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Kyleigh1984
06-03-2010, 04:55 PM
I had a guy come into my free chat today, who I assume was pretending to be a girl (he had the name Steve in his s/n so I knew he wasn't), and he said "Can you teach me how to shake my ass for guys?" I said "Sure, in private" and he instantly left. Come on dude, you really think I'm gonna work hard and let you get a free nut? Even if a real girl did ask me that, her ass would have to pay.
AngelEyezXYZ
06-03-2010, 10:37 PM
^Haha now that's funny...
What about the guys who have really big dicks (cam2cam) but insist that you do small cock humiliation on them? Like uhm... your dick is 9 inches and you want me to tell you you have a clitdick? Seriously?
Smurfette
06-04-2010, 09:47 AM
I seem to be getting some regulars who are perfectly happy with me just sitting there and talking to them for HOURS without doing anything sexual. This is awesome, but these guys are all trying to meet me, offering to buy plane tickets, etc. and seem to think that they are IN LOVE.
I don't want to lose them so I don't tell them to buzz off. I just give them a non-answer like "Oh, that's very interesting, hmm..."
I told one guy that I have a boyfriend and he said, "Well maybe it's time to take a little break". Uhh, yeah, as if I'd sabotage a wonderful long-term relationship with the man I love to meet some random stranger on the internet... ::)
Kyleigh1984
06-05-2010, 01:12 PM
I swear, a lot of these guys are fucking nuts...
I never understand the guys who get off on small dick humiliation when they're big. I especially hate sitting there pointing and laughing at the cam like a dumbass lol.
It seems like everyday I get guys who want to meet and insist that they're better than my BF. I think they annoy me more than the rude guys, especially when they're not paying. Like, dude this is a cam site not a dating site>:(
Kyleigh1984
06-05-2010, 01:16 PM
Also, does anybody else always get guys who want to send you their picture, but never go private? I think these guys either get off on that or hope that you're so in love with them that you'll want to talk to them and cam for them for free. Whenever a guy from free chat tells me he's sent a pic, I always tell him I'll open it up when he goes private or after I get off (which means I never open it lol).
alexa111
06-05-2010, 01:27 PM
Omg I get those guys...or they try to turn on their cam so I can "see their huge cock". I always get myspace messages with pix of guys too! So weird
roast
09-28-2010, 10:28 PM
I know this is an old thread but I wante dto thank you guys for venting, I return to this thread every so often and just exhale. Its cathartic to read this (as I have, and I am sure everyone who cams, the exact same issues), makes it all feel more like a circus and not something to get overly frustrated by
Thanks guys!
BustyAmeera
10-14-2010, 11:20 AM
What's annoying is I am being bombarded with requests to escort, on adultwork. I have tried my best to make it clear in my profile, and in free chat. I guess I will either have to completely ignore guests (something I don't like to do) Or just opt out of the free chat option all together. I honestly don't like free chat, but so far that is how I get private shows.
mistresscyn
08-02-2011, 03:19 AM
I haven't started camming yet, and no, this doesn't scare me off, but this reminds me of ALL the crap I've gone through on either dating sites, online dating, or when I used to use IM/chat rooms when I was younger.
Dick pics, guys who can't type, or idiots looking for freebies/a g/f when I already had a boyfriend.
Amazing to see the world hasn't evolved much, but apparently I can get paid in the interim.
cherryblossomsinspring
08-02-2011, 04:59 AM
1. Dick picks or
2. Look at my cam for free
3. Talking without tipping
4. Guys that stay in your room while you're going in and out of privates but can't take you private with annoying comments eg " wow that wasn't long" " what did you do in there". These people turn irate and nasty a short while later
5. Men that compare me to celebs
6. Men that tell me they're married as if i'm supposed to be impressed that someone signed a contract to f*** them for life when apparently they still ended up here.
7. Where do you live? ( naming cities to see if they can find out)
8. Wanting a friend . Ohh you want to cum first? Sure go ahead. I need more friend's like you. Usually over 50+
9. I wish you lived closer ( as if that means something)
10. Ass bb comments or any demands for free shit.
11. Men telling me they have daughters close to my age. Again do I really want to know this?
12 Men that say I'll tip you when I get paid
13. People privately messaging me that they are masturbating and haven't tipped a dime.
14. Men with small dicks that want me to tell them it's the best I've seen.
15 Men that complain about my price and usually are the ugly guys you never want to take you private because they always want to do cam to cam.
16 Men that say I love you and want you to say it back ( they end up stalking you and calling you names in free chat)
17 Men too cheap to pay for another private so they sit in your free chat trying to "recall"that last private and they want you to participate in their freebie masturbation moment. ( They will come back and try that atleast 5-6 times) Talk about gay man on man anal sex, that will make any straight guy go limp in a heart beat.
