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smeca
06-01-2022, 06:54 AM
I might get some of those toe shoes for out in the woods. I'm past caring who thinks it's weird, being barefoot is so comfortable but need the protection in some places. }:D

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-01-2022, 10:25 AM
I might get some of those toe shoes for out in the woods. I'm past caring who thinks it's weird, being barefoot is so comfortable but need the protection in some places. }:D

Vibram shoes? Cool.

I confess to being a grouchy witch today. I'm only putting on my A Game for work, but that is it.

miss.a.p1600
06-01-2022, 12:39 PM
^i had a pair of vibrams and got lots of questions and weird stares.

I guess not too many people wear them around these parts

charlie61
06-01-2022, 01:10 PM
I might get some of those toe shoes for out in the woods. I'm past caring who thinks it's weird, being barefoot is so comfortable but need the protection in some places. }:D

Yeah, i really like mine. I lift weights with them on. Some people struggle to find the right fit, so it could be worth trying in store. I found a perfect fit online without doing that - ymmv.

smeca
06-01-2022, 02:57 PM
Aah you guys have convinced me on the vibrams, sweet

WendiStarr
06-01-2022, 05:53 PM
I just found out that I'm pregnant again by this abusive bastard. I can't have another baby. Why the fuck did I struggle with infertility for years, only to have a surprise birth control pill baby by him and now a nighttime rape pregnancy from this bastard. I've never thought that I could do abortion but that's likely my best option. I've never been so miserable in my life.

whirlerz
06-01-2022, 06:52 PM
I'm so sorry my Wendi, I love you.

chanzep
06-01-2022, 09:13 PM
Wendi I was wondering if you were ok and if you got to a shelter. I hope you can find the help you need. I can't imagine how you are feeling. I don't know how these services work in this country. Or in your area. Let us know you are safe.

LoveyD
06-02-2022, 07:58 AM
Wendi, I am so so sorry. I don't have words. What a fucking asshole.

800.656.HOPE is RAINN rape and sexual assault hotline. I'm wondering if they can give you advice on pressing charges against BD. I hope you can get him out of your life, Wendi. You and the kids deserve peace.

xxxGothBarbie
06-02-2022, 02:04 PM
Fuck ;(
My deepest condolences, Wendi <3

yaya_cash
06-03-2022, 06:39 AM
Re actualizing my career and dating goals.

whirlerz
06-03-2022, 07:33 AM
Wendi I was wondering if you were ok and if you got to a shelter. I hope you can find the help you need. I can't imagine how you are feeling. I don't know how these services work in this country. Or in your area. Let us know you are safe.

I hope it's ok to answer this, if not, let me know, I'll delete.. I think the area shelters are full, she can't get help from any area services or fam.

See, in my area there's a lot of help/services to be had, of course it varies by the area..

Please, don't give up hope Honey we are all pulling for you, Angel!

carmen_b
06-03-2022, 03:02 PM
I hid my TRADER HOES mini ice cream cones inside a bag of something else hahaha.
You've gotta take measure when you have a child and stoner around hahaha.
Just so pleased to see only two cones taken ( both by me ) ha.

chanzep
06-03-2022, 09:10 PM
I hope Wendi is ok, is anyone anywhere near to her?, I'm wondering what we can do as a community to help. Like look up resources etc.

LoveyD
06-04-2022, 06:52 AM
800-799-7233 is the number for national domestic violence hotline

https://everywomansplace.org/domestic-violence/

https://www.womenslaw.org/find-help/mi

miss.a.p1600
06-04-2022, 09:45 AM
I confess that I want to say screw that final job interview and head over for some MUCH needed edibles.

I’ve been feeling so unmotivated so uninspired and a bit on edge that I feel like I really need it. Dealing with L and his endless baggage.

I have 5 hours to myself before his kids touchdown. So I’m going to have a solo party before I have to deal with the obligations

Aurora_Sunset
06-05-2022, 07:35 AM
I'm so sorry, Wendi. If there's anything you need help with, please post it here, and I'm sure many of us will see if we can help you in whatever way we can.

LoveyD
06-05-2022, 07:42 AM
Wendi, my friend used to volunteer for HAVEN, an organization who helps women in your situation. Have you contacted them? She said they're good & really do help women.

https://www.havenstan.org/

Jucie
06-08-2022, 07:36 AM
I dumped SD last week… He was a really nice guy though, good economy, hygienic and good looking. Did I mention he had a very nice (and horny!) dick.. So it’s not an abusive jerk I left and in a few years time when my daughter is older, I would probably have stayed. But for now, I need more time with her.

Money have been great, but I can’t keep up with the time and attention he wants from me. It’s been clear to me for a while but I wanted to keep him until I’d payed off my recent breast surgery.

When I first got SD I was looking for someone to meet for a bj a couple of times a week, three at the most. And an occasional dinner date. With SD, I’ve spent nearly every weekend and several weekday evenings as well.

