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sammii
04-03-2013, 10:25 PM
man, fuck Chelsea Handler. Mysoginistic as fuck. But cool because it's ~edgy~

fuck that.
I can't stand her. She's to comedy, what Nikki Minaj is to music. They suck.

LaurenAus
04-03-2013, 10:40 PM
the point is she'd make an awesome FRIEND. She doesn't mind sharing the spotlight, very generous, loyal, wouldn't steal your boyfriend/husband or talk shit behind your back once she considers you a friend. She's a girls-girl.

Kellydancer
04-04-2013, 11:40 AM
I probably shouldn't confess this because it will make me sound like a bitch (or a bigger bitch to some of you)but it's something I have started to do again.

Basically I am not doing online dating because I found someone I really like. However I keep a couple of profiles in the event it doesn't work out or someone better comes along. I doubt this to be honest as the free sites are full of just bottom of the barrel slime. Anyway, my profile states I am not open to meeting people for sex but I still get these guys asking for it. So now I agree to meet them at certain places but never show. Sometimes I do show to see if they show up but since I don't have a photo on these sites they can't tell it's me or not. Other times I give them a place to meet very far away and of course don't show up. I used to give the address of a radio station but stopped doing that when the people at the station figured out it was me doing this.

I am not doing this to random men who just want to meet. Those guys are ones I have met and might for the right guy. No, these are the scummy men, men who are married or men just wanting sex.

luscious sadie
04-04-2013, 02:33 PM
the point is she'd make an awesome FRIEND. She doesn't mind sharing the spotlight, very generous, loyal, wouldn't steal your boyfriend/husband or talk shit behind your back once she considers you a friend. She's a girls-girl.

I don't think so. Most of what she says is so ANTI-WOMAN. In my opinion, she would fuck your boyfriend / husband, talk shit about you to your face while stealing the spotlight, and would then say "what? Can't you take a joke!" as you freaked out. She's all about hogging the spotlight and putting herself first as evidence by how she's willing to put down and make fun of any other woman in an attempt to prove that she ain't like that.

that's not my ideal friend but to each their own!

LaurenAus
04-04-2013, 03:24 PM
k well I've watched her interviews, read her books, people who have worked for her have reported how generous she is and she picks up her friends tabs. If you're part of the Chelsea family you're basically taken care of. And she's probably the only celebrity I know who calls Angelina Jolie out on her shit when no one else will because Angelina has the gnarliest PR machine behind her. Who would you be friends with? An Angelina type who will guaranteed fuck your husband when you're not looking and then play innocent to the public? No thanks I'll pass.

kortneykay
04-05-2013, 01:22 AM
I like her and her book Are You There Vodka, It's Me Chelsea, was funny to me. And I think it's funny she dated 50 Cent unless that was just a PR stunt. I think she's just vulgar on TV and some people don't like it. That and she looks like she gets drunk before she goes on air haha.

tuesdaymarie
04-05-2013, 01:25 PM
^My friend went to a taping of her show, and she apparently showed up quite late and extremely drunk. Some people in the audience got all pissy about it, but wtf were they expecting?

charlie61
04-05-2013, 11:24 PM
I just moved to an entirely new city in an entirely new region of the country, and I'm thinking about returning to dancing for a bit of extra money (I want to go back to school, but I have to wait a year to establish residency so I don't have to pay out-of-state tuition premiums).

Anyway...I get SO nervous about the thought of walking into a club to audition. Is it possible for it to be harder to start the second time than it was the first? Sigh. I just need to suck it up and do it. I know I won't regret it.

whirlerz
04-05-2013, 11:47 PM
I just moved to an entirely new city in an entirely new region of the country, and I'm thinking about returning to dancing for a bit of extra money (I want to go back to school, but I have to wait a year to establish residency so I don't have to pay out-of-state tuition premiums).

Anyway...I get SO nervous about the thought of walking into a club to audition. Is it possible for it to be harder to start the second time than it was the first? Sigh. I just need to suck it up and do it. I know I won't regret it.