18 Men that jump in the room talking about something horrible, like death, disease , cancer or anything that would turn off most men or make them leave your room(scare tactic)
19 Men that act as if they are going to meet you and come into your room saying can't wait until next week ( scare tactic to push out traffic or potentials)
20 Men that talk dirty during cam session and use all sorts of fun colorful words
21 Men that tell you to cum for them right after they hit the private button as if that works. ( you attempt to fake it but you just don't know how and you end up sounding like a weasel getting flushed down the toilet.)
22 Guys that ask sexual questions when they know they don't have any money to go private
( and you know it too)
23 Worst of all time : WHAT DO YOU DO IN YOUR PRIVATES? If you're new you'll start trying to put up the laundry list. If you've been around. You tell them ( go private and find out/what do you want to do in private?/ or same as all others) Vague is the best way to go . plus when he starts naming things he has to type which is hard to do for most men. NO FREE MASTURBATION MATERIAL FOR YOU LOSER!
24 Foot fetish types that think because showing feet isn't considered naked that they should command you to unveil your feet whenever they ask for free . ( wear socks every time you cam) ( shoes always on stand by) But typically they don't tip or pay . Another option is to tell them to go to the beach to look at feet in sandals.
25 Pedophile or Rape types that always trying to be sneaky on sites that don't allow that play. Usually refunding on women that will not call them "daddy" or will not say they are 17 or younger".
26 Broken English sexual demands that sound like open heart surgery is in progress. eg. " Open chest BB"
27 Male cam models that think other guys don't have a shot in hell with us but they sure do. Even if they are double your age. Also they will think you'll pay for trip to hang out with them and have free sex too! They will tell you to watch them get off for free , as if that's some how enticing.
28 Men that say they "Know" other models as if this takes them off the Douchebag Radar. Sadly this just put them on it.
29. Men that provide their email or phone number as if you want to call them
30. Men that typically take you private because they are trying to "hook up" some day. When they realize it's not going to happen after being pushy they don't come back. Yes typically these privates are fully clothed. As someone said "prepaying for pussy" cam shows. If this man is really up in age be prepared for some chargebacks and refunds and him calling you a scam. ( didn't happen to me because I refuse shows when I hear .. "I'm looking for love".) My response is typically no no not doing shows with you ,please leave! The younger more attractive guy will see it as a loss to an investment and will move on. The older 50+ guy will go crazy because you just spent his SSI check.
Guess that wraps up my Top 30
CurvySweet
08-02-2011, 09:57 AM
Whenever i'm asked where i live.
The U.K
What part?
London
Which area?
East end
Which borough?
Don't they get it I really don't want to tell them/or for them to know. Though it is a trick to keep them in there longer. LOL Pus I could never ever really tell them what town i'm in. I mean come on please!
CurvySweet
08-02-2011, 10:02 AM
And the on going do you escort? My profile says i don't so no i don't. But yet you keep asking. The sad thing about AW is cos its a escort site also guys assume all women on there do it.
HighHeelHottie
08-03-2011, 07:20 PM
I had a guy come in my room today under the name "LollipopCandy." He claimed to be a female, Kelly, and bi. 99.9% of my "female" customers NEVER pay up, they only want to try to get shit for free, 'cause you know we totally have this girl code where we do anything for our fellow girls. Well, he kept talking about how he used to be a camgirl on LiveJasmin and then asked if I was new, (I've been a cam girl for years, but since I don't cam a lot, guys always think I'm new and that they can get over on me because I'm the dumb new girl). Well, when I told him I wasn't new, he goes on to tell me that he thought I was because I wasn't using my "powers" to get the guys to chip in for party chat. He said that he knew it was all about the "power" and I wasn't using it, so I wasn't going to make money. Then he asked me if I knew what a hand bra is and told me I needed to do one. ::)
cherryblossomsinspring
08-04-2011, 03:03 PM
And the on going do you escort? My profile says i don't so no i don't. But yet you keep asking. The sad thing about AW is cos its a escort site also guys assume all women on there do it.
31 Uggg hate this on AW!!!! One guy said I was missing out!!!! As If!!!
Ohh I laugh at the guys that come into free chat there that lie and say the email system is down so can they have my personal one. lol For what?
32 Or the copy and paste messages from the same "financial submissive" .It's funny, apparently he doesn't seem to be able to afford much with his limited reviews.
33 Guy that says he can get you more business in an email but just wants to know if he can trade services. ( hmm so wait I'm supposed to get you off for free to promote me? Hahah I'll pass!)
34 Guys that act like you have to do something extra to get them to go private. Well tease me first, get me warmed up. I usually ban or block. It's not your game love, it's mine. If you're not already hard looking at me, then let me help you get to the next room. (kicked)
Sapphire1987
08-05-2011, 07:30 AM
It's not about annoying cam customers per-se, but I found these lovely gems on a uk based "hobbyist" forum -
"Anyone tried the free webcams on Adultwork?"
