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MiracleDJ
08-06-2010, 12:22 AM
MiracleDj, which clubs do you work at in Dallas?


I haven't DJ'd since last summer, but I'm actually considering finding a club to work the swing shift at for extra income.

In the past I've worked at,

The Fare (back when it was on lower Greenville)
Lipsticks
Dreams
The Penthouse Key Club
The Palace
XTC
Fort Worth Gentlemen's club


Have you worked in Dallas before?

Sad Sally
08-06-2010, 12:42 AM
I have a question!

So, I have a crush on this guy that lives in LA. I live in San Francisco. I see him once or twice a year at social events and we always talk a lot with each other. I used to live in LA and saw him more frequently then. We are also friends on facebook. Anyway, I never ask guys out. I'm wondering how I can gently let this guy know I may be interested in him the next time I see him.
I want him to make the first "move".

MiracleDJ
08-06-2010, 01:12 AM
I have a question... I know it goes along more the lines of personal preference and its probably a detail that most guys dont even notice, but what type of nails do you think guys like? I have acrylic but I get them as short as a natural nail (mainly just cause I think they look more polished, not for length) Anyway I usually have french manicure but do guys like colours more? I've always wondered this... I get a lot of compliments from guys when I have red nails which I always thought looked kinda trashy..


I think this definitely amounts to personal preference. I actually prefer a french manicure, I had to google that to make sure, but its the lightly pink color with white tips. I think that looks classy and looks sexy also. I saw a movie the other day and a girl had pink pastel colored nails that caught my eye. I'm generally not a fan of full colored nails, and I generally don't like girls with designs in their nails. I think it looks really ghetto. Which is kind of funny b/c I'm into girls with a "ghetto" body type.

But I've also never had any of my friends go "damn check out that girls' nails!". So it probably can't be that big of a deal to most guys.

MiracleDJ
08-06-2010, 01:19 AM
I have a question!

So, I have a crush on this guy that lives in LA. I live in San Francisco. I see him once or twice a year at social events and we always talk a lot with each other. I used to live in LA and saw him more frequently then. We are also friends on facebook. Anyway, I never ask guys out. I'm wondering how I can gently let this guy know I may be interested in him the next time I see him.
I want him to make the first "move".

I don't know if I can give you any solid advice here. For instance, if you talked to a woman who's had success getting a man she had a crush on make the first move. I would heed her advice, because she obviously knows what she's doing.

My first thought was, wouldn't the best place to start be making more contact on Facebook? How often do you message each other? If its on a regular basis already, then I might up the flirtation level a bit (or quite a bit). I think if he's into you he'd definitely suggest you coming down to go out.

rickdugan
08-06-2010, 06:45 AM
I think the movie I think I love my wife does a pretty good job documenting in a very funny way why married men are tempted to cheat. So I disagree its mostly b.s. or a cover story for some guys. Tho, I can't disagree there is a large segment of married men who it does apply to.

I'd say it is b.s. for the vast majority of men. There are always one-off situations, but IMO most guys cheat for the thrill. And I wouldn't place too much stock in those movie husbands - too damned many of the men portrayed in those movies now are emotional pussies passing as men.

If he was truly motivated to improve some marital issue he would be home trying to work it out, not in the club chasing strange tail.

silk55
08-06-2010, 07:14 AM
If you just started talking to (aka dating) a guy, what's the best thing to do to fuck with his head and knock him off his game, or mess with his confidence level? There are a few guys right now I am talking to, and all three of them are a little cocky, they need to get knocked down a few notches. One of them was begging me to come over last night but I just kept giving him ambiguous answers and finally just ignored him, so today I will be all apologetic and tell him how much I can't wait to see him. The other two I have been kind of ignoring, only responding to 1/3 of their texts/calls, but it seems that this is pushing away one of them, and I don't want that. I also randomly send them sexy pictures. I just want them in the palm of my hand. So what's the best way to fuck with their heads and make them want me more?

I would say to bust down a cocky guy. play hard to get or just fuck the shit out of him and ignore him after that lol

lemiwinks31
08-06-2010, 10:26 AM
I would say to bust down a cocky guy. play hard to get or just fuck the shit out of him and ignore him after that lol


I still say shit in his hand

princessjas
08-06-2010, 10:53 AM
Well....I'm not the obvious expert on all things guy.....that MiracleDJ is but:

Guy #1: When he comes to pick you up for a date, answer the door completely naked, holding a giant....and I mean GIANT dripping wet dildo. and simply say: "sorry, i wasnt expecting you so soon, its just that when i go out with you I know i have to get mine BEFORE the date."

