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Natalllia
02-27-2012, 07:16 PM
I wish i were like 17 Again...... I'm always wishing i was young again
Oh thank the fucking gods I never have to be 17 again.
My teenage years were... let's just say they were not good to me. I've been loving my late 20s and early 30s!
Jessie_tinydancer
02-28-2012, 05:13 PM
^ werd... fuck being a teenager... no money and mom and dad are the boss = shit!
_Avery_
02-28-2012, 11:05 PM
So, my manager's husband friend requested me on FB.
Then came into the bar for food and a drink.
Then was messaging me on FB saying thanks for the great service and I said anytime.
Then he said "don't tell the wife I'm messaging you, I don't wanna get in trouble.
I just wanted to let you know you're doing a great job."
and I'm like...wtf..lol...why would that even be an issue...
so I just said, "no problem and thank you!"
then he's all, "hope I'm not bugging you and I just came up there to say hi"
I dunno WTF to do! Do I say something?? Do I let it go??
Now he's messaging me saying, "keep in touch??"
Do I keep being friendly or just ignore this?? I don't think I should say anything and just let it go because what if she finds a reason to fire me now because she thinks I'm some sort of threat or something?? (Which I'm not!)
I just messaged him back and said, "Definitely! You and Kelly (his wife and my manager) should come up and have a drink when she gets off work"
This is realllllly awkward!!
tuesdaymarie
02-28-2012, 11:14 PM
^^Ignore, ignore, ignore. Or maybe turn the tables if he continues and say you appreciate him being so encouraging, but your husband is weird about other men contacting you. Guys who are already defending themselves against the trouble they're not even in yet will only become a headache, especially since this one's married to your manager. I definitely wouldn't say anything to her though. Even if she's not an outright bitch about it, she'll probably resent you for it.
sammii
02-28-2012, 11:32 PM
I think your reply was a good last statement, and if he keeps up the "lets keep in touch" shit, you should ignore him. He sounds really creepy, and I'm sure if his wife suspected he was flirting with you, she would find a reason to fire you. I know you weren't flirting with him, but she could easily take it out of proportion.
anouk.oui
03-01-2012, 06:34 AM
Oh no i think im catching feelings for my fuckdoll. DAMMIT BRAIN i tbhought we had a deal. this gonna end bad.... i told me so.
_Avery_
03-02-2012, 07:20 PM
^^omg, I wanna hear alllll about it! You got ME excited!! :D
luscious sadie
03-03-2012, 01:46 AM
sorry DJs. I don't care how 'stressful' you think your job is. It doesn't come close to ours. Stop making out like it does because you have to keep an eye out for ~the dancers~.
sammii
03-03-2012, 02:12 AM
sorry DJs. I don't care how 'stressful' you think your job is. It doesn't come close to ours. Stop making out like it does because you have to keep an eye out for ~the dancers~.
Why work at a strip club if it's "so stressful to look after the dancers." Um, hello, work at a regular night club, then. The DJ thread was really grating on my nerves. My boyfriend is a DJ and it's really not that stressful.
DesuvsDeath
03-03-2012, 03:22 AM
sorry DJs. I don't care how 'stressful' you think your job is. It doesn't come close to ours. Stop making out like it does because you have to keep an eye out for ~the dancers~.
FOR REAL.
The adorable little fuck from MY club has a REAL DJ job 4-5 nights a week IN ADDITION TO DJing at the club 4 nights a week.
So I don't particularly care to hear some STRIP CLUB ONLY DJ crying about how hard his DJ job is... it's not half as hard as this precious boy (who is still THE BEST DJ IN LA)'s job is.
luscious sadie
03-03-2012, 03:37 AM
not to mention how smug they are when they talk about how hard it is on them. Of course WE have no idea how hard it is for THEM. It isn't like we see them doing their job or anything. You don't get a break? Cry me a fucking river. You have to "watch out for the girls"? What is so stressful about that? I have to watch out to make sure no customer is going to stick their fingers in places where they aren't allowed to and then possibly not have anything done about it. I have never worked at a club where the DJ hasn't had more power and respect than a dancer. Power over customers, staff, other girls... A rude customer can be a dick to me for hours but would never say half the things that he did to me to the DJ. Even if the DJ is a woman. So aside from the threat of sexual assault we also have to deal with the emotional and psychological abuse. I don't think that I have ever even heard a cop bitch about how hard their job is more than the DJs on SW.