"There do seem to be more excorts on there recently (But most seem to be Munters or up North)
"The system has saved me some cash though as I have seen on there girls who I have thought about seeing and then seen in the flesh (on cam) and saved my cash An example of a girl who looks lnice in some of her pics but is but fucking ugly when you see her on cam"
"Look for the girls with "0" Feedback and you can get them to do more in freeview, and then when they insist on private you can have "connection problems" and piss off to another girl a bit like when a pro$$ie promises and doesn't deliver"
"Wasn't looking to book any but passed an hr or so just perving"
"Thats just the disclaimer they use to get you to spend, I've seen fucking sucking and full nudity on free cams on AW a number of times."
Glasses
08-05-2011, 10:18 AM
I had a "what do you do?" type dude the other day. He was already in pvt, I put on a nice show, did several things but he kept saying "I like that and what else do you do?" No matter what did I do, he kept saying he liked it and what else did I do. At the end I got very angry and told him to tell me what he wanted and stop wasting our time, but he just went on with "what else do you do". Fortunately someone else hopped in with clear instructions and I just ignored the "what else do you do" idiot. I was so glad when he finally left.
MzStar
08-05-2011, 07:27 PM
we was finish i think i need a free show or something?
Just got this yesterday from some loser !!! LMAO
I should play dumb with his bitchass and try to scam him back !
TinaLayne
08-05-2011, 08:00 PM
I got this douche tonight...
Him: hey bb, you want some bbc?
Me:absolutely
Him: you had it before?
Me: sure have
Him: dirty ass hoe!
WTF?! I laughed my ass off as I banned him }:D
CurvySweet
08-06-2011, 09:26 AM
9. I wish you lived closer ( as if that means something)
- LOL again as if we would meet. Silly silly fools
14. Men with small dicks that want me to tell them it's the best I've seen.
-Boy this is hard many times I bust out laughing when this happens.
29. Men that provide their email or phone number as if you want to call them
- This makes me die every time. Its like they think we are real friends and must keep in touch! LOL
31 Uggg hate this on AW!!!! One guy said I was missing out!!!! As If!!!
Ohh I laugh at the guys that come into free chat there that lie and say the email system is down so can they have my personal one. lol For what?
- the escort pestering is on going on A/W. All I really want to say is I value my safety and my sanity. I bask in the glory that you can wank over me as much as you like, but you ain't never ever gonna get to meet me or have your wicked way with me.
sweetheather
08-06-2011, 12:30 PM
"Hey bb, cancel this party chat and we'll go pvt so you can see my 12 inch dick"
I couldn't hold back my laughter. I already at $100 pledged for the show. I told him "you really think I'm that desperate to see a dick?" And my regs tore him apart.
Amy Lee
08-06-2011, 07:05 PM
The ones that want everything for FREE...so damn annoying.
TrissyWaldorf
01-21-2013, 08:17 AM
I hate guys who ask if I do phone convo, or just immediately ask for my Skype after coming into my free chat.
Timor
01-21-2013, 10:40 AM
Lol cherryblossomsinspring this made my day.
1. Dick picks or
2. Look at my cam for free
3. Talking without tipping
4. Guys that stay in your room while you're going in and out of privates but can't take you private with annoying comments eg " wow that wasn't long" " what did you do in there". These people turn irate and nasty a short while later
7. Where do you live? ( naming cities to see if they can find out)
8. Wanting a friend . Ohh you want to cum first? Sure go ahead. I need more friend's like you. Usually over 50+
9. I wish you lived closer ( as if that means something)
10. Ass bb comments or any demands for free shit.
11. Men telling me they have daughters close to my age. Again do I really want to know this?
13. People privately messaging me that they are masturbating and haven't tipped a dime. - (I always give a huge cheshire-cat grin and say OH THANK YOU! You just gave me a reason to ban you!)
14. Men with small dicks that want me to tell them it's the best I've seen.
15 Men that complain about my price and usually are the ugly guys you never want to take you private because they always want to do cam to cam.
16 Men that say I love you and want you to say it back ( they end up stalking you and calling you names in free chat)
17 Men too cheap to pay for another private so they sit in your free chat trying to "recall"that last private and they want you to participate in their freebie masturbation moment. ( They will come back and try that atleast 5-6 times) Talk about gay man on man anal sex, that will make any straight guy go limp in a heart beat.
18 Men that jump in the room talking about something horrible, like death, disease , cancer or anything that would turn off most men or make them leave your room(scare tactic)
19 Men that act as if they are going to meet you and come into your room saying can't wait until next week ( scare tactic to push out traffic or potentials)
21 Men that tell you to cum for them right after they hit the private button as if that works. ( you attempt to fake it but you just don't know how and you end up sounding like a weasel getting flushed down the toilet.)
22 Guys that ask sexual questions when they know they don't have any money to go private( and you know it too)
23 Worst of all time : WHAT DO YOU DO IN YOUR PRIVATES? If you're new you'll start trying to put up the laundry list. If you've been around. You tell them ( go private and find out/what do you want to do in private?/ or same as all others) Vague is the best way to go . plus when he starts naming things he has to type which is hard to do for most men. NO FREE MASTURBATION MATERIAL FOR YOU LOSER!
