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J.D.
04-19-2010, 05:24 PM
I was wondering about this too, congratulations though!

yeah..... I hated that guy from the get go.... he was a douche! "I invented 3-D porn and I am genius, I went to prison for selling ecstasy" I got told this by him all within a few hours of meeting him. The guy was a complete delusional narcissist, and an overall freak! I was only nice to him because of Med, I had to hold back my inner bitch, but I don't care now because she is with a WAY better guy! Major upgrade! I always liked Nola Manager, he has always been a total sweetheart when I would come into town, and I KNOW he will treat Med like a princess (because if he doesn't he knows I will be on the first flight to Austin with my brass knuckles and switchblade)

mediocrity
04-20-2010, 12:04 AM
I was wondering about this too, congratulations though!

A lot changed, real quick, JD can attest to that... J and I are still friends but, a) he couldnt leave Dallas for five years and b) NOLA is a waaaaaaaaay better match for me.

Surprise
04-20-2010, 12:25 AM
what are you wearing to the wedding?

mediocrity
04-20-2010, 08:04 AM
what are you wearing to the wedding?

I got this beautiful blue and pink floral vintage sundress a few weeks ago, I may go with that. Nola is wearing a suit so I debated on wearing my black silk max azria dress, but I'm afraid people will chastise me for wearing black to my wedding.

JayATee
04-20-2010, 08:32 AM
I got this beautiful blue and pink floral vintage sundress a few weeks ago, I may go with that. Nola is wearing a suit so I debated on wearing my black silk max azria dress, but I'm afraid people will chastise me for wearing black to my wedding.

My sister plans on wearing black to hers, and I had black roses at mine. Fuck what other people say or think. It's about you.

OJenni!
04-20-2010, 09:28 AM
I am Asian and I do not find myself attracted to Asian men. I am not attracted to black men either. But there are a few exceptions-mainly mixed race guys. I mainly date white men and Arabic men, but not in to Indians. Picky I know!

I have dated 2 Arabic guys (one Turkish and the other lebonese) and 4 white guys in my life. All were dead sexy. All were either blessed with good genes or had jobs that were physically demanding-hence were in good shape.

Like many others on this thread I do not find myself attracted to obese men. Not only is this lifestyle difference, but IMO I feel I can relate more to a guy who has a more physical job (brick laying, construction, warehouse work, general labour) then say a desk job. And no offence to anyone with a desk job, but in my experience these are the type of guys that look down on strippers. I feel like I can see eye to eye with a guy that does a more physical job.

My last BF worked in a warehouse where he had to run with 50 pound boxes all day. He was muscular/thin body type. He did not "work out" outside of work, but he was not the type to sit on couch all day either. We would take our dogs on hikes together, walk to restaurants, and were generally active both indoors and out.

From what I have seen most obese guys work at a desk job. Sure there are fit guys working at desk job, but physical labor does not really lend itself to obese people. Although I am sure there are some fat guys working those jobs too.

A guy that gets Dunkin Donuts for breakfest, sits at his desk all day, eats crap for lunch, goes through the drive thru after work and then comes home and sits on the couch with cheetos just does not attract me. I am more in to the guy that grabs toast and OJ before heading off to work, packs a lunch, comes home to relax for a bit and takes the dogs out. Someone who likes to enjoy life and not just watch it go by.

However I am not really in to the whole gym rat thing either. I eat mainly healthy foods and don't mind the occasional junk food. I work out 5 days a week. But leave my weekends for the fun stuff like hiking with the dogs.

pixierocksonthepole
04-20-2010, 09:45 AM
I got this beautiful blue and pink floral vintage sundress a few weeks ago, I may go with that. Nola is wearing a suit so I debated on wearing my black silk max azria dress, but I'm afraid people will chastise me for wearing black to my wedding.

I wore a black long Vera Wang gown to our wedding. I don't regret it, it's more me anyways.

rubyredlipsss
04-20-2010, 11:36 AM
fuck society, med wear what you want and what makes YOU happy. my friend wore a red wedding dress and everyone told her she'd regret it. she doesn't regret it to this day and all her bridesmaid wore black. and i believe their first dance together was to some punk song they both loved. her grandma was pissed but it was her wedding and what made her happy. she had the time of her life getting married and did things the way she wanted, i think that's what counts.

