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Dreamqueen
05-20-2022, 09:34 PM
I've done that before!!! Isn't the brain fascinating how real things feel when you're sleeping!?!

I confess I'm bummed Kate McKinnon is leaving SNL. She is so hilarious and only watched SNL clips because of her.

That's horrible news.
She's carried that show so many times.
She will be missed.

carmen_b
05-21-2022, 06:41 PM
I’d say our 7 days of travel went pretty well ( for the most part ha )!
You know how it goes with couples ( out of comfy usual environment ).
Thx J’s job for 5 days of hotel and dining in Portland OR !
Delish. :)

carmen_b
05-21-2022, 06:43 PM
These clients had me scheduled tomorrow roughly 10-4.
They told me just now they are postponing what they are doing.
I already told J that time and I may leave at 10 anyway . We had a lot of together time and he gets his kid back tomorrow right at that time.
I guess cue the tomato throwing hahaha.
But also ... isn’t it natural to want some time haha ?
I feel so desperate to just lounge ASAP !!

Ugh never mind , I don’t want to lie ha.
A 6 hour duration seemed like too big of a fib.

miss.a.p1600
05-22-2022, 09:39 AM
I'm glad L and his kids are gone from this house.

He makes it really hard to like him.

He will be normal one day, then annoying the next.

Today he brought up the question of marrying him and I had to give the cold truth. I am NOT marrying for love as the primary goal, it's secondary. Most people divorcing over finances.

Men who want to marry SUCCESSFULLY make themselves attractive by improving their financial status, earning what they are worth, and minimizing stress their lives could create for their new partner.

carmen_b
05-22-2022, 10:13 AM
^ I’m not sure why he seems so dead set on not making progress but I agree it’s totally ok to talk openly about feeling bummed over it.

carmen_b
05-22-2022, 10:14 AM
^ I felt stress with J’s child arriving at 10:30 so I’m doing the first part of the long day ( no school ) at the gym. I’ll just rotate between mini workouts and sauna time.
J has planned nothing that I know of to get them out of the house.
I can’t do an 8 hour duration ( till 7 when they are watching tv ) with us tripping over each other today. It’s 11:20 now and I just feel hyper aware of timing today.

A few hours is more doable for me today.

miss.a.p1600
05-22-2022, 10:45 AM
^ I’m not sure why he seems so dead set on not making progress but I agree it’s totally ok to talk openly about feeling bummed over it.

Most people think it's easier to stay in a comfort zone/barely getting by than it is to do the work to make changes for the better.

Yeah our talks seem to get nowhere. He gets defensive and says I'm being 'too critical'

miss.a.p1600
05-22-2022, 10:51 AM
^ I felt stress with J’s child arriving at 10:30 so I’m doing the first part of the long day ( no school ) at the gym. I’ll just rotate between mini workouts and sauna time.
J has planned nothing that I know of to get them out of the house.
I can’t do an 8 hour duration ( till 7 when they are watching tv ) with us tripping over each other today. It’s 11:20 now and I just feel hyper aware of timing today.

A few hours is more doable for me today.

I feel stress about L's kids getting out of school in the next week or so.

I mentioned a while back that he should get them in camps and he is like 'well who is gong to take them there/pick them up?'

In my mind I'm thinking 'did something happen to Bertha?' because as long as she isn't strung out on drugs or severely mentally ill then she should be doing at least half the work to get them to summer activities. Because I know the bitch will be complaining about how she doesn't feel comfortable with them being alone for hours in the hood (where she chose to live) and how they should be supervised by an adult (me).

Um no Bertha bitch. My position still stands. Parenting time does not begin until L is off work. not one second sooner unless its an emergency AND I am being compensated accordingly.

So at this point I just say nothing and avoid as much obligation to his kids as I can.

The only thing saving my ass for July is that both of his kids are failing miserably at school thanks to Bertha and L being really dumb and not helping them before they get too far behind so they HAVE to go to summer school. He told her ass to transport them (or ask her family or find a solution) and he will only transport on his days off.

Anyhow - gym and sauna sound like excellent stress relievers.

carmen_b
05-22-2022, 11:01 AM
^ I hope J will sign up for activities too.
I asked about one recently and he seemed hesitant.
I will drive too at least one way.
I suspect he is just tapped out from driving to school three day’s a week.

He logically knows no activity sign ups are not the right thing .

I think he is just desperate to not drive for a couple weeks .
So he will probably scramble for sign ups mid June.
It gives me anxiety because I know sign ups now would be easier even if he prefers to not *use* the sign ups for 1-2 weeks.

