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kaiarose
05-11-2011, 02:00 PM
Aww :) Maybe we should have a Chicago SW fest?!! I know there are a few midwesterners on the site. Ooooh Charlie is from WI too!!!

Kellydancer
05-11-2011, 02:18 PM
I'd definitely be up for that. I didn't know Charlie was from Wisconsin too. Lost of people from the midwest, which is really cool.

Susan-Va
05-11-2011, 02:33 PM
I ditched going out with the girls tonight so I could hang with new boy. Pizza and movies! Yay!

DesuvsDeath
05-11-2011, 02:33 PM
I am going to feel completely stupid and weird playing games like "pass the dirty diaper" and "Pin the binky on the baby"....I'm going to feel extremely uncomfortable. :/
Luckily, I'll be there with good people, but...honestly....reading up on all this stuff...it's just, not me.

I avoid baby showers for just this reason.
I show up, bring a gift and LEAVE.

_Avery_
05-11-2011, 03:02 PM
Aww :) Maybe we should have a Chicago SW fest?!! I know there are a few midwesterners on the site. Ooooh Charlie is from WI too!!!


Ohh..that would be sooo fun!
I'd definitely show up. :D

Kellydancer
05-11-2011, 03:35 PM
I avoid baby showers for just this reason.
I show up, bring a gift and LEAVE.

That's more than I do. I make an excuse why I'm not there or flat out tell people I hate these things (yes I am blunt more than I should be at times). I then send a gift. The only exceptions are when they are coed (because these tend not to have lame games)or parties where it's not really a shower but an event, like going to get manicures. Otherwise, nope I never attend, don't care how close I am to the person.

Mindy Bares All
05-11-2011, 04:30 PM
Baby showers are awkward.

Bridal showers at least border fun, for those that don't have kids...

_Avery_
05-11-2011, 06:59 PM
I've never even been to a baby shower, and wasn't planning on having one. :/
Only have one reason I'm doing it...for...well....those who are my FB friends know why I'm doing it.
I guess if you wanna know, PM me, don't really wanna post it on here.

charlie61
05-11-2011, 07:19 PM
Aww :) Maybe we should have a Chicago SW fest?!! I know there are a few midwesterners on the site. Ooooh Charlie is from WI too!!!

Aw, but that'd ruin the mystery! ;)

carmen_b
05-12-2011, 02:29 AM
I've never gone to a Baby or Bridal Shower. I'd consider a Bridal Shower probably only IF it involved booze and going out / male strippers ( or female strippers of course, but I'm the only one that would think of this, no one else would ). The ones I get invited to don't include these things so I just make up various excuses and send something.

_Avery_
05-12-2011, 07:01 AM
Deleted..venting.

Kisca
05-12-2011, 08:19 AM
^ Im so sorry! I would be very mad and upset as I well! Doesnt he have any common sense at all? I would smack him across the head... Literally... That was rude and out spoken for!

I see Avery having a boy toy in the future! Dont stress yourself out in a time like this... Dont think of him!

---

This probably is the worse week.. Im leaving for an awesome trip Ive been dying to go on, but Im stressed, cant sleep or eat at all, nervous and thoughts are always running in the mind. I hope everything get cleared before I leave.

Kellydancer
05-12-2011, 11:17 AM
I confess that three guys from an online site asked me out! Whether any of the three work out only time will tell but one of the guys sounds like a good match and he lives 20 minutes from me.



I've never gone to a Baby or Bridal Shower. I'd consider a Bridal Shower probably only IF it involved booze and going out / male strippers ( or female strippers of course, but I'm the only one that would think of this, no one else would ). The ones I get invited to don't include these things so I just make up various excuses and send something.

I've gone to one bridal shower that was more of an bachelorette party so that wasn't bad. It didn't have strippers but it involved sitting around eating and talking. I think we watched a movie too. The bride (a long time friend)married a clown from Ringling Brothers so she got married there and had a party when she came back to visit. Everyone at the party was a friend of the bride and no old relatives. In the past I've attended one I had to go to and those were nightmares.

