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miss.a.p1600
12-31-2021, 07:26 PM
I am so glad L is in another room watching a movie and being concerned about his kid/utilizing his parenting time vs. being all up underneath me and trying to be nosy n see what I'm doing.
I'm on fucking stripper webs.....so leave me alone!
miss.a.p1600
12-31-2021, 07:28 PM
Sometimes I miss my ex husband money lol. Like I could just say I was hungry and he would send money or moan about not going shopping in London at Christmas and he would send money . Oh well life is better without his headaches
I miss my sugar daddy.....
Just offering me money without having to be prompted or asked. Taking me out to restaurants frequently not just every once in a while.
Whatevs.....Another one will come my way (I'm going to speak it into existence)
indiegirl
12-31-2021, 10:29 PM
My dogs literally follow me around the house wherever I go and mister needy dog is cuddled next to my body napping right now haha! Sometimes I feel like I am in constant contact with people working and then come home to the neediness. Thank goodness for naps and movies that help me sleep :)!
My neighbors have been really kind so far with holding off on fireworks tonight for now. I've only heard 50 fireworks tonight from the nearby house. Usually it sounds like WW3 has begun.
miss.a.p1600
01-01-2022, 09:12 AM
I am so glad L is in another room watching a movie and being concerned about his kid/utilizing his parenting time vs. being all up underneath me and trying to be nosy n see what I'm doing.
I'm on fucking stripper webs.....so leave me alone!
I took some edibles from my secret stash at about 5:30 and they didn’t kick in till fucking 9pm. Lol!
Good. Cause while L was in another part of the house I was by myself and I had some solo sexy time with myself. I had the best solo orgasm with the fireworks going in the background.
Glad his kid was here to occupy him so I could be left alone to pleasure myself without interruption
miss.a.p1600
01-01-2022, 01:11 PM
I’m locked in with L and one of his kids.
*Joy*
As long as L stays on the opposite side of the house watching mindless movies, I’m going to stay on my side of the house and do some meditation and yoga.
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 12:11 PM
I confessed to my mom (previously I’d been having g trouble explaining my concerns about L’s coparenting challenging affecting my outlook on our relationship to anyone except the ladies here because I feel unstable and all I wanted was a little stability - mental n Financial - and a loving partnership)
My mom who was always on his side telling me to be better at helping him is now like “Well you should just leave cause I couldn’t deal with that”
I told her about it all.
How he failed his test to get a raise, how his ex wife can’t afford to take care of her kids (despite working a job), how she’s constantly pawing her kids off AND asking him for money AND running him around town like an childcare Uber.
I have enough shit going on in my life to tack on the challenges of 3+ other people.
L tries to do what he can to improve but he moves slowly and he still has not put that Bertha bitch in check. If he wants to take custody of his kids he should do that. I just don’t think I could stay because I don’t want kids in my house unless *I* know when they’re coming n leaving and they follow my house rules.
I’m just going to focus on myself. Make sure I have enough funds stacked to leave when this lease is up. Start clearing all my shit that’s visible in sight. And travel solo so my absence won’t come as a shock when I’m no longer here.
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 12:21 PM
^ I think it's funny that we both are having tell all moments lately with our Moms lol !
LoveyD
01-02-2022, 12:26 PM
Miss ap, I think the best relationships are formed when you're already stable on your own. That's something I've realized.
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 12:36 PM
^True. I realized my fault here.
I agreed to live with him way too soon. I felt like I was drowning in bills n never getting ahead and I thought maybe I could deal with the ex wife n kids if it meant getting ahead financially.
But dealing with the ex wife n kids struggles it’s probably more than than what it’s worth.
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 01:13 PM
I did it too. Ha.
I don't have the schedule difficulties since that is smooth. I do still have times where I wonder about the choice from an ethical perspective. I still 50/50 my time and am out doing my own things 50% of the time when he has his daughter. It's something I need ( due to him being needy ) but I wonder if it looks bad at times also. Eventually I see myself shifting to more family time.
I admittedly struggle on days there isn’t a ton of structure ( school 8-3:30 ).
