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Jessie_tinydancer
03-24-2010, 04:43 PM
Threadjack I know but one of the girls I work with is vietnamese but she was adopted as a baby by two Caucasian australian parents. One night this guy was talking to us really slow. I said "are u drunk? Why are you talking funny?" He leans over to me and says "not all of us understand English" and points to my friend. I stand up and say "you're an idiot. Can't you hear her perfect english and Australian accent? She's aussie you tool!" and wave hi
away. Us two girls continue to sip our champange and laugh at him.

camille27
03-26-2010, 12:40 AM
aww skylar *hugs* i'm sick of comments about my ethnicity as well. but i jst lie and tell them whatever they want to hear. "you're right. i should g into medical billing! why didn't i think of that?"


right now, i'm dreading going back to work because...i don't know. i think i'm worried that this club won't be worth the traveling expenses, or that i didn't research sufficiently, or that i'm just generally tired and haven't rested properly since my last trip. i dunno what it is, but i am absolutely dreading getting on the plane next week.

shasta
03-26-2010, 04:55 AM
I agree wholeheartedly.


I get tired of the whole lecture from these idiot White Knights. I should go to college. I should quit this place. Why don't I go be a medical assistant? You know what is hilarious, there are girls there who are doing those things. How do they know that I am not? Why do they assume that is my only job? Although, I don't attend school. But, I have other goals in mind. I also have other odd jobs I do for an income. I don't think it is any of their damn business. Men are supposed to go there and have fun. They aren't supposed to be there to be our goddamn guidance councelors.




Hell Fuckin' Yeah!

carmen_b
03-26-2010, 07:28 PM
I dread next day " stripper slog " . I had an awesome shift last night. But .... it took so much out of me that I was just drained today. Drained. Done. My club is 2.5 hours from me and I had to drive back to have a relaxing day at home in order to be able to work tomorrow. I almost forced myself to go in, but figured I'd be better off taking a break. I prefer to get my stripper money made in two days ( with just one trip ) ....... but I seriously layed around my hotel ....... then took naps roadside ..... then laid around at home. I was a slug today.
So really ..... that money I made last night essentially took two days for me to make ( last night + me being worthless today ). I'm not complaining. I needed the money and am grateful for that shift. I'm just worn out.

charlie61
03-26-2010, 07:32 PM
^Work does the same to me. Emotionally, physically, spiritually exhausting.

Simone NinaNin
03-26-2010, 07:40 PM
I'm reading
your
posts and I realize that work doesn't challange me enough anymore. It's too easy. I envy you guys in a way... it brings me back to my hard core, good old days.

Athenathefabulous
03-26-2010, 07:42 PM
tonight i dread working because it is friday. i know all of the customers are going to be super obnoxious and make me want to shoot up the club.

but alas, im going to drag my sexy ass in anyway.

charlie61
03-26-2010, 07:51 PM
I'm reading
your
posts and I realize that work doesn't challange me enough anymore. It's too easy. I envy you guys in a way... it brings me back to my hard core, good old days.

It doesn't challenge me; it drains me. Making money isn't a problem for me; staying sane is.

carmen_b
03-26-2010, 08:22 PM
^ I'm having a little bit of a hard time with work / life balance too.

Simone NinaNin
03-26-2010, 08:33 PM
I don't mean that the money is too easy. I mean that I miss the mind fuck challenge. It might sound wierd, but reading the posts on this thread made me miss my hard core days. I still work hard to make money, but it's the same grind day in, day out. I miss the booths and the fantasies. I miss acting all day long. I miss being drained.

charlie61
03-26-2010, 09:01 PM
^ That's an odd thing to say... Why would you miss being drained?

Simone NinaNin
03-26-2010, 09:45 PM
I miss doing my old job. I don't know- I didn't realize how much I missed it until I started on another thread today about peep shows. When I look back now I realize that I sort of felt alive from pushing myself. Now, I enjoy my job but there is no challenge. I miss it. I miss being drained and then feeling the slow crawl back into recovery. I am starting to think I need to push myself somehow in order to feel alive. It's wierd- I told you it was wierd. I'm in a sort of rut in my life right now.

carmen_b
03-26-2010, 10:01 PM
^ I'm not sure I totally understand ......
You miss being a peep show girl ? But currently work as a dancer ? As I mentioned ..... drained ! Sorry if her situation is clear to everyone but me.

Oh Simone ....... I think I may get it . Like ...... you miss the rushes ( such as the rush of excitement starting a new club in a new city or something like that ) ?

