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Luci Fer
11-26-2021, 07:54 PM
I really want to start getting massages regularly, but it can be an expensive process to hunt down a massage therapist you really vibe with. I got a massage today, and it was good, but it really didn't have any soul to it, and she skipped a couple of my favorite areas that, even for us in school, were part of every full-body massage (face and scalp - i diiiie for scalp massages).

I think I'll keep trying to find someone great, just hope it happens sooner than later!

damn, I just was thinking about it. I need someone too, I am 'enjoying' migraines for 3rd day already, thank you very much, november :( I'd kill for foot massage. Fuck, my feet are almost G spot and I 've never had any foot fetish guys! so unfair!

indiegirl
11-26-2021, 08:22 PM
LOL one guy asked why I post so much on my ad and if I have family. First of all, I can post as much as I want. I'm providing a service not an Oprah interview for you. It is 265 bucks a month for the ad. Second, I am doing 20 months of school in March for a job that doesn't pay well compared to sex work soo don't fuck with me. I won't be available as much then. I'm saving for the future.

JGB2009
11-26-2021, 10:23 PM
My cousin text me on Thursday telling me Happy Thanksgiving. I never replied back. She annoys me and she is always on FB talking about how our cousin is her favorite person. She always makes me feel not important so I figure why bother. My dads side of the family really sucks!

naomi_doll
11-26-2021, 10:41 PM
LOL one guy asked why I post so much on my ad and if I have family. First of all, I can post as much as I want. I'm providing a service not an Oprah interview for you. It is 265 bucks a month for the ad. Second, I am doing 20 months of school in March for a job that doesn't pay well compared to sex work soo don't fuck with me. I won't be available as much then. I'm saving for the future.

Why is he looking so much? Does he not have a family?

miss.a.p1600
11-27-2021, 07:06 AM
I really want to start getting massages regularly, but it can be an expensive process to hunt down a massage therapist you really vibe with. I got a massage today, and it was good, but it really didn't have any soul to it, and she skipped a couple of my favorite areas that, even for us in school, were part of every full-body massage (face and scalp - i diiiie for scalp massages).

I think I'll keep trying to find someone great, just hope it happens sooner than later!

i lucked up on a really good masseuse a few years ago.

This broad was so damn good. Her massages were damn near orgasmic.

i don’t think she was purposely trying to do happy endings …… or maybe she was lol

Either way, those were some of the best massages hands down.

Unfortunately she moved out of town. And I’ve yet to find someone as good as her.

carmen_b
11-27-2021, 09:13 AM
All the massage talk makes me realize I need to GO BACK .
I was hiding from the massage school out of embarrassment . You need to tip in cash they can't add to card and one day I randomly didn't have cash when I always do . Then I was lazy about driving back so I hid for nearly 6 weeks . Time to schedule ( and bring a 6 week later tip for that person ) !

There is this place near me too that does hot stones in EVERY treatment.
It's part of the concept / branding and OMG. :)
I went and got the maximum number allowed of gift cards yesterday for their Black Friday sale. :)
Now I'm thinking of sending J over there for more given that I'm maxed out , ha.
It's more expensive than the school obviously but a better experience ( own room, can't hear other people , amazing treatments ).

miss.a.p1600
11-27-2021, 10:17 AM
L giving me 24hours advance notice his kids are coming over..........I really just want to enjoy the weekend kid-free but at least they'll only be sleeping over then leaving and hopefully he will make their presence known in advance from now on.

miss.a.p1600
11-27-2021, 10:46 AM
I think I'm suffering from serious PMS or something.

My patience is thin and sometimes I feel like I'm going too far into a Pessimist Patty........

Note to self: Turn that frown upside down! Lol!

indiegirl
11-27-2021, 12:50 PM
Bahaha I confess I always joke pretending my customer is at the wrong door and watching through the eyehole before they enter because I'm a weirdo. But the last customer I had was black and in a security guard type of jacket. I did not joke at all because I was scared and texted him at the door LOL. It's not because of his race but I specifically attract white and asian men only. I was like "Hi are you here?" staring at him through the eyehole in the door hahaha. It's sad but most of the black men I have seen always ask if I am okay with their race in advance and when black men show up without telling me I get confused like they are lost or something. Was a super nice guy though.

miss.a.p1600
11-27-2021, 06:45 PM
Why the hell do these mfs talk so damn loud? Shit!!!!