Otherwise I avoid bridal showers too, unless they are more like a bachelorette parties or coed. I've gotten flack from friends and relatives because I hate them and "women love them". Actually, I think traditional bridal and baby showers are extremely sexist and they are from a time when women were learning to be wives and mothers and no other jobs. Now with most women working after marriage and children why some still have traditional showers I'll never know. The games are so demeaning and stupid.

If I get married I'll probably have a bachelorette party with girlfriends and a coed bridal shower barbeque. I would be beyond livid if someone threw me a traditional shower. Luckily my mom feels the same way and everyone who would do this would know. I'm such a bitch at times that if someone threw me a traditional shower and it was a surprise I would walk out.

pixierocksonthepole
05-12-2011, 11:23 AM
I'm 22, live with my boyfriend and I still sleep with my teddy-bear. :-[

I'm way late on this one I know lol I've been all over the place these days. But...I still sleep holding onto my teddy bear and my blankie I have had sine I was born...and I've been married for almost 3 years now lol. My husband thinks its cute, I just find it to be my comfort even though he is there. I can't let go.

kaiarose
05-12-2011, 11:48 AM
Redtube then off to read my new Charlaine Harris book :D

4everresolutions
05-12-2011, 01:41 PM
I'm really scared about my health. I can't leave the house. I don't seem to be getting better.

Kisca
05-12-2011, 01:52 PM
I'm really scared about my health. I can't leave the house. I don't seem to be getting better.

Aw.. This makes me worried reading this! I hope you get better. Im so glad your BF is there for you or else I would have stayed with you! Get better.

kaiarose
05-12-2011, 02:54 PM
Meeting my first blue next week! I'm soooo nervous...mainly that he'll be a typical custie, chatting me up and spending $$$ on the whores...or that he'll just be boring.

He'll probably be super awesome and I'm really excited!

Yay!! It is exciting meeting the Blues :)
Hopefully it's one of the good ones. I have met 2 so far. One was awesome and the other was ehh...

DesuvsDeath
05-12-2011, 02:58 PM
Seconds after I logged into chat today (it showed that I was alone) it was all "[The StripperWeb Lounge]: has left at 2:39 pm"... I hope that means it was that person I blocked who is always in chat... and that it also conveniently means that blocking people on site also blocks them in chat. <3

Mindy Bares All
05-12-2011, 05:52 PM
I've never gone to a Baby or Bridal Shower. I'd consider a Bridal Shower probably only IF it involved booze and going out / male strippers ( or female strippers of course, but I'm the only one that would think of this, no one else would ). The ones I get invited to don't include these things so I just make up various excuses and send something.

No the Bridal shower is tame. The Bachelorette party is what you're thinking of.

Never been to one, but hopefully they aren't as clichéd and awkward as I'm imagining they are.

Susan-Va
05-12-2011, 06:31 PM
Today I confronted my "friend" that slept with my husband. It felt sooooo good to tell her what a piece of shit she is!

4everresolutions
05-12-2011, 11:58 PM
^Atta girly!

mediocrity
05-15-2011, 02:42 AM
I confess: I'm fat.

I confess: You are NOT fat, and I'm a tough audience. You also have a pretty face, and are AWESOME.

I dare you to disagree with me.

chanzep
05-15-2011, 06:57 AM
I hate when I have a bad night and then i feel like shit, grr shake it off!
and now I need to buy new hair!, I feel so sad.

C0RINNE
05-15-2011, 03:06 PM
I confess that I got down with the hottttest girl last night. God I've been wanting it for so long.
I think that experience is gonna pornographically haunt my dreams for awhile }:D

4everresolutions
05-15-2011, 08:52 PM
I confess: You are NOT fat, and I'm a tough audience. You also have a pretty face, and are AWESOME.

I dare you to disagree with me.

:) Thank you for that.