I’m tempted to just do the sign ups on the sly but I don’t really want to get involved yet to be honest.

miss.a.p1600
05-22-2022, 11:11 AM
This therapy session cannot come soon enough.

I need help sorting out our last 'debate'/argument/disagreement or whatever its called.

Sometimes I can't tell if I'm being a cunt or if he is covertly trying to get over on me so his life can be easier from the problems him and bertha created that still plague him to this day.

lynn2009
05-22-2022, 11:11 AM
I am glad my neighbor only has her kids every other weekend, cause frankly they are annoying when they're here. I feel like I lose any enjoyable access to my own backyard.

carmen_b
05-22-2022, 12:14 PM
Miss P :
I’m surprised you are working with him on certain things.
You were SO patient so at this point he should have schedules firm a week ahead , ZERO short notice changes , NO pick ups on days that are not “ his “ in custody .
^ This is how many divorced people do it because it’s just too scattered otherwise.
It’s precise for a reason! It makes it easier for everyone !!!

It’s HIM that is wrong on this subject.
Sorry L. :/

I dare J for example to go do something for his ex on one of her custody days.
The results would be “ volcanic “ to say the least.

carmen_b
05-22-2022, 12:58 PM
We have some with their grandkids here on my on the rare occasion . Those visits are so loud.
We like being the annoying neighbors ( running around naked in back yard / pool and playing music via speaker ) not the other way around.

I do make J turn it down often when it’s a quiet / late vibe.
I think he underestimated that snooty neighbors might call cops over minimal things.
He loves his weed and it isn’t legal in our county so the cops can’t come here ha.


I am glad my neighbor only has her kids every other weekend, cause frankly they are annoying when they're here. I feel like I lose any enjoyable access to my own backyard.

WendiStarr
05-22-2022, 07:33 PM
I've been putting that I'm a lesbian on all my personal social media accounts now. I don't give a fuck who it offends or scares. I don't want to be bothered by men trying to "get to know you" anymore.

smeca
05-22-2022, 11:35 PM
I check out women way more than men. I was at the pool just ogling this group of girls posing and dancing for photos behind my sunglasses haha, they're just so cute. There was like one bloke I noticed, the 'dad bod' is a thing i guess bc you could tell he was strong and had muscles but was a little more relaxed now. Good posture, confident, chill. I notice quiet masculine types like this and don't really linger on the sculpted guys.

Marina Starr
05-23-2022, 07:15 AM
Does this attract the kind of men that'd say shit like 'it's because you haven't had good dick'?

I love to flip the script on them with 'and how would you know you don't like dick if you haven't had it?'.

It really baffles them how any woman in her right fucking mind could say no to dick!


I've been putting that I'm a lesbian on all my personal social media accounts now. I don't give a fuck who it offends or scares. I don't want to be bothered by men trying to "get to know you" anymore.

naomi_doll
05-23-2022, 07:30 AM
Does this attract the kind of men that'd say shit like 'it's because you haven't had good dick'?

I love to flip the script on them with 'and how would you know you don't like dick if you haven't had it?'.

It really baffles them how any woman in her right fucking mind could say no to dick!

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Marina Starr
05-23-2022, 08:56 AM
My confession for today is I have to have Chick Fil A delicious and homophobic crispy chicken sandwich and Waffle fries with a side of God once a week or I don't feel right.

carmen_b
05-23-2022, 09:01 AM
^ mmmmm
Good chicken

I confess I had Popeyes yesterday on the sly.

Marina Starr
05-23-2022, 09:11 AM
I've never had popeyes. Now I want to try!


^ mmmmm
Good chicken

I confess I had Popeyes yesterday on the sly.

lurkingtitties
05-23-2022, 09:14 AM
My confession is I like the Popeys chicken sandwich better than Chick-Fil-A!

Genoveve
05-23-2022, 09:27 AM
^^^My confession is that I like KFC more than Popeye’s. I love Popeye’s and they definitely have better sides, but I love KFC’s batter so much more than Popeye’s.

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2022, 09:34 AM
Popeyes endless drive-through lines though.......

This video reminds me of the the culture of Popeyes (heck any fast food fried chicken) :D



https://youtu.be/p4OjRHY9IZU

lurkingtitties
05-23-2022, 10:29 AM
^^^My confession is that I like KFC more than Popeye’s. I love Popeye’s and they definitely have better sides, but I love KFC’s batter so much more than Popeye’s.

