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4everresolutions
08-06-2011, 05:02 PM
...and we still work together. :O
Damn.
That'll be interesting come Monday morning.
....I confess Charlie's confession turned me on....
charlie61
08-06-2011, 05:07 PM
Damn.
That'll be interesting come Monday morning.
....I confess Charlie's confession turned me on....
Yeah, it's been going on for a couple of weeks now...peaked last night when he went down on me on the floor of his band's practice spot. He's this incredibly intelligent manager at my company who also has an interesting past (rave DJ), and plays in a band on the side. Immediately felt a connection when I first started working for him. Then got moved to a new manager, and I went for him. The interest was mutual...so we started hanging out.
In spite of my asexuality, it's pretty sexy. :-*
charlie61
08-06-2011, 05:11 PM
Damn.
That'll be interesting come Monday morning.
....I confess Charlie's confession turned me on....
Did I mention...he's very married. :-X
4everresolutions
08-06-2011, 05:15 PM
^ Oh my. That makes it seem hotter.
*bites lip*
charlie61
08-06-2011, 05:25 PM
^ Oh...it makes it a LOT hotter. Mmm-hmm girl.
MistyRose
08-07-2011, 11:19 AM
Fact #1
Today I went to see an apartment with my roommate. It's nice (alas, not perfect), except for the location it would be an improvement over our current place, the landlord seems nice and normal... And now we're thinking about moving.
Fact #2
Since I moved to this place (yearsss ago) I noticed this guy from the neighborhood. He probably lives very near me, as we always take the bus from the same stop and distance between stops isn't too long, but I've never met him. Don't know his name, how old he is, know nothing of him. All I know is that he is so fantastically attractive and that he plays the cello (coz I've seen him dragging it around) and that I see him in the bus once in a blue moon.
My confession is... On my list of cons is the fact that I'd probably never see him again if I moved to the new place. Just to, you know, discreetly stare at him from the corner of my eye for the 2 mins the bus ride to our stop lasts.
Kellydancer
08-07-2011, 01:56 PM
Did I mention...he's very married. :-X
One of the hottest affairs I has was with a married man. He literally made me cum over 3 times. What made it hot was both of us knew it was only sex and sometimes he would make comments like I gave better head than his wife while I was doing it.
_Avery_
08-07-2011, 05:34 PM
laksd
_Avery_
08-08-2011, 12:34 PM
Sometimes I ramble and blab...but it's nice to come in here and let stuff out. :D
4everresolutions
08-08-2011, 03:14 PM
^You don't look like Chris Crocker. At all...
Did you dye your hair agan? Or cut it?
_Avery_
08-08-2011, 03:16 PM
lol, I feel like I do now, I cut it.
Super short (too short) under my chin...but it needed it bad.
It's not *that* bad, but I'm not absolutely in love with it.
kaiarose
08-08-2011, 06:04 PM
I'm going to follow you around the internet and tell you again how much I like your hair <3
I love TrueBlood. Like, seriously! I have been watching it on my laptop and it skips and stalls like every 30 secs (my laptop doesn't have the speed for it, I guess) but I will watch the whole hour episode anyways.. now that's dedication :P
lilykane
08-08-2011, 11:28 PM
I've been taking some time off and I think I'm starting to get fat. :(
_Avery_
08-10-2011, 04:00 PM
bitching as usual. :P
Mindy Bares All
08-10-2011, 04:06 PM
^^^ Dude I've gotten to be that way about one of my mom's sisters. Ugh. She's just so not worth the effort, and yet she butts into my and my mom's lives and makes rude comments, and just ugh. She's a fucking psychopathic bitch. Or pyschotic. Whichever way sums it up.
I know you'll make it through this. On the bright side, there is no possible way that you could die directly from her just coming to visit for two weeks. Just avoid her as much as possible. And hire a nanny if you can?
_Avery_
08-10-2011, 04:09 PM
Okay, I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way about someone..lol.
And the thing is, she's totally cool and we've never had any issues or anything.
I just don't wanna share my house I guess. I dunno what it is really...I'm just angry over it.
Oh no, no nannies here. Either me or my husband watch the kids.
