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carmen_b
03-24-2022, 02:45 PM
^ Poor Baby in his cone! :(

Dreamqueen
03-24-2022, 09:41 PM
My bucket of 4 gallons of beans arrived and so did the plastic sheeting to duct tape all openings around windows and doors. If WW3 goes down, it's gonna be full of fresh farts.

I love it!
I've been a 'prepper' for several years.
After surviving ( luckily), earthquakes, fires, floods, hurricanes, snow storm power outages, I knew it was time before my luck ran out.

Last Sept the power went out due to a transformer being hit by a car.
It was 113 degrees.
Guess who still had a.c. and refrigeration, while all the neighbors were running around panicking?
My portable generator saved the day.
I'm also stocked up on food, because the prepper channels that I follow warned about food shortages, a YEAR ago.
I'm all alone in the world.
Nobody's coming.
Nobody.

indiegirl
03-25-2022, 01:27 PM
There are little uber lyft drivers. Plan accordingly. Nearest one is 25 minutes away. for 50 dollars. THANK YOU world.

indiegirl
03-26-2022, 02:50 PM
When a driver tells me I am so entertaining and I'm just being casual. Hoe life is so different than most expect. I didn't even talk about ho-ing.

miss.a.p1600
03-27-2022, 09:18 AM
I can’t wait for those kids to head back to Berthas house.

My threshold for dealing with kids is capped out.

Genoveve
03-27-2022, 09:46 AM
I can’t wait for those kids to head back to Berthas house.

My threshold for dealing with kids is capped out.

Why don’t you go somewhere when they come over?

indiegirl
03-27-2022, 11:10 AM
Man visiting from Italy wants to see me again before he goes back and he even wrote me a review. I feel like an angry mother in a candy shop when men write me reviews "Stop it!" lollll. I don't like reviews. For the ladies who provide discounts for reviews......WHAT are you thinking?!?! Gurrll I don't want reviews neither should you!

Random side note.....I have 555 notecards for my midterm I need to go through once again by Tuesday morning. I just wanna throw up at this point knowing the extent I have to go through for my degree.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-27-2022, 12:15 PM
He finally figured out that when I say I want jewelry, that means I want J.E.W.E.L.R.Y!!! I told him this just before Christmas and then got a $300 Bluetooth headset for gaming instead. We're both into techie type stuff but I had to remind him once again you're married to a girly tomboy. Why are you acting like you don't know me? Valentine's Day comes around and what does he get me? A Spotify bracelet with our wedding song!!!! Sooo I had to enlist his mother for my birthday because it was getting ridiculous and I was about to go to the courthouse (kidding). I've been getting gifts everyday for a week now. It really does pay to maintain a healthy relationship with your in-laws because you don't just marry the person, no it's the entire family. Unless of course they're all toxic and dysfunctional. ☺️

Aurora_Sunset
03-27-2022, 12:21 PM
*sigh* I've been trying to be there hardcore for my best friend since her mom died, but she's kinda back to doing her same shit of not doing very basic/simple but important shit for no real reason, and now she's put herself in a bad situation. Her passport and driver's license expired around the same time. I offered multiple times to drive her to the BMV or wherever she needed to go to just renew her forms of ID, and she would just blow me off and blow off the task multiple times. Now, they're expired. She has no other form of identification. She knew she didn't. And she'll have to wait 8-ish weeks to get new copies of her birth certificate and social security card now. So, how is she going to get a job now? She won't. She'll be stuck not working and not making any headway on even finding a job for 2 more months, when she hasn't been working in over 2 years and needs to start making money to pay for this apartment by herself now.

Like.... why wouldn't she just go to the fucking BMV when her passport could still be her form of identification for getting a new license? She had multiple people offering to take her. Would have taken a couple hours in the afternoon. She's been stepping up to deal with so much other stuff, it drives me crazy that she wouldn't do this one simple thing that she NEEDED to do. She pretty much admitted that this is her chance to actually get her shit together, because if she ends up moving in with her dad, she knows she'll never really "launch" on her own and just be a "loser" for the rest of her life. I really hope she figures something out.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-27-2022, 12:22 PM
I love it!
I've been a 'prepper' for several years.
After surviving ( luckily), earthquakes, fires, floods, hurricanes, snow storm power outages, I knew it was time before my luck ran out.

