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Harleigh HellKat
06-02-2010, 11:24 AM
That's a good way to think of it! :D

_Avery_
06-02-2010, 11:25 AM
Lol, not at the time. She said drinking wine would make me look more classy. *rolls eyes*
(and not grabbing dick while lap dancing would make her more classy...lol)
I just smiled and told her that I'll drink what I like.
No point in arguing....lol
I always made it a point to have a beer in my hand everytime she saw me though. :)

Harleigh HellKat
06-02-2010, 11:41 AM
Hehe.

That's kinda like the red lipstick comment. Like seriously, ever heard of CLASSIC beauty? Hello, women were gorgeous loooong before spray tanner and chunky highlights were invented. Why don't you tell Scarlett Johanson that red lipstick is for prostitutes..? Or Gwen Stefani, Dita Von Teese, Katy Perry, Cate Blanchet...

Some men really like it when girls drink beer. It shows you can hang lol.

_Avery_
06-02-2010, 11:49 AM
I could never say anything like that to anyone. It's just being mean and rude. WTF is wrong with some people?
Just like girls who tell me I shouldn't dance because I'm a mom. This is coming from old " friends" who use to dance too and who now think they're better than that. Ugh hypocrites! That REALLY bugs me.

Harleigh HellKat
06-02-2010, 12:01 PM
Let's add a new one to the list: Ex dancers who think they are holier than thou!

I've ran into this too. It's annoying!

Dany
06-03-2010, 08:30 PM
I hate strippers who tell me my make up makes me look too young and demand i change it.


I loath strippers who think they own every regular to the club (these guys do get dances off several dancers but its hard to get near them when 1 or 2 think they own them, one guy who still messages me to ask when im next in said he stopped comin in due to dancers thinking they owned him)



These two FOR SURE!!! I had major issues with a girl getting pissed at me for sitting next to guy that "comes in to see her"...he texted her the day before, knew she wasn't there and came in anyway!!!!!! WTH!?!?!?! She went off on me in the dressing room, and me being the softie I am not wanting to hurt people, bawled my eyes out and made a total ass out of myself because I thought I might have cost her money (probably not really) I apologized and the bitch still wouldn't shut up... She tells me I need a boob job and that my makeup looks too young. I am 25 and men think I am 19-22 most of the time. WORKS FOR ME! It's ok though cuz one of my regulars saw me on the way out the door and realized I was crying...I just asked him for a hug. He gave me ALOT more ($$$$) and told me that this is temporary, and that he believes in me. He is an alumni of the school I am attending and that helped out alot. SO whatever I am doing I must be doing something right!

So in addition to the crazies, this job has blessed me with some pretty cool people too ;D

Dany
06-03-2010, 08:33 PM
I could never say anything like that to anyone. It's just being mean and rude. WTF is wrong with some people?
Just like girls who tell me I shouldn't dance because I'm a mom. This is coming from old " friends" who use to dance too and who now think they're better than that. Ugh hypocrites! That REALLY bugs me.


Ok I know I just posted, but this sounds EXACTLY like my situation!!!! WTF?!?!?! Some people ::)

mediocrity
06-03-2010, 08:45 PM
The baby oil and thick slathered on lotions some girl wear. UGH.

Thanks for the sprained ankles, assholes!

NREXM
06-03-2010, 09:40 PM
The only time I've been pissed off at other dancers is when I worked at a small club with only one bathroom from women (it was in the dressing room so only dancers could use it). I'd get so frustrated with dancers going in there to smoke/drink/talk because hey, there is only one fucking toilet and no one needs to wait some twenty minutes for your dumbass to finish.

Other than that, nothing bothers me. I don't notice what other dancers are doing since I'm looking at the customers and looking for ways to make money.

tempest666
06-03-2010, 10:47 PM
Crackheads, extras, religious hypocrites, and copycats.

I don't give a shit who hits the little glass pipe but don't occpy the lone stall when I have to piss like a racehorse smoking your rock.