Guy #2: After your next date, when you get to your door, tell him to close his eyes and hold out his hand. Make sure his eyes are closed, and take a shit in his hand, then quickly go inside and close the door, leaving him there with your shit in his hand.

Guy #3: He is going to be a little more tricky......just before you are about to blow him.....and he pulls his pants down....laugh at him and ask where the rest of it is.......but then suck him off anyway....but when you are done, hit him with the claw end of a hammer.

:rotfl:

I mean this in the nicest possible way.....but, Um, did you maybe forget your meds? ;D

Tanfan40D
08-06-2010, 11:09 AM
I haven't had time to read all of the responses. But I'll throw in my two cents worth to
a select few. First, J.D. and her "How do I fuck with their minds?" question. To J.D. I have
a question, if you heard a guy ask , "How do I fuck with J.D.'s mind, etc.?" would you want to
see him ever again?
As for the "What do guys masterbate with? Answer, baby oil, albolene, etc.
The lubricant should offer an easy, smooth stroke with quick, no mess clean up.
And why do guys cheat? Because, chicken, no matter how it's cooked is still chicken and every now and then a guy wants beef. Or, in other words, the same old same old is boring. Also, we choose for different reasons. Women are sex objects.
Men are success objects. Put a women in a room full of rich, high profile celebrities and
there's a good chance she'll drop her drawers with one of them that night. With that in mind, consider the following. A strip club is full of sex objects, but on any given night there are
few high profile celebrities. Bottom line, it's easier for a man to find a sex object than it is
for a woman to find a success object. So men cheat more.
Finally, men who cheat are genetically disposed to....they're hard wired for it!

lemiwinks31
08-06-2010, 01:32 PM
:rotfl:

I mean this in the nicest possible way.....but, Um, did you maybe forget your meds? ;D


You telling me you never shit in a dudes hand? or hit one with the claw end of a hammer? Am I on an island here?

yoda57us
08-06-2010, 01:37 PM
Cheating is fun. There, I said it, and I know I'm not alone.

LOL, definitely not!

KS_Stevia
08-06-2010, 04:05 PM
Dear Single guy,

Why is my male cat always sniffing my female cat's butt? They are both fixed!

MiracleDJ
08-06-2010, 04:13 PM
Dear Single guy,

Why is my male cat always sniffing my female cat's butt? They are both fixed!


lol, no clue. I've never owned any pets, sorry.

crazybeautiful28
08-06-2010, 09:26 PM
Ok, I have one...

I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months now. About two months ago he asked me to move in. I asked him what moving in together meant for him and where he saw us going, and he said he saw us getting married.

He talks about getting married (not too frequently, but none the less...) and is very honest about his commitment towards our relationship. Living together with him is awesome and he always tells me how much he loves me and how lucky he is.

Anyway, my question is how do I get him to actually propose? I have a feeling he's waiting for me to finish my last semester of school, but I just want to be sure. What can I do that will make him want to put a ring on it? Or at the very least give me a time line?

Jessie_tinydancer
08-06-2010, 09:29 PM
Single guy- when a guy asks you to send a dirty picture... What exactly does he have in mind? I don't consider me naked "dirty". But I don't really know what you guys are thinking here cause us chicks really aren't into cock shots.

Kellydancer
08-06-2010, 11:19 PM
Hey single guy, when a guy says "if we have kids" are they thinking of you as a potential mother of their future children?

hockeybobby
08-07-2010, 07:46 AM
Single guy- when a guy asks you to send a dirty picture... What exactly does he have in mind? I don't consider me naked "dirty". But I don't really know what you guys are thinking here cause us chicks really aren't into cock shots.

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Victoria669Jones
08-07-2010, 07:53 AM
I've got one.

