View Full Version : GONE Panhandeling!
Harleigh HellKat
03-21-2010, 06:05 PM
Be careful!! It's hard enough for me to walk down the street and not get solicited. This just sounds like a really bad situation... I hope you can find a safer alternative.
I second the craigslist idea... also cleaning houses can be lucrative.
babybambi08
03-21-2010, 06:35 PM
Selling cookies seems like such a huge waste of time when you are willing to do a lot more profitable things like caming and escorting. I don't know how long you think it will take you to sell 80 cookies but when you are done its going to make minimum wage look good.
Please Learn how to read thread before putting you in put!
I ALREADY escort, Im advertised almost every except eros, because they want my id and 100$.
I clean houses...
some people are good at caming, I am not.. I dont have any toys and I really dont like it.. Ive cammed for about 30 hours.. I have made $62.98..
I already have a few offices to visit..
Im estimating that Ill sell all this in two or three hours!
If I wanted to go to a place where people where as$holes or be negative and put me down Im sure I could find a place.
Im almost positive this is suppose to be a support group, where people help others.. please dont "waste" your time replying because Ive already ignored your post ;)
for the other stuff.. Ive already been to my church and all they can do is help with food and I have enough and I dont want to take from other people who really need it..
Im going to a group my mom goes to every sunday and Im going to sell some there! ;D
camille27
03-21-2010, 07:23 PM
your original post suggests that you expect to make $20-25/hr panhandling and/or washing car windows.
this isn't a great idea, since you're a female, and approaching cars alone while begging makes you a great target for violent men and for police officers (who would be doing you a favor by arresting you, since you're putting yourself in danger) no matter what time of day you begin.
now you are making cookies to sell in office buildings under some pretense of going to a charity? i don't understand.
i doubt anyone here wants you to fail, but the things you're saying aren't making any sense.
maybe instead of selling cookies in office buildings, you could print out multiple copies of your resume and take them to those offices instead.
there are a lot of us who have been in bad financial positions before. no one is trying to discourage you.
YEE-HAW!!
Thats RIGHT!
Im too embarrassed to do it in my home town, so Im going to drive a little and Im going to make a sign that says something like
"WORKING single mom just trying to make ends meet!"
I am thinking about bringing a bucket and wash windshields.
I know some of yall might think its a little crazy.. but Im going to do it in the day time and Im going to be as safe as possible.. Im planning on being out there for a few hours, 4-5? Im hoping to make at least $100 dollars..
I have kids to feed and I am going to do whatever it takes to make it..
Got any tips? Im thinking right before lunch time would be best to start..
Girls got to do what a girls got to do..
rubyredlipsss
03-21-2010, 07:39 PM
please please babibambi don't take what people are saying as attacking you. from the way you're writing and the risks you're willing to take make some money sounds like you're going through a manic episode and the way you're being defensive sounds like you're mixed manic (i believe you had mentioned before, i am as well) i'm not a doctor but it doesn't seem like you're mentally stable right now...i don't want to get flamed for saying all of this but if you're bipolar 1 with mixed mania then you have to be on meds. i know you can't currently afford them but we're trying to help and prevent you from putting yourself in dangerous situations. i do understand what it's like when you're in a manic episode and you may not be thinking clearly. the fact that you're struggling to make ends meet can and does escalate mania. i'm not trying to be critical of you, it's just my opinion and observation. maybe i'm incorrect.
i don't understand why if you're comfortable escorting, why you can't strip for a little bit. even if you make 50 dollars (it's higher than minimum wage, and you can earn more than panhandling and at least it'd be in a safe environment
babybambi08
03-21-2010, 09:32 PM
your original post suggests that you expect to make $20-25/hr panhandling and/or washing car windows.
this isn't a great idea, since you're a female, and approaching cars alone while begging makes you a great target for violent men and for police officers (who would be doing you a favor by arresting you, since you're putting yourself in danger) no matter what time of day you begin.
now you are making cookies to sell in office buildings under some pretense of going to a charity? i don't understand.
i doubt anyone here wants you to fail, but the things you're saying aren't making any sense.
maybe instead of selling cookies in office buildings, you could print out multiple copies of your resume and take them to those offices instead.
there are a lot of us who have been in bad financial positions before. no one is trying to discourage you.
begging/panhandling is NOT illegal so no I would not be arrest, and I never said I would try to sell my cookies for charity or lie and say I did..