I feel more sorry for extras girls. Dignity and self respect are not commodities that can be bought and sold. (I'm trying to believe this as I watch this little slut give a HJ in the adjacent VIP booth) I have my self respect and $200. She is a skank with no dignity and approx $500. :-(

Copycats: I know imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, but in my case, flattery will gain you naught.
BITCH YOU ARE NOT ME!!!!>:-( STOP BOGARTING MY STYLE!THIS IS SOMETHING I SPENT YEARS CULTIVATING! FIND YOUR OWN STYLE!

As for religious nuts...I had one inebriated dancer tell me I needed to accept Jesus Christ as my lord and savior because my hexagram tattoo was promoting Satanism. This while downing multiple shots of Patron and vomiting in her work bag..I was a good Samaritan and helped clean her up.
(Note: I dabbled in Satanism when I was 14 and gave it up after 2 weeks. It was mostly a bunch of hedonistic kids who needed to label their endless debauchery. I'm all for it, but don't slap a label on it)

J.D.
06-03-2010, 11:09 PM
When I worked in Vegas, I stayed at a house with two other dancers, and one was completely tatted, blonde dreadlocks, VERY alternative, danced to Combichrist, etc etc. and her boyfriend at the time was Stanton LaVey. He lived there too, with his two dogs. I didn't know anything about Satanism before I met him, and now I can honestly say every Satanist I've ever met has been a complete narcissistic prick. I don't think they actually worship Satan, but they worship themselves. He was constantly preaching about how the Jews were to blame for all the problems in the world, and all this other crazy crap, and he just though we all actually gave a damn about what he was saying, he had an air self importance I've never seen with anyone else. I am so glad she dumped that asshole!

Christany
06-03-2010, 11:25 PM
I don't think they actually worship Satan, but they worship themselves.

That has me thinking all chicken and egg like now. Which came first: the narcissist or Satan?

sunshine16
06-04-2010, 12:02 AM
The one thing that drives me INSANE is extras. I'm guessing that escorts/prostitutes/ make a hellll of a lot more money than dancers do, so WHY, why must you fuck up good clubs for clean dancers so that guys can expect whatever they want???? WHY. Take. It. Out. Of. The. Club.

Then there's the screaming in other languages in the dressing room..scratch that, screaming in any language-people don't know how to have a conversation in "talking voice" anymore. Oh and the screaming to they're talking to on the phone. Any person in any place who thinks he/she is better than you because of WHATEVER..no, you're not better than anyone , in fact, it brings DOWN your level of awesomeness when you look down upon others. (that goes for any staff that have been there a while, including bartenders) .

Ok, /rant lol. That's just what happens in my club. In general, I really just hate girls being fake, and lying. I ignore as much of it as possible, but damn, some days its just down right annoying.

girlfromipanema
06-04-2010, 07:48 AM
Spraying toxic fume Sally Hansen Airbrush legs all over one's body right next to my locker.

Being materialistic and putting a dollar amount on everything one owns to make one appear exclusive. "I wore my $900 dress and $3000 bag by Louis Vuitton and he bought a $500 blasay blasah." Shut up you are ignorant.

Being stupid. Europe isn't a country, and there isn't a booth in the Asian nail spa that will "suck the cancer cells right out of you." What a miraculous discovery. Read a book.

Cut throats. This is stripper no-no #1 and has potential dire consequences, yet some continue to do it at their own peril.

bluelight
06-05-2010, 03:05 AM
Bad taste!! Bad hair, cheap outfits, terrible fashion sense, wrong makeup, bad hustle. I would say most girls fall into one of these categories. The girls who don't happen to be in these categories are top earners.

Then I got over it and said to myself, "you're an island among these girls, and they only help make you more money". So, I'm over it. ;)

GlitterBexie
06-05-2010, 10:18 AM
It dossnt annoy me so much just a thing that i notice....labels in underwear that glows when on the pole/in blacklight. Ive always been a label-a-phobe but im completely nuts about it now! hehe. I cut them out of eeeverything! :D

Nasty girls who think theyre amazing, this doesnt neccesarily to just dancers though!

