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miss.a.p1600
10-13-2022, 04:08 PM
The workplace is offering time off - unpaid - cause it’s slow.
I am debating it because I want to have an excuse to be “alone” and I want to get easy money but I do kind of want to leave work early and maybe pick up some edibles so I can deal with the ball and chains
indiegirl
10-13-2022, 05:46 PM
Trying to work at the sc last night turned out not that great. I haven't worked in a sc for a few years now since having my 2 most recent babies. It was frustrating and disappointing. Too many cheap timewasting men that want to sit and talk but not buy any dances or tip. If they want to sit and chat or sit and stare at women while drinking overpriced beer, they can go to a bar. It was like pulling teeth and I only walked out of there with $80 after tip out. Ugh. Not wanting to go back there again. Maybe Friday night would be better but maybe I should just do fbsm again.
That pulling of teeth feeling just to make little money was exactly why I left dancing. By the end, I got dolled up and paid tip out along with customer conversations for free, driving roundtrip, and trying to sell dances for very little to no money in return. Dancing by the end felt like gambling and the casino chips were my time.
moneybags
10-13-2022, 05:56 PM
That pulling of teeth feeling just to make little money was exactly why I left dancing. By the end, I got dolled up and paid tip out along with customer conversations for free, driving roundtrip, and trying to sell dances for very little to no money in return. Dancing by the end felt like gambling and the casino chips were my time.
Same. I will make way more after I’m done with school. Dancing is only worth it you are banking. I have enough regulars I do okay. One night I came in after my fitness competition and only made $160 on a Saturday. I placed top 5 in all my categories and these MF didn’t want a $25 dance from ME! I was pissed I even came in. I would rather hang out at home than entertain broke men. It was awful. A bad night sucks a million times worse than a bad night as a waitress or comparable civ job. It really is traumatic to be groped for almost nothing.
That being said Wendi. It is worth in emergencies. I think you should try again. Once you get your own place you could maybe cam again. FSSW might pay better but obviously there’s more risk involved with full service.
Just be prepared for bad nights and SAVE on your good nights because it’s feast or famine now n days.
I still make enough it’s worth it to dance.
LoveyD
10-13-2022, 06:34 PM
^^ congrats on top 5 in all your categories money!
I won't even bother heading back to the club. For starters, I'd have to start out as a newbie license wise and pay over $1,000. For perspective, when I first started in 2004 I got fingerprints and a permit all for $165. And every time I drive by the club I used to work at, it's totally dead. I always had regulars because I spend so much time working so thank God for them, but if I didn't have them I know I would have been screwed. Even with regulars, my days and nights were not what they used to be because the industry seems to be taking a crap and dying.
miss.a.p1600
10-13-2022, 06:55 PM
My employer changed my position at the last minute
Idk if this is good or bad.
I know I’m new and this position is overwhelming af but damn!?!?
Tell me you’re sucking at your job without telling me you suck at your job
Im going to try to make the best of it and see the positive
Welp back to the early am grind
xxxGothBarbie
10-13-2022, 09:06 PM
That's why I hung up my heels too. I make the same amount on cam & I don't gotta watch my weight or worry about impressing anyone other than myself. Fuck that rat race.
chanzep
10-13-2022, 10:11 PM
Miss P I wouldn't take unpaid leave when your trying to move, you probably need your paychecks to look steady. Don't worry about it you suck at your job for now your new. I suck at my job but they won't fire me I think they don't want to pay uemployment. I'm leaving soon anyway . If you like your job just go for it. If not do what I did a year ago stay until you move them find something else and quit. These companies don't give a shot about you. Use them for what you need short or long-term . But they not worth stressing .
indiegirl
10-14-2022, 01:16 AM
I literally spent the rest of the day sleeping after my finals yesterday and then had a 1 hour dance party alone in my room on my bed playing old school hits like juvenile-back that thing up. My dogs looked so surprised because I'm usually in a bitch mood or exhausted from school and they got excited and started wagging their tails and grabbing their toys to play at midnight. I needed this moment so BAD even though I sound crazy. I haven't had fun in forever LOL! I feel better. I should've just gone down to the local strip club with a sign taped on my back saying I am MUTE but accept tips for dances or stage only just so I coulda profited off my mood for dancing ANYWAYS. LOLLL. (we all know one of those cheap mf-ers woulda pulled their phone out and tried to text-talk to me for free conversation lol).