24 Foot fetish types that think because showing feet isn't considered naked that they should command you to unveil your feet whenever they ask for free . ( wear socks every time you cam) ( shoes always on stand by) But typically they don't tip or pay . Another option is to tell them to go to the beach to look at feet in sandals.
25 Pedophile or Rape types that always trying to be sneaky on sites that don't allow that play. Usually refunding on women that will not call them "daddy" or will not say they are 17 or younger".
26 Broken English sexual demands that sound like open heart surgery is in progress. eg. " Open chest BB"
27 Male cam models that think other guys don't have a shot in hell with us but they sure do. Even if they are double your age. Also they will think you'll pay for trip to hang out with them and have free sex too! They will tell you to watch them get off for free , as if that's some how enticing.
28 Men that say they "Know" other models as if this takes them off the Douchebag Radar. Sadly this just put them on it.
29. Men that provide their email or phone number as if you want to call them
30. Men that typically take you private because they are trying to "hook up" some day. When they realize it's not going to happen after being pushy they don't come back. Yes typically these privates are fully clothed. As someone said "prepaying for pussy" cam shows. If this man is really up in age be prepared for some chargebacks and refunds and him calling you a scam. ( didn't happen to me because I refuse shows when I hear .. "I'm looking for love".) My response is typically no no not doing shows with you ,please leave! The younger more attractive guy will see it as a loss to an investment and will move on. The older 50+ guy will go crazy because you just spent his SSI check.
Guess that wraps up my Top 30
Juliette25
01-21-2013, 10:14 PM
Most of my best customers annoy the shit out of me. That is all I have the energy to say right now lol.
CurvySweet
01-22-2013, 09:33 AM
I was going to make a thread about how this guy had seen me on both IM and AW at the same time. He felt he shouldnt have to pay to chat to me so laughed at my prices on AW while in free chat on IM. I felt so ashamed.
IsobelWren
01-22-2013, 12:47 PM
Trissy, what's up? You're resurrecting a LOT of really old threads. You might want to check the date stamp on the threads before you post and bring a thread that's been dormant for several years back to the front page. Not that I mind reading this thread again, it's just years old. Things change quickly online and in cams. If you were to do this with another type of thread the question might not be relevant and the answers might be out of date.
KikiGem
11-26-2013, 04:27 PM
"Guys who try to be all romantic in free chat, never go private and think that sending me poems and other bull shit will make me instantly fall in love with them"
This^ I entertained one guy for sooo long, spent so much time on him and he never paid me a single dime. I think he really thought we were in love. :O Newbie mistake, never happening again!
Anyone who wants a freebie/whines about the price/demands anything in free chat. I'm sorry, but one-on-one time with a cam-girl who follows your every request is a luxury item, not something you are entitled to. Those people just get blocked. Even on the off-chance they *will* part with a couple of their beloved dollars, dealing with them is not worth my stress and I don't want to cam with an entitled jackass who thinks the world owes him something anyway.
Personal questions. Why do you need to know where I live, what my life plans are, what I ate for for breakfast? This goes hand-in-hand with excessive talking. I don't want to be mean, but I'm just not interested in getting to know you. Plus, I spent a lot of time getting into this sexy pose, and I don't wanna break out of it just to type replies to your inane questions. My tolerance for the chatterboxes depends on my mood. If they are a member, maybe I will respond. If they are a guest? Hell no, GTFO. I hate when a guest claims to be a member who just hasn't logged in yet, but he *will* log in if I show some boobies. I wanna scream WHAT KIND OF IDIOT DO YOU TAKE ME FOR???:banghead:
Guys who tell me about how their credit card is declined so they can't give me any money but they wanna talk and hang out and see boobies and butts anyway. NO. Camming is not for the poor man, but it works for the poor woman, which is why I'm doing it. I'm working, so quit wasting my time.
Anyone who wants to Skype for a dollar a minute because 'I'll be able to keep it all." No, I'll make more if I just stay here, thanks though. And DO NOT ask for my phone number so you can try and call and 'sext' me for free. I fell for this once and when I asked for some money to cover the minutes he was like, "Oh we both have Verizon, it's free." No, minutes are not free for me dumbass... Not to mention I hate texting, I have other shit to do with my life than text you all day, and sexting makes me laugh because it's just so lame. "ooh baby how u like dis hard dikk right now mmmmm" Um, feels great?
Guys who think that if I see their dick I'll get all hot and heavy. When will they learn that women are not visual like they are, and the sight of a penis does nothing for me?
Penis humiliation, dirty talk, and femdom requests are all incredibly awkward to do to a computer screen. If you want this, at least turn your cam on so I don't feel like a *total* moron.
