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miss.a.p1600
12-17-2021, 08:35 AM
I used to feel a slight twinge of guilt that I’m not the step-mothering type and I don’t offer to watch L’s kids when he’s at work.

Then I realized that Bertha bitch’s main goal was to keep her kids from “being around another woman”

I also realized that Bertha will run you into the ground whilst at the same time showing no gratitude.

Fuck her…..and her childcare struggles.

carmen_b
12-17-2021, 10:21 AM
^ They need specific DAYS set aside where each is 100% responsible.
No "rides" or errands on the days that are not his.

If the kid needs rides Bertha can walk up and the down the block and meet neighboors and set up a car pool.
She can pay the neighbor a bit to get the kid back home on her days or do an exchange of some sort .
Bertha could probably knock on 2-3 doors of people who live right by her and set up a plan for rides ...... but of course it's not just handled smoothly right ? People who live by her would have the same school . It's not that complicated.

miss.a.p1600
12-17-2021, 10:26 AM
^girl thank you!!!!

Carpool is a really good idea. She chose that neighborhood knowing good n well there was no bus so she should provide the solution.

This is one reason why I’ll never date men with dependent kids again.

carmen_b
12-17-2021, 10:28 AM
^ She is clearly getting a thrill about running L's life.
Tell him to grow some balls and create a schedule or get himself packed and out.
He seems to not think you are serious when you talk to him about these things.

I think you get nervous to ask for things at some level BUT you are not asking for too much with this !
A 50/50 split should result in 50% KID FREE days ( the whole day ..... 24 hours ). The parents should know the days ahead. This is normal !

What are you guys doing to get out of the house together and enjoy life ? Do you have a date night every week or does EVERY day just revolve around sitting and waiting for this disorganized mess of an ex to call ? It's a low quality of life and he should have fixed it already.

indiegirl
12-17-2021, 06:26 PM
I confess LOL......I had sex with a short and very large man yesterday who I thought I could balance my body in plank form on his stomach like those exercise balls hahahahahahaha. OH man I couldn't stop picturing myself trying to balance my body on his stomach! It's hard to find access to the dick and sit correctly when the stomach is big enough. I'm not trying to be rude at all to him but I had to let this out somewhere! hahaha

Nice guy though.

moneybags
12-17-2021, 08:15 PM
I’m gonna move on from my crush. Why do I always get crushes on guys who are already taken. I don’t really know him. He could cheat on his girlfriend and be a bad boyfriend. I’m probably dodging a bullet. It’s gonna be hard to see him on a regular basis, but I’ll just detach with love. Maybe one day he’ll be single and we can date, but until then I’m done fantasizing about what kind of kids we would have…just kidding…that’s so cringe I would never!!! But seriously proverbs 4:23 is the best advice a girl could take when it comes to love. It always hard because I hardly connect with people and when i do it’s really hard for me to let go of those connections. There’s 8 million people in the world surely one has to be Mr. Right. It’s just hard some days doing everything all by myself. Would be nice to have someone to lighten the load. It’s half dozen of the other. I see what you partnered women have to deal with and that’s not easy either. We get to choose our hard. I choose to be an independent women that won’t settle for anything less than a divine mate. I choose to live life on my terms-even those it hard and I have haters. I rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not. Still not telling people my business, but there’s no shame in who I am. I’m imperfectly perfect just like all of you.

LoveyD
12-17-2021, 08:17 PM
Lol! ^^ Too funny!

I confess that these edibles are kicking my ass! I tried a different brand and wow these are good. Oh my.

WendiStarr
12-18-2021, 01:41 PM
Kroger sells cookie dough that is safe to eat raw and once I seen that, I ate a huge ass chunk of it.

charlie61
12-18-2021, 02:31 PM
I feel like i should masturbate more often because it seems to be good for my skin. I keep forgetting that. I get lazy and don't really have a routine, but i should make more of an effort.

miss.a.p1600
12-19-2021, 11:53 AM
L’s ex wife decides to get her kids earlier than usual.

