View Full Version : One misstep and you are addicted again
JoeUnCool
12-13-2010, 08:37 AM
Well, as is obvious from a few recent posts I not only relented, but also lied (not intentionally at the time) about not posting on this topic again.
The good news is that the friend stopped once I put the screws to Sexy Italian's money. The bad news is that it doesn't matter since many of the girls in this club won't come near me anyway, even when Sexy Italian is not working.
However, since the last post in this thread I have ended up in the sack 3-4 times per month with Sexy Italian, which has been fun. I also had the big night out that I detailed in another thread.
But that big night out only happened because she got jammed up at her club and really needed the money. She has also been offering me "lunch meetings" lately, another new phenomenon.
This thing keeps getting wierder. Also, as I get further involved with her I find myself learning, and caring, more about her issues. Such as the fact that she doesn't own a warm coat, or that her little girl is likely to have a thin Christmas this year because things have been tough at the club.
Stupid shit I know but there it is.
Wow, ok, unlike CP, I will say this, and say it in no uncertain terms. You are heading for a disaster. You have crossed a line. Too much is mixed together.
yoda57us
12-13-2010, 09:34 AM
Wow, ok, unlike CP, I will say this, and say it in no uncertain terms. You are heading for a disaster. You have crossed a line. Too much is mixed together.
Disaster? LOL, I'm not qualified to be Rick's life coach any more than you are but let me just interject that it is possible to be involved on many different levels with women no matter what business they are in.
Nothing in life is as black and white as some folks think it is.
rickdugan
12-13-2010, 10:04 AM
Wow, ok, unlike CP, I will say this, and say it in no uncertain terms. You are heading for a disaster. You have crossed a line. Too much is mixed together.
Lmao. A little dramatic, no? ;)
I'm just banging the girl for $$$, not looking for a wife or girlfriend. I already have a wife and young kids to boot. I control when I see her, how much I pay and what I pay for. Hell, she likes the money and would probably make it available 3-4 times per week if I wanted it, but I usually limit my trips to her club to once per week.
But CP is right when he indicated that, as one gets to know someone else more (particularly in this context), a certain human understanding and empathy is inevitable. But dude, it is (or should be) a far jump from caring about somebody's situation to losing one's mind and getting stupid.
Now I will admit that, at one point, I did consider a sugar daddy/baby arrangement with her, but that would have been more for my benefit than hers and I ultimately decided against it anyway.
Joe, I can't help but notice that you tend to get worked up when OTC concepts are discussed. I realize that you had some historical problems, but in all honesty I think those problems have led you to project your fears upon every other OTC arrangement that you read about.
3-Legged Man
12-14-2010, 04:10 AM
Wow. If you were single and unattached, this would be an exciting development. But given your family status, I hope you can keep your emotional distance before anyone else gets hurt. Don't let Sexy get too dependent on you, either. Hope you're a good juggler!
JoeUnCool
12-14-2010, 07:35 AM
Lmao. A little dramatic, no? ;)
I'm just banging the girl for $$$, not looking for a wife or girlfriend. I already have a wife and young kids to boot. I control when I see her, how much I pay and what I pay for. Hell, she likes the money and would probably make it available 3-4 times per week if I wanted it, but I usually limit my trips to her club to once per week.
But CP is right when he indicated that, as one gets to know someone else more (particularly in this context), a certain human understanding and empathy is inevitable. But dude, it is (or should be) a far jump from caring about somebody's situation to losing one's mind and getting stupid.
Now I will admit that, at one point, I did consider a sugar daddy/baby arrangement with her, but that would have been more for my benefit than hers and I ultimately decided against it anyway.
Joe, I can't help but notice that you tend to get worked up when OTC concepts are discussed. I realize that you had some historical problems, but in all honesty I think those problems have led you to project your fears upon every other OTC arrangement that you read about.
Rick, you are free to do what you want. I'll never deny that. :)
I am anaylzing the catiness of "Sexy Italian" and it is along the same lines. There is one big difference, at least "Sexy Italian" will go to work.
KS_Stevia
12-14-2010, 11:07 AM
Things you are learning because she wants to to guilt trip more money out of you. She can get a warm coat from Goodwill, or even Ross, for cheap. Same with kids toys, she can get the daughter some inexpensive stuff.