KS_Stevia
06-05-2010, 11:42 AM
I didn't know anything about Satanism before I met him, and now I can honestly say every Satanist I've ever met has been a complete narcissistic prick. I don't think they actually worship Satan, but they worship themselves. He was constantly preaching about how the Jews were to blame for all the problems in the world, and all this other crazy crap,

Yup, that is exactly the point of Satanism, self-worship, self-idolatry. Also, funny that Anton Levay was going off on the jews because he himself is a jew! Haha, self hate much? Prick.:-\

J.D.
06-06-2010, 12:30 AM
Yup, that is exactly the point of Satanism, self-worship, self-idolatry. Also, funny that Anton Levay was going off on the jews because he himself is a jew! Haha, self hate much? Prick.:-\

It's his grandson, Stanton LaVey, and yeah, he's like some skin head neo nazi or something, basically just an insecure kid spouting off ignorant shit about Hitler's master race and blah blah blah. I just added him on Facebook to see if he remembers me! :D

papillonluvr
06-06-2010, 06:00 PM
I hate girls who are underage and get totally wasted while at work, then start grinding on the guys lap while trying to hustle a dance while I am trying to work the rest of the group but her obnoxious drunk self is falling all over the place and can't even stand up correctly.

Harleigh HellKat
06-06-2010, 08:46 PM
Yes. This is annoying and trashy.

Corey
06-06-2010, 09:10 PM
I'm retired now but used to get REALLY annoyed when some girl would get the pole "yucked" up by touching themselves and then grabbing the pole (or putting their bare pussy on it) during their stage set. Gross. I am surprized that more people haven't mentioned this.

^ ^ ^ ^
I carry a little bottle of rubbing alcohol in my purse to make sure it's not an issue.

femmefatale88
06-06-2010, 09:24 PM
Girls who get annoyed by everything petty/stupid....Just ignore those little things you see.
But the bigest one is an "older" 30 year old stripper who thinks she knows how to work it better than the younguns and that we must be doing extras cuz we are young and naiive and that is why we are making more money (cuz of the extras. She goes like "these 21 year olds who are giving out blow jobs in the VIP rooms well they're gonna become mentally messed up later on in life". She doesn't understand that most of us don't do that shit and age doesn't discriminate against who does it and who doesn't. Also just cuz a girl is 21 doesn't mean she is naiive or can't make money. She was complaining that she didnt make money and she needs to get the ff outta this city. Well maybe its cuz you're fn old and ugly. Biatch,not cuz other girls are doing extras. I mean like she works on Sat nights when there are a lot of young guys what does she expect? She is a bit thick and her face looks old. She thinks she is the hottest shit ever.

K Sweet
06-06-2010, 10:25 PM
Aww we have some 30 year olds at my club who are SMOKIN! I don't really consider any of them old either. Sucks that this one is a bitch! I hate elitism.

I also really hate girls who just don't try at all.
One girl at my club will see a window open (we work at a peepshow), we'll all be entertaining other windows, and she'll just walk away from it. She also only dances to songs she likes. The only reason she hasn't been fired is because the club is closing and the stage manager is busy with other things.

Also, we have some girls who don't shave or some don't wear makeup. Then they complain about not making enough money in the private booth.

Vyanka
06-06-2010, 10:32 PM
Basically girls who get on my shit.... keep asking where I get my clothes, get your own damn style. Girls who accuse me of having a fake butt, & talk shit. lol. Cut throating rude ass bitches who clearly see me with a customer & try to snag him.

Other than that, I mind my own business & don't pay attention to ppl.

rusdancer
06-07-2010, 08:20 AM
How about the ones who constantly use the "pity me,poor me" hustle,or always fish for compliments:"I'm so ugly/fat,etc"...can't stand that shit.Or ones who watch closely how and where you make money,go straight over there the minute you leave for something,then go out of their way to get the guy's money,while pushing you out of the way,when you're back,including offering extras,but acting like your best friend in the back,when you've never been friends?...hate that shit.
Also,can't stand overly nosey ones and ones who thing they crap doesn't stink (better than anyone else).
And,of course,the two-faced ones! Say one thing to your face,then badmouth as soon as your back is turned.

