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sananeko
05-05-2011, 02:32 PM
I didn't really think it would blow up.. I want just kidding..
princessjas
05-05-2011, 06:10 PM
My son just got Skele-toes and I'm wearing them around. lol They are so comfy it's unbelievable.....yes I wear the same size shoe as my first grader.
http://demandware.edgesuite.net/aaej_prd/on/demandware.static/Sites-FILA-Site/Sites-FilaUSACatalogID/default/v1304628415791/images/ProductImages/children/shoes_skele-toes/3PK000EX_001_01_LG.jpg
charlie61
05-05-2011, 06:43 PM
Tonight I'm going to tell my husband that I want a divorce.
Good for you, sweetie. It's time to start living for yourself instead of for your relationship. Yay independence. Good luck.
mediocrity
05-05-2011, 06:49 PM
Tonight I'm going to tell my husband that I want a divorce.
Good luck to you during this difficult time, Susan. I wish you the best.
4everresolutions
05-05-2011, 08:36 PM
I confess: I'm fat.
Mindy Bares All
05-05-2011, 09:16 PM
I confess: I'm fat.
Lies! ;)
kaiarose
05-06-2011, 10:52 AM
Ugh, sitting here eating saltine crackers...totally hungover... sooo worth it though!! Got 2 hours in Champagne last night :) The boobs are finally paying off! LOL
_Avery_
05-06-2011, 11:26 AM
^Yay, GOOD JOB!! ;D
chanzep
05-06-2011, 01:43 PM
My room is a mess and I cant be botherd to tidy it!, Im so tired from dayshift which I really don't think Im suited to , but I have to do 2 a month.
I wish my flatmates would shutup argh!
Mindy Bares All
05-06-2011, 09:43 PM
Ugh. Both of my cousin's SO's (a husband, and a boyfriend) are so hot! :D It drives me crazy when they talk to me, because it seems like they might be flirting...But it's probably that they find me genuinely cool and stuff. But when they get kind of touchy...?
LALALALALA! Ignore it, ignore it!!
I refuse to come in between them.
But DA-YUM!!
Susan-Va
05-07-2011, 12:15 PM
Just had my first ever orgasm during sex and it was amazing!!!!
charlie61
05-07-2011, 01:00 PM
Just had my first ever orgasm during sex and it was amazing!!!!
Jealous!! How'd you manage to do that? >genuinely curious<
Susan-Va
05-07-2011, 01:15 PM
IDK, I think it's a combination of the fact that I feel at ease for the first time in a long while (getting a divorce!) and the fact that the new guy has a nice big thick cock and knows how to use it!!!!
charlie61
05-07-2011, 09:07 PM
Having empathetic anxiety tonight for all the hustlers out there workin' it.
charlie61
05-07-2011, 09:38 PM
I'm tipsy, and not enough people are posting tonight, dammit! I need to be entertained!
LuckyLane
05-07-2011, 10:11 PM
^ Sorry, I'll get on that ;) haha
HollyInSeattle
05-08-2011, 06:50 AM
I confess last night that after leaving the SC, I felt so depressed despite having a good night, that I wanted to do was get high and float away to leave the worries of life.
I hate myself for that because I actually did. Ugh, feels like I have lost myself and alone. So much attention in the SC, but nothing outside.
Kellydancer
05-08-2011, 12:27 PM
I confess that I still love the last guy and still hope we get back together. Why I don't know since he's been mean to me on and off for a year but everytime the phone rings I keep hoping it's him. I know why: because he fits what I want in a man and am afraid I won't find another like him. I'm trying online but so many guys with kids. I keep regretting that we didn't get together years ago or that I didn't look for a man then.
Kisca
05-08-2011, 04:18 PM
I agree move on Kelly! Go out there and have fun.. keep your options open even if the guy doesnt fit your standards it will keep your mind off the old guy! You dont need him, you are way better
Mindy Bares All
05-08-2011, 05:04 PM
I met a guy and his daughter at the mall today, after I got off work. I was shopping for CDs, and I said hi to this really good-looking dude's hopelessly adorable 8 moth old daughter, Ella. Either way, Ella's dad, Nick, and I talked for a while. And it was nice. Just to talk to another human being.
