View Full Version : No Sex in the Champagne Room...or the bedroom...or the living room...or anywhere!!!
Harleigh HellKat
06-18-2010, 01:53 AM
Ditto. Even while making a yucky hamburger face lol.
jack0177057
06-18-2010, 05:24 PM
Wanderlust - There is a clear concensus here - Drop the douchebag! Do it now! Do not think about it any more.
Seriously, I hope you find someone new who cares enough about you to visit you when you're sick.
Oh, and I lied about being his friend... I wouldn't be friends with a jerk like that.
kthnx
06-18-2010, 08:20 PM
my experience has shown that if ur gut tells u he's b.s.ing you and cheating on you, ur gut is probably right. even if there appears to be a more "logical" explanation, e.g. the military or posttramatic stress thing.
i dated someone alot like this current bf of yours so i recognize alotta the signs - suddenly stop visiting, no more sex, u spending money on him but him not reciprocating, suspicions of cheating (turned out true with the guy i was seein), etc
After I sleep with someone else.
I've never cheated before, but dammit, this is war. I'm pretty sure he's cheating on me, so bring it.
yes! this made me smile when i read it. i actually like this idea. like u, im pretty much against cheating EXCEPT in the event that its revenge for someone cheating first. ive had the same exact thoughts before about the ex i told u who reminds me of ur current bf. go do it! i think the "hippie friend with the 8.5" dick" is a great idea...now that its been a few days since u posted that tidbit of info, hows that goin, did u hook up with him yet? and if u havent hooked up with anyone yet, do it and do it SOON. with a flake like ur current negligent bf, u dont want to wait and find out that hes been "gettin lucky" this whole time youve been celibate or (trust me) youll feel like a total ass. the sooner, the better. and even if he isnt realy cheating on you, he still kinda deserves it for the way hes been ignoring and treating you...esp the part about not seeing you while youre sick with kidney disease wtf?
u deserve better, girl! just promise youll fuck someone hot very soon and then dump this loser asap after the new fling!
hockeybobby
06-18-2010, 08:34 PM
http://bradseatonsmith.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/loser.jpg
wanderlust08
06-18-2010, 08:40 PM
So I guess that whole not talking to him for a week and then dumping him thing didn't work out huh? Maybe he just wanted to see if you'd jump at the first bone he threw you, which you did.
First bone??? Are you fucking kidding me? I told him when he wanted to come over the other day I didn't care. He didn't. I don't fucking care. I told him I didn't care if he came over yesterday, he didn't, I DON'T FUCKING CARE.
I swear to god, you people and your fucking attitudes. Change your tampon and have a fucking drink!
Harleigh HellKat
06-18-2010, 08:43 PM
There does seem to be some tude on here lately... maybe we're all PMSing? SW ladies are in sync. :D But some of the guys are doin it too, so that can't be it. -_-
hockeybobby
06-18-2010, 08:44 PM
uh oh....we just went to def con 4 on the drama meter.
kthnx
06-18-2010, 09:13 PM
There does seem to be some tude on here lately... maybe we're all PMSing? SW ladies are in sync. :D But some of the guys are doin it too, so that can't be it. -_-
guys get pms too, ive noticed it with many of my guy friends and male coworkers before...comes almost ona monthly basis too it seems...its not fun to be around and can be even worse than female pms :sad face:
Harleigh HellKat
06-18-2010, 11:22 PM
True... I didn't find that out til recently, and supposedly they go through 'the change' as well. I also just found out you can have a QUARTER life crisis. At like 25. I wonder if people go through a 3/4 life crisis lol. :D
Anyway... sorry for the threadjack. So ummmm, how bout that original topic?
malayataylor
06-19-2010, 07:17 AM
Oh geez....
princessjas
06-19-2010, 07:24 AM
uh oh....we just went to def con 4 on the drama meter.
:rotfl:
wanderlust08
06-20-2010, 11:12 AM
ANYWAY, since this is MY thread, without any little "side comments" and "lols" and random ass emoticons from the peanut gallery....
Update.
We broke up yesterday. It's done.
Well, not completely, he's posting all over facebook like a little bitch whining about me...