I'm married to a completely wonderful guy, he's loyal, intelligent, and drop dead gorgeous. I'm polyamorous by nature, but I am completely monogamous with him and would never cheat. I am totally up for threesomes, watching porn, going to the strip club etc, but he isn't comfortable with doing these things with me. He'll go to the strip club with me but seems a bit uneasy there, even though I know he used to go with his mates when he was in the Marines. I know he used to watch tons of porn when he was single. Why doesn't he feel comfortable with doing this stuff with me? I thought I was a man's dream come true being into all this stuff, but I feel like I have to repress it around him.

Spankie55
08-07-2010, 08:02 AM
Dear Single guy,

Why is my male cat always sniffing my female cat's butt? They are both fixed!

It's how they say hello like doggies.
And the female cat can still emit certain hormones that will still attract the male even though they are both fixed.
Down here we have a saying.."Eyyy girl..I like the way yo butt stank-yo momma let you date?" Lols.

Trem
08-07-2010, 12:55 PM
Single guy- when a guy asks you to send a dirty picture... What exactly does he have in mind?

Masturbation.

Jenna78
08-07-2010, 02:17 PM
Victoria669Jones, My bf is really open about talking about masturbating and sex stuff. But it took me some work to get him to masturbate with/near me. I horned in on him masturbating to lesbian porn and he made me go away! Then the second time I tried he let me join him but he was kind of uncomfortable. He was kind of shy about the porn he was watching, like I was going to judge it? He is a very outgoing, shares everything person so I was a little puzzled and hurt honestly. But he was just shy and also I think masterbating is very personal. Even in the closest relationship it feels good to keep some things separate. Also, I think guys are scared they will get in trouble or you are tricking them somehow. And then you will throw this back at them later.

I am interested to hear what "a single guy" says about this.

stripperMBA
08-07-2010, 06:04 PM
ask anything..........
ok ....
have you ever got so drunk, high , etc.. that you peed in ur eye?????
I have always wondered if that is possible....
yup

J.D.
08-07-2010, 09:58 PM
I haven't had time to read all of the responses. But I'll throw in my two cents worth to
a select few. First, J.D. and her "How do I fuck with their minds?" question. To J.D. I have
a question, if you heard a guy ask , "How do I fuck with J.D.'s mind, etc.?" would you want to
see him ever again?
As for the "What do guys masterbate with? Answer, baby oil, albolene, etc.
The lubricant should offer an easy, smooth stroke with quick, no mess clean up.
And why do guys cheat? Because, chicken, no matter how it's cooked is still chicken and every now and then a guy wants beef. Or, in other words, the same old same old is boring. Also, we choose for different reasons. Women are sex objects.
Men are success objects. Put a women in a room full of rich, high profile celebrities and
there's a good chance she'll drop her drawers with one of them that night. With that in mind, consider the following. A strip club is full of sex objects, but on any given night there are
few high profile celebrities. Bottom line, it's easier for a man to find a sex object than it is
for a woman to find a success object. So men cheat more.
Finally, men who cheat are genetically disposed to....they're hard wired for it!

No, no, no, you've got it wrong.... Men are money objects, they will always need us, but we don't need them. Seriously, my vibrator has gotten me off better than any man ever has. Men won't admit it, but they secretly like to chase women and work for it, so smart women won't sell themselves short and give it up easily, they capitalize on that shit. Don't get it twisted.

J.D.
08-07-2010, 10:04 PM
I would say to bust down a cocky guy. play hard to get or just fuck the shit out of him and ignore him after that lol

This is basically what I did. Poor guy didn't know what hit him, I had all my windows open and it was the middle of the afternoon on my kitchen counter, and the best part was when my neighbor was peeking over the rail of my terrace watching us, and made direct eye contact with him, he probably thinks I'm crazy, and right now Zinaida and my other really hot girlfriend, and my roommate are all at my apartment, so a bunch of naked drunk women were running around like a stripper sorority house. :D

Trem
08-08-2010, 09:05 AM
This is basically what I did. Poor guy didn't know what hit him, I had all my windows open and it was the middle of the afternoon on my kitchen counter, and the best part was when my neighbor was peeking over the rail of my terrace watching us, and made direct eye contact with him, he probably thinks I'm crazy, and right now Zinaida and my other really hot girlfriend, and my roommate are all at my apartment, so a bunch of naked drunk women were running around like a stripper sorority house. :D

This is the kind of stuff men dream women do and women tell us never actually happens. I so knew they were lying!