You'll be great, luv. Yes, to me it's definitely harder the second time around. I know you can rock it.
I am enjoying these posts

OliveJardin
04-09-2013, 07:17 PM
...I walked into a hair salon yesterday wanting to get my caramel foils touched up...and walked out a blonde :P!

It's been an idea that I've been toying with for years (I never did it because my hair is naturally black and I was always too scared about how bad the regrowth would look lol!).

Lets see if blondes have more fun ;)!

charlie61
04-09-2013, 08:48 PM
^Keep us posted! My hair is a mid-range brown naturally that I've been dying black/dark brown for a couple of years, and I'm also toying with the thought of going lighter...

So your hair isn't uber-damaged now? I'm amazed they could get you to a blonde so quickly!

whirlerz
04-09-2013, 11:40 PM
...I walked into a hair salon yesterday wanting to get my caramel foils touched up...and walked out a blonde :P!

It's been an idea that I've been toying with for years (I never did it because my hair is naturally black and I was always too scared about how bad the regrowth would look lol!).

Lets see if blondes have more fun ;)!

How about a pic?:)

OliveJardin
04-10-2013, 12:40 AM
^Lol cheeky :P.

...The hairdresser was surprised by how light it turned out and how healthy it looked-it's a light sandy blonde with platinum highlights atm. It wasn't damaged at all, which I was happy about because I didn't want to loose any length. In a few weeks I'm going to get it lightened again, so I'll keep you posted :)!

Confession: Didn't realise finding matching hair extensions would be such a pain...I managed to match my new found colour...well, kind of::). They'll have to do until I lighten it lol.

tuesdaymarie
04-10-2013, 04:51 PM
I'm being a petty cunt, and I'm pretty aware of it. This girl I know-ish just got a spot in a national commercial a few months following a guy I know doing the same. He was in the commercial for like 7-10 seconds and was paid $9k. I really wish I weren't annoyed/jealous, but I am, which only makes me more annoyed. They're just... agh. They're both extremely stupid. Last time I spoke with the girl, she was like, "Oooh yeah, I had to drop my classes because I was partying too often to do my work, HAHA!!!" Anytime we're in the same room together, she spends 85% of her words to say things like, "Guys, I'm like SO HIGH. I'm like... on a spaceship high! HAHA, get it? Oh man, I'm soooo fucked up!" It's like, bitch... we get it: you're cool because you smoke weed. Congratufuckinglations. And the guy called me on my birthday at midnight a few months ago to "talk" and failed to mention he's engaged with a baby on the way, ever since he impregnated his girlfriend who has herpes and he insisted he's "immune." (I already knew about the baby/engagement from someone else and have zero interest in him. It was just ridiculous that he avoided the topic/lied, and for no reason. He also insulted me for not knowing something specific about Serbia since I "should know" as I went to college, which is "what people who want to be average do.") Part of me thinks of all this and is like, "Hey, no worries, they'll be idiots for life and at least one of them is going to drive his life into the ground soon anyway." But then I realize how shitty/fucked up that is to even think. I mean, yeah, they're annoying/dumb, but it just makes me worse of a person to react like that. I guess it's normal to feel jealous or whatever, but goddamn. I'm not usually this petty, and I hate that I'm justifying resenting people's success because I personally dislike them. So, yeah, this rambling post has made me realize that I totally need to refocus my life.

strippername
04-10-2013, 11:22 PM
I always wonder how many of these "top earners" we have on this website are really top earners. I believe that they can do well, might look nice and might be good dancers but if you mention if in every sentence I am calling your bullshit.

charlie61
04-11-2013, 12:00 AM
Okay. Confession time. I started watching Teen Wolf on Netflix, and...I'm actually enjoying it. Do teen shows have all of the good writers these days?

Nina_
04-11-2013, 12:48 AM
That reminds me... confession: I have recently started watching The Bad Girls Club. So trashy that it's entertaining. It's my new guilty pleasure.