#territoryinvaders
#crumbsnatchers
#stfu

indiegirl
11-28-2021, 01:49 AM
Merfff. I have two well known people in my extended family and it is sports related not including my cousin who married a celebrity. Right when I was checking in to my hotel he said my last name out loud and asked if I was related. LAWD. I asked which one because of their names and I'm embarrassed because I don't want anyone to know I am at this hotel for obvious reasons. This hotel staff even knows where he frequents on certain nights and my dad is about to see him in a week. Fucking fabulous *eyeroll*...I should've just lied and said no.

Luci Fer
11-28-2021, 07:45 AM
Why the hell do these mfs talk so damn loud? Shit!!!!

#territoryinvaders
#crumbsnatchers
#stfu

Girl, your patience is somewhat cosmic. I 'd buy a chainsaw by their 2nd visit, especially if your man was so nice to you about it lol Or at least a bagpipe ;D

miss.a.p1600
11-28-2021, 09:39 AM
^Girl these edibles calm my nerves quite well. Granted I do work late sometimes till 8 or 9 pm and the library was closed so…….

He was shushing them when they got too loud so that helped.

I’ll probably be forcing him to buy me some noise canceling headphones just in case lol

It’s ridiculous! Making your kids use “inside” voices is like top ten of Home Training

I know it’s the weekend but cotdamn if you want to party n turn up, take your asses to someone else house.

He had the gall to say “you’re just going to have to get used to noise” …… yeah and you can get used to being sexless and single.

Luci Fer
11-28-2021, 09:52 AM
He had the gall to say “you’re just going to have to get used to noise” …… yeah and you can get used to being sexless and single.

hahaha! yeah just imagine you say that to him in a nice, caring and peaceful tone. ;D
about kids being loud - it's probably their natural feature, I remember my mum used to shut me up 'shhh there are neighbours, and they must be sleeping already''
I hated it sooo much lol But it does trains 'inside' voice and also empathy.

Aurora_Sunset
11-28-2021, 10:09 AM
OH I'll add that at some level Bertha might be pushing this last minute nonsense . I'm not sure but it's possible. You sometimes need to force the guy to stand up to his ex and start doing things YOUR way !

I just say that from my own experience where a couple times I have gone " This is 100% not acceptable anymore " and got the change I wanted.

Ex's can mess with each other. She might not be seeing anyone for example but she knows he is . She knows he will get " less " out of life ( not able to plan weekend trips away for example ) if it's all last minute.

Bertha definitely sounds like this kind of ex, considering that I think you said the entire reason she tried to move away in the first place was because she was bent out of shape about a new woman (you) being around the kids. When my husband and bio-mom first divorced, she specifically tried to tell him during therapy that she was gonna make SURE that he had the kids every single day he was off of work so that he couldn't have a dating life post-divorce. The therapist looked right at my husband, in front of her, and said, "Do NOT agree to that in court."

This is exactly why we don't really tell her anything about our plans, even now. She's better than she used to be, but if she randomly decides to get a bug up her ass, she'll go out of her way to try to ruin our plans with kid-related "emergencies." At the end of last summer, we said we couldn't keep the kids an extra ONE time, for the first time in 4 months, after having them almost 50% of the time all summer long - we didn't even tell her the truth, that it was because we had made adult plans for the first time in those 4 months because we were seriously lacking time as a couple; we told her my husband had to work - and she still literally spent DAYS harassing my husband about it and having the kids call him up, crying and guilt-tripping him over not being able to keep them on a day that was never his planned day to begin with. It was absolutely ridiculous. But when it comes to her scheduled kid-time? She won't ever keep them a single hour later than she's "supposed" to, unless it's because she wants them around for her own plans.

Anyway, my rant aside, L needs to start being firm with Bertha and the kids over the scheduling. It's nice to schedule extra time during school breaks and stuff, but it should be planned in advance. Everyone needs to be on the same page regarding the schedule if it's not some sort of emergency. It's more stability for the kids, respectful to you, and honestly, easier on L and Bertha. Who wouldn't want to have a firm idea of their own damn childcare schedule?

miss.a.p1600
11-28-2021, 10:34 AM
^^^^LOL! Thankfully he gave me 24hr notice this time.