This all means that the hunt has already started for a potential new SD who hopefully will be satisfied with a little bit less.

carmen_b
06-08-2022, 07:42 AM
^ It honestly sounded like it was a great deal for you both and he should have not been so pushy ! Men. :/

Jucie
06-08-2022, 07:48 AM
^ It honestly sounded like it was a great deal for you both and he should have not been so pushy ! Men. :/

Exactly! >:(
I have tried to hint numerous times but I don’t think he would have given after. One solution would of course be to just limit my availability to whatever I feel I could manage. But then again I would have to live with him constantly wanting more…

On the other hand, there are so many underserved horny men out there, so I choose to be positive!

Kb109
06-08-2022, 07:50 AM
I’m 6 weeks pregnant by my narcissist boyfriend (soon to be EX) and trying to get my money straight before my abortion puts me out of commission for a month (or however long it takes to stop bleeding.)
Sorry, I know this is dark. This is the first place I have told anyone and it feels kind of good to get it out. No pro-life comments, please. I am already struggling enough as it is. Hope y’all are well!

EDIT: He knows I am pregnant but does not know I am going to terminate the pregnancy. Super fucked up situation, I know.

Kb109
06-08-2022, 07:57 AM
I just found out that I'm pregnant again by this abusive bastard. I can't have another baby. Why the fuck did I struggle with infertility for years, only to have a surprise birth control pill baby by him and now a nighttime rape pregnancy from this bastard. I've never thought that I could do abortion but that's likely my best option. I've never been so miserable in my life.

Going through the EXACT same thing, minus the rape part! I am so sorry, love! How are you doing now? Feel free to PM me if you need to talk or need support. Lord knows I could use it right now. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We can get through this together. Everything will be okay. :heartbeat:heartbeat

Cutie101
06-08-2022, 01:17 PM
I’m 6 weeks pregnant by my narcissist boyfriend (soon to be EX) and trying to get my money straight before my abortion puts me out of commission for a month (or however long it takes to stop bleeding.)
Sorry, I know this is dark. This is the first place I have told anyone and it feels kind of good to get it out. No pro-life comments, please. I am already struggling enough as it is. Hope y’all are well!

EDIT: He knows I am pregnant but does not know I am going to terminate the pregnancy. Super fucked up situation, I know.

No judgement here, feel free to vent. No woman wants to be in the situation where she has to take such a decision, those pro lifers assume it's like going to have a salon appointment or something. Do what's best for you and your life. Hugs.

kimbe
06-08-2022, 01:59 PM
On the other hand, there are so many underserved horny men out there, so I choose to be positive!

But..with 90% of them being worthless idiots, a little extra effort to keep a good one is sure worth it.. ;)

LoveyD
06-08-2022, 07:05 PM
My heart goes out to you ladies. I'm really sorry you're in this situation. Fucking narcissistic abusive men suck and they make life better for no one.

xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 07:23 PM
I'm probably gonna be single again VERY fucking soon....
It's sexless & he isn't really interested in my life....
Plus I'm flirting & talking to crushie behind his back bc I've been ignored.

miss.a.p1600
06-08-2022, 08:03 PM
If the mayoral candidate (he’s so hot) told me he’d propose with a 2 carat ring. I’d drop my current dude in a heartbeat.

LoveyD
06-08-2022, 10:22 PM
I'm giving up on guys and focusing on myself, my kid, and career.

miss.a.p1600
06-09-2022, 06:58 AM
^its really nice when a lady can easily exercise that option

Jucie
06-09-2022, 07:13 AM
But..with 90% of them being worthless idiots, a little extra effort to keep a good one is sure worth it.. ;)

Exactly! That’s what makes it so frustrating because he’s close to a perfect SD if he hadn’t been so demanding >:(
In a way I keep hoping he’ll message or call me saying he’s going to agree to my terms.

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 08:58 AM
Drop by his office and introduce yourself as a huge political supporter !

Then you can scope his bulge in person hahaha.


If the mayoral candidate (he’s so hot) told me he’d propose with a 2 carat ring. I’d drop my current dude in a heartbeat.

JGB2009
06-09-2022, 09:29 AM
I am on two antidepressant pills. The one pill I remember to take because I only have to take it once a day. The other pill I have to take 3 times a day and sometimes I will miss taking a dose. Ugh I must do better.

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 09:51 AM
^ Set alarms in your phone !
I have to for my birth control. Otherwise I'd forget 50% of the time.

xxxGothBarbie
06-09-2022, 11:52 AM
I literally can't get myself to work. I know I need the money but omg I've been coming up with excuses left & right. Do you guys ever go thru this? I'm not flat broke but I Def need a fire under my ass lol

Marina Starr
06-09-2022, 01:25 PM
Sending you nothing but support. I hope you are healing well.

When we can share whatever we're going through it make us feel not so alone.


I’m 6 weeks pregnant by my narcissist boyfriend (soon to be EX) and trying to get my money straight before my abortion puts me out of commission for a month (or however long it takes to stop bleeding.)
Sorry, I know this is dark. This is the first place I have told anyone and it feels kind of good to get it out. No pro-life comments, please. I am already struggling enough as it is. Hope y’all are well!