J.D.
08-08-2010, 09:06 AM
This is the kind of stuff men dream women do and women tell us never actually happens. I so knew they were lying!

Oh trust me. It happened.

J.D.
08-08-2010, 09:07 AM
Single guy- when a guy asks you to send a dirty picture... What exactly does he have in mind? I don't consider me naked "dirty". But I don't really know what you guys are thinking here cause us chicks really aren't into cock shots.

What? I am! I used to have whole collection of pictures guys had sent me in my old phone.

J.D.
08-08-2010, 09:09 AM
I haven't DJ'd since last summer, but I'm actually considering finding a club to work the swing shift at for extra income.

In the past I've worked at,

The Fare (back when it was on lower Greenville)
Lipsticks
Dreams
The Penthouse Key Club
The Palace
XTC
Fort Worth Gentlemen's club


Have you worked in Dallas before?

I've worked at these places, as well as The Men's Club, Babydolls, The Lodge, Jaguars, Rick's in Fort Worth, and most recently Silver City. Don't ask why I worked at Lipsticks, I don't know what I was thinking!

ArmySGT.
08-08-2010, 12:32 PM
Why do men cheat?

The same reason a dog licks his balls, because he can.

ArmySGT.
08-08-2010, 12:50 PM
This is basically what I did. Poor guy didn't know what hit him, I had all my windows open and it was the middle of the afternoon on my kitchen counter, and the best part was when my neighbor was peeking over the rail of my terrace watching us, and made direct eye contact with him, he probably thinks I'm crazy, and right now Zinaida and my other really hot girlfriend, and my roommate are all at my apartment, so a bunch of naked drunk women were running around like a stripper sorority house. :D

Shenanigans!

Pics or it didn't happen!

she sells sanctuary
08-08-2010, 01:38 PM
ok. i want a detailed answer.

what are the stereotypes/beliefs guys have about certain races/ethnic groups that make guys want to fuck chicks? date chicks? marry chicks? what beliefs do they have that make them want to avoid women from those backgrounds? (like a pro/con type list maybe)

i'm aware of the stereotypes about asians, but that's the only one i'm really familar with. there's the shy, reserved girl who is sexually submissive and always ready to do whatever her man wants. then there's the insatiable dragon lady who gets her kicks seducing and destroying men with her sexuality. both are total bs, but a lot of guys seem to believe this shit. probably because many of the asian women non-asian men have had intimate contact with, historically, have been prostitutes or trying to find someone to give her a better life than what she had come from, something women of all races are often inclined to try.

but i've been doing research on all this stuff lately, so the more opinions i can find, the better.

and i know guys talk about that stuff.

personally, i actually probably fit the docile asian stereotype, right down to have an eastern-style philosophy on life. and i always end up finding out that the white guys i like only like asian girls. and it's like dood, i'm not asian, but i'll be glad to love you long time. open your mind a little. but they won't. sad. well, sometimes the guys i like like latinas. and again, no compromising. bummer.

she sells sanctuary
08-08-2010, 07:43 PM
so does "self help book, prescription drug" refer to modern silliness? or did you mean something different when you were talking about silliness? i think it's funny you'd mention that, because i'm southern. nice southern families don't believe in psychiatry. they believe in whisky. i briefly saw a shrink when i was younger and going through some stuff, found him worthless and decided not to return when he tried to write me a prescription. mostly because he thought i was depressed, and i wasn't. if anything i've got ADD, and i get bummed by how much it impairs my life. i figured he assumed depression because he was depressed himself...for some reason crazy people like to work in the mental health profession. imagine going to a doctor for a sore throat and it turned out the dude treating you was a leper. lol.

my stepmom is italian-american (well, former stepmom. dad finally came to his senses 20 years in). her family was very italian. very two-faced. as i was only a young child when i first was around them, i got to hear all their shittalk about outsiders. and believe me, she was insane. and i'd rather someone read self-help books and go to a shrink than yell all the time about how everyone is trying to bring them down, but they have angels protecting them. for 20 years, she threatened to divorce my dad anytime he wasn't kissing her ass, and when he finally said 'ok' she accused him of leaving her for another woman and began stalking a female friend of his.