Piss fetishists. It's not allowed on my site anyway, but there was this one guy who wanted me to pee in a cup and dump it on my pussy. That would've ruined my bed, and it's disgusting. I don't want piss all over me. Ughh....
I had this one guy get soo mad at me when I didn't reply to him fast enough. Seriously, he bitched and whined about it for an hour. WTF is wrong with you?
I'm sure I have more but I'm worn out thinking about all I used to put up with.
Juliette25
12-10-2013, 11:03 AM
Oh my god last night this guy on sm asked me in free chat if I could "spit on tits and open pussy wide without masturbating". I was like "yeah sure in exclusive". Dumbass takes me private instead of exclusive. I politely explain that I said he should take me exclusive for what he was requesting and that he could either stay and get a regular masturbation show or leave and take me exclusive for what he was requesting. He said he would stay for a regular show. I start stripping.
He starts typing IN CAPS. SIT PLZ. SIT PLZ. OPEN PUSSY WIDE. SIT AND OPEN PUSSY WIDE PLZ.
I once again very politely said oh I thought I made myself clear did I not? I lay back and start to use my hitachi...
NO NOT TOOLS. DON'T USE TOOLS. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
NO DON'T USE ANY TOOLS OPEN PUSSY WIDE PLEASE.
I am not polite anymore. "I'm going to tell you this one more time. If you wanted me to sit here with my pussy open and not do anything you were to take me exclusive. I'm not going to sit here and do that while other people are coming in the room."
He said "OK". Leaves.
1 star rating.
*huge sigh*
Juliette25
12-10-2013, 11:08 AM
Then there's the guy that always talks about wanting to take me exclusive and make me cum. "Get ready for the best fuck of your life". Then he suggests I make myself cum using means or positions that I don't want to, and says "Oh this is so much better than (insert the way I like to make myself cum)" and rushes me to cum, and won't shut the fuck up while I'm trying to make myself cum.
It helps to remind myself that he's got a number three next to his name. But overall... fuck that guy.
DivaSativa
04-04-2014, 09:09 AM
I am sure its been mentioned here before but I have a few guys who tipped me like 3 years ago and they still hang out in my room chatting and trying to make requests without tipping. Either be a consistent tipper or shut up! GAHHHH!!
Phedre89
07-06-2014, 09:45 AM
July 4 in US made for the worst weekend.
A room full of people on CB and no one talking.
People continually logging in and out on SM asking what I do in private and calling me a biatch and a whore for not getting naked in free chat so they can 'sample my product'
But then in between all of that I met another really great client who shot down one of the douche bags and took me exclusive to just chat c2c.
Definitely focusing on the the new nice guy I met and ignoring all the others.
audritwo
07-06-2014, 12:03 PM
Thats why you tell them to go to Cosco for samples.
anonymous camgirl
07-06-2014, 02:59 PM
That's funny!.. I used to say that all the time.. this ain't sam's club or this isn't burger king you can't have it your way!..
Thats why you tell them to go to Cosco for samples.
Sam38g
07-06-2014, 04:13 PM
I find pleasure in pissing them off the way they piss me off. They ask for pussy in public chat I say "Yes" & never do it. I smile & keep saying sure.. It makes them steaming mad & cracks me the fuck up.
If they type the same thing over & over again. I will type to them $100 gold bb over and over again.
Instead of staying in my room, they quickly move on or another guy who sees me fucking them will laugh & take me prvt.
Flipping the script on them instead of getting mad keeps me entertained & from logging off thus them costing me money.
Good Luck,
Sam
Phedre89
07-06-2014, 06:34 PM
Thats why you tell them to go to Cosco for samples.
That cracked me up.
We actually just got our first Cosco in Australia.
dontcrywolf
07-06-2014, 07:28 PM
These past 3 days, it's been nothing but guys just not pulling through. I don't work a freechat site, so there's a bit of negotiating when the guys are too stupid to read my fucking profile script that says $2 PER MINUTE. They chat me up saying they want cam time, I get ready, and then when it comes time to do it they are fucking GONE. UGH. That's all together like $60 that I was excited to make but just got my hopes up over. It's happened 3 times today. It's REALLY getting annoying.
_anna_a
02-24-2017, 12:41 AM
Came here strictly to post about this today, but WHAT do I do if my highest-paying customer is the most annoying one? I need advice!
First of all, I've been camming for about 4years, have seen many regulars come & go, but this one has been there for about 2 and a half years now. The reason we clicked so well at first was because he just seemed to "get it" more than any of the other guys. I could vent to him about all the other "show tits bb" or "how much to meet irl" retards & we'd have a good laugh. He seemed to understand that camming is a job for me. A super fun one, but it's still a job. I'm not trying to meet the love of my life on Streamate, & I'm not there to "meet up" either. This guy seemed to grasp that better than any of the others, at the time. He became the closest thing to a "real friend" I've met in my 4 yrs being a cam model. Because of that, I trusted him with some of my personal info (phone # & fb) so I could let him know when I'd be online/send pics easier when he bought them/etc. I even finally admitted to him that I had a boyfriend (something I never discuss with ANY of my customers) & he was totally cool with it!