Thank goodness. His daughter is needy (I think she has ADHD or something) and his son is still failing and needs extra attention in school.

He should have never agreed to have them over this late in the day (really at all this weekend) so he could rest after work and then study all day for his test.

Men are so dumb. When you tell them something is not a good idea, their dumb asses try to do it their way, only to figure out it doesn’t work.

Well no shit!

He wasted a good 3+ hours worth of study time today because he was to scared to tell her NO!

Aurora_Sunset
12-19-2021, 05:56 PM
Kroger sells cookie dough that is safe to eat raw and once I seen that, I ate a huge ass chunk of it.

Passed a store in the mall today that specialized in edible cookie dough. I would've stopped, but the line was super long. Definitely gonna go back to check it out though!

LoveyD
12-19-2021, 10:07 PM
Everyone around here is buying Covid test kits. They're out of stock everywhere. I was going to get some for kiddo and me so we can test ourselves before Christmas.

indiegirl
12-20-2021, 08:01 AM
I'm comfy in bed curled up in a blanket watching The Giver. Ahhh yesssssss.

Genoveve
12-20-2021, 01:09 PM
Passed a store in the mall today that specialized in edible cookie dough. I would've stopped, but the line was super long. Definitely gonna go back to check it out though!

My confession is that I eat unsafe raw cookie dough all the time; raw Tollhouse chocolate lovers one is one of my regular go-to snacks. I've never had an issue, I've even made cookie dough from scratch at home just to eat it all raw and not bake any cookies. I make all kinds of pastry batters from scratch at home and I always lick the bowls/spoons/mixers... (Granted, I wouldn't recommend this for pregnant women just in case)

whirlerz
12-20-2021, 02:59 PM
Everyone around here is buying Covid test kits. They're out of stock everywhere. I was going to get some for kiddo and me so we can test ourselves before Christmas.

I see many testing sites around here, some drive up
Got J&J booster today, so far no side effects.

I decided to get my upstairs crush a pr of slides, I already got him a small cologne sample.

whirlerz
12-20-2021, 04:06 PM
So, I just ordered a pair of slides for my crush, (already got him a cologne sample)
I just need to pick up, get him a card, & wrap everything..
I'm so glad I got the sides, saw him standing outside in socks so he probably doesn't have any. +, now it looks better than just the tiny cologne sample.

carmen_b
12-20-2021, 04:11 PM
Finally into the lazy energy of this holiday.
Wrapped something big up work wise ( my day job team has a job Jan. 1 ) !
Now I can relax a bit knowing full well I don't expect anyone to make a purchasing decision until " after Christmas " .
:)

I'll be back and ready to roll on Dec. 26 sharp attempting to close more sales !! :)

The next 4 days I expect to only have my phone on three hours max during the day and just do R and R activities during ALL the other hours.
Ah......

I guess I should get the adults in my family some gifts.
I already let the kids open the stuff I got over the weekend. :)

miss.a.p1600
12-20-2021, 04:27 PM
Everyone around here is buying Covid test kits. They're out of stock everywhere. I was going to get some for kiddo and me so we can test ourselves before Christmas.

Hoarders taking all the covid tests; and the people who are working for the man who wanted to 'slow down the testing'

It's ridiculous

charlie61
12-20-2021, 06:10 PM
I confess that I partly regret telling my partner about my orientation, and i think i might not tell any future partners about it. While that might sound crazy, it's more of a practical thought than anything else. I function as a sexual partner in relationships, and when people know I'm asexual, i think it's really intimidating and discouraging. It's not an option to please me sexually, so they stop trying over time, and i don't think that's much fun for sexual partners. I can only give - i can't receive - and i think it's a self-esteem hit for even the most confident people. I almost wish i were treated like a heterosexual... it could be healthier for both of us and easier in an LTR.

carmen_b
12-20-2021, 06:13 PM
^ Would it make a lover uncomfy though given that you wouldn't " receive " comfortably ? It seems like maybe transparency is best ? I'm not sure though !! Is there anything you want more of from current partner ?