Last Sept the power went out due to a transformer being hit by a car.
It was 113 degrees.
Guess who still had a.c. and refrigeration, while all the neighbors were running around panicking?
My portable generator saved the day.
I'm also stocked up on food, because the prepper channels that I follow warned about food shortages, a YEAR ago.
I'm all alone in the world.
Nobody's coming.
Nobody.

To be honest I'm not that sure what you mean here? I personally prefer Uber to Lyft because I've learned that Uber screens better. Because some of my medicines cause dizziness I now find it easier to sometimes book rides instead of driving.

miss.a.p1600
03-27-2022, 12:35 PM
Why don’t you go somewhere when they come over?

I usually delay my entrance and try to exit for “work” when I’m not in the mood.

The problem is he is big on doing everything together ‘as a family’ and he is getting savvy to my strategically timed “disappearances” and tries to run guilt trips then I end up pity inviting him and his kids along on what is supposed to be my solo times.

I’m trying to permanently extricate myself so I don’t have to be obligated at all if I don’t want to and so no deep attachments are formed making it easier to leave.

carmen_b
03-27-2022, 12:38 PM
^ I was wondering how your updates were going.

Today I was out the first two hours of the visit and plan to 50/50 ish the next 6 .
Yikes ...... 6 hours ha.
I hate days when school isn't in session ( which isn't many with his schedule ).
Then occasionally boom there one is.
School days are so much easier ..... 3:30 - 8 p.m. is cake .

That's too bad L likes doing everything as a family ..... for him haha.
Take your time and don't feel bad.
Experts say the parents should have one on one time with the kids anyway.
He should not be afraid on spending time with just his kids.

kimbe
03-27-2022, 12:51 PM
Confessing I'm lazy this weekend, tanning outdoor today as well. :)

carmen_b
03-27-2022, 12:52 PM
^ Only in the last few days has it been nice enough too and it's been amazing !!

kimbe
03-27-2022, 12:55 PM
^Yup, love it when the warm weather arrived! Seems like it'll worsen during the week though. :(

miss.a.p1600
03-27-2022, 12:56 PM
Lazy day for me also…..

Self-care for Sunday means doing nothing but reading …. And reviewing stripper webs

Genoveve
03-27-2022, 01:41 PM
I usually delay my entrance and try to exit for “work” when I’m not in the mood.

The problem is he is big on doing everything together ‘as a family’ and he is getting savvy to my strategically timed “disappearances” and tries to run guilt trips then I end up pity inviting him and his kids along on what is supposed to be my solo times.

I’m trying to permanently extricate myself so I don’t have to be obligated at all if I don’t want to and so no deep attachments are formed making it easier to leave.

Are you saying you’re planning on leaving him? Easier for who to leave? If it’s for him I personally wouldn’t care about it being easier for him, the longer you are together the harder it’s going to be for him anyway. But I am the queen of leaving and have been the one who has ended all of my relationships. I am a ‘rip off the bandaid’ kind of person because I cannot stand any unhappiness or anxiety.

Why does he guilt trip you for ‘working’ though? He knows you’re lying?

carmen_b
03-27-2022, 02:08 PM
^ It could be getting too much into your business haha but I'm curious too .

Delaying seems like it could potentially be worse plus then this poor dude also *thinks* he is kind of holding it together ....... but you are just biding time.

I could be totally off !

Is the delay some sort of fear that he will react and then you'll need to get out FAST ?