L did say he thought his ex wife was a narcissist so that could explain her lack of caring about anyone else but herself.

I’m convinced…..

There is a “Bertha Broad Handbook - How To Be Hell In A Handbasket So Your Ex Husband Will Be Single N Sexless…….Permanently”

Rule Number One - As soon as he clocks out of work, force him to pick up kids immediately with no advance notice to partners

Rule Number Two - If he pushes back, have the kids call him crying. Guilt trips from kids always work

Rule Number Three - Evesdrop on kids conversations, gather intel, make sure he has no leisure on his off days, and plot to ruin plans he has made with other women.

Rule Number Four - Play crazy, pretend to be broke, and raise hell when first three rules don’t work or whenever you’re bored

carmen_b
11-28-2021, 11:00 AM
^ That's why he has to push back and tell her it's 3-4 days notice always and NO exceptions.
I think we might be onto something here . I just couldn't think of WHY else.
Maybe you'll make some progress. He should be doing more than just 24 hours notice. It should be 3-4 days smoothly always. Then more like 7 days very soon.

Literally all he has to do is tell her " I'll take them XYZ days and I'm out of town the other days ". Or just any variation.

My partner prioritizes his romantic life and everything runs pretty smooth schedule wise.

If L doesn't make things easier for you ..... well ..... he can enjoy the results of that.
You don't have to tolerate a shit show in your own home. I'm not even 100% she is a factor but I was starting to wonder.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-28-2021, 02:31 PM
I confess to wallowing in Beautiful Sadness today.

Aurora_Sunset
11-28-2021, 02:56 PM
I'm really bummed that I didn't participate in National Novel Writing Month this year. I completed my first one 2 years ago, and tried last year. I didn't finish because of all the crap we went through in the end of November, but I still made an effort and got over 30,000 words in (the goal for the month is 50K). This year, I swear I spent all of September and half of October planning the CRAP out of a story that I was really excited to write. I have never outlined so diligently and thoroughly. But by the second half of October, I just suddenly stopped caring. November came, and I didn't want to. I sat down on November 2nd and forced myself to crank out about 5,000 words, thinking I'd force myself to get into it and get back on track. But then I stopped and never came back to it. Even now, I just don't feel like writing anything anymore.

I was so excited for it, I'm bummed out that I lost the motivation.

Aurora_Sunset
11-28-2021, 03:02 PM
I can't wait for the holidays to be over. I'm dreading the Peak season at work that officially starts tomorrow. I'm dreading Christmas. I'm really upset and down on myself that my plan to save money for Christmas presents didn't pan out. And I'm pissed at my husband's job, because it looks like they're gonna make him work New Year's Eve. That's my favorite holiday, and now I'll be spending it alone, because the couple friends I have left around here never do anything for it. This entire year just feels like a big, fat L on my calendar of life. Not like January is gonna be any different lol But I just want 2021 to go away.

LoveyD
11-28-2021, 04:25 PM
There's this manager named Holden at a Target I frequently do my Shipt orders at and I keep wanting to call him "Hoe-den" lmao!!!

indiegirl
11-29-2021, 09:36 AM
LMAO I was trying to find a new escort vlogger and came across this gem of a guy hahahaha. He's so beyond inaccurate. Talking about sex workers being hypersexual. I could go a month or two without sex. He must've been dating someone ratchet. This is so why I never tell anyone about my job. He'd be very disappointed with me. HAHAHA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cLIdenL4fEk

charlie61
11-29-2021, 12:19 PM
LMAO I was trying to find a new escort vlogger and came across this gem of a guy hahahaha. He's so beyond inaccurate. Talking about sex workers being hypersexual. I could go a month or two without sex. He must've been dating someone ratchet. This is so why I never tell anyone about my job. He'd be very disappointed with me. HAHAHA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cLIdenL4fEk

I didn't know that escort vlogging was a thing! Let us know if you have any recommendations!

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-29-2021, 12:24 PM
I didn't know that escort vlogging was a thing! Let us know if you have any recommendations!


Oh it's a thing. I think the Internet infamous "Demanda" does V Logs on the regular, I don't have a link though.