LoveyD
12-20-2021, 08:29 PM
Walgreens got covid tests so I grabbed a box.

miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 06:38 AM
I know the feeling Charlie

For me,
My past sexual experiences were only good when I was with guys who were bonafide freaks. They bring their A game regardless of what preferences or reservations I have.

Sadly they’re very promiscuous and not the marrying type (unless you want to marry Community Dick)

I’d say most men (in my experience) are not good lovers. They don’t listen well, they don’t take directions, and they stay trying to please you in ways that worked for their last 3 exes or how they “think” women want to be pleased.

If you have any reservations or like sex in a different way then most women, it’s like their brain short circuits n they turn clueless n timid.

People claim they want the truth but rarely can they handle the truth n sometimes the truth is more headache than it’s worth.

I consider myself possibly asexual. Idk. I like sex but with men who know how to adjust to my sexual preferences. It’s very rare when I encounter these men cause usually they’re married and/or cheaters and/or ONS only.

I thought about telling L but I’d rather let him get mad at me for whatever reason at least once a week so he can eliminate himself as often as possible from sexual activities that I don’t feel like doing anyways.

whirlerz
12-21-2021, 07:12 AM
I know the feeling Charlie

For me,
My past sexual experiences were only good when I was with guys who were bonafide freaks. They bring their A game regardless of what preferences or reservations I have.

Sadly they’re very promiscuous and not the marrying type (unless you want to marry Community Dick)

I’d say most men (in my experience) are not good lovers. They don’t listen well, they don’t take directions, and they stay trying to please you in ways that worked for their last 3 exes or how they “think” women want to be pleased.

If you have any reservations or like sex in a different way then most women, it’s like their brain short circuits n they turn clueless n timid.

People claim they want the truth but rarely can they handle the truth n sometimes the truth is more headache than it’s worth.

I consider myself possibly asexual. Idk. I like sex but with men who know how to adjust to my sexual preferences. It’s very rare when I encounter these men cause usually they’re married and/or cheaters and/or ONS only.

I thought about telling L but I’d rather let him get mad at me for whatever reason at least once a week so he can eliminate himself as often as possible from sexual activities that I don’t feel like doing anyways.

Lol, especially the last paragraph!

miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 07:15 AM
^lol! Men can’t handle the truth. Their egos can handle white lies, lies by omission, etc. but unfortunately fragile male ego cannot handle the truth 9 times out of 10 when it comes to them being the sex gods they seem to think they are.

charlie61
12-21-2021, 09:35 AM
I know the feeling Charlie

For me,
My past sexual experiences were only good when I was with guys who were bonafide freaks. They bring their A game regardless of what preferences or reservations I have.

Sadly they’re very promiscuous and not the marrying type (unless you want to marry Community Dick)

I’d say most men (in my experience) are not good lovers. They don’t listen well, they don’t take directions, and they stay trying to please you in ways that worked for their last 3 exes or how they “think” women want to be pleased.

If you have any reservations or like sex in a different way then most women, it’s like their brain short circuits n they turn clueless n timid.

People claim they want the truth but rarely can they handle the truth n sometimes the truth is more headache than it’s worth.

I consider myself possibly asexual. Idk. I like sex but with men who know how to adjust to my sexual preferences. It’s very rare when I encounter these men cause usually they’re married and/or cheaters and/or ONS only.

I thought about telling L but I’d rather let him get mad at me for whatever reason at least once a week so he can eliminate himself as often as possible from sexual activities that I don’t feel like doing anyways.

Yes, this post really nailed it. I can enjoy the experience of sex, too (like, i can get really into it especially when my partner is really into it), and i also agree that i think a sex freak (lol) type would be best to help me overcome my reservations and get out of my head. But exactly as you said, these guys are almost never partner material, and i have no reason to seek a purely sexual experience.

Yes, once partners learn that I'm different, they get timid, try to rely on old moves that probably worked for someone once, and things just get weird. Even very confident lovers are reduced to nothing once they understand my orientation. It's not a source of discomfort in our relationship, but i think things would be better if he didn't know.

