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indiegirl
03-02-2022, 11:21 PM
I usually tolerate english class by drinking at home and filling out the answers haha. I fucking hate it. #Currentmood
I even came in with my unofficial transcript today showing I've taken the class before and they said it expired. I was getting desperate but here we are again......back in english.
LoveyD
03-03-2022, 08:18 AM
^^^its important to just be. I’m sure you’re familiar with the be-do-have principle
I’m accepting responsibility for my situation. It’s not all my fault, but I accept my part. I’m making amends to myself and others by no longer contributing to the dynamic. I can’t control what other people do, but I can control how I react. I can forgive him and set boundaries moving forward. If that doesn’t work I’ll sever ties.
I suppose this is a lesson I needed to learn. To make men EARN my love and don’t accept crumbs of attention.
https://youtu.be/lcHRlvHRiRA
Money I'm glad you know your worth. He is showing you who he is rn. You deserve way more than crumbs!
These men who have loose boundaries are showing you who they are. They are not safe.
xxxGothBarbie
03-03-2022, 09:38 AM
I was wide awake last night trying to get sleepy and so I did a little nosy creepin on my exs profile page and I was so happy to see that he's finally pulling the same psycho shit on toothless Tina he did to me. She is so stupid she had made an alternate secret account so she could post the drama in his comments section Lmao How embarrassing it must be to air out your dirty laundry online lol they deserve it though.
I am so satisfied with all of that right now. So happy Justice is finally being served to both of them. Fucking idiots.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-03-2022, 11:32 AM
I was wide awake last night trying to get sleepy and so I did a little nosy creepin on my exs profile page and I was so happy to see that he's finally pulling the same psycho shit on toothless Tina he did to me. She is so stupid she had made an alternate secret account so she could post the drama in his comments section Lmao �� How embarrassing it must be to air out your dirty laundry online lol they deserve it though.
I am so satisfied with all of that right now. So happy Justice is finally being served to both of them. Fucking idiots.
I've noticed Karma gets people eventually. The Social Media age has made it so apparent when people get what has been coming to them.
miss.a.p1600
03-03-2022, 11:57 AM
I was wide awake last night trying to get sleepy and so I did a little nosy creepin on my exs profile page and I was so happy to see that he's finally pulling the same psycho shit on toothless Tina he did to me. She is so stupid she had made an alternate secret account so she could post the drama in his comments section Lmao �� How embarrassing it must be to air out your dirty laundry online lol they deserve it though.
I am so satisfied with all of that right now. So happy Justice is finally being served to both of them. Fucking idiots.
Same happened to a Thirsty Tina my ex left and went off with her thirsty ass. Then short time later found out he had a kid on her.
Im thinking silly bitch how you get him is how you lose him. Plus that’s Community Dick…..He is for the streets! Never turn a male hoe into a househusband or that is what you get - a cheating spouse who can’t keep his dick in his pants
xxxGothBarbie
03-03-2022, 02:54 PM
^ hahaha right?!? LoL they both deserve to look like the fools they are. Slandering each other on fb then still staying semi together.... tacky AF but I don't expect much coming from norcal.
carmen_b
03-03-2022, 06:41 PM
Because the victims can't stand staying quiet haha !
Eventually being a nasty f$^k will catch up. It's just faster now that it there is always a connection.
No one can really do completely secretive movements anymore. Ha.
Creepy assholes are never on social media. It's not due to " liking privacy " . They fucked someone somewhere along the line hahaha.
I've noticed Karma gets people eventually. The Social Media age has made it so apparent when people get what has been coming to them.
miss.a.p1600
03-03-2022, 07:27 PM
My partner has left the house.
TBI I'm not concerned about where he is going as much as I am thankful I have my space.
moneybags
03-03-2022, 08:00 PM
I've noticed Karma gets people eventually. The Social Media age has made it so apparent when people get what has been coming to them.