Simone NinaNin
03-26-2010, 10:14 PM
Yes. And I think what I really miss is my uncomplicated youth. When I was free and didn't have a crazy ex husband who's trying to take my kids away. A time when my biggest problem was being drained. ( that's a real problem- but at least I had power to deal with it). Right now in my life I feel powerless. I'm in a perpetual custody battle with an abusive narcisist. I miss the days when it was just me. The thread about the peep shows brought me back to my 20's. Sorry if I got off track.

carmen_b
03-27-2010, 10:39 AM
This isn't so much dread .......... but ....... it's kind of hard for me to just ENJOY a night out ( particularly a weekend ) . I always have this " should I drive up and work " debate ...... even as I'm HEADED out the door to meet friends. I guess that's just the downside of having a night job where you can just walk in and work. I'll stay playing this back and forth game until later in the evening when stage fee's get expensive ( at that point ....... I won't want to pay the high fees and will finally settle into whatever I'm doing ) .

Sia
03-27-2010, 11:18 AM
This isn't so much dread .......... but ....... it's kind of hard for me to just ENJOY a night out ( particularly a weekend ) . I always have this " should I drive up and work " debate ...... even as I'm HEADED out the door to meet friends.

I do this every weekend too! All day it's a debate in my head.....is going out with friends or staying home and relaxing worth $500? I've been doing it since I woke up this morning, lol.

carmen_b
03-27-2010, 11:21 AM
^ I know ! I'm also OUT of excuses ( I hide dancing from all but a few people ) and people are realizing I'm out of town a little more than usual. It's almost like I have to show up and make an appearance at home.

camille27
03-27-2010, 11:27 AM
that "should-i-go-to-work-tonight" bullshit was the reason i switched to dayshift in the first place. i would make myself sick over whether or not work would be "worth it". going in during the day kind of helped rid me of the anxiety because the club would be less crowded, house would be a little cheaper, and i would have the freedom to stay late if i wanted to.


right now, i'm having some nonsensical dread about getting on the plane next week to start working in a new city. i'm trying to make a list of pros and cons but i can't really think of any valid points for why i'm having so much anxiety.

carmen_b
03-27-2010, 11:31 AM
^ Sounds like a good option. My club doesn't offer days ( I would probably work days if I could ) . I like the slow times in the club and found at that busy doesn't always equal $$$. Some of my best shifts have been at ultra slow times. I may start working regularly on weird nights ( like Mon./Tues. ) so that it doesn't interfere with my personal life as much. I know I'd be playing roulette by not doing weekends ....... but I might experiment with that for a couple weeks.

Where are you going Camille ? I'm sure your dancer trip will rock ! Maybe your dread is just related to air travel in general ? I used to fly almost every weekend and I seriously hate it now. Airports/planes and so dirty and such a pain the ass. You'll get there though and after the airport yuckiness, it will be all good. ;)

carmen_b
03-27-2010, 12:14 PM
Also ....... ( sorry to yammer so much in this thread ) .... I dread LYING. I want to tell my friends that I'm kicking ass as a stripper and I have this amazing set of skills ( sales stuff .... they know I pole dance for excercise ) . I want to tell them about my fun stories from work and the interesting and strange co-workers and customers I have.

camille27
03-27-2010, 01:59 PM
lying might be what's fucking with my head right now. i think that to my family, i appear to be a complete fuck up because i never seem to have a real job. and when i tell them that i've been hanging out on the beach for the past two months, they look at me like i'm a huge failure, when i've really been busting my ass working for the past two months. but i can't tell them that. so i think lying may have something to do with why i'm dreading packing and all that shit.

MarvelGirl
03-27-2010, 02:12 PM
When I look back now I realize that I sort of felt alive from pushing myself. Now, I enjoy my job but there is no challenge. I miss it. I miss being drained and then feeling the slow crawl back into recovery. I am starting to think I need to push myself somehow in order to feel alive. It's wierd- I told you it was wierd. I'm in a sort of rut in my life right now.

I feel like that and it's why I keep coming back. I'll quit for months and be doing find and then I start to miss it. I feel like what I'm doing isn't challenging enough and I end up going back. Of course, then after a few months I get completely fed up and the cycle starts over again but I think I know the feeling you are describing.

carmen_b
03-27-2010, 02:15 PM
Camille :
You need to come up with a story to justify your travel + income ..........
Luckily .... I have always traveled heavily for my day job.
My stories hold up because I'm just sort of like " oh wow ... we are super busy in 2010 " ..... when really we aren't .......... I'm just wandering around stripping half the time.