Like, imagine trying to make love to someone when you know they aren't truly into it / aren't feeling what you're feeling. It takes all of the fun out of trying to please your lover.

Carmen, thanks for your thoughts, too! It's just complicated.

charlie61
12-21-2021, 11:01 AM
miss.a.p1600, i literally took a screenshot of your comment to read again and again, because it's just so nice to feel understood. You really articulated some stuff that I tend to feel very alone with, like how sexual experiences always go better with people i care about less (because they're just doing their thing, and they aren't timidly approaching the experience due to hangups about my orientation). Intimate, partnered, loving sex is the hardest type for me, because I'm 100% in my head.

I could go on. But anyway, thank you.

carmen_b
12-21-2021, 11:07 AM
^ Maybe you could say something like " I tend to like to please more " or " I'm the pleasing type " without necessarily pointing out the Ace orientation ? Like .... they could settle in with just *that* info to start.

charlie61
12-21-2021, 11:19 AM
^ Maybe you could say something like " I tend to like to please more " or " I'm the pleasing type " without necessarily pointing out the Ace orientation ? Like .... they could settle in with just *that* info to start.

Right. Exactly what i was thinking for future relationships, if future relationships happen! Currently rocking my LTR, of course, so there's no way to remove that info from his head. I do currently just focus on him sexually, and it works well.

ravenskyy
12-21-2021, 01:02 PM
I think I'm going to stop offering humiliation shows. I don't enjoy them. I'm not a mean person. It takes a lot of work for me to come up with mean things to say and I can literally feel the emotional drain on my mind and soul after the show ends. It makes me feel like a shitty person and I know that I'm not.

miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 01:05 PM
I started my period today.

I was worried the morning after pill wouldn't work even though I took it within the timeframe (around the 48hr mark).

I am glad because I don't want to have sex or do anything sexual today.

I don't want L thinking he failed the test and now he gets rewarded.

If I had it my way......there would be no sex until he passed that damn test ...... since he failed it he can't take it again till March

miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 01:14 PM
I confess that I wish I could literally up n leave 95% of my friends n family and start a new identity.

If they say you're the total of the 5 people you spend most time with.......I need a more improved group of friends.

If I'm honest L failing his test, his son failing school, his ex-wife being her 'crab in a barrel' self, makes me want to ditch him, his ex wife, and his kids because I don't want to spend too much time with people who aren't finding what they're good at n excelling in those areas.

Not to mention my mom blows money like water and she is broke, my sibling has no obligations but somehow is always broke, my dad is pension check to pension check with no assets. WTF?!?!?

Thats okay though they can continue to do what they do......Mark my words.....2022 is a new year and I leave behind ANYONE n anything that is not in alignment with my goals

I am having new experiences n upgrading my life how I envision.

charlie61
12-21-2021, 02:15 PM
Giiiiirl you said you were gonna leave him if he failed that test! It sounds like love is the only thing this guy has to offer. : /

miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 04:25 PM
Maybe I should just come to terms with the fact my dude is not and probably never will be as ambitious as I am. The more I push him to accomplish certain goals, lead by example, but yet see him doing the opposite - the more anxiety it causes me. I don't want to tread into 'mommy' role cause I'm the mom that will send the rebellious/underperforming kids off to boot camp n military schools.

If I want to get ahead, it will come from my own efforts. (and if I want to be more feminine, more attractive, and get what I want then I have to figure a way to earn more while working less but also traveling solo in 2022). I just have to focus on leveling myself up at this point.

Unless things turn around n quickly, then I suppose 'love' is the only thing he brings to the team right now .......