Then, the bf & I broke up (we're now back together, but camguy thinks we're not LOL)
Welp, now he's in love with me. He spends my ENTIRE shift online with me everytime I get on, & I do discount exclusive shows with him, because he has a cammodels.com account so I get an extra 40% & it evens out. & now he annoys THE SHIT out of me.
Every. Little. Thing. I say, he tries to somehow relate it to "us", & where things are going with our relationship. Without me ever saying I wanted a relationship with him, he has automatically assumed that there will be one sometime in the near future. He says he wants to marry me. He spends at least $300 a day on me, usually more. During our exclusives, which are just 95% us talking, nothing sexual involved, he just constantly tries to steer every conversation into a talk about us being together. For example, I'll talk about some silly story from a past relationship, & he'll say something like "ohh I wonder if that's gonna happen with us hahaha" & I'm just like UGH, *cringe*. Idk, I just feel constant pressure from the dude & it irritates me. Like, what makes you think I'd wanna be with you? lol I've dropped every hint possible & continue to do so, but he just. doesn't. get it.
& it might not be so bad, if he wasn't just so creepy & annoying to begin with. He insists on turning c2c on EVERY time we do a show, just so we can talk, but I can never hear/understand him. He has the gayest voice ever, like he literally just sounds like a gay dude. & he talks way too fast & jumbles his words together, plus his mic is NEVER loud enough, so on top of everything I have to ask him to repeat himself, no exaggeration, like at least 100x per show.
& it's like he's just trying to force this idea of us being together on me THE ENTIRE TIME we talk. He'll constantly ask me if I like him better than this or that regular, or even people from my personal life, & I just don't have the heart to COMPLETELY shut the guy down, so I always give some answer that really doesn't answer his question at all, but sounds like it kinda does. lmao I've become a complete pro at deflecting.
I just don't know what to do. He accounts for at least 1/3 of my income, but it's getting hard to bare. I know eventually, I'm just gonna have to block him from all social media & the site & be done with it, but at the same time it's hard to give up the easy nights of just sitting & talking for almost my entire shift. What's a cold-hearted bitch to do? lmao
laurielegs
02-24-2017, 07:13 PM
Came here strictly to post about this today, but WHAT do I do if my highest-paying customer is the most annoying one? I need advice!
First of all, I've been camming for about 4years, have seen many regulars come & go, but this one has been there for about 2 and a half years now. The reason we clicked so well at first was because he just seemed to "get it" more than any of the other guys. I could vent to him about all the other "show tits bb" or "how much to meet irl" retards & we'd have a good laugh. He seemed to understand that camming is a job for me. A super fun one, but it's still a job. I'm not trying to meet the love of my life on Streamate, & I'm not there to "meet up" either. This guy seemed to grasp that better than any of the others, at the time. He became the closest thing to a "real friend" I've met in my 4 yrs being a cam model. Because of that, I trusted him with some of my personal info (phone # & fb) so I could let him know when I'd be online/send pics easier when he bought them/etc. I even finally admitted to him that I had a boyfriend (something I never discuss with ANY of my customers) & he was totally cool with it!
Then, the bf & I broke up (we're now back together, but camguy thinks we're not LOL)
Welp, now he's in love with me. He spends my ENTIRE shift online with me everytime I get on, & I do discount exclusive shows with him, because he has a cammodels.com account so I get an extra 40% & it evens out. & now he annoys THE SHIT out of me.
Every. Little. Thing. I say, he tries to somehow relate it to "us", & where things are going with our relationship. Without me ever saying I wanted a relationship with him, he has automatically assumed that there will be one sometime in the near future. He says he wants to marry me. He spends at least $300 a day on me, usually more. During our exclusives, which are just 95% us talking, nothing sexual involved, he just constantly tries to steer every conversation into a talk about us being together. For example, I'll talk about some silly story from a past relationship, & he'll say something like "ohh I wonder if that's gonna happen with us hahaha" & I'm just like UGH, *cringe*. Idk, I just feel constant pressure from the dude & it irritates me. Like, what makes you think I'd wanna be with you? lol I've dropped every hint possible & continue to do so, but he just. doesn't. get it.
& it might not be so bad, if he wasn't just so creepy & annoying to begin with. He insists on turning c2c on EVERY time we do a show, just so we can talk, but I can never hear/understand him. He has the gayest voice ever, like he literally just sounds like a gay dude. & he talks way too fast & jumbles his words together, plus his mic is NEVER loud enough, so on top of everything I have to ask him to repeat himself, no exaggeration, like at least 100x per show.
& it's like he's just trying to force this idea of us being together on me THE ENTIRE TIME we talk. He'll constantly ask me if I like him better than this or that regular, or even people from my personal life, & I just don't have the heart to COMPLETELY shut the guy down, so I always give some answer that really doesn't answer his question at all, but sounds like it kinda does. lmao I've become a complete pro at deflecting.
