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charlie61
06-11-2022, 09:39 AM
Normally we'd have sexytimes on weekend mornings, but he stayed up late and had a few drinks, so he was totally konked out when i woke up at 7. I stayed in bed for a few minutes, spent some time on my phone, and finally just got up. He woke up two hours later.
Sorry buddy, you snooze, you lose. I'm trying to train him to expect that if he chooses to stay up late like that, he'll miss out on morning fun. That way he can decide what's more important to him: having a few drinks and watching TV late into the night, or going to bed at a reasonable time and waking up with me the next morning. It's his choice!
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 09:41 AM
Saw a hot guy at Hoebucks.
Omg he chose to sit right across and in front of me. I’m going to gawk.
Give the 'deets'! Don't spare.. :)
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 09:45 AM
& Charlie, yea he need to step up to the plate!
My confession : I'm so totally changing the kitchen, (mainly the table, switching to lengthwise position )
When they head out to work Mon}:D
Roomies can like or not, they can change it back, they're lazy so..
charlie61
06-11-2022, 09:52 AM
Also confess that i quit my part-time side gig after just two shifts, because i couldn't handle losing my entire weekend to work, after a full workweek in corporate. I'd work 40 hours at my full-time job and then work 20 hours on the weekend at my side gig - just too much. I had a complete emotional breakdown after working the 60 hours, only to start a new week with no break, hahaha. Too much!
I thought the side gig was going to have flexible scheduling, but it had zero flexibility. That's my bad for not clarifying. The extra money was really nice, though, and they pay weekly.
This morning, i reapplied to the same company, different job, more pay, and different shift (flexible scheduling), so I'm hoping that's a way better fit. Would love to be able to pick up shifts here and there without it taking over my entire life!
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 09:56 AM
Nearly everybody I feel is disappointed with me. I moved to an expensive city and am attending a prestigous university that I dreamt of that is expensive; I have to spent much of my time studying and have to make good marks. And my landlord of course expects me to make rent, while I am limited on income and limited on my time to make an income. I feel so irresponsible, as I feel I can't afford to pay my classes, rent and other needs. And I have already exhausted my funds, to make my dream become a reality.
I'm sorry, I hope you can get a break through!
xxxGothBarbie
06-11-2022, 11:21 AM
Saw both crushes at the club last night *sigh*
I'll admit , I Def fantasized about being with both of them at the same time... :)
carmen_b
06-11-2022, 11:23 AM
^ You can always ask. :)
miss.a.p1600
06-11-2022, 02:17 PM
Saw both crushes at the club last night *sigh*
I'll admit , I Def fantasized about being with both of them at the same time... :)
Lol! I’ve always had a threesome fantasy with two men
One giving great oral and the other one is a pro titty sucker.
i have yet to line this up but before I die I’m going to make it happen.
miss.a.p1600
06-11-2022, 02:20 PM
Give the 'deets'! Don't spare.. :)
Body nice and fit; tall dark and handsome face I’d ride all night.
A bit younger than what I prefer. I like my old sugar daddies who don’t know they’re sugar daddies
seashell
06-11-2022, 02:21 PM
It can be really sad to bring a new cat into the house as a 'playmate' for a cat you've had for a long time, only to see them hiss at each other, growl at each other, stress each other out... and sometimes they'll bully each other...
I have five cats and have successfully integrated all of them, but the relationship dynamics are totally unpredictable, as far as who is friends with whom, who gets bullied, etc.
It's possible your older cat is one of the rare, flexible, social ones! Keep us updated! ♡
Thanks, those are really good points! She's a pretty solitary cat, but she's had other cats in the house throughout her life. The most recent one passed away, they used to play together, and I think she misses him. She wants attention from me a lot more now than I would have expected. But she's pretty old and tires out easily, so I can imagine a young kitten might be way too stressful!
indiegirl
06-11-2022, 07:39 PM
MY MOTHER GAVE 60 DAYS NOTICE to my shitty roommate. She was really nice about it to her even though she wanted to stay. BYE BYE!!!
https://i.ibb.co/tHDkJhY/Screen-Shot-2022-06-11-at-7-38-26-PM.png (https://imgbb.com/)
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 08:11 PM
That's great, Indie!