Kellydancer
04-11-2013, 12:43 PM
I always wonder how many of these "top earners" we have on this website are really top earners. I believe that they can do well, might look nice and might be good dancers but if you mention if in every sentence I am calling your bullshit.

I think a lot lie or exaggerate. I also think a lot are more dirty than they claim, such as giving extras to make that money. I am not saying names but there was one dancer here who always bragged about how she made the most money, anyway apparently she makes that money because she does a lot of dirty extras. I look at a dancer who makes money cleanly a lot different than a girl who is a top earner and has to suck and fuck to earn it (and I have no issue with escorts but don't feel it should be in the clubs).

Kellydancer
04-11-2013, 12:46 PM
Speaking of television I have become somewhat obsessed with both the Client List and the wedding shows on TLC. Not sure why since the Client List really plays into a lot of stereotypes but some of the episodes are kind of funny too. I've never really cared about wedding things but for some reason watching women buy dresses or make them or plan a wedding interests me lately. A sign of things to come?

strippername
04-11-2013, 03:29 PM
Me too, KD! I have been watching all sorts of shitty wedding shows. Bridezillas is the worst. Have you seen Bridalplasty? I liked it. The dress ones are fun.

Girls that say things like "I allow no contact and am a top earner" in heavy, heavy contact areas are big fat liars. I know who you are talking about and I agree. Extras and extra contact may actually be necessary in some areas. I don't care. Making crap up and lying to yourself and everyone is the annoying part.

Kellydancer
04-11-2013, 04:12 PM
Yeah, but to those people they think they can lie to themselves and say "hey I make all this money". The one thing I am happy about is that I never had to do high contact like some do today. That's not to say I was always the highest earner or that I made a lot of money, just that some days I was the top earner, some nights not so much but even so didn't do something I would be embarassed to admit years later. I am embarassed to some extent the lying I had to do in clubs to get some men to spend more but I look at it as having to lie to get more money.

I haven't seen Bridalplasty but have seen the one where the brides go through that heavy makeover before the wedding (not surgery though). I'll have to check that one out. I have been watching Say Yes To The Dress a lot and not sure why though it's partly because there is a guy on there who makes me laugh. I've also been watching that one show were they take an old wedding dress and change it. Oh and that one show where these brides go to each other's weddings. Until recently I always hated anything bridal (and I rarely attended weddings I was invited to except the receptions)but it's been interesting me a lot.

sammii
04-11-2013, 06:17 PM
I love watching bridal shows too, though I'm not really sure why I like them so much. ... but shit, it's ridiculous how much some people spend on dresses in Say Yes to the Dress ... like going into debt for a 5k wedding dress you'll wear once. No offense to anyone, just seems like a waste of money to me.

I loved Bridalplasty too ... it's probably the one reality show I would go on if I were invited ... free plastic surgery? Yes please. :D

Kellydancer
04-11-2013, 09:37 PM
I am looking up to see when Bridalplasty is on because I am curious. Would anyone get plastic surgery before a wedding? I was thinking this and what I would do is get my teeth whitened and any dental work I needed before the wedding but not sure what other things I'd get done. I know I would want to lose weight and get in great shape because years later don't want to come back and say "boy did I look like a pig". Oh and of course the morning of the wedding get my hair, makeup and nails done (and other hair related things a few days before) but that is common. What I get a kick on these bridal shows is how much people spend on weddings and I go "what an ugly dress". I have to ask why no one is telling the bride she looks ugly and that style doesn't work. I know if I get married I'll take my mom with to buy my dress because she is so critical, which used to annoy me (she notices if I gain a pound and doesn't hesitate to tell me when I'm looking fat)but I now appreciate it. Then there are the obviously strange things these brides do, like one was wearing cowboy boots with her gown. Does anyone wear cowboy boots to her wedding?

charlotte.
04-12-2013, 12:49 AM
I always wonder how many of these "top earners" we have on this website are really top earners. I believe that they can do well, might look nice and might be good dancers but if you mention if in every sentence I am calling your bullshit.