I went to my moms meeting, and almost every one bought my cookies, I got 40 bucks in 15 mins..and I said it was for me..not for any charity
babybambi08
03-21-2010, 09:50 PM
please please babibambi don't take what people are saying as attacking you. from the way you're writing and the risks you're willing to take make some money sounds like you're going through a manic episode and the way you're being defensive sounds like you're mixed manic (i believe you had mentioned before, i am as well) i'm not a doctor but it doesn't seem like you're mentally stable right now...i don't want to get flamed for saying all of this but if you're bipolar 1 with mixed mania then you have to be on meds. i know you can't currently afford them but we're trying to help and prevent you from putting yourself in dangerous situations. i do understand what it's like when you're in a manic episode and you may not be thinking clearly. the fact that you're struggling to make ends meet can and does escalate mania. i'm not trying to be critical of you, it's just my opinion and observation. maybe i'm incorrect.
i don't understand why if you're comfortable escorting, why you can't strip for a little bit. even if you make 50 dollars (it's higher than minimum wage, and you can earn more than panhandling and at least it'd be in a safe environment
escorting is kinda a underground thing.. but anyone that walks into a club can see that you strip.. I actually went to go back to dancing, but when I got back there they asked to see my updated license and I cant get a license right now because I have an unpaid ticket..
I am not manic, I was a little depressed when I originally posted this... but Im kinda looking up.. I just dont like it when people say negative things... when someone is down on their luck I think its probably the shitty thing anyone could do..but I guess people get off on that or whatever..
babybambi08
03-21-2010, 10:09 PM
I know Ive been bitching alot about the people that have been negative but I do want to thank everyone that has been supportive..
Ive dont a bunch of searches on how to make cash and Im going to try a few of them.. I like to work.. almost every day.. its reassuring that I have money in the bank
Xiomara
03-22-2010, 06:23 AM
Girl just keep your head up. Good things will happen, I promise. :)
Also, a lot of negative comments, just ignore. Nobody knows what you go thru, and the written word is hard to have compassion for. You'll be ok ma...just stay focused and do what you gotta do..
CKXXX
03-22-2010, 08:41 AM
Just FYI...just because you see cops and organizations collecting donations doesnt necessarily mean panhandling is legal. They are in 2 different categories.
Same with the cookies...if you dont have a license and a health dpt inspection...you can get in trouble for that.
Def try and find things that WONT get you in trouble.
Mr Hyde
03-22-2010, 10:11 AM
Bambi you said you were willing to do anything for money right now right? So you're going to walk around begging people, which just pisses everyone off. I have no problem giving money to kids trying to go to a softball tournament or some shit, but I do have a problem with random individuals in tough situations coming directly to my car as I'm having a nice day instead of going through the proper channels which I pay taxes and give to charity for.
I think you just need to be more serious about having sex for money. You got pregnant at 17 and chose to raise your child so now you have to do whatever you have to do. I really would not give you money and can't imagine that other people would to the point that you would even make $100. You need to get rid of the boyfriend and start fucking all over town pronto. Use CL and learn how to screen! Too many cops is just an excuse, if you know what you're doing you won't get trapped and you can earn just enough to get some better ads. You need to really pour yourself into fucking for money at this point it seems.
That and maybe charity/government assistance.
Hear hear...this is what I wanted to say but didn't want to sound like a pig.
And I second the dumping the BF thing. If he's not putting a roof over your head get rid of him.
I've seen your pics, you're very attractive. If you worked for yourself and hustled, you could make serious money on backpage and CL.