Why don't you say your are bartending and the tips are good or something ? I think it raises so much more suspicion if your money appears to be coming out of nowhere you know ?

MarvelGirl
03-27-2010, 02:17 PM
lying might be what's fucking with my head right now. i think that to my family, i appear to be a complete fuck up because i never seem to have a real job. and when i tell them that i've been hanging out on the beach for the past two months, they look at me like i'm a huge failure, when i've really been busting my ass working for the past two months. but i can't tell them that. so i think lying may have something to do with why i'm dreading packing and all that shit.


See, I LOVE lying. I don't lie about important things although if i started I could probably make a lot of money ha ha.. but I see it as acting. I find it exciting to meet someone and tell them a complete bullshit story right to their face and know that they believe it.

I'm also really, exceptionally good at it. My sister and some of her friends saw me in action once and were in awe. She kept asking me, "how did you do that? It's like you were a completely different person!"

If cameras didn't hate me so much, I'd probably be an actress, lol. Stripping lets me indulge without hurting anybody so maybe that's why I keep coming back to it.

Although, I don't have to lie to my mom. I lie to my dad about my job but it would bother me if I had to lie to my mom so I can understand how that would be draining.

carmen_b
03-27-2010, 02:21 PM
Oh man ......... I don't see how you can possibly like it ! It's the #1 thing that causes me stress!

And also ..... sometimes in just KILLS me to NOT be able to tell . Such as ..... I'm dating this guy who was being an asshole before I told him to get lost ( not taking me on real dates and stuff ). I just wanted to lean over and say ........ " By the way ....... I am a hot stripper on the side you fuck face . You need to learn to treat women right . I made $800 last night for flirting and teasing men who were happy to see me topless. You've seen me topless and can't even bring yourself to take me to dinner. You are a disgusting asshole. If you would have treated me better, I would have blown you 50 times by now. There is a reason I didn't sleep with you. Did I mention I can hang upside down from a stripper pole ? "

camille27
03-27-2010, 02:40 PM
lmao WELL. lying is not something that i enjoy at all, particularly to my family members who already think i'm a liar anyway.

carmen, i think i may enroll in bartending school anyway, and that might make that lie a bit easier to get away with. ugh. i hate lying to people who are significant in my life. sometimes i just want to be like, "MOM DOES THIS G-STRING MATCH THIS TOP OR NOT?" and i can't and i hate that.

carmen_b
03-27-2010, 02:42 PM
This is the trick I use currently to easy my mind. Basically ........ I AM going to tell them.... just 5-10 years from now when it doesn't matter anymore. It's delayed truth really.

Athenathefabulous
03-28-2010, 08:32 AM
Part of my problem, too, is (ironically) that I'm so good at this job. I'm consistently the top earner whenever I work (or sometimes 2nd from the top), so I feel this pressure like everyone is expecting me to constantly be the best. I know it sounds lame to complain about that, but all of my bouncers will comment about this, so it's not just in my head. Every time I work, I feel like I must be the absolute 'best' stripper.

This pressure pays off in cash, but it really burns me out.

oh man speaking of pressure: yesterday i sell a room, one of the 'middle of the road rooms' (aka $1100 for an hr with a bottle) and i failed to resell another hour after.

later i am riding down the elevator with the host: "so you couldnt have sold him another?"
me: "sorry dude, out of his budget"
host: "not even a little cheap one?"
me: "sorry, you know i usually sell them.. i guess i fucked up?"
host: "yea i know, thats why i was surprised."

yea its silliness. and hte worst part is i felt guilty after because i had the guy on the fence about a cheap half hour and i just needed to push a little bit harder but i did fuck up. it was the very end of the hour and i was trying to resell but at the same time i really needed to pee, so i dont think i gave it my best.

but on the other hand it makes me step up to my game and it means the hosts are there to help because they assume i will bring money customers. its a double edged sword really.

charlie61
03-28-2010, 01:21 PM
oh man speaking of pressure: yesterday i sell a room, one of the 'middle of the road rooms' (aka $1100 for an hr with a bottle) and i failed to resell another hour after.

later i am riding down the elevator with the host: "so you couldnt have sold him another?"
me: "sorry dude, out of his budget"
host: "not even a little cheap one?"
me: "sorry, you know i usually sell them.. i guess i fucked up?"
host: "yea i know, thats why i was surprised."

yea its silliness. and hte worst part is i felt guilty after because i had the guy on the fence about a cheap half hour and i just needed to push a little bit harder but i did fuck up. it was the very end of the hour and i was trying to resell but at the same time i really needed to pee, so i dont think i gave it my best.

but on the other hand it makes me step up to my game and it means the hosts are there to help because they assume i will bring money customers. its a double edged sword really.

