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malayataylor
08-06-2010, 12:22 PM
k pmed you back. Yeah I'm the saaame way... except right now I'm not working as much so it's all housework no play lol!
Yeah I got it and saved it on my phone. LOL @ All housework and no play. I'm pretty sure you get out once in a while though . I don't get out ANY.. It sucks! We should go to the Epic Center one of these weekends!
Harleigh HellKat
08-06-2010, 12:27 PM
I googled it, it looks awesome!!
I wish all the SW girls could get together an have a reunion!! <3
malayataylor
08-06-2010, 12:34 PM
I googled it, it looks awesome!!
I wish all the SW girls could get together an have a reunion!! <3
That would be awesome! Wasn't there a discussion about that once. I especially wanna meet you, Devon, Raven, Minnie, Avery, PPG, Elvia and Kylea so so so so so bad! :(
You've never been to the Epic center? WOW girl! You'd love the music factory as well. They're both pretty fab spots! Now we HAVE to go. Have you been to cosmos in Ballentyne? It's a restaurant/club at night Super HOT RICH persian guys.. OMG! I fall in love every time I go there.
Harleigh HellKat
08-06-2010, 12:43 PM
Nope, I'm new-ish to the area and haven't gotten out much. Plus I live in the country. The only place I know so far are the Farmer's Market (awesome, they have fresh fruit, handmade chocolates and wine there.) the Common Market, where we go to buy microbrewed beer, sake, wine, etc, and a few music venues where I've done fetish shows.
malayataylor
08-06-2010, 12:47 PM
Nope, I'm new-ish to the area and haven't gotten out much. Plus I live in the country. The only place I know so far are the Farmer's Market (awesome, they have fresh fruit, handmade chocolates and wine there.) the Common Market, where we go to buy microbrewed beer, sake, wine, etc, and a few music venues where I've done fetish shows.
:O I visited these places with my boyfriend when we would go out. I've never been to the Farmer's Market. I need to go bad! I'll be shopping for goat meat and crayfish actually lol I know weird. I'm not a fruit person at all and handmade chocolates sound yummy as hell! I have never tried Sake! Have you seen Memoirs of a Geisha the movie? I want to try Sake JUST because of that movie .. LOL!
Harleigh HellKat
08-06-2010, 12:51 PM
Most sake is really strong tasting. I had some sparkling sake once that was really good. It was like sake champagne. :D
Arialandre
08-06-2010, 01:23 PM
What the HELL??? Really people, really? I make a very humble, heartfelt appology to my lovely intelligent and supposedly MATURE ladies of SW then leave you lot alone for 24 hours and come back to THIS? What did you people do to my appology thread? Who is this RedHot person bickering with Malaya?
I'm not mad but I AM laughing my ass off at the rediculousness! All I wanted to do was say that I'm sorry because I've been so high strung lately. I got an job interview coming up with a company, and if I get the job I may actually have to break up with my practically husband. I'm a LITTLE stressed.
Thank you for everyone that actually took the time to acknowledge my appologies on here. everyone else is just lucky that rocking out to disco puts me in such a peppy mood :P
I've got my eye on you lot! Now play niceley and go run your respective empires!
*Mumbles* When I conqure the world and become God-King of the Universe bitches better watch out.....
KISSES!!!!
Harleigh HellKat
08-06-2010, 01:26 PM
Yeah I think EVERYONE is a little high strung lately... hence the thread turning into an argument. I know I have been. Oh and sorry about that last part, I'm a habitual threadjacker and I was getting all excited thinkin about hanging out! lol!
::runs off to run respective empire:: lolz...
Arialandre
08-06-2010, 01:34 PM
Heh Harleigh you can highjack my threads any time babe you rock!
*Rockin out to Jennifer Hudson 'One Night Only' ballad, switch to Beyonce 'One Night Only' dico version*
Aria is in a very good mood...
malayataylor
08-06-2010, 04:12 PM
What the HELL??? Really people, really? I make a very humble, heartfelt appology to my lovely intelligent and supposedly MATURE ladies of SW then leave you lot alone for 24 hours and come back to THIS? What did you people do to my appology thread? Who is this RedHot person bickering with Malaya?
I'm not mad but I AM laughing my ass off at the rediculousness! All I wanted to do was say that I'm sorry because I've been so high strung lately. I got an job interview coming up with a company, and if I get the job I may actually have to break up with my practically husband. I'm a LITTLE stressed.
Thank you for everyone that actually took the time to acknowledge my appologies on here. everyone else is just lucky that rocking out to disco puts me in such a peppy mood :P
I've got my eye on you lot! Now play niceley and go run your respective empires!
