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miss.a.p1600
03-12-2022, 09:32 AM
I confess.

It’s great waking up in the morning in this house this weekend with peace, quiet, no obligations, no guilt trips. It’s spring break and thankfully there is no expectation to host them at this house all week long just the days he’s off work.

L is at work and his crumbsnatchers are with their mom (right where they belong).

Kudos to Bertha for doing her job taking care of her kids, paying her car note, finding childcare from HER family during her parenting time and not L or me. The bitch shouldn’t need accolades for doing what she is supposed to do anyways but I’m just glad she’s acting normal and not batshit crazy.

carmen_b
03-12-2022, 09:40 AM
Nice ! ^
See .... she CAN do it. Fully handle them on her days. Imagine that crazy idea.

miss.a.p1600
03-12-2022, 10:33 AM
Nice ! ^
See .... she CAN do it. Fully handle them on her days. Imagine that crazy idea.

Well her tax return money came in so she’s probably less stressed and less “I need money, not going to get much out of L, so instead I’m going to throw these kids off on their dad and whoever”

She might be back to her regular shenanigans after she’s blown through her money but I’ll just be thankful they’ve both simmered down for now.

I have asked him TWICE what his childcare obligations and plans and I’ve only noticed him off work for 2 days so if I see anything else to the contrary. I’ll be pulling a disappearing act.

miss.a.p1600
03-12-2022, 11:39 AM
^Maybe I jinxed myself. Lol.

He said those kids and his ex wife been pushing to come over this weekend.

He told them NO.

THANK YOU!!!!

Shit!

#holdberthaaccountable
#takecareofyourkidsbertha
#youbirthedthemyouraisethem
#ifyoupoppussyyouhandletheoutcomes

whirlerz
03-12-2022, 12:23 PM
Storages aren't going to let you live there..

LoveyD
03-12-2022, 02:54 PM
^^ I know, but I think in an emergency situation like a nuclear attack, they are ok if I hide in there for a bit.

whirlerz
03-12-2022, 03:36 PM
I'm going to ask, next time I go in there.

indiegirl
03-14-2022, 03:57 AM
^^ I know, but I think in an emergency situation like a nuclear attack, they are ok if I hide in there for a bit.

https://youtu.be/HPVCTLPNUzo
Remember this guy who lived in a storage unit for 2 months lol!!

LoveyD
03-14-2022, 01:00 PM
^^ If I could live in my storage, I would lol! It's a decent size and I'd have plenty of quiet.

whirlerz
03-14-2022, 01:46 PM
I kinda lived in one, I slept there a couple times, nowadays, they don't allow 24/7 access..

My one place did, for some, the Mgr at the time discouraged me, said there were dangerous types there late night.

Last time I asked, they said no.

indiegirl
03-14-2022, 02:10 PM
I kinda lived in one, I slept there a couple times, nowadays, they don't allow 24/7 access..

My one place did, for some, the Mgr at the time discouraged me, said there were dangerous types there late night.

Last time I asked, they said no.

yep! Most of them have hours nowadays and they lock them.

I read an article that because the gas prices are so high people were breaking into other peoples cars and stealing gas! Some people are scary in the world. I don’t understand people like this. Karma is gonna come and rear it’s ugly head for them in this lifetime or the next.

LoveyD
03-14-2022, 02:58 PM
^^Another reason I'm grateful for safe parking. That shit wouldn't fly! Lol

baer45
03-14-2022, 09:01 PM
I am in extreme self-blaming at the moment.

A past customer introduced a wealthy lady to me. She's looking for a house in a nice area.
I took her to the property showing that just came up to the market and she immediately fell in love with the house. It's perfect for her and her kids. So I did all my research. what I found was the properties in that area usually had about 10% price increase when they were sold. Not a single property priced above 1.5M was sold more than 10% increase in the past 3 years.

When we actually submitted the offer, I used the 15% price increase over the asking price which is 2.2M. The buyer told me that she's willing to offer 2.35M and beyond. But she trusted me.
I talked to the seller's agent and told her that we would like to have a best and final offer if anyone beats our offer. The seller's agent told me: I know, you got it.