I just can not " do " family life three days a week and we haven't really talked about if he is ok with my approach or not to avoid 50% of those hours. We seem to have our hands full trying to deal with each other the other four days of the week. He doesn’t try to guilt me though so I suspect he’s fine with the time divide as of right now.
charlie61
01-02-2022, 05:50 PM
Miss p, i totally hear you on making the leap for financial reasons. Sometimes we learn the hard way that we'd rather have less money and not have to deal with other people's BS. It's like when you have a splendadaddy who pays very little and has a ton of emotional baggage that he puts on you - the money you're making/ saving from that relationship is so not worth it. And it may be holding you back from finding something so much better.
LoveyD
01-02-2022, 08:33 PM
^True. I realized my fault here.
I agreed to live with him way too soon. I felt like I was drowning in bills n never getting ahead and I thought maybe I could deal with the ex wife n kids if it meant getting ahead financially.
But dealing with the ex wife n kids struggles it’s probably more than than what it’s worth.
That's understandable. Especially since L said his kids would mostly be with their mom initially.
moneybags
01-02-2022, 08:40 PM
Was watching solo male porn and he was dirty talking and said to the camera, “you’re my princess.” Ewww. “You’re daddy’s little girl.” Gross. Sorry. I don’t mean to kink shame, but I DO NOT want to be called princess or a little girl during sex.
miss.a.p1600
01-03-2022, 07:29 AM
Was watching solo male porn and he was dirty talking and said to the camera, “you’re my princess.” Ewww. “You’re daddy’s little girl.” Gross. Sorry. I don’t mean to kink shame, but I DO NOT want to be called princess or a little girl during sex.
My former sugar daddy used to call me “sweet girl”
I had to tell him to stop calling me that cause I was a WOMAN not a damn girl.
It didn’t sound right to me.
Aurora_Sunset
01-03-2022, 07:48 AM
Was watching solo male porn and he was dirty talking and said to the camera, “you’re my princess.” Ewww. “You’re daddy’s little girl.” Gross. Sorry. I don’t mean to kink shame, but I DO NOT want to be called princess or a little girl during sex.
I feel like every influencer/social media persona I follow has lately started to make it a big, normalized thing that people (women especially) ALL have a praise fetish, such as they enjoy being told "good girl." I don't care that people enjoy it, but I'm finding it to be a weird discourse happening across the internet that says that "everyone" enjoys this kinky thing now, when no, not everyone does.
I feel like it becomes this weird thin line where, once something in the kink community starts to seem "mainstream," it's suddenly considered "so boring" to NOT be into a particular kink. Like, why, in the last decade or so, is everyone in the public spotlight acting as though if you don't eat ass regularly nowadays, you're "sexually repressed?" Maybe some people still just don't enjoy the taste of literal asshole? Don't care if you do, but why are we acting like this has suddenly become a completely expected sexual behavior, to the point that you're some boring, vanilla prude if you don't want to perform an act on everybody what used to be considered a kink between two compatible people?
Anyway, I also hate the terms "daddy" or being called anything that implies childishness. I hate when men break it out without warning, instead of asking if that's something you're into.
moneybags
01-03-2022, 02:40 PM
^^^ I agree I’m vanilla in some ways and kinky in others. There some things I just don’t like-anal, but I like role play and dirty talk. Vanilla is one of my favorite spices. Ain’t nothing wrong with being vanilla as long as you don’t judge others.
Talked to my crush today. I was able to friendzone him. I still like him, but I’m not getting emotionally attached to anyone else’s man. Practicing detachment and just allow things to happen in a healthy organic way. I bet if he broke up with his girlfriend, then he’d want to date me. As it is now, he has a girlfriend and I’m not interested. I still like talking to him, but I’m detached from any outcome. I’m glad I’m able to work with him as he’s been great doctor-one of the best and I don’t want to lose him or not be able to work with him do to all the sexual tension.
It’s helped me clarity about my relationships in the future. I’m not abandoning myself for a man. I have it a take it or leave it attitude. You can take me as I am or leave. My money comes first. Sorry, not sorry. It can be hard, but what’s even harder is abandoning myself.
At least I learned a lot about what I want and don’t want.
Secret Shelly
01-03-2022, 09:03 PM
Anyway, I also hate the terms "daddy" or being called anything that implies childishness. I hate when men break it out without warning, instead of asking if that's something you're into.
Same. I had a couple of customers who wanted me to call them that. I did it a couple of times early on but got to where I said it wasn't something I offered. It was just too creepy for me.
indiegirl
01-03-2022, 09:39 PM
My former sugar daddy used to call me “sweet girl”
I had to tell him to stop calling me that cause I was a WOMAN not a damn girl.