hahaha yeah I think that's funny about this site, ive never really claimed to be a top earner because its so impossible to know, whenever I make $$ the club hasnt tracked it for the most part, its all cash tips or table dances that nobody notices, so girls couldnt know and hosts couldnt know most of the $$ I make. same with all of my friends, most of our regs tip 2-4 times the room price (that's why they're regs haha) so nobody could know one of us just got a g for a $300 room. anyway, I know im pretty average at most if the clubs I work at but at the same time, I average over $100/hr which it doesnt seem is common here because I see girls here also complaining about making zero or negative or whatever all the time or averaging $250 or something...ive danced all over the country in cities that girls say here its impossible to make money and my standard never changes. ive never felt fine making less than $100/hr and justified it by saying other girls are doing extras. never settle for less when you could make more.

I also think its funny that everyone claims their city is the worst haha that thread about worst cities is so funny because everyone thinks their city is the worst and thats why they cant make $$. stop being so negative and ignore the extras and $$ will come!

charlotte_ai
04-12-2013, 01:46 AM
I confess.... I fucking hate the indian guys that come into the club. I try not to stereotype or be racist BUT..... argh. They are so gross and I had to give one a lap dance last night, didn't get a chance to negotiate a higher price (included tip up front) because I was already in another dance when he paid, then he kept trying to lick me, and grabbed my tits so I cut the dance short after 4mins and had him thrown out. Apparently he booked a new girl before me and tried to make her get naked (dances are topless) then kept touching her too. I'm not putting up with that shit. They fuck with me, they are GONE. I wish they could just be normal and stop proving me right in my expectations.
I hate being a racist dancer... but...

Nina_
04-12-2013, 04:28 PM
I avoid Indian guys at my club because of this. :( I hate stereotyping, and I know that not all Indian guys are like that. But my experiences with Indian men in my club have been very similar.

Nina_
04-12-2013, 04:29 PM
Confession: haven't worked in a week.

Kellydancer
04-12-2013, 08:36 PM
Just wait until you get into the corporate world if that is your future. They are horrific there too. I hated them while dancing because they were cheap and grabby, in the corporate world the ones I have come across were extremely sexist. Before dancing I never thought of myself as racist but this changed. Now I would never even date one.

charlie61
04-12-2013, 11:16 PM
Just to add a bit of variety to the whole Indian thing...the last company I worked for (huge corporation) had quite a few Indians working there, and I found them to be extremely respectful, soft-spoken, etc. They do exist!

That said, while I was dancing, I couldn't have agreed with these sentiments more. Strip clubs tend to bring out the gross/grabby/sexist parts of everyone, but minorities seemed to generally take that to a whole new level (there were exceptions).

Kellydancer
04-13-2013, 12:10 AM
Now I had generally positive experiences with black men who were professional. I didn't really have much experience with younger black men except they were cheap but that was the case with young white guys too (though white guys generally didn't like me because I wasn't blonde).

anouk.oui
04-15-2013, 12:38 AM
I'm (kinda) back!
Confession: Not sure how I feel about my life...
But yeah not great

OliveJardin
04-15-2013, 06:04 AM
I'm (kinda) back!

^Welcome back bi-atch :)! x

GlamourRouge
04-15-2013, 06:18 AM
I avoid Indian guys at my club because of this. :( I hate stereotyping, and I know that not all Indian guys are like that. But my experiences with Indian men in my club have been very similar.

I had the opposite experience. I know a lot about the culture, so those were always my best customers. Plus, there is a huge Indian population in the bay area that often work in high-paying techy fields. So it def depends on the area.

Holly_V
04-15-2013, 07:50 AM
My flat mate is a total neat freak so she throws away my shampoo bottles when there is still a bit left. It pisses me off no end. So the other day she threw away my shampoo which still had some left in it, I took it out of the bathroom bin, put it back on the shelf and she threw it away again when I wasn't around. When i confronted her she totally lied and said it wasn't her, I know for a fact it is. So I threw away what I thought was her bottle of olive oil in the kitchen, thinking I was being all sneaky all like 'heheheh' turns out that bottle of olive oil actually belonged to my other flatmate who is really nice. Now I feel really mean but I can't tell anyone that I did it. haha

Kellydancer
04-16-2013, 10:55 PM
Welcome back Anouk! How is you dress designing going?