I'd love to find a responsible, reliable, trust worthy, baby sitter, but I wanna wait until my youngest is older. He's just about 2 months now, so I wouldn't/couldn't trust anyone with him.
gosh, I sound crazy and over protective lol
Mindy Bares All
08-10-2011, 04:17 PM
Nah. I would be the same way, probably.
Just plan things to keep her busy, and have the hubby watch them.
Set up ground rules when she gets there. You'll be good. ;)
noelle
08-10-2011, 04:57 PM
Noooo way you're not being unreasonable Avery. Two weeks is WAY too long to visit family. My mother in law always says "Fish and relatives stink after three days" :)
_Avery_
08-10-2011, 05:07 PM
Noooo way you're not being unreasonable Avery. Two weeks is WAY too long to visit family. My mother in law always says "Fish and relatives stink after three days" :)
lmao, I love that.
I was just about to put that as my FB status message, but forgot, she's my friend on there..lol...hmm...maybe I still should.. }:D
noelle
08-10-2011, 05:15 PM
Do it!
Mindy Bares All
08-10-2011, 05:33 PM
^^^ Haha. I forgot about that saying.
If you have a twitter, put it there instead. ;)
Arianna419
08-10-2011, 08:44 PM
Avery- The part about it bugging you when your husband lets her change the diapers and stuff and doesn't do anything? Duuude, thank you! I feel vindicated now! Me and my fiance argue about this issue all the time! He has our son when I work on the weekends and always takes him places, and I other people always end up watching him. His excuse is "as long as he's taken care of, why do you care?" Because it makes me look like a crappy mom that I'm not there to take care of him and you just push our kid on other people!
And yeah, fuck having my MIL in my house for 2 weeks. There isn't really anyone I would want to stay with me that long, other than a couple really close friends, and even that's pushing it...
4everresolutions
08-10-2011, 08:47 PM
Avery - if you feel comfortable with the idea of your girlfriends watching over your kids but not your mother-in-law, that probably means that your MOL is over-stepping her boundaries and trying to fill the 'mom' role. Which might be why you're so adverse to a long visit. I would be too.
Any good relative knows that after someone has a new baby, a visit of one or two days is all that's needed. Any more than that is just plain rude. Welcoming a new baby into the family means you need to get used to a new routine and bond as an immediate family; having people stay for extended visits completely hinders that.
But she'll be gone soon. And maybe while she's there she'll help you out with cleaning and stuff. Think positive.
Spinnerette
08-12-2011, 11:38 PM
I confess that smile at people's suffering because 9/10, they've recently done something awful to deserve every last second of it. :)
anouk.oui
08-14-2011, 03:43 AM
i confess i cant help but be extremely aroused when browsing the 'disfigured/tattood' pic thread.
speaking of aroused who knows a working online link for the new true blood episode 'spellbound'? it came out today and i cannot wait to see it!!
mediocrity
08-14-2011, 03:50 AM
Omfg. I thought only my Scottish granddad said the fish and relatives proverb. :)
I have two things to confess.
1) I told a girl tonight her pretty face doesn't make up for her shitty attitude and weight problem
2) I don't trust my in laws' "love" of me (they barely know me) because they're Christian missionaries and I was raised atheist. :( I feel like they're just saying it because of their faith. I like them, especially my father in law because he's rad, but how can you love a stranger?
3) I miss my dad. He's my lifeline, and due to moving a lot (both of us, for work) I see him roughly every 4 years, though we speak frequently. Makes me feel like a giant baby, but he is the most down to earth, pragmatic, and best dad ever. I know I'm grown up now, but damn... Sometimes I need my daddy.
mediocrity
08-14-2011, 03:52 AM
^^ make that three, stupid iPhone won't let me edit.
4everresolutions
08-14-2011, 04:30 AM
Omfg. I thought only my Scottish granddad said the fish and relatives proverb. :)
I have two things to confess.
1) I told a girl tonight her pretty face doesn't make up for her shitty attitude and weight problem
Well, you're right. *shrugs*
2) I don't trust my in laws' "love" of me (they barely know me) because they're Christian missionaries and I was raised atheist. :( I feel like they're just saying it because of their faith. I like them, especially my father in law because he's rad, but how can you love a stranger?