It didn’t sound right to me.
LOLL. I used to think being called a girl was a compliment now it's insulting like being called a kid. The absolute WORST is being called Ma'am. One thing I noticed when I go to high end shops or to a place that has expensive pricing, every single person will only use the word 'Miss' regardless of your age/appearance. Gotta love good customer service hahaha!
kimbe
01-04-2022, 01:03 AM
I feel like every influencer/social media persona I follow has lately started to make it a big, normalized thing that people (women especially) ALL have a praise fetish, such as they enjoy being told "good girl." I don't care that people enjoy it, but I'm finding it to be a weird discourse happening across the internet that says that "everyone" enjoys this kinky thing now, when no, not everyone does.
I wonder when being "boring & normal" becomes popular again? Looks like everyone is trying to outdo each other in sexual creativity
Genoveve
01-04-2022, 02:40 PM
I wonder when being "boring & normal" becomes popular again? Looks like everyone is trying to outdo each other in sexual creativity
It never left. As a non-explicit camgirl I can tell you that there's tons of guys who still like the traditional, non-explicit, 'boring' stuff.
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 02:41 PM
^ Cute !
I honestly think there is something charming about more " boring " sex lol.
Crazy un-comfy positions are nice for spice but easy things are still sexy.
It is cute to me that guys like a more tame show at times from providers also.
indiegirl
01-04-2022, 03:51 PM
Lol if you want a really clean hotel stay at the Hilton. They threw the key card for access I left downstairs for my customer within 10 minutes. *eyeroll* Not the best timing! Not even the 5 stars in LA are on that level.
xxxGothBarbie
01-04-2022, 04:10 PM
I don't find Peyton List cute or attractive at all & am beyond disgusted that most guys do bc she's in a popular series right now. I am ready to see her get written off the damn show already!
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 04:18 PM
I finally booked myself a social event ...... and I guess masks are required ?
Omg I hate masks so much now I'm wondering about skipping it.
If I skip it I plan to lie to my partner and say I went. We both need social things out of the house lol.
I need to lead by example.
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 04:53 PM
^ I didn't go lol. I hate masks so much !
BUT I went to yoga. Semi - Social at least.
LoveyD
01-04-2022, 06:18 PM
I did maybe 3 InstaFart orders and their app crapped out on me and left me frustrated. Taking the rest of the day off. I work literally every day...
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 09:16 PM
I wouldn't mind if they chose to return late such as 7-8 p.m. or stayed a third day in Vegas with his sister ! :/
Please don't come back before 4 p.m. lol
That would only be 48 hours.
We left things in a very awkward spot due to just running out of time when he had to go get his daughter Sunday morning. We were talking about breaking up options but then we started doing some suggestions on making the upcoming week better ( it seems like the options moved to staying together ). I'm almost fearing he is going to come back and seem " decided " on option 1. He called me " honey " though leaving . Then he asked if I " wanted " a hug and that interaction felt alarming. I guess I will be relieved to ask tomorrow what the status is. I wasn't going to interrupt the trip with any chatting about it. I assume he needs time to think too.
I'm a little confused though and unsure what to do. I almost would prefer to not be here tomorrow ( on the last day of daughters visit ) if he is in a " firm " decision type of place . It's odd to take it " day by day " and almost insulting if that makes sense. It feels like the weekend is " held up ". Without any plans to look forward to it seems like a decline. I guess I wish he'd send a " sorry it's been rough " message and reference some weekend plans but I see why he didn't ( since we talked both options openly ).
The few times I attempted camming, I sucked at it. I didn't have the patience, whatsoever. But lately, I suddenly want to try it again. I like the idea of extra money without having to interact with people face-to-face.
I feel like this on and off also, the idea of camming is great but to do it is a lot more work like sitting in all those positions makes me sore and it’s just kinda boring waiting… in the club I am drinking and getting dances usually fast and making money a lot faster than on cam just sitting..
indiegirl
01-05-2022, 07:30 AM
LMAO! I had one of my customers say he wanted a toothbrush early today because I said I just brushed my teeth and he got all shy about me getting one for him and I called downstairs. Now I have two packets of toothbrushes and toothpaste. Nothing compares to a Hilton! I am having more towels delivered right now. No comments from the hotel of "why or they don't have housekeeping." Hotel staff just shows up. I wish I could move in here with my dogs LOL. I don't wanna deal with SHIT roommates anymore and there's a pool, workout area, Starbucks, and a gift area. LOL!