Gives me some hope for my shitty situation, even tho it's different.
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 08:15 PM
I didn't know cats bullied each other, huh.
When I had 2 male rabbits, they didn't get along, kept em separated, when I brought the new guy in the other one stared him down all night! (I checked)
charlie61
06-11-2022, 08:47 PM
Normally we'd have sexytimes on weekend mornings, but he stayed up late and had a few drinks, so he was totally konked out when i woke up at 7. I stayed in bed for a few minutes, spent some time on my phone, and finally just got up. He woke up two hours later.
Sorry buddy, you snooze, you lose. I'm trying to train him to expect that if he chooses to stay up late like that, he'll miss out on morning fun. That way he can decide what's more important to him: having a few drinks and watching TV late into the night, or going to bed at a reasonable time and waking up with me the next morning. It's his choice!
Update - he went to bed before i did tonight. ;)
chanzep
06-11-2022, 09:05 PM
Good to hear Indie.
Dreamqueen
06-11-2022, 09:57 PM
Lol! I’ve always had a threesome fantasy with two men
One giving great oral and the other one is a pro titty sucker.
i have yet to line this up but before I die I’m going to make it happen.
Go for it!
It was how I spent my late 20's,...and part of my 30's.
The guys I was with were usually friends, so it flowed easier.
But, they all had one rule, "NO crossing swords."
Lol.
Sure, guys, if you say so.:duel:
yaya_cash
06-12-2022, 10:32 AM
I'm sorry, I hope you can get a break through!
I'm going to try fishing or to make some funds in the club. How has it been in the clubs for others pot covid?
carmen_b
06-12-2022, 11:22 AM
The swords can be like 2 feet away haha. Zero risk.
Maybe some of us will have some things to report in the sexy thread hahaha.
Go for it!
It was how I spent my late 20's,...and part of my 30's.
The guys I was with were usually friends, so it flowed easier.
But, they all had one rule, "NO crossing swords."
Lol.
Sure, guys, if you say so.:duel:
xxxGothBarbie
06-12-2022, 11:33 AM
So 'smother' told bfs brother that she doesn't wanna return to NY lol
She has extended her stay apparently so yesssss!!!! :)
Everyone's hoping she'll stay for like at least another week maybe longer. She's living it up where she's at bc her other son who I'm assuming is the golden child in her eyes is treating her like a queen over there. She hasn't once even called my bf to ask how he's doing , nothing so yea good riddance if she does stay there.
carmen_b
06-12-2022, 11:42 AM
^ Nice.
Grace108
06-12-2022, 07:20 PM
Hi to everyone! Still here! I haven’t log in for ageeees, but still dancing!
All this Covid was very heavy in Europe and on top I lost a family member. So very difficult year.
But currently clubs are busy, money come in.
I am thinking to try to come in US probably autumn. For two weeks. Short and easy. I can get a visa.
Clubs are greedier here and there are a ton of new girls. I need to work hard and be very focus with all that is going on. Still happy at the club where I am dancing just feeling as I should get new energy in.
moneybags
06-12-2022, 10:11 PM
MY MOTHER GAVE 60 DAYS NOTICE to my shitty roommate. She was really nice about it to her even though she wanted to stay. BYE BYE!!!
https://i.ibb.co/tHDkJhY/Screen-Shot-2022-06-11-at-7-38-26-PM.png (https://imgbb.com/)
Yay! The only roommate I can stand is with four legs. It was fun as a 20 something in college, but not so much as a 30 something in college. It’s a bit different now. LOL
indiegirl
06-12-2022, 10:23 PM
Yay! The only roommate I can’t stand is with four legs. It was fun as a 20 something in college, but not so much as a 30 something in college. It’s a bit different now. LOL
I feel ya. All that I liked in my early 20's I've grown to hate now. There's younger students in my class that enjoy going to concerts, parties, hanging out together, going places together, and in my head I'm like "I can't wait to go home to relax and nap before studying."
Dreamqueen
06-13-2022, 12:11 AM
The swords can be like 2 feet away haha. Zero risk.
Maybe some of us will have some things to report in the sexy thread hahaha.
Looking forward to it.
seashell
06-13-2022, 12:20 AM
On the one hand, I want to ask my ex if he wants to date again. We've gotten back into the swing of doing everything together, and it feels like the natural progression of things...
