View Full Version : How old were you when you cashed in your V-chip?
Katrina312
08-03-2010, 05:28 PM
I was 18, and my boyfriend was 24. I met him on the internet! Yeah super ridiculous! LOL!
Vyanka
08-03-2010, 09:36 PM
I was 21 & do not regret losing it to my exbf of that time. He was such a great caring guy, who loved me very much and never ever disrespected me(like the rest of the asshole exes after him did). Unfortunately, I was not in love with him. I wanted to, but my heart was not all there. I don't know why? He was good looking, 6 foot tall, with the biggest dick I have ever seen/had in my life.
Anyway...
lopaw
08-04-2010, 07:58 PM
I honestly don't remember.
Isn't that weird?
Talk about a completely forgettable experience.
Clara_M
08-11-2010, 08:03 AM
Depends where in Canada. My Quebec HS was grade 7-11, so it would work there too. It was quite common to have skipped a grade in elementary school, so there might even have been a few 11 y/os in there!
Not sure where she is from, but
In Australia highschool starts in year 7.... when you are 12- 13. Where I grew up in Canada highschool started in grade 9... when you are 14, but if your birthday falls sept-dec its possible to still be 13.
Christany
08-13-2010, 01:38 AM
I was 18. I waited until I was out of high school, I just wasn't ready then. For me, it's all about chemistry. There's that feeling you get with being with someone and it makes you high. I know there's a whole scientific explanation for it, but I'm feeling more whimsical right now....
georgia_peach
08-21-2010, 12:42 AM
19. And I kind of regret it. Not losing my virginity in general, but losing it to that specific guy. It was my ex, and honestly I regret the whole relationship.
Melonie
08-21-2010, 03:08 AM
13 also ... but I looked like I was 18 !
hot4ablackchick
08-23-2010, 01:01 AM
The first time I kissed a boy I was 12. I was about two months shy of my 16th birthday when I had sex for the first time. I had it with my asshole ex, and I never intended on having sex with him. I had tried to have sex with my ex boyfriend, whom I really liked, but we couldn't get it in. I was upset about our breakup, and I was surprised that it went in when we were fooling around. I was with this douche for 7 years and had 2 kids with him. I hate to think about my first time, it was awful. It hurt and I just laid there and did nothing. He also gave me an STD!! Talk about humiliating. I can't believe I was with that loser. Losing my virginity to a homeless man would have been a better experience.
I still haven't had anal, and I think I was 16 the first time I got oral (not from the same guy)and 19 the first time I gave oral.
Kisca
08-24-2010, 08:10 PM
I was 14. I was just entering highschool and met a guy who I liked, within no time I had sex with him thinking we were going to date. It did not work like that and I learned from the first time. I didnt have sex for 4 years after until I met my boyfriend then of 2 years. At 14, I realized sex and love is totally different and never dated, nor tried to cause I hated the idea. Im glad I know the difference now, Im glad I can now enjoy sex and know its just sex with no emotions attached, thats what I learned. I guess my emotions went cold adter that event, I * guess I do regret it, I dont think of it but whats past is the past and I learned.
Stargazer
08-25-2010, 12:30 AM
17, 2 weeks before my 18th birthday because I refused to be an 18 year old virgin!
TheBrownFox
09-05-2010, 03:39 PM
13, to my Highschool English teacher.
I don't regret it, but I do laugh when I think back on it.
OMG! Is he still a schoolteacher? :thumbsdow
TheBrownFox
09-05-2010, 03:48 PM
I was 15 years old, and it was with this 17-year old guy named Kevin who was in my French class. Yeah, he was the oldest guy in the class...smh. :P I had the biggest crush on him, and one day I snuck him into my parents' house after school when they were at work. He finished real quick, and I remember thinking "Um...that was fast." LOL. I'm 28 now, and he texts me occasionally to say hi and make a little small talk.
Elvia
09-05-2010, 03:51 PM
Oral-15. Vaginal-19.
Kellydancer
09-05-2010, 05:09 PM
Since a few mentioned oral, this is mine. My first time oral experience was when I was 17. I had gone to my aunt's wedding (my dad's sister) and met her new step children, including "Bob" (not his real name). Bob was also 17 and looked like John Taylor from Duran Duran (and being a teen in the 80's this was the hot guy). So we ended up kissing at the end of the wedding and fireworks happened. He decided to come over to swim that following Sunday and started fooling around in the basement. He wanted have sex but I refused, so he suggested oral. I had never had it before but enjoyed it.