oh, and while i appreciate your input, i meant more like the stereotypes guys in general have. not what you personally like. i know guys talk about that kind of stuff. i've heard them say it around me, and i ignored it because i thought it was stupid. but now i'm interested in knowing. like the "guys think latinas are...", "guys think asians are..." like everyone has his tastes, but they usually involve the same stereotypes. some guys, like you, like the stereotype of latinas and italians. others don't, but for the same reasons that you like them. you know what i mean?

i guess for a white girl, i'm a pretty stereotypical latina. and i get mistaken a lot for latina, or sometimes italian. guys will be really into me, into my appearance and personality, and the sex, and everything. then they'll start trying to practice spanish on me, or asking me about my culture, and i'll realize that they think i'm latina. and i'll tell them i'm just a white girl with a dark complexion and curves. and they lose interest. so it's something that attracts them beside just the look or personality or sex or any of it. and that's why i want to know about the stereotypes, to try to figure out why it is that a guy can be turned off by a girl he was just into when he discovers that her ethnicity is less exotic than he thought. i didn't change. his perception of me changed. and if his perception changed, how much of it was accurate in the first place.

like if i get feisty as a white girl, i'm a bitch. but if i get feisty as a latina, i'm passionate. if i'm freaky as a white girl, i must've been molested or something, or i'm trying to trick them into marrying me or buying me stuff. but if i'm freaky as a latina, i'm just sensual, because latinas all love sex. apparently. etc.

oh, and irish guys love me. which is great, cos i like skinny pale guys with freckles. but it can also suck, cos then the guy i was so attracted to loses interest if he's hung up on stereotypes.

You Know Me
08-08-2010, 09:34 PM
.......

Somethings are just better left unsaid.

Jessie_tinydancer
08-08-2010, 11:18 PM
Masturbation.

So like a pic of my nooni with a dildo in it or something? LOL At risk of sounding stupid. This is one area I really have no experience in.


What? I am! I used to have whole collection of pictures guys had sent me in my old phone.

Really? guess its just me then. Thats why I wouldnt know what to send back. For me I'd like a pic of a girls boobs, ass or a guys abs, but I dont need to see cocks or vajayjay's. :D

she sells sanctuary
08-09-2010, 01:49 AM
youknowme... sorry, i'm not feeling you on the stereotypes thing. like i said, they like what they see, then they lose interest when they realize they are wrong. i've noticed that in general people like it when they're assumptions are reinforced. people want to hear what they want to hear, and if you tell it to them, they'll like you more. i've learned this the hard way, so try to trust me when i say it.

but i totally agree with you on cocky guys and on texting. extremely. i like nice guys, exclusively. i hate cocky guys. occasionally cocky guys have managed to fool me into thinking they were nice, but that's the only way they ever get a chance. there are plenty of A+ quality men out there who are actually humble about it. and that's hot as hell. plus, cocky guys usually have a lot less to offer, they were just coddled by their mommies growing up. mostly, you really can't do anything to get to them. they're too self-involved and undeservedly confident. they don't have the empathy to give a fuck. i've gotten a couple straight up pissed by turning them down, usually by laughing right at them. some get attitudes. some think i'm playing, then get attitudes when they realize i just don't want them. but it's not me they care about. it's just the insult to their egos. they get over it pretty fast, and just write me off as the bitch. they never once consider they might have deserved rejection. they're worthless.

jessie...i think by masturbation, having your finger on your clit would be sufficient. hell, playing with your tits is pretty satisfactory too. hell, have a popsicle in your mouth and a naughty smile, if you don't mind naughty face pics of you out there.

and i totally don't understand dick pics. especially on guys with eh dicks. this one guy kept sending me pics of his cock, which was average at best. meanwhile, his body was hot as hell, and his face was gorgeous, and he got the sexiest of sexy looks on his faces. why not send me a pic of that? that's what will get me horny, that's what i'll show up for. dicks are dicks are dicks. plus, he had erection issues cos he partied a lot. send a pic illustrating your strengths. like if i sent a pic, i'd do a pick of me putting something in my mouth. that's my strength. lol. but i don't send pics.

rickdugan
08-09-2010, 04:51 AM
oh, and while i appreciate your input, i meant more like the stereotypes guys in general have. not what you personally like. i know guys talk about that kind of stuff. i've heard them say it around me, and i ignored it because i thought it was stupid. but now i'm interested in knowing. like the "guys think latinas are...", "guys think asians are..." like everyone has his tastes, but they usually involve the same stereotypes. some guys, like you, like the stereotype of latinas and italians. others don't, but for the same reasons that you like them. you know what i mean?