Harleigh HellKat
06-07-2010, 09:37 AM
^Yeah I hate the pity hustle girls. 'I got 10 kids a crack habit and an abusive baby daddy'. Wahhh! I never tell my custie my personal problems.

_Avery_
06-07-2010, 11:30 AM
Have another one:
Girls who change their tampon in front of the whole dressing room. Maybe I'm just modest, but I think that's something that should be done in private because I really don't wanna see your bloody tampon. *shudders*

Harleigh HellKat
06-07-2010, 01:42 PM
Or, better yet... girls that leave their bloody tampons an applicators all over the dressing room, VIP, bathroom etc. That's what trash cans are for.

At one club the DJ was cleaning up and pulled the VIP couches out. It was not a pretty sight. Women are nasty sometimes.

_Avery_
06-07-2010, 02:23 PM
I just threw up in my mouth a little.

Harleigh HellKat
06-07-2010, 02:39 PM
Yeah I had no clue how nasty females are until I became a stripper.

kellyallstar
06-07-2010, 03:05 PM
theives, backstabbers, snobs. anything else to do with dancing can just be amusement for me on a bad night :) Looks dont bother me, coz who really knows what the crowd is into that night, theres a look for everyone. Ummm what else.... OH bitches who do extras....screw you! just become hookers...like seriously...nothing wrong with hookers either, but shit...let us who hustle and entertain get them goin so they can go see you's later. just sayin.

_Avery_
06-07-2010, 03:20 PM
Yeah I had no clue how nasty females are until I became a stripper.

LoL, really! My husband said he'd never get a lap dance again after hearing some of the stories.

joyount
06-10-2010, 04:31 AM
ALL of the above mentioned plus the dreaded BUNNY HOP!!! When a girl jumps up and down like a bunny to make her ass jiggle.
Yeah well I think that nice and exciting.,.,thanks.,.that would be great!!!

hot4ablackchick
06-10-2010, 02:42 PM
^^When are you going to contribute something that makes sense??^^

Anyway, its been mentioned, but I hate the non toe pointers too. So tacky!

I hate the new girls who try to jump on the pole when they have only been dancing for a week. Get used to walking in the shoes, master the simple moves, and then try some pole tricks. They just end up looking jerky and stupid on the pole. If you look like your struggling, don't do it in front of a big audience at least!

Girls who wear clothes that are torn, raggedy, or in just poor condition. Invest in nice things, and replace when necessary. Girls who never seem to wash their clothes.

I hate the 'campers,' and the tiprail whores as well. Be respectful and stay out of the tiprail unless their are no other options. Don't sit on the guys lap and 'block' his veiw from the stage or turn your back to the stage. If I sit at the tiprail, I always sit beside him and encourage tipping.

Girls who wear clothes that don't flatter them. Just because its cute, doesn't mean its for you.

Girls who chew their gum obnoxiously or loudly pop their gum while out on the floor.

Girls who always seem to need to borrow something. I always come prepared, and its very rare that I need to borrow anything. Girls need to do the same thing.

DesuvsDeath
06-10-2010, 03:32 PM
When some bitch sits in front of my shit in the dressing room.
There's open space elsewhere... I don't give a FUCK if that's your friend next to me. Get out from in front of my bag you rude little skank.

When a dancer has a problem with you... and has to get EVERYONE IN THE WORLD to have a problem with you as well.

When other dancers touch/move my stuff. Like they NEED to be sitting exactly where you're sitting...
If the club doesn't have ASSIGNED counter space... I'm not in YOUR spot... and YOU can fuck yourself.

I hate when girls take forever picking up their HANDFUL of tips... But even more... when THEY get mad that you come out on stage when they're STILL picking up tips halfway through your first song.


Girls who can't dance... who try to teach other girls how to dance.