Yesterday, I talked to the seller's agent again. She confirmed that our offer was the top offer. The buyer really loves the house and suggested that we could increase our offer to 2.3M because the other buyers would like the house too. But I believed that we will have the chance to increase our offer if ours is beaten since the seller's agent was very certain about it.

Today, I contacted the agent again three hour before the deadline for submitting offers. She told me:" I have 4 offers on my desk and expect 3 more offers. But you guys are good. I will talk to you soon". I thought everything was under control.

How wrong was I!
We didn't get the house. The seller's agent told me that my 2.2M was the highest offer until the last offer (8th) came in and the seller instructed her not to approach me for the best and final offer.

I just can't tell you how stupid, stupid, stupid I felt. Not only I screwed up a nice commission, I also prevented the buyer from making her best effort.
I cried after I delivered the bad news to the buyer. How could I be so stupid? I've been sitting here for hours now. Stupid stupid me!

carmen_b
03-14-2022, 09:16 PM
^ It can vary by state.
In mine in a " best and final " situation we can not hint ( legally anyway ) about who is " on top " . :/
So that needs to be done very discreetly only if you personally know the agent on the other side.
Many get lost that way and I wouldn't beat yourself up about it !
You'll find her the one . :)

With the seller mentioning not to approach you though .... I wonder what was up with that ? :/

Will your client get in position as a back up offer just in case ? I'm sure you've already thought of that obviously.

baer45
03-14-2022, 09:24 PM
^ It can vary by state.
In mine in a " best and final " situation we can not hint ( legally anyway ) about who is " on top " . :/
So that needs to be done very discreetly only if you personally know the agent on the other side.
Many get lost that way and I wouldn't beat yourself up about it !
You'll find her the one . :)

With the seller mentioning not to approach you though .... I wonder what was up with that ? :/

It was just a normal situation at first. I asked her for a best and final offer opportunity if my offer was beaten. She hinted that I would have that chance.

The seller was referring to "me" as the 2nd highest offer. They didn't want to give me the chance.

I really thought our offer was good from the market research.

carmen_b
03-14-2022, 09:26 PM
^ I bet this client will find something with you soon. :)

baer45
03-14-2022, 09:27 PM
^ I bet this client will find something with you soon. :)

I know she will be okay since she has multiple properties over the world. I just couldn't get over how stupid I was. Plus, I would find another agent if I were her.

baer45
03-14-2022, 09:36 PM
Will your client get in position as a back up offer just in case ? I'm sure you've already thought of that obviously.

Yes. #1 back up spot.
But you know, people who can make an offer for those properties. They don't need mortgage. At least my client doesn't. So as a back up offer means nothing.

miss.a.p1600
03-16-2022, 08:01 AM
I confess that I don’t like dealing with kids more than 2 hours.

And sometimes I wished my partner didn’t have kids.

Im never mean to kids in fact kids usually like me but I realize now that I’m not the best kid friendly type person.

carmen_b
03-16-2022, 08:23 AM
^ I have been struggling too this week.

I do A LOT better on school days and during shorter durations ( 3 day visits v.s. this one which was 4 ).

My family is in town this weekend and J was like " oh should I ask daughters Mom if I can have her Sunday so we get an extra day with niece and nephew? NOPE ...... school is out next Monday the 20th ( teacher prep wtf ) so that full day is plenty of time for them all to get together.
Lets have her as planned M - W ( two of which are school days ).

I really can not even complain. If I remember right her Mom had her 10 days straight for early Feb. ( covid ) and then didn't even ask for extra time from us. Her Mom had her 8 days for J's travel to the East Coast in early March and only asked for a couple extra days. :/

I think part of my problem is that I had a feeling dancing $ would be good and I feel like I missed out this week ( on March Madness $ ) . I had an injury and knew it wouldn't be smart to push my body. I felt stuck. I know that I prefer to get out of town ( or just go to my AirBnB a couple days but it was full ) during the 4 days visits.

baer45
03-16-2022, 08:39 AM
Some people just assume if you are a woman, you are good with kids or know how to handle them.

carmen_b
03-16-2022, 08:43 AM
^ OR that you want to !

