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Kellydancer
07-16-2011, 11:54 AM
I didn't take it offensive at all, just describing people. I've gotten in trouble because when I describe people I often use race to describe them. I will say that I live in a lily white are and the JW's who come to the door are all black and this was the same at my former residence (mostly black). JW's coming to my door annoy me because they won't leave. I'm polite but they stand there until I close the door.

chanzep
07-16-2011, 12:48 PM
So tired been working so much.

unbeleavable
07-16-2011, 01:02 PM
I feel left out...I want to Mod something too...or just let me ban someone.

MISS.NY
07-16-2011, 01:04 PM
I HATE MY AUNT..I HATE THAT BITCH. I REEEEAAALLLY HATE HER. I need to move but i can't leave my mama

_Avery_
07-16-2011, 04:25 PM
wtf @ only my right nipple leaking...

yeah, that sounds nasty....I know...lol

Mindy Bares All
07-16-2011, 05:15 PM
I'm about to go check out a club with a friend! :D I'm so nervous and excited!!

How much is acceptable to tip a dancer, if I just ask her questions about the club?

_Avery_
07-16-2011, 05:18 PM
I feel left out...I want to Mod something too...or just let me ban someone.

Lol I was thinking the same thing. :P

4everresolutions
07-16-2011, 06:02 PM
I'm about to go check out a club with a friend! :D I'm so nervous and excited!!

How much is acceptable to tip a dancer, if I just ask her questions about the club?

You can ask her to sit for 10 minutes, buy her a drink and hand her a $20, if it's slow they'll probably accept - but don't expect anything she says to be truthful. Lots of girls lie to new women who want to dance just to malicious, no one wants more competition. Or maybe she's a sweet girl who just won't let her hustle down and tells you the club is all butterflys and rainbows, and management is amazing, the dressing room is a palace, etc; when the reality is quite different.

I've been asked questions in the club by MANY girls in the past who have wanted to become strippers, and none of them returned the next day to try out. I stick to the Sunshine and rainbows routine - tends to get more tips.

Have fun!

Mindy Bares All
07-16-2011, 06:37 PM
Maybe go during dayshift since it's slower and she'll sit with you for free/a drink and be more likely to give you good info.


You can ask her to sit for 10 minutes, buy her a drink and hand her a $20, if it's slow they'll probably accept - but don't expect anything she says to be truthful. Lots of girls lie to new women who want to dance just to malicious, no one wants more competition. Or maybe she's a sweet girl who just won't let her hustle down and tells you the club is all butterflys and rainbows, and management is amazing, the dressing room is a palace, etc; when the reality is quite different.

I've been asked questions in the club by MANY girls in the past who have wanted to become strippers, and none of them returned the next day to try out. I stick to the Sunshine and rainbows routine - tends to get more tips.

Have fun!

I just went. It's 21 to enter, but I figured it would be okay since I was checking it out as a potential dancer, and the old security gut followed me around and I got to check out the place for maybe 30 seconds. When I went to ask one of the girls about the place, the guy interrupted her. She seemed really sweet, and like she was going to answer my questions, but the guy was such a dick. It's like CLEARLY they could see that I wasn't going up to the bar to drink.

Either way, the place is really small, and I wouldn't want to bother.

Has anyone else had this issue? Like do they expect us to seriously check it out as we're there to audition?

4everresolutions
07-16-2011, 06:46 PM
Like do they expect us to seriously check it out as we're there to audition?

Yes, usually. You wouldn't believe how many girls SC's get in a week coming in to "check it out". Every 19 year old wants to be a stripper at some point, and they can't have 3-4 underaged girls walking around the club every satuday night.

Go audition, and work a shift. That's the only real way to know if you'd like it there. Walking around isn't going to tell you much that reviews/SW can't tell you.

chanzep
07-17-2011, 07:09 AM
Im about to do 5 days in a row argh!

anouk.oui
07-17-2011, 08:52 AM
had a nice lazy weekend with the bf
currently thinking up femdomme scenarios
i cant wait to punish him again!

Eva Rose
07-17-2011, 09:01 AM
One more week of freedom before Jury Duty. I hope to whatever's up there that i don't get selected. If so, that's my life permanently on hold for the next six months. I HAD TRAVEL PLANS GODDAMNIT! WHY A 26 WEEK TRIAL? WHY???