JayFo1987
04-20-2010, 09:23 PM
I dream of a day where tradition is dead for that very reason. I would not hesitate to punch my grandma out if she bitched at me on MY wedding day.}:D

Harleigh HellKat
04-20-2010, 09:59 PM
^^:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

wanderlust08
04-21-2010, 03:13 PM
yeah..... I hated that guy from the get go.... he was a douche! "I invented 3-D porn and I am genius, I went to prison for selling ecstasy" I got told this by him all within a few hours of meeting him. The guy was a complete delusional narcissist, and an overall freak! I was only nice to him because of Med, I had to hold back my inner bitch, but I don't care now because she is with a WAY better guy! Major upgrade! I always liked Nola Manager, he has always been a total sweetheart when I would come into town, and I KNOW he will treat Med like a princess (because if he doesn't he knows I will be on the first flight to Austin with my brass knuckles and switchblade)

Ugh, why can't MY female friends carry brass knuckles and switchblades? So much cooler than designer handbags and tiny dogs.

mediocrity
04-21-2010, 03:19 PM
Ugh, why can't MY female friends carry brass knuckles and switchblades? So much cooler than designer handbags and tiny dogs.

Yeah dude. When the zombie apocalypse hits, trust me- you want JD on your side. She's amazing and a total badass.

JayATee
04-21-2010, 04:30 PM
fuck society, med wear what you want and what makes YOU happy. my friend wore a red wedding dress and everyone told her she'd regret it. she doesn't regret it to this day and all her bridesmaid wore black. and i believe their first dance together was to some punk song they both loved. her grandma was pissed but it was her wedding and what made her happy. she had the time of her life getting married and did things the way she wanted, i think that's what counts.

Im never getting married again, but if I did, I would ROCK the black satin wedding dress.

Go for it M!


yeah..... I hated that guy from the get go.... he was a douche! "I invented 3-D porn and I am genius, I went to prison for selling ecstasy" I got told this by him all within a few hours of meeting him. The guy was a complete delusional narcissist, and an overall freak! I was only nice to him because of Med, I had to hold back my inner bitch, but I don't care now because she is with a WAY better guy! Major upgrade! I always liked Nola Manager, he has always been a total sweetheart when I would come into town, and I KNOW he will treat Med like a princess (because if he doesn't he knows I will be on the first flight to Austin with my brass knuckles and switchblade)

Yeah, I totally need to meet you too! You sound like someone Id love to hang with! :)

J.D.
04-21-2010, 05:07 PM
Ok, it's settled then, me, Jay, and Med are all going to tear up Austin for Med's wedding!

Kylea2
04-21-2010, 05:24 PM
I got this beautiful blue and pink floral vintage sundress a few weeks ago, I may go with that. Nola is wearing a suit so I debated on wearing my black silk max azria dress, but I'm afraid people will chastise me for wearing black to my wedding.

Wear whatever makes you happy. In the end, it's really your day. Besides, people will always find something they don't like about whatever, so better to have them hate your dress than many other things.

mediocrity
04-22-2010, 09:16 AM
Ok, it's settled then, me, Jay, and Med are all going to tear up Austin for Med's wedding!

Don't threaten me with a good time.

rubyredlipsss
04-22-2010, 11:08 AM
^hahahahha. where's my fucking invite?? >:( don't make me come crash your wedding!!!

mediocrity
04-22-2010, 12:00 PM
^^ We're having a party here and one in Louisiana so if you're nearby, crash away.

rubyredlipsss
04-22-2010, 12:08 PM
damnit! i'm in california, but i'll be crashing in spirit.

Surprise
04-22-2010, 12:32 PM
i will be in austin this weekend, but somehow i feel trying to convince boyfriend to come with me to an "internet friend's" soiree will be difficult.

"i promise she's cool!!"

"honey, you say that about all your internet friends"

"yeah, well this one i met on a stripper website and not a videogames forum!!"

LMAO.

mediocrity
04-22-2010, 12:44 PM
i will be in austin this weekend, but somehow i feel trying to convince boyfriend to come with me to an "internet friend's" soiree will be difficult.

"i promise she's cool!!"

"honey, you say that about all your internet friends"

"yeah, well this one i met on a stripper website and not a videogames forum!!"

LMAO.

I come with at least four references off this site, including my own husband. ;)

JayATee
04-22-2010, 09:07 PM
Don't threaten me with a good time.

Im looking at plane tix. Im not even joking... hell maybe I'll just get in the new car and drive. ;D

fantasiarene
04-22-2010, 10:08 PM
I've actually got two confessions :). First is I've got this major crush on my male coach at the rink. He's been divorced, no kids, and he's sweet and a smartass. I'd screw him in an instant and not feel guilty about it.