But let me rephrase: I'm fatter than I should be to keep myself at my healthiest and to keep my money making at optimum levels.

BTW: how does a person judge 'frame size'?

chanzep
05-16-2011, 07:10 AM
So tired from good sex!

I need to audition somewhere else but Im soo scared, I have been having nightmares!, I need to get a grip argh!

kitinboots
05-16-2011, 07:36 AM
I confess I feel I need my best friend to come to Paris with me because I don't trust myself alone with one of the guys, even though she'll now get more attention than me.

kitinboots
05-16-2011, 07:37 AM
So tired from good sex!

I need to audition somewhere else but Im soo scared, I have been having nightmares!, I need to get a grip argh!

I hear its all a little shit in London right now. I was supposed to be heading there but my friend told me she hasn't made a profit since she got back :S Norway it is then :)

DesuvsDeath
05-16-2011, 02:35 PM
BTW: how does a person judge 'frame size'?

http://www.am-i-fat.com/body_frame_size.html
http://www.myfooddiary.com/Resources/frame_size_calculator.asp

chanzep
05-17-2011, 12:34 PM
I hear its all a little shit in London right now. I was supposed to be heading there but my friend told me she hasn't made a profit since she got back :S Norway it is then :)

Yep it is bad here, hope u have a good time in Norway x

Kellydancer
05-17-2011, 12:44 PM
I confess that reading that thread about the guy who found out his wife stripped over 10 years ago in Japan made me nervous. This scares me that men will judge me based on my past. I made a porn video and I am ashamed of it. This happened over 15 years ago (the video) but I often regret doing it.

4everresolutions
05-17-2011, 01:12 PM
Kelly - We all make mistakes and have things we're not so proud of in our pasts. Part of finding someone who loves you is finding someone that knows your character and flaws and loves you dispite the bad things.

Who knows, maybe you'll tell him about it and he'll be impressed at your confidance and you two will have a little laugh about it. Or you can simply not tell him. It's water over the bridge now.

kaiarose
05-17-2011, 01:13 PM
I confess that reading that thread about the guy who found out his wife stripped over 10 years ago in Japan made me nervous. This scares me that men will judge me based on my past. I made a porn video and I am ashamed of it. This happened over 15 years ago (the video) but I often regret doing it.

That dude needs to get a clue. I can't even comment on that thread. Anyone that judges you on your past doesn't deserve you anyway. His now wife stripped for 2 fricken weeks... big whoop! I can see why she never told him.

Kellydancer
05-17-2011, 01:15 PM
Kelly - We all make mistakes and have things we're not so proud of in our pasts. Part of finding someone who loves you is finding someone that knows your character and flaws and loves you dispite the bad things.

Who knows, maybe you'll tell him about it and he'll be impressed at your confidance and you two will have a little laugh about it. Or you can simply not tell him. It's water over the bridge now.

Very true. He may not even think it's a big deal and think it's just in the past (which it is). Besides he probably has some dark secrets that he's afraid to share.

4everresolutions
05-17-2011, 01:16 PM
I confess: I'm thinking about quitting dancing.

I would have to move, but I think I could find a job that pays $30+/hour, 9/5; and my boyfriend could find a job in the same area that pays twice that. Our combined income would be more than I make dancing, but it would be about double the hours (for me).

I'm scared to give up stripping and I'm scared of working a normal job. I don't think I'm good enough.

Maybe I should make a thread about it.

4everresolutions
05-17-2011, 01:18 PM
Very true. He may not even think it's a big deal and think it's just in the past (which it is). Besides he probably has some dark secrets that he's afraid to share.

Yes.

And besides, not all men are like that guy. There are many good men out there who realize the reality of life is no one gets out unscathed.

Sia
05-17-2011, 01:27 PM
I confess: I'm thinking about quitting dancing.

I would have to move, but I think I could find a job that pays $30+/hour, 9/5; and my boyfriend could find a job in the same area that pays twice that. Our combined income would be more than I make dancing, but it would be about double the hours (for me).

