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indiegirl
02-24-2022, 09:51 AM
https://www.indy100.com/viral/man-effort-low-salary-tiktok
Hahahaha I love this. Man tells boss he will only put in enough effort as his low salary. Reminds me of this kid Austin when I worked at Abercrombie and his sole goal was to appear like he was doing work and get paid for walking around LOLLLLL.
Also WTF is going on in Ukraine? We've been through a pandemic for 2 years and now you wanna waterboard us through a potential WW3? Thank god I'm too old to be drafted. I'm pulling all my money out of the bank if USA decides to intervene and continuing to stock up on food.. One lady on the news said there was no money in the ATM's over there and there was a shortage on food.
carmen_b
02-24-2022, 10:20 AM
I think it's totally ok to step in and help your partner ( I do this a few hours a week ) as well as spending some time with all of you together.
His demands for you to deal with them all day ( such as him out for 8 hours at work ) are just unreasonable.
He is the parent. He should do 90-95% of the parenting. If he is " booked " for 8 hours for work they need to be " booked " for an activity of some sort. I'm sure you wouldn't mind taking them for a 15 min. drive for example and then getting them at the end of the day ( after their outside the house activity that he booked and paid for ).
This seems obvious to everyone but him and that is the crux of the issue.
Anyways I was blinded up until the point he started making demands, clinging, and not compensating me for my efforts.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-24-2022, 10:21 AM
Funny confession ahead- (trigger warning, Machiavellian humor ahead)
I got a concerned phone call from my dad recently about how my brother's wife appears sick and haggard in recent photos posted to the good old FaceBook.
I explained to him that she has a lot of serious mental problems and smokes like a chimney so if she were to drop dead suddenly, no one would be terribly surprised.
I literally hate her so I am kind of wondering if she has cancer or just went on a crash diet for some strange reason.
FWIW she's a terrible person. She acts like being a housewife is an ordeal when all her bills are paid and her kids are actually very nice. Yes CPS has had to deal with her and her poor parenting. My brother had to threaten to divorce her in order for her to cook and clean like she is supposed to as a wife and mother.
Best case scenario, she passes away and the kids get a stepmom who can actually cook. I can hope, right?
carmen_b
02-24-2022, 11:00 AM
^^ My brothers former partner was such a dud.
It's so sad to see family with people dragging them down.
So glad he ( finally ) got rid of her.
miss.a.p1600
02-24-2022, 11:14 AM
I think it's totally ok to step in and help your partner ( I do this a few hours a week ) as well as spending some time with all of you together.
His demands for you to deal with them all day ( such as him out for 8 hours at work ) are just unreasonable.
He is the parent. He should do 90-95% of the parenting. If he is " booked " for 8 hours for work they need to be " booked " for an activity of some sort. I'm sure you wouldn't mind taking them for a 15 min. drive for example and then getting them at the end of the day ( after their outside the house activity that he booked and paid for ).
This seems obvious to everyone but him and that is the crux of the issue.
***Sorry I don’t want to post too much about it (so I’ll break from this topic to spare y’all this bullshit) but I wanted to clarify-***
He agreed to get them on the weekend he worked (after he got off they’d spend the night and then he’d take them back in the mornings before work to make it easier for us both. So he wasn’t trying to leave them alone with me) What he was trying to do was use the limited time he had to host them at our house overnight because they begged him since their grandmas house had allegedly 10 people in a 3br & he missed them since he hadn’t hung out with them since the weekend prior.
However,
I didn’t want him to host them overnight at all because:
it still would have required me to clean up after them and for him to cook dinner/breakfast for them
it sets the tone for Bertha to expect childcare even during her parenting time
I believed those limited hours could have been spent having adult time, studying for his test for a raise, etc.
We just hosted their kids out of town last weekend and I wanted a break
I want to set the tone that hosting kids is something that’s done with advance planning
I wanted to set the tone that he needs to let extended family help out sometimes especially if they offer
Etc
Maybe I’m the cunt for refusing to help him but he’s refused to help me by bettering himself so I can be better compensated for dealing with his exwife childcare fuckery, that I just reached my boiling point.