Athenathefabulous
03-22-2010, 10:16 AM
Also, why dont you go back to stripping? You could have gotten hired at a club and made some mullah by now... way more than you would panhandling..
rubyredlipsss
03-22-2010, 10:25 AM
^i suggested that to her as well and she said she doesn't have her license or the money to get one. i don't know how strict it is as far as walking into a club w/o a license where she is but i worked a club that requires a license, they just told me to me how to get one and that i had to have one...never got it and never got in trouble...though i'm not sure this is the best advice. but if you only work a couple of shifts then you would have enough money to get one, me thinks. there must be some areas of texas where licenses aren't required, but i don't know texas...just california.
have you also looked on cl under adult work for secretarial work that involves sex...again, i don't know if this is a good idea but i always see ads in my area for this.
sxcbbw
03-22-2010, 10:27 AM
Why does your agency have to fly you somewhere for you to work?
^And Mr. Hyde, why does her boyfriend have to do what she doesn't?
MarvelGirl
03-22-2010, 10:30 AM
Bambi, go to blogger and open yourself a free blog to use as your escort website. It looks better than those trashy free sites. Post a few tasteful pictures and some information about yourself on your blog and a contact email address.
Then, go to www.theeroticreview.com and make a post advertising a special. Make it an extended appointment schedule of at least three hours or up to eight. I'm not going to tell you what to charge but if you are really hard up, an 8 hour overnight at $1500 WILL sell and quickly.
If you are not desperate for money, charge $1500 for a three hour appointment and make the three hour appointment your minimum. Don't offer the one hour appointments. You will attract a different type of client who actually wants to get to know you and spend time with you. These guys become great regulars.
I have no idea what you look like but if you are in great shape and attractive you could charge $1000 an hour. Stop thinking that you can't because you absolutely can. When I started out in this business I worked at the brothels and charged $1500 an hour. I was fat, dumpy and had no idea how to apply makeup or do my hair. I didn't know how to make money until one of the girls booked a blowjob only party for $7000 dollars. I pulled her aside later and asked her how she sold a $7000 blowjob and she looked me dead in the eyes and said something I'll never forget.
"You ASK for it."
The very next customer I had, I asked him for $1500 for the hour and he opened up his wallet and gave it to me. I was kicking myself for not asking for more.
YOU have ALL of the power Bambi, never forget that. You are young and gorgeous, you are a luxury experience and if men want to be with you then they need to pay LUXURY prices.
Do what you need to do to get your bills caught up and then charge what you are worth. I promise you that a $1500 overnight will sell within a few days on TER. Get that blog together first and include a link in your TER ad so that people can check you out.
Focus on selling your time rather than simple acts. You are selling an experience, your mere company is so enthralling that you simply must charge for it or you would be bogged down by requests from every man who ever saw you. Change your mindset, believe that you are worth it and it WILL happen.
Athenathefabulous
03-22-2010, 10:45 AM
^i suggested that to her as well and she said she doesn't have her license or the money to get one. i don't know how strict it is as far as walking into a club w/o a license where she is but i worked a club that requires a license, they just told me to me how to get one and that i had to have one...never got it and never got in trouble...though i'm not sure this is the best advice. but if you only work a couple of shifts then you would have enough money to get one, me thinks. there must be some areas of texas where licenses aren't required, but i don't know texas...just california.
have you also looked on cl under adult work for secretarial work that involves sex...again, i don't know if this is a good idea but i always see ads in my area for this.
I thought houston was a city where you could work without a liscense but you would have to wear booty shorts and pasties instead of just a g string. you can still make enough money in booty shorts to buy a liscence...
I'm sorry you think being realistic is the same as being negative. I hope your cookie sales go well.
jack0177057
03-22-2010, 12:31 PM
Question??
Have any of you been homeless??
I have twice!
Once when I was 16 (and pregnant) my mom decided to start using drugs again and left me! It took my bf three days to come get me, (long story)
Wow, babybambi... you've had a hard life... I thought I had it tough growing up in the inner city slums,... but your experiences are beyond anything I can imagine.
If you can make some money at panhandling... why not? Just be careful.
The bikini idea is interesting, but it could be dangerous - you could be arrested if the police thinks you are a street prostitute, you could be raped, or you could be "recruited" and assaulted by a pimp. Also, it might turn off some people who would otherwise contribute something (like older people or religious/traditional people).
If you want to wear a bikini - washing cars would be a better idea. Get your BF to help out... at least vacuuming the inside or collecting payments.