*Mumbles* When I conqure the world and become God-King of the Universe bitches better watch out.....
KISSES!!!!
It is unfair that once can't even post how they're feeling about their own life without someone questioning it. This is why I hate posting sometimes. Then some people had the nerve to take the troll's side over mine telling me that I started it when I was just minding my own business just because they have some personal issue with me.. LOL! Gotta love sw! I have some hardcore HATERS! lol.. it's all good!
I am so glad you are doing fine! You're silly @ breakup with my practical husband... lol. It shall be well with you. Take care now. Have an awesome day! I'm having one myself. :)
malayataylor
08-06-2010, 04:13 PM
Yeah I think EVERYONE is a little high strung lately... hence the thread turning into an argument. I know I have been. Oh and sorry about that last part, I'm a habitual threadjacker and I was getting all excited thinkin about hanging out! lol!
::runs off to run respective empire:: lolz...
I am looking forward to hanging out with you doll. We'd have too much fun!
will be in touch! Call anytime!
bluexxxtasy
08-06-2010, 04:24 PM
yeah we all need to get together and start like a sw family reunion lol
Arialandre
08-06-2010, 04:42 PM
Oh that would be awesome fun!Let's take it in Zones maybe. East cost, west coast, down south, UK, Australia, etc. Any BC/Seattle SW members in the house? I vote we either do it up at a lake in the Interior (by ME!) or in Vancouver, woot woot!
And then have a really BIG one somewhere awesome for everyone!
Taylorgrrl
08-06-2010, 05:07 PM
I got an job interview coming up with a company, and if I get the job I may actually have to break up with my practically husband. I'm a LITTLE stressed.
Do you want to talk about this? Why would you have to break up with your boy if you got the job?
I totally understand about stress spilling over into all areas of your life. Makes you want to put on an "I'm Sorry" t-shirt and just wear it around for a couple weeks to cover everybody.
Arialandre
08-06-2010, 05:32 PM
^ Word.
Ummm, so you know how sometimes you apply to things not thinking that you would actually even be considered it was just something that you always wanted to do and so you build up the courage to apply and just DO it one day? That's what I did.
A few weeks ago I applied to the Carman Fox escort agency in Vancouver. They are the premier escort agency on the west coast also owning Pacific Escorts (the $2000-$4000 for 3 hr min ladies!) I have wanted to work for them since I was 18 but all of their girls are super skinny white or asian chickies and I have just never felt good enough.
Anyway one day I applied just so that I could say, hey at least I APPLIED to my damn dream job even though I will probably never have a chance. And then never heard back from them (big suprise..not). And then a few weeks later (a couple of days ago) I got a call from their head office saying that they were really impressed with my application (it's a big one) and that theyreally want me to come in for an interview... My man doesnt know. If he know he would dump me on the spot. The interview is for next friday. I may still not get the job as I have packed on the pounds stress eating (over some other things) lately. But if I DO get the job there isn't enough wine in the world to make the decision easier for me.
Taylorgrrl
08-06-2010, 05:41 PM
Ah ha gotcha. Damn, that is rough.
I have no advice for you. I've always chased the dream job, assuming that I couldn't rely on anyone else to take care of me. The results have been a mixed bag.
I will tell you this: sit down, relax, close your eyes and try to picture your life five years from now if you get the job. Then do the same thing if you don't get it. See which version feels better.
Also, as you mentioned, there's a chance they won't hire you at all. So you might want to save the freak-out until after you have something to freak about about, you know? There will always be time in the future to have a melt-down, you don't need to do it right now.
malayataylor
08-06-2010, 10:28 PM
A few weeks ago I applied to the Carman Fox escort agency in Vancouver. They are the premier escort agency on the west coast also owning Pacific Escorts (the $2000-$4000 for 3 hr min ladies!) I have wanted to work for them since I was 18 but all of their girls are super skinny white or asian chickies and I have just never felt good enough.
I am very very familiar with this agency. I have a few friends that work for them. A 4hr call at Carman Fox is $1100-$1200 starting out. One hour is a standard $300. Alot of escort agencies have the "Bronze, Silver, Gold" ladies type thing ... in Carman's case "Pacific" and while they do have their minimums (For example Gold/Pacific 3-4 hour minimums) you have to think exactly how many calls are the Gold ladies getting? and how much of it do they get to keep. Take that into consideration when working with them. Good luck hun!