Oh. And girls who can't dance... so they do that stupid "Lol. I'm so fun/funny. Look how I'm fucking around and not aking this seriously at all and TRYING to look stupid! Aren't I great!" thing...

Goddess702
06-16-2010, 01:27 PM
I hate the ones that give everything for much of nothing. Strippers that don't give a crap about how they look. Don't even try!!! Huge but still order pizza and junk food. Nobody comes to a strip club to see fat girls!!

sananeko
06-16-2010, 02:02 PM
I hate the ones that give everything for much of nothing. Strippers that don't give a crap about how they look. Don't even try!!! Huge but still order pizza and junk food. Nobody comes to a strip club to see fat girls!!
you never been to a chubby chasers strip club...

SerenaSin
06-16-2010, 04:47 PM
Girls who get annoyed by everything petty/stupid....Just ignore those little things you see.
But the bigest one is an "older" 30 year old stripper who thinks she knows how to work it better than the younguns and that we must be doing extras cuz we are young and naiive and that is why we are making more money (cuz of the extras. She goes like "these 21 year olds who are giving out blow jobs in the VIP rooms well they're gonna become mentally messed up later on in life". She doesn't understand that most of us don't do that shit and age doesn't discriminate against who does it and who doesn't. Also just cuz a girl is 21 doesn't mean she is naiive or can't make money. She was complaining that she didnt make money and she needs to get the ff outta this city. Well maybe its cuz you're fn old and ugly. Biatch,not cuz other girls are doing extras. I mean like she works on Sat nights when there are a lot of young guys what does she expect? She is a bit thick and her face looks old. She thinks she is the hottest shit ever.

Ironically, some of the nastiest girls I've worked with have been "older" (I don't consider 30 "older", I'm talking 40's, 50's, even 60's). Especially the ones who look their age or older, from decades of spray-tanning and drug/alcohol use. That's why it surprises me to read on this site that the stereotype is that younger girls are overwhelmingly nastier.

Really I think age isn't a significant factor in whether or not a dancer will be willing to do extras, or do them for cheap/the price of a regular dance, or whatever.

SerenaSin
06-16-2010, 05:09 PM
I am not getting into any other girl's business here, I don't let the little things get to me; however, the following girls HURT business as a whole:



-Girls who whine and complain to customers about all their weird health problems, 10 kids, money issues, lazy boyfriends, busted-ass cars, and every other dramatic detail that customers DON'T CARE ABOUT. Get a real friend to listen to your problems, and let the SC be an escape for the customers, so that they will unwind and their wallets will open up.

-Girls who walk up to random customers they don't know and grab their dicks (guys COMPLAIN about this to me because they may not be into the girl and feel weird being groped by some lady theyre not attracted to or even know the name of!)

-Girls who walk up to the table where I'm sitting w/ a customer, plop on his lap or sit beside him without being invited (and he and I are too polite to send her packing), and start chatting the guy up, totally derailing my conversation w/ him and killing the mood we were creating together that was going to lead into my closing line for a dance sale. (when she eventually leaves the guy usually turns to me and remarks about how rude she is)

-Girls who make customers say "Sorry, I need to leave before that crazy/pushy/annoying chick comes back" or "I'm trying to avoid that dancer over there, last time I was here she would not stop pushing me for money and I finally bought a dance just to shut her up"

-Girls who sit w/ a customer and shit-talk every single girl who goes on stage, one by one... this is not American Idol and you are not Simon Cowell. Get more creative, have some fun in your life, and you will have something POSITIVE and INTERESTING to talk to customers about, instead of trying to make us (including your petty, gossipy-ass) look bad

-Girls who basically work for drinks. No, we don't get drink commission at my club. Don't sit with a guy for two hours who isn't tipping anyone or buying any dances, just cuz he's getting you drunk. And on that note...

-Girls who force guys to buy them drinks, when the guy would've maybe spent that $$ on tips or dances. If you really wanna just "work for alcohol", there's a tactful way of doing it, most men will buy a lady a drink if he's having one and she's sitting there entertaining him.