Have you looked at all the federal and local government assistance available? ... Welfare, food stamps, section 8 housing, etc.? Have you looked at faith-based assistance? You don't have to be of a particular faith to qualify for their programs and some have a lot of assistance programs.
sxcbbw
03-22-2010, 12:34 PM
Wow, babybambi... you've had a hard life... I thought I had it tough growing up in the inner city slums,... but your experiences are beyond anything I can imagine.
If you can make some money at panhandling... why not? Just be careful.
The bikini idea is interesting, but it could be dangerous - you could be arrested if the police thinks you are a street prostitute, you could be raped, or you could be "recruited" and assaulted by a pimp. Also, it might turn off some people who would otherwise contribute something (like older people or religious/traditional people).
If you want to wear a bikini - a car wash would be a better idea.
Have you looked at all the federal and local government assistance available? ... Welfare, food stamps, section 8 housing, etc.?
She escorts, those points are already in play.
jack0177057
03-22-2010, 03:00 PM
^^^ Escorting is not the same as being a "street walker". The authorities arrest street prostitutes, but escorts are usually left alone, unless the escort takes in-calls in a quiet residential neighborhood, and a neighbor - usually one with kids - figures out what is happening and feels that her kids are threatened by the creepy johns that visit all the time, etc.
Also, I assume that the escort customers go through some screening and there are protective measures that an escort takes.
KatRocks
03-22-2010, 04:08 PM
Good luck with whatever you do.
Mr Hyde
03-22-2010, 05:43 PM
Why does your agency have to fly you somewhere for you to work?
^And Mr. Hyde, why does her boyfriend have to do what she doesn't?
based on the other threads about him, he seems like deadweight
KS_Stevia
03-22-2010, 05:55 PM
No license required in Houston, Austin, or San Antonio. Not to mention many smaller cities, like in the Valley, etc. The only place I am aware of that has the $50 license requirement is Dallas, and there are counties outside of Dallas that do not require it.
Mr Hyde
03-22-2010, 05:56 PM
Bambi, go to blogger and open yourself a free blog to use as your escort website. It looks better than those trashy free sites. Post a few tasteful pictures and some information about yourself on your blog and a contact email address.
Then, go to www.theeroticreview.com (http://www.theeroticreview.com) and make a post advertising a special. Make it an extended appointment schedule of at least three hours or up to eight. I'm not going to tell you what to charge but if you are really hard up, an 8 hour overnight at $1500 WILL sell and quickly.
If you are not desperate for money, charge $1500 for a three hour appointment and make the three hour appointment your minimum. Don't offer the one hour appointments. You will attract a different type of client who actually wants to get to know you and spend time with you. These guys become great regulars.
I have no idea what you look like but if you are in great shape and attractive you could charge $1000 an hour. Stop thinking that you can't because you absolutely can. When I started out in this business I worked at the brothels and charged $1500 an hour. I was fat, dumpy and had no idea how to apply makeup or do my hair. I didn't know how to make money until one of the girls booked a blowjob only party for $7000 dollars. I pulled her aside later and asked her how she sold a $7000 blowjob and she looked me dead in the eyes and said something I'll never forget.
"You ASK for it."
The very next customer I had, I asked him for $1500 for the hour and he opened up his wallet and gave it to me. I was kicking myself for not asking for more.
YOU have ALL of the power Bambi, never forget that. You are young and gorgeous, you are a luxury experience and if men want to be with you then they need to pay LUXURY prices.
Do what you need to do to get your bills caught up and then charge what you are worth. I promise you that a $1500 overnight will sell within a few days on TER. Get that blog together first and include a link in your TER ad so that people can check you out.
Focus on selling your time rather than simple acts. You are selling an experience, your mere company is so enthralling that you simply must charge for it or you would be bogged down by requests from every man who ever saw you. Change your mindset, believe that you are worth it and it WILL happen.
Marvel Girl's advice is right on, and I'll add this...
I looked you up on TER and followed links to your pics. You are simply gorgeous. Men would pay very handsomely for your time. Why you're flying to DC to work thru an agency, I don't understand. If you were to do what Marvel Girl says, you'd make more in one day than you would in 6 months of bake sales. Panhandling? Are you serious? Take a look in the mirror. Women like you don't go begging on the streets.