Luci Fer
11-29-2021, 07:06 PM
I'm really bummed that I didn't participate in National Novel Writing Month this year. I completed my first one 2 years ago, and tried last year. I didn't finish because of all the crap we went through in the end of November, but I still made an effort and got over 30,000 words in (the goal for the month is 50K). This year, I swear I spent all of September and half of October planning the CRAP out of a story that I was really excited to write. I have never outlined so diligently and thoroughly. But by the second half of October, I just suddenly stopped caring. November came, and I didn't want to. I sat down on November 2nd and forced myself to crank out about 5,000 words, thinking I'd force myself to get into it and get back on track. But then I stopped and never came back to it. Even now, I just don't feel like writing anything anymore.

I was so excited for it, I'm bummed out that I lost the motivation.

This thing is sooo difficult!
I have a million small pieces of stories, but I can never complete them, it just sucks. Stephen King said it was like a training, you gotta sit and do it every single day. A couple of years ago I started really nice story, and wrote it by hand, in my paper notebook. Together (me and the notebook) got under a heavy tropical rain once and I was left with a small piece of the story. Was so lame! I re-wrote it better though. But I can never be stable with it:(
My confession: I wanna have an afro hair. I just adore these manes of curles so much!

indiegirl
11-29-2021, 08:22 PM
I didn't know that escort vlogging was a thing! Let us know if you have any recommendations!

There isn't many who consistently post like youtube dancers. It's like documenting a crime plus the stigma behind the job. The last one I watched only has a few videos but from what it seems she retired. She was really entertaining.

Confession: I am in the middle of WW3 with my dogs right now. Everyone wants the pink dog toy and they're going wild LOLLLL. Loving this :P!

carmen_b
11-30-2021, 05:18 PM
I feel like I need a demonic cleanse with a Shaman releasing this anger towards day job customers.

I need to end these bad vibes and move forward .....

I’m doing some self care today and trying to be conscious of letting go of this negative energy.

What if they can sense it via phone ?

indiegirl
11-30-2021, 11:28 PM
Bahaha woopsie daisy. I watch this hard-working youtuber (very small channel) daily and I'm his first to super chat live pay him 5 bucks or any money whatsoever....and it was the first time I ever paid a youtuber. So we both had our firsts. 5 people ended up paying him money after. I was so embarrassed because he announced my name live to his audience but hey he got his coin LOL!!! He's so entertaining!

Edit: Bahaha still watching him live and the super chat prices are growing with other people. Welp woops! LOL. He talked about how much love he's never received. Haha I hope this helped somehow with his channel to grow because I love listening to him daily! Such a positive guy.

JGB2009
12-01-2021, 11:39 AM
When I cam the dummies always like to ask my relationship status and when was the last time I had sex. I always tell them I am single and I have not had sex in yearssssss. As long as I continue to cam that will be my responses. My personal life is none of their business.

Aurora_Sunset
12-01-2021, 05:56 PM
There isn't many who consistently post like youtube dancers. It's like documenting a crime plus the stigma behind the job. The last one I watched only has a few videos but from what it seems she retired. She was really entertaining.

Confession: I am in the middle of WW3 with my dogs right now. Everyone wants the pink dog toy and they're going wild LOLLLL. Loving this :P!

I've seriously been thinking lately how I'd like to do this. Since I'm retired, I wouldn't have to worry about the legality thing and getting busted. But I would worry about family/bio-mom finding out. I've thought about potentially trying to dress up in a "faux-queen drag" persona so I'm unrecognizable... Would be a lot of work. But I've been kicking around the idea because it feels like the only thing I could create posts and videos about consistently, and I would really enjoy talking about it.

kimbe
12-02-2021, 01:35 AM
I ran into a former date at Starbucks today..

We ended up sitting down and had a chat. Even though I was the one dumping him that time, he was really polite and said, among other things, that I was looking better than ever.. :):). I'm easily flattered ;D

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-02-2021, 11:29 AM
I've seriously been thinking lately how I'd like to do this. Since I'm retired, I wouldn't have to worry about the legality thing and getting busted. But I would worry about family/bio-mom finding out. I've thought about potentially trying to dress up in a "faux-queen drag" persona so I'm unrecognizable... Would be a lot of work. But I've been kicking around the idea because it feels like the only thing I could create posts and videos about consistently, and I would really enjoy talking about it.