I honestly just wanted a break. If Bertha can run up out of town to get a break from her kids for the weekend then I need one too cotdamn it.
The bitch didn’t offer to keep her kids when we went out of town so why tf would I offer to keep them when she goes out of town?
Matter of fact I need a break from all those mfs right now.
Fuck her and fuck him too!
***thankfully the solution was he picked them up after work but did not host them overnight and took them back to grandmas. I think this was the best solution since the kids got what they needed (time with extended family), he got what he wanted (extra time with them), and I got what I wanted (no last minute childcare, if you parent out of guilt on Berthas parenting time it will NOT be overnight cause I’m not doing any work related to childcare)
I’m just still on edge because these people will be with the shits again I already know it. And I want to leave before it drives me to the brink of insanity.
Miss P :
I really think he just did you wrong and it's hard to forgive.
He COULD have made things so much smoother simply scheduling ( like 99% of divorced people do ).
I know we don't have the full picture but it just seems nasty in a way that he made things SO difficult when changes could have brought things to an easier place.
Every situation is totally different but I know exactly when my partners daughter is going to be in the home.
I have this info 2-3 weeks ahead. It would be rare that I " only " had it a week ahead . There are easier ways to do this and your partner just won't do them which must be infuriating.
I think L not just sticking to his divorce agreement (doing more for Bertha than he initially agreed to in court and to me when we were dating before I moved in)
It’s like maybe deep down somewhere he knows this is fuckery but probably wants someone who will accept the childcare fuckery because he’s afraid to rock berthas boat and hold her accountable for raising their kids.
It is infuriating and I don’t like constantly talking about it.
The only thing I can do until my GTFO date is to work as much as possible and “disappear” when necessary to fund the level up and out. And just be grateful for what is going right for me.
Again my bad for constantly posting. I guess my confession is I’m going to take an hour or two break and get back into work. Maybe work late and chill and head over to the gratitude thread
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-24-2022, 11:15 AM
^^ My brothers former partner was such a dud.
It's so sad to see family with people dragging them down.
So glad he ( finally ) got rid of her.
I don't joke about this too much because it sounds callous but often sex workers know about a divorce in the works years ahead of other people. She knows her marriage exists just because my brother isn't willing to pay for a live in Nanny.
One reason my brother's wife hates me is I own everything I love because I worked for it and continue to work for it. I hate lazy people and am never shy about that fact.
Today's confession- gonna go outside and watch the birds at the birdfeeder. I have earned this breaktime from work.
carmen_b
02-24-2022, 11:40 AM
^ The chick I’m talking about was a mooch too.
I had very little respect.
When men have resources they need to be tight lipped for months to weed out the weirdos.
He has learned that now.
Aurora_Sunset
02-25-2022, 06:34 AM
We have a 2 1/2 hour delay going into work today. I totally planned to use the extra time to get up early and hit the gym before work instead of trying to drag myself there after; thought I may even have time to chill out and read/write/study or something before leaving. But that totally didn't happen. I just got extra sleep.
miss.a.p1600
02-25-2022, 07:19 AM
I changed my routine and hitting upscale areas getting breakfast and lunch SOLO
It’s freeing not to have my partner clingy energy (since it’s his off day and he is too cheap to do anything outside of the home).
I am surrounding myself in wealth abundance and creativity…….and sugar daddy energy lol
carmen_b
02-25-2022, 09:00 AM
^ mmmmmmhmmmm
Upscale locations are sugar daddy land indeed. :)
miss.a.p1600
02-25-2022, 09:25 AM
I confess.
Im trying to hold it together for the next few weeks but…..
It slipped that I wasn’t interested in marriage (to L) right now.
He seemed teary eyed but deep down I think his desire for being a full time dad is more important to him than anything else.
He demanded the ring back.
Um sorry but that ring is compensation for all the hell you’ve put me through pushing me into your hidden agenda which has no benefit to me at all.
carmen_b
02-25-2022, 09:37 AM
^ It's a shame he wouldn't work with you and create a more seamless schedule ..........
I bet if he had 80% of the problems with you guys wouldn't have been so extreme.
It shouldn't be any surprise to him that you are angry ( possibly to a point you can't recover from ) when he constantly chose keeping his ex comfy over keeping you comfy. There was no balance.