Same. I truly don’t even worry about it anymore. I just move on with my life. Karma does eventually get ya. The older you are the more you see it. I’ve seen the most busted down women from men using and abusing them. Rise up out of the ashes. It’s takes longer 5-10 years. But the guy that broke them is WAY worse off later on. It really is better to focus on bettering yourself and ignore the naysayers, the petty arguments, and people that bring out down. They will be exactly where you left them 5 years down the road
indiegirl
03-03-2022, 09:24 PM
My neighbors house finally sold for 805k HURRAYYYY! It was such a bidding war it went from 739,500 asking to 805,000 sold price. Mama is gonna have monet in her pocket when I sell mine in two years.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-03-2022, 11:03 PM
Because the victims can't stand staying quiet haha !
Eventually being a nasty f$^k will catch up. It's just faster now that it there is always a connection.
No one can really do completely secretive movements anymore. Ha.
Creepy assholes are never on social media. It's not due to " liking privacy " . They fucked someone somewhere along the line hahaha.
Well I didn't want to say too much.
But pictures never lie. & Yes certain types of people don't share openly on social media because they don't want to get totally exposed on how they acted in the past. Not lifestyle wise but having a past full of bullying and dirty dirty deeds.
I will say most people I know had the lives they were supposed to......
PrincessQ
03-05-2022, 09:54 AM
I've been messing around with this guy and he's probably the biggest freak I've ever been with. All sorts of fetishes. I've never been into this before but started feeling comfortable with giving him rim jobs }:D I told one friend and she was totally disgusted so no point in telling others but more open minded peeps here!
indiegirl
03-05-2022, 11:17 AM
I've been messing around with this guy and he's probably the biggest freak I've ever been with. All sorts of fetishes. I've never been into this before but started feeling comfortable with giving him rim jobs }:D I told one friend and she was totally disgusted so no point in telling others but more open minded peeps here!
Eek I hold my breath for rim jobs and come up for air.. Stank is real and makes it gross even after a shower the odor is still there.
Kylie8585
03-05-2022, 11:24 AM
I've been messing around with this guy and he's probably the biggest freak I've ever been with. All sorts of fetishes. I've never been into this before but started feeling comfortable with giving him rim jobs }:D I told one friend and she was totally disgusted so no point in telling others but more open minded peeps here!
I was like the only person I knew that would always be down for this IF he was cleaned and hot of course. If we shower and I'm into him I'll usually venture there. Some guys like it some do not.
miss.a.p1600
03-05-2022, 11:36 AM
I did that shit (pun intended) ONCE and I was kind of traumatized so I won’t be doing it again (unless I’m getting paid WELL I mean life changing money)
After q night of partying (first time doing coke which by the way did NOTHING for me except fee comfortable enough to eat ass lol) I found myself nude with a guy I was dating. I start kissing him all over then next thing I know he lifts his legs up and I just kind of navigate THERE lol.
It was clean but it was hairy af and I couldn’t shake thr feeling that he might be closet gay or closet bisexual.
Never did it again after that experience and have no desire to
But to each their own!
Kylie8585
03-05-2022, 11:39 AM
I did that shit (pun intended) ONCE and I was kind of traumatized so I won’t be doing it again (unless I’m getting paid WELL I mean life changing money)
After q night of partying (first time doing coke which by the way did NOTHING for me except fee comfortable enough to eat ass lol) I found myself nude with a guy I was dating. I start kissing him all over then next thing I know he lifts his legs up and I just kind of navigate THERE lol.
It was clean but it was hairy af and I couldn’t shake thr feeling that he might be closet gay or closet bisexual.
Never did it again after that experience and have no desire to
But to each their own!
Now that you mention the closet bisexual I have been with a handful of bisexual guys and I feel like they are def the ones more into it. I just always feel like if they are super clean, after shower it's the least I can do because I enjoy it done to me. In fact it baffles me sometime when guys do it to me when they aren't expecting the same (shower time). I'm like thinking to myself "uh you even going to ask me or just gamble that I'm clean"? LOL
Dreamqueen
03-05-2022, 12:51 PM
I've been messing around with this guy and he's probably the biggest freak I've ever been with. All sorts of fetishes. I've never been into this before but started feeling comfortable with giving him rim jobs }:D I told one friend and she was totally disgusted so no point in telling others but more open minded peeps here!
