View Full Version : What are some things that drive you crazy about other strippers?
xGigi
11-10-2010, 12:31 PM
steal your moves? aren't you a newbie?
I'm new but I know how to work it lol. I've been to a few different clubs and girls have taught me some floorwork the girls at my main club don't do. I have a pretty good stage routine and my pole tricks are flawless.
xGigi
11-10-2010, 12:35 PM
This one alleged newbie came in and totally blew me away....she could fucking move.....she claims she's been watching alot of youtube. I was like DAMN!!!
one of the girls at my club was like "DAMN" when she saw me on stage the first time lol. I get asked a lot if I took dancing classes and I never have I just kinda do what comes naturally and I practice a LOT. any time i want to do a new move I try it at home FIRST before I go on stage.
so yeah I am paranoid of girls trying to steal my moves. I'm a new dancer but that doesn't mean I suck
miss1dancypants
11-10-2010, 07:00 PM
I'm a new dancer but that doesn't mean I suck
EXACTLY!!! i hated how when i first started and was making bank all of the older girls were like "oh its new girl money, don't get used to it".... and its been 6 months and i'm STILL blowing them out of the water--to the point where a few have quit because they couldn't make any money since i got requested so much and when i did parties with other girls the guys wanted dances from me instead.
NOT MY FAULT!! that's what i hate about some strippers... "oh new girl money" "i've been dancing for 7 years and you better listen to me, i've seen it all" "watch your back, i'm the top earner" blah blah blah
MAYBE I'M JUST BETTER THAN YOU!!
they just need to mind their own business and worry about themselves... if they were happy with how they were doing they wouldn't need to worry about me...
sorry.... that was kind of a rant... but yeah that's what i hate about some strippers.... lol
missplayful
11-10-2010, 09:59 PM
I absolutly dont like one particular veteran dancer.She has been workin long time still evey 30 second she wanna borrow sometin. Baby wipes,eye shadow,hair sprey,cigarette, 5 $ or what else body sprey or fragrance...i only been workin for one month if i can afford to buy those things and not forget every shift u should better do same thing bitch... i am totally angry. same girl also did not move out of my stage set she was keep dancin. I had to poke her and tell her its my turn. I understand if someone tippin u i can wait lil bit do your shit than get the fuck out.My song almost ended because of her .. She pissed of because she was makin money from b-day party group thats not my problem!
renaissancelove
11-11-2010, 01:26 PM
Girls that CONSTANTLY bitch in the locker room about how slow it is or how they haven't had a single lapdance all night long.
Stop complaining and DO SOMETHING. Or go home. Or stop dancing.
Kinda harsh, but it's how I feel!
Cherie
11-11-2010, 03:43 PM
They CAN be a bunch of BACKSTABBING BITCHES!
xGigi
11-12-2010, 12:12 PM
Girls that CONSTANTLY bitch in the locker room about how slow it is or how they haven't had a single lapdance all night long.
Stop complaining and DO SOMETHING. Or go home. Or stop dancing.
Kinda harsh, but it's how I feel!
I'm guilty of doing this but I do it when I'm in a bad mood and don't need the money that bad. If I'm short on cash I make myself happy and do my best. What pisses me off is the girls who say I need 500 for rent tonight and then sit on their ass all night lol i know that if I don't make money it's my own damn fault
azaleanola
11-12-2010, 07:36 PM
Lately what's really been bugging me is when the girls who stand in the doorway to lure guys in from the street act like they're trying to repel them. Smoking cigarettes, chewing gum, shouting in nonstandard English, etc. Middle class customers want a girl who knows how to pretend to be middle class! Smoke/chew gum/shout anywhere but the entrance, please!
Purrfect
11-12-2010, 08:56 PM
Girls that CONSTANTLY bitch in the locker room about how slow it is or how they haven't had a single lapdance all night long.
Stop complaining and DO SOMETHING. Or go home. Or stop dancing.
Kinda harsh, but it's how I feel!