I....I got nothing. Apparently a mothers capacity for love is amazing and extendable to those her children commit their lives to....but I wouldn't know first hand.
3) I miss my dad. He's my lifeline, and due to moving a lot (both of us, for work) I see him roughly every 4 years, though we speak frequently. Makes me feel like a giant baby, but he is the most down to earth, pragmatic, and best dad ever. I know I'm grown up now, but damn... Sometimes I need my daddy.
I feel ya. I miss my daddy too. :'(
anouk.oui
08-14-2011, 04:59 AM
my current bf's parents are catholic ministers.
i dont know, i see a trend here. catholic missionaries/ministers' sons love dating strippers? dont tell me hes in a band too?
:D
i find it hard to trust catholics since that time when our flatmate wanted to throw my pregnant mum and my stepdad battling cancer with two young kids onto the street because she felt uncomfortable living with people who dont go to church?
xGigi
08-14-2011, 08:13 AM
I drove home drunk last night and not just drunk but more like completely wasted. I feel like such an idiot. it's a half hour drive and it took me more like 45 mins to get home. I could have stayed at a friend's house but I just really wanted to go home
_Avery_
08-14-2011, 04:13 PM
I drove home drunk last night and not just drunk but more like completely wasted. I feel like such an idiot. it's a half hour drive and it took me more like 45 mins to get home. I could have stayed at a friend's house but I just really wanted to go home
I'm glad you're safe. <3
Kellydancer
08-14-2011, 08:59 PM
I confess that I believe deep down inside most of the guys here think all strippers are whores. Oh sure many of them are cool and I have had great conversations with many but it's something I just feel. I've had a few guys from here (some live around me and others travel here)who really want to meet me and tell me this in pms. The ones just wanting to meet me don't bother me, but some of them have said they are interested in me. Those are ones I don't think I'll meet because a)I'm done with dating because I suck at it and b)even if I decided to date again I don't think this would be a good place to meet a guy. Either that or it's my hormones raging tonight with my stupid period (I am looking forward to menopause so no more of this).
Kat w
08-15-2011, 11:55 AM
I can't find a Dr. in the Philadelphia area who is impressing me enough, I want my nose job!
obscurity
08-15-2011, 01:20 PM
I can't find a Dr. in the Philadelphia area who is impressing me enough, I want my nose job!
im terrified of rhinoplasty....so many variables....my nose was broken in a car accident, and although no one else thinks it....i hate it cuz its not MY nose......what credentials are you looking for besides pics?
sammii
08-15-2011, 08:47 PM
I feel more comfortable fighting/arguing with my dad than getting along. He's always nice to me right after I move back home, but 2-3 months from now, it will be hell all over again.
kaiarose
08-16-2011, 01:14 PM
I feel like a goddamn bank lately! It's not his fault there's no jobs out there but, damn! We just moved and that was $1600 (first & last mo. rent), phone bill, electric bill, gas for car, little odds and ends we need for around the house, our daughter's school registration ($100) and to top it off, we have one car right now because our other took a shit on us sooo... we found this van on craigslist for $1000. The piece of shit ran for 2 days and died. The mechanic said that whoever sold it to us put somehting called "stop leak" in it and got it to run just long enough to drive it away. Umm... what else, groceries, living expenses.. the list goes on and on. I'm losing my fucking mind!!!!! Then he gets mad at me for getting mad about the situation. I finally flipped out today and told him that. yes I'm going to address the fucking white elephant in the room GET A JOB!!!!! I don't give a fuck if you're flipping burgers at McDonalds!!!! I can't do this alone anymore!!! :'(
GlamourRouge
08-17-2011, 11:07 AM
The VS miraculous bra is my best friend. Seriously, the only one I'll wear. If you've ever wanted giant titties, there you go ;-). Even after the implants, I'll probably still be wearing those.
*Jade*Love
08-17-2011, 02:47 PM
Whhhhyyy have I been so damn horny lately?! Makes me crazy..