Ugggh...that's obnoxious!! I probably would've told him to fuck off (in nicer words) at that point. Subtle pressure is one thing, but that would've killed me!

carmen_b
03-29-2010, 12:02 PM
Is there a way to ease the feeling that I SHOULD be working ? I feel like I should drive up and work , but I've already worked a ton. I can't just work all the time . I'm having a hard time just enjoying my time off .

jennsweet
03-29-2010, 12:49 PM
b/c you don't want to deal with all the BULLSHIT that comes along with this job! of course we all feel this way some days. I just think of the bills i wanna pay and happy im not working at a Wawa or 7-11:)

charlie61
03-29-2010, 01:07 PM
Is there a way to ease the feeling that I SHOULD be working ? I feel like I should drive up and work , but I've already worked a ton. I can't just work all the time . I'm having a hard time just enjoying my time off .

Maybe you could use a visual trick. Do you use a calendar/planner of any kind? Could you literally schedule free-time to make it look like an appointment? Write in the times you must work, and also write in the times you aren't allowed to work. It could help even more if you 'schedule' the activities you have planned for your off-time. And then, once you reach that 'appointment,' enjoy!

Also, try to mentally think of it as a way of restoring energy to yourself so that you can work more. The less you work, the more you can work because you haven't burned out (since you've been taking time off in between days). Look at it as a necessary aspect of this job. You must take time off to ensure longevity.

Simone NinaNin
03-29-2010, 03:33 PM
Is there a way to ease the feeling that I SHOULD be working ? I feel like I should drive up and work , but I've already worked a ton. I can't just work all the time . I'm having a hard time just enjoying my time off .


I torture myself with this all the time. In fact, I am doing it right now.

camille27
03-29-2010, 03:49 PM
carmen, i hate taking time off because i know that i won't want to go back to work. so i usually work until i'm completely burn out, and then take time off until i'm so bored that i'd rather dance than do crossword puzzles and watch law and order marathons.

and i hate traveling so that's no solution to job monotony because the stress of packing and travel logistics makes the dread all the worse. if summer wasn't rapidly approaching, i would switch to a reggie job, but since slow season is coming up, i'm just saving and dealing with club bullshit for now.

carmen_b
03-29-2010, 11:00 PM
Thanks for your suggestions. Yes .... I do currently do the calendar thing. I just can't seem to ever relax lately until it's literally 5:15 p.m. ( when I know I would have to pay a past 8p.m. house fee, I finally lose the feeling ) .
I nearly worked today, but I treated myself to a massage and did restore. Now I can go work . I almost feel bad saying this and maybe it's just related to being retired and poor for a year ....... but the times I seem to feel the best are when I am en route to the club or at the club and I don't want that ! Work can't become life you know ? I orignally started back up in order to have the time avail. to have a life ( since my stripper money trumped by day job money .... it's used to allow that ). I think I just opened a can of worms finding a club within driving distance.
Sorry for my rambling becoming off track. I guess to sum up ..... it's not the time at the club I even dread ( except the one bad shift ) . It's the other stuff that comes along with this !

Camille: You might be onto something. I have noticed that when I do hit that burn out point ...... I enjoy my life after that ! Maybe I do need to work until I'm just burnt. I had a really really good shift last time and I think that possibly leaving town on that high point and going home to no fun invites or anything just left me unsettled for a few days.

MysteriousMisty
04-01-2010, 07:35 AM
There are numerous reasons I dread working.

I dread working because I never know whether or not I'll make money and it sucks ass to work more than 8 hours for $100 or less. These days, a lot of girls can be heard saying that they actually hope to walk out with at least $100 by the end of the night and that's at most clubs.


I also dread working because its ALWAYS so fucking cold! Both on the floor and in the DR. Its much worse during the winter even though they turn the heat on in the DR from time to time. Why the hell clubs feel the need to leave the front door open is questionable. Its cold enough inside the clubs as it is (even customers complain about being cold) so why the hell do they enjoy keeping front doors open all the time?!?!?!?!

I dread working because there's almost always some dumb ass loser who thinks he has the right proposition you just because you dance!>:(

I also dread working because those of us who don't do extras shouldn't have to be paranoid about vice showing up and looking for any reason to give us shit!