When I worked in kitchens I was lucky to be able to have a smoke every 5 hours. I worked 10-16 hours at 85$ a day getting screamed at, plates and food basically thrown at me, doing everything anytime just because... and I can tell you straight up that it is nowhere near as stressful as being a dancer.
DesuvsDeath
03-03-2012, 03:59 AM
You have to "watch out for the girls"? What is so stressful about that? I have to watch out to make sure no customer is going to stick their fingers in places where they aren't allowed to and then possibly not have anything done about it.
FOR REAL. I've never worked in a club where a fucking DJ had to worry about a guy ninjaing a finger/tongue into an asshole/my vagina like I have to fucking look out for.
Maybe I had pity on DJ's before... but now I work in fucking LA where telling a guy he can touch my legs in VIP can get me arrested but everything short of "penis in a hole" is expected/standard.
Cry me a fucking RIVER about how hard YOUR job is... asshole.
luscious sadie
03-03-2012, 04:11 AM
hold on a second Desu. You're taking this a little bit too far. I mean, you get to have a break, right? Well guess what? THE DJ DOESN'T. So think about THAT next time you try to tell me that your job is harder than his.
DesuvsDeath
03-03-2012, 05:01 AM
LMAO. NO! I DON'T! Every time I TRY to take a break this mother fucker is like "these guys just got singles, let me put you on stage so you can get some more money because I haven't been making enough lately."
This is, btw, the same guy who tries to call me OUT OF DANCES... because he thinks that dicking me out of $100 in dances so I can make $20 on stage means I'm going to "take care of him" at the end of the night.
...because he's greedy and retarded.
_natasha
03-03-2012, 06:14 AM
We don't even have a DJ system in my club... but that thread makes me want to smash things. I don't want to be sexist but.... it's just another time men (I know women can be DJs too... but it's mainly men) moan about perceived wrongs while women '(wo)man up' and take shit in their stride.
Saw it today; brother in law went to accident and emergency for his tennis elbow WHILE MY SISTER WAS IN LABOUR. Said he may as well get it seen to while he was in the hospital... What?! I can kinda see his logic, but really?!? I hate that guy so much. If my dad hadn't told me this I wouldn't have believed it. On the plus side I have a new nephew...
michele11
03-03-2012, 06:16 AM
^My daughters fathers been a dj for 17 years at a high end club. Years ago I pissed off a lot of djs because I think 10% to a dj is fucken ridiculous. especially if you have 100 girls tipping you out. You should make more than the girls? Fuck you! You stand in a booth and have no interaction with assholes and you always know your going to make x amount of money we don't! Some djs do give half their tips to the club but it's rare, I just had one tell me and another girl here he pays 200 shift pay, little does he know my daughter father works at their sister club and I know they get shift pay!
michele11
03-03-2012, 06:18 AM
I meant pissed off a lot of djs here years ago when there was a huge thread about it. I won't get involved with this one.
Jessie_tinydancer
03-03-2012, 12:57 PM
I fricken high as a kite and my hubby dragged me home from nightclub boned me then passed out... I can hear people in a house close by having a party and so tempted to say hello cause Im fucked!!! what the hell!!! why did I agree to leave.
kaiarose
03-03-2012, 12:59 PM
what time is it there??
Jessie_tinydancer
03-03-2012, 01:07 PM
^ lol its 7am on sunday morning hehehe... but it was mardi gras last night our massive gay/les event of the year so pretty much most of the city is still partying
Kellydancer
03-03-2012, 01:07 PM
Yeah the DJ thread annoyed me at times because I have dealt with so many jerk DJs from the ones who tried to sleep with the dancers to the guys who only got the job because they knew someone. I actually once worked with a woman DJ (former dancer)and she was paid less than the male DJs because the idea was she was only doing it because no man wanted it. Huh? I tipped her more than the male DJs because of it. I once applied as a DJ at a strip club and was told they don't hire female DJs. Instead they hired a man less qualified then me, and incidentally I have a radio degree with club DJ experience.