I’ll have to try them next.

carmen_b
05-23-2022, 10:42 AM
^ My little secret snack was delish. Juicy and flaky . The biscuit was good too.
I'm sure it was SO high calorie. I went the gym twice that day haha.

indiegirl
05-23-2022, 12:00 PM
I confess, I really didn't like kourtney kardashians wedding dress......Obviously it's her day and she can do whatever she wants, it just looked tacky.

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2022, 12:27 PM
^oh she married that guy now? WOW

Doing the most for clout is their job. Desecrating religious ceremonies for PR is so typical of these people. Not surprised.

I give this union a good 2 years tops

Cutie101
05-23-2022, 01:14 PM
^oh she married that guy now? WOW

Doing the most for clout is their job. Desecrating religious ceremonies for PR is so typical of these people. Not surprised.

I give this union a good 2 years tops

That guy is just too good for her. Or maybe she needed someone like him. Kourtney always seemed to NOT relate with the Kardashian clan, especially after she carried the first seasons on her shoulders (it was always about her and her fuckboy scott and being pregnant constantly). After Disdick asshole and that supermodel boy, this man is an absolute gem, intelligent, a great dad and a pretty tame guy (funny how disdick looks so... clean but he's a party animal and a fuckboy, while Travis looks just like one, but he's the complete opposite).
Also Kim and Pete...

We kinda forget they are both in their 40's and maybe they finally needed some better men in their lives, maybe they finally need some peace and someone to love them just like that. Both of these men don't really care about looks and perfection, so maybe Kim and Kourtney learn something from it. I might be wrong, but it seems like they are tired of living their lives with unstable, immature and irresponsible men.

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2022, 01:21 PM
Yeah I remember seeing Travis on his reality show with shanna and that broad would literally be sleeping all day everyday while he was out procuring the bag for her and her kids.

Idk if that was real or if the producers portrayed her as a leeching bum.

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2022, 01:22 PM
Scott reminds me of the trust fund tools

Genoveve
05-23-2022, 03:14 PM
Kourtney is my least favorite Kardashian but I do like her and Travis together and my confession is that I liked her dress LOL. I think I liked what all the women wore to the wedding. Not sure how any religious ceremonies got desecrated though? It’s not like they were in a church and she was wearing a see-through dress.

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2022, 05:17 PM
L has a late workday

I wish he would make some stops so I can have more time alone in this house.

LoveyD
05-23-2022, 05:53 PM
My CPTSD gets worse when I'm pms-ing. Thank God for edibles. I popped a few and mediated bc I was feeling ragey. Feeling better now.


I didn't care for the Kourtney wedding looks either. But how cool to get married in Italy!

naomi_doll
05-23-2022, 06:05 PM
Kourtney is my least favorite Kardashian but I do like her and Travis together and my confession is that I liked her dress LOL. I think I liked what all the women wore to the wedding. Not sure how any religious ceremonies got desecrated though? It’s not like they were in a church and she was wearing a see-through dress.

I loved the veil, so cool! I need to get married again so I can have a huge Mary veil lol

Genoveve
05-23-2022, 06:57 PM
^^^I loved the veil too!

xxxGothBarbie
05-23-2022, 08:55 PM
I'm soo not even in love with my bf & I never was. He's been paying my way thru life the last few months mostly and as much as I love being spoiled, I'm bored with him and ready to move the fuck on. I feel guilty but ya... I am starting to not hide it so well from him anymore.

Dreamqueen
05-23-2022, 11:52 PM
I confess, I really didn't like kourtney kardashians wedding dress......Obviously it's her day and she can do whatever she wants, it just looked tacky.

Speaking of the Kardashians.
A few years ago, I was doing a threesome with my bestie and her sugar daddy.
I've never had a sugar daddy ( only tricks who pay by the hour), so I didn't know what to do after they cum.
You mean, they don't get up from the bed and go home to their wives?
They hang out? Oh.:O

My friend is the sugar baby expert, so I was following her lead.
To kill time, she had us pretend that we were the Kardashian sisters.
We all got to pick who we wanted to be.
We pretended that we had cell phones in our hands on speaker, and spoke with that annoying vocal fry that they have.
It was hilarious to watch this 70 year old man pretend that he was a Kardashian.
Especially since he said that he never watched the show, "Keeping up with the Kardashians."
I had only seen it a couple of times, but knew how they spoke.

