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dtxgirl
06-25-2010, 06:55 PM
FUCK. THAT. NOISE.

I would have punched him in the balls. That is NOT acceptable behavior from ANYONE, much less someone you are dating.

Find a way to fix your car, and GTFO, for your own sake.

I'm a firm believer that once you cut crap out of your life, life gets better. There will always be issues, but you deserve WAY MORE than that.

laurielegs
06-25-2010, 08:14 PM
If my car wasn't totaled, I wouldn't be here.

Sorry to hear about your car, but happy to see that you see him as he is. Hope you can get away from that asshat soon!

Firewall
06-25-2010, 11:15 PM
I definitely want an update, as I am also dealing with a husband that won't stick up for me.

( being able to handle myself does not mean I don't want you to back me up, babe, sigh )

vivianbear
06-26-2010, 09:31 AM
Yeah it feels that way. That's why I'm not dumping him. I'm not going to let him have his way. I'd rather be a bitch and make his life miserable than give him what he wants.

He erased his text and call log this morning. I'll just go ahead and assume it was because it was full, cause otherwise his phone would be in the toilet.

Don't think I won't.


Every girl he has dated before me WAS worthless. They were either 300 lbs or crackhead skinny and had to buy their tits. They were all completely psycho as well. Of course they all got treated like spoiled princesses and I get the fucking remains.

Awesome! You're just going to stay in this humiliating situation out of spite! Yeah, way to show him. Now he can fuck you, humiliate you in public and collect resources from you (rent contribution, food, etc). Yeah, way to stick it to that asshole. Go ahead and wreck a few things if that's what makes you feel better. As another "spoiled princess" who bought her tits, I say from here on in, you deserve your results. You're the one who's settling here. He's just reaping the benefits.


Sorry to see this. It doesn't matter if you are a stripper - he violated you in public by exposing you to a crowd of strangers. If he cared about you he would be a man and protect your dignity, not shatter it.

Unfortunately the little punk asses that do stuff like this usually only get worse, but it may take you some more time to come around to this. Unless of course he leaves first with one of his deleted cell phone girls.

And I'm not sure that his former relationship problems were all the fault of the other women. I'm guessing he is giving you a rosey version of his own actions and a distorted view of theirs.

Anyway, good luck!

Totally true. The more you stay, the more you'll see it. Now that he knows he can get away with it, I wonder what he thinks you'll put up with next? How will he top himself?


I definitely want an update, as I am also dealing with a husband that won't stick up for me.

( being able to handle myself does not mean I don't want you to back me up, babe, sigh )

Firewall, tell him straight up how you want him to behave. Tell him you need to know you have his back in order to feel safe.

mediocrity
06-26-2010, 02:29 PM
Get rid of this fuckface. SERIOUSLY?? You've been aving nothing but issues with this douche. Cut him loose.

What a piece of shit.

fuzzz
06-26-2010, 04:40 PM
It really comes down to respect. He doesn't respect your modesty (which contrary to popular belief, isn't a green light to disrespect his testicles.) Cut him loose, or warn him and cut on a repeat.

Harleigh HellKat
06-27-2010, 02:26 PM
Does anyone know how to report a member on here that is misusing the forum?

Apparently he has an account on here. Tried to find it but don't know the name.

All I know is he registered recently and has zero posts. His usual screen names aren't on here.

Should I PM a moderator??

Optimist
06-27-2010, 02:47 PM
Yeah it feels that way. That's why I'm not dumping him. I'm not going to let him have his way. I'd rather be a bitch and make his life miserable than give him what he wants.

He erased his text and call log this morning. I'll just go ahead and assume it was because it was full, cause otherwise his phone would be in the toilet.

Don't think I won't.

Are you nuts?! Wanna wait for him to arrange a gang bang with his friends to get the message across? DUMP THIS FOOL!! If you don't have enough self-respect about yourself to get him out of your life you need help boosting your self esteem.


Then they are not friends. He shouldn't put up with anyone he calls a "friend" saying or thinking things about his girl. He needs to at least correct them. If they still think/say it, and he keeps them around, then maybe you need to sit and have a serious talk about where his priorities are.



My husband and I went through this when I first started dancing.....and we found out who our real "friends" were REALLY fast. Put it this way, the people that are still in our life are there for a reason....because they didn't judge and respected my descision. The ones who thought ill of me or said bad things are GONE. My husband wouldn't put up with it for a second.

Unfortunately, she's talked and talked to him and this looks like it's his reply.

Harleigh HellKat
06-27-2010, 02:48 PM
See my 'post' in the ladies only section.

Harleigh HellKat
06-27-2010, 03:58 PM
Ok good news. I found out his screen name on here. Should I send it to a moderator or just post it in this thread?

sananeko
06-27-2010, 04:07 PM
Send it in and keep track.

Harleigh HellKat
06-27-2010, 05:27 PM
Found it. Deleted it myself. Dumped him. Still getting a car out of the situation.

girlundressed
06-27-2010, 07:34 PM
Go you!!!

Devinxoxo
06-30-2010, 07:10 AM
good for u. no one should have to take being disrespected like that. sounds like a douche n now he can b someone elses problem.

Trem
06-30-2010, 07:55 AM
Good on ya!