I think a new female poster is in fact a male. The defending men while bashing women just seems way too misogynist to be a female.
Su Su
03-03-2012, 01:22 PM
I'm starting to get attracted by this decent looking security guard at the club. We never spoke, just exchanged a lot of eye contact.
I feel guilty for even feeling this because I've got a partner currently living overseas at the moment :(
sammii
03-03-2012, 06:25 PM
I think a new female poster is in fact a male. The defending men while bashing women just seems way too misogynist to be a female.
I've noticed this too about a new "female stripper." I'm ignoring her.
C0RINNE
03-04-2012, 09:28 PM
WTF happened to my libido??? I used to be a like a sex-crazed cat-in-heat/hormonally crazed teenage boy.... now I can't even remember the last time I felt horny. Is it stress? Depression? Hormonal imbalance? I don't know but it's pissing me off, especially since I have a gorgeous FWB who will bang the daylights out of me whenever I want. Errrrgh. so. frustrated. >:(
Kellydancer
03-04-2012, 09:35 PM
I've noticed this too about a new "female stripper." I'm ignoring her.
I'm sure it's the same one and yep better to ignore. I will never understand why men try pretending to be women because eventually they will get caught.
anouk.oui
03-05-2012, 01:04 AM
^^omg, I wanna hear alllll about it! You got ME excited!! :D
me?? ill vent anyway lol
i think weve just spent too much time outside of fucking doing normal couple things and it caught up with me. and apparently him to according to my friend who reckons his face lights up everytime i enter a room and have a hopeless puppy love look on his face. were like attached at the hip.
im scared coz hes completely wrong for me and i cant believe i dumped one unemployed drug addict muso for another. but i cant seem to keep myself away =\
and the end of this week hes going to usa to tour for a month so fuck knows if anything will come of all this. just getting revved up in emotions and hes leaving to do all the drugs in the world and fuck millions of women.
Kellydancer
03-05-2012, 11:52 AM
Ok I have to confess this. I created the thread about being a housewife for a reason and I feel weird about it. For some unexplained reason the idea of being a stay at home mom really appeals to me. This one guy I have been chatting with really desires a wife willing to stay at home until kids go to school and to breastfeed as long as possible, but probably 6 months to a year. It really excites me to consider this, almost in a sexual way. Every night I have been having dreams about this. If things work out (and it's too early to say)he said he was open to me being a stay at home wife even if there is no kids but doesn't care either way unless there are kids. I am floored that seems everyday I am becoming more and more conservative.
firemaiden04
03-05-2012, 02:58 PM
^ I don't view being a housewife as being a Conservative thing at all...I'm as liberal as you can get without being a full-fledged Socialist and I like being a housewife.
Kellydancer
03-05-2012, 03:17 PM
Thanks Firemaiden. I think too often it's labeled as a conservative lifestyle but the funny thing is I know many liberal women who love being one and men who are liberal who love having a housewife. It floors me that I want to have a baby and stay at home and raise it.
DesuvsDeath
03-05-2012, 04:26 PM
It's a crazy dream... and it'll never work out.
But I'm fucking following it!! :D
Kellydancer
03-05-2012, 11:24 PM
Now there are more men wanting to date me. I thought I was starting to figure it out but now more confused than ever. Do I want to date a guy in the next town who may or may not want marriage and is liberal or a guy who lives 2 hours away, wants to get marry but wants a housewife and is way more conservative than I would like. What about the guy I really liked who disappeared but I saw today and old me he wanted to see me. Or how about the other guys I've met. And what about if I get that job I really want, then what?
I hate this. Why do so many men want to date me now and which one? What if I can't make up my mind and wait too long to have a baby?