We went our separate ways. As I was pulling out of the parking lot, I saw Nick and Ella getting into their car, and I waved. Believe it or not, Nick saw me, recognized me-- his face lit up, and he waved back. :) That made me feel good.
Thank you Nick and Ella, for restoring my faith in human kind, myself, and my abilities to make friends. You really made my month. :)
Kellydancer
05-08-2011, 05:48 PM
^:no:... It's SERIOUSLY time to move on with your life, Kelly. You may think he is the man for you, but the truth is that he isn't. Otherwise you two would be together right now, and you aren't. And the same is true for him, you are clearly not the woman for him otherwise you'd still be together. You should work on accepting this.
I have some quotes that I saved in a Word document that I found online and whenever I found myself thinking about my ex (who treated me badly too) I read them to myself. I struggled in the beginning, and when I felt like I was missing him or wondering if he had changed and became the person I thought he was, I read these and I felt strong, free, and empowered and I remembered why we aren't together anymore, and why that's actually a good thing even though sometimes it feels like it isn't.
You need to start by working past whatever issues you have that make you still want him. With me, I realized it was because I didn't want to be alone so I clung to the thought of getting back together with him someday. But I threw myself into reconnecting with my friends/family, working, studying, and getting in the best shape of my life. Now I realize that I am happier on my own than I ever was with him. You tend to look back at the guy and see only the good things but it's the way he treated you in reality, is what matters at the end of the day.
I'm hoping these quotes help you a little bit. And believe me, I know it's "easier said than done" to get over someone you love(d), but you need to take some self-responsibility and make a conscious effort to get over this guy. Anyway, here are the quotes:
Are your standards too low? "What is it about you that causes you to settle for somebody that you know will cheat on you, know will lie to you, know will make a commitment and then break it? What is it about you that you believe about yourself that you're willing to settle for that?" Recognize that you're settling and that you deserve more. Set a higher standard for yourself.
"Most of the time when a relationship ends it means it was broken. Settling for the brokenness will deteriorate your self-esteem and any respect you have for yourself."
"Letting go of a bad relationship means you can start to think more positively about yourself and your self esteem."
"I'm strong and loving and I am loved. I'm healing and moving forward."
I know he's the wrong man for me because of his issues. I just keep having these setbacks where I think I'll never find what I want. I refuse to lower my standards because I know I could never deal with stepkids. I know part of it is that I'm afraid of dealing with the beginning of a new relationship too. I hate when I start dating a guy because I hate learning new things. I'm actually finding s few guys I would like on online sites, but am afraid to meet them because of the newness.
Susan-Va
05-08-2011, 06:09 PM
I know he's the wrong man for me because of his issues. I just keep having these setbacks where I think I'll never find what I want. I refuse to lower my standards because I know I could never deal with stepkids. I know part of it is that I'm afraid of dealing with the beginning of a new relationship too. I hate when I start dating a guy because I hate learning new things. I'm actually finding s few guys I would like on online sites, but am afraid to meet them because of the newness.
I'm not going to tell you to lower your standards but you need to get past being afraid of the newness of a relationship. Personally I think that's the best part!
Look, I'm scared to death of being on my own, I don't know what lies ahead of me after I get divorced but I'm going to make it. I hate being alone but I'd rather be alone than in an unhappy marriage.
lol1337a
05-08-2011, 06:17 PM
I just decided not to get my boobs done this year and take a trip through Europe and a Mediterranean cruise in November instead. Best part is that I'll be spending less than the cost of the surgery.
I was very excited and ready to get them done, but I'm even more excited about this trip! I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders in a strange way.