Men get on guilt kicks but the reality is ..... most do NOT want to be full time dads.
Without a co-parent on board helping it is a boring lifestyle.
The won't admit it .
But we know ......
LoveyD
02-25-2022, 01:40 PM
I miss my friend P. We've been on/off and fucking since 2019. After my last encounter with him last August, I asked him for space. He called me on my Bday in October and we had a nice talk. Then we texted a brief "Happy Thanksgiving" to each other in November.
I got tired of him being hot & cold and I told him I needed space. Then I realized that maybe I wasn't ready to move forward into something serious with him, either. We're both trying to re establish ourselves after having narcissistic partners who decimated us financially. Maybe we'll get back together when we are both a lot more healed and ready. We never broke up...we just stopped talking.
I hope he comes back & comes back correct. I think he and I have potential for long-term but we need to do it when we're both feeling more stable and healed.
I miss our times on the beach. It was romantic. Loved kissing him and our sex was amazing. He knows how to do everything right. I just want to make sure I'm not getting with another narcissist, and I'm sure he has the same concerns regarding me. I miss him. I wonder if he thinks about me too.
Marina Starr
02-27-2022, 02:34 PM
I like chubby guys. A lot of them are so sweet with nice looking faces.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-27-2022, 03:53 PM
I like chubby guys. A lot of them are so sweet with nice looking faces.
Chubby = can afford groceries, not on coke or smack.
indiegirl
02-27-2022, 04:21 PM
I am loving the show Santa Clarita diet. I'm on season 3 and my favorite quote so far is "Why does everyone wanna find meaning in their lives?!?! Whatever happened to just getting through the fucking day!!!" Hahaha I'm so planning on rewatching this.
I also just woke up disoriented from my nap and thought that some crazy stalker somehow got into my locked bedroom and put flowers on my dresser. I freaked out and ran to the dresser. It was my pink mask and hat on the dresser counter. Someone needs to take crime scene videos away from me. LOL.
carmen_b
02-27-2022, 06:09 PM
I was going to model for this meetup thing .
The location was this dusty place ( outside ) .
:/
I turned around and went to the casino. Lol
Playing Keno all dolled up to regroup.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-27-2022, 06:43 PM
Funny confession- I've been drinking Bud Light all day to celebrate my new job. Low calories, waddup
miss.a.p1600
02-27-2022, 07:21 PM
I like chubby guys. A lot of them are so sweet with nice looking faces.
Good luck riding the waves of chubby
The downside of Chubby guys is their body gets in the way of sex. Stomachs hang in missionary, stomach in the way during riding, and they get out of breath and have weak upper body strength. They also have low body images self esteem and you have to fight not to eat what they eat or let their mentality rub off on you.
Chubby dudes are excellent for keeping ya warm in the winter if ya like to cuddle.
I hate cuddling more than 10 min bc I feel smothered
indiegirl
02-27-2022, 08:21 PM
Good luck riding the waves of chubby
The downside of Chubby guys is their body gets in the way of sex. Stomachs hang in missionary, stomach in the way during riding, and they get out of breath and have weak upper body strength. They also have low body images self esteem and you have to fight not to eat what they eat or let their mentality rub off on you.
Chubby dudes are excellent for keeping ya warm in the winter if ya like to cuddle.
I hate cuddling more than 10 min bc I feel smothered
I couldn't date one ever again. I tried twice and they were the rudest assholes I've ever met and incredibly insecure and jealous. Need lots of praise, affection, sex needs were through the roof to make them feel better about themselves, and attention too. It was an experiment I did to see if they would be nicer than someone genuinely attractive and I was very wrong. Plus they tend to be lazy.
Side note, you never know how dirty your shoes are until you wash them. Mine look so brand new right now!!
DonaDiabla
02-27-2022, 08:24 PM
I have been watching several international medical students YouTube channels about the Ukrainian war. They are showing how black and Indian students are being treated.I am glad these students are documenting everything and I hope they stay safe.
Sugarsteepdoll
02-27-2022, 08:27 PM
I dated the freakin handsomest chubby guy. He cheated on me :O:O:O
Dreamqueen
02-27-2022, 11:03 PM
I like chubby guys. A lot of them are so sweet with nice looking faces.