I confess I have been having a lot of dreams about finding a job or marrying the man I want. I should mention I am looking for another job so this makes sense. Anyway the other night I had a dream that I got this one job and the company was in a building that was in some sort of maze. Very bizarre and I got lost finding my office. The wedding dreams have been specific. I dreamt last night I was planning our wedding where we would likely marry. It was so specific to the color of the building and yes I saw it was the man I love I was marrying. I saw his name on several forms and saw him in a tux. However the gist of the dream was my mom kept inviting people to our wedding and she was inviting people I didn't know. I can sort of see her doing this but definitely not without telling us. We ended up with 300 people at the wedding and had to move the location because the location only fits about 200 people. Don't know if this was so much a dream about weddings as thinking about my mom. Who knows.

charlotte_ai
04-17-2013, 10:32 AM
I had a sexy dream I was trying to talk my friend into a 3-some. When I woke up, I texted him and told him about it. He texted back to tell me I gave him a hard on.
I really don't feel bad about it.

Oh, and Anouk and I are eloping to get married in New Zealand as they just passed a Marital Equality bill today.

AmyLynne
04-17-2013, 10:33 AM
that's cool. I had enough with guys who go to jail. They were all cool when I was 19-20ish now seriously fuck no I aint doing it .
My boyfriends been in jail for three months and he doesnt know I started stripping! :D I like this lifestyle so much I think Im gonna break it off with him when he gets out this Wednesday... and he wants to marry me.

Guys are douche bags anyway

AmyLynne
04-17-2013, 10:37 AM
I confess that one time I broke a customers vertebrae after kicking him through the neck after he touched me and knocking him over on his ass.

I also one time put bubbles stuff in some shots for some guys tht really annoyed me. But Im all grown up now. So I don't do things like that anymore.

audreyalice
04-17-2013, 05:50 PM
confession
as soon as my current s.o. and i break off, i am planning on escorting/finding a sugar daddy. i'm sure he plans on marrying me at some point, but i have my doubts that he'll still be interested in staying with me by the time that is ready to happen. i'm just riding it out and trying to enjoy it until that happens.

confession
i love my my mother but HATE talking to her. she is an alcoholic and pisses me off so much that i honestly daydream about hitting her.

confession
i dont want to finish my bachelors because then i have to go get a real job. im a year away from receiving my bachelors from a prestigious private university but id rather keep stripping.

Holly_V
04-19-2013, 06:22 AM
confession
i love my my mother but HATE talking to her. she is an alcoholic and pisses me off so much that i honestly daydream about hitting her.

confession
i dont want to finish my bachelors because then i have to go get a real job. im a year away from receiving my bachelors from a prestigious private university but id rather keep stripping.

I can soooo relate to these two. I love my mum but she has really bad anxiety and depression and she lets it run her life. The way she talks is so negative and anxious, I have actually stopped asking 'how are you mum' cos she always goes on to list everything that is wrong in her life, it makes me want to scream in her face.

I'm finishing university in a couple of months with a law degree. I feel a lot of pressure to get a proper job but I don't want to commit to so much responsibility just yet. I'm gonna carry on stripping for a little while longer even if people think I'm a wackadoo for doing that.

charlie61
04-19-2013, 10:32 AM
^I don't see any problems with that, really. Just be aware of the unemployment gap - make sure you can explain to future employers why you were unemployed during that time. Say that you took a trip to Europe after graduating from law school, you needed the time off to evaluate priorities, or something similar. Just make sure you have a story that fits with however long the gap is! Obviously a few months are easy to explain, but when you start getting into a year plus, that becomes harder.

tuesdaymarie
04-19-2013, 10:47 PM
I WANT TO END THIS MOTHERFUCKER.