As it turned out I never heard from him again (he only wanted sex) but he taught me a valuable lesson that later boyfriends appreciated. Unlike the first time I had sex, this time I wasn't as bummed he never showed up again. I later found out from relatives he had a reputation as a ladies man and ended up getting another girl pregnant. He's now fat and old looking so much for being the ladies man.
rubberstarlet
09-05-2010, 05:26 PM
the day b4 thanksgiving with my boyfriend at the time. Not sure if i regret it, I got no pleasure from any of the sex. i was 17 turning 18 in 3 months
Tasha_xoxo
09-05-2010, 09:56 PM
13, to my Highschool English teacher
iv always wanted to have hot sex with my male teachers,,lucky.
Tasha_xoxo
09-05-2010, 10:30 PM
i was 15 with a friend of mine who id met my first year of HS.
we were hanging out one day and we ended up talking about sex,,
2 days later we ended up going to a well known community park,,
down the street from my house where i lost my virginity behind a bush,,
he was HUGE.
it was strictly just sex,,between two good friends.
dont regret it at all.
Nuclear Martini
09-06-2010, 11:15 AM
I was 15, but I didnt learn to "fully enjoy" it until I was 18 or 19.
missmayes666
09-08-2010, 07:35 PM
i was 13, it was with 3 guys in my class and it was after a sex ed class.....go figure lol
charlie61
09-09-2010, 06:44 AM
^ Dayum!
missmayes666
09-10-2010, 01:39 AM
^ Dayum!
we had no idea what we were doing. the dude sitting next to me said lets try that and i said sure and his 2 friends found out what we were up to and wanted to try too so i was like sure, i know better now...lol
trinity7
09-13-2010, 02:05 PM
I was 14. He was sooooo damn hot (but a TOTAL player) I remember I was on my period at the time so it was messy and painful. YUK. Would LOVE a "do over" with him!!! (yes,I STILL talk to him! He's an ex-stripper himself.)
hustler.h0ney
09-13-2010, 07:40 PM
first times:
vaginal - 17
anal - 18
oral (receiving) - 19
oral (giving) - 21 or 22 - never really liked the idea, and i still have never swallowed haha. i just can't bring myself to doing it for some reason. its probably the same concept of needles. the anticipation of getting a shot is worse than the actual shot.
snowcake
09-15-2010, 07:15 PM
With A Woman - 15 or 16
Oral (Man) - 18
I'm 19, still a virgin though and will probably be forever, being gay and all.
Corey
10-09-2010, 11:46 AM
I was 20 (about a year and a half ago). Had been dating my SO for a year and a half. Decided I wanted to get it over with. I never wanted to have sex (go figure, asexual), but I thought I was just dreading the first time, and that things would be great after that. I had pretty severe vaginismus (where I would tighten up majorly), which was extremely painful, for the first six months or so.
I'm still with my guy though. Very happily. But, predictably, I still don't give a shit about sex. :)
Now I don't feel so bad for waiting so long. I was 3 weeks away from my 20th b-day. Lost it to my employer who had to have been in his early 30's. It was my choice. In fact, I had to covince him. He stopped dating me because it scared him that I was a virgin. I didn't want to feel anything so I numbed myself w/ oxycontin and alcohol. The next morning there was soreness, blood on the sheets so I knew the deed had been done. Then he took me out to breakfast and I ate a lot of blueberry pancakes. Don't regret an thing.
Kissing was technically 8 but really 12. Oral, 15.
Angel75217
10-09-2010, 06:46 PM
< 14 with a 15 year old..... such a skank..... :D
prettysammie
10-14-2010, 02:43 PM
13, but I developed early so I guess I looked older. He was 15 and I thought he was so unbelievably cool. He told all his friends like the next day, and then they all claimed they did too, and next thing I knew I was the school slut after only having sex with one guy.
MistyRose
10-14-2010, 03:21 PM
Boy, I'm about to break the record in this thread. :P
23. First and only guy I loved. Wouldn't change it for the world.
PrincessN
10-18-2010, 08:48 AM
12 was when i lost it
henrietta
10-18-2010, 01:34 PM
The day before my 18th birthday - with a much much older man. But I loved every minute of it and I had full body spasms when he gave me oral that I haven't had since. Definitely don't regret it.
little_leila
10-28-2010, 10:22 AM
16 or 17 it was the summer before my senior year and my friend came over and he was like "you wanna do it?" haha he was so scared though he could barely get it up i think it lasted all of 2 minutes haha!
shaebabii
10-28-2010, 11:44 AM
I was 18.. he was 26. We were together almost 2 yrs but I still regret it.
Kat w
11-14-2010, 10:34 AM
I was 16, a sophmore in high school and he was a senior in high school.