Same here.
When I was escorting, they were always the best lovers, and very sweet and gentle.
Thin or muscular guys make my pussy dry up, and my legs close tight.
It's a shame that chubby guys look, but never approach me, and I'm too shy to approach them.
chanzep
02-27-2022, 11:31 PM
Not attracted to chubby guys.
moneybags
02-28-2022, 01:39 AM
I have been watching several international medical students YouTube channels about the Ukrainian war. They are showing how black and Indian students are being treated.I am glad these students are documenting everything and I hope they stay safe.
So sad. How I wish we were evolved beyond race-it’s human nature. Hopefully we’ll be more evolved and see ourselves and each other as global stewards of the planet and each other.
I spend too much time on social media. Im going to do a 10 day social media detox except work and study.
Marina Starr
02-28-2022, 07:05 AM
I wouldn't go that far. There are plenty of hot guys with body images and self-esteem issues. Self-esteem doesn't care who you are or what your body looks like.
What you are describing is overweight. I guess chubby is subjective. For me, I'm not attracted to just one body type, it all depends on the guy. The whole package is very important to me.
Good luck riding the waves of chubby
The downside of Chubby guys is their body gets in the way of sex. Stomachs hang in missionary, stomach in the way during riding, and they get out of breath and have weak upper body strength. They also have low body images self esteem and you have to fight not to eat what they eat or let their mentality rub off on you.
Chubby dudes are excellent for keeping ya warm in the winter if ya like to cuddle.
I hate cuddling more than 10 min bc I feel smothered
Marina Starr
02-28-2022, 07:12 AM
For me chubby guys tend to stay sweet even when they got skinny.
LMAO @ skinny guys make your pussy dry up.
You are still shy after years of adult work? I used to be very shy with guys, especially if I have a crush on them. I feel a lot of women and myself include before I do sex work, are too shy to even look at our crushes. We'd squeal if they even look at us, lmao. Looking back, I've wasted so much time being shy.
Now guys are intimidated by me. I'm not shy. I look, I smile. I talk and behave like I'm on stripperweb except not being sexual like I am on cam.
I'm just having fun with no expectation.
Same here.
When I was escorting, they were always the best lovers, and very sweet and gentle.
Thin or muscular guys make my pussy dry up, and my legs close tight.
It's a shame that chubby guys look, but never approach me, and I'm too shy to approach them.
LoveyD
02-28-2022, 07:20 AM
I'm not attracted to chubby guys.
The last guy I had sex with is lean/strong. He'd pick me up and hold me while he'd fuck me. I must say, I enjoyed it and I don't think a chubby guy would be able to provide that experience again.
I miss that guy. I could always tell he loved fucking the daylights out of me...
Secret Shelly
02-28-2022, 08:37 AM
I've had mixed results with chubby guys...i agree with the self esteem/needing affirmation comments...but I've also been with a couple that were very sweet and kind and didn't suffer from any self-image issues...just like with in-shape guys you have to pick and choose.
carmen_b
02-28-2022, 09:26 AM
^ I have bad reviews for the chubbier ones haha.
I assumed they would try harder ..... be kind of easier all around .
No haha. I really only tried a couple. My Aussie B had a few extra and this complete dud I attempted to date had way too much extra. To put it somewhat tactfully.
I'll take em lean and mean !
miss.a.p1600
02-28-2022, 11:35 AM
Same here.
When I was escorting, they were always the best lovers, and very sweet and gentle.
Thin or muscular guys make my pussy dry up, and my legs close tight.
It's a shame that chubby guys look, but never approach me, and I'm too shy to approach them.
Let's trade pussy lol!
I miss my tight body men. This is the downside of getting older....you are in the minority if you have a good looking body as you age. Most men over 30 have 'dad-bods' which are a little fluffy
LoveyD
02-28-2022, 04:15 PM
I miss my friend P. We've been on/off and fucking since 2019. After my last encounter with him last August, I asked him for space. He called me on my Bday in October and we had a nice talk. Then we texted a brief "Happy Thanksgiving" to each other in November.