I'm scared to give up stripping and I'm scared of working a normal job. I don't think I'm good enough.

Maybe I should make a thread about it.

If I had a job lined up that paid that, I would take it in a heartbeat. I hear you that it's tough to imagine working full-time hours again, but at least you would have a guaranteed pay check.

I say give it a try, you can always go back to dancing if it doesn't work out.

DesuvsDeath
05-17-2011, 02:21 PM
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kitinboots
05-17-2011, 02:38 PM
Yep it is bad here, hope u have a good time in Norway x

Actually having trouble finding work in Norway, not entirely sure what to do now. I was hoping to find somewhere with free accommodation.

charlie61
05-17-2011, 05:58 PM
I'm in the same boat.
I hate dancing out here. I want to quit... but the idea is sooo stressful for me.

If you reach a point where it'd be even just slightly less stressful to search for a normal job than it is to drag yourself into the strip club every week, then that is when it's time to quit.


I confess: I'm thinking about quitting dancing.

I would have to move, but I think I could find a job that pays $30+/hour, 9/5; and my boyfriend could find a job in the same area that pays twice that. Our combined income would be more than I make dancing, but it would be about double the hours (for me).

I'm scared to give up stripping and I'm scared of working a normal job. I don't think I'm good enough.

Maybe I should make a thread about it.

When you feel that kind of fear, it tends to be because it's something that you should do. That's a positive, forward-moving kind of fear. The kind of fear that comes when you know exactly what the right answer is, but you know that you'll have to change some things in order to get there. I say go for it.

GlitterBexie
05-17-2011, 06:08 PM
we split up, and after all this time, all the lies and all the pain and hurt, it was still his decision x

mediocrity
05-17-2011, 06:25 PM
I confess: I'm thinking about quitting dancing.

I would have to move, but I think I could find a job that pays $30+/hour, 9/5; and my boyfriend could find a job in the same area that pays twice that. Our combined income would be more than I make dancing, but it would be about double the hours (for me).

I'm scared to give up stripping and I'm scared of working a normal job. I don't think I'm good enough.

Maybe I should make a thread about it.

I think it would be good for you. Don't be afraid, and don't think you aren't good enough. Remember, all the people that work there are exactly the same as you when they go home at night. Even the Queen puts her pants on one leg at a time.

Leaving the industry is a difficult transition, but I believe it's easier when you're younger and more malleable. Plus if you can BOTH work- sounds like the pros outweigh the cons.

I'm here if you want to talk.

Mindy Bares All
05-17-2011, 08:02 PM
I might kind of sort of maybe just an eensy-weensy bit have a slight crush on my friend's boyfriend.

(aka I do, and I don't want it to be true. :( )

aussiebelle
05-18-2011, 03:08 AM
Earlier today I put a new tampon in without taking the other one out. It felt a bit weird but I did an entire gym session (in a bit of pain), went home and took it out only to realise the string was still there and I had another one in... Epic fail.

Susan-Va
05-18-2011, 12:14 PM
Earlier today I put a new tampon in without taking the other one out. It felt a bit weird but I did an entire gym session (in a bit of pain), went home and took it out only to realise the string was still there and I had another one in... Epic fail.


Been there, done that. I was drunk and out one in and didn't realize til the next morning.

kitinboots
05-18-2011, 01:46 PM
I just persuaded my friend to get further into debt because I don't want to go away without her

aussiebelle
05-19-2011, 05:28 AM
Been there, done that. I was drunk and out one in and didn't realize til the next morning.

Haha glad I'm not the only one then!

DesuvsDeath
05-19-2011, 07:18 PM
It bothers me, not that my SO looks at porn, but that he looks at UGLY GIRLS.
Why does he care enough to look at other women... who look. like. shit?

4everresolutions
05-20-2011, 01:14 AM
^ My guy has a thing for huge tits, so often times the girls he looks at are ugly or fat in my opinion, but doesn't seem to notice anything but the boobs. It upsets me sometimes.