Cheers to today, I have a full week of other people's tests and classes to do as well as 35 hours of surg tech lab training with my mother. All on my week vacation off bahaha.
xxxGothBarbie
10-14-2022, 06:41 AM
I am embarrassed to say that I've come to the realization that I've been breadcrumbed by my UK crushy. I feel very foolish thinking that he was ever interested in me.
miss.a.p1600
10-14-2022, 09:11 AM
Miss P I wouldn't take unpaid leave when your trying to move, you probably need your paychecks to look steady. Don't worry about it you suck at your job for now your new. I suck at my job but they won't fire me I think they don't want to pay uemployment. I'm leaving soon anyway . If you like your job just go for it. If not do what I did a year ago stay until you move them find something else and quit. These companies don't give a shot about you. Use them for what you need short or long-term . But they not worth stressing .
lol at them being cheap on unemployment. I didn’t know if you get fired you can get unemployment?
good point on staying Thank you
i ended up staying to the end of the night and getting my extra money
carmen_b
10-14-2022, 10:04 AM
^ Yeah, they have to fire you ( from what I understand ).
if you quit you don't qualify.
Everyone go get FIRED today !
carmen_b
10-14-2022, 10:05 AM
It happens to the best of us. My Aussie left the country without me mid 2019 and I was still sending him apartments for the two of us in Melbourne for like three weeks lol . I also offered him a car ( I had two at the time ) and use of my cabin if he wanted to stay here lol but not live together ( be more normal and see each other a few days a weeks if he stayed v.s. living together ).
Those love chemicals are a super powerful thing.
I had BIG PLANS for us hahaha.
When you get the flirtatious texts and calls it is so easy to get roped in.
You can tell the difference thought if they are not asking to meet ( if you haven't met yet ) or not scaling the relationship up in a reasonable time.
I am embarrassed to say that I've come to the realization that I've been breadcrumbed by my UK crushy. I feel very foolish thinking that he was ever interested in me.
miss.a.p1600
10-14-2022, 01:18 PM
^ Yeah, they have to fire you ( from what I understand ).
if you quit you don't qualify.
Everyone go get FIRED today !
Well shit I would have let myself get fired from my last job (the one I ranted here daily about the toxic work environment and the conniving vulcher co-workers who tried to force me to leave)
I didn’t want to give those fuckfaces the satisfaction of firing me though. I refused to let those cunts orgasm trying to fire me.
When the bitch called a “performance meeting” aka a corporate gang up on me in their office I told them what they wanted to hear then the next day I emailed that tales from the crypt looking manager bitch and told her she could shove that low paying job up her wide ass. I packed all my shit the night before when they left for the day and I never came back after my lunch break. And hoped they got slammed with work since I disappeared on her bitch ass.
guess my ego was bigger than my government unemployment bank account
chanzep
10-14-2022, 01:26 PM
Its common for these companies to try to bully people to leave instead of firing. Bastards if they want you gone they can pay.
Im sick of toxic companies. Its so draining
Staci
10-14-2022, 01:33 PM
Well shit I would have let myself get fired from my last job (the one I ranted here daily about the toxic work environment and the conniving vulcher co-workers who tried to force me to leave)
I didn’t want to give those fuckfaces the satisfaction of firing me though. I refused to let those cunts orgasm trying to fire me.