But on the other hand, I'm too chicken to take that step. And I don't know if he will. We're stuck in friends with benefits purgatory.
moneybags
06-13-2022, 11:14 AM
I was talking about sports with my sports chiropractor and I wanted to say, “I don’t like any sports where balls are in my face.” LOL I didn’t go there. I want to keep our relationship as professional as possible after he broke my heart. I gray rock him now. I’m not entertaining a man for free much less when I’m paying him. I’m there did get my body worked on not to entertain HIM! I was still nice and made small talk, but I fell way the fuck back. I’m not giving a man free sexual attention especially when he’s unavailable. Yep. I’m focused on my money now. Fuck love and get money.
Cutie101
06-13-2022, 01:53 PM
On the one hand, I want to ask my ex if he wants to date again. We've gotten back into the swing of doing everything together, and it feels like the natural progression of things...
But on the other hand, I'm too chicken to take that step. And I don't know if he will. We're stuck in friends with benefits purgatory.
I guess things will naturally happen, no need to ask. Keep the magic going, rather than being "officially" back togheter, you know :))) That way you actually see if he really wants you back :) But that's just my 2 cents :))
indiegirl
06-14-2022, 06:56 PM
I pooped today and lost 4 pounds when I weighed myself afterwards. SCORE!!! hahahahahaha
WendiStarr
06-17-2022, 04:15 PM
My youngest has reverted back to sleeping like a newborn at night again (up every 2 hours). I've been exhausted. So, I went to lab for blood work with hairy legs. I totally forgot to shave. Oh well. No men bothered me.
buttonpop
06-17-2022, 05:37 PM
I confess that I hate my masters degree cohort. Most of them are gossipy, mean, and immature. Half the value of the program is in our cohort's feedback, but their feedback to me is always half-assed, vague, and worthless, even though I always give detailed high-quality feedback to them.
My program needs to start doing interviews because they could have weeded out people who honestly have no chance of making into this industry. Inability to hit deadlines, being openly rude to professors and students, bursting out into tears or yelling in anger when they hear feedback-- in a career that is completely built upon feedback mind you. Not to mention severe punctuality issues. Our industry will blacklist you for being late to 1 meeting, but some of these students are 10 min late to class every day. I guess my program is happy to take their 100k in tuition and set them up for failure, but it's really frustrating to me when I think about the hundreds of applicants who would have given their left foot to be in this program.
one more year...
seashell
06-18-2022, 03:11 AM
I guess things will naturally happen, no need to ask. Keep the magic going, rather than being "officially" back togheter, you know :))) That way you actually see if he really wants you back :) But that's just my 2 cents :))
Good advice! I think you're right, just need to feel things out and see what happens!
Confession about my other ex... the ex fiance from the UK... I'm totally stalking his new relationship on social media, and honestly, it's kinda cute! I'm happy he seems to have ended up with someone decent. We both seem a LOT happier now.
miss.a.p1600
06-18-2022, 05:50 AM
^it feels much better when men can move on successfully
indiegirl
06-18-2022, 12:29 PM
I have just had a bright idea today.....I've been watching the price of housing everywhere regardless of state increase. SOOO instead of eventually leaving California, what I was thinking, (when I have the time) I am going to work to save to pay down my mortgage as fast as possible. I'm in the middle of transferring surg tech schools due to my previous one being horrible all-around to a top of the line school. It will buy me some time to work.
I'm also hoping to learn some other methods of working other than sex work so I can pay this house off and be stress free when I graduate.
I feel so refreshed after taking time off from working. It's crazy! I couldn't imagine how comfortable life would be without paying for housing though. I really want to pay this house off.
kimbe
06-18-2022, 12:56 PM
This is something that often cross my mind, I do find a hard male orgasm fascinating and exiting, it's something very primal, sexy and easy about it.
I also confess I envy the ease of the mans (short) way to reach an orgasm.
smeca
06-18-2022, 01:08 PM
^^^ yesss, I was in awe when I was first with my bf, his orgasm was so hard and vocal, very sexy. They get it easier but i feel like ours can be way way more intense?