I have been writing a story for this guy. Here's a list of the shit he has done to piss me off:

First, he asked me to send him sample after sample of my writing, all with prompts from him. "Can you write about this opening to a movie? What about with more physical descriptions?" etc. Then, he wanted me to drive 45 miles to meet him so he could tell if I was "the one" to write his story. Okay, whatever. Then, he gave me the contract three weeks late, as well as the notes for the story. (Being a student, this put me right in the midterms/finals rush rather than the basically dead weeks between mid-February and Spring Break, as had been planned.) THEN, he asks to move the 60-day deadline down to ~45 days. Okay, again, not ideal, but it was because of the illustrator's needs, so I can be accommodating. Then he emails referring to the deadline as the 40th day. O-fucking-kay. THEN, he emails saying he wants it six days from then. I snapped and said no and explained how my 60-day deadline had been halved without any further financial compensation, and that's stressful and stupid. He acts all shocked that I said no and says fine, the 40th day. Then he calls me a day later (ignored it) and leaves a 5+ minute voicemail about what he's doing and how he didn't look at a calendar when he set the 40th day deadline, so getting it to him the Friday or Saturday before then would be super, thanks. I emailed him again saying no and that I have other deadlines to meet too. He acted like a fucking saint and said I could have till the 45th day again. Then, he emails again saying oh whoops, I have plans on the day we decided to meet to pay you the other half, so can we do it early the day before? Okay, I agree to that too. Then he says haha, whoops again, I crossed out shit on the contract we signed after we signed it, thereby voiding it, so I'm going to need you to sign a new one. I asked him to send a copy of it and he did, and I then showed it to my lawyer sister. She questioned a few parts, so I sent those thoughts to him, and he wrote back with this bullshit "this is so disappointing and this is going to cost me money" BULLSHIT guilting me about questioning a fucking legal contract. WHAT THE FUCK. So, I've emailed him back telling him his tone is disrespectful and unacceptable, and that I am not only being reasonable and acting within my rights, but I have also been completely accommodating towards him.

Oh, and the motherfucker kissed me on the cheek. So, there's another point for hating him.

You may be wondering how this is a confession. Here's how: I confess I am going to give his brunch-with-mommy-having, never-been-married-because-he-can't-commit, overweight, unkempt, 45-year-old ass the biggest fucking wake up call if he pulls anymore of this shit. I have already been firm. Next stop is destroy-your-psyche level hell-bitch. Give me my other half of payment and gtfo.

Deaddolly
04-19-2013, 11:42 PM
I WANT TO END THIS MOTHERFUCKER.

I have been writing a story for this guy. Here's a list of the shit he has done to piss me off:

First, he asked me to send him sample after sample of my writing, all with prompts from him. "Can you write about this opening to a movie? What about with more physical descriptions?" etc. Then, he wanted me to drive 45 miles to meet him so he could tell if I was "the one" to write his story. Okay, whatever. Then, he gave me the contract three weeks late, as well as the notes for the story. (Being a student, this put me right in the midterms/finals rush rather than the basically dead weeks between mid-February and Spring Break, as had been planned.) THEN, he asks to move the 60-day deadline down to ~45 days. Okay, again, not ideal, but it was because of the illustrator's needs, so I can be accommodating. Then he emails referring to the deadline as the 40th day. O-fucking-kay. THEN, he emails saying he wants it six days from then. I snapped and said no and explained how my 60-day deadline had been halved without any further financial compensation, and that's stressful and stupid. He acts all shocked that I said no and says fine, the 40th day. Then he calls me a day later (ignored it) and leaves a 5+ minute voicemail about what he's doing and how he didn't look at a calendar when he set the 40th day deadline, so getting it to him the Friday or Saturday before then would be super, thanks. I emailed him again saying no and that I have other deadlines to meet too. He acted like a fucking saint and said I could have till the 45th day again. Then, he emails again saying oh whoops, I have plans on the day we decided to meet to pay you the other half, so can we do it early the day before? Okay, I agree to that too. Then he says haha, whoops again, I crossed out shit on the contract we signed after we signed it, thereby voiding it, so I'm going to need you to sign a new one. I asked him to send a copy of it and he did, and I then showed it to my lawyer sister. She questioned a few parts, so I sent those thoughts to him, and he wrote back with this bullshit "this is so disappointing and this is going to cost me money" BULLSHIT guilting me about questioning a fucking legal contract. WHAT THE FUCK. So, I've emailed him back telling him his tone is disrespectful and unacceptable, and that I am not only being reasonable and acting within my rights, but I have also been completely accommodating towards him.