You can do podcasts.


My confession- I have a little crush on a co-worker. Fuck he is so hot.

moneybags
12-02-2021, 06:17 PM
I’m trying really hard to set boundaries with my crush while working with him. I don’t want side chick karma. No judgement, but it typically doesn’t end well. I think we both are adults that understand sexual chemistry isn’t a reason to behave inappropriately or cheat on an SO.

indiegirl
12-02-2021, 09:26 PM
I don't know a harder worker than the ice cream truck that comes in my neighborhood. It's December and he did double laps around my neighborhood in the winter weather peddling his ice cream LOLLL. He totally should switch to hot chocolate, smore's and cookies to make it sustainable for the winter season. It was pitch dark out due to the time change and he was having his ice cream music going still. Love that work ethic. :)!

miss.a.p1600
12-02-2021, 09:55 PM
I wish I could find a man who would pay for my Brazilian bikini wax then the next day he could admire the beauty below and eat this pussy like he was in a pussy eating contest trying to win first place.

miss.a.p1600
12-02-2021, 09:58 PM
I don't know a harder worker than the ice cream truck that comes in my neighborhood. It's December and he did double laps around my neighborhood in the winter weather peddling his ice cream LOLLL. He totally should switch to hot chocolate, smore's and cookies to make it sustainable for the winter season. It was pitch dark out due to the time change and he was having his ice cream music going still. Love that work ethic. :)!

One time my little cousins heard the ice cream truck, chased it down because they were so excited about it, then when the driver opened the window they got freaked out cause she had bullet wounds in her arm and looked a bit …. rough around the edges so to speak. Lol. They haven’t asked for ice cream from the ice cream truck since then.

indiegirl
12-03-2021, 07:20 AM
I literally thought I was having kidney failure two days ago as well as a heart attack a week before. My scoliosis screws my organs up with the placement I sleep. Well that's what I thought was going on hahaha and I thought I would die in my room with my dogs in here. Then I went to webmd and they said the throbbing pain of the LLQ was due to multiple things, panicked and started stretching thinking it was from being immobile or sitting too long (I can handle that diagnosis so I settled for that)...Super fun panicking all the time on google and webmd because god knows the only time you will find me at the doctors is when I'm on a stretcher LOL. I call it a thrill-seeking hobby of mine now LOLLLLL. Oh and I also thought I had throat cancer again (this time it was "for real" unlike all the other times lol) it was from a blow job from someone who had a big dick. bahaha.

Webmd should've banned me from their site when I was a teen lol.

whirlerz
12-03-2021, 08:34 AM
Indie I prefer Mayo Clinic site to Web MD.
Much more informative, imo.

miss.a.p1600
12-03-2021, 12:55 PM
L showing me pics of his kids when they were younger, looked healthier n better than they do now.

I have to admit I felt zero emotions. And had to give a fake "aw how precious". I feel bad cause his kids aren't *that* bad.

But I have continue to struggle with coming to terms with accepting my partner's "baggage" (aka needy dependent kids and disgruntled ex wife) and don't know if I ever will since I have thoughts like "I'd probably move forward with him faster if he didn't have all these obligations" "we could probably achieve xyz goals faster without Bertha and her obligations"

carmen_b
12-03-2021, 12:58 PM
^ He makes it HARD on you . I think he should do a perfect schedule 7 days out or GTFO.

carmen_b
12-03-2021, 02:11 PM
^ It’s really up to him to make it easier. He can schedule better , have them be more quiet in the house , and get OUT with them for an evening giving you some space.
My city has $5 movies for example on Tues.!
$15 and boom you’d have two - 2.5 hours of quiet. He just needs to do it.

whirlerz
12-03-2021, 02:16 PM
That's a great idea! ^

WendiStarr
12-03-2021, 07:30 PM
I'm getting so tempted to go back to doing fbsm but only a few appointments a week because I'm getting too far along to be on my feet for long. This vanilla gig shit is so low paying.

kimbe
12-04-2021, 01:55 AM
I'm getting so tempted to go back to doing fbsm but only a few appointments a week because I'm getting too far along to be on my feet for long. This vanilla gig shit is so low paying.