I don't have mental problems or do drugs but maybe then this would make sense.
kaiarose
03-06-2012, 07:17 AM
Very regretful today :(
Last night I was going through my daughter's baby book with her and I got extremely choked up. I had to stop and go to the bathroom so I could bawl my eyes out. This is very unlike me. As I was sitting on the toilet lid crying, I began to think about all the mistakes I've made with her. All the time I've missed out on because of my job. From the time she was 6 weeks old up until now I've been dancing. Every weekend (except for maybe 2 or 3) I've spent away from her and she's spent it with relatives. I can't even remember what it was like to hold her as a baby. My memory is shot. Seeing her baby pics and reading what I wrote during those first couple years made me realize that there was a time in hers and my life when I was completely fascinated by her. This fucking job has jaded me and stolen a part of me. I work all night, wake up completely exhausted and am and have been so selfish to brush her off in the mornings because "mommy's so tired.." I've been so mean and crabby towards her over the years because of all the late nights and hangovers. I feel like an utter piece of shit. It's like I had an awakening last night. And it hurt me down to my core. I'm actually crying typing this right now. I wish so badly that I could go back and re-do it. Cherish her. I've completely taken her for granted and I'm so disgusted with myself. She's 7 right now so I have a chance to turn this around...right? I have just built this wall around myself when it comes to her and I don't know why. I'm so self conscious when it comes to showing her affection or playing with her. It's like I'm always on display or something. I don't understand it. I've never been the motherly type. Never babysat, always disliked kids, etc.. But I DO remember how excited I was to have my own baby and reading her baby book last night, I was excited and so in love after she was born. Idk, what happened over all these years that has caused me to be so blase' about my own child. I want a re-do.... I want to remember what it was like to hold her in my arms and cradle her and experience the simplest things again.. her first smile, her first laugh, first step and cherish it. But I can't. From this point on things are changing though. I've lost out on so much because of my selfishness. Idk, why I had that awakening last night. It hurt like hell and it still does but it needed to happen. It's time for a really big change.
Kellydancer
03-06-2012, 11:54 AM
Very regretful today :(
Last night I was going through my daughter's baby book with her and I got extremely choked up. I had to stop and go to the bathroom so I could bawl my eyes out. This is very unlike me. As I was sitting on the toilet lid crying, I began to think about all the mistakes I've made with her. All the time I've missed out on because of my job. From the time she was 6 weeks old up until now I've been dancing. Every weekend (except for maybe 2 or 3) I've spent away from her and she's spent it with relatives. I can't even remember what it was like to hold her as a baby. My memory is shot. Seeing her baby pics and reading what I wrote during those first couple years made me realize that there was a time in hers and my life when I was completely fascinated by her. This fucking job has jaded me and stolen a part of me. I work all night, wake up completely exhausted and am and have been so selfish to brush her off in the mornings because "mommy's so tired.." I've been so mean and crabby towards her over the years because of all the late nights and hangovers. I feel like an utter piece of shit. It's like I had an awakening last night. And it hurt me down to my core. I'm actually crying typing this right now. I wish so badly that I could go back and re-do it. Cherish her. I've completely taken her for granted and I'm so disgusted with myself. She's 7 right now so I have a chance to turn this around...right? I have just built this wall around myself when it comes to her and I don't know why. I'm so self conscious when it comes to showing her affection or playing with her. It's like I'm always on display or something. I don't understand it. I've never been the motherly type. Never babysat, always disliked kids, etc.. But I DO remember how excited I was to have my own baby and reading her baby book last night, I was excited and so in love after she was born. Idk, what happened over all these years that has caused me to be so blase' about my own child. I want a re-do.... I want to remember what it was like to hold her in my arms and cradle her and experience the simplest things again.. her first smile, her first laugh, first step and cherish it. But I can't. From this point on things are changing though. I've lost out on so much because of my selfishness. Idk, why I had that awakening last night. It hurt like hell and it still does but it needed to happen. It's time for a really big change.