Sorry - I misunderstood what you were looking for. I don't really think that there are universal stereotypes for each group.

For example, if you posted a "what do you think about Asian girls" question on here you would get a variety of answers. Same with Latinas IMO.

I think perceptions vary based upon each guy's particular experiences.

silk55
08-09-2010, 05:06 AM
This is basically what I did. Poor guy didn't know what hit him, I had all my windows open and it was the middle of the afternoon on my kitchen counter, and the best part was when my neighbor was peeking over the rail of my terrace watching us, and made direct eye contact with him, he probably thinks I'm crazy, and right now Zinaida and my other really hot girlfriend, and my roommate are all at my apartment, so a bunch of naked drunk women were running around like a stripper sorority house. :D


ummm "GOD DAMN!" :smiley_go

Trem
08-09-2010, 10:16 AM
So like a pic of my nooni with a dildo in it or something? LOL At risk of sounding stupid. This is one area I really have no experience in.


Well its really personal preference, i'm a booty/legs man not a boob/coochie guy but i have no idea what your particular guy would like. P.S. i love the word nooni lol.

majordon
08-09-2010, 08:47 PM
Haven't heard from miracleDJ since Fri. I think he's been overwhelmed. I know I would be !!!

Fun thread, though. Now worries about hijacking when the thread is by definition about WHATEVER.

Athenathefabulous
08-09-2010, 09:10 PM
I thought this would be a good idea to help some ladies here and be fun for me. Since we're online and there's a certain level of anonymity I can be very honest. I've always been honest to a fault so I think I'm a good candidate to host a thread like this.

A few quick things about me. I'm 32 yrs old. I work from home, so this thread will hopefully be a nice distraction for me during the work day. Without getting into too many details I'm a pretty average normal guy I would think. I'm very outgoing and make friends easily. I think I have good insight into what most guys are thinking.

So here's the question, have you ever wanted the brutal God's honest truth into what your bf/husband/or just guys in general are thinking? Well I can't tell you exactly what they are thinking, but I bet you I have a much better idea than you do.

So ask away ladies!

alright ill take a stab.


What is your bank account and pin number? That would be a nice start! :D

KIDDING! before someone yells at me :P.

Jessie_tinydancer
08-09-2010, 11:38 PM
Well its really personal preference, i'm a booty/legs man not a boob/coochie guy but i have no idea what your particular guy would like. P.S. i love the word nooni lol.

hahaha my hungarian girlfriend calls it that. I don't know if its an actual hungarian word or just a nickname LOL.

lemiwinks31
08-10-2010, 09:49 AM
hahaha my hungarian girlfriend calls it that. I don't know if its an actual hungarian word or just a nickname LOL.



In another thread, someone called it a 'growler'

I had never heard that one before...but its my favorite.

rickdugan
08-10-2010, 06:13 PM
This is basically what I did. Poor guy didn't know what hit him, I had all my windows open and it was the middle of the afternoon on my kitchen counter, and the best part was when my neighbor was peeking over the rail of my terrace watching us, and made direct eye contact with him, he probably thinks I'm crazy, and right now Zinaida and my other really hot girlfriend, and my roommate are all at my apartment, so a bunch of naked drunk women were running around like a stripper sorority house. :D

Yeah, you showed him. He fucked a hot girl while a bunch of other hot naked girls were running around the apartment. ;)

If you really want to fuck him up, give him affection for a week or so, tell him how much he means to you and how safe you feel with him, sprinkle in a lot of tease, a little INTIMATE and "emotional" sex (once only), then ignore him for a few days. Then rinse and repeat, but without the sex. That will fuck him up pretty badly if it goes on for a few weeks. He will be living on that one encounter for weeks, hoping to get close to you again emotionally AND physically.

Though I honestly don't know why I am telling you how to fuck a guy up except I have had too much Jack. I understand why you wouldn't like club guys, but why would you want to treat a potentially good guy you meet outside a club like shit?

