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miss.a.p1600
01-20-2023, 10:34 AM
^lol I woke up without my pj bottoms the other morning too, guess I learned to do that in my sleep ?

my pj pants mysteriously get hiked up to my knees and I notice after I wake up next day

chanzep
01-20-2023, 04:42 PM
^^^that's kinda scary Indie. We aren’t even allowed to get C’s because you don’t want a c nurse taking care of you. Ugh, I’d be half tempted to report the school, but you’re probably better off just focusing on school and graduating. Wow! I’d be pissed too! It really is a patient safety issue. You might want to call the accrediting agency and give them a tip. I know no one likes snitch’s, but what happens if a patient is adversely effected! If they did that in nursing school, I would leave an anonymous call to the accrediting center. It really is a patient safety issue. So many things can go wrong in surgery if someone doesn’t know what they are doing!


My doctor told me about a family member outing herself as a stripper . I know I shouldn’t care, but she sounded like a “stripper”. I hate when girls are the stereotypical stripper that’s got daddy issues and drinks too much. I feel like they make us all look bad. I’m not judging I’m a recovering alcoholic, and it’s not fair we get looked under the microscope. I’m working really hard to advocate for sex workers as normal people and this bitch has to fuck it all up. Lol.

i educated him about transactional relationships. I think I did a good job of reframing everything to make it sound more normal. Come on though.

I’m really proud of myself for advocating for strippers as professional work that should be respected and is also can be used therapeutically.

Hopefully he doesn’t meet anymore batshit crazy strippers to undo all the work I’ve done.

Vanilla people are just as crazy-they’re just better at hiding it is all. I know that for a fact.

Sounds really judgemental to me . So what if someone has daddy isssues. I do and I went through heavy drinking stages to cope with various things. I'm fine now .

As for advocating for people to see strippers as normal sounds like a big waste of time. Some strippers don't want to be seen as normal or feel like they need vanilla people to respect their job.

WendiStarr
01-20-2023, 05:05 PM
I wish there was a fast forward button in life. I want it to be next weekend instead because I start school and have my 2nd kid's birthday party and I get to be around adults who will gladly give me a break.

kamiliam
01-20-2023, 05:57 PM
Sounds really judgemental to me . So what if someone has daddy isssues. I do and I went through heavy drinking stages to cope with various things. I'm fine now .

As for advocating for people to see strippers as normal sounds like a big waste of time. Some strippers don't want to be seen as normal or feel like they need vanilla people to respect their job.


for me I would rather be considered a recovering alcoholic rather then a recovering alcoholic cam model or alcoholic hr manager. Because the problems had nothing to do with the jobs, and can happen to anyone. Mine were also long and drawn out, most people age out of that messyness if given the time and opportunity.

We all have daddy issues, although I have way more mommy issues

moneybags
01-20-2023, 06:35 PM
Sounds really judgemental to me . So what if someone has daddy isssues. I do and I went through heavy drinking stages to cope with various things. I'm fine now .

As for advocating for people to see strippers as normal sounds like a big waste of time. Some strippers don't want to be seen as normal or feel like they need vanilla people to respect their job.

I’m sorry if I was being judgmental. I only have a year and half here and then I’m moving. Right now, I’m just doing the best I can to cope with life in the Midwest. I see I need to book an appointment with a therapist if this is triggering me. I’m just tired of being a stripper in rural area and having to deal with this guy just to get basic health care. Not to mention every other conservative I have to work with just to get by in life. I’ll eventually leave soon. I’m counting the days. I’ve been too busy with school for therapy, but I probably need to talk to her very soon. I definitely need to set boundaries with this guy. I’ve been working on setting boundaries and having a more professional relationship, but he kinda just dropped this in my lap out of no where! It triggered the hell out of me. Like I don’t wanna hear about some other strippers life situation. I don’t have problem educating him so he can HELP ME But what im not going to do is entertain him with stripper shit. I don’t like that! I don’t! But this gal told him all sorts personal shit which he thought he’d share with me. Like I don’t wanna hear about it.

moneybags
01-22-2023, 12:16 PM
This guy asked me if I smoke and I lied and said yes. (I would do edibles if they were legal) but I feel I have to be extra careful to not get on paper. I didn’t want to drive with it in my car because godforbid I get pull over with it. Anyways he gave me a huge bag of weed, and I just gave it to the girls at work. Hey if you’re giving out free drugs I’ll find some friends LOL. I probably could have sold it, but I just wanted to find it a deserved home before I left for my shift. The girl I gave it to was appreciative and needed it because she ran out. I don’t smoke, but I know what’s it’s like to need your thing when you’re stressed out.