I got tired of him being hot & cold and I told him I needed space. Then I realized that maybe I wasn't ready to move forward into something serious with him, either. We're both trying to re establish ourselves after having narcissistic partners who decimated us financially. Maybe we'll get back together when we are both a lot more healed and ready. We never broke up...we just stopped talking.
I hope he comes back & comes back correct. I think he and I have potential for long-term but we need to do it when we're both feeling more stable and healed.
I miss our times on the beach. It was romantic. Loved kissing him and our sex was amazing. He knows how to do everything right. I just want to make sure I'm not getting with another narcissist, and I'm sure he has the same concerns regarding me. I miss him. I wonder if he thinks about me too.
He just texted me and called. He's such a sweet man.. Looks like we're missing each other something crazy. I swear this man and I have a spiritual connection. Neither of us have been with anyone else. I really want to see him. I can't wait to make out! I missed him...
I'm so happy. We had a good chat.
WendiStarr
02-28-2022, 08:01 PM
I miss cuddling.
Dreamqueen
02-28-2022, 11:34 PM
Let's trade pussy lol!
I miss my tight body men. This is the downside of getting older....you are in the minority if you have a good looking body as you age. Most men over 30 have 'dad-bods' which are a little fluffy
Ok, let's.
I forgot to add that I hate to fuck.
Oops.
Chubby guys like eating....
And the ones that I've been with had small penises that are easy to make cum.
Nuff said.
Lol
miss.a.p1600
03-01-2022, 05:20 AM
Ok, let's.
I forgot to add that I hate to fuck.
Oops.
Chubby guys like eating....
And the ones that I've been with had small penises that are easy to make cum.
Nuff sacan.
Lol
Perfect!….me too….
miss.a.p1600
03-01-2022, 05:31 AM
I'm not attracted to chubby guys.
The last guy I had sex with is lean/strong. He'd pick me up and hold me while he'd fuck me. I must say, I enjoyed it and I don't think a chubby guy would be able to provide that experience again.
I miss that guy. I could always tell he loved fucking the daylights out of me...
lol @ fucking the daylights out ….
I have discovered chubby dudes can only do certain *non strenuous* positions
It’s probably like fucking fragile elderly men.
le sigh
ive come to the conclusion I hate fucking chubby men……unless I’m being paid to overlook the fluff.
mf lose the excess weight, tone that shit up!
miss.a.p1600
03-01-2022, 05:32 AM
I miss cuddling.
got chubby dude that love to cuddle and keep ya warm
if ya want to trade places for a day lol!
I hate cuddling more than like 3 minutes
Aurora_Sunset
03-01-2022, 07:11 AM
My ex reached out to me yesterday to say he was going to be up here in my city for something today, and offering to "say hi" if it was close and I was available. This is actually my one day off this week, and the place he's going to is literally 5 minutes from where I live. But I lied and told him I have to work all day.
We're on okay terms, and he's mentioned a few times, here and there (not even in a pushy way) that it would be nice to catch up sometime and also meet my husband. I know he thinks we're back to being perfectly good friends.
I don't mind the occasional message and have even agreed to a future coffee or group get-together, in theory. But when it actually came down to it yesterday, I just really didn't want to. I don't hate him or anything, but if I never spoke to him again, I think I'd be fine with that.
Secret Shelly
03-01-2022, 07:36 AM
^^^for the most part when I'm done with a relationship I prefer to completely cut them off completely...i've had too many experiences where the guy wants to keep me just at arms length hoping he can use me as an f buddy or maybe even getting back together...nope, when I break up I'm done with them period.
indiegirl
03-01-2022, 11:06 AM
Well I was in class and the main lady running the program was helping me access my student account and she told me to write the password down and went to type it in my search history quick and the first thing that popped up was stripperweb. I could’ve died in that moment trying to exit out of it while she was staring at my computer screen next to me. Hahahaha
Dreamqueen
03-01-2022, 09:17 PM
For me chubby guys tend to stay sweet even when they got skinny.
LMAO @ skinny guys make your pussy dry up.