Take those pics, find a free website hosting service, get a simple page up about yourself with pics, contact info, and rates. Post ads on Backpage and the TER boards, and watch the money roll in. Do this all in Houston. Don't fly to DC again to work.
kthnx
03-22-2010, 06:07 PM
I have never been homeless. I have 3 kids and bust my ass to take care of them.
no offense, but i read ur posts on the thread i started about "pregnant strippers on medicaid" and i do not know if u have room to talk...whether it be panhandlin on the street or goin to the city welfare office to get govt money, handouts are handouts.
pinupgurl2k6
03-22-2010, 06:14 PM
I agree one of the blogger sites is cool and tasteful if you need any help with the background or layout just yell.
Marvel Girl's advice is right on, and I'll add this...
I looked you up on TER and followed links to your pics. You are simply gorgeous. Men would pay very handsomely for your time. Why you're flying to DC to work thru an agency, I don't understand. If you were to do what Marvel Girl says, you'd make more in one day than you would in 6 months of bake sales. Panhandling? Are you serious? Take a look in the mirror. Women like you don't go begging on the streets.
Take those pics, find a free website hosting service, get a simple page up about yourself with pics, contact info, and rates. Post ads on Backpage and the TER boards, and watch the money roll in. Do this all in Houston. Don't fly to DC again to work.
Elusive21
03-23-2010, 09:36 AM
Ugh. So in one thread ( http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=139671 ) you are encouraging girls to do extras if they're in a dire financial situation, then you're starting threads on how to escort (which is totally cool, but be serious about it and just do it instead of . . . you know. . . starting a million threads about it) , and now you're here talking about panhandling?
I'm not sympathetic to this at all.
I'm sure others on this forum feel the same way.
SoStellar
03-23-2010, 09:55 AM
Panhandling before dancing? Hmmm. Don't get it. I'd somehow get my hands on the money for my dance license before washing windows for someone.
sxcbbw
03-23-2010, 09:58 AM
You're too embarrassed to let anyone know you dance/escort/whatever but you are okay with going to the next town to beg for money? I don't get it either.
Go fuck someone for money and make rent. I would kill to be able to work more than once every 6 months.
Elusive21
03-23-2010, 09:59 AM
Bambi, go to blogger and open yourself a free blog to use as your escort website. It looks better than those trashy free sites. Post a few tasteful pictures and some information about yourself on your blog and a contact email address.
Then, go to www.theeroticreview.com and make a post advertising a special. Make it an extended appointment schedule of at least three hours or up to eight. I'm not going to tell you what to charge but if you are really hard up, an 8 hour overnight at $1500 WILL sell and quickly.
If you are not desperate for money, charge $1500 for a three hour appointment and make the three hour appointment your minimum. Don't offer the one hour appointments. You will attract a different type of client who actually wants to get to know you and spend time with you. These guys become great regulars.
I have no idea what you look like but if you are in great shape and attractive you could charge $1000 an hour. Stop thinking that you can't because you absolutely can. When I started out in this business I worked at the brothels and charged $1500 an hour. I was fat, dumpy and had no idea how to apply makeup or do my hair. I didn't know how to make money until one of the girls booked a blowjob only party for $7000 dollars. I pulled her aside later and asked her how she sold a $7000 blowjob and she looked me dead in the eyes and said something I'll never forget.
"You ASK for it."
The very next customer I had, I asked him for $1500 for the hour and he opened up his wallet and gave it to me. I was kicking myself for not asking for more.
YOU have ALL of the power Bambi, never forget that. You are young and gorgeous, you are a luxury experience and if men want to be with you then they need to pay LUXURY prices.
Do what you need to do to get your bills caught up and then charge what you are worth. I promise you that a $1500 overnight will sell within a few days on TER. Get that blog together first and include a link in your TER ad so that people can check you out.
Focus on selling your time rather than simple acts. You are selling an experience, your mere company is so enthralling that you simply must charge for it or you would be bogged down by requests from every man who ever saw you. Change your mindset, believe that you are worth it and it WILL happen.
not THAT'S good advice - for anybody! I love how this can apply not only for escorting but also charging more for bachelor parties, VIPs, spending time w/ custies. Thank you.