Not a 'total' fan of starbucks after knowing someone who worked there in the way past and talked about all the food they had they microwaved and he brought a bunch of expired egg mcmuffins back to the frat house hahaha.
neverendingkneebruises
01-05-2022, 09:14 AM
^ Cute !
I honestly think there is something charming about more " boring " sex lol.
Crazy un-comfy positions are nice for spice but easy things are still sexy.
It is cute to me that guys like a more tame show at times also.
This is most of the sex I have lol, kinky stuff is nice once in a while but nothing beats some good ol' passionate missionary imo :P I'm 23 btw. I see a lot of people my age actually getting tired of primarily kinky sex being mainstream and rejecting hookup culture if that's reassuring.
I feel like this on and off also, the idea of camming is great but to do it is a lot more work like sitting in all those positions makes me sore and it’s just kinda boring waiting… in the club I am drinking and getting dances usually fast and making money a lot faster than on cam just sitting..
This is how I feel too, most of my friends make online content & while I do that, it doesn't compare to being a successful dancer in a good city :D I also like having some anonymity.
miss.a.p1600
01-05-2022, 11:40 AM
Everyone around me has had covid or is getting covid recently......
I just want to crawl into a hole with my n95, a vibrator, and an online sugar daddy to keep that money coming in. lol!
It's not funny but I feel like I have to laugh to keep from melting down.
carmen_b
01-05-2022, 12:38 PM
They arrive back at 2:15 ? Lol
J a two day trip should mean 48 hours not 46 haha.
carmen_b
01-05-2022, 12:49 PM
Regardless of what happens I'm a production monster when given a chunk of time alone !
Cleaned the kitchen
Yoga last night
Got progress done on a day job thing I'm responsible for in April
Cleaned desk ( many papers thrown out / some organized better )
Started closet cleaning
Phone ON . Ready to make $$$.
Hair appt. finally made.
carmen_b
01-05-2022, 04:41 PM
Well he's back haha and seems very friendly and hug focused lol .
I was really using this trip to evaluate for myself .
I did miss him for sure !
I wasn't really sure I would since we see each other constantly ha!
I would love to do the 5 days a week thing and two solo days for 3-4 weeks if he was open to it.
Would someone come back and be so hug focused if they were definitely set on parting ? :/
I really hate that it's going to take 2.5 hours to talk to him.
I'm glad work has been busy to keep me from obsessing ( further ) lol .
I can tell by his hugs he wants to go forward even though we haven't talked ....
miss.a.p1600
01-06-2022, 02:30 PM
Looking forward to L going back to work tomorrow and thankful he spent his parenting time anywhere other than this house and took them back to their moms house since today is a work from home day for me.
carmen_b
01-06-2022, 02:32 PM
^ Isn’t it so nice this school break is wrapped ?
Why do kids need 15 days off ?
7-8 is plenty.
That’s so nice that L got them out of the house !
miss.a.p1600
01-07-2022, 09:45 AM
I think that thread made me think about my role dealing with L’s kids (in addition to dealing with him and his quirks)
Maybe I have been less than receptive to them ..... thanks to his behavior
miss.a.p1600
01-07-2022, 09:51 AM
Also just as I thought L got better at scheduling he claims he is not getting his work schedule until last minute
I am trying not to jump to conclusions and think he’s lying and thinking that if I have schedules then I’m more likely to know when to avoid him n his kids.
I “disappear” when I don’t get scheduling but at this point unless he starts being cooperative with the scheduling I’m just going to disappear from 8-8 everyday.
carmen_b
01-07-2022, 10:04 AM
^ I have begun to think he is up to something also as I mentioned earlier.
He should know you probably are not going to help beyond an hour or so ( especially short notice ) so I don't think he will gain much headway here .
You saying " I want a firm schedule 5-6 days out " should not be a problem. I don't mind leaving the house to work ( splitting it 20 hours at home and 20 at an office space ) but it seems like you prefer to work at home . He should work with you to give you at least 20-30 hours of quiet a week to work at home . Maybe you can start using an office for 10-20 hours or a co-working space ? He should be willing to at least split it with you. Have you said to him " I'd like help maintaining a quiet work space OR I need to know 2-3 days ahead to schedule office time ".