Stop being so hard on yourself. I'm sure you are a wonderful mother, you just think you are awful. Guess what? every parent I know regrets things they did. I know stay at home moms who wished they worked and working moms who wanted to stay at home. In the long run the kids turn out wonderful. If you are as great as you are here then you are a fantastic mom and you are being too hard.
caitlin1214
03-06-2012, 01:34 PM
I can see how people can get addicted to painkillers. After I had my spinal surgery they gave me Vicodin. At some point my orthopedist was like, "She's going to hate me, but she can't have another refill."
I remember bargaining with my parents: "Can't I just have one at night?" "No." "Can't I just have half a one?" "No."
To add: It's a good thing the doctor cut me off when he did, because I could feel myself starting to rely on them too much.
I swear, my time frame was: Take the pill, sleep, is it time for another one yet? Take the pill, sleep, is it time for another one yet?
It's one thing to think like that it's just post-surgery and you're in the hospital hooked up to one of those self-controlled, timed morphine drips but it's quite another when you're at home, in your own bed and you're essentially mobile.
smeca
03-06-2012, 03:04 PM
confession- i get annoyed at how left wing most of my friends are.
michele11
03-06-2012, 03:26 PM
^ Kairose that made me cry too! I've been dealing with these feeling too about my daughter but sadly it is too late for me( mines 15) but not you! I wish I didn't travel so much and had spent more time with her and like you I'm not mommy material I dont have a domestic bone in my body. I've been having bad dreams about the regret I feel were she'll be little in the dream then I can't find her and I wake up upset and crying. It's not too late for you, you still have at least another 5 years were she'll actually like and want to spend time with you. I saw where alec baldwin said ' spend as much time with your children as you can because by 13 they wont want anything to do with you aand it's so true. I remember 2 years when she still wanted me to lay in bed with her and some nights at thauot time I didn't want to hell she was almost 13 and I had a fiancee but I would tell her I will always lay with you and tickle your back and talk because one day I know you wont want me too, well that day came. It's awful! I'm crying too as I type this. Now all she does is sit in her room on the phone or computer with her door locked.Only comes out to eat or go to the bathroom. Ugh ut's like she hates me. She actually spent an hour with me the other night because I made her let me come in and acted interested in her cosplay and let her show me stuff. I said that wa nice maybe we can spend more time together tommarow and she said '" your not infiltrating my life like that! Enjoy every moment you have now and if your hung over or don't feel like it come and read this and you can always pm me whenever you want!
sananeko
03-06-2012, 04:00 PM
Its been awhile since I had a girl moment.. I can't decide if I want to get a stud or heels...
anouk.oui
03-07-2012, 02:45 AM
alcohol + xanax - fuzzyyys
cmonliife
aussiebelle
03-07-2012, 04:16 AM
I think a new female poster is in fact a male. The defending men while bashing women just seems way too misogynist to be a female.
This has been happening a bit lately. Either in the same way as you said or posters forgetting what gender they are and being inconsistent :-\
kaiarose
03-07-2012, 07:28 AM
^ Kairose that made me cry too! I've been dealing with these feeling too about my daughter but sadly it is too late for me( mines 15) but not you! I wish I didn't travel so much and had spent more time with her and like you I'm not mommy material I dont have a domestic bone in my body. I've been having bad dreams about the regret I feel were she'll be little in the dream then I can't find her and I wake up upset and crying. It's not too late for you, you still have at least another 5 years were she'll actually like and want to spend time with you. I saw where alec baldwin said ' spend as much time with your children as you can because by 13 they wont want anything to do with you aand it's so true. I remember 2 years when she still wanted me to lay in bed with her and some nights at thauot time I didn't want to hell she was almost 13 and I had a fiancee but I would tell her I will always lay with you and tickle your back and talk because one day I know you wont want me too, well that day came. It's awful! I'm crying too as I type this. Now all she does is sit in her room on the phone or computer with her door locked.Only comes out to eat or go to the bathroom. Ugh ut's like she hates me. She actually spent an hour with me the other night because I made her let me come in and acted interested in her cosplay and let her show me stuff. I said that wa nice maybe we can spend more time together tommarow and she said '" your not infiltrating my life like that! Enjoy every moment you have now and if your hung over or don't feel like it come and read this and you can always pm me whenever you want!