Exactly. I'm in the DR is when I'm either about to go on the stage or I've just got off the stage.. or when I eat something. I avoid it as much as possible because of the constant bitching and negative atmosphere. I really don't get it why some girls spend like 2 hours dolling themselves up and then never actually get on the floor. What are they waiting for, someone to see them through the wall and beg them for a lap dance? And then they whinge "There's no money out there, it's sooo crap" blah blah blah..
DesuvsDeath
11-12-2010, 09:14 PM
When there's some poor new girl who doesn't know much about styling hair/makeup... and it's always the girl who knows THE LEAST about doing those things who decides to go over and help.
The result is always some poor girl with fucked up eyeliner and bright blue eye shadow and greasy (because they always insist that oil will make it look good) not actually even straight hair after an hour of makeup/straightening.
Aslinn
11-13-2010, 01:58 AM
When I'm on stage and freaking girls come up and tell me do pole tricks I'm just like "bitch I have only been danceing a week it ain't happening". If there was no one in there I would be okay but they do it infront of costumers. Then I get pity tips! My biggest pet peeve is when another dancer steals my customer, unless your incredibly drunk don't freaking come up to him when I'm at the bar getting some drinks. I honestly make 200 dollars less by girls that swoop in mid sell and I'm off getting them a vip band. Then they talk smack in the dressing room. *sorry I went into rant mode this happened tonight*.
AmyLynne
11-13-2010, 03:57 PM
its why I dont care about anything but the money. new girls should learn to just focus on their needs.
xGigi
11-17-2010, 02:16 PM
When I'm on stage and freaking girls come up and tell me do pole tricks I'm just like "bitch I have only been danceing a week it ain't happening". If there was no one in there I would be okay but they do it infront of costumers. Then I get pity tips! My biggest pet peeve is when another dancer steals my customer, unless your incredibly drunk don't freaking come up to him when I'm at the bar getting some drinks. I honestly make 200 dollars less by girls that swoop in mid sell and I'm off getting them a vip band. Then they talk smack in the dressing room. *sorry I went into rant mode this happened tonight*.
I noticed that at my club a lot of girls do the whole "do a pole trick!" to embarrass the new girls. if the girl is doing a good job on stage they want to make her look dumb in front of the customer. it's really bitchy and obnoxious. half the girls at my club can't even do pole tricks.
DesuvsDeath
11-17-2010, 03:12 PM
When girls who make less money than me try and tell me how to make money.
xGigi
11-17-2010, 03:18 PM
^or when CUSTOMERS tell you how to make money! that shit drives me insane. male or female I don't give a fuck if you've never danced you cannot tell me what will work
DesuvsDeath
11-17-2010, 03:27 PM
^or when CUSTOMERS tell you how to make money! that shit drives me insane. male or female I don't give a fuck if you've never danced you cannot tell me what will work
It's always stupid fucking advice, too. Like... you'd make so much more money if you wore pink or wore your glasses or wore socks. Lol.
xGigi
11-17-2010, 03:31 PM
LOL customers always tell me what kind of MUSIC I should dance to. "you'll make soooooo much money if you pick this song. it's so hot now! customers will LOVE it"
and I'm like "really? ...no kidding..."
goreantx
11-17-2010, 06:02 PM
Girls that make 2k+ in VIP and get together in the dressing room and talk about how they are all going to so and so's apartment to buy a ton of drugs and get way high. Especially since earlier in the night one of them always is the "I need to pay my mortgage tonight!" girl. If you make 2k in one night, 1900 of that better go in savings, ffs.
Lacy Luck
11-17-2010, 06:35 PM
Chain smoking in the dressing room. Get out and at least try to work FFS.
Girls with breakouts on their bottoms who sit bare-assed on the benches. I understand that on the floor, we are all sittin on the same chairs and laps... But on a wooden bench in the locker room... ugh.
anouk.oui
11-17-2010, 06:59 PM
when new girls strut around acting like they own the joint especially if your club already has a nice unspoken etiquette and new girls try cut veteran dancers off and take their customers then bitch about not making enough money or bragging about having an amazing night. youre just lucky the house girls are too nice to kick your rude newbie ass
she sells sanctuary
11-18-2010, 02:07 AM
When girls who make less money than me try and tell me how to make money.