I don't get how she has so much time to start threads and respond to posts if she is in such a desperate financial situation. I mean, maybe she should shut off her internet service and sell her laptop for some quick cash, or get off StripperWeb and get to work. Just sayin......
The moral of the story is, when she wants to get on her feet bad enough, she will. In the meantime, she is just feeling sorry for herself and playing the victim, which gets absolutely no sympathy from me.
Zinaida
03-23-2010, 10:35 AM
^^^Mmmhmm I was thinking that too.
KS_Stevia
03-23-2010, 10:44 AM
Don't put an adult services type ad on Craig's List, but rather a Seeking Sugar Daddy kind of ad.
Those are mainly just prostitution as well, under the guise of something else.
Walk into any dive bar in small town Texas and they will hire a hottie.
There are about half a dozen "jack shacks" here in Austin and they aren't that bad. I can name a few if the OP is in the area and wants to try them out. Nothing is really needed to start in one of those. You don't need proper stripper attire, just a dress and sexy heels will work.
I HATE panhandlers. Mostly I feel sorry for them though, especially women. You are just setting yourself up to be potentially put in danger. Also, I'm sick of them harrassing me when I don't give any money.
Athenathefabulous
03-23-2010, 10:46 AM
I don't get how she has so much time to start threads and respond to posts if she is in such a desperate financial situation. I mean, maybe she should shut off her internet service and sell her laptop for some quick cash, or get off StripperWeb and get to work. Just sayin......
The moral of the story is, when she wants to get on her feet bad enough, she will. In the meantime, she is just feeling sorry for herself and playing the victim, which gets absolutely no sympathy from me.
I try to extend compassion to others, and i wish you the best, but i have to agree with JD that you are playing the victim here.
As KS mentioned earlier, there are plenty of places within driving distance to dance that DONT require a liscense.
so instead of traveling a town over to panhandle, travel a town over to dance.
honestly, if you are expecting to make more money panhandling than by stripping, you are either delusional or have a serious problem with stripping.
BiggCaZ
03-23-2010, 10:48 AM
I'd much sooner rob someone than sell my ass for cash.
Athenathefabulous
03-23-2010, 10:49 AM
I'd much sooner rob someone than sell my ass for cash.
well its good to know that you would rather profit at someone else's expense than your own.
babybambi08
03-23-2010, 10:57 AM
No license required in Houston, Austin, or San Antonio. Not to mention many smaller cities, like in the Valley, etc. The only place I am aware of that has the $50 license requirement is Dallas, and there are counties outside of Dallas that do not require it.
thats grand, but Im not in Houston
Athenathefabulous
03-23-2010, 11:01 AM
thats grand, but Im not in Houston
you mentioned in this thread http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=139671&highlight=houston that you were looking for a place to work in houston, which is why i got confused. my bad.
Since you said you were looking for a place to work in Houston, are you near houston?
Either way, i am sure in your area there is somewhere within driving range that doesnt require a liscense. unless its a statewide requirement, usually there will be at least one neighboring town that doesnt have as strict laws.
babybambi08
03-23-2010, 11:11 AM
I already have a bunch of ads out, Ive done two appointments this week. Which is not that bad, since I don't live in a big city.My bf is going to change my oil, and do whatever else to it.. and Im going to talk to a bar about letting me do a cash wash there.. and I am going to houston dancing..
like most people I can respond on my phone!
Athenathefabulous
03-23-2010, 11:14 AM
I already have a bunch of ads out, Ive done two appointments this week. Which is not that bad, since I don't live in a big city.My bf is going to change my oil, and do whatever else to it.. and Im going to talk to a bar about letting me do a cash wash there.. and I am going to houston dancing..
like most people I can respond on my phone!
well im glad to hear that you are going to Houston to start dancing again-- i hope that works out well for you . and im glad you did two appointments this week, hopefully you can get a few more.