EDIT: He knows I am pregnant but does not know I am going to terminate the pregnancy. Super fucked up situation, I know.

Cutie101
06-09-2022, 02:02 PM
I literally can't get myself to work. I know I need the money but omg I've been coming up with excuses left & right. Do you guys ever go thru this? I'm not flat broke but I Def need a fire under my ass lol

I think you need to read this post: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?228192-How-do-you-get-yourself-pumped-up-for-a-shift&p=3209503&viewfull=1#post3209503

It's the post that turned me into a disciplined camgirl and tripled my income. Haha.

charlie61
06-09-2022, 05:08 PM
I literally can't get myself to work. I know I need the money but omg I've been coming up with excuses left & right. Do you guys ever go thru this? I'm not flat broke but I Def need a fire under my ass lol

Yes, we've all been there! And the longer we procrastinate work, the more anxiety builds up, and the more money we need to make to make up for the work we've been avoiding. Such a vicious cycle. It's just like exercise for me - i have to stay consistent with it, otherwise i stop doing it, and it becomes even harder to get back into it.

Cutie101
06-09-2022, 05:10 PM
Yes, we've all been there! And the longer we procrastinate work, the more anxiety builds up, and the more money we need to make to make up for the work we've been avoiding. Such a vicious cycle. It's just like exercise for me - i have to stay consistent with it, otherwise i stop doing it, and it becomes even harder to get back into it.

I definitely have this relationship with exercising haha.

lynn2009
06-09-2022, 06:18 PM
My township won't accept mulch in the yard waste anymore so I have been bagging it and throwing it away in the garbage bin.

lynn2009
06-09-2022, 07:47 PM
I made homemade weed spray and was spraying the cracks on my patio and I accidentally hit a slug :/

chanzep
06-09-2022, 10:07 PM
I know how it is not wanting to work. I hate my job, pay and benefits are good but it's toxic and the company told a lot of lies and won't let me change my horrible schdule. Some days I want them to fire me. I called off today and looked for other stuff. It's depressing.

chanzep
06-09-2022, 10:11 PM
I need to go back on birth control I feel crazy without it my periods are all over the place and I feel drained before. I also think my iron is low again I have symptoms . I have ordered a supplement.

carmen_b
06-10-2022, 08:38 AM
Gothxxx :

Try to calculate your " minimum " like what you need to get by and then add $500-1k onto it for savings each month !
If you think like that ( get yourself ahead ) you can take time off at certain points when you want to.

seashell
06-10-2022, 03:25 PM
I confess that I reeeally want to adopt another cat for my 10 year old kitty to have a friend! Not sure if I should go older or younger, though...

Cutie101
06-10-2022, 04:01 PM
I confess that I reeeally want to adopt another cat for my 10 year old kitty to have a friend! Not sure if I should go older or younger, though...

I am afraid a kitten would be too energic for your old cat... I'd go with an older cat.

I have a 5 yr old dog and I adopted a puppy in november and... my god, he sleeps like a truck after a play with the puppy, sometimes he'd lie in the grass and "roll his eyes" at the puppy, trying to bite him and drag him to play :)))) they play for a while but the old one definitely needs some rest, while the puppy is doing rounds around him, wanting to play more.

charlie61
06-10-2022, 06:14 PM
I confess that I reeeally want to adopt another cat for my 10 year old kitty to have a friend! Not sure if I should go older or younger, though...

Totally understand this. Curious what your current cat's disposition is like - many older cats are very set in their ways, and bringing in ANY cat will be a huge stressor... oftentimes after they get used to each other, they won't interact at all and will just stay out of each other's ways (that's usually the best case scenario). It's hard to find cats that like each other unless they were raised together, or unless you know for a fact that your current cat likes other cats (this is pretty rare... cats are solitary creatures).

It's just a lot of stress for an older cat, and it's very possible that the cats won't like each other at all, ever, especially since your cat is used to living alone. Female cats are especially territorial.

Just my thoughts!

charlie61
06-10-2022, 07:28 PM
It can be really sad to bring a new cat into the house as a 'playmate' for a cat you've had for a long time, only to see them hiss at each other, growl at each other, stress each other out... and sometimes they'll bully each other...

I have five cats and have successfully integrated all of them, but the relationship dynamics are totally unpredictable, as far as who is friends with whom, who gets bullied, etc.

It's possible your older cat is one of the rare, flexible, social ones! Keep us updated! ♡

yaya_cash
06-11-2022, 01:29 AM
Nearly everybody I feel is disappointed with me. I moved to an expensive city and am attending a prestigous university that I dreamt of that is expensive; I have to spent much of my time studying and have to make good marks. And my landlord of course expects me to make rent, while I am limited on income and limited on my time to make an income. I feel so irresponsible, as I feel I can't afford to pay my classes, rent and other needs. And I have already exhausted my funds, to make my dream become a reality.

miss.a.p1600
06-11-2022, 08:54 AM
Saw a hot guy at Hoebucks.

Omg he chose to sit right across and in front of me. I’m going to gawk.