An amazing guy, we are still in touch on and off. We were in "love" as much as I could be in high school anyway haha.
kitinboots
11-14-2010, 05:11 PM
16 and a half with a guy that lived next to a church. It was Summer, the windows were open, and the choir were rehearsing outside. I'm either an angel or I'm going to hell :D
kristybelle
11-19-2010, 11:50 AM
I was 20....I developed very early around 11 I was a 34DD and my mom freaked out and told me all boys would try to rape me...
It worked!
miss1dancypants
11-19-2010, 12:31 PM
3 days before my 14th birthday....!!! don't really regret it. sex didn't seem like a big deal to me back then and it still doesn't. i don't have many feelings towards sex. i didn't sleep around either though, i have only slept with 5 men.
every does it differently, though!
Blu_Rayne
11-24-2010, 12:02 AM
Couple of weeks before my 17 birthday.He was older and rented a fancy hotel on Valentines Day with roses and chocolate.We tried but he was not able to penetrate that night.So we tried again a week later....and my mom caught us (in my home).Well, she didnt see us actually doing it but he was butt naked.
LexyNYC
12-07-2010, 03:38 AM
I was 14. I was like madly in love with this guy who was my best friend and we talked for hours everyday for like 6 months and I was a complete and utter virgin, I hadn't even kissed anybody at that point. Then one day we went to a park and he kissed me and I ended up giving him head. Then after that, he pretty much never talked to me again. So, to try and make him jealous I started dating the quarterback from our high school's football team and I ended up having sex with him during a snow day, 8 days before my 15th birthday. The whole (short) time that we were doing it, I was just thinking about how the guy that I loved would never want me now (he was a virgin and wanted to wait until marriage) and on top of that, my mother found out so I spent the day before my birthday sitting in a clinic getting lectured by my mother and getting my first pap smear and being put on the pill. Not a fun experience.
livingdeadgirl
12-08-2010, 07:29 AM
Haha. I'm still 18. Got married 2 days after my birthday, and it'll be a year next month. Yes, we're still together.
Yeah everyone who hears I'm married at 18 gives me the same :O face IRL, hah. I always gotta be like yeah *guilty* I know :P
i got married at 18 too! 5 days after my birthday (6 days after our son was born)
**oh! and i lost ma V card at 14
exotic0690
12-08-2010, 01:39 PM
13 :D
420bUnNy
12-10-2010, 03:57 AM
16. It was a total non-event for me.
I was a horny bitch long before that and wanted to do it way sooner, but due to where I was living and the school I went to, there were seriously *zero* guys I was willing to get that far with.
I have since seen photos of him in drag...
Star_bare_elegance
12-12-2010, 02:35 AM
wow.... i can't remember.... not cool.
charlie61
12-12-2010, 09:13 AM
^Lol. You're not the first in this thread to not be able to remember!
This one took me back. It was in 1966 after a basketball game at my school. I was given permission to go out with an 18 year old even though I was 14. Of all times to be introduced to sex and bourbon. Of course I never told my folks, but they smelled my breath and did I catch it. Does that make me a slut?
charlie61
12-12-2010, 04:29 PM
^ Only if you want it to! }:D
LOL!! Back then I didn't mind at all, but then it was a different time.;D
ayvaleigh
12-22-2010, 08:23 PM
14 to my boyfriend at the time. I don't regret it. I do regret where it happened because my friend's brother went and told a whole bunch of people at church and they got the stupid loser youth pastor involved and he called my mom and all the youth group kids gossiped about me being a slut. So...that was pretty much the end of my church days. And really, look how much all their lecturing accomplished! Now I'm a stripper and a camgirl! }:D But the guy...ahh he was so good looking and he had a big dick. I didn't really appreciate it that night cause it hurt, but if I saw him now....it would SO be on! LOL
XxChrissyxX
01-11-2011, 07:19 PM
I was also an early one. I lost it at 13 to an 17 year old.
Elektra Luxx
01-11-2011, 07:52 PM
it was the summer before high school. i was 14 and trying act older and more experienced and put myself in a situation with a guy that was older and i had a serious crush on. we did it all that summer, but when school started i got dumped. oh well, i learned about almost every position 69, giving and getting head even tried anal. good experience to use on the next guy.
audreyjanexo
01-11-2011, 10:10 PM
I was 14, I had such low self esteem and was afraid that no one would wanna have sex with me. Haha so I thought I would be a virgin forever, it sounds so fuckingg stupid now but I really didn't realize how ridiculous my reasons were.. :O Hmmm.. wow