P.s also know that working with an agency you're in competition with other girls. Hell you advertise a $1000 for 2 hour girl and a $1000 for 4 hour girl who you think is gonna get picked? The 4 hour girl of course. This is why I hate agencies. They never let YOU (you as an individual) shine. Good luck love!
Harleigh HellKat
08-07-2010, 06:35 AM
I'm honestly really happy for you, if that's what you want. You'll have to make a biiiig decision though. Just really think about it and weigh your options.
And you 't have to be agency forever. Get your name out there, learn the business, then branch off and do your own thing.
malayataylor
08-07-2010, 06:42 AM
I'm honestly really happy for you, if that's what you want. You'll have to make a biiiig decision though. Just really think about it and weigh your options.
And you 't have to be agency forever. Get your name out there, learn the business, then branch off and do your own thing.
Ditto!
and POCKET ALL THAT MONEY !!!! @ Arial: You already know how I feel about the bf situations but best of luck love!
Arialandre
08-07-2010, 11:28 AM
Meh, I would be starting out with Carman Fox not Pacific. There are like 80 girls with the agency and I was wondering about the competion. But I also know they do parties like this weekend where they have 40 Foxes being called out for a massive party. I would end up being a $300/hr girl but Malaya if you know this agency do you know what % they take? I have been calculating everything at 40% which seems to be industry standard. I don't know anyone that works with them so what can you tell me about them? I would like to know something about them from someone that DOESN'T work for their head office.
malayataylor
08-07-2010, 11:44 AM
Meh, I would be starting out with Carman Fox not Pacific. There are like 80 girls with the agency and I was wondering about the competion. But I also know they do parties like this weekend where they have 40 Foxes being called out for a massive party. I would end up being a $300/hr girl but Malaya if you know this agency do you know what % they take? I have been calculating everything at 40% which seems to be industry standard. I don't know anyone that works with them so what can you tell me about them? I would like to know something about them from someone that DOESN'T work for their head office.
They didn't tell you what the split was/You didn't ask? The last I heard they took $100 each and every hour. So if you're starting at $300 you'll really be making $200 an hour .. which is NOT bad starting out. LOL @ 40% being industry standards.. trust me, Some people are just greedy fucks. The agency I worked for took 50% of my earnings at $300 an hour.. so umm yeah that was NOT fun! My girlfriend loves it there (Carman fox) the other says it's ok but it's really NO different than any other agency she's worked for. If I hear anything horrible I will let you know for sure but I think you should go for it!
Arialandre
08-07-2010, 04:19 PM
I haven't had the interview yet it's on Friday which is when I was going to ask them, lol. So many of the gencies i've heard of take 40% I have only ever once seen 50% so boooo on your old agency. I would be so totally chill wth $200/hr starting out, so nothing to scoff at. I would just really hope that I get a lot of work as Vancouver is a super expensive city to live. Though I would probably move back to Surrey, I know the area and I could get a killer place to live that would still be pretty affordable.
What I do know is that I am terrified about my weight right now. I know that agencies can take all different shapes and sizes but all the girls are so skinny. I am going hardcore on eating healthy this week, am running again and doing a billion crunches. Thick doesn't have to mean sloppy!
malayataylor
08-07-2010, 05:05 PM
I haven't had the interview yet it's on Friday which is when I was going to ask them, lol. So many of the gencies i've heard of take 40% I have only ever once seen 50% so boooo on your old agency. I would be so totally chill wth $200/hr starting out, so nothing to scoff at. I would just really hope that I get a lot of work as Vancouver is a super expensive city to live. Though I would probably move back to Surrey, I know the area and I could get a killer place to live that would still be pretty affordable.
What I do know is that I am terrified about my weight right now. I know that agencies can take all different shapes and sizes but all the girls are so skinny. I am going hardcore on eating healthy this week, am running again and doing a billion crunches. Thick doesn't have to mean sloppy!
Kool well write all the questions you want to ask them down. Yeah my old agency SUCKED .. that didnt last long .. LOL! Eh $200 to start is not bad.. however after a few months I'd highly recommend that you learn how to screen and branch out on your own charging double that. THE BAD THING about Carman fox is that they're not TER reviewed.. at least I've checked and didn't see anything. Usually guys won't see an independent if they dont' have reviews.. though there are ways around this... >>> will save this for another time.
Eh I'm 5'9, 135lbs 38D-26-36 and I do very well... on the other hand I know bbws like Sydney Le Blanc that do very well. Have a great attitude and treat your clients like they're the "only one" and you'll get lots of regs=more money.
>>>oK OK I'm done now promise! Good luck!