You are still shy after years of adult work? I used to be very shy with guys, especially if I have a crush on the
m. I feel a lot of women and myself include before I do sex work, are too shy to even look at our crushes. We'd squeal if they even look at us, lmao. Looking back, I've wasted so much time being shy.
Now guys are intimidated by me. I'm not shy. I look, I smile. I talk and behave like I'm on stripperweb except not being sexual like I am on cam.
I'm just having fun with no expectation.
I'm shy with guys I'm attracted to, even after doing sex work, yes.
Talking to tricks is easy, because I see them as walking wallets, and I have zero emotional connection.
It's game over if I like a guy.
I go completely silent.
Mute, actually.
I'm just afraid that if he picks up how much I'm into him, he'll use it to his advantage. Or be bad in bed, because he feels he has me, and doesn't have to try.
It's happened when I was young (18 ish). I'll never forget how shitty I felt.
miss.a.p1600
03-02-2022, 06:03 AM
Well I was in class and the main lady running the program was helping me access my student account and she told me to write the password down and went to type it in my search history quick and the first thing that popped up was stripperweb. I could’ve died in that moment trying to exit out of it while she was staring at my computer screen next to me. Hahahaha
That happened To me when I was with a vanilla client.
I was trying to show him something work related in my tablet…..
somehow another window popped up and stripper web was front and center.
to make it worse…..that was back when my avatar was flashing tits AND I could not figure out how to minimize or exit the window from split screen view.
girl I was sooooo embarrassed
LoveyD
03-02-2022, 08:27 AM
Crushie and I have been sending each other sexy videos and I must say I'm enjoying what he is sending me.
I can't wait to see him again
In other news, I don't feel like going to the gym today.
JGB2009
03-02-2022, 08:49 AM
That happened To me when I was with a vanilla client.
I was trying to show him something work related in my tablet…..
somehow another window popped up and stripper web was front and center.
to make it worse…..that was back when my avatar was flashing tits AND I could not figure out how to minimize or exit the window from split screen view.
girl I was sooooo embarrassed
LOL I remember when you told that story.
carmen_b
03-02-2022, 08:58 AM
I think this is perfectly fine . Often an ex is an ex because they disappointed you somehow. I am not big on keeping in touch when that is the case.
I don't hate him or anything, but if I never spoke to him again, I think I'd be fine with that.
carmen_b
03-02-2022, 08:58 AM
He probably found it memorable !
Did he buy haha ?
That happened To me when I was with a vanilla client.
I was trying to show him something work related in my tablet…..
somehow another window popped up and stripper web was front and center.
to make it worse…..that was back when my avatar was flashing tits AND I could not figure out how to minimize or exit the window from split screen view.
girl I was sooooo embarrassed
indiegirl
03-02-2022, 10:50 AM
That happened To me when I was with a vanilla client.
I was trying to show him something work related in my tablet…..
somehow another window popped up and stripper web was front and center.
to make it worse…..that was back when my avatar was flashing tits AND I could not figure out how to minimize or exit the window from split screen view.
girl I was sooooo embarrassed
It is the worst!! I felt my entire face go red!
miss.a.p1600
03-02-2022, 11:12 AM
He probably found it memorable !
Did he buy haha ?
He did but then he cancelled like two days later. I wasn’t sure if he canceled because he had no intention of buying in the first place or because of the adult content popping up during business.
Either way I was mortified at myself (ALWAYS clear cookies or use private browsing) and livid at him for doing work for him only to have him rescind the offer.
LoveyD
03-02-2022, 12:37 PM
Today I just needed to take the morning off. Every day I'm always doing doing doing, working out or going shopping so I decided to head to a park overlooking the bay, city, and ocean and relax under a tree.
moneybags
03-02-2022, 08:45 PM
^^^its important to just be. I’m sure you’re familiar with the be-do-have principle
I’m accepting responsibility for my situation. It’s not all my fault, but I accept my part. I’m making amends to myself and others by no longer contributing to the dynamic. I can’t control what other people do, but I can control how I react. I can forgive him and set boundaries moving forward. If that doesn’t work I’ll sever ties.
I suppose this is a lesson I needed to learn. To make men EARN my love and don’t accept crumbs of attention.
https://youtu.be/lcHRlvHRiRA