Almost Jaded
07-17-2011, 01:47 PM
Eva - kudos to you for indicating that you would perform if selected. So many dodge jury duty. It scares me, were I ever to be arrested - as the saying goes; "you are judged by 12 of your peers not smart enough to get out of jury duty". I hope at least or two of them would be like you and me!!!

Anouk - you're in the lifestyle? Iiiiiinnnnterestinnnngg.... :devil:

Sammii - Send a message. Be careful where you meet - IF you meet - the first couple of times. In all likelihood it's some asshat looking to get laid by a desperate girl, but who knows? Can't hurt to *carefully* look into it...

Why do I know so many successful entrepreneurs and self made millionaires, all of whom like me, all of whom love my ideas and constantly ask me what I have cooking and want to be involved - but I can never find the right combination of people and interest and timing to get my new projects launched?!?! This is annoying me more and more every day. After last night, it's heavy on my brain.

kaiarose
07-17-2011, 06:00 PM
Woo-hoo!! I got my interwebz back :) Soo many threads to catch up on though...ugh...

_Avery_
07-17-2011, 07:06 PM
Going blonde...almost there..

thinking of giving work a test run on Tuesday. (as long as my hair doesn't fall out!) lol

4everresolutions
07-17-2011, 07:08 PM
It looks really good! Impressive! Did you do it all in one day?

_Avery_
07-17-2011, 07:41 PM
It looks really good! Impressive! Did you do it all in one day?

Started yesterday with just some bleach...came out like this: (which I actually kinda liked) but told myself that if I'm going to have red hair, I want it like blood red, not orange...so today went and got another bleach kit and a bronze remover.
It's still a little orange (much better than yesterday though), so tomorrow am gonna buy one more bleach and bronze remover kit and PRAY that that will be the end of it. If not, I have the blood red dye and will just dye it that.

Thank GOODNESS my hair is still feeling good and healthy and hasn't fallen out..lol...just don't wanna jinx myself. :P

ArmySGT.
07-17-2011, 07:56 PM
I liked the Red better but that is my all around preference.

Both look really goodl

Your killing me here.

The

Hot

Nesssssssssssssssssssss }:D

4everresolutions
07-17-2011, 08:16 PM
Started yesterday with just some bleach...came out like this: (which I actually kinda liked) but told myself that if I'm going to have red hair, I want it like blood red, not orange...so today went and got another bleach kit and a bronze remover.
It's still a little orange (much better than yesterday though), so tomorrow am gonna buy one more bleach and bronze remover kit and PRAY that that will be the end of it. If not, I have the blood red dye and will just dye it that.

Thank GOODNESS my hair is still feeling good and healthy and hasn't fallen out..lol...just don't wanna jinx myself. :P

Your hair looked really healthy still in those blonde pictures you posted. It looks so good on you!

Don't forget you can use a toner to get the final bronze-ness orangey-ness out if you still have some left after the next bleach. I used to use Ivory Lady (I think by Wella), mix it with a 20 vol developer and let it sit for like, an hour. Turned my hair from brassy yellow orange to soft ash medium blonde.

Good luck!

Jessie_tinydancer
07-17-2011, 08:41 PM
Love is blind

SweetNaughty
07-17-2011, 09:16 PM
The Donnas never got their due as a sensational pop-metal band.....

Amy Lee
07-17-2011, 09:21 PM
I'm so sick of stupid ass bitches. Done....

if one more females whines about her man beating her ass to me and then runs right back to him I am gonna laugh in her fucking face and tell her what a dumb bitch she is.

anouk.oui
07-17-2011, 09:21 PM
Anouk - you're in the lifestyle? Iiiiiinnnnterestinnnngg.... :devil:



Why do I know so many successful entrepreneurs and self made millionaires, all of whom like me, all of whom love my ideas and constantly ask me what I have cooking and want to be involved - but I can never find the right combination of people and interest and timing to get my new projects launched?!?! This is annoying me more and more every day. After last night, it's heavy on my brain.


1. yeah my bf is a sub and the more i get to punish him the more i enjoy it too. im seeing him get more comfortable about it now that i like it too. what about you?