Arialandre
08-07-2010, 07:12 PM
Yeah I don't know we will see what happens. The cool thing about Carman is that $200 is def the highest I have seen girls getting agency wise so far in Canada (other than Pacific obviously) as most agencies I see CHARGING $200/hr. Booo. As for my size I'm just wierd. I'm too big to be average and too small to be bbw. It's not something I'm really worried about as my curves are kick ass it's just getting my tummy tone back that is being a real bitch.
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 02:35 AM
The best thing you can do for yourself right now is tone up not lose weight. Guys don't care about your size (some do but most don't) Just tone up and put on a smile. You'll be good. The last thing you want to do is look "sloppy" or like you don't take care of yourself ya know? because when you do branch out on your own it will be the talk of the review boards.
DevonSantos
08-08-2010, 12:52 PM
Yeah I don't know we will see what happens. The cool thing about Carman is that $200 is def the highest I have seen girls getting agency wise so far in Canada (other than Pacific obviously) as most agencies I see CHARGING $200/hr. Booo. As for my size I'm just wierd. I'm too big to be average and too small to be bbw. It's not something I'm really worried about as my curves are kick ass it's just getting my tummy tone back that is being a real bitch.
Simple! Workout more, eat less! You could also pop some Adderrall to curve your cravings and give you more energy and focus to workout longer and harder. Incorporate a diet of low to no carbs and in 4 weeks time baby you will be KILLER!!!!! Good luck my dear! xoxo
Arialandre
08-08-2010, 01:17 PM
Ummm, thanks? Lol, Babe, my last job was as a weight loss coach, I'm all over it, my stomach is already getting it's 6 pack lines back,lol. Thank you for your support and advice though. I was just being stupid cause I had been emotionally eating a lot lately and felt crappy. But i'm back to running and doing my crunches eating healthy and taking my Tonalin, yaaay. Hehehe I said "sloppy" but thats just cause I was all menstral and super bloated to sad total poochy tummy. The rest of my body is totally toned I just had to stop being lazy wait for my stupid menstral bloating to go down and get back to my ab workouts.
Harleigh HellKat
08-08-2010, 02:24 PM
I emotionally/bored eat also. But I'm going back to dancing soon sooooo less time to eat and more physical activity!
Also, do tell about the Tonalin... How is that working out for you? I think I need a supplement of some kind, definitely.
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 02:58 PM
I don't get emotional eating at all.. When I'm sad (not mad) I just pray..... then go shopping! That always helps me! I guess that's really not a good thing either.. LOL!
Arialandre
08-08-2010, 02:58 PM
It has conjugolated linolic acid (usually found in Safflower oil) that attacks abdominal fat. It also helps to clear up oyur skin and leaves you fresh faced, which is great because I wear so much makeup for work.
Also damn, now you have me wanting to work towards being a profession Domme again. Do outcalls (no way I can afford a dungeon right now). No sex, (opposed to escorting) charge big bucks, cause I think I would be like the only pro in town and well, I'm effing hot and deserve big bucks... I'd charge like $300/hr
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 04:04 PM
It has conjugolated linolic acid (usually found in Safflower oil) that attacks abdominal fat. It also helps to clear up oyur skin and leaves you fresh faced, which is great because I wear so much makeup for work.
Also damn, now you have me wanting to work towards being a profession Domme again. Do outcalls (no way I can afford a dungeon right now). No sex, (opposed to escorting) charge big bucks, cause I think I would be like the only pro in town and well, I'm effing hot and deserve big bucks... I'd charge like $300/hr
$300 is a very realistic goal for a High end domme given that the going rate for dommes IN America is $200.
GL
Arialandre
08-08-2010, 04:53 PM
Heh that's just for starting out. I will be the only pro-domme in my entire city, or at least the only one that advertises. Supply and demand ladies. I'm gorgeous, experiences and the only one... bring.it.on, lol.
Harleigh HellKat
08-08-2010, 04:56 PM
I want to charge 300 an hour as well... but I'm starting at 200, since I don't have a full kit yet. I figure I'll raise my rates by 25-50$ as I learn,grow, and get more equipment
I will be doing outcalls until I can afford a dungeon. I think boobs come before the dungeon though, for me. I eventually want to have a total space to cam/Domme/shoot in, complete with stripper pole, spanking benches, St. Andrews cross, etc.
Arialandre
08-08-2010, 05:06 PM
Oh yeah that would be freakin sweet! Who the hell needs a full kit to start out with? It's all in how you work it baby girl. Im going to collect on my way. Plus a sub friend of mine gave me a kick ass idea of how to collect gear from the sub clients as I go.