Mindy Bares All
05-08-2011, 08:53 PM
I just decided not to get my boobs done this year and take a trip through Europe and a Mediterranean cruise in November instead. Best part is that I'll be spending less than the cost of the surgery.
I was very excited and ready to get them done, but I'm even more excited about this trip! I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders in a strange way.
I had the same feeling when I decided not to get mine done. Not that I had the money, but I just suddenly felt beautiful.
Kellydancer
05-08-2011, 08:57 PM
I'm not going to tell you to lower your standards but you need to get past being afraid of the newness of a relationship. Personally I think that's the best part!
Look, I'm scared to death of being on my own, I don't know what lies ahead of me after I get divorced but I'm going to make it. I hate being alone but I'd rather be alone than in an unhappy marriage.
You are right. I've been following your situation and I think it's wonderful you met a new guy that seems nice. I know I could meet a great guy, but will admit I am terrified. I don't know why even. There's a couple guys on a few dating sites contacting me so I am going to set up meetings with them. If nothing else I waste a few hours on nothing but could be more.
Mindy Bares All
05-08-2011, 09:00 PM
I'm reading The Color Code by Dr. Taylor Hartman, and OMG. All of these other Reds, with their need to always be right-- even if they're not-- are pissing me off. Seriously. It's just a forum. Really. It is. It's NOT THAT SERIOUS!
You can be right if you want. But you'll be delusional, too.
Susan-Va
05-08-2011, 09:47 PM
You are right. I've been following your situation and I think it's wonderful you met a new guy that seems nice. I know I could meet a great guy, but will admit I am terrified. I don't know why even. There's a couple guys on a few dating sites contacting me so I am going to set up meetings with them. If nothing else I waste a few hours on nothing but could be more.
Go out with a few guys, get into the swing of things with dating. Don't look at it as wasting a few hours of time, try and take something away from it, good or bad. You'll learn what you do and don't want in a man.
chanzep
05-09-2011, 05:21 AM
My room is still a mess, gonna tidy it today!, it's a good job im single!, what a tramp!
chanzep
05-09-2011, 05:22 AM
Im happy cos my flatmates are out !
kaiarose
05-09-2011, 01:38 PM
I confess that when I hear my hubby working out downstairs and he's breathing heavy, I pretend I'm listening in on him having sex with someone else and I get off :/ *cuckoo whistle* Yep I'm a weirdo... And as of lately I've been enjoying amateur homemade porn. I think that they are truly enjoying it (because they're in a real relationship) and that makes me enjoy it :)
noelle
05-09-2011, 01:43 PM
Kaia, I fantasize about my husband having sex with other people too! I think you and I have a lot in common from what I've read.
kaiarose
05-09-2011, 05:06 PM
Kaia, I fantasize about my husband having sex with other people too! I think you and I have a lot in common from what I've read.
I actually had a 4 some about 5 years ago and saw my hubby (he was my bf then) eat out and fingerbang and makeout with another chick. I was doing his friend and it was incredibly hotttt!!!!
It's weird because I wouldn't be able to handle that now. But the thought of it gets me going }:D
seashell
05-09-2011, 05:09 PM
I confess that I always get more into playing guitar after I break up with someone. This has been a pattern since high school... I call it giving myself "guitar hugs," and I sometimes play in the dark, late at night when I can't sleep. Playing and singing makes me instantly feel better.
noelle
05-09-2011, 05:10 PM
We had a foursome before we were married with a couple, but it was mostly me and the other girl going at it, and I think the dudes went down on us. It's funny because I don't think I would neccessarily like watching my husband penetrate another woman but I fantasize about it A LOT.
Seeing him bang another dude though, hell yes.
charlie61
05-09-2011, 08:55 PM
We had a foursome before we were married with a couple, but it was mostly me and the other girl going at it, and I think the dudes went down on us. It's funny because I don't think I would neccessarily like wanting my husband penetrate another woman but I fantasize about it A LOT.
Seeing him bang another dude though, hell yes.