I just don't know what to do. He accounts for at least 1/3 of my income, but it's getting hard to bare. I know eventually, I'm just gonna have to block him from all social media & the site & be done with it, but at the same time it's hard to give up the easy nights of just sitting & talking for almost my entire shift. What's a cold-hearted bitch to do? lmao
He's reached his expiration date, or pretty close.
I've done this several ways - I've jacked up my price when I know the guy will be on so I can make money fast and then log out and ignore him. (Maybe try that one first).
Since it's SM, if you can't stand it any longer block him but leave messaging open and when he asks to be unblocked tell him to tip you a nice fat tip to unblock him. If he gets pissy or abusive it's easy to block messaging.
Cutie101
02-24-2017, 07:52 PM
Came here strictly to post about this today, but WHAT do I do if my highest-paying customer is the most annoying one? I need advice!
First of all, I've been camming for about 4years, have seen many regulars come & go, but this one has been there for about 2 and a half years now. The reason we clicked so well at first was because he just seemed to "get it" more than any of the other guys. I could vent to him about all the other "show tits bb" or "how much to meet irl" retards & we'd have a good laugh. He seemed to understand that camming is a job for me. A super fun one, but it's still a job. I'm not trying to meet the love of my life on Streamate, & I'm not there to "meet up" either. This guy seemed to grasp that better than any of the others, at the time. He became the closest thing to a "real friend" I've met in my 4 yrs being a cam model. Because of that, I trusted him with some of my personal info (phone # & fb) so I could let him know when I'd be online/send pics easier when he bought them/etc. I even finally admitted to him that I had a boyfriend (something I never discuss with ANY of my customers) & he was totally cool with it!
Then, the bf & I broke up (we're now back together, but camguy thinks we're not LOL)
Welp, now he's in love with me. He spends my ENTIRE shift online with me everytime I get on, & I do discount exclusive shows with him, because he has a cammodels.com account so I get an extra 40% & it evens out. & now he annoys THE SHIT out of me.
Every. Little. Thing. I say, he tries to somehow relate it to "us", & where things are going with our relationship. Without me ever saying I wanted a relationship with him, he has automatically assumed that there will be one sometime in the near future. He says he wants to marry me. He spends at least $300 a day on me, usually more. During our exclusives, which are just 95% us talking, nothing sexual involved, he just constantly tries to steer every conversation into a talk about us being together. For example, I'll talk about some silly story from a past relationship, & he'll say something like "ohh I wonder if that's gonna happen with us hahaha" & I'm just like UGH, *cringe*. Idk, I just feel constant pressure from the dude & it irritates me. Like, what makes you think I'd wanna be with you? lol I've dropped every hint possible & continue to do so, but he just. doesn't. get it.
& it might not be so bad, if he wasn't just so creepy & annoying to begin with. He insists on turning c2c on EVERY time we do a show, just so we can talk, but I can never hear/understand him. He has the gayest voice ever, like he literally just sounds like a gay dude. & he talks way too fast & jumbles his words together, plus his mic is NEVER loud enough, so on top of everything I have to ask him to repeat himself, no exaggeration, like at least 100x per show.
& it's like he's just trying to force this idea of us being together on me THE ENTIRE TIME we talk. He'll constantly ask me if I like him better than this or that regular, or even people from my personal life, & I just don't have the heart to COMPLETELY shut the guy down, so I always give some answer that really doesn't answer his question at all, but sounds like it kinda does. lmao I've become a complete pro at deflecting.
I just don't know what to do. He accounts for at least 1/3 of my income, but it's getting hard to bare. I know eventually, I'm just gonna have to block him from all social media & the site & be done with it, but at the same time it's hard to give up the easy nights of just sitting & talking for almost my entire shift. What's a cold-hearted bitch to do? lmao
Don't make the mistake to flip him off. You will cry for those easy money. Been there, done that. And my best friend as well. Her story involves more money than mine. She is on Jasmin and she had a customer spending on her $40k (her cut. He spent way more). He was keeping her in private the entire shift and was super jelaous on other customers. He was taking her in private for 6-7-8 hours only because he was desperate she could be taken to pvt by someone else.
But he was extremely jelaous. Just as you, she sent him pics from her vacations, he was obsessed, zooming on every pic and discovering where she actually has been, he was that kind of super rich corporate CEO that was bored, sociopath and lonely. She was struggling with him because he was so obsessed that he found out where she lives, because he was looking for her on other social media accounts!!! WTF. When she was taking a day off, he was messaging her and asked her to take her laptop with to prove him she is not meeting any guy lol. It was ok for her at first because she was making money guaranteed.
At some point, she couldn't take it anymore and became rude to him. And eventually he vanished.
Now she wished she was still annoyed by him, but end the shift with $800- $1k every day.