My vagina is disappointed but I know 2022 will attract me to the right people and I will be guided to the right places at the right time so that my team can be structured properly

LoveyD
12-21-2021, 05:11 PM
^^See, that's what sucks about the guy I was seeing for a while. He WAS good in bed and is talented. Plus he's younger and he's hot. Sucks because I enjoyed spending time with him. But we're both dealing with overwhelming stuff and we're probably both too scared to get into a commitment. I'm just happy focusing on my and getting my life together for my kid and me. Guys can wait. I like him, but I just need to focus on rebuilding me rn.

chanzep
12-21-2021, 06:41 PM
Miss P you should feel no way about leaving people behind. Life is too short honestly. Don't waste it on people. This year I have known a few not old people to die and it's freaking me out. I'm not putting off anything I need to do. Im annoyed at all the time I have wasted in the past.

LoveyD
12-21-2021, 06:49 PM
Life's too short.^^

charlie61
12-21-2021, 07:36 PM
For real, just have a look back at the last 8-12 months of unhappy posts - that's your future, ugh! :(

It took Genoveve giving me some tough love to get me out of my last relationship. She was basically like, bish, you've been talking about how unhappy you are in this situation for a year at this point. Do you want more of the same in your future? I am SO HAPPY i left. We loved each other, but love is not enough.

Women have gut instincts for a reason.

moneybags
12-22-2021, 03:50 AM
I confess that I wish I could literally up n leave 95% of my friends n family and start a new identity.

If they say you're the total of the 5 people you spend most time with.......I need a more improved group of friends.

If I'm honest L failing his test, his son failing school, his ex-wife being her 'crab in a barrel' self, makes me want to ditch him, his ex wife, and his kids because I don't want to spend too much time with people who aren't finding what they're good at n excelling in those areas.

Not to mention my mom blows money like water and she is broke, my sibling has no obligations but somehow is always broke, my dad is pension check to pension check with no assets. WTF?!?!?

Thats okay though they can continue to do what they do......Mark my words.....2022 is a new year and I leave behind ANYONE n anything that is not in alignment with my goals

I am having new experiences n upgrading my life how I envision.

I did!Went no contact with anyone negative. Picked up my shit and moved to a new state. I was tired of being scapegoated by my family. Now I just do me. Is it easy? No! Worth it. Yes! I too think this is becoming a pattern of his. You either have to accept him as be his now or move on. You’re only going to get more of the same. I’m better off without friends and just focusing on my own life. But it does get lonely doing it all on my own. I wouldn’t suggest it for most people.

Im going to be a good girl today. Not easy, but I don’t want any bad karma from flirting with someone else’s man. I’m going to keep it 100% professional. I’m going to have to have hella discipline. I just need to remember nothing good comes from flirting with a taken man. I don’t need the drama or the heartbreak.

LoveyD
12-22-2021, 07:21 AM
Money I can relate! ^^

I went no contact on my abusive family. I'm a loner, too.
But I'd rather have my peace than assholes and drama in my life.

Miss ap I hope 2022 is a good year for upleveling. If the people around you don't resonate, it may be time to revaluate.

moneybags
12-22-2021, 01:19 PM
Yay! Talking to my crush without being too flirty. Proud of myself because as a stripper it’s almost unconscious for mr to flirt. Proud of myself for putting myself first instead of abandoning myself for a guy just cause I caught some feelings. Fuck that shit!

Also, it’s weird he’s asking me questions, but not disclosing any information about himself. He’s not asking anything too personal, but I feel like he’s getting information but not disclosing. Not a big deal as I’m a private person and don’t tell people my business.

Oh well. Glad I don’t get too personal with him and set some strong boundaries. Yay me!

charlie61
12-22-2021, 06:54 PM
Mini rant... it seems like most people have no curiosity about others, and it's so depressing / draining. They're happy to talk endlessly about themselves with zero awareness that they know nothing about you. And if you share something about yourself to try to open up, they switch conversation back to themselves instead of expressing curiosity about you.

I really try to avoid making such broad, negative generalizations. But it's so rare to find balanced, intellectual conversation these days. When i do find those conversations with people, I'm like... instantly smitten.

indiegirl
12-22-2021, 06:54 PM
Bahaha I haven't driven my car in 9-10 months (too many bad memories with police pulling me over because the world is a race track lol).. and I was so pumped to get back out there on the road. Right when I pull out of my neighborhood onto the road I was like "huh? The SUV has double lights. Wouldn't that be funny if that was a police car?" And sure enough as it got closer, it was. My face turned hot, I drove half the speed limit, and had the facial expression like I was concentrating on pooping looking straight in front of me. Hahahaha LMAO.