I fully understand your feeling! Even though I deep down knew it, it just felt useless money wise compared dancing.. Vanilla life has some other advantages though.. :)

indiegirl
12-04-2021, 11:12 PM
Me giving a reference request after being stranded at a Dennys (posted about this) and the guy only has one okay and she is skeptical of him. The balls to LEAVE ME.

I wanted to say my feelings so bad but didn't out of retaliation from him. It's a feeling I don't know how to feel. I feel so guilty saying he was safe. Him: " I want lingerie this time, let's get food, why the hat on again I told you no?" I wear my fucking hat because it is okay with me. I don't question why your dick is small?

I feel like I completely let a female down. I just want to move forward in my life and not get a bad review plus save money. This is gonna weigh on me because ladies need to stick together but this felt like a situation over time where I would be impacted and I handled it poorly instead of telling her to cancel and say to pretend you were booked.

He also was drunk behind the wheel.

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 08:57 AM
He sounds really annoying .
I assume this stupid Denny’s meet and greet wasn’t paid too ?
Then he didn’t actually DO the appt .? Or he did ?

I’d feel guilt if I had bad vibes like that. Some customers are not safe .

You could always check back in with her ....

indiegirl
12-05-2021, 11:00 AM
He sounds really annoying .
I assume this stupid Denny’s meet and greet wasn’t paid too ?
Then he didn’t actually DO the appt .? Or he did ?

I’d feel guilt if I had bad vibes like that. Some customers are not safe .

You could always check back in with her ....

I picked up the food while he bounced and thank god I'm not an idiot and brought my keys, hotel room key, wallet, and phone because I don't trust men or else it would've been worse. Like who drives with someone and abandons them when they're inside trying to pay for their food they insisted on having?! I made sure he paid in advance for the date because he shorted me last time and is such a douchebag. The second time I saw him "OH! This is all I have on me to pay you!"

Some of these men don't deserve to be treated nicely. He's already blocked on my end and using me as a reference, wtf?! LOL.

I hope the OP is okay. I'm not making this mistake again and for the safety of other ladies. Also, I deleted her number so I can't really check back :(.

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 12:40 PM
^ Well at least he paid for the date ahead but omg ....stretching your time by being annoying ...... barf.

I had a "time stretcher " at the club recently and I hate him lol.
He wanted to sit a bit before dances ( fine I literally had no other options it was that slow night ).
He buys one , then wants to sit a song , buys one, then I sort of kick him out of the dance area because I just can't keep the $10 a song trend even if I’m just sitting for half hahaha.

A friendly reminder to dudes :
You pay for the time. ALL the time. Thank you and have a good day. :)

indiegirl
12-05-2021, 05:43 PM
^ Well at least he paid for the date ahead but omg ....stretching your time by being high annoying ...... barf.

I had a "time stretcher " at the club recently and I hate him lol.
He wanted to sit a bit before dances ( fine I literally had no other options it was that slow night ).
He buys one , then wants to sit a song , buys one, then I sort of kick him out of the dance area because I just can't hahaha.

A friendly reminder to dudes :
You pay for the time. ALL the time. Thank you and have a good day. :)

Hahaha anytime a customer in the club would say "Let's just talk for a bit first" .....that was my cue to leave. They never want a dance or rarely will get just one basic dance after sitting for so long with them. Or the line of "You're a beautiful girl, I'm sure you make a ton here but I'm okay for tonight." Huh!? I was making the least and you weren't paying me hence escorting LOLLLL.

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 05:47 PM
^ I had a vibe he’d keep his word and buy after a quick song or two and he did.
I was ok pausing a song even in back before dance number two. Just not two pauses I guess. I ran away in favor of hiding for 15 minutes then peeking around later to see if any new people came in ha.

I mean of course I offered CR too. :)
Ya get what you pay for.

I have a system where I try to offer 5-6 min of convo if it’s a little slow or just a few it’s its busy. Dances must be bought or “ sit and chat “ can also be bought after that. I don’t sit and wait and it’s usually a good system to keep the night moving. I can’t stand risking 20 minutes ha. I’d rather just hide. Eventually someone else will walk in.