2. id be careful who i tell about my ideas. successful entrepreneurs may have the money and means to make your idea a reality and also to claim it as their own, cash in, and forget you ever existed. i would only give them a very carefully edited version of my idea and copyright whatever you can! dangerous waters my sweet..

anouk.oui
07-17-2011, 09:28 PM
Started yesterday with just some bleach...came out like this: (which I actually kinda liked) but told myself that if I'm going to have red hair, I want it like blood red, not orange...so today went and got another bleach kit and a bronze remover.
It's still a little orange (much better than yesterday though), so tomorrow am gonna buy one more bleach and bronze remover kit and PRAY that that will be the end of it. If not, I have the blood red dye and will just dye it that.

Thank GOODNESS my hair is still feeling good and healthy and hasn't fallen out..lol...just don't wanna jinx myself. :P

haha gooo the red!
srsly i could never bleach my hair to a clean blonde by myself at home. kudos if you can it was like my roots were white, then yellow then orange then yellow again!!!b ah!! good luck

RoxyHart
07-17-2011, 09:32 PM
....And this is why i hate having friendships. I liked caring only about myself. A lot easier to manage.:boxedin:

_Avery_
07-18-2011, 01:14 AM
My husband is a fucking asshole.
I opened a can of worms and now he's arguing with all my friends on FB. He needs to go back to abovetopsecret so he can get his arguing fix or something.
Think I'm gonna block his stupid ass from my page... Sorry to those his stupid ass went off on.

chanzep
07-18-2011, 05:49 AM
Argh so tired, why did I drink that stupid cheap wine at work? made me puke yuck!
Ohwell I still had a good night, I need to take a week off soon im getting burnt out.

Jessie_tinydancer
07-18-2011, 06:28 AM
My husband is a fucking asshole.
I opened a can of worms and now he's arguing with all my friends on FB. He needs to go back to abovetopsecret so he can get his arguing fix or something.
Think I'm gonna block his stupid ass from my page... Sorry to those his stupid ass went off on.

Sorry I probably made it worse... I just couldnt resist though. Seems all my friends who are married and dancers including myself have these men who seem to think work is just one big party for us and we love going. Its one of my pet peeves. I think after the amount of tears Ive cried after shifts in the last year (even when I made tons of $$$) my husband is finally getting it. He actually said the other day, "Im sorry you have to go to work baby." Its not that I hate it or anything.. its just such a mind fuck sometimes. Its so mentally draining I feel like I lose a little bit of me every night.

Im like you I have to do everything at home including managing the finances (which I think should be the mans job) and I dont have kids so I just feel for you. Plus I have lots of friends who recently had babies and I know how important its been for them to get back to doing normal things you cant do while you are pregnant to gain back some of your identity.

4everresolutions
07-18-2011, 08:05 AM
Sorry I probably made it worse... I just couldnt resist though. Seems all my friends who are married and dancers including myself have these men who seem to think work is just one big party for us and we love going. Its one of my pet peeves. I think after the amount of tears Ive cried after shifts in the last year (even when I made tons of $$$) my husband is finally getting it. He actually said the other day, "Im sorry you have to go to work baby." Its not that I hate it or anything.. its just such a mind fuck sometimes. Its so mentally draining I feel like I lose a little bit of me every night.

Im like you I have to do everything at home including managing the finances (which I think should be the mans job) and I dont have kids so I just feel for you. Plus I have lots of friends who recently had babies and I know how important its been for them to get back to doing normal things you cant do while you are pregnant to gain back some of your identity.

Well put. That's how I feel too.

Avery - I don't have you on facebook but I'm sorry your going through a rough time with your hubby. I swear men just can't think sometimes, they're just unable to use their brains when they really should know better.

Hope things improve. XOXO!

_Avery_
07-18-2011, 08:17 AM
Sorry I probably made it worse... I just couldnt resist though. Seems all my friends who are married and dancers including myself have these men who seem to think work is just one big party for us and we love going. Its one of my pet peeves. I think after the amount of tears Ive cried after shifts in the last year (even when I made tons of $$$) my husband is finally getting it. He actually said the other day, "Im sorry you have to go to work baby." Its not that I hate it or anything.. its just such a mind fuck sometimes. Its so mentally draining I feel like I lose a little bit of me every night.