I’m sure the universe will pay it forward to me if I’m open to receiving

indiegirl
01-22-2023, 07:28 PM
I have my first Covid shot for school scheduled on Thursday in order to be allowed in hospital clinicals in the next few months. I'm scared to death of this vaccine hearing the rare side effects. I hope I'll be fine :(!

All my other vaccines are up to date, titers are good as of now, and the 2 covids plus the booster is all that is left and I'm clear!

charlie61
01-22-2023, 09:11 PM
I have my first Covid shot for school scheduled on Thursday in order to be allowed in hospital clinicals in the next few months. I'm scared to death of this vaccine hearing the rare side effects. I hope I'll be fine :(!

All my other vaccines are up to date, titers are good as of now, and the 2 covids plus the booster is all that is left and I'm clear!

Try to remember that the odds of getting a side effect from the vaccine are WAY lower than the odds of getting major health complications from covid itself. I'd rather bet on the vaccine!

moneybags
01-22-2023, 09:32 PM
I have my first Covid shot for school scheduled on Thursday in order to be allowed in hospital clinicals in the next few months. I'm scared to death of this vaccine hearing the rare side effects. I hope I'll be fine :(!

All my other vaccines are up to date, titers are good as of now, and the 2 covids plus the booster is all that is left and I'm clear!

right! You’re young and healthy so you’ll be okay. We’re all lab rats. It is scary, but honestly I’m not worried about it. There’s so much in the environment that’s unhealthy. Focus on making your body resilient rather than getting anxious about all the bad stuff in the world.

miss.a.p1600
01-23-2023, 06:13 AM
This guy asked me if I smoke and I lied and said yes. (I would do edibles if they were legal) but I feel I have to be extra careful to not get on paper. I didn’t want to drive with it in my car because godforbid I get pull over with it. Anyways he gave me a huge bag of weed, and I just gave it to the girls at work. Hey if you’re giving out free drugs I’ll find some friends LOL. I probably could have sold it, but I just wanted to find it a deserved home before I left for my shift. The girl I gave it to was appreciative and needed it because she ran out. I don’t smoke, but I know what’s it’s like to need your thing when you’re stressed out.

I’m sure the universe will pay it forward to me if I’m open to receiving


you should have sold it lol

”free” drugs sound like a scam

but they probably trusted you

LoveyD
01-23-2023, 01:30 PM
I confess that I do not feel like working out today so I went to the gym and just took a shower instead.

carmen_b
01-23-2023, 01:56 PM
^ I'm thinking of going and only biking 1 miles, massage chair, and tanning lol.

LoveyD
01-23-2023, 03:23 PM
So today I opened a Rover profile! They are doing my background check and I should be in business soon. How do they notify you if someone wants to book you? Is there an app? Do they email you?

indiegirl
01-23-2023, 10:24 PM
At the very least, Stripperweb should allow us to keep the Poop Confessions thread alive when they shut the site down.......

I'm not ready to let go of Stripperweb! :(

moneybags
01-23-2023, 10:30 PM
you should have sold it lol

”free” drugs sound like a scam

but they probably trusted you

He was a drug dealer-it was my tip. Girl with nursing I’m not trying to get a charge for something stupid like weed. I’ve made it this far in the industry without getting caught up. My friend is on probation because someone called the cops on her for smoking a joint in her car. I really wanted to take it home, but all the time I spent in nursing school. It ain’t worth it. It’s not fair, but I have to be careful. Stripping and Camming isn’t technically illegal, so they can’t take away my license for that. But drug use is something they could. I have enough haters. I can’t afford to give them anything they can use against me.

Here’s my state law- Possession with the intent to distribute marijuana is a felony charge that can come with substantial jail time.

Yikes no thanks.

I can’t wait to move to Colorado. I’m so done with living in a rural backward ass state.