Genoveve
03-27-2022, 04:39 PM
I suppose I don’t want him using those kids to guilt trip me into staying. If I don’t get attached to kids and vice versa by limiting my interactions with them then it will be easier.

you are right the longer it goes on the harder it is so that’s why it has to be done soon

i think he is getting a clue that I am saying I’m working when I’m not actually working and just want to be alone but he doesn’t understand because he thinks I should be overjoyed to spend every waking moment with him and his kids

It doesn’t sound like you can stand them so I don’t think you getting too attached to them to where you can’t bear to leave will be hard, especially since they seem like a huge part of why you want to leave in the first place?

Honestly though, IF there is some major benefit to staying with him, from what you’re saying it doesn’t sound like it would be hard to just run the situation to your choosing. Like he sounds like he has zero backbone. Not only does he apparently know you’re lying to him to get away from him and the kids, but he also apparently does not find you lying to get away from him and the kids to be a dealbreaker or anything bad enough for him to at least even confront you over. All he does is guilt-trip you over his suspicions, and then YOU capitulate. I would just not capitulate, or I would not even bother to lie about working and tell him ‘look I’m doing XYZ instead and that’s that’ or I would get better at lying about going to work.

miss.a.p1600
03-27-2022, 04:54 PM
It’s not them per say just the uncomfortableness of sharing my space with kids and the other obligations that I’m not used to, and not adapting to well.

The main benefit for me is building my economic standing more quickly than I can solo - even if it is just slightly - so I can maintain a higher standard when I leave.

The economics and the mindset of these people, not necessarily the kids, is why I want to leave. I’m focused on career opportunities, I’m fairly ambitious and I prefer a man who can match or exceed me in that realm. Living with L has me realizing he’s missing some of the qualities I desire in a long term marital relationship. Idk if he will improve in these areas in a timely fashion

The ladies here have definitely helped me get a lot better at setting my boundaries. I’m taking in all the feedback and realizing where I need to improve in relationships communication etc.

carmen_b
03-27-2022, 05:00 PM
+ 1 in saying you shouldn't have to LIE and just say " working " because you deserve other time ( solo outings / friends outings ) ect. !
It should be no problem to say you are doing what you want ( v.s. lying ) .
I mean .... a little lie to save an hour is one thing ..... but chronic " this is work lying " might be touch after a bit.

I think it's about balance. Are you not really seeing the kids at all ? Like even 2-3 hours a week ?

carmen_b
03-27-2022, 05:03 PM
^ Every situation is so different.
I feel in a "blah" phase too with my situation even though I have the flex to be out when I want / spend time with them when I want.
BUT ..... that flex would only go so far.
If I completely avoided them both during every hour of the visits ..... it wouldn't go well.
From my partners perspective .... if I didn't give ANY time .... that could be pretty shitty.

carmen_b
03-27-2022, 05:13 PM
^ I've been thinking about this a lot too. I feel like my quality of life is lowered any time J's daughter is around which I 100% knew at the beginning might " come up " as an issue! It's not even lowered *that* much either. Like today for example we all went out and had dinner. He's spoiling us both ha. It's just a real representation of self talk because I was thinking earlier " I'm not sure I love my life today " . I don't really think those thoughts on our kid free days. This is just an honest example of a harder to deal with day. The day was not even stressful. It was more in my mind. She entertained herself for hours , then dinner, now I'll watch tv upstairs / they will watch kid shows downstairs.

One thing I realized today was that my quality of life is REALLY lowered if both his daughter and sister are around. So much so that I'm setting rules next time the sister is coming OR leaving for a hotel / my AirBnB ect. ! I'm not 100% sure I'm going to let it slide ( how the last visit went ) but I don't think it's worth circling asap. Next time I will ask if he plans to have the day flow the same way ...... so I can leave if we are still expected to entertain a house guest after 9:30 p.m.

^ I may come back and delete.
Just a perspective .... no household or situation is perfect you know ?

Genoveve
03-27-2022, 05:13 PM
^^^Well I have nothing against lying LOL. My impression from her posts(correct me if I’m wrong because I haven’t been following closely) is that this is an older dude that she is only trying to get with for money, and those kinds of relationships usually go both ways; it’s advantageous for each partner. In other words they’re using each other.