My advice is clear: Suck his money and hang in there. And save the money made off him. You will be thankful when he eventually vanishes.
I rather be annoyed by a guy like him than "fist pussy bb and I give u $5" lol.
You are a camgirl. An actress. Play that role and be done when you log off from the shift. Repeat till you milked everything.
PS: I forgot to add. At least he is not that kind of guy who is wearing you out with hard core sessions, harm you or do whatever to you that makes u feel uncomfy physically.
KatyBoleyn
02-24-2017, 10:13 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzyPoosr9pI&index=2&list=PLZ0VKRbOuQW9-NuhhGvzJOjdw-KplkJOM
Might be time to make him cry.
_anna_a
03-04-2017, 03:43 AM
Thanks girl, I think I needed this! haha <3
Ginnyyy
03-12-2017, 02:04 PM
Why do some guys come up with this "fuck faster and come for me, even faster"? I just go with the flow at my normal speed and accelerate a bit once I feel they are getting close.
Also, why does inserting a few fingers leads them to the conclusion you can fist..."baby, I know you can fist, if you can just push". I don t do fistings but even with that, I politely invite them to open their cam and show me on themselves how a fisting is done lol bcs my holes aren't built up for that.
I find myself in some situations where I need to ask the guy if he knows anything 'bout anathomy.
BiancaNorwood
03-12-2017, 02:35 PM
Came here strictly to post about this today, but WHAT do I do if my highest-paying customer is the most annoying one? I need advice!
First of all, I've been camming for about 4years, have seen many regulars come & go, but this one has been there for about 2 and a half years now. The reason we clicked so well at first was because he just seemed to "get it" more than any of the other guys. I could vent to him about all the other "show tits bb" or "how much to meet irl" retards & we'd have a good laugh. He seemed to understand that camming is a job for me. A super fun one, but it's still a job. I'm not trying to meet the love of my life on Streamate, & I'm not there to "meet up" either. This guy seemed to grasp that better than any of the others, at the time. He became the closest thing to a "real friend" I've met in my 4 yrs being a cam model. Because of that, I trusted him with some of my personal info (phone # & fb) so I could let him know when I'd be online/send pics easier when he bought them/etc. I even finally admitted to him that I had a boyfriend (something I never discuss with ANY of my customers) & he was totally cool with it!
Then, the bf & I broke up (we're now back together, but camguy thinks we're not LOL)
Welp, now he's in love with me. He spends my ENTIRE shift online with me everytime I get on, & I do discount exclusive shows with him, because he has a cammodels.com account so I get an extra 40% & it evens out. & now he annoys THE SHIT out of me.
Every. Little. Thing. I say, he tries to somehow relate it to "us", & where things are going with our relationship. Without me ever saying I wanted a relationship with him, he has automatically assumed that there will be one sometime in the near future. He says he wants to marry me. He spends at least $300 a day on me, usually more. During our exclusives, which are just 95% us talking, nothing sexual involved, he just constantly tries to steer every conversation into a talk about us being together. For example, I'll talk about some silly story from a past relationship, & he'll say something like "ohh I wonder if that's gonna happen with us hahaha" & I'm just like UGH, *cringe*. Idk, I just feel constant pressure from the dude & it irritates me. Like, what makes you think I'd wanna be with you? lol I've dropped every hint possible & continue to do so, but he just. doesn't. get it.
& it might not be so bad, if he wasn't just so creepy & annoying to begin with. He insists on turning c2c on EVERY time we do a show, just so we can talk, but I can never hear/understand him. He has the gayest voice ever, like he literally just sounds like a gay dude. & he talks way too fast & jumbles his words together, plus his mic is NEVER loud enough, so on top of everything I have to ask him to repeat himself, no exaggeration, like at least 100x per show.
& it's like he's just trying to force this idea of us being together on me THE ENTIRE TIME we talk. He'll constantly ask me if I like him better than this or that regular, or even people from my personal life, & I just don't have the heart to COMPLETELY shut the guy down, so I always give some answer that really doesn't answer his question at all, but sounds like it kinda does. lmao I've become a complete pro at deflecting.
I just don't know what to do. He accounts for at least 1/3 of my income, but it's getting hard to bare. I know eventually, I'm just gonna have to block him from all social media & the site & be done with it, but at the same time it's hard to give up the easy nights of just sitting & talking for almost my entire shift. What's a cold-hearted bitch to do? lmao
I have a few guys who take me exclusive and we chat. They get it. I consider them friends - but, my "work friends". With that being said, I would never share my personal info with them. I would never add them to my personal FB. Be careful with who you share your personal information with. You must have a boundary between your customers and your personal friends. You don't ever want your worlds mixing. It's for your own safety (and sanity). Also, remember that big spenders never last forever. I'm not trying to bust your bubble. But, just keep that in the back of your mind. Always be prepared for the big spenders to jump ship one day. Be careful, sweety. :)