Xiomara
03-23-2010, 02:34 PM
panhandler asked me for some money this morning, on my way into town. I said i dont have none. He looked at me, looked at my car, looked back at me and said "Nice car" I just KNOW he wanted to say "Nice car, bitch" like clearly I was lying to him. whateva. Im broke.
hello-kitty
03-23-2010, 03:28 PM
I don't get it... even if I had money... I wouldn't give it to someone who begged... I feel like if I get my ass up every night and work for it.. why can't they....
jack0177057
03-23-2010, 04:53 PM
^^^ I'm sure that some panhandlers are down-on-their-luck and deserve compassion from the rest of us, but yeah,... I saw an investigative report on TV where about 12 panhandlers were told by an undercover reporter to come to his house to work for money. The reporter gave each of them enough money for transportation and directions. Only one showed up to work.
When they've ask for food, I've taken them to get something at a nearby fast food restaurant, but I usually avoid giving them money. They might just buy booze with it. I would much rather give my money to a hard-working and very deserving exotic dancer.
KS_Stevia
03-23-2010, 05:02 PM
Ummm, I named a few other towns besides Houston. Honey, you can PM me and tell me where you are if you want some advice, I may be able to help you. No promises though.
I am from Houston, live in Austin, have danced all over Texas...and have done some desperate things for money in the meantime. I'm not going to beg you to take my advice though.
You are a mother of 2 kids..can you apply for social assistance? I cannot because I have no kids and have never had an income below $10k. Perhaps you can file for some federal extention unemployment benefits?
I thought there was some kind of welfare available in this state?
Or, like I said, small town jack shacks are MONEY MONEY MONEY. Nothing else for the menfolks to do. You just have to dance around, they tip you. Worst you have to do is see a redneck diddling his ding-dong. There are worst things, lol..... ;0
jadelady
03-23-2010, 05:13 PM
I won't comment on your life choices because I don't feel it's in my place. I just wanted to wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide to do, and I hope things improve for you soon :) Keep a positive attitude and hold ya head up wherever you go.
Pretty_Penny
03-23-2010, 09:17 PM
What you should do is dress your kids up in some really tattered clothing, maybe put some make-up on them to make them look as dirty and sickly as possible, perhaps steal a wheelchair from goodwill or salvation army (if you get caught running off with it just break down into a sob story about your sick child).
It wouldn't hurt to teach them some bible songs either. In fact, if they could hold bibles and sing (stopping only to cough, for effect), you'd probably bank.
Pretty_Penny
03-23-2010, 09:19 PM
ps. anyone who takes the above post seriously.... needs their sarcasm meter checked.
BiggCaZ
03-24-2010, 10:28 AM
well its good to know that you would rather profit at someone else's expense than your own.
Better to be a thief than a whore. Strippers are typecasted by many as whores, which is demeaning. The vast majority don't approve of that behavior, so why do it just because stripping isn't paying off?
I really don't see how becoming a whore is justified over stealing. And you can argue about it, but at the end of my life when I look back at all the fucked up shit I've done, I'd rather that and go knowing I was some piece of shit's play-thing.
And that's aside from the fact that it's just a lazy and temporary solution to a long term problem.
Athenathefabulous
03-24-2010, 10:32 AM
Better to be a thief than a whore. Strippers are typecasted by many as whores, which is demeaning. The vast majority don't approve of that behavior, so why do it just because stripping isn't paying off?
I really don't see how becoming a whore is justified over stealing. And you can argue about it, but at the end of my life when I look back at all the fucked up shit I've done, I'd rather that and go knowing I was some piece of shit's play-thing.
And that's aside from the fact that it's just a lazy and temporary solution to a long term problem.
Wow. what a mean thing to say. Are you aware that there are a lot of escorts on this board?
Athenathefabulous
03-24-2010, 10:33 AM
Better to be a thief than a whore. Strippers are typecasted by many as whores, which is demeaning. The vast majority don't approve of that behavior, so why do it just because stripping isn't paying off?
I really don't see how becoming a whore is justified over stealing. And you can argue about it, but at the end of my life when I look back at all the fucked up shit I've done, I'd rather that and go knowing I was some piece of shit's play-thing.
And that's aside from the fact that it's just a lazy and temporary solution to a long term problem.
Wow. what a mean thing to say. Are you aware that there are a lot of escorts on this board?
You seem really really closed minded. Strippers dont like in the club prostitution because it hurts our money, but most (at least most that i know) dont have an issue with escorts.