This reminded me, I've been writing fiction and thinking from the man's pov (regarding romance)... confession is for a while I had this weird desire to experience sex as a man. I like women but just imagine enjoying a woman's body as a man,hmmm... idk if anyone can relate lol! :-\
kimbe
06-18-2022, 01:14 PM
^^^ yesss, I was in awe when I was first with my bf, his orgasm was so hard and vocal, very sexy. They get it easier but i feel like ours can be way way more intense?
Yes, I agree to that, if not more intense, at least equal. I accept the difference between them and us, but I do envy their easy way to a good and hard orgasm.
carmen_b
06-18-2022, 01:17 PM
I've " had a dick " before when doing LSD. hahaha
There is probably more to explain there hahaha
^^^ yesss, I was in awe when I was first with my bf, his orgasm was so hard and vocal, very sexy. They get it easier but i feel like ours can be way way more intense?
This reminded me, I've been writing fiction and thinking from the man's pov (regarding romance)... confession is for a while I had this weird desire to experience sex as a man. I like women but just imagine enjoying a woman's body as a man,hmmm... idk if anyone can relate lol! :-\
moneybags
06-18-2022, 01:42 PM
Doing a light worker class. And he asked if we are professional healers. Ummm…does sexual healing count?
Dreamqueen
06-18-2022, 09:15 PM
Doing a light worker class. And he asked if we are professional healers. Ummm…does sexual healing count?
Is there any other kind? :D
Jk.
I 'sometimes' practice Hoodoo.
There's a belief that if you wear something from the dead you will have good luck, or.....fill in the blank.
I wore some of my mom's ashes in a vial around my neck when I went out tonight.
She was very powerful, even though she would never tell you that.
Thanks Mom. And thanks for adding that 'extra' level of protection.
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-18-2022, 09:27 PM
I have just had a bright idea today.....I've been watching the price of housing everywhere regardless of state increase. SOOO instead of eventually leaving California, what I was thinking, (when I have the time) I am going to work to save to pay down my mortgage as fast as possible. I'm in the middle of transferring surg tech schools due to my previous one being horrible all-around to a top of the line school. It will buy me some time to work.
I'm also hoping to learn some other methods of working other than sex work so I can pay this house off and be stress free when I graduate.
I feel so refreshed after taking time off from working. It's crazy! I couldn't imagine how comfortable life would be without paying for housing though. I really want to pay this house off.
I've been talking to people about housing prices. The "priced out" crisis is pretty much the norm now.
My confession- fed the dog table scraps and I lived to regret it. Ugh. Poor little bugger got sick all over the house.
moneybags
06-19-2022, 02:41 AM
^^^awe. Least s/he didn’t have to go the vet.
Yeah. I’m grateful for a safe and affordable place to live. Shit is crazy! The financial system is all manipulated by the “money changers”
Doing a light worker class. And he asked if we are professional healers. Ummm…does sexual healing count?
Well this class paid for itself! I just donated like $5 because come on i didn’t think it was legit-clearing the light worker persecution imprint. Holy hell! I had a great night! I manifested effortlessly! Clearing the imprint did help!
https://edwardmannix.com/lwa-june2022-replay/
Aurora_Sunset
06-19-2022, 05:15 AM
I went to my friend's bridal shower yesterday, and noticed I was only the only bridesmaid not helping out with stuff. But I was never asked to do anything, so... I would have happily helped plan anything, run anything, shown up early to do stuff, if I had been asked. But no one ever said anything to me. I thought about going over and asking if I could help with anything, but I honestly had no clue what was going on, so I just hung out at the table with my mom lol
Oh well. One of the bridesmaids didn't even make it, so I guess I don't have to feel horrible about it.
Aurora_Sunset
06-19-2022, 05:32 AM
I spent last night going through everything I still have stored at my parents' house and deciding what can be tossed and what I want to keep, and then what I can take home with me vs. what I still need them to store in the garage of their new house when they move. I really saved way more shit than I needed to...
It's not egregious- it's just stuff that I have NO reason to save. Like a plaque with the Girls Scout Promise etched on it and a picture of me in my girl scout uniform from 5th grade maybe? I mean, what am I gonna do with that? It's not like I'll ever display it anywhere lol But it feels weird to throw away stuff like that. I honestly wish my mom had just gone through my things before I got here and thrown away a bunch of it before I ever saw it. If she had done that, I would have never even remembered it existed and never would've cared. But now that I've seen it, I can't bring myself to get rid of it....