I love it!
Better known as, "How I landed my first husband." :D Lol
My second husband I landed by fucking him with a strap on while he wore my lingerie.
Ha ha!
Never again!
No wonder I'm celibate.
carmen_b
03-05-2022, 01:02 PM
Not into stuff with dudes butts.
I’d probably change my stance if the $ was right haha.
I’d use a prop though hahaha.
LoveyD
03-05-2022, 05:35 PM
I was like the only person I knew that would always be down for this IF he was cleaned and hot of course. If we shower and I'm into him I'll usually venture there. Some guys like it some do not.
My crush likes doing this to me (and I always make sure I'm clean and if I'm not I tell him no) but he refuses to let me return the favor. He doesn't like being touched there and that's fine. Those are his boundaries.
charlie61
03-05-2022, 06:12 PM
I had a dream last night that i was going to school with indie haha
indiegirl
03-05-2022, 06:41 PM
I had a dream last night that i was going to school with indie haha
Hahaha loving this!!!
charlie61
03-05-2022, 07:01 PM
Hahaha loving this!!!
For real, hahaha. You were sitting in class talking about how all these men be wasting your time. I hope you know we're all rooting for you on here - school is going to be tough, but getting in and getting through those first few months is half the battle. Can't wait to see where you're at in 20 months!
indiegirl
03-05-2022, 07:40 PM
For real, hahaha. You were sitting in class talking about how all these men be wasting your time. I hope you know we're all rooting for you on here - school is going to be tough, but getting in and getting through those first few months is half the battle. Can't wait to see where you're at in 20 months!
Thank you! hahaha. I plan on many breakdowns haha!! LOL. It will feel like a dream in 20 months when it is over. I'd probably be like "Are you sure I graduated?" LOLLL
miss.a.p1600
03-05-2022, 09:08 PM
L wanted me to meet his dying grandmother with Alzheimers.....well not like she's going to remember this but okay.
She asks if we are married and he says not yet. Then she's like 'when is the wedding?' and he looks right back at me speechless.
Look mfs - quit asking him 'when is the wedding' (and making him even more thirsty for it than he already is)......hell!, can't a person just be engaged?? Damn!!!
miss.a.p1600
03-06-2022, 11:24 AM
I did my best to be chill about the territory invaders being over
Telling myself it’s only one overnight.
Now I’m out of that house (aka THE Hangout Spot for L’s kids) and feeling liberated and free.
No worries about being obligated to them when I don’t want to and hearing them talking loud as hell indoors.
Hanging out solo and doing ME :)
WendiStarr
03-06-2022, 12:49 PM
I clogged the toilet and couldn't find the plunger so I left it and told my oldest to use the other bathroom. BD went in the bathroom with the clogged toilet and I could hear him bitching up a storm and making all kinds of noise in there. I couldn't help but laugh, picturing shit dealing with shit. He couldn't remember where he put the plunger and I have no idea what he unclogged it with.
whirlerz
03-06-2022, 12:55 PM
Sometimes if you pour enough water down the toilet, it flushes.. I did this for the other bathroom using a big pot (I have my own) it wasn't clogged, but water level's high, they flush wipes even though I told em not to::)
indiegirl
03-07-2022, 08:50 AM
I’m glad I tested out if I should work Saturdays. It’s absolutely not possible to be on time on Monday. I’m too old to be trying to cram working along with school. I’m freaking late this morning. I’m thinking of just Thursday or Friday and that’s it.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-07-2022, 10:07 AM
L wanted me to meet his dying grandmother with Alzheimers.....well not like she's going to remember this but okay.