When the bitch called a “performance meeting” aka a corporate gang up on me in their office I told them what they wanted to hear then the next day I emailed that tales from the crypt looking manager bitch and told her she could shove that low paying job up her wide ass. I packed all my shit the night before when they left for the day and I never came back after my lunch break. And hoped they got slammed with work since I disappeared on her bitch ass.
guess my ego was bigger than my government unemployment bank account
A company can (and often do) protest your unemployment benefit claims. If they can prove you were fired 'for cause' - your claim will be denied.
When I worked in HR, it was part of my job to protest these claims. Companies pay higher unemployment rates based on payouts in claims, so it is worthwhile for them to go through the process of protesting them.
chanzep
10-14-2022, 04:25 PM
I can imagine assholes.
moneybags
10-14-2022, 05:01 PM
I am embarrassed to say that I've come to the realization that I've been breadcrumbed by my UK crushy. I feel very foolish thinking that he was ever interested in me.
Same. Just cut him off and move on if you can. Don’t feel embarrassed. He should feel embarrassed for acting like a fuckboy
miss.a.p1600
10-14-2022, 05:04 PM
I confess
Last night I had dreams of fucking this executive dude I dated a couple years ago.
Unfortunately for him it never went beyond heavy makeout session. I could tell he was going to be a good lover because he turned me on without much instruction and direction. Very skilled.
Thankfully I discovered he was a fuckboi player and I wasn’t going to bust it open for no player type dude without AMPLE compensation (cause those type of dudes are gonna be good in bed but dealing with those nut jobs is a pain in the ass) so I had to leave him on read.
I do wonder how good it would have been though. If only he would have understood the assignment better……
charlie61
10-14-2022, 05:50 PM
Check out the youtube channel "soft white underbelly" if you get a chance - he interviews people like sex workers in a super respectful, non-sensationalized, calm way. It's so good!
indiegirl
10-14-2022, 06:37 PM
I confess
Last night I had dreams of fucking this executive dude I dated a couple years ago.
Unfortunately for him it never went beyond heavy makeout session. I could tell he was going to be a good lover because he turned me on without much instruction and direction. Very skilled.
Thankfully I discovered he was a fuckboi player and I wasn’t going to bust it open for no player type dude without AMPLE compensation (cause those type of dudes are gonna be good in bed but dealing with those nut jobs is a pain in the ass) so I had to leave him on read.
I do wonder how good it would have been though. If only he would have understood the assignment better……
Hahahaha! Dreams feel so real sometimes too! Woke up from my dream last night thinking "Oh where did I pull all that money? Then realized, OHH nevermind." LOL.
I had a dream last night I went to Italy with a wealthy customer and he ended up feeling extra indulgent because I was promising to be with him and he gave me so much money my suitcase broke. Then when I was there I started panicking because I realized I had to figure out how to get this amount of money past customs and there was so much of it and devising ways to flatten all that money. Then we went on a boat in Italy with people who were randomly there that I knew and it was the nicest dream I had in a long time. Oh and the wealthy guy found out I was lying about being with him so I hauled ass to get my broken suitcase full of money out of his suite before he could take it back and book a new room. LOL.
kimbe
10-14-2022, 11:45 PM
^^Yep! Sometimes it can be very disappointing to wake up after a dream.. You just want to go back!
indiegirl
10-15-2022, 12:55 AM
^^Yep! Sometimes it can be very disappointing to wake up after a dream.. You just want to go back!
So true!!
Dreamqueen
10-15-2022, 10:41 AM
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cjq0w7yJZda/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Ha ha! I would love to do this in my front yard.
carmen_b
10-15-2022, 11:28 AM
^ Oh yeah !
AND she has multiple admirers !
Prrrr
I think I saw some 20s thrown lol.
kimbe
10-15-2022, 11:40 AM
Sometimes I wish I could enjoy sex at the same level as my partner does..
carmen_b
10-15-2022, 01:39 PM
^ Well ........ I know what you mean here lol
Jucie
10-15-2022, 01:59 PM
^ Isn’t that quite common??
carmen_b
10-15-2022, 04:05 PM
^ You mean with the men being more enthusiastic ? Maybe !