eh. it's possible that they really could give good advice sometimes. when i was really heavy, i wasn't making good money, but that didn't mean i didn't know how to. i just didn't appeal to very many custies. but then, i also never volunteered advice to anybody. lol.
my gripe: extras girls who give clean girls advice. like yeah, it's the way you say hello that closes your sales, not the fact that shortly after you say hello, you offer a blowjob, huh?
or really stunning girls who tell eh looking girls that they should be more confident. stunning girl, your confidence is nice, but confidence alone is not the reason you make so much money.
oh, and for dumb customer advice...one time i was wearing a thong under a semi-see-through and very short dress. custie and i talk, he turns down a dance. he tells me i'd make more money if i was willing to take the thong off, because he assumed that it stayed on all the time. when i told him it came off during dances and when i went onstage, he got all excited and changed his mind about getting a dance, but i just walked away because he had annoyed me too much. it was a nude club. what a fucking idiot.
xGigi
11-18-2010, 12:04 PM
Girls that make 2k+ in VIP and get together in the dressing room and talk about how they are all going to so and so's apartment to buy a ton of drugs and get way high. Especially since earlier in the night one of them always is the "I need to pay my mortgage tonight!" girl. If you make 2k in one night, 1900 of that better go in savings, ffs.
Poor money management is my all time biggest pet peeve about dancers. If you make over even 100 a night you can fucking support yourself pay your bills AND do drugs! I swear! There are people who live off 300 dollars a week so if you make that in a night you can fucking budget. I hate girls who make mad money and "can't afford" cigarettes and baby wipes or food or outfits. One girl at the last club I worked at was begging me for 400 dollars to pay rent and I told her to fuck off. I pay for my own shit so can you.
tempest666
11-18-2010, 12:13 PM
when new girls strut around acting like they own the joint especially if your club already has a nice unspoken etiquette and new girls try cut veteran dancers off and take their customers then bitch about not making enough money or bragging about having an amazing night. youre just lucky the house girls are too nice to kick your rude newbie ass
Or these little newbie putas with their pinche wal mart underwear, pinche payless shoes hopping around on stage looking like pendejas. Jajajajajajajaja
I'm not too nice to kick their pinche newbie ass. }:D
she sells sanctuary
11-18-2010, 01:37 PM
Poor money management is my all time biggest pet peeve about dancers. If you make over even 100 a night you can fucking support yourself pay your bills AND do drugs! I swear! There are people who live off 300 dollars a week so if you make that in a night you can fucking budget. I hate girls who make mad money and "can't afford" cigarettes and baby wipes or food or outfits. One girl at the last club I worked at was begging me for 400 dollars to pay rent and I told her to fuck off. I pay for my own shit so can you.
a lot of people have no idea how money works, especially girls, because their parents never taught them any practical real life skills. hell, my 2nd cousin grew up a short walk from the governor's mansion and went to the best private school in montgomery and is attending a good college, but when we were playing a trivia game she couldn't come up with a clue for nasdaq because she didn't know what it was. and she had access to that kind of information. imagine all the people who are raised by people who also don't know about money. do you know that there are people who don't use banks. they cash their checks at a check cashing place, then pay a fee at the same place to pay their bills through it. and they don't know any different. then they shop at discount stores that really cost as much or sometimes more as regular stores, but they don't know it because they just assume that they can't afford to even step foot in the normal stores. now, if those same people are hot and female, they often become the type of strippers who make bank and struggle to pay their rent.
girls like that are why pimps are so abundant in this industry. because some girls really are better off handing their money over to someone else. they just can't understand how to manage it themselves.
xGigi
11-18-2010, 02:54 PM
My parents never taught me budgeting and I can budget extremely well. I can buy a weeks worth of groceries for 20 bucks. My dad filed for partial bankruptcy last year and full bankruptcy a few weeks ago. I'm not the brightest crayon in the box but if my rent cost 700 dollars and I had 1000 bucks I wouldn't buy an 8 ball and a new laptop on the first of the month. I see so many girls put themselves in situations where they're practically homeless yet making 6 figures. A girl I know makes 500-2000 EVERY NIGHT and got evicted from her cheap studio apartment for being late on rent. Just being around girls that moronic makes me sick.