DesuvsDeath
08-17-2011, 02:54 PM
I... have a hard time meeting women.
I feel like the gay community is this secret club that they won't let me join. So I can't FIND the lesbians to fuck them. Gay clubs are all full of gay men with straight chick friends who want to make out with gay men.
And I'm too fucking anti social to search any harder than that for large clumpings of gays.
_natasha
08-17-2011, 02:59 PM
I'm the one that spilt nail glue all over the dressing room and the reason your bag was stuck fast to the counter...
*Jade*Love
08-17-2011, 03:05 PM
^ I have a hard time meeting women as well so I just perv out on the hot ones I see on SW }:D
There's one gay bar in SD that has a great 'ladies night'. Sooooo many hot womens!! The bartenders are also really hot and dance/molest each other on the counter. I don't go as often as I used to though because I can't control myself...lol
DesuvsDeath
08-17-2011, 03:14 PM
^ I have a hard time meeting women as well so I just perv out on the hot ones I see on SW }:D
There's one gay bar in SD that has a great 'ladies night'. Sooooo many hot womens!! The bartenders are also really hot and dance/molest each other on the counter. I don't go as often as I used to though because I can't control myself...lol
Yeah, I seem to have a problem where the only girls I find attractive are very, very straight... or CONSTANTLY in relationships.
/siiiigh
I will have to look for a gay bar with a ladies night. That would be awesome.
I JUST WANT TO PUT MY TONGUE IN A HOT GIRL'S MOUTH!!! (and then everywhere else on her body...) is that so much to ask?
4everresolutions
08-17-2011, 03:22 PM
^No, not too much to ask, but it's HARD to find.
I sympathize. Most would think that being strippers we'd have no trouble finding sexy, single women to fuck with (CUZ ALL STRIPPERS ARE GOOD LOOKING, BI AND WANNA FUCK AMIRITE?!?!)....but strippers are surprisingly prudish. And straight. Overwhelmingly straight.
DesuvsDeath
08-17-2011, 03:35 PM
OH SO STRAIGHT!
Or they're the "I'll fuck around with anyone who will let me touch them" type of girl... which is just *vomit*.
Which sort of just adds to my frustration... the only lesbians I can find are whores I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.
4everresolutions
08-17-2011, 03:43 PM
OH SO STRAIGHT!
Or they're the "I'll fuck around with anyone who will let me touch them" type of girl... which is just *vomit*.
Which sort of just adds to my frustration... the only lesbians I can find are whores I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.
Shorter than the pole used to touch the Grinch, apparently....:-X
No more lame movie-references from me today. Gotta try to zip it.
PleasureVictim
08-17-2011, 03:50 PM
^Have you tried going to another venue to meet lesbians? A place where the straight women wouldn't necessarily go? Lesbian bookstore? Gay & lesbian centers are a good place to meet women while finding more options for events and such.
DesuvsDeath
08-17-2011, 04:08 PM
^Didn't realize such things exist.
Hate that meeting women requires I go research my area and make repeat outtings. Why can't lesbians just stay home and play WoW... then beg to come over and LAN with me when they see my epic dps?
Kellydancer
08-17-2011, 04:28 PM
I know of several lesbian clubs in Chicago (don't know the name offhand but the locations.) Chicago has a huge gay and lesbian area near Wrigleyville and there are many places there. If you lived in Chicago I'd show you where they are. Why I know all these places is because years ago I knew a ton of gay men mostly from modeling and also from an art college (which has a lot of gay people). I could even introduce you to a few lesbians I know.
Isn't it rather sad though that I know many single gay and lesbians and know the areas where they party yet I can't find a place with decent quality straight men? Talk about irony. I'm coming back in my next life as a gay male because the hottest guys I've known were gay.
shasta
08-17-2011, 04:32 PM
DD, are you looking for a relationship? Either way I would try OKCupid.com or something similar.
papillonluvr
08-17-2011, 08:41 PM
I just measured myself, weighed myself, and had my personal trainer do a body fat analysis on me. The numbers weren't what I want. I'm so tempted to revert to my eating disorder right now....
But I won't. I don't want my daughter to deal with that
But damn it's hard....