WendiStarr
01-24-2023, 09:16 AM
I feel like a man lately with my sex drive and also overly needy. It has been so high and bf used to match it perfectly. We've only had sex 2 times within the past 2 weeks and I'm feeling sus like maybe he's getting it from elsewhere now. I feel like breaking up with him over this. I know, I'm self-sabotaging. I just feel like I'd rather break up with him now than to find out that he's fucking someone else.

charlie61
01-24-2023, 09:21 AM
I feel like a man lately with my sex drive and also overly needy. It has been so high and bf used to match it perfectly. We've only had sex 2 times within the past 2 weeks and I'm feeling sus like maybe he's getting it from elsewhere now. I feel like breaking up with him over this. I know, I'm self-sabotaging. I just feel like I'd rather break up with him now than to find out that he's fucking someone else.

I don't get the sense that he'd be looking elsewhere considering what a great thing he has going with you... is he stressed about something? Busy with work? Maybe intimidated by your sex drive?

carmen_b
01-24-2023, 09:24 AM
^ Wendi :
I bet he'll be back and ready for more !
Maybe it's his son being needy and weird and that is stressing him.
You could talk to him but I have a feeling it will play out.
I wouldn't recommend sexting him or anything. I'd give it a couple days and see if he comes to you.

WendiStarr
01-24-2023, 10:03 AM
I found some stuff on his IG that makes me sus, even more. I'm just not going to reach out to him right now. I'm just going to say I need some time to think or something, but I'm ready to throw in the towel now, before I get even further down the rabbit hole.

carmen_b
01-24-2023, 12:05 PM
^ Oh no !
He seemed to be treating you so well .
Some men can put on such a smoke show so it's good you did some online spying I think.

I was just coming here to sympathize with you ....... I just did a 5 day run of no touch after getting addicted to M's delicious touch.
There were tears last Sat. and just a shit show of an attitude last Sunday.
If he can only see me a couple times in a week I know it won't work even if his reason is legit ( ski operations job and works at a large resort ). I do not want that ( if it's monogamous ).
I hope to hell he's going to work with me or maybe think of the " lets do a few times a week " idea on his own before I have to ask .

carmen_b
01-24-2023, 12:13 PM
Wendi : You guys seemed to have something so amazing !
He is crazy if he fucks this up.

Aurora_Sunset
01-24-2023, 12:51 PM
My heart is absolutely broken over Stripperweb closing. Losing allll that information, especially the camming threads? Not being able to keep up with people's lives? I feel more involved in the personal lives of some ladies on here than I do with my IRL friends.

Someone in the Lounge is trying to contact the owner to talk about buying it off them, but is getting no response. I'm sure there are others who would do the same if given the chance. Why not post it with a little more notice and give the community the chance to come forward and see if anyone wants to take on the responsibility, rather than a week's notice?

I always figured I'd leave SW some day, but that it would be my choice, not the site suddenly shutting down with little warning.

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2023, 09:35 AM
He was a drug dealer-it was my tip. Girl with nursing I’m not trying to get a charge for something stupid like weed. I’ve made it this far in the industry without getting caught up. My friend is on probation because someone called the cops on her for smoking a joint in her car. I really wanted to take it home, but all the time I spent in nursing school. It ain’t worth it. It’s not fair, but I have to be careful. Stripping and Camming isn’t technically illegal, so they can’t take away my license for that. But drug use is something they could. I have enough haters. I can’t afford to give them anything they can use against me.

Here’s my state law- Possession with the intent to distribute marijuana is a felony charge that can come with substantial jail time.

Yikes no thanks.

I can’t wait to move to Colorado. I’m so done with living in a rural backward ass state.

co is where it’s at!

reminds me of my now super straight laced relative who said she was a “drug dealer” back in the days

I was like oh really tell me more?

She said she got a bag of weed, then sold it to relatives who wanted some. Lol! I was like bruh selling to ur family - that don’t count.

But yeah it’s better to be safe than sorry

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2023, 09:38 AM
My heart is absolutely broken over Stripperweb closing. Losing allll that information, especially the camming threads? Not being able to keep up with people's lives? I feel more involved in the personal lives of some ladies on here than I do with my IRL friends.