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 05:18 PM
Heh that's just for starting out. I will be the only pro-domme in my entire city, or at least the only one that advertises. Supply and demand ladies. I'm gorgeous, experiences and the only one... bring.it.on, lol.
Go for it hun. Gorgeous+Great personality= More money! I don't regret raising my rates at all for work! I cannot complain at all! Always charge what you think you time is worth!
Arialandre
08-08-2010, 05:22 PM
Awww thanks Malaya. Yeah I am a total have my cake and eat it too person. I want to keep my boyfriend and I LOVE being a domme. And as a Domme I could actually charge MORE keep it ALL, keep my bf and NOT have sex with ppl.
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 05:28 PM
Awww thanks Malaya. Yeah I am a total have my cake and eat it too person. I want to keep my boyfriend and I LOVE being a domme. And as a Domme I could actually charge MORE keep it ALL, keep my bf and NOT have sex with ppl.
Do what's best for you hun. You already know my thoughts on this but I'm starting to learn that not everyone thinks like Malaya.. I'm just a freak I guess.. LOL! :) Do what you feel is right. However, do it and be the best at it.. If you're great at it (Being a domme) who knows.. you could maybe start demanding higher rates sooner than later. Just don't put HIS needs before yours.. Be smart and take care of yourself. I have always said that we (women) should never be broke/without. Keep that in mind. Whatever you decide, Good luck!
Arialandre
08-08-2010, 05:41 PM
Hehehe, his needs before mine... I am the Queen of the Loophole! That's why I am camming and a Domme and he's still trying to figure out how it all happened. It's about finess. If I can get MORE money for doing LESS then why the hell not? I'm a good Domme, hell I'd go so far as to say that I'm a great Domme (thank you background in councelling and psychology!). And as a pro-Domme I can keep working long after I would have been kicked out of the escorting game. If I can still marry the man I want to marry and make double the money I would have made doing something where I would have to give him up... well to me this is a no brainer. I am a selfish bitch. I want my man. I want my money. And I want my power.
Malaya you are full of amazing advice and always so supportive of my choices and I want to thank you for that. You say that you would give up escorting for your husband, well my man is pretty damn close to being my husband, as in I'm on his medical, I'm his beneficiary (yes leagally on paper), there is a ring on my finger, he calls me his wife and we are just saving up for our dream wedding. I call him my bf and not my fiance because I refuse to let him offically propose (it's really a formality but whatever I want the romance) until we have the money for the dream wedding because I don't want a super long engagement while we are saving up. I know I'm wierd but I have this image in my head and I'm making him stick to it,lol.
So yeah, I'm trying to figure out a compromise for the man I plan on spendng the rest of my life with. But it's fair to me because he compromises for me to :D
malayataylor
08-08-2010, 05:50 PM
Malaya you are full of amazing advice and always so supportive of my choices and I want to thank you for that. You say that you would give up escorting for your husband, well my man is pretty damn close to being my husband, as in I'm on his medical, I'm his beneficiary (yes leagally on paper), there is a ring on my finger, he calls me his wife and we are just saving up for our dream wedding. I call him my bf and not my fiance because I refuse to let him offically propose (it's really a formality but whatever I want the romance) until we have the money for the dream wedding because I don't want a super long engagement while we are saving up. I know I'm wierd but I have this image in my head and I'm making him stick to it,lol.
So yeah, I'm trying to figure out a compromise for the man I plan on spendng the rest of my life with. But it's fair to me because he compromises for me to :D
Eh as much as a money hungry bitch I am ..Screw a dream wedding. I'll take the Courthouse and we can do the fancy schmancy stuff later. I guess everyone is different. Hell Im definitely not the one to wait on that dream wedding. I want my man regardless even if he put aluminum foil on my finger and we got married in a hut (yes I said it). That stuff shouldn't matter when it comes to "love". I don't believe in giving it all up for "boyfriends" I feel like if a guy really wanted you and only you then he would agree to marry. I love how you always throw the fact that I said I'd give up escorting for my hubby LMAO.. Girl hell yeah! I feel he deserves at least that! I haven't always felt this way but I guess cupid shot me and made me think twice :).
I'll say this.. My man can put a ring on my finger all he wants but until I see it on paper that we're married then I'll continue working as an escort. He can call me wife all he wants and move in ..it wouldn't change anything. I am very wary of men after previous relationships lol. Everyone is different of course.
Arialandre
08-08-2010, 06:09 PM
Hahahaha, oh he's not the one digging in his heels I am! :D