I have enjoyed getting to know J's daughter but the time involved has been mitigated ( I didn't throw ALL my time and energy into the project ) . Typically I spend about 50% of the time with them and 50% of the time during the visits out doing my solo things.
I knew it would all implode very quickly if I hadn't actively done the schedule that way.

indiegirl
03-17-2022, 10:02 AM
Kinda laughed when my mom was bitching before retirement that she was too old to work and wanted to retire. I knew she wouldn't last because she enjoys feeling needed by people and she gets bored relaxing. She now is out of retirement working 8 hours a day in the OR. I laughed inside when she told me over the phone "she needs to make money" .....SHE has a retirement fund and a paid off house over head?! But anyways, when I went over to her place when the internet at my place was out, her now husband said, "I don't know why she's even working? I told her that she is completely taken care of."
Hahaha I knew it.

Totally don't get that mindset. I would be living out my best life enjoying trips, going on hikes, self care, reading books, etc. Working until the day you die sounds awful.

miss.a.p1600
03-17-2022, 04:51 PM
I am so glad those kids are going back where they belong…..with their mom

I heard his youngest kid “aww dad do we have to leave?”

Thank goodness he flat out told them YES BECAUSE I HAVE TO WORK

I refuse to be free entertainment, have those kids invading my space, and having to be obligated to them for an entire week.

No ma’am.

Bertha come get ya damn kids and make other arrangements for the remainder of the break!

chanzep
03-17-2022, 04:56 PM
Same if I had enough money to retire I would. I love not working lol.

carmen_b
03-18-2022, 08:26 AM
I relate.
Ha.
Very glad to be in the 4 day range of just me and dude. :)


I am so glad those kids are going back where they belong…..with their mom

I heard his youngest kid “aww dad do we have to leave?”

Thank goodness he flat out told them YES BECAUSE I HAVE TO WORK

I refuse to be free entertainment, have those kids invading my space, and having to be obligated to them for an entire week.

No ma’am.

Bertha come get ya damn kids and make other arrangements for the remainder of the break!

LoveyD
03-18-2022, 10:25 AM
I love how my guy and I text each other and just tell each other what we want to do to/with another sexually. We have no filters when it comes to this stuff. I can't wait to see him again.

miss.a.p1600
03-18-2022, 06:21 PM
I asked L if he wanted me to go with him to see his dying grandmother again.

I feel bad but I don’t really like seeing people wither away.

They don’t know you’re there, they are incapacitated, and it seems like what is the point traumatizing myself watching people die.

I feel like he should be with her one on one if he wants.

whirlerz
03-19-2022, 11:09 AM
My poor crushie.. He lost his phone, I tried calling him to help but it went straight to voice mail..

I saw a note he wrote the LL & I snagged it to analyze his handwriting, I know, I'm nuts

miss.a.p1600
03-20-2022, 03:13 PM
I accidentally hit myself in the vagina. Ouch!

charlie61
03-20-2022, 03:25 PM
Can't stand the mansplaining that happens in threads like in that Fitness thread we have going. I know I'm annoying and opinionated sometimes, but i feel like the men on this board are on a different level.

indiegirl
03-20-2022, 08:34 PM
My bucket of 4 gallons of beans arrived and so did the plastic sheeting to duct tape all openings around windows and doors. If WW3 goes down, it's gonna be full of fresh farts.

whirlerz
03-21-2022, 09:00 AM
Can't stand the mansplaining that happens in threads like in that Fitness thread we have going. I know I'm annoying and opinionated sometimes, but i feel like the men on this board are on a different level.

I never thought of you as annoying/opinionated, ever!

I like to read to read what you have to say! :)

I have yet to read the exercise thread, men's & women's fitness are different, as our bodies are

whirlerz
03-21-2022, 09:11 AM
My bucket of 4 gallons of beans arrived and so did the plastic sheeting to duct tape all openings around windows and doors. If WW3 goes down, it's gonna be full of fresh farts.

Lol!

Question, is the plastic for insulation?
I actually bought some too, along w/that thick tape that's used around doors.. Never installed it.
I generally do that for winter only, I have left it up year round.