Oh, and the motherfucker kissed me on the cheek. So, there's another point for hating him.

You may be wondering how this is a confession. Here's how: I confess I am going to give his brunch-with-mommy-having, never-been-married-because-he-can't-commit, overweight, unkempt, 45-year-old ass the biggest fucking wake up call if he pulls anymore of this shit. I have already been firm. Next stop is destroy-your-psyche level hell-bitch. Give me my other half of payment and gtfo.

What an idiot you're right for telling him off and looking out for yourself legally. I hope he gets what he deserves.

charlie61
04-20-2013, 10:52 AM
I can soooo relate to these two. I love my mum but she has really bad anxiety and depression and she lets it run her life. The way she talks is so negative and anxious, I have actually stopped asking 'how are you mum' cos she always goes on to list everything that is wrong in her life, it makes me want to scream in her face.

I'm finishing university in a couple of months with a law degree. I feel a lot of pressure to get a proper job but I don't want to commit to so much responsibility just yet. I'm gonna carry on stripping for a little while longer even if people think I'm a wackadoo for doing that.

Also, if you're planning on continuing to strip for a while, I'd go ahead and get a part-time straight job and/or volunteer so you have something to put on your resume.

Holly_V
04-21-2013, 07:50 AM
Also, if you're planning on continuing to strip for a while, I'd go ahead and get a part-time straight job and/or volunteer so you have something to put on your resume.

Good advice, luckily I've got a nice little part time job. Sometimes I think I might be happier just dancing rather than pursuing a career, so much pressure and work in embarking on an actual career.

LaurenAus
04-21-2013, 08:08 AM
Here's how: I confess I am going to give his brunch-with-mommy-having, never-been-married-because-he-can't-commit, overweight, unkempt, 45-year-old ass the biggest fucking wake up call if he pulls anymore of this shit

o c mon you can do way better than this girl

Deaddolly
04-22-2013, 07:19 PM
I confess I'm going on a "date" just for free concert tickets that I could easily pay for myself. I'm cheap.lol

ava$
04-22-2013, 10:36 PM
I confess, I have been having random sex here and there with this guy who is so not my type as far as a relationship goes but I cannot help it sometimes I just need sex, hes hot too btw.

smeca
04-23-2013, 01:29 PM
Wanted to share since a lot of dancers/women in general have libido problems due to the job/stress/partner situations... i have got mine back almost overnight by reading tons of erotica (porny fanfic to be precise haha). go for the stuff with kinks you like, as filthy as you like, accept what you're into and read loads of it and indulge in thinking about it! Might distract you from everyday jobs but, damn, i'm just ready all the time now! :)

kortneykay
04-26-2013, 09:48 AM
I confess that my spice addicted husband got fucked up the ass by the law, and the military. He called the cops lying on me to say that I hit him 5 days ago and that I was "going to jail". I've defended myself twice before and because he's a soldier, he's always had the upper hand. I am on a pretrial probation period in which I can't get in trouble or I will have charges and a criminal record. If I complete the program, I'm good to go with a clean slate (like before I met the fool). Anyway, this fool called the cops and ended up being arrested for paraphernalia. He's been a spice addict for over a year and I've warned him time and time again to quit because he WILL get found out, and kicked out. Last night his shit caught up to him. Now, I confess that instead of 4 months to save, I may only have 30 days lol.