View Full Version : Confessions Thread!
Surprise
01-07-2011, 02:04 PM
I confess:
I've been lying to my mother in-law for almost 9 years now.
Not really by choice....my husband's idea when we first met.
I was 17, he was 24. His mom didn't like that. So he told her my 18th birthday was July 18...
Since then, she thinks my birthday is that day.
It's actually February 21st. So she think I'm already 26, when I'll be turning 26 next month.
I hate lying about this, but it's been going on for so long now...I dunno what to do. Not only that, she's my friend on FB, and I have to hide my birthday on my profile because of it. I'm worried that people will leave my Happy Birthday comments and she'll see them on my wall.
PLUSSSS....she's coming to visit on February 20-24th. So, I can't even be happy that it will be my birthday. I will have to act like it's a normal day.
This is really driving me crazy.
I pride myself on being an honest person, and this one stupid little lie...it's been going on for wayyyy too long and am now stuck in it. :(
when my ex and i first got together, he was 32, I was 19. we lied to my mom and told her he was 25, she believed us. I was going to tell her eventually, if we ever got married, and figured she's be okay with it, cause, well, we'd be married and that would be it.
would it be so awful if she found out? it's really only a few months difference, and you're married, and gave the woman grandkids and such...
_Avery_
01-07-2011, 05:09 PM
when my ex and i first got together, he was 32, I was 19. we lied to my mom and told her he was 25, she believed us. I was going to tell her eventually, if we ever got married, and figured she's be okay with it, cause, well, we'd be married and that would be it.
would it be so awful if she found out? it's really only a few months difference, and you're married, and gave the woman grandkids and such...
It wouldn't bother me if she came to me and was like, "Ya know...my birthday isn't really on this date, it's this date". I'd just be pretty impressed that she let it go that long..lol
I just feel bad because she is very big on trust. She's bought me presents and cake on that fake birthday...and I always feel like shit about it.
I think she would understand, but I don't think she'd be so easy to forget. Then she'd wonder what else we've lied about.
I mean, it really isn't that big of a thing to lie about. It's not like I've lied about being a fugitive or something (LOL), but I guess it's just the fact of how long the lie has been going on. I guess it's been so long because we usually only have to worry about it 1-2 times a year.
I think it would be best if my husband said something. I just don't know if he will. :(
GlitterBexie
01-07-2011, 06:35 PM
I went on a sunbed this morning not realising it had been re-tubed and was uber-hot, i have a completely burnt face and am red and shiny, but i told my bf i thought i was allergic to something cause i didnt want to admit i was stupid!
firemaiden04
01-07-2011, 07:08 PM
I confess:
I've been lying to my mother in-law for almost 9 years now.
Not really by choice....my husband's idea when we first met.
I was 17, he was 24. His mom didn't like that. So he told her my 18th birthday was July 18...
Since then, she thinks my birthday is that day.
It's actually February 21st. So she think I'm already 26, when I'll be turning 26 next month.
I hate lying about this, but it's been going on for so long now...I dunno what to do. Not only that, she's my friend on FB, and I have to hide my birthday on my profile because of it. I'm worried that people will leave my Happy Birthday comments and she'll see them on my wall.
PLUSSSS....she's coming to visit on February 20-24th. So, I can't even be happy that it will be my birthday. I will have to act like it's a normal day.
This is really driving me crazy.
I pride myself on being an honest person, and this one stupid little lie...it's been going on for wayyyy too long and am now stuck in it. :(
I wouldn't worry too much about the facebook thing...I have several friends on there who listed a false birthday date to fuck with people. They like to see who actually knows them and who is just a "facebook friend."
I don't know what I would do in this situation. I hate Joe's mother, so I couldn't really give a flying fuck what she thinks about anything we say or do.
What does your husband think about the whole thing? Does he want to tell her? Or does he want to keep it a secret still?
kitinboots
01-08-2011, 04:16 AM
I wish my Dad wouldn't come visit me so much. I love him, but juggling skiing and eating with him, then full nights at work is making me ill.
Surprise
01-08-2011, 03:32 PM
I made out with 3 different dudes in the past 24 hours. O.O
_Avery_
01-08-2011, 05:32 PM
I wouldn't worry too much about the facebook thing...I have several friends on there who listed a false birthday date to fuck with people. They like to see who actually knows them and who is just a "facebook friend."
I don't know what I would do in this situation. I hate Joe's mother, so I couldn't really give a flying fuck what she thinks about anything we say or do.
What does your husband think about the whole thing? Does he want to tell her? Or does he want to keep it a secret still?
He tells me not to worry about it since it only comes up once a year.
That when my birthday does come, to just block her from seeing my wall.