You need to protect your work time obviously but also if you can not spend 3-5 hours a week at least I'd say getting to know the kids you need to ask yourself if this is something you can really do.
miss.a.p1600
01-07-2022, 10:14 AM
^yeah I suppose the only solution is to just leave this house whenever possible anyways.
He might be slick jealous I can work from home and have a flexible schedule and so it’s usually my “territory” and he likes being spontaneous
I should ask him to either pay for my co-office or give me his work schedule and parenting schedule (in advance) since he’s causing the issue with his lack of planning.
carmen_b
01-07-2022, 10:14 AM
I don't think you'd be wrong to do this but you should not have to.
I’m just going to disappear from 8-8 everyday.
carmen_b
01-07-2022, 10:16 AM
Yes, I'd definitely ask him to pay for your work space. Or just start going to one.
Begin mentioning male friends you meet in this work space . You could have worked quietly at home but now you are out and making SO many new friends. : )
^yeah I suppose the only solution is to just leave this house whenever possible anyways.
He might be slick jealous I can work from home and have a flexible schedule and so it’s usually my “territory” and he likes being spontaneous
I should ask him to either pay for my co-office or give me his work schedule and parenting schedule (in advance) since he’s causing the issue with his lack of planning.
carmen_b
01-07-2022, 11:00 AM
I would probably honestly threaten to leave over this ( the lack of planning ) but when you make a threat you have to be willing to follow through. :/
I did it in my relationship when my partner wouldn't "transition" me to 4-5 nights a week together ( sleeping by each other ) at 7 months meaning 4-5 days would also be days his daughter was in the home. I was not going to only sleep my my partner 15 -16 days a month going into 7.5 months together. I had completely run out of patience. I had to be fully prepared to leave if he wouldn't have been willing to work with me. I'm glad he worked with me but I was 100% ready to bounce if he wouldn't have been willing. I ended up offering him an open relationship only if he wasn't willing make normal relationship transitions.
Yes, I mean 3-5 hours of active time. Like all of you going out somewhere a couple hours or having a meal for an hour and then all watching a movie or something at home. Obviously if you have a super busy week you could reduce it to a couple hours but I think most ( even " new " step family relationships ) you would need to at least set aside 3-5 hours a week to interact. Otherwise you are just kind of a stranger to them right ? If your vibe has been to *always* try to get away in the last 7 days you might be able to help " meet in the middle " by offering a couple interactive hours this upcoming week even if it's as simple as all getting a pizza and going to a park. This way he also can't say " you are always running away from the kids " because you offered a couple hours.
Take ALL my advice with a grain of salt too lol !
Half the time I feel like I need to change my life , get my own ( newer ) condo or house, and limit man interaction to just 1-2 times a week, ha!
miss.a.p1600
01-07-2022, 12:12 PM
Speak of the devil….lol
He just sent me two weeks of his work schedule
Now I just have to stay on top of him (not in a good way) for his parenting time schedule (which should be his off days but I always confirm it no less than 24hr s in advance) and his study schedule so he can pass this damn test and get a raise.
I took your suggestion and research coworking spaces and found one in the city for $29 a day and &200/month. It’s 24/7 access. So I’ll book it for a day if he does any popping up with kids during my work day. It might become a monthly deal if I like the place and it makes sense to rent it longer.
carmen_b
01-07-2022, 12:16 PM
$200 a month for a space you can focus is in a bargain.
carmen_b
01-07-2022, 01:54 PM
Related to partner neediness .......
When my partner got into a " high " needy vibe it clashed with me a lot and had me wondering if I even like men ! I think I still do . I still have some thinking to do. I understand what he was doing ( trying to make sure we didn't turn into a "boring old couple " ) in a sense. From another side I flat out told him I was having depression struggles. He should have been able to back way off and accept sexy times just a couple times a week if that is all I could offer. I want to run the situation by an individual therapist AND a couples counselor. It took forever to get scheduled ( appts are next week ) . I actually don't think I even cut it down to two except maybe 1 week in Dec. ! It just felt like I was making A LOT of effort to keep up despite struggling mentally. I do KNOW though what a drag it is to have a " low libido " type partner ( even temporarily ) if you are high because it has happened to me ! That is why I was trying to be so on the ball about making sure I was literally scheduling time to give him attention. It was not feeling " natural " due to the depression.