Thanks michele :) It makes me feel better that I'm not alone in the way I feel.. Something in me definitely clicked the other night and I can't seem to get enough of her now. I'm done taking her for granted. You're right, there will come a day when she won't want me anymore..
_Avery_
03-07-2012, 07:53 AM
Very regretful today :(
Last night I was going through my daughter's baby book with her and I got extremely choked up. I had to stop and go to the bathroom so I could bawl my eyes out. This is very unlike me. As I was sitting on the toilet lid crying, I began to think about all the mistakes I've made with her. All the time I've missed out on because of my job. From the time she was 6 weeks old up until now I've been dancing. Every weekend (except for maybe 2 or 3) I've spent away from her and she's spent it with relatives. I can't even remember what it was like to hold her as a baby. My memory is shot. Seeing her baby pics and reading what I wrote during those first couple years made me realize that there was a time in hers and my life when I was completely fascinated by her. This fucking job has jaded me and stolen a part of me. I work all night, wake up completely exhausted and am and have been so selfish to brush her off in the mornings because "mommy's so tired.." I've been so mean and crabby towards her over the years because of all the late nights and hangovers. I feel like an utter piece of shit. It's like I had an awakening last night. And it hurt me down to my core. I'm actually crying typing this right now. I wish so badly that I could go back and re-do it. Cherish her. I've completely taken her for granted and I'm so disgusted with myself. She's 7 right now so I have a chance to turn this around...right? I have just built this wall around myself when it comes to her and I don't know why. I'm so self conscious when it comes to showing her affection or playing with her. It's like I'm always on display or something. I don't understand it. I've never been the motherly type. Never babysat, always disliked kids, etc.. But I DO remember how excited I was to have my own baby and reading her baby book last night, I was excited and so in love after she was born. Idk, what happened over all these years that has caused me to be so blase' about my own child. I want a re-do.... I want to remember what it was like to hold her in my arms and cradle her and experience the simplest things again.. her first smile, her first laugh, first step and cherish it. But I can't. From this point on things are changing though. I've lost out on so much because of my selfishness. Idk, why I had that awakening last night. It hurt like hell and it still does but it needed to happen. It's time for a really big change.
I really think Michelle and Kelly. said it perfectly. You still have so much time to change things.
Plus, in my opinion, right now you are an AMAZING mother. You work hard and so much so she has everything she wants in life.
When I see your and your daughter's pics, you BOTH look sooo extremely happy together.
That little girl is smiling in every pic I see of her, so I know you're doing something right. :)
And the way YOUR eyes sparkle in the pics I see of you two together, it's beautiful. (and I'm sorry if that sounds corny..lol, but it's true).
Maybe once a week have a mommy/daughter day. Go get your nails done, color, play dolls, bake cookies. I think you'll both appreciate it a lot.
You're an AMAZING person and a WONDERFUL, AMAZING mother. Don't ever feel like anything less. <3 <3
kaiarose
03-07-2012, 07:57 AM
Aww thank you Avery <3 That means more than you know..
Kellydancer
03-07-2012, 01:56 PM
This has been happening a bit lately. Either in the same way as you said or posters forgetting what gender they are and being inconsistent :-\
Yeah it's disturbing. I can usually spot a male poster a mile away by comments they make. I was tipped off that many of the "female" posters were coming here to lurk then post on other boards making fun of strippers. It's almost comical that men do that but they are the ones staying home at night because no woman wants them.