I used to dread working at one particular club because they expected the girls to tip out at the end of the night along with tipping the host of VIP whether the customer tipped him or not. After paying the housefee and tipping the DJ, the housemom (only if you ate her food or used her products), one should never be forced to tip others (unless a bouncer helped her to make money).

Isis Star
04-01-2010, 05:39 PM
the huge ordeal it is. The shift at my club is 6:30-2AM no exceptions and I live an hour away, so I have to dedicate 4pm-3pm to work.... 11 hours!!! It's a long time to be having to thinking about work and engaged in work mode. I get in the shower at 4, but even before then I have to run to the store and get things for work like energy drinks, baby wipes, miscellaneous makeup stuff, not to mention my hour work out and tanning session before... so pretty much from the time I wake up at 11AM until I get home at 3AM I am dedicating myself to stripping. I have an hour and a half to get ready, and then I get in the car at 5:30 and have to drive through rush hour traffic to get there at 6:30, then after all that rush, the club is soooooooo slow until around 10, so I have to waste 3 1/2 hours. I dont get why they don't start the shifts later-it really sucks and because of this I'm only going to be able to work 2, 3 days at most because it sucks my whole day away from me.

and... having danced since I turned 18, over three years straight of dancing gets really tiring and I'm over the lame conversation and the fakeness of it all, but there is no other option right now. sucks I'm so good at it.

PinkMinx
04-01-2010, 07:48 PM
I went through phases but there was one thing I dreaded no matter what. I hated the first dance of the day. After taking a shower, washing my hair, putting on fresh clothes and makeup, I hated sitting on some guy's lap. (I worked in a high contact club and some of the customers were less than well groomed-to put it nicely). I just felt dirty and I was messing up all the effort put into looking and feeling my best.

I can identify with not wanting to dance while in school. While I was attending my first two years of college, I rarely went into the club. I was so immersed that I didn't want to think about anything else. In addition, I changed clubs because the shifts and distance were more convenient for school-but didn't I feel comfortable at the new club.

So, I barely worked. I used up my savings and sold my investments and finally I had to return to stripping. (I went back to the old club with a newer attitude and more appreciation). I finally received my four year degree too.

Corey
04-02-2010, 10:58 AM
The fact that on the days that I work, I feel like that entire day is dedicated to getting ready for my shift.

Feeling drained (usually, not always) the next day.

The bathrooms at one club are the grossest I've ever seen in a club, but everything else is cool. The small dressing room and lack of $$ at the stage club I work in.

At the cool club, I can't get too creative w/ my music. If it's not rap, Latin, Lady GaGa, they won't pay attention. Some girls get away w/ hardcore speed metal, but anything else, the custies don't even look at you. That's why I work in a stage club every once in a while: I can get creative.

Oh and the hustle club I work in, is usually cold to start with, but I have little half sweaters/hoodies I wear w/ my outfits. (It's a bikini bar, so I can get away w/ more clothes).

And, I know I shouldn't complain, but I've had a loyal regular for almost 3 years. We don't have champaigne rooms at my club, just dances. We keep all our dance $$ and handle the $$ ourselves. So, this guy comes in religiously and buys anywhere from 25 to 40 dances from me every time I work. However, if I even chat w/ another guy for more than 5 mins. or get a dance....I never hear the end of his sarcasm and stupid comments. However, I never have to see this guy OTC or talk on the phone. We just text a bit. So, I deal with it. It's all perspective. If it 's slow, I'm really happy he's around. But he is draining sometimes. And he's really old so he's harmless. But I've known him so long, it gets boring talking to him.

charlie61
04-03-2010, 01:09 PM
And, I know I shouldn't complain, but I've had a loyal regular for almost 3 years. We don't have champaigne rooms at my club, just dances. We keep all our dance $$ and handle the $$ ourselves. So, this guy comes in religiously and buys anywhere from 25 to 40 dances from me every time I work. However, if I even chat w/ another guy for more than 5 mins. or get a dance....I never hear the end of his sarcasm and stupid comments. However, I never have to see this guy OTC or talk on the phone. We just text a bit. So, I deal with it. It's all perspective. If it 's slow, I'm really happy he's around. But he is draining sometimes. And he's really old so he's harmless. But I've known him so long, it gets boring talking to him.

