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Angel75217
05-20-2011, 06:39 PM
I just wanted to do another update because I was checking out my account. Haven't been on in a while and it's crazy to look back at how things were.

.. in less then a year I've moved into my own place, replaced everything he stole (lap top etc), have a great man and I'm 100% independent with a great job. I know that's supposed to be normal but it's a big deal for me, someone that started out where I was.

Only had a little more drama after my last posts, mostly of his new girlfriend texting me claiming she was going to fight me, while at the same time informing me she was pregnant... she's gonna be a great mom ;)

I'm happy to say that I now live a happy, stress free life. I do what I want when I want and I have fun. And this boyfriend loves the same stuff I do and if he didn't he'd probably still go with me to do it. Or at the least he would tell me to go with my friends.. he has before.

ML
05-20-2011, 06:45 PM
I'm happy to say that I now live a happy, stress free life. I do what I want when I want and I have fun. And this boyfriend loves the same stuff I do and if he didn't he'd probably still go with me to do it. Or at the least he would tell me to go with my friends.. he has before.

Sounds to me like everything worked out well! ;D

RaRa
05-20-2011, 07:45 PM
Sorry this has happened to you. On the bright side his actions have made sure you don't keep bouncing back to him several times before seeing sense like a lot of women do.
Every time he brings up all the odds and ends he wants remind him of the money he owes you from the business, maybe you can then do a 'deal" that you'll drop your demands for your cash investment returned if you can have your cars?
Good luck,

Angel75217
05-20-2011, 07:50 PM
I think I have to call it a loss on the stuff. It sucks but it's material. I'm sure life will play it's own revenge on him in the end, and in the long run being happy was worth losing the stuff. Hell I'd have given up more to be where I am now.

IsobelWren
05-21-2011, 12:49 PM
I'm adding my voice to the chorus of DUMP HIMMMMM.

Camateur
05-22-2011, 05:24 AM
Not liking anything you like seems like an indirect rejection of you; I agree with whoever said it's also a way of controlling you.

***Oops old thread

Angel75217
05-22-2011, 05:46 PM
Camature > you couldn't be more right. To me it was a rejection of who I was, to him it was controlling. But now I'm in control of my life again and it's going better then it ever had in the 4 years with him.