WendiStarr
03-21-2022, 07:00 PM
I'm waiting for my 2 year old to go to sleep so that I can go silently cry in the bathroom. I hate BD and his selfishness. I hate being stuck here with no car, a cell phone with a broken speaker, and doing everything with no appreciation from anyone whatsoever. I dream of leaving the state with the kids and starting over somewhere new. I'd not waste any more time trying to find love with a man or on any men at all unless they're paying customers.

indiegirl
03-21-2022, 11:08 PM
Lol!

Question, is the plastic for insulation?
I actually bought some too, along w/that thick tape that's used around doors.. Never installed it.
I generally do that for winter only, I have left it up year round.

I was thinking if it was a nuclear war and there was radiation fallout I'd use the plastic and duct tape to keep all the new air from outside coming in. I read something about that online once. Ukraine is on day 26 holding out in a war zone.

They are some tough cookies over there. Are the grocery stores even open or are they looted by now by those who stayed behind?

miss.a.p1600
03-22-2022, 12:36 PM
Sometimes I wish I had a dick for a day so that I could know what vagina feels like.

whirlerz
03-22-2022, 01:40 PM
I'm waiting for my 2 year old to go to sleep so that I can go silently cry in the bathroom. I hate BD and his selfishness. I hate being stuck here with no car, a cell phone with a broken speaker, and doing everything with no appreciation from anyone whatsoever. I dream of leaving the state with the kids and starting over somewhere new. I'd not waste any more time trying to find love with a man or on any men at all unless they're paying customers.

Aw, my dear Wendi, I am so sorry my Love!
I so wish I could have you & your girls stay w/me!

I'm going to pray extra hard for you honey, Hugs!

Aurora_Sunset
03-23-2022, 01:20 PM
I put down an entire 2-liter of Coke by myself in less than 24 hours. Ugh, too much. No more soda for awhile.

Aurora_Sunset
03-23-2022, 01:37 PM
I may just stop trying with one of my friends... He's been great at times in the past, but talking to him on the phone today made me realize why I avoid talking to him very often. He's just so judgmental and opinionated about everything going on in everybody else's life. He can't hear a single story about some frustration someone's going through without turning it into judge-y, unsolicited advice. He's also the kind of person who will then get super pissed if you don't take his unasked-for advice. For reference, he's a therapist. I'm never gonna make friends with anyone who says they're a therapist ever again.

When I told him my best friend's mom passed away last week, his only response was, "Oh, ok." Didn't even ask what happened. Then he launched into a rant about how he had unfriended my friend from FB awhile ago (and this friend has had multiple new FB accounts since then because she keeps locking herself out so I'm sure it's not as though she's noticed or cares lol), because he doesn't like her. Ok... thanks for letting me know...

Aurora_Sunset
03-23-2022, 01:48 PM
I washed the bed sheets 2 days ago and still haven't made the bed. The cats are always on it, and I don't feel like shooing them off lol

indiegirl
03-23-2022, 07:41 PM
I don't know how vanilla people survive. I am constantly have to pay for repair fees or bills and they always cost in the hundreds but lately has been thousands. Hurray I came home excited to be done with school today to come home to blood all on the floor from my dogs nail being ripped at the top. There's no vet available to take him now. So he has to wait it out until I ambush call a bunch of vets in the morning to squeeze him in. It's gonna cost hundreds of bucks as usual. I HATE spending money.

trustfundkiller
03-24-2022, 06:37 AM
I may just stop trying with one of my friends... He's been great at times in the past, but talking to him on the phone today made me realize why I avoid talking to him very often. He's just so judgmental and opinionated about everything going on in everybody else's life. He can't hear a single story about some frustration someone's going through without turning it into judge-y, unsolicited advice. He's also the kind of person who will then get super pissed if you don't take his unasked-for advice. For reference, he's a therapist. I'm never gonna make friends with anyone who says they're a therapist ever again.

When I told him my best friend's mom passed away last week, his only response was, "Oh, ok." Didn't even ask what happened. Then he launched into a rant about how he had unfriended my friend from FB awhile ago (and this friend has had multiple new FB accounts since then because she keeps locking herself out so I'm sure it's not as though she's noticed or cares lol), because he doesn't like her. Ok... thanks for letting me know...
I honestly think some people become therapists because they like feeling superior to other people's drama.

miss.a.p1600
03-24-2022, 08:55 AM
I don't know how vanilla people survive. I am constantly have to pay for repair fees or bills and they always cost in the hundreds but lately has been thousands. Hurray I came home excited to be done with school today to come home to blood all on the floor from my dogs nail being ripped at the top. There's no vet available to take him now. So he has to wait it out until I ambush call a bunch of vets in the morning to squeeze him in. It's gonna cost hundreds of bucks as usual. I HATE spending money.