She asks if we are married and he says not yet. Then she's like 'when is the wedding?' and he looks right back at me speechless.
Look mfs - quit asking him 'when is the wedding' (and making him even more thirsty for it than he already is)......hell!, can't a person just be engaged?? Damn!!!
That is so sweet that you went to meet her.
My lame confession- I really miss my friend that ghosted me, but there is no point in pestering him- he works full time, is a single dad, and I know how to take a hint.
I hate living in such a church-goer oriented area. My views on organized religion alienate a lot of people even when I'm low-key about it. I've been trying to soften my approach......
carmen_b
03-07-2022, 10:43 AM
I feel like this is so essential if your partner is on a kick where they / kid(s) are just around the house constantly.
I did my best to be chill about the territory invaders being over
Telling myself it’s only one overnight.
Now I’m out of that house (aka THE Hangout Spot for L’s kids) and feeling liberated and free.
No worries about being obligated to them when I don’t want to and hearing them talking loud as hell indoors.
Hanging out solo and doing ME :)
miss.a.p1600
03-07-2022, 01:08 PM
That is so sweet that you went to meet her.
My lame confession- I really miss my friend that ghosted me, but there is no point in pestering him- he works full time, is a single dad, and I know how to take a hint.
I hate living in such a church-goer oriented area. My views on organized religion alienate a lot of people even when I'm low-key about it. I've been trying to soften my approach......
I miss friends that I've had to distance from too. It's crazy how most of my friends turn out to be the complete opposite of me regarding politics. I'll be friends a long time and I never know it until they start talking politics and I'm shaking my head (especially if they turn out to be extremists)
carmen_b
03-07-2022, 07:04 PM
I confess that I'm really glad these first few days back in town are school days.
Since we have J's daughter ( M-W ), those school hours are ultra helpful in this whole getting back / settled thing.
lynn2009
03-07-2022, 09:09 PM
I have been very slim for a long time without trying. I always thought I would like to gain some weight back but now that it's started, I have changed my mind. I'm really not sure why I lost so much weight naturally to start or why I've gained a little back. I think it may be eating better in general since I have the house now.
Savannah Lee
03-07-2022, 09:30 PM
I'm going on a 10 day trip to south america with the owner of the company I work for. Just started dating few months ago. Definitely the most unhinged thing I have ever done - maybe lol
Only my best friend knows
miss.a.p1600
03-08-2022, 09:27 AM
I wish L could be more like his brother and uncles. Men who were raised properly and know how to provide for their families.
L says he had an excellent mom.
Well, I hate to disappoint you but that woman was not excellent and had her flaws. She failed you by coddling you and treating you like a helpless baby well until the age she should have known better. She smothered you, barely held you accountable, and didn't raise you into a man like how she did for your brother.
indiegirl
03-10-2022, 08:52 AM
I'm lost with this new concept of people being in a fluid relationship. Isn't that like polyamory? I dunno if I'd be down unless it was purely for the guy to have sex with another specific woman so I wouldn't have to do it for him.
Apparently grimes welcomed her second child with Elon and is in a fluid relationship. Totally agree with her on the part where they live in separate houses (sounds like a dream not having to share a bed or hear snoring LOL)....but mehhh I wouldn't want some random lady around sharing that emotional relationship side with a guy I was seeing...
whirlerz
03-10-2022, 09:16 AM
Well, I have a fogger for roaches, I want to go use it next door, in the little house.. It's talking about shut off pilot lights & a whole bunch of stuff..
I used it before in the main house, I didn't do any of that, it was fine..I've powder stuff but it's messy, takes time.
This you just push the button, leave it, it sprays continously til it runs out.
When the couple had their party, like 10 pizza boxes were left in there, for a week??
Cause I saw them in the trash a week later. :yikes::yuck:
carmen_b
03-10-2022, 09:28 AM
Have you noticed though that guys with cash are obviously the ones with women being " ok " with the poly / fluidity thing ! The concept seems less successful for the average 30-50 k guy hahaha.