It's just that... the economy is so shitty, it's the off-season, I work dayshift and there's just so FEW customers, let's actually get them to loosen up and have a fun time without sending them running for the hills, shall we? :)

wanderlust08
06-16-2010, 05:35 PM
Strippers who try to make you over like their little Barbie doll. (no, I don't want to wear your yellow racing catsuit that gives me a cameltoe...and you're 3 sizes bigger than me!!!)

And, on the flipside, girls who want you to do it to THEM. I used to always have girls asking me to help them with makeup at my last club..

When it was slow or one of my friends I'd oblige, but not on Friday night, I don't have time to straighten your hair and mine and apply all your makeup AND mine!

Harleigh HellKat
06-16-2010, 07:08 PM
Once I was trying to close a dance sale and a coked up waitress ruined it for me. She came over and started blabbering about all her drama 90 miles an hour and shit. For like 15 minutes. The guy left shortly after.

Harleigh HellKat
06-16-2010, 07:10 PM
Aaaand if you want free drinks, take your ass to the bar. Alcohol doesn't pay bills.

Dany
06-16-2010, 10:01 PM
I can't stand how some of the girls are so negative! That just drives me crazy! :p

DesuvsDeath
06-16-2010, 10:31 PM
-Girls who make customers say "Sorry, I need to leave before that crazy/pushy/annoying chick comes back" or "I'm trying to avoid that dancer over there, last time I was here she would not stop pushing me for money and I finally bought a dance just to shut her up"
God. I saw this happen one night... I spent my whole shift in and out of the CR with a custie... one of his friends kept coming by whenever we weren't in the room trying to figure out where their THIRD friend was... About an hour before close... they finally found him... he was hiding outside because "some crazy girl kept trying to suck his dick". /facepalm

The worst part was... the kid had money. WANTED to spend it... but couldn't sit inside because some girl kept trying to get him to buy a CR with the promise of sucking his dick. And WOULD NOT leave him alone.

rubyredlipsss
06-16-2010, 11:59 PM
^im assuming this was in la? Pretty much all that was mentioned drives me crazy. I have a reaallly short temper and almost lost it when I was with my hustle buddy and this crackhead came over and told me to get up and go talk to some random guy. I just sat there in pretty much in shock. And I also hate the girls who put their shit where yours is. I had a girl give me the worst attitude who came in and put all her shit in front of mine and when i asked her nicely if she could move her 400 suitcases so I could get into my makeup bag I got the look as if hell froze over and I asked her to lift a thousand pounds for me.

mia_fey
06-17-2010, 06:19 AM
Dancers that walk like Clydesdales in their heels. Like nails on a chalkboard for me.

Harleigh HellKat
06-17-2010, 08:59 AM
^^Hey look, it's misses Ed!! Neeeiiiiigh!!

Awww she so pretty, wanna carrot girl? :D

I would have to say that the personal life drama is my biggest pet peeve out of anything. Because it hurts MY money when other dancers/wait staff come over and talk about their crack babies and which bitch dey gon fight. It goes against every sales/customer service training I've ever had, not to mention common fucking sense.

girlundressed
06-17-2010, 09:10 AM
Extras girls annoy me of course, but what drives me up the fucking wall, is when they loudly complain about it while pretending that they're clean.

This one girl was really dirty and we had tons of customers who thought they were either dating her or engaged to her (ring and everything). She used to come to the dressing room all the time and loudly whine about how silly these guys were and how annoying it was that they were obsessed with her. She'd promise to go home with them and then tell the bouncer on her way out that they were trying to follow her and she was scared.

You can be a nasty ass bitch for all I care, but own up to who you are. Don't try to make me listen to your pathetic lies.

Harleigh HellKat
06-17-2010, 09:18 AM
It reminds me of a girl at my home club that was like 'I'm not a prostitute or anything but sometimes for like 100 bucks...' Yeahhhhhhhh. She was dumb as hell anyway. Like, should have been a blonde.

crystalize
06-19-2010, 12:17 PM
did we say girls who steal my style yet?? urrghh how can they? oh and of course dick grabbing