I guess it just bugs me because of the guilt. :(
Firewall
01-09-2011, 12:10 PM
I made out with my ex and have several huge, purple hickeys on my neck. He is damn fine, hehe :3
_Avery_
01-09-2011, 12:13 PM
^^This is probably really weird of me, but I like hickey's. :D
(and they're such a turn on to receive) :P
princessjas
01-09-2011, 12:50 PM
^^This is probably really weird of me, but I like hickey's. :D
(and they're such a turn on to receive) :P
Not weird at all! Where I don't really like having one when I pick up my kiddos at school, I do like being marked up a bit during sex, and yeah, I love how it feels to get a hickey. }:D
Surprise
01-09-2011, 06:27 PM
i just disabled my OKC account.
because I seem to have developed a case of sudden boyfriend syndrome. ;)
sananeko
01-09-2011, 06:42 PM
grats.
Firewall
01-09-2011, 08:58 PM
^^This is probably really weird of me, but I like hickey's. :D
(and they're such a turn on to receive) :P
Yeah I love getting em, and it's nice to mark your territory ;)
carmen_b
01-10-2011, 01:38 AM
Where did you meet them ?
}:D
I made out with 3 different dudes in the past 24 hours. O.O
carmen_b
01-10-2011, 03:35 AM
Damn today was a lonely day. -It's just odd that "dancer persona" had guys giving her $$ over the weekend but " I / non stripping persona " literally couldn't wrangle up someone to watch a movie and get snuggles from without resorting to a bar. I've got to fix this.
kitinboots
01-10-2011, 06:03 AM
This is a bit nasty of me, but I was feeling extremely lazy last night and was planning on sitting at the bar drinking not working, so I didn't bother showering before work last night...
I still made bank though ;)
Surprise
01-10-2011, 07:53 AM
Where did you meet them ?
}:D
lulz. i've been on OKC, lining up mad dates. i try to schedule lunch dates with them, so i'm not out every night. :/ you should totally try it, it's free, there's a ton of well-adjusted, sexy, single men on there, and i seriously haven't bought groceries in 2 weeks because boys have been taking me out every day. ;)
but i actually just disabled my account cause one of those makeout sessions turned into a committed relationship. funny how that happens. ;)
Glamgirl
01-10-2011, 09:48 AM
OKC worked out for me too!! I recommend it to everyone now!
tempest666
01-10-2011, 12:53 PM
I went through all his old pictures on his computer and deleted the ones of his ex and him...left the ones of the kids, of course...I know I'm still a bit obsessively jealous but I figured he doesn't need em anyways cuz he upgraded :D
carmen_b
01-10-2011, 01:29 PM
This is a bit nasty of me, but I was feeling extremely lazy last night and was planning on sitting at the bar drinking not working, so I didn't bother showering before work last night...
I still made bank though ;)
HAha. You can't beat the " here I am sitting on my ass if you want me " hustle.
tempest666
01-10-2011, 01:29 PM
I'm an insanely jealous person.... I wasn't deliberately snooping but I came across the pics and opened em up out of morbid curiosity I got sick to my stomach at the sight of him with another woman and promptly deleted them.
carmen_b
01-10-2011, 01:31 PM
I may try okc . I joined a different site recently. I had an okc one and can't remember how to login.
carmen_b
01-10-2011, 01:32 PM
Tempest ... No one wants reminders they were slummin. You did a favor. Hopefully he'll think the same!
carmen_b
01-10-2011, 01:35 PM
My friend texted to whine that her new guy just wants to bring over food and movies. I'm like " you lucky biiitttcchhhh !!! ". My muscles hurt from stripping. It sounds fantastic to me.
tempest666
01-10-2011, 01:53 PM
Soooo I'm not toooo insane? lol
Glamgirl
01-10-2011, 02:31 PM
Why are men so shit at txting!!!!
Kellydancer
01-10-2011, 02:41 PM
Soooo I'm not toooo insane? lol
Well, you are, but we all love you just the same.;D
I may try okc . I joined a different site recently. I had an okc one and can't remember how to login.
I had an OKC account and never got any responses. The free ones suck. If I strike out at the singles group I am going to pay for one, perhaps a Christian one (though I definitely don't want a religious nut job). I am actually feeling exciting about dumping this guy completely and finding a better one. Yes there are many never married childless men in their 40's.
carmen_b
01-10-2011, 07:26 PM
Kelly : As of right now, I'm openly advertising that I prefer they don't have kids and haven't gotten kicked off. Lol.
pixierocksonthepole
01-11-2011, 03:05 PM
I went through all his old pictures on his computer and deleted the ones of his ex and him...left the ones of the kids, of course...I know I'm still a bit obsessively jealous but I figured he doesn't need em anyways cuz he upgraded :D
I can only hope my obsessive psycho ex's new bitch deletes any she finds with me in them from his because I know he didn't even though I told him plenty of times to do so. lol
Kellydancer
01-11-2011, 05:26 PM
Kelly : As of right now, I'm openly advertising that I prefer they don't have kids and haven't gotten kicked off. Lol.
Maybe you'll have better luck (or guys who can read when you say no kids). If the one I want doesn't come around and I bum out on the singles group I am going to try online dating again this spring. I really hope it doesn't come to that because I HATE online dating.
livingdeadgirl
01-14-2011, 07:20 AM
i confess...if I hear the song "porn star dancing" or whatever the hell its called ONE more time I might rip my ears off.
teaze
01-14-2011, 03:14 PM
I confess that the only thing I've ever liked about Valentine's as a holiday is how extra sexy the lingerie is at lingerie shops. I always stock up on lingerie during january/february because they have the cutest lingerie out.