Jucie
10-16-2022, 05:58 AM
^ Exactly! And that they often have a need for more frequent sex.
moneybags
10-16-2022, 11:20 AM
I use to feel bad for manipulating customers to get money. Every time I feel bad for them I found out they have a wife or girlfriend, or they do something to show they aren’t a good guy. Now I see it as a form of reparations for all the awful things women have to go through everyday. When women get equal rights and can walk the streets at night I’ll feel bad until then $$$. Maybe that’s makes me a toxic feminine. I don’t really care. Actually I think it’s part of being a dualistic human being. Doing bad things for the right reasons.
neverendingkneebruises
10-16-2022, 04:57 PM
^^ It is reparations and why I'm out there scamming every man I come across, not just SC customers LOL!
I wouldn't feel too bad about Sw customers, they come to the club/onto the camsites with the intention of having their money manipulated out of them :P
Aurora_Sunset
10-17-2022, 04:52 PM
I was in such a good mood today, and now I'm so sad, I don't know what to do.
neverendingkneebruises
10-17-2022, 09:11 PM
I have a nasty ingrown hair on my nipple which I have no choice but to cover with makeup for work, which is only making it worse, and it's affecting my confidence so much :-[
charlie61
10-17-2022, 09:43 PM
I have a nasty ingrown hair on my nipple which I have no choice but to cover with makeup for work, which is only making it worse, and it's affecting my confidence so much :-[
Can you turn it into a mole / beauty mark?
kimbe
10-17-2022, 11:22 PM
I just love to have a great provider! :)
Even though my account has a shit load of money right now, I love having my credit card bills taken care of..
indiegirl
10-18-2022, 09:46 AM
Back on Effexor and holy hell this stuff can change a mood.
I feel on cloud 9 not having to be in school this week as well...could not be happier. So grateful for this time off. It was SOOOO needed.
LoveyD
10-18-2022, 12:11 PM
^^ that stuff is hell to get off of. I've seen people go through terrible withdrawals. Glad it is helping your mood!
I confess that I'm excited to receive my new generator for my car. It's going to make life a lot easier.
Dreamqueen
10-18-2022, 12:39 PM
^^ that stuff is hell to get off of. I've seen people go through terrible withdrawals. Glad it is helping your mood!
I confess that I'm excited to receive my new generator for my car. It's going to make life a lot easier.
I'm excited for you.
What does the generator do, and what were the symptoms that it needed to be replaced?
LoveyD
10-18-2022, 02:13 PM
Thank you! ^^It's just a portable generator that I can take anywhere, like on camping and stuff. It charges phones, I can use my heat styling tools, and I can also use my red light LED mask when I relax at night. It's not a car part, it's just a generator that you can pretty much take anywhere. And I just recharged my phone with it. $80 well spent.
I love it! No more leaving my phone in random places to charge!
Dreamqueen
10-19-2022, 01:05 PM
Thank you! ^^It's just a portable generator that I can take anywhere, like on camping and stuff. It charges phones, I can use my heat styling tools, and I can also use my red light LED mask when I relax at night. It's not a car part, it's just a generator that you can pretty much take anywhere. And I just recharged my phone with it. $80 well spent.
I love it! No more leaving my phone in random places to charge!
Oh, yes, THAT kind of generator.
I bought one too, and it paid for itself in the first month I had it.
A car hit a transformer and all of the power went out.
It was 113 degrees.
I was able to plug in my arctic air units, charge and use my phone, and plug in a lamp.
If the power hadn't come back on, I would have plugged in my mini fridge.
I also have the solar panels. Did you get those too to charge it?
This litter power house has brought me so much peace of mind.
When I first moved here, a storm knocked out my power for a month!
No, no, no.
xxxGothBarbie
10-19-2022, 07:18 PM
I got spooked earlier today while looking for a place to go from here. Everything is so damn expensive and I don't want to end up on the street bc of high living costs. I dunno what state to drive off to either. I'm so damn confused about that situation. I feel powerless at the moment. I have a small nest egg but it's not much especially if I'm gonna be paying $400 a week for a hotel or airbnb somewhere. Ugh I needed to confess that.