Im like you I have to do everything at home including managing the finances (which I think should be the mans job) and I dont have kids so I just feel for you. Plus I have lots of friends who recently had babies and I know how important its been for them to get back to doing normal things you cant do while you are pregnant to gain back some of your identity.

Don't worry, you didn't make anything worse. He's just a dick and I'm GLAD you said something.
He didn't have anything to say after you told him how it was...so thank you!

Sad that I ended up blocking my own husband from my FB..lol, but it's not like he ever had anything positive to contribute to my page anyway.

Funny how his only argument ever is "soo...if you hate dancing, why do you do it?"
He got into it with Kaiarose saying the same thing to her before. He's just a dick.
I apologize for him.

also funny how when he wasn't working for 2 years it was totally okay for me to dance. Or when I was bringing home $500 a night...or when I brought him home drugs...THEN it was all okay. Now suddenly, he doesn't want me to dance?!

I mean, I REALLLY don't wanna go back to dancing either, but I have to do it in the mean time to help supplement our income. ehh...I'm rambling again.

_Avery_
07-18-2011, 08:18 AM
Well put. That's how I feel too.

Avery - I don't have you on facebook but I'm sorry your going through a rough time with your hubby. I swear men just can't think sometimes, they're just unable to use their brains when they really should know better.

Hope things improve. XOXO!
if you ever wanna add me
(just let me know it's your in a message on here) :)

Oh...just to warn you, if you do add me...I post on FB WAYYYY too much lol

4everresolutions
07-18-2011, 08:54 AM
I TOTALLY would if I had a facebook. Haha. I deleted mine ages ago. Might make one for my dancing persona though....

Kellydancer
07-18-2011, 02:22 PM
Sorry to hear this Avery and Jessie. I swear, men who act like your husbands just get me pissed. This reminds me of when I was dancing and living with a very manipulative guy who expected my stripping to be one big party. Even though I was making MORE than him he expected me to do everything and when I refused to be his maid he kicked me out (the house was his). I want to get married but I refuse to be his maid or cater to him.

_Avery_
07-18-2011, 03:57 PM
He only stops crying when I put music on. Time to dance!

ArmySGT.
07-18-2011, 04:10 PM
He only stops crying when I put music on. Time to dance!

Techno.

It's like Mamas heart beat.

Try some trance and the baby swing. Asleep in 60 seconds.

_Avery_
07-18-2011, 04:11 PM
Oh yeah...here are my final results for awhile.
Wanna go platinum, but gonna wait about a month. Happy with the blonde so far though.
Going to work tomorrow to test out my new do'. :D

Ohh..gotta cover up my...um...curling iron bur... :-[

Almost Jaded
07-18-2011, 05:39 PM
Avery/others - on behalf of all the retarded men in the world, I apologize. Not that that helps, but people with penises can't really agree with ya'll in a meaningful way, lol. I HATE HATE HATE having to hear so many of MM & GF's friends cry and bitch about their men all the time. So many AMAZING women can't find decent guys. If you hear guys tell it, there aren't any good women out there. I know DOZENS who are DYING to meet a really good man. Who knew...

Anouk - MM identifies as sub, actually more slave, and recently GF has gotten into it as well. GF is more of a bedroom submissive but wants to take it further, MM & I are 24/7 though not to the degree she would like, lol. See, all the stuff written about guys above has this weird side effect of making it awkward for me to really get comfortable in my capital letter role a lot of the time. It bugs the shit out of her, lol. I take it you missed the photos we put up..? :evil:

GingerFlames
07-18-2011, 05:43 PM
Is it just me or is the mfc software full of bugs? or
maybe it is my computer? /:O

DesuvsDeath
07-18-2011, 05:46 PM
Oh...just to warn you, if you do add me...I post on FB WAYYYY too much lol

Lies. You're like the ONLY interesting person I've got added right now. LOL

Jessie_tinydancer
07-18-2011, 07:16 PM
Sorry to hear this Avery and Jessie. I swear, men who act like your husbands just get me pissed. This reminds me of when I was dancing and living with a very manipulative guy who expected my stripping to be one big party. Even though I was making MORE than him he expected me to do everything and when I refused to be his maid he kicked me out (the house was his). I want to get married but I refuse to be his maid or cater to him.