AngelKing
08-11-2010, 07:46 AM
Yeah, you showed him. He fucked a hot girl while a bunch of other hot naked girls were running around the apartment. ;)

If you really want to fuck him up, give him affection for a week or so, tell him how much he means to you and how safe you feel with him, sprinkle in a lot of tease, a little INTIMATE and "emotional" sex (once only), then ignore him for a few days. Then rinse and repeat, but without the sex. That will fuck him up pretty badly if it goes on for a few weeks. He will be living on that one encounter for weeks, hoping to get close to you again emotionally AND physically.

Though I honestly don't know why I am telling you how to fuck a guy up except I have had too much Jack. I understand why you wouldn't like club guys, but why would you want to treat a potentially good guy you meet outside a club like shit?

Or maybe you should just get with guys that you don't have to play games with.

Mr Hyde
08-11-2010, 08:13 AM
This is basically what I did. Poor guy didn't know what hit him, I had all my windows open and it was the middle of the afternoon on my kitchen counter, and the best part was when my neighbor was peeking over the rail of my terrace watching us, and made direct eye contact with him, he probably thinks I'm crazy, and right now Zinaida and my other really hot girlfriend, and my roommate are all at my apartment, so a bunch of naked drunk women were running around like a stripper sorority house. :D

I don't care whether this story is true or not, it just became reality for me. Now, where's my baby oil, or albolene...

princessjas
08-12-2010, 07:18 PM
Or maybe you should just get with guys that you don't have to play games with.

This!!

I used to have all sorts of rules for dating and such, like not sleeping with them until a certain point, etc. Now I just avoid guys that make that sorta thing necessary....but still wait a while to give it up, not because I'm playing with them, but because I now don't want to sleep with em until I know them very well.

Trem
08-12-2010, 08:02 PM
hahaha my hungarian girlfriend calls it that. I don't know if its an actual hungarian word or just a nickname LOL.

It's just so innocent sounding, specially when you are talking about shoving a dildo in it and taking a picture lol.

MiracleDJ
08-13-2010, 09:08 AM
My apologies for ignoring this thread the past couple of days. I sprang a water leak from underneath my shower and it caused me a big fiasco. Nothing like home repairs FTMFL!


Edit: just out of curiosity... anyone know why this thread was moved and/or my post count says 2?

MiracleDJ
08-13-2010, 09:24 AM
Ok, I have one...

I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months now. About two months ago he asked me to move in. I asked him what moving in together meant for him and where he saw us going, and he said he saw us getting married.

He talks about getting married (not too frequently, but none the less...) and is very honest about his commitment towards our relationship. Living together with him is awesome and he always tells me how much he loves me and how lucky he is.

Anyway, my question is how do I get him to actually propose? I have a feeling he's waiting for me to finish my last semester of school, but I just want to be sure. What can I do that will make him want to put a ring on it? Or at the very least give me a time line?


hmmmm, well the idea of marriage scares me shitless tbh, but my brother is married and I have a couple of married friends. The common theme they've all told me is the pressure they felt to plan the perfect proposal and also save for the engagement ring of their fiancee's dreams.

So I think the worst thing you could do is add more pressure to an already stressful situation. I also don't think its something you can "make" happen. Obviously, the more you develop your relationship the better the chances are he will want to expedite his proposal.

I could be a little off base here, but I think the best approach would be a little nudge now and again. Any time it comes up in conversation a quick mention, something to the effect of "I sometimes think about being married", and then let it go. Of course a heart to heart is an option too, but I might save that card to play later if things really start to drag out.

But the best advice I can give is just try and remember its just as stressful for him. In fact, maybe you might want to mention when the topic comes up in conversation. I don't need the perfect proposal or the biggest ring, I just need the person I'm meant to be with for the rest of my life. If you feel that way, saying something like that could ease his stress.

MiracleDJ
08-13-2010, 09:28 AM
Single guy- when a guy asks you to send a dirty picture... What exactly does he have in mind? I don't consider me naked "dirty". But I don't really know what you guys are thinking here cause us chicks really aren't into cock shots.


Well there's no doubt dirty = nude. So that is what he is asking for. As for why he might ask for a dirty pic. He just wants to see if you'll do it, kind of like a freak-o-meter. I know I've been around girls who talk alot of shit b4 and I've asked some of them for pics just to see how prude they are.

Warning: it probably goes without saying, but nowadays you need to really trust the person your sending any pic of yourself to, unless you don't mind the rest of the world seeing it too.