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lost4308
07-13-2010, 05:28 PM
I think the novelty and ego trip is this - A dancer is a highly prized "sex godess" in the SC in that every customer badly wants to take her OTC and fuck her (pardon the bluntness). Not only is she hot, but she is super seductive and erotic. She knows, this so she leads them on to sell dances, but won't go out with or fuck any of them (unless she also escorts - in which case she does it for the money, not because of any attraction for them). She gets hit on and asked out by hundreds of PL a week and rejects them all. Therefore, the dude that does manage to take her OTC and fuck her (for free) does rightfully claim a merit badge,... unless he's being used in some way,... in which case, he gets a dunce cap, instead.



I'll admit I was a little flattered when she wanted to hang out with me outside of the club, but It wasn't really an ego thing for me. I meet women everywhere so the only difference in this case was I met her when she was naked in a SC. To me though, she just like any other women, I don't think any different of her, nothing more nothing less. The fact that she's a stripper doesn't turn me on any more then any other beautiful woman. I will admit though, she does have some sexy outfits that I haven't seen many other women wear so that's definitely a turn on for me.

And by the way, I'll claim my merit badge :P




OP, you said yourself, you enjoy her company, she's cute, you guys have fun, I don't get it...... why are you trying to overanalyze and sabotage a potential relationship? Just go with the flow and quit dreaming up possible negative scenarios. I met my ex BF in the strip club and was with him for 2 1/2 years!




So just go out with her and don't over analyze things. It's not rocket science. She just happens to work at a club but she's a real person. See how it works out.

I was over analyzing things at first just because of the horror stories I'd heard about people meeting dancers OTC. But we had a great time hanging out at my place 4th of July weekend so I'm just letting things naturally progress.

We decided yesterday that we both wanted the same things from this relationship and that it would be stupid to allow the distance to keep us from pursing a relationship, so were a couple now :). She lives in FL and I live in GA. I have a lot of family and friends in FL and have been wanting to move back to FL for awhile, so I might be making the move down here in the next few months depending on how my job search plays out.


I'm coming down to stay with her this weekend so I'm really excited :)

J.D.
07-14-2010, 01:42 AM
Yay!!! Congratulations!

ILoveMoney
07-14-2010, 02:46 AM
Hmmmm.... stripers are women too we do possess human feelings you know? ... maybe she just likes you, I bet you'll feel really bad if you find out she does have a green card, and doesn't want anything at all from you besides a good orgasm lol. . Besides, even if she did want something from you initially, once she gets to know you if you are a genuinly good person she could fall in love with you. The question is do you like her and can you see yourself in a relationship with an exotic dancer, or will it just be one paranoia episode after another, lack of trust and more paranoia? Strippers are people too too like I said, regardless of what country they're from, I find all this talk about Russia quite prejudice actually. Oh yea she's Russian so she must be up to something fishy! please... you run the chance of being hustled by any stripper, if you cant give her the benefit of the doubt just date "normal" girls. Aren't we all innocent till proven guilty? Has she actually asked you for anything? .... if she was a girl selling insurance for a living, would you be wondering "does she just want to sell me life insurance or does she really like me?" Hmmmm...

jack0177057
07-14-2010, 09:31 AM
I'll admit I was a little flattered when she wanted to hang out with me outside of the club, but It wasn't really an ego thing for me. I meet women everywhere so the only difference in this case was I met her when she was naked in a SC. To me though, she just like any other women, I don't think any different of her, nothing more nothing less. The fact that she's a stripper doesn't turn me on any more then any other beautiful woman.

Yeah, but if a teacher or nurse shows interest in you, will you find and get on a teacher or nurse online forum and ask other teachers or nurses for their advice? Will you post details online about your dates with a teacher or nurse?

Hopper
07-15-2010, 12:11 AM
^It wasn't ego which made him ask for advice here, it was suspicion that she was either stringing him along to get him to spend more or that she was potentially a threat of some kind.

TinkerBall
07-15-2010, 04:43 AM
I can't believe people are stlll posting about this.

lost4308
07-15-2010, 02:02 PM
Yeah, but if a teacher or nurse shows interest in you, will you find and get on a teacher or nurse online forum and ask other teachers or nurses for their advice? Will you post details online about your dates with a teacher or nurse?

As I stated in my first post, I met her my first visit to a SC and wasn't sure if her giving me her number and wanting to hang out with me was normal behavior of a dancer. I'm a novice when it comes to SC's... I figured it all out and we are dating now so it's all good.



^It wasn't ego which made him ask for advice here, it was suspicion that she was either stringing him along to get him to spend more or that she was potentially a threat of some kind.

Also, Hopper summed it up perfectly. That's exactly why I asked....

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MODS: PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD. NO MORE ADVICE NEEDED.

hockeybobby
07-15-2010, 07:11 PM
Indeed, case closed. Another happy customer walks off into the sunset.

katarina
11-15-2010, 02:58 AM
I'm a novice when it comes to strip clubs. Went to my first SC last month and met a cute Russian stripper. She's 23 and we had great chemistry and have a lot in common (I'll take what she says with a grain of salt). Sorry, I'm just not that trusting and feel that a lot of the girls in there are just telling guys what they want to hear). Maybe only spent $60 the entire night (Friday) and the includes the dances I got and the drinks I consumed. She hung out with me all night and complimented me numerous times about my appearance and numerous other things (again, taken with a grain of salt). I am however confident in my appearance (25 years old 6'0 190lbs and workout 5 days a week) and in myself in general. She put my hands on every inch of her body (the SC I was at allowed no contact). At the end of the night she gave me her number and told me she want's to hang out next time I'm in town or after she get's off of work and that's she's extremely attracted to me. Took her number and told her I was just going to head home (it was around 2 am) and didn't think anything of it.

Two weekends ago I was in town again and decided to go over to the SC since I had a rough week at work. Never ended up calling her after getting her number last time I was in. Walked in the door and sat down at the bar. After being there for maybe 5 minutes I felt someone hug me from behind and it was her. Surprisingly she remembered my name and everything about me. That made me happy considering I had a great time with her last time and hoped if I ran into her again she would remember me. She told me how excited she was to see me but she was sad that I never called her and she felt like I blew her off. Anyways, something she mentioned was that I didn't need to spend money to hang out which I found to be somewhat weird. I thought dancers wanted money and that's mainly what they were after when there in the club. But as you can see, I didn't really spend much on her and I don't really give off a big spender vibe (Just finished my Master's Degree and have only been employed for 6 months, I told her that, which is all true).

She invited me to her house the first time I met her which was somewhat odd in my opinion. However, she called me a few days ago to see how I was doing and to ask me If I wanted to go to the beach with her the weekend I'm back in town (which I agreed too). I'm new to the whole SC experience and don't really know what to expect. I'm pretty good at reading women in normal settings but I'm new to the whole SC game. She seems really into me but I'm worried that she's just playing with me and looking for money. Can someone with more experience with the whole SC scene give me some advice?

Also, how normal is it for strippers to give out their number to customers?

And do you girls usually hang out with people you've met in the club outside of work?

Sorry for all the stupid questions...

I think in this case maybe she fall for u? caz u said u didn't spend that much. I don't think she is after ur money. since u don't have any. come on, what's there to loose? she is gonna rape u?;)