09:45 PM
^^ totally agree. Weed is medicinal. Alcohol just fucks up your life and health. My kid likes weed, too. I told him I have no problem with it, just don't drive high and stay away from alcohol, because when ppl get drunk that's when all the stupid stuff happens.

LoveyD
07-04-2021, 01:31 AM
That's what I'm thinking. Thanks G. My only fear is that my guy will feel like crap for not being able to be there for me. Maybe I'll just tell him a white lie and say my housemate had the mechanic over to fix her car and since he got done early, I decided to have him fix my car as well.

Aaaaand I was right. He got all pissy because after I waited 2 weeks for him to help me, I figured he was too overwhelmed so I'd better have someone else fix it. So I hired the mechanic. Now bf is all pissypants. "Sorry I can't make you happy." Well excuse me. I waited two God damn weeks for him to help me with my car only for him to totally blow it off because obviously I'm not a priority to him. So because I decided to take care of myself because nobody else will, now I am the bad guy? I'm seriously thinking of giving this guy the heave-ho.

carmen_b
07-04-2021, 07:09 AM
^ Well you really can't go without wheels for two weeks. So what did he expect you to do ?

LoveyD
07-04-2021, 08:21 AM
^^Exactly! When I asked him to help me find out the cost of parts, he said he would look into it. I waited a few days and asked him again. He said he would look into it. He never did. All he could do was bitch about how hates his life. How is that supposed to make me feel okay about asking him for help? Then he approaches me two weeks later and asks me "Did you get your car fixed?" Well, yeah. WTF am I supposed to do? Wait until it's convenient for him? I didn't get the memo that everything revolves around him!

This happened 5 days ago. Still no apology. Of course when he wants pussy, he's gonna come back and say something. Not happening.

Marina Starr
07-04-2021, 08:47 AM
I don't smoke weed but I have no problem with anyone smoking weed.

Although weed is not a performance enhancer, it is banned. Everyone knew the rules and what they were getting themselves into. The rules are the rules. I'm sad Sha'Carri was suspended but she handled it gracefully and took full responsibility.


^its messed up

She probably indulged in some weed to help cope with the difficulties going on in her life.

The US is still ass backwards when it comes to weed. Controlling it and then stigmatizing the hell out of it. Yet no one bats an eyelash when folk out here getting sloshed n destroying their liver using alcohol.

Had she got drunk af no one would care

It’s pure hypocrisy

She would have smoked her competition (pun intended)

And the “United” States government need to quit acting like uptight neurotic domineering bitches when it come to weed.

miss.a.p1600
07-04-2021, 12:16 PM
Agreed that she knew it was a rule and she broke the rule.

I suppose I’d like to see where weed isn’t banned similar to how alcohol isn’t banned. Since neither one enhances performance.

I think once more states legalize marijuana then the athletes getting punished for it will be a thing of the past.

carmen_b
07-05-2021, 11:12 AM
Lovey :

Men who bitch and don’t take action ..,, not good.

Do you think he will come out of this funk and move forward ?
What’s your vibe ?

LoveyD
07-05-2021, 11:31 AM
Idk. I've evaluated what has happened over the past 2 years and I'm feeling like I should move on.

He isn't mad that I took matters into my own hands and got shit done. He's mad at himself for not being able to take care of me but he is taking it out on me.

The man is good in the sack but doesn't really do anything else for me and emotionally I am not fulfilled. I kinda just want to focus on myself and my goals and build a new life for me and my kid. Anytime I try to build with someone, they just fuck it up and aren't competent.

So off on my own i go...

moneybags
07-05-2021, 12:07 PM
Lol…I went and got a massage and my massage therapist said, “you just be dancing too hard.” I don’t if he knows I dance or not…lol. Like did he mean at the night club or the strip club…I don’t know. I just laughed it off. He’s a nice guy. He doesn’t gossip. I was just like OMG he knows.