Someone in the Lounge is trying to contact the owner to talk about buying it off them, but is getting no response. I'm sure there are others who would do the same if given the chance. Why not post it with a little more notice and give the community the chance to come forward and see if anyone wants to take on the responsibility, rather than a week's notice?

I always figured I'd leave SW some day, but that it would be my choice, not the site suddenly shutting down with little warning.

yeah you’d think the owners would sell it rather than just letting it go. They must not give af

trustfundkiller
01-25-2023, 10:27 AM
yeah you’d think the owners would sell it rather than just letting it go. They must not give af
Yeah, that's the impression I'm getting. For whatever reason, the owner is over it and doesn't care anymore.

Aurora_Sunset
01-25-2023, 10:35 AM
Yeah, that's the impression I'm getting. For whatever reason, the owner is over it and doesn't care anymore.

Yeah, that's what I don't get. I understand not wanting anything to do with it anymore, but why just completely shut down anyone else trying to take it off their hands entirely? They wouldn't even be involved anymore. Hand it off and be done.....

The fact that they won't when there is someone interested and willing and desperately trying to do so seems almost... vindictive. Like just because they're over it, no one else is allowed to have this thing they created anymore. Seems petty and cruel tbh

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2023, 10:48 AM
Me over here scrambling like some scrambled eggs trying to get my life in order whilst also trying to figure out how life after SW

I’m clocked in to work but on SW all day.

Those jokers shouldn’t have taken my paid time off that I worked for. I’m still salty about it but I’m just clocking in and multitasking elsewhere

trustfundkiller
01-25-2023, 11:04 AM
Yeah, that's what I don't get. I understand not wanting anything to do with it anymore, but why just completely shut down anyone else trying to take it off their hands entirely? They wouldn't even be involved anymore. Hand it off and be done.....

The fact that they won't when there is someone interested and willing and desperately trying to do so seems almost... vindictive. Like just because they're over it, no one else is allowed to have this thing they created anymore. Seems petty and cruel tbh
That's exactly the way it feels! Cruel! Especially since I don't think this site would sell for chump change. I'd imagine they could get at least a few thousand dollars from selling it, and they're still refusing to go that route. It just doesn't make any sense.

charlie61
01-25-2023, 12:18 PM
I'm grateful to everyone who's creating and offering alternatives to SW! I'm also feeling overwhelmed by the options, and feeling like we're all going to end up in different corners of the net...

indiegirl
01-25-2023, 12:44 PM
I'm grateful to everyone who's creating and offering alternatives to SW! I'm also feeling overwhelmed by the options, and feeling like we're all going to end up in different corners of the net...

Me too :(! I was hoping for one place only. Super not cool for the person in charge of the site to do this to us.

charlie61
01-25-2023, 12:45 PM
Me too :(! I was hoping for one place only. Super not cool for the person in charge of the site to do this to us.

I know it's lame for me to say that since everyone is doing their best to provide options! It's just an awful situation.

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2023, 12:50 PM
I’m cold af yet I’m sweating like a pig before a luau

carmen_b
01-25-2023, 12:56 PM
^ Can the owner REALLY not just provide us a quote to possibly continue to host it a bit ( 3-6 months ) ?
Basically ..... just KEEP it where it is and HOST it and then WE can figure out how to do the tech maintenence later.
HANDS OFF .
We could even have an agreement in place to find alternative hosting within 3 months if needed.
If as a community we couldn't find it within that time ...... then it goes.

Why can't they just accept some $$ ugh.

Maybe there is something I am not looking at but I have " saved" a few vanilla sites in this same fashion.

Another consideration is to let the " old " stuff go.
Everything that is more than a few years old might go.
I know not everyone likes the idea BUT a " lighter " site is cheaper to run.

trustfundkiller
01-25-2023, 01:11 PM
^ Can the owner REALLY not just provide us a quote to possibly continue to host it a bit ( 3-6 months ) ?
Basically ..... just KEEP it where it is and HOST it and then WE can figure out how to do the tech maintenence later.
HANDS OFF .
We could even have an agreement in place to find alternative hosting within 3 months if needed.
If as a community we couldn't find it within that time ...... then it goes.

Why can't they just accept some $$ ugh.

Maybe there is something I am not looking at but I have " saved" a few vanilla sites in this same fashion.