It's more of a " looking back to assess " situation now because I'm feeling better now.
I'm am also feeling a sense of " performance anxiety " that I hope passes.
I hope I feel more energized tonight for example.
He got attention the last two days. I don’t even know what vibe I’ll be at tonight so I feel little anxious . :/
I’d love to “ give” three days in a row but I’m not even sure what my body will be up for 2-5 hours from now.
Damn this yaz BC pill also has me randomly bleeding early ?
Not supposed to for 3-4 days...
WendiStarr
01-07-2022, 01:56 PM
I'm legit fucking terrified to give birth during this pandemic. Due to the rising cases in my state, the hospital changed their policy to 4 support people allowed in delivery room to only 1. They've also decided to do mandatory covid testing on all women in labor so even if a woman tests positive and is asymptomatic, she'll be sent to the covid ward and won't be allowed near the baby and no visitors. I get that they're being cautious but I'm scared of that happening to me. Now I have that to worry about, as well as getting preeclampsia again. Ugh.
miss.a.p1600
01-08-2022, 12:49 PM
L complaining about how his customers are being cheap because they have the money but don’t want to spend it ……. even if they need it. Lol! @The irony.
miss.a.p1600
01-08-2022, 12:53 PM
Related to partner neediness .......
When my partner got into a " high " needy vibe it clashed with me a lot and had me wondering if I even like men ! I think I still do . I still have some thinking to do. I understand what he was doing ( trying to make sure we didn't turn into a "boring old couple " ) in a sense. From another side I flat out told him I was having depression struggles. He should have been able to back way off and accept sexy times just a couple times a week if that is all I could offer. I want to run the situation by an individual therapist AND a couples counselor. It took forever to get scheduled ( appts are next week ) . I actually don't think I even cut it down to two except maybe 1 week in Dec. ! It just felt like I was making A LOT of effort to keep up despite struggling mentally. I do KNOW though what a drag it is to have a " low libido " type partner ( even temporarily ) if you are high because it has happened to me ! That is why I was trying to be so on the ball about making sure I was literally scheduling time to give him attention. It was not feeling " natural " due to the depression.
It's more of a " looking back to assess " situation now because I'm feeling better now.
I'm am also feeling a sense of " performance anxiety " that I hope passes.
I hope I feel more energized tonight for example.
He got attention the last two days. I don’t even know what vibe I’ll be at tonight so I feel little anxious . :/
I’d love to “ give” three days in a row but I’m not even sure what my body will be up for 2-5 hours from now.
Damn this yaz BC pill also has me randomly bleeding early ?
Not supposed to for 3-4 days...
I remember you posting about the low libido dude and thinking……….uh that sounds like a male version of myself. Lol!
Sometimes I think I’d be better of with a gay sugar daddy who needs a beard.
carmen_b
01-08-2022, 01:10 PM
I had more than one low libido guy lol !
In 2019 I was literally charging dudes at the club left and right for my time and then in my “ real “ life couldn’t find a working dick !!
Hahaha.
^ My libido is on the rise haha.
I’m using some well placed BJs to fill in the gaps hahaha.
I feel like that will keep my partner happy even if I only want mutual fun a couple times a week ( which honestly might happen for 4-5 more weeks at certain times with my seasonal issues ). If I give like that and he still complains I’ll know I tried and be able to “ call it “ knowing that I really tried.
I hope we both will be happy , meet in the middle , and get along !
I think it shows a lot of generosity on my part if my body is kind of " feeling " the twice a week vibe but I'm making sure he has attention ( one sided ) at least on a third day . In generous weeks I maybe can even do a 4th . Keeping " high vibes " up will mean all complaining needs to be eliminated entirely ( he has been good there so far the last 7-8 days ).
If you are a guy who gets attention three times a week you should be RAVING in positivity and glowing at your good fortune honestly ! If appreciation is not shown I will take my amazing offer elsewhere ( only if I'm provoked )!
I just have that “ nagging “ that my partner should have been a little more mellow in Dec.!
He wasn’t threatening or anything but just “ meh “ I’d say in terms of being supportive.
It's why it's so important to me we run things by a pro / get some counseling going.
:/