As far as him lacking certain qualities and wondering if he will develop them in a timely fashion—no. He’s not. If he’s over 30 I feel like there’s a 97% chance that who he is as a person is set in stone.

When you talk about being with him to improve your economic standing, are you saying that you’re able to stack more of your own money while he pays your bills? Shit I would just keep stacking while running my own show in the relationship for as long as he would tolerate or until I found a better situation. I know that sounds callous but like I said this doesn’t seem like a genuine, loving relationship.

miss.a.p1600
03-28-2022, 08:01 AM
The house is empty…..finally……Yasssss!

Now it’s got me SERIOUSLY thinking about about all the ways I can earn more money like starting a secret onlyfans

I’m going to enjoy this and walk around nude and film myself for my private archives until I decide to ‘release the nudes’ for profit.

indiegirl
03-28-2022, 03:19 PM
I thought WW3 was starting because the train that never goes by near my house randomly flew by loudly. I was thinking "Is this the battle call!?!?!" Hahaha I'm so stupid hahaha.

Genoveve
03-28-2022, 03:43 PM
The house is empty…..finally……Yasssss!

Now it’s got me SERIOUSLY thinking about about all the ways I can earn more money like starting a secret onlyfans

I’m going to enjoy this and walk around nude and film myself for my private archives until I decide to ‘release the nudes’ for profit.

I definitely wouldn't count on Onlyfans, it's not lucrative for most people. Unless you have a really big following or look like a 14 on a scale of 1-10(or both) you're probably not going to be able to stack money off of just selling pics and videos of you walking around naked. Start camming or doing phone sex.

LoveyD
03-28-2022, 05:10 PM
It's raining so I took the day off. Had a nice nap. I don't like doing delivery in the rain bc God forbid I get in a wreck.

Locked my keys in my car last night at safe parking. Thank God I had roadside assistance come out and get me back in. The safe parking people were very kind and lent me their phone so I could call my insurance company. They are so helpful and cool.

Aurora_Sunset
03-28-2022, 08:21 PM
The number one thing I look forward to these days is my every-other-Tuesday facetime chat with a good friend who lives hours away. I would chat every night, but obviously, we both have more than that to do lol

LoveyD
03-29-2022, 07:12 AM
Ugh I woke up with a slight headache and am feeling mild ickyness. I'm gonna take a covid test before shopping today.

moneybags
03-29-2022, 07:48 AM
^^^get well soon. Could be allergies or a regular cold-let’s hope.

My confession is I feel like a teenage boy. I tried self pleasuring, but I’m still hot and ready. I wish I wasn’t horny all the time!

LoveyD
03-29-2022, 08:08 AM
Thank you ^^ now I feel fine. Must have just been a waking up thing. My covid test is negative, too.

Secret Shelly
03-29-2022, 08:14 AM
^^^get well soon. Could be allergies or a regular cold-let’s hope.

My confession is I feel like a teenage boy. I tried self pleasuring, but I’m still hot and ready. I wish I wasn’t horny all the time!

Welcome to my world, too

moneybags
03-29-2022, 08:46 AM
Welcome to my world, too

Must be my karma for teasing men all my life.

WendiStarr
03-29-2022, 10:06 AM
I bought a balconette bra that I totally didn't need but after watching Bridgerton season 2 I wanted it.

whirlerz
03-29-2022, 10:09 AM
I bought a balconette bra that I totally didn't need but after watching Bridgerton season 2 I wanted it.

I just love those!
I don't see them often..

ravenskyy
03-29-2022, 11:02 AM
I'm so tired of having to fight and be the strong one all the time. I'm tired of defending others and protecting them, when nobody does that for me. I'm tired of having to be the fixer, the leader and the hero, in all of my relationships. Just once, I want someone to take care of me. I want to be protected. I want to be defended. I want someone to be strong and fight for me. I want to be loved, the way I love. I want to be cared for, in the same way that I care for others. I want someone to be considerate of my feelings and needs. I want someone that's thoughtful when they give gifts, like I would be for them. I want someone to be my hero. Just once, I want to be saved.