...and posting BIBLE VERSES on my page. Yes, BIBLE VERSES.
malayataylor
06-20-2010, 11:24 AM
ANYWAY, since this is MY thread, without any little "side comments" and "lols" and random ass emoticons from the peanut gallery....
Update.
We broke up yesterday. It's done.
Well, not completely, he's posting all over facebook like a little bitch whining about me...
...and posting BIBLE VERSES on my page. Yes, BIBLE VERSES.
I meant to text you last night when I got home. .. UGH. It's just a bit shocking how everything played out. I'm so sorry. He was a fucking loser anyway.
wanderlust08
06-20-2010, 11:27 AM
He wrote THIS on my facebook page, after my mom quoted some bible verse about "mean people"...
"My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by him; For whom the Lord loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives. If you endure chastening , God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?"
So...I don't get it. Is he trying to saying God is punishing me, or that HE is God and now he's punishing me??? Either way it makes him a douchebag.
malayataylor
06-20-2010, 11:31 AM
You're giving him way too much credit. "Douchebag" is an understatement. Who the fuck does he think you are.. the antichrist? Damn..fuck HIM!
sxcbbw
06-20-2010, 11:32 AM
I think he's just coming out with random bullshit now.
Block his ass right off every site and IM you can think of.
wanderlust08
06-20-2010, 11:40 AM
So then I wrote back...
"There are no saints, only unrecognized villians."
It's not a bible verse, but it fits his situation perfectly.
Harleigh HellKat
06-20-2010, 01:19 PM
Sounds like a psycho. Good for you for chasing him away!!
kthnx
06-20-2010, 08:00 PM
kudos for dumping the bitch. but what im curious about is, did u ever get with the hippie guy with the large dick?
jack0177057
06-21-2010, 03:38 PM
He wrote THIS on my facebook page, after my mom quoted some bible verse about "mean people"...
"My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by him; For whom the Lord loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives. If you endure chastening , God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?"
So...I don't get it. Is he trying to saying God is punishing me, or that HE is God and now he's punishing me??? Either way it makes him a douchebag.
People react differently to "finding God"... Me, I appreciate His handywork... in the SC.
Maybe that's what this has all been about - he is "born again"... and not sure how to deal with dating a dancer, the temptations of the flesh, sex, etc.
He might be talking about himself... As in he is being chastened/punished by God - because you left him - but, he (ex-BF) is graciously accepting the pain and loss.
Taylorgrrl
06-21-2010, 04:27 PM
Ok, but did you get your bong back?
So then I wrote back...
"There are no saints, only unrecognized villians."
It's not a bible verse, but it fits his situation perfectly.
Why does he still have access to post on your facebook?
ryleeNsd
06-21-2010, 11:51 PM
^ I was thinking the same thing... he's an ex now so buh-bye fb stalker/harasser! seriously unfriend him and set your settings so he cant see shit on your page
Avery90
06-22-2010, 12:21 AM
He wrote THIS on my facebook page, after my mom quoted some bible verse about "mean people"...
"My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by him; For whom the Lord loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives. If you endure chastening , God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?"
So...I don't get it. Is he trying to saying God is punishing me, or that HE is God and now he's punishing me??? Either way it makes him a douchebag.
Apparently that idiot didnt read the rest of the Bible!
Matthew 7:4-5
4: Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5: Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
Meaning that moron needs to STFU untill hes perfect and fix himself befor he passes judgement. He doesnt deserve you he sounds like a jerk. I always agreed with the saying love the sinner not the sin. I may not agree with some personal choices people make but I dont judge (well Im human so I do my best not to) I have no right to and I treat the person the way they deserve to be treated the way I want to be treated. So hes stupid. Love you Hunnie:-*
ArmySGT.
06-24-2010, 09:25 AM
He is being an ass so you will dump him.
He then has a guilt free out. I was in my 20's just last decade and did stuff like that.
He wants out and just doesn't want to have long convos about it. This way you get pissed and leave him and he gets to break it off. Add to that he can say with a straight face you dumped him, then his buddies won't think he is crazy for dumping such a hot chick.