Uugh. I totally understand this...I have a similar customer. And yes, it is very draining. Probably b/c mine is always trying to get to see me OTC. But same as you--old, harmless guy. Blah. It's worth it for the money, but quite draining.

catseyes
04-03-2010, 01:12 PM
i hate stinky customers with bad breath!

anouk.oui
04-09-2010, 01:57 AM
i dread not knowing whether ill walk out with $10, $100 or $1000 and how will i be treated to get it. sexist pricks..
i would honestly it enjoy a lot more if i knew i had nice regulars come in every night ready to hand over their paychecks so i dont have to talk to randoms

charlie61
03-09-2011, 06:00 PM
^ I'm sorry you're going through it. Burnout is a bitch.

I remember how much I would dread going into work. The energy required to do this job is insane. Makes regular work feel like play!

GreenLady
03-09-2011, 06:55 PM
I'm a student and my savings are razor thin. I dread going into work, having a bad night, and owing the house...it doesn't help that fees in my area are super high.

Also, I'm a pretty shy person and right now I can only work weekends, when it's super busy but a lot of guys aren't spending so I dread going table to table without any success :(

DesuvsDeath
03-09-2011, 07:16 PM
I always dreaded dealing with coworkers.
Most of the girls here on SW are great... but irl strippers... I can't fucking stand them.
All I hear all night long is QQing about not making enough money while sitting on their asses, omg, I'm going to get a boob job and then I'll magically make money even though I have no hustle, I want to buy a new car even though I can't pay my bills on time, I can't believe how much money I spent on weed/blow/liquor this weekend, Omg it's the 31st and I don't have a dollar of my $1100 rent, I'm going to get sooo high this weekend, my kids blah blah blah. Shut up. You fucking dumb whores. I don't want to hear about how you're going to stop at your drug dealer's house tonight and get high before you go home to your kids. I don't want to hear about your DUI classes while you're drinking. Stop talking to me. Stop sitting by me. Go fucking drown yourself. LOL


I also dread working because I work in LA and I am not a whore. 'nough said.

charlie61
03-09-2011, 08:02 PM
When I first started working, I felt like I'd hit the jackpot.

2 years later, making more money, I literally felt like I was being paid to endure emotional / physical abuse. Recession? Burn-out? Combination of everything? Whatever it was, I HATED, hated, hated work. Two days before work I would start thinking about calling in sick, and that's all I would talk about.

NREXM
03-09-2011, 08:51 PM
I only work about three-four days a week. I've consistently done that from the day I started dancing (three years ago) so I definitely understand the idea of dreading work. For me, I dread talking to customers. I'm a fairly asocial person so being around people brings me down. I'd rather be at a job where I can be completely alone and not have to socially interact with people.

Sometimes I fear going in and not making any money but I've yet to make under $100 (profit) on any given day.

I guess what motivates me to go to work is that I travel and I either have the option of staying in a boring hotel room for the rest of the night or going to the club and making a few hundred (or few thousand). When you have nothing to distract you, you tend to focus on work even if you dread it. I just get into the habit of going on certain days (weds-sat) and since it's routine, it feels strange to break it even if I really don't want to go to work.

I guess drinking helps. I'll have a few shots and instantly I'll be in a positive mood.

The Contessa
03-10-2011, 11:55 AM
In Short:
The Men
The Girls
The Pole
The Stage
The Couches
The Bar
The Shitty Music

seashell
03-10-2011, 12:27 PM
The assholes & how long it takes me to get ready. I shower, shave everything, put in extensions, tan, make sure my nails look good, straighten my hair, do makeup, and it feels like it takes an ungodly amount of time.

But mostly the assholes. Arrrgh! What really drives me crazy are the men who are talkative and fun and you think they're going to buy a dance, but then they give you some stupid excuse. They're even worse than the guys who are flat out jerks from the beginning because they get your hopes up and make you think you're making a sale, when they're just wasting your time.

And the touchy feely guys who pretty much rape you as you're dancing for them. Disgusting. Makes me want to smack them upside the head with a big black dildo.

charlie61
03-10-2011, 06:10 PM
The assholes & how long it takes me to get ready. I shower, shave everything, put in extensions, tan, make sure my nails look good, straighten my hair, do makeup, and it feels like it takes an ungodly amount of time.

But mostly the assholes. Arrrgh! What really drives me crazy are the men who are talkative and fun and you think they're going to buy a dance, but then they give you some stupid excuse. They're even worse than the guys who are flat out jerks from the beginning because they get your hopes up and make you think you're making a sale, when they're just wasting your time.


Ugh, that is TRULY the worst. Just when you're thinking, "Wow, instant camaraderie with a customer? I am banking tonight!"...that's when he says "Well, I guess I'd better get on outta here..." >:(