DesuvsDeath
11-18-2010, 03:56 PM
^^^The ones that really bother me are the ones that blow money out of ingorance.
When I was working in COSprings... my first apartment was $325 A MONTH... but I was working with 2-3 girls who were living in hotels paying $250 A WEEK because they honestly thought they couldn't afford to live in an apartment.
Like... REALLY? Have you never even ASKED about an apartment in this city?
One of the girls I worked with was paying 1k a month to live in a shitty motel, and had no car (but payed $40 a day to get to work and back via taxi) and almost no material possesions (maybe 4-5 regular sets of clothes and 4-5 work outfits, a handful of fake jewelry and a few books. That was LITERALLY it.)... but she seriously left with no less than $2-300... and worked five days a week.
$1000-1500 a week... and you can't even afford to buy a car? HOW?!?!?
xGigi
11-19-2010, 07:59 AM
that sounds like a girl at my club. she's CONSTANTLY begging for rides because the taxi completely rips her off and she makes decent money. she also pays twice as much as I do for rent. I mean, I'm sure it's nice getting your bed made everyday but I'd pick an apartment over some shitty motel any day lol. she doesn't have a phone either. not even a prepaid one. she asks to use my phone constantly and I'm like "you REALLY can't afford ten fucking dollars a month
Ana Paula
11-19-2010, 02:36 PM
What drives me crazy about strippers:
Girls interrogating me about how much money I make when they don't even know me. Asking me: are you doing well? how much did you make tonight?
Girls asking me to borrow my flat iron or brush. Sorry I dont want lice...
Girls with sores (from drugs) all over their face and body touching, sitting everywhere in the dressing room. Those sores are fresh and have stuff coming out of them. YUCK!
she sells sanctuary
11-21-2010, 02:27 PM
nevermind
sunnyskys
11-21-2010, 07:33 PM
Girls that are always talking about how hot they are....but they aren't actually that hot. Bitch, look in a mirror every once in awhile!
natyempress
11-21-2010, 08:08 PM
Girls who fight over dumb shit. Seriously its something new going on evey week. So while there fighting in the dressing room, and the stupid bitches watching and egging them on. I'm taking over the new customers wallets and counting the 100's.
teaze
11-21-2010, 08:22 PM
.............
she sells sanctuary
11-22-2010, 02:58 AM
^ i've never taken those sorts of things as insults. usually other girls are just curious about new girls. it's not a big deal.
i'm not looking for friends either, but there's nothing wrong with being friendly.
xGigi
11-22-2010, 09:33 AM
it drives me crazy when the girl I'm paired up on stage with just clings to the pole when no one is tipping. our stage only has one pole so if she's hovering around it I can't do any pole tricks to grab the customers' attention.
blondhottie
11-22-2010, 11:51 AM
What irked me the most when dancing:
-Catty girls
-Girls who stare at you in the dressing room
-Girls who mooch off of everybody
-Girls who are always late for work and meanwhile the ones who are on time have to go on stage every 30 minutes
-Skinny strippers always bitching about how fat they are
Otoki
11-28-2010, 11:07 PM
When girls get all hurt or cry every fucking shift. Harden the fuck up or get the fuck out of this job. Jesus.
Flickdreams
11-29-2010, 08:46 AM
And don't spend half of MY song cleaning up YOUR tips. .
SO true
xGigi
11-29-2010, 09:36 AM
^that one drives me NUTS. I put my tips in my garter to avoid having to do this. I refuse to dance while there's a girl crawling all over the floor wiping her tips into a big pile and then sitting in the MIDDLE of the stage organizing them. there's one girl in particular who does very well on stage (I have no idea why, she really sucks at dancing) and she always makes a big show of how much money she made by taking a longgggggg time to collect her tips. I want to kick her in the head.