Helllllll yessssss. Or maybe just a li'l makin' out? Pretty please? }:D
Though I definitely wouldn't like it if my SO weren't 100% into it, so that's something that'll probably stay in my fantasies.
kaiarose
05-10-2011, 01:23 PM
We had a foursome before we were married with a couple, but it was mostly me and the other girl going at it, and I think the dudes went down on us. It's funny because I don't think I would neccessarily like wanting my husband penetrate another woman but I fantasize about it A LOT.
Seeing him bang another dude though, hell yes.
Oh my god... me too!!!! Or seeing him and another hot dude jerking each other off...
noelle
05-10-2011, 01:26 PM
Yessssss. Ahhh I'm getting all worked up now. I have mentioned this before on here but my husband is a little bit curious and we had a threesome with one of his HOT friends. I got to watch them make out and jerk each other off, and a little bit of bj action. MOARRRRR PLZ!!! :D
kaiarose
05-10-2011, 01:37 PM
^ Damnnn!!! Lucky!!
_Avery_
05-10-2011, 05:56 PM
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noelle
05-10-2011, 07:52 PM
I'm sorry Avery, that really sucks. I'd be furious if my husband did that. Especially when I was pregnant.
noelle
05-10-2011, 08:14 PM
Hypocrites are soooo fucking annoying.
chanzep
05-11-2011, 05:40 AM
My friends mum leaves on Tuesday! yes!
kaiarose
05-11-2011, 11:03 AM
What did Pryce mean about re-opening the gates??? Does that mean ladies only isn't private anymore??
kaiarose
05-11-2011, 11:05 AM
Oh Avery I'm sorry to hear that :( My husband used to do that shit when I was pregnant too.. (he was just my bf then but still!) He was working at the club so it was way too easy to get it. I understand how frustrating it is. Especially when they try and justify it. I'm sorry but if you have to justify or try to reason about that then you have an addiction. We fought about that alot in those days.
charlie61
05-11-2011, 12:27 PM
What did Pryce mean about re-opening the gates??? Does that mean ladies only isn't private anymore??
I believe he's talking about the site settings...definitely NOT ladies only.
I was being kicked off after every post I made for the last two days, so I'm assuming that's what he's referring to. It's a good way to stop / slow down troll invasions.
Kellydancer
05-11-2011, 01:21 PM
I believe he's talking about the site settings...definitely NOT ladies only.
I was being kicked off after every post I made for the last two days, so I'm assuming that's what he's referring to. It's a good way to stop / slow down troll invasions.
What was up with yesterday's troll invasion? Was it the Tiger Droppings group again? I could tell that they were trolls.
_Avery_
05-11-2011, 01:38 PM
^^It seems like it's been happening more than usual lately. Weird.
--
Planning a baby shower, and this just isn't me.
I am going to feel completely stupid and weird playing games like "pass the dirty diaper" and "Pin the binky on the baby"....I'm going to feel extremely uncomfortable. :/
Luckily, I'll be there with good people, but...honestly....reading up on all this stuff...it's just, not me.
kaiarose
05-11-2011, 01:39 PM
^ I'll make sure you're comfortable :) I'll try to stay by your side as much as possible...
_Avery_
05-11-2011, 01:42 PM
^ I'll make sure you're comfortable :) I'll try to stay by your side as much as possible...
Thanks girl.
Luckily, all the girls I asked, (Marnie, Taylor, Kayla...) all the "main" girls...they're all excited about it.
Just the whole idea...I dunno...I'm not a "baby shower type of girl"..lol
and these games...omg...I REALLLLY wish I was able to drink!! lol
Kellydancer
05-11-2011, 01:57 PM
I hate baby showers so I completely sympathize with you. I know if I have a baby I will have a coed barbeque. Sitting around with a bunch of women discussing onesies and playing lame games is my idea of pure hell.
Related to this I confess that I really want to hang out with Kaiarose and Avery. I know neither is that far from me (a couple of hours)so maybe some day this will happen.