GlitterBexie
03-07-2012, 08:25 PM
Very regretful today :(
Last night I was going through my daughter's baby book with her and I got extremely choked up. I had to stop and go to the bathroom so I could bawl my eyes out. This is very unlike me. As I was sitting on the toilet lid crying, I began to think about all the mistakes I've made with her. All the time I've missed out on because of my job. From the time she was 6 weeks old up until now I've been dancing. Every weekend (except for maybe 2 or 3) I've spent away from her and she's spent it with relatives. I can't even remember what it was like to hold her as a baby. My memory is shot. Seeing her baby pics and reading what I wrote during those first couple years made me realize that there was a time in hers and my life when I was completely fascinated by her. This fucking job has jaded me and stolen a part of me. I work all night, wake up completely exhausted and am and have been so selfish to brush her off in the mornings because "mommy's so tired.." I've been so mean and crabby towards her over the years because of all the late nights and hangovers. I feel like an utter piece of shit. It's like I had an awakening last night. And it hurt me down to my core. I'm actually crying typing this right now. I wish so badly that I could go back and re-do it. Cherish her. I've completely taken her for granted and I'm so disgusted with myself. She's 7 right now so I have a chance to turn this around...right? I have just built this wall around myself when it comes to her and I don't know why. I'm so self conscious when it comes to showing her affection or playing with her. It's like I'm always on display or something. I don't understand it. I've never been the motherly type. Never babysat, always disliked kids, etc.. But I DO remember how excited I was to have my own baby and reading her baby book last night, I was excited and so in love after she was born. Idk, what happened over all these years that has caused me to be so blase' about my own child. I want a re-do.... I want to remember what it was like to hold her in my arms and cradle her and experience the simplest things again.. her first smile, her first laugh, first step and cherish it. But I can't. From this point on things are changing though. I've lost out on so much because of my selfishness. Idk, why I had that awakening last night. It hurt like hell and it still does but it needed to happen. It's time for a really big change.
Kaiarose. I am 25 and i moved away from home nearly two years ago. Your message made me cry cause my mammy sent me an email similar to the one you have just written on here anout how she regrets so much cause she had to work from when i was little (she had to go back to work when i was 6 weeks) and has worked solidly all the way through my (and my sisters) life. She was apologising to me for not being there. And i just wanted to say to you like i said to her, You are a fabulous Mum, i cannot tell her how much i miss seeing her every day, i live four hours away and i adore my family, seeing her work didnt make me bitter or sad, she was always there when i needed her, it taught me that strong women work hard and can achieve every thing they want, it showed me that its ok to have a goal and to go for it, she gave me my work ethic, and that she worked to provide me and my sister with every possible opportunity we could have to make our lives better, she believes she sacrificed her time with her family to work, and she regrets it, but all i can see is how hard she worked to make a loving, stable and pleasant home for us, her "sacrifices" of time, were done out of love. And me and my sister are both very very thankful to her for everything she has ever done for us. And as for one day not needing your mum, i will ALWAYS need my Mammy, she is one of the most inspirational and amazing women i know (even though she would dispute this vehemently) and im sure one day when she's old enough, your little girl will think the same. xx
Vyanka
03-08-2012, 12:45 PM
I came out of my stripper closet last night. I confessed to my younger sister about my job. Her reaction was so funny. Thank God, she didn't take it the way I thought she would. Was actually supportive. Next will be my mom, but not right now. I am tired of the lying and hiding. It was a relief letting someone close to the family know.
Sophia_Starina
03-08-2012, 12:57 PM
I came out of my stripper closet last night. I confessed to my younger sister about my job. Her reaction was so funny. Thank God, she didn't take it the way I thought she would. Was actually supportive. Next will be my mom, but not right now. I am tired of the lying and hiding. It was a relief letting someone close to the family know.
I'm so happy for you! *hugs*
Vyanka
03-08-2012, 02:22 PM
I'm so happy for you! *hugs*
Thanks babe. xoxo <3
_Avery_
03-08-2012, 02:51 PM
/angry rampage vent.
mediocrity
03-08-2012, 02:57 PM
While I don't agree with what you said to her, a) I don't know the whole situation and b) sounds like it's time for her to get a part time job.
_Avery_
03-08-2012, 03:01 PM
Yeah, what I said was pretty fucked up.
Even my husband said everything was harsh, but...I can't help it. When I'm mad, I just go off...and I don't have a censor.
Come Summer, my husband has a job for her at his hotel at least. (then she'll probably just bitch about that... :/ )