Ha. If there is enough to go around.
Contrary to belief we are not talking about the D either haha.
I'm lost with this new concept of people being in a fluid relationship. Isn't that like polyamory? I dunno if I'd be down unless it was purely for the guy to have sex with another specific woman so I wouldn't have to do it for him.
Apparently grimes welcomed her second child with Elon and is in a fluid relationship. Totally agree with her on the part where they live in separate houses (sounds like a dream not having to share a bed or hear snoring LOL)....but mehhh I wouldn't want some random lady around sharing that emotional relationship side with a guy I was seeing...
miss.a.p1600
03-10-2022, 11:12 AM
I'm lost with this new concept of people being in a fluid relationship. Isn't that like polyamory? I dunno if I'd be down unless it was purely for the guy to have sex with another specific woman so I wouldn't have to do it for him.
Apparently grimes welcomed her second child with Elon and is in a fluid relationship. Totally agree with her on the part where they live in separate houses (sounds like a dream not having to share a bed or hear snoring LOL)....but mehhh I wouldn't want some random lady around sharing that emotional relationship side with a guy I was seeing...
Damn another kid with him?!? She trying to secure those lifetime annuity payments lol.....
Anyways,
Elon Musk doesn't strike me as an emotional type dude so ladies can try to form emotional connections but it would be one sided. Doesn't that mf have like 11 kids and multiple baby moms?
I honestly don't think monogamy is sustainable for most men. (or some women)
Kudos to them for recognizing that and not trying to force themselves into the 'norms' of society. I've thought about how much happier / easier my relationship would be if L would take a side chick (a retired grandma who can help him with childcare & has ample social security checks to help him with his bills) and if I could take some side sugar daddies (since he refuses to take major action towards increasing his income)
Plus wealthy men 90% of the time are going to be philanderers anyways so why not have it out in the open so it can be monitored than having it go on unchecked behind your back?
And Trust me, sharing a space with a man is rough!!! I'd prefer separate wings or at least separate beds. Separate showers and toilets, etc.
carmen_b
03-10-2022, 11:13 AM
Right ?
Maybe men who can afford multiple girlfriends should just have them haha.
I remember telling my partner at the time during the Tiger Woods debacle that kings have always had harems throughout human history. It's a written part of our history.
Aurora_Sunset
03-10-2022, 08:57 PM
I can't believe I'm saying this, because I generally hate winter, but I hope we get one more good snow before spring officially settles in. I just can't stand that we only had one good snow the entire season, and the rest was just bullshit ice rain. That's not winter - that's horse crap.
Aurora_Sunset
03-10-2022, 09:01 PM
Ok, so bad, but we are finally at the point of "optional masking" for everyone at work, so my manager is finally not wearing a mask all the time. I guess he decided to use the opportunity to start growing some facial hair, and.... I'm sorry... but he was looking fucking fine today. Pretty sure he's like 8 or 9 years younger than me though lol
Aurora_Sunset
03-10-2022, 09:04 PM
I also faked my way entirely through work today. I'm supposed to call people up to the desk to "coach" them on errors, but 1) the majority of these errors the computer spits out are just stupid and everyone knows it, and 2) I didn't feel like arguing with people today who insist to the ends of the world that they've done nothing wrong, even when I'm not even telling them that they're in trouble or anything. So, I made some bullshit notes, and just hoped no one would notice that I didn't actually call anyone up. No one is really paying that close attention to what I'm doing in my little corner of the desk anyway, so they probably figured they just weren't seeing me have these short discussions.
At the end of the day, the woman who gets my report asked me to include more details of my non-existent "encounters." I was like, "Yeah, sure, I'll start doing that." lmao
Aurora_Sunset
03-11-2022, 07:50 AM
I bought a package of break-and-bake Toll House cookies, but I have no intention of actually baking them. I just periodically snap a few chunks off and eat them raw.
miss.a.p1600
03-11-2022, 08:27 AM
I confess, I play dead then laugh on the inside when I notice Bertha pinging L for unexpected childcare.