He followed me for a while and even when I switched two lanes. I considered just pulling into a random street paranoid hahaha.

I'm ridiculous.

indiegirl
12-22-2021, 06:56 PM
Mini rant... it seems like most people have no curiosity about others, and it's so depressing / draining. They're happy to talk endlessly about themselves with zero awareness that they know nothing about you. And if you share something about yourself to try to open up, they switch conversation back to themselves instead of expressing curiosity about you.

I really try to avoid making such broad, negative generalizations. But it's so rare to find balanced, intellectual conversation these days. When i do find those conversations with people, I'm like... instantly smitten.

What I hate are the people that don't share anything about themselves. One guy asked me "Is this an interview? Why are you asking me so many questions?" Like geeez.

indiegirl
12-23-2021, 05:53 AM
I confess I was embarrassed to bring my labrador retriever to petsmart yesterday because I thought people were gonna fat shame him since he's so obese or people would think I was overfeeding him/giving treats. People call him bear or big at the dog park. Petsmart always give dogs a treat that come in and they totally avoided giving him one LOL. I was kinda embarrassed.

Apparently the reason why 60% of labradors are obese in America is because of their genetics and they will scavenge/beg for food. Lol I'm so glad I found this video about it. I don't feel so bad like it is my fault. https://youtu.be/qBFr_1ImXx8?t=11

Kinda wild how my other dog is slim and he is so big.

whirlerz
12-23-2021, 02:14 PM
Yea, cops are out for the holidays to catch whoever for whatever.. Saw a unmarked suv pulling someone over yesterday.

Well, the meth guy has the process servers coming daily now for evicting..soon that will morph into 'special service', someone you wouldn't expect.

I answered the door once, I heard knocking & thought someone was locked out.
I went running up, half dressed cause I was camming lol.:'( Not answering any more, I'm busy, don't want to be involved, also he gave me 20.00 to stfu lol.

He went somewhere anyway, probably for a week or more to escape the 'heat'.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-23-2021, 02:19 PM
Mini rant... it seems like most people have no curiosity about others, and it's so depressing / draining. They're happy to talk endlessly about themselves with zero awareness that they know nothing about you. And if you share something about yourself to try to open up, they switch conversation back to themselves instead of expressing curiosity about you.

I really try to avoid making such broad, negative generalizations. But it's so rare to find balanced, intellectual conversation these days. When i do find those conversations with people, I'm like... instantly smitten.

I think some people have to tune out of reality when they're struggling.

I've noticed clinically depressed people can be a drag to be around, since their mental illness is warping their view of pretty much everything under the sun.

whirlerz
12-23-2021, 02:25 PM
I got my crush guy upstairs a little gift, some slides shoes (not flip flops) & a mini cologne sample of CK 2.
Plus a cute card, & a scone.

I feel kinda embarrassed about it tho, :-[like it's a dumb gift but we'll see.
I put everything in a Target bag & left it on his door.

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 03:00 PM
This is so true. I’ve seen it in myself and others. You get exhausted when depressed. Often if people seem off and being sticks in the mud I assume they are struggling mentally since I’ve been there at times myself.


I think some people have to tune out of reality when they're struggling.

I've noticed clinically depressed people can be a drag to be around, since their mental illness is warping their view of pretty much everything under the sun.

whirlerz
12-23-2021, 03:11 PM
I got my crush guy upstairs a little gift, some slides shoes (not flip flops) & a mini cologne sample of CK 2.
Plus a cute card, & a scone.

I feel kinda embarrassed about it tho, :-[like it's a dumb gift but we'll see.
I put everything in a Target bag & left it on his door.

Yay, he likes it! Aw, he said he was crying!

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 03:46 PM
^ Please end the will they won’t they and go jump on that D.

Some of us are waiting for updates haha.