My second confession is I cut my wrist last Wednesday so I could get into a therapy place because my boyfriend is verbally and emotionally abusive. He's starting to show it in public now and the neighbor saw it and asked me how I dealt with how he treats me. I want out of the relationship badly and every time I say I want to get my own place he gets pissy.

pixierocksonthepole
04-22-2010, 10:44 PM
I have the tendency to be seen only as the girl that is too sweet and just handles everything with a smile. Thing is I have a horrible temper. I break things like furniture and electronic devices and I cream and I raise my blood pressure. And I have done it to everyone expect my grandparents. I like being happy...but...my temper...I really need it to just simmer down now. Thank goodness I'm in a good mood now.

Surprise
04-22-2010, 11:19 PM
i am stealing office supplies.

wanderlust08
04-22-2010, 11:34 PM
My confession:
I always forget to go grocery shopping, so I have a tendency to live off my roommates' food, small bites at a time, so they'll never notice.

Today I ate 3 M&Ms, a strawberry, a piece of sliced ham, and a spoonful of ice cream.

Lexi_Girl
04-23-2010, 02:48 AM
I have the tendency to be seen only as the girl that is too sweet and just handles everything with a smile. Thing is I have a horrible temper. I break things like furniture and electronic devices and I cream and I raise my blood pressure. And I have done it to everyone expect my grandparents. I like being happy...but...my temper...I really need it to just simmer down now. Thank goodness I'm in a good mood now.

I love Violent Acres, and this post reminded me of:

http://www.violentacres.com/archives/490/how-to-control-your-temper/

rubyredlipsss
04-23-2010, 12:11 PM
I have the tendency to be seen only as the girl that is too sweet and just handles everything with a smile. Thing is I have a horrible temper. I break things like furniture and electronic devices and I cream and I raise my blood pressure. And I have done it to everyone expect my grandparents. I like being happy...but...my temper...I really need it to just simmer down now. Thank goodness I'm in a good mood now.

i have a horrible temper too. i have a few holes in my bedroom wall from throwing things at it.

not to turn this into a joke but the fact you used the phrase simmer down now totally reminded me of this: http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/15056/ poor quality, but who could forget the SIMMAH DOWN NAH lady. ;D

pixierocksonthepole
04-23-2010, 01:26 PM
i have a horrible temper too. i have a few holes in my bedroom wall from throwing things at it.

not to turn this into a joke but the fact you used the phrase simmer down now totally reminded me of this: http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/15056/ poor quality, but who could forget the SIMMAH DOWN NAH lady. ;D

lmao thats pretty much why I used it.

rubyredlipsss
04-23-2010, 02:09 PM
hahahaha...now every time we're about to lose it, just think of the SIMMER DOWN NAH lady and maybe it'll give us a good laugh and we'll forget about being angry.

pixierocksonthepole
04-23-2010, 06:35 PM
lol yeah I hope so. I've gotten much better since I've been with my husband but today it got the best of me when I got into it with my Mom. What a lovely day and how ironic it happened today.

PRETTYdangerous
04-23-2010, 06:42 PM
my biggest insecurity is my frizzy, curly hair.

charlie61
04-23-2010, 07:12 PM
^ Have you tried Argan oil? It's not greasy and works really well with my naturally wavy/curly hair.

I get this from Sally Beauty supply for like $8. And that bottle lasts FOREVER. http://www.amazon.com/One-Only-Argan-Oil-Treatment/dp/B002PR2GLM/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=beauty&qid=1272075117&sr=8-2

Lexi_Girl
04-24-2010, 05:10 AM
my biggest insecurity is my frizzy, curly hair.

I used to be so, so insecure about my curly, frizzy hair. Then I wore it curly a few times and I was blown away by the amounts of compliments I got o_O

I use a little bit of:

http://www.sebastianprofessional.com/en_US/products/flow/product.jsp?id=100000

when my hair is still wet, and scrunch it until curly.

If it's still frizzy when it dries, I use:

http://www.zuckermanpharmacy.com/product.cfm/hurl/723403.html

I also suggest the tips found on http://www.naturallycurly.com/

I only wash my hair every 2-3 days because otherwise my hair gets too frizzy and dry. It also recommends silk or satin pillowcases.

papillonluvr
04-24-2010, 06:35 AM
I am going to a 1 yr olds birthday party, and my ex-best friend will be there. I am nervous about seeing her-the wound in my heart is still so new. I am tempted not to go at all.

J.D.
04-24-2010, 07:40 AM
I am totally having a fling with a hot, young, super wealthy, famous surgeon I just met. I feel like I'm hooking up with Christian Troy from Nip/Tuck!