I’ll be damned if I do that shit for free.
Morrigan
03-11-2022, 01:18 PM
SO, Ive done this since 2013..more than a few here will remember those days XD. In the time I've grown, adapted, from really nothing to a very comfortable top 5 to 2% on my main platform (SP) and decent enough on the other less hands on ones, like OF.
Yet every single day I wake up and obsessively check my rankings ( and they can fluctuate 30 places or so with as little as 20$ earned ) and its pure anxiety and panic attacks wondering if this is the day it falls apart, is this ONE slow bad day ( like lastnight for me ) going to lead to another and another until i burn out and I'm down in the bottom thousands and it all goes away.
and yet nearly a decade I'm still here, bigger than i was ever before , but I'm constantly constantly dreading that inevitable fall and its getting worse the older i get - I'm going into full panic attacks lasting hours and daily even after i blow past my minimum goals .
indiegirl
03-11-2022, 03:38 PM
https://twitter.com/jonastheprince/status/1501939941747544064?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5 Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1501939941747544064%7Ctwgr% 5E%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tmz.com%2F2022%2F03%2F11 %2Fbrawl-manhattan-burberry-supreme-collaboration-clothing-release%2F
After seeing this video of people attacking each other over a Supreme x Burberry CLOTHING drop, black friday shootings/deaths, as well as people hoarding during a pandemic, I'm not going to the grocery store when the apocalypse or WW3 begins. It would be a bloodbath. I'd hoard at a CVS pharmacy store, fill up my tank, then go to petsmart because "Hey at least it's edible." Then I'd calmly take all my possessions needed into my garage with my car in there and let all the crazies kill each other while I wait it out in my garage with my dogs LOLLL. And if someone decides to figure out how to open my garage door, wellll the car has a reverse option.
I've put too much thought into this. Hahahahahaha! lol I'm ready for doomsday if it ends up happening.
LoveyD
03-11-2022, 04:10 PM
^^ I actually considered what I'd do if WW3 started. I would go to my storage unit. It's in a cement and steel building on the 2nd floor with no doors or windows.I'd see if I could hijack another unit and create it into a makeshift bathroom. I'd run my ass to the nearest store, stock up on essentials and canned goods, water and snacks . And I'd bring my son with me to save him from radiation. I'd head to a basement but it's rare to find a basement out here.
indiegirl
03-11-2022, 04:34 PM
^^ I actually considered what I'd do if WW3 started. I would go to my storage unit. It's in a cement and steel building on the 2nd floor with no doors or windows.I'd see if I could hijack another unit and create it into a makeshift bathroom. I'd run my ass to the nearest store, stock up on essentials and canned goods, water and snacks . And I'd bring my son with me to save him from radiation. I'd head to a basement but it's rare to find a basement out here.
That's incredibly smart!!! Plus the lower down you are with less air coming in is best if a nuclear blast went off. Less chance of radiation. Apparently people are rushing to buy iostat potassium iodide? I have at least 3 packs of them from when I was into the whole doomsday thing like 10 years ago haha. Never knew it could actually be put to use in my lifetime lol.
https://www.poynter.org/reporting-editing/2022/nuclear-war-fears-lead-to-a-rush-to-buy-potassium-iodide-pills/
LoveyD
03-11-2022, 09:00 PM
^^ I had a feeling this war was coming in November 2016 after the election. I prepped back then. Got canned goods and hazmat suits.
I may make emergency safety kits for my son and me with supplies we can use anyway. Plus a couple of lead blankets. I mean I took the time to think about this now bc I know of something were to happen, my brain would freeze. At least I have a plan in place. The first floor is outdoors, so it's pointless to hide there. But my unit is the next flight up in the center of the bldg. It's made of bricks, concrete and steel. I even talked to the storage guy when I was there the other day and he laughed. He said I was welcome to come hang if there was an emergency.