Another consideration is to let the " old " stuff go.
Everything that is more than a few years old might go.
I know not everyone like's that thought BUT a " lighter " site is cheaper to run.
The most frustrating part is that I get the sense that the owner simply doesn't want to, which is their choice, but it's really shitty to the members who've made this "such an amazing community." for the last 20 years. And it's very shitty to the newbies who have no idea what they're going into, especially in the state the strip club industry is in. They could have accepted a cash offer. They could have crowdsourced funding to keep the site going. And they've been unresponsive to everyone who has made an effort to contact them. I don't know and I can't go into conspiracies, I could but totally wrong. But that's just my intuitive feeling.

carmen_b
01-25-2023, 01:14 PM
^ Yeah , I would just love to see a " save SW " gofundme.
Tell us how much to raise and what we are getting ( even if we are just getting a few more months ).

smeca
01-25-2023, 01:35 PM
I'm grateful to everyone who's creating and offering alternatives to SW! I'm also feeling overwhelmed by the options, and feeling like we're all going to end up in different corners of the net...

So far only PGD's forum will provide the same kind of space as sw. I mean, it was literally a backup forum in case of this!

trustfundkiller
01-25-2023, 01:38 PM
Wow I'm looking back at my old posts from 2018 regarding FOSTA and this is eerie to read now:
"I will truly be gutted if I had to say goodbye to this site forever, but at this rate I wouldn't be surprised. I remember reading through this site on my 18th birthday and studying every word as if it was my bible, because I was going to use stripping as the means to create a better life for myself - one of financial stability. And guess what? I accomplished what I set out to do, and I can thank Stripper Web for a great part of that success. Where in the "real world" could I find the type of community and mentorship I found here?

Sex work isn't going away, it has existed since the beginning of civilization. Banning online resources will only make women more vulnerable to pimping, assault, rape, murder ...all of the things these politicians are supposedly soooooo concerned about.

/endrant. I'm very upset, that's all I can really say."

:( RIP Stripper Web. Thank you for everything you've done for me. Also how was I so much more articulate back then? It's like I have two brain cells now lmao

WendiStarr
01-26-2023, 06:00 AM
I talked to bf and he actually cried and said he loves me and only wants to be with me, that he was very upset over the possibility of losing me. I feel bad because everything was great up until that point. He said that he wants to get married at the end of this year but wants to live separately since we both only have 2 bedrooms and save up for a bigger place. I said why not just get a bigger place together so we can live together. He said he likes the neighborhood where he lives at. Ok, great but those are all just 1 and 2 bedroom condos, dude! Everywhere within a 5 mile radius that he refuses to budge from are all 2 bedrooms or less condos. I have 3 kids and he has 1. Obviously we can't all live in a 2 bedroom condo. I have all girls(2 babies and a teen) and he has a boy(teen). I don't know how that is going to work. I have until October to either renew my lease or move elsewhere. The thing is, all the places for rent out there are out of my price range. I can't afford that on my own. I'm barely affording my place now and it's $1k cheaper here.

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2023, 10:27 AM
TRUST ME…..Keep your own space until the kids are OUT!

Last thing you need is dudes son coming in throwing fits and acting up in YOUR home and your dude taking his kids side.

I’m learning this the HARD way. I’d much rather have my own space (yes if it means I still gotta pay ALL the bills) so I can have my freedom from his unchecked kids every fucking weekend/holiday.

Last thing you want is to have a break, your kids are out of the house but he doesn’t get a clue and his kid is still there. When you have time off but it’s his parenting time then you have no breaks from kids. None.

Just let him stay with you during the week (pay some bills/fix stuff/unclog the pipes, etc), then send him on his way to take care of his son by himself at his house on the weekends.

Trust me with all the kids you will lose your damn mind with more kids that you have no control over.

The little mf was already mean mugging you and trying to assert his dominance……you do not want that hassle, trust me!

KEEP YOUR OWN SPACE. FOR YOUR SANITY.

carmen_b
01-26-2023, 10:34 AM
^ I tell other women that too.
I was SO gung ho to move in with my partner ( we did at 13 months together ).
I tell other women to keep their space 18 months ! Ha .
I know $ is always a factor and sharing a larger space is probably cheaper than two smaller ones but it's not a *bad* thing to wait a full year imo ( blended family stuff is hard ).