LoveyD
10-19-2022, 07:31 PM
Oh, yes, THAT kind of generator.
I bought one too, and it paid for itself in the first month I had it.
A car hit a transformer and all of the power went out.
It was 113 degrees.
I was able to plug in my arctic air units, charge and use my phone, and plug in a lamp.
If the power hadn't come back on, I would have plugged in my mini fridge.
I also have the solar panels. Did you get those too to charge it?
This litter power house has brought me so much peace of mind.
When I first moved here, a storm knocked out my power for a month!
No, no, no.
That's awesome that your generator was so helpful! I love this thing! I was able to do orders consistently all day and still keep my phone charged. I didn't have to take 2 hours off to recharge or anything. And I had a good day grocery getting! I I still have to buy the solar panels. It was definitely a worthy investment and now in case of an emergency, I'll be prepared. It even has a light on it, too!
Dreamqueen
10-20-2022, 11:19 AM
That's awesome that your generator was so helpful! I love this thing! I was able to do orders consistently all day and still keep my phone charged. I didn't have to take 2 hours off to recharge or anything. And I had a good day grocery getting! I I still have to buy the solar panels. It was definitely a worthy investment and now in case of an emergency, I'll be prepared. It even has a light on it, too!
It's such a comforting feeling knowing we have this.
I found it, and the solar panels on Wish.Com if you don't want to spend a lot for them (panels).
The only thing I didn't like was that the panel hinge/connector melted off from the intense desert heat the first time I used it.
Granted it was 118 degrees out, but still.
neverendingkneebruises
10-20-2022, 03:06 PM
Can you turn it into a mole / beauty mark?
I got the hair out and it scabbed over. Gross :'( I'm just going to get a small bandaid to cover it with so I can work and not risk infection. If any customers ask I'll just tell them I got bit on too hard during sexy time lol
WendiStarr
10-20-2022, 07:07 PM
I called it a night early tonight. My legs and feet were killing me and it was sóoooo slow/dead, like 4 dudes came in and 20 frickin' dancers. Must be sports or something going on. I should've just did fbsm all day.
indiegirl
10-20-2022, 10:18 PM
I called it a night early tonight. My legs and feet were killing me and it was sóoooo slow/dead, like 4 dudes came in and 20 frickin' dancers. Must be sports or something going on. I should've just did fbsm all day.
Omg the worst is when strip clubs provide tv's or a drop down tv screen of a sports or wrestling game so we're all stuck for hours waiting for them to finish the game.
chanzep
10-20-2022, 10:24 PM
Thursday night football and baseball on.
kimbe
10-20-2022, 11:50 PM
A movie night ended with sex on the couch instead, him falling asleep almost immediately after..
neverendingkneebruises
10-21-2022, 12:19 PM
Omg the worst is when strip clubs provide tv's or a drop down tv screen of a sports or wrestling game so we're all stuck for hours waiting for them to finish the game.
I hate it!! I would literally rather them wait to come into the club. Especially since you know they're glancing over at the ( . )( . ) withoht tipping. My club requires girls to go on stage if there's more than 3 customers even if they're not tipping. UGH clubs need to stop catering to freeloaders. Or put the tvs in the VIP rooms ::)
Confession for today; found out there's a yoga studio a quick walk from my club. I'm pumped. I signed up for classes for the whole month so I can go in right before work every night :D
indiegirl
10-21-2022, 07:11 PM
I need as many customers as possible tonight. It was 220 total for the room, 350 for the monthly ad and around 90 round trip for Uber. C’mon god, do your magic please!
On a hilarious side note, I had one of those uber drivers who blasted his music and sang to hip hop songs like it was karaoke night bahahaha. I guess he does not care if I’m in the vehicle or not to do that LOL.