Kat w
01-14-2011, 07:51 PM
I feel too fat to go to my eating disorder support group.
WTF.
ghwroskmlhdrsbbjma.
GlitterBexie
01-15-2011, 08:08 PM
I confess...im getting paranoid again, and i cant make my brain stop :(
livingdeadgirl
01-16-2011, 06:17 AM
I confess I dont like it here anymore. Maybe its the cold getting to me, maybe Ive been working to much...Idk. I miss my family and friends. :(
Glamgirl
01-17-2011, 09:13 AM
Me and my bf snuggled up in bed, i knew i just had to tell him.
Me- I love you
Him- I love you too
*super happy gf snuggles up with bf even more and sleeps with huge grin on face*
Why wont this horrible negative side of me go away!!! It is like i cant allow myself to fully get happy in case it all falls apart!
PrincessN
01-17-2011, 10:27 AM
cheated on my OH with his cousin while we were at a wedding ended up doing it in his 4x4
sananeko
01-17-2011, 03:47 PM
I miss dancing.. I miss formal dancing..
spyder
01-18-2011, 11:52 AM
the youngest guy i've ever had sex with was 26--back when i was 17. I'm only attracted to older guys. I'm saving the 20 something year olds for when i'm over 40 }:D
SerenaSin
01-18-2011, 11:56 AM
-I used to have all these passions, hobbies, interests, political involvements. I don't know what happened to them. I'm worried I'm becoming "just a stripper."
-I've been dancing 2 years and I really have nothing tangible to show for it (yet?) except some pretty dresses
-I'm terrified of aging and cant accept the inevitability of my own death
SerenaSin
01-18-2011, 12:03 PM
Oh this one's weird, and maybe TMI-
-I'm really weird about putting stuff in my vagina. Like, I didnt start using tampons til I was like 18 or 19 and it was cuz i was at a friends house and there were no pads. I have this weird anxiety that if I put something up there it's gonna get stuck (one time a tamp got stuck inside me after i cut the string, i about had a panic attack), get lost and kinda float around in my body forever, rip or "break" something up there, etc. I know, it makes no goddam sense. At least a dude's penis is attached to him so he can pull it out easy. Never put a dildo up there til a couple years ago (I'm 26 this month). I hate putting my fingers all up inside myself, cuz I feel like I'm touching my guts and it just feels scary to be putting my fingers inside my body and freaks me the hell out. Imagine poking your own squishy-ass lung or pancreas or somethin like that. That's the sense of "ick" I get.
_Avery_
01-18-2011, 03:20 PM
I confess:
I really hate being pregnant. A lot of woman feel sexy pregnant, I don't.
Especially since I feel I'm at that stage where I just look fat, rather than pregnant.
I can't do shit while I'm pregnant.
I have people tell me a glass of wine is fine here and there, but I just can't do it.
Besides, what's the point in one drink?
Pregnancy isn't painful, it's just boring!!! I have sooo much longer to go. It still doesn't even feel real. :/
MistyRose
01-18-2011, 03:29 PM
I confess I'm feeling calm about his surgery tomorrow and it's scaring me. Like I'm too calm...?
carmen_b
01-18-2011, 11:06 PM
I got talking to "Mr. Low Libido Man " ( J who I dated for a few months in summer/fall) via text and I asked something like "why didn't it work out with us?".
He said : "Honestly it's that I was just not as attracted to you as I think I should have been considering your attraction to me ."
I know I SHOULDN'T , but I'm analyzing the words going " Ok .... he asked me out , but didn't find me attractive ?" .... followed by " Well .... I guess he did initially but what the hell happened". Then I feel all creepy because his phrasing makes it sound like I molested him all the time or something without him consenting.
Being sick and having too much to think has not been good.
Tasha_xoxo
01-19-2011, 12:32 AM
i confess...if I hear the song "porn star dancing" or whatever the hell its called ONE more time I might rip my ears off.
haha i love that song,,i play it all the time,,lol.
Tasha_xoxo
01-19-2011, 12:43 AM
my neighbors apartment got robbed the other night,,
she always leaves her doors unlocked,,so thats like asking to get robbed.
and i feel guilty because i thought it was funny.
:-X
Surprise
01-20-2011, 09:18 AM
i was supposed to go to work yesterday but instead i stayed over at my boyfriend's house and we had crazy sex all day long.
carmen_b
01-20-2011, 02:43 PM
^ Nice!
sananeko
01-20-2011, 03:05 PM
I'm nervous tonight.. I'm just going to a meeting with a friend.. so how come I'm so freaking nervous..
kitinboots
01-21-2011, 11:49 AM
I confess I have no idea what i'm doing with my life. I don't know whether to up and leave the best job I've ever had to go make a new start with my ex (we shouldn't really have split) or to be the biggest bitch and tell him I value my job more than him and stay.