They don’t pay for their expensive habits.

My brother owned a dog he couldn’t afford and when the dog started getting sick he refused to take it to the vet so he could avoid bills. The dog ended up dying. Not sure if if was the lack of preventative care or the dog would have died regardless.

It’s sad because he should have never kept a pet he could not comfortably afford

But I think people on limited amount of money acquire things, pets, etc because the one time fee is manageable but when major or ongoing shit starts popping up, they simply ignore till they can’t ignore anymore.

miss.a.p1600
03-24-2022, 08:57 AM
I put down an entire 2-liter of Coke by myself in less than 24 hours. Ugh, too much. No more soda for awhile.

I once at an entire box of Krispy Kreme donuts in one day.

had to be a good 5000+ calories and fat and 200 grams of white sugar

but It was soooooo good.

miss.a.p1600
03-24-2022, 08:59 AM
Can't stand the mansplaining that happens in threads like in that Fitness thread we have going. I know I'm annoying and opinionated sometimes, but i feel like the men on this board are on a different level.

Precisely why those jokers should be charged to even respond.

carmen_b
03-24-2022, 09:54 AM
J called me out for hiding a bit when his sister was here which admittedly I did.

I am not even sure why it bothers me so much to have an extra person in the house a couple days.
I think a main factor is it throws off our routine. It extends bedtime for his daughter ( because it's a "special " thing ) and then cuts out the hour or so we have for each other at the end of the day usually starting around 8:45. It's only a couple of days but feels really "off" .
I guess you can't really tell a house guest "go away please at 9 - 10 p.m. this is our time ". :/
I bought groceries and cooked a meal but admittedly didn't see them too much other than that meal. I do kind of see what he is saying.
I had such a bad cold and just wanted to rest.

I think I judge her a little for being overweight but she seems to be trying. Every time we have seen her the last 3-4 times it was her " cheat day " ( yeah right ) but this time she wasn't dragging high calorie food around.

I felt like everyone was entertained enough yesterday.
I felt like I could go relax after dinner.
Ugh ..... he said something. I feel guilty now. :(

whirlerz
03-24-2022, 10:16 AM
I don't know how vanilla people survive. I am constantly have to pay for repair fees or bills and they always cost in the hundreds but lately has been thousands. Hurray I came home excited to be done with school today to come home to blood all on the floor from my dogs nail being ripped at the top. There's no vet available to take him now. So he has to wait it out until I ambush call a bunch of vets in the morning to squeeze him in. It's gonna cost hundreds of bucks as usual. I HATE spending money.

Aww, poor doggo!
Hope you can get him taken care of!

indiegirl
03-24-2022, 11:54 AM
Aww, poor doggo!
Hope you can get him taken care of!

This veterinarian is so much nicer than my last place. Usually it is a 4 hour time span out of my day and I was in and out within in the hour. It cost 335 bucks and I have to bring him back next week just to check if everything is a-okay. He's in his cone of shame right now LOL!

https://i.ibb.co/wczjGrT/66984075256-AFD89624-4840-4-A10-ADB6-528-E83-A4-FB7-C.jpg (https://ibb.co/RjDdr41)

whirlerz
03-24-2022, 12:08 PM
This veterinarian is so much nicer than my last place. Usually it is a 4 hour time span out of my day and I was in and out within in the hour. It cost 335 bucks and I have to bring him back next week just to check if everything is a-okay. He's in his cone of shame right now LOL!

https://i.ibb.co/wczjGrT/66984075256-AFD89624-4840-4-A10-ADB6-528-E83-A4-FB7-C.jpg (https://ibb.co/RjDdr41)

Wow yes vets are high, I previously had bunnies so not much vet bills, (the one had to have teeth trimmed tho).

He's a Cutie!