Gotta give it to my friend.
She had that imagination that kept the guys interested.
The next day they went on a road trip, and wanted me to come along.
For 2 days.
I couldn't do it.
The thought of spending 24/7 with that dude was a deal breaker. The money wasn't enough.
I stayed behind and stayed at her killer apt and took care of her cat.
She called me every minute while she was on that trip, and was losing her mind being with him.
Yeah, no kidding.
That's why I don't have a sugar daddy.

carmen_b
05-24-2022, 08:02 AM
I feel like I got that vibe. You didn't say much about HIM here. :)
BUT I don't think anyone on this site is going to judge for that . They are in the wrong place if they are .
He was a " mystery " man. All we knew about him was the annoying mom and neglected cat ! Ha.


I'm soo not even in love with my bf & I never was. He's been paying my way thru life the last few months mostly and as much as I love being spoiled, I'm bored with him and ready to move the fuck on. I feel guilty but ya... I am starting to not hide it so well from him anymore.

miss.a.p1600
05-24-2022, 08:46 AM
I'm soo not even in love with my bf & I never was. He's been paying my way thru life the last few months mostly and as much as I love being spoiled, I'm bored with him and ready to move the fuck on. I feel guilty but ya... I am starting to not hide it so well from him anymore.

Girl I know the feeling.

I feel slightly guilty by the fact I don’t feel “in love” either but it’s because he keeps bring on piles of baggage, acting like “oh everyone has challenges in life”, whilst doing barely anything to improve his mindset or economic standing.

Meanwhile I’m investing, improving my credit score, switching to higher paying career and hustling circles around him.

I feel like he IS Bertha ….. in a male body.

I’m preparing to leave after this summer when the lease is up. He would have to do a complete 180 for me to reconsider.

carmen_b
05-24-2022, 09:08 AM
^ Leave now why waste your summer ? :)

I mean .... do what you want haha.

carmen_b
05-24-2022, 09:09 AM
I'm trying to figure out what to do with J's idea to go to Vegas with his daughter for 2 days.
I think I am leaning towards just joining in on Wednesday morning through Thurs. morning next week ( which means I'll have to shuttle over or drive myself over ).
I think I feel intimidated by a 48 hour duration of only sharing one car if that makes sense.

I feel like having the house to myself on Tuesday ( a week from today ) is this alluring gem that I can not seem to not stop thinking about haha. I can't figure out what to do but I guess I can decide as it gets closer.

xxxGothBarbie
05-24-2022, 09:30 AM
I feel like I got that vibe. You didn't say much about HIM here. :)
BUT I don't think anyone on this site is going to judge for that . They are in the wrong place if they are .
He was a " mystery " man. All we knew about him was the annoying mom and neglected cat ! Ha.

Ya , honestly he's a great guy but just not my ideal. The lying about the stupid feet pics again then never standing up to his stupid ass smother and also not trying to save his money to move out of her house? Ya I just can't anymore. His mother deserves to be told the fuck off every chance possible for the way she treats that poor cat. He's too much like her in terms of being messy and trying to be in control. I'm taking a break from boys I think. The last one I had a crush on is now engaged to his dryer sheet so yeh ugh.

Aurora_Sunset
05-24-2022, 10:04 AM
I was on the phone with my husband when a bird shit on him, and I laughed so hard I was crying and couldn't speak.

miss.a.p1600
05-24-2022, 11:46 AM
^probably karma for leaving all that trash in the couch

Genoveve
05-24-2022, 12:23 PM
^^^I think we’re ALL still pissed at Aurora’s husband for that. He’s been put in the doghouse by women he doesn’t even know exist LOL.

miss.a.p1600
05-24-2022, 12:25 PM
^My bad, just a little dry humor but if it comes off as crass I’ll delete.

Aurora_Sunset
05-24-2022, 01:36 PM
^My bad, just a little dry humor but if it comes off as crass I’ll delete.

Not at all. I'm laughing at these comments }:D

Aurora_Sunset
05-24-2022, 02:26 PM
Lately, I've been on this kick where I'm trying to learn how to do a bunch of things myself. But the honest truth is, I don't want to do this shit myself. I want to have the money to hire professionals. That's my life goal. Don't care if it makes me "lazy" or "spoiled." I'd rather work my ass off at one thing I'm good at, and pay other professionals to do what they do best to fix my problems.

carmen_b
05-24-2022, 02:59 PM
^ That's actually the most highly optimized way to live.
Get great at something, get a premium price for that skill, and then delegate the rest.

xxxGothBarbie
05-24-2022, 03:21 PM
I'm thinking about spending my winter season in California later this year then returning to New York. I'd love to live bi coastal.