Oh well, this is just the first pass. I always do this whenever I'm trying to clean out old things. I start out very discerning, and then over the next few hours, start to lose the willpower to throw anything away. But once I get all these boxes of crap home and go through them again, trying to find a spot for them, maybe I'll be better able to toss things then after the nostalgia is out of my system.
Aurora_Sunset
06-19-2022, 05:39 AM
Tag-on confession: I still have an old friend's senior yearbook from high school. I kept it that summer because I kept meaning to write a long, personal message in it and then give it back to her. But I never did. We ended up parting ways right after college started - she became "too cool" to hang out or talk to me. By the time I ran into her once, the summer after freshman year, she made it very clear she had absolutely no interest in seeing me anymore. I didn't remember I had that yearbook until a few years later, the first time my mom went through my old things and brought it to my attention. I waffled with the idea of sending her a facebook message to see if her parents still lived at the same address and I could just drop it in her mailbox, but I overthought it and never did it.
At this point, I've removed her and all mutual friends associated with her from all social media. It's been 15 years. I still have this damn yearbook, and I don't know what to do... lol The senior yearbook is the one yearbook I plan to keep, but on the other hand, if I somehow lost it, I wouldn't consider it the end of the world. She's had 15 years to message me about it if she had ever thought about it and considered it important, and she never has. I don't want to throw it out... But I also really don't want to reach out to her just for this either. It was really painful for me to accept that we aren't friends anymore, and I don't want to talk her about anything. I also feel like she might act snooty and laugh at me for even thinking she would care enough to get it back - that's the kind of person she became after high school. Idk... I don't know what to do with this damn book.
ETA: Yeah, I can't even find her on social media to message anymore. She must have her privacy settings pretty high. At this point, I would have to go to the page of the one old mutual friend I can still find and message HER about it, and... that just seems like a lot of work for such an awkward exchange.
indiegirl
06-19-2022, 07:49 AM
I've been talking to people about housing prices. The "priced out" crisis is pretty much the norm now.
My confession- fed the dog table scraps and I lived to regret it. Ugh. Poor little bugger got sick all over the house.
It's saddening! I remember I was looking at a place in Texas before it became the "new California" and it cost 98,000 for a beautiful home. Cut to now, it's around 400,000 for that same type of home. I might as well stay in California.
Totally get the doggo scrap issue haha. My pit bull is allergic to everything. At least the doggo threw it up! Nothing like a pricey vet appointment to make you freak out! lol.
Once the allergy bumps show up and benadryl doesn't work, it sucks having to pay a couple hundred total for a shot of cortisone and the basic walk in fee.
buttonpop
06-19-2022, 10:03 AM
But now that I've seen it, I can't bring myself to get rid of it....
If it's not too late, maybe take photos of the things before you throw them away? It makes it easier to get rid of.
I used to keep almost everything that was sentimental to me. I kept hundreds of movie tickets, event wristbands, and concert tickets for example. After hauling 2 large boxes of this stuff on multiple cross-country moves I finally had enough. The way I finally got rid of stuff is by taking nice photographs of everything. One day I hope to go back and write up a few sentences for each item of what it meant to me. I forget more stuff every year.
Genoveve
06-19-2022, 02:04 PM
^^^That's what I do. Also now a lot of times when I see really cute stuff in stores that I want to buy because I just like looking at it, rather than wasting money and buying more clutter I just take a photo of it so if I want to just look at it again I can.
xxxGothBarbie
06-21-2022, 04:50 AM
I've developed a second crush on a different guy *sigh* lol
I feel guilty bc bf and I are getting along alot more now and he's been giving me money regardless if I've been too lazy to work or not.
kimbe
06-21-2022, 12:51 PM
The time T was here was great, but I confess I enjoy being on my own as well after he left yesterday.. :D
indiegirl
06-21-2022, 11:14 PM
I had therapy hour where both me and my driver talked about personal things for 45 minutes. Good talk bahahaha! I dunno how this happens but it's so funny when people just open up like a book to me and don't expect that to happen.