View Full Version : Only weak ass men fear strong women
Jessie_tinydancer
07-25-2010, 02:10 AM
I actually liked your post Will. And its not just males that get intimidated, females too. Although its true we all have different tastes I guess I get really cranky cause sometime I think Im treated like crap by other females and some males who think just because I dont have a fat ass that Im anorexic or something. I hate missing gym sessions and I've done weights for the last 12 years. Girls I know will be like "why do you go to the gym? You dont need to."
Helloooooo... I like to be fit. I want to be healthy. Working out is like therapy for me. Especially after 8 hours everyday in the classroom, followed by 3-4 of homework and study, sometimes followed by another 8 of counselling customers and listening to all the BS stories some physical activity is a great release. Besides the fact that maybe the reason I am lean is because I do work out. My whole family is actually overweight.
I dont care if you dont like to work out or if you like your girls curvy, but it is extremely rude to treat fit girls like they are not feminine. I personally like skinny girls and leaner guys but I dont walk around calling curvy people fat or telling muscular people to lay off steroids.
gogo1
07-26-2010, 01:09 PM
Okay so maybe this is just me being insecure, but I am thrilled to tears with what Will said.
I feel constantly bombarded with idea that the only way to have a perfect body is to be extremely tiny. I ran track for ten years,and went to Nationals in college and everything, but have never managed to be smaller than a size 8 (or 10 even). It just made me feel that I could never actually be beautiful, because no matter what I actually do, I will never be a super slender size 2 girl even if I managed to be as skinny as an Auschwitz victim. That seems to be what the media glorifies. Not being Auschwitz skinny, but being extremely tiny. I am just naturally athletic and strong.
It is just nice to see someone biased in the opposite direction for a change, who doesn't mind an athletic girl.
Harleigh HellKat
07-26-2010, 01:16 PM
Ugh Jessie what you said reminds me of a dancer who told me I gained weight (which I had) and said it looked GOOD on me... I felt like the marshmallow man and she thinks it looks good, wtf? I want to be fit. Not super skinny, just fit.
Ugh Jessie what you said reminds me of a dancer who told me I gained weight (which I had) and said it looked GOOD on me...
And maybe it did. Just sayin'...:P
Harleigh HellKat
07-26-2010, 02:21 PM
Nah it wasn't muscle weight. It was belly fat, pure and simple.
Nah it wasn't muscle weight. It was belly fat, pure and simple.
I'll take your word for it, but as much as women don't always get it, some times added weight, does look good! 8)
she sells sanctuary
07-28-2010, 04:32 PM
eh. the way i'm built i can either be fat or muscular. that's basically it. skinny isn't an option. like soft skinny, that is. i can't do that.
i remember when i was in my best shape (talking 34d-24-36. hawt) i had a customer tell me that i was a lot bigger than what he usually liked. and i was like wtf, you usually like anorexics? and he pointed at a girl who was my same height and actually wore the same size as me. we just had different body compositions. so he really meant that i was more cut than he usually liked. but whatever. his wallet stayed open.
i like to work out. i like to lift weights. i could do cardio till i fall down, but my jeans will fit faster with less cardio and more weights. it's just how i'm built. i don't actually get 'big'. but with the consistency of my skin and how my connective tissue is, once my body fat drops past a certain level, my muscles pop. and seriously, nothing drops my body fat past a certain point except weights. and i get to eat too? sweet deal.
i get bummed sometimes, because this isn't the kind of build i'd like to have. i'd like to be all small boned and long and lean...the kind of body that could lift weights religiously and still look scrawny. i can't change my genes. i can just do the best i can with what i've got. if that means being muscular, so be it. it looks good on me.
but if a guy doesn't like my type (and plenty don't), i don't think it's fair to judge him as being weak or stupid or something. there's a lot of factors that lead people to be attracted to what they're attracted to. i just know that if i'm not a guy's type, it's best to just accept it. i can't change it, and blaming him isn't gonna make me feel any better.
i like skinny scrawny guys. like the lean super low bodyfat, small boned type that could eat junk food all day and not gain a pound. muscular guys turn me off. i think they look disgusting. i'm not even attracted to guys who have bigger bone structures and are in shape.
everyone likes what they like.
and besides, there's plenty of "cardio bunnies" who actually do lift weights and just aren't built to look muscular. and there's plenty of girls who never lift weights at all and are muscular. it happens.