Firewall
04-24-2010, 07:50 AM
^ Sweet! :D

J.D.
04-24-2010, 08:16 AM
He's flying me out to Vegas in a few weeks and we're going to stay at the Sky Lofts at MGM. I've heard they're are ridiculously nice. I've already stayed at the Hugh Hefner suite at The Palms, and the suite right below it back when I was hanging out with Tommy Lee and the Maloof brothers, so I have high expectations. I'm wondering what the catch is, he has a personal black AmEx, he's young, sexy, successful, rich, and I feel like he gets nervous around me, it's weird. He says I'm exactly his type because I look pretty on his arm. I'm not sure if I should take that as a compliment.... oh well, I'm totally going to take advantage of this and have fun!!!

pussyinboots
04-24-2010, 10:02 AM
^^ You lucky, lucky so and so! I hope you have a ball...I wish this kind of thing had happened to me when I was younger and less flabby!!::)

You enjoy yourself girl!!:)

mediocrity
04-24-2010, 12:21 PM
I am totally having a fling with a hot, young, super wealthy, famous surgeon I just met. I feel like I'm hooking up with Christian Troy from Nip/Tuck!

This is going to spawn a plethora of fun stories to entertain me. Can't wait to hear about it!!

rubyredlipsss
04-24-2010, 12:59 PM
can i haz your life jd? all i have right now is an creepy ugly stalker. not even from a club, but from my fucking class and there's no escaping him! it's a tiny upper-div class and we're in the same presentation group. every time i sign into fb he instantly im's me. to add to the fact he bombards me with all these questions and even asked me what part of the city i live in, like what i live nearby...can you say CREEEEEPY? i think i'm going to have to make up a pretend boyfriend and tell him if he doesn't leave me alone, said fake boyfriend will go after him.

Glamgirl
04-24-2010, 01:49 PM
I am totally having a fling with a hot, young, super wealthy, famous surgeon I just met. I feel like I'm hooking up with Christian Troy from Nip/Tuck!

I am ridiculously jealous of you!!!

J.D.
04-24-2010, 02:07 PM
can i haz your life jd? all i have right now is an creepy ugly stalker. not even from a club, but from my fucking class and there's no escaping him! it's a tiny upper-div class and we're in the same presentation group. every time i sign into fb he instantly im's me. to add to the fact he bombards me with all these questions and even asked me what part of the city i live in, like what i live nearby...can you say CREEEEEPY? i think i'm going to have to make up a pretend boyfriend and tell him if he doesn't leave me alone, said fake boyfriend will go after him.

Be patient. My life sucked for many many months then BAM this guy fell into my lap.

And don't be scared of the creepy guy, because then you are giving him power. I would be like, "Dude, you need to seriously back the fuck up, you are way overstepping your boundaries." I love it when guys try to be creepy and make me scared, I put them in their place FAST. I would delete him off FB and block him too.

rubyredlipsss
04-24-2010, 02:30 PM
yeah i'm ignoring him...i'm a little scared though that he's been pushing so many boundaries that if i blocked him he'd be like wtf. i am gonna do what you said though and say you're overstepping your boundaries and back off.

i'd also like to have my mom's past dating life. she dated the qb for the chargers, had this super rich bf in malibu and have had dinners with jack nicholson and warren beatty. and a bunch of other rich guys taking her on vacation...but she was never a gold-digger or anything. it just happened for her.

please let it happen to me, i wanna live the high life god damnit! :D

charlie61
04-24-2010, 02:32 PM
^ Remember, though, there is a difference between living the high life (not fun) and living the high life with someone you want to live it with (fun). I've lived the high life before (INSANELY rich SD in Vegas), and it wasn't fun. It was kind of cool not having to worry about money, but the whole time I was literally wishing I were back home making a frozen pizza with my SO.

ETA: At least, that's how it works for me. Money is only fun when I'm with someone I love.

rubyredlipsss
04-24-2010, 02:39 PM
yeah my mom was only with people that she actually loved/liked. i don't think i could stand doing it unless i actually liked the guy.

charlie61
04-24-2010, 02:52 PM
^ Totally. I was actually really surprised at how much I disliked feeling 'rich' when I was with someone I didn't like much. I thought the rich part would still be fun. It wasn't!

rubyredlipsss
04-24-2010, 03:35 PM
my mom has a saying, "if you marry for money, it'll be the hardest job of your life" or something along those lines.

charlie61
04-24-2010, 04:11 PM
^ SO true!

JayATee
04-24-2010, 04:19 PM
I very much plan on fucking the adorable chef who works in the restaurant next door He's been bringing me salads (because I don't eat meat) and coming over just to say hi for days now. I think he'll be fun.