I want to cry so bad, but my makeup looks fantastic and I don't wanna mess it up.

whirlerz
03-29-2022, 02:27 PM
Aw, I'm so sorry Ravenskky, I hope you find someone, I know you will!

moneybags
03-29-2022, 03:06 PM
I'm so tired of having to fight and be the strong one all the time. I'm tired of defending others and protecting them, when nobody does that for me. I'm tired of having to be the fixer, the leader and the hero, in all of my relationships. Just once, I want someone to take care of me. I want to be protected. I want to be defended. I want someone to be strong and fight for me. I want to be loved, the way I love. I want to be cared for, in the same way that I care for others. I want someone to be considerate of my feelings and needs. I want someone that's thoughtful when they give gifts, like I would be for them. I want someone to be my hero. Just once, I want to be saved.

I want to cry so bad, but my makeup looks fantastic and I don't wanna mess it up.

Are you a light worker? The light worker’s journey isn’t easy. I’m sorry. I feel like source loves and protects me. I don’t expect that from other people-only “God”

indiegirl
03-29-2022, 06:27 PM
https://i.ibb.co/vVkTSJT/Screen-Shot-2022-03-29-at-6-24-19-PM.png (https://imgbb.com/)
Me when people are upset at each other nowadays. :P

Also I had a hot dog today. No judgies :P!

whirlerz
03-29-2022, 06:29 PM
That kind of looks like your doggo, how's he doing?

indiegirl
03-29-2022, 06:34 PM
That kind of looks like your doggo, how's he doing?

He's doing great :D. I had to take his cone of shame off his neck because he can't fit through the doggie door with it (it was raining Monday) so he's curled up right now next to me :P.

Thank you for asking :)!

Aurora_Sunset
03-30-2022, 06:14 AM
My husband really fucking disappointed me yesterday. And I honestly don't know how to handle it or where to go from here.

whirlerz
03-30-2022, 07:19 AM
I'm so sorry Aurora..

Indie, glad he's doing well!

So, I woke up dreaming about my former place, all the shit I had to take care of, & feeling anxious, at odds all the time w/homeowners assoc.
Feeling that way about this place, (besides I hate it anyway lol)

So I was texting w/crushie yesterday about this bucket I'd found outside, & he was kinda an ass about it, I didn't know wtf it was sitting outside, I'd thought actually someone pissed in it..

You know what? Fuck this place, I don't fucking own it, I'd like/need some stuff fixed, but I'm over hounding him (crushie) about it..was going to ask him to fix my floor lamp, but eh fuck it, I just bought another lol.

So, I have to deal w/the circuits flipping (the board s in my room) manually flush my toilet cause handle broke, & other bs..

& Landlord doesn't GAF, why should I?

carmen_b
03-30-2022, 08:36 AM
Damn it !!!


My husband really fucking disappointed me yesterday. And I honestly don't know how to handle it or where to go from here.

Aurora_Sunset
03-30-2022, 09:32 AM
Damn it !!!

Fucking right? I've been sleeping all day so far, just depressed. He just called me to talk to me about something involved with his school loan and was mostly talking like everything was normal between us. I hope he realizes we're not "done" or "moved on" from this. I expect another conversation when he gets home, and probably many more after.

miss.a.p1600
03-30-2022, 09:39 AM
I confess. Seeing a group of swat team men in uniform doing a press conference is a complete turn on.

Mmmmmm

LoveyD
03-30-2022, 10:07 AM
Went to the gym, skipped my workout and just took a shower instead.

chanzep
03-30-2022, 03:03 PM
I woke up early and there was a tornado warning in place so I went back to sleep until 1. I have been doing everything slowly since. I only just had breakfast. Oh well.

carmen_b
03-30-2022, 07:04 PM
I hope you sort it out !


Fucking right? I've been sleeping all day so far, just depressed. He just called me to talk to me about something involved with his school loan and was mostly talking like everything was normal between us. I hope he realizes we're not "done" or "moved on" from this. I expect another conversation when he gets home, and probably many more after.