I hate it when some bitch tries to steal my money, lighter, makeup, or whatever and when I say something to her about it she acts all innocent. I don't leave my shit out without watching it. don't be like "oh oops! hehe" when I see you pick up the money that's next to MY bag. can't trust any of these bitches.
when girls don't flush the toilet in the dressing room bathroom. REALLY? you're that nasty? even if it's just piss in there, I don't want to have to look at it.
girls who puke in the trash in the dressing room. great I get to smell that all night.
girls who tell me I should get my nails done every single day. bitch please. I make the same amount of money with or without hooker nails. I don't want to worry about going to get a fill every week. a guy doesn't care if it's polish or plastic. how often do you come across a guy with a nail fetish? I never have.
extras girls who work 7 days a week. give it a rest already! you make 3 times as much as everyone else.
kaiarose
11-29-2010, 06:17 PM
Dancers that act all high and mighty, like to make everyone think they are perfect and do no wrong and live by the "stripper handbook" yet in reality they are the ones doing little extras here or there, underselling (alllll the time) and doing all the things they preach to everyone else not to do.
Flickdreams
11-30-2010, 01:46 AM
And so much oil or lotion that it makes you fall on stage,and greases up the pole its dangerous.Francinista
ask them to use nivea lotion, its very light on the skin
Flickdreams
11-30-2010, 01:58 AM
extras girls who work 7 days a week. give it a rest already! you make 3 times as much as everyone else.
::) the same type that gets nasty when other girls start making money too
Athenathefabulous
11-30-2010, 05:56 PM
^that one drives me NUTS. I put my tips in my garter to avoid having to do this. I refuse to dance while there's a girl crawling all over the floor wiping her tips into a big pile and then sitting in the MIDDLE of the stage organizing them. there's one girl in particular who does very well on stage (I have no idea why, she really sucks at dancing) and she always makes a big show of how much money she made by taking a longgggggg time to collect her tips. I want to kick her in the head.
if its a regular thing i DO threaten to kick them in the head.
usually i do a spin with my legs far enough out to worry them. its rude, but they get the message and hurry up.
one of my least favorites is when my song is called and they still work for that dollar. so when im on stage instead of just accepting the dollar a customer has for them, they insist on working hard for it, and doing a hand stand so their crotch ends up in the customers face or something. this bugs me enough anyway, but when its my turn to be on stage and they do it, i get really mad.
again, a spin around the pole with legs far out to scare them off. }:D
Vyanka
11-30-2010, 06:32 PM
Or these little newbie putas with their pinche wal mart underwear, pinche payless shoes hopping around on stage looking like pendejas. Jajajajajajajaja
I'm not too nice to kick their pinche newbie ass. }:D
Haaa... pendejas. :D
anouk.oui
11-30-2010, 07:30 PM
Dancers that act all high and mighty, like to make everyone think they are perfect and do no wrong and live by the "stripper handbook" yet in reality they are the ones doing little extras here or there, underselling (alllll the time) and doing all the things they preach to everyone else not to do.
i knew an older dancer who invested, owned properties, bragged about her compasion and integrity and constantly policed the change room over every little thing. then i find out she only gets vips becuse she sells the custys coke in there. even stupdity or lack of stripper supplies dont bother quite like her hypocrisy
xGigi
12-02-2010, 08:45 PM
when I'm sitting in the dressing room because I'm just not in the mood to hustle and the other dancers come up to me trying to drag me out onto the floor I get reeeally pissed. if I'm not in the mood, I'm not in the mood. I'll just cut my losses and spend the rest of the night avoiding people that give me a headache aka customers. I don't regret it the next day either. I'm not going to hustle anyone when I'm feeling burnt out. I end up bitching out the customers and wasting my time. if I want to zone out in the dressing room for a few hour LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE. you should be glad I'm not out there, more money for you right?
DesuvsDeath
12-02-2010, 08:50 PM
Girls who don't make money... who think that everyone who makes money does extras.
Lillionaire
12-04-2010, 01:59 AM
honestly i dont really like other strippers at all. i know the club would probably suck if i were the only dancer in the building, but a lot of the time i wish i didn't have to see or hear any of those other faces in there. They are pretty much almost ALWAYS an annoyance to me.
1. I don't like to see them
2. I don't like to hear them
3. I don't like to smell them
4. As much as I like girls/women, I don't like to touch other strippers
5. And I don't, don't, don't want to taste them, AT ALL.
So seriously, that's it. I want them out of my way, AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.