Unfortunately most men just don't think like us because they've been mothered too much. Don't get me wrong my husband is lovely and wonderful man but he's just old fashioned. It just doesn't occur to him to ever put in a load of laundry or scrub the toilet cause he prob never saw his dad do it. If I ask him to do something he'll do it but when it's convenient for him which could be days later. Sometimes it's just easier to do it yourself. At least I get thanks and a lot of other things out of him. Love, affection, fun, good sex. My ex used to do everything... Literally I never had to lift a finger. He was just really hyper and anal about everything but he wasn't fun, he wasn't outgoing, he never gave me affection or love and he was crap in bed... I'm sure I'm not good at everything and I wouldn't want my hubby to judge me on those things. I guess you choose a partner based on what you value and being good at housework is low on my list of what I need in a man.

But he does still think I'm having a party at work. Sometimes it is... But def less than half the time and if I had the choice to sit on the couch in my pjs drinking tea and make $1k or go to work drink cocktails, do coke and make out with hot girls all night... I'd still choose the couch. The fun and glamour wears off. He doesn't believe me that I hardly ever even check out the girls anymore.

charlie61
07-18-2011, 07:23 PM
Avery/others - on behalf of all the retarded men in the world, I apologize. Not that that helps, but people with penises can't really agree with ya'll in a meaningful way, lol. I HATE HATE HATE having to hear so many of MM & GF's friends cry and bitch about their men all the time. So many AMAZING women can't find decent guys. If you hear guys tell it, there aren't any good women out there. I know DOZENS who are DYING to meet a really good man. Who knew...


This is going to sound super cruel, but I disagree with you. Amazing people attract amazing people. I've met SO MANY women who were all like "I don't get it...it's impossible to find a good guy! All I attract are the bad boys!"...and it's total bullshit. Either they're doing stupid stuff like trying to find good catches in bars, or something's wrong with the chick. 99.9% of the time. And I'll stick by that statement.

I'm not saying that women in physically / emotionally abusive relationships deserve to be hurt or anything fucked up like that, of course. Just saying that every woman I've met who complained about attracting bad guys has always had something wrong with her. Whether it's something as crazy as a drug problem or something as simple as being insecure, high-maintenance, unable to stick up for herself, etc.

JayATee
07-18-2011, 08:49 PM
Why is he such a dick?! Seriously. WTF.

4everresolutions
07-19-2011, 06:25 AM
Lies! FB chat always died for me.

Davey17
07-19-2011, 07:58 AM
This is going to sound super cruel, but I disagree with you. Amazing people attract amazing people. I've met SO MANY women who were all like "I don't get it...it's impossible to find a good guy! All I attract are the bad boys!"...and it's total bullshit. Either they're doing stupid stuff like trying to find good catches in bars, or something's wrong with the chick. 99.9% of the time. And I'll stick by that statement.

I'm not saying that women in physically / emotionally abusive relationships deserve to be hurt or anything fucked up like that, of course. Just saying that every woman I've met who complained about attracting bad guys has always had something wrong with her. Whether it's something as crazy as a drug problem or something as simple as being insecure, high-maintenance, unable to stick up for herself, etc.


I can strongly agree with positive energy in , positive energy out ..and therefore the type of character you are going to end up with , your judgement etc etc etc ..little doubt about that .

With regard to what the other girls were describing ..well , I think we may also seen this 100 s of times everywhere ...however , some of these type guys are going to be particularly drawn to this industry ..there is a little bit of the " free lunch " element ...

Im going to make some really basic points that Im sure the girls would have already addressed on some level ... Domestic duties , I cant accept the " over mothering " thing ..I suggest a basic list , with a time frame allocating duties , particularly to make sure these guys pull their weight . Im concerned about a couple of the points around " Drugs " and " partying " ...Id be stressing the extremely difficult part of the gig ..yeah correct the way you put it , these guys are going to think all is a great party .
The more seriously you treat the Gig , the better the Gig will treat you ..If you really feel that you simply cannot handle it mentally , dont become addicted , set yourself a schedule of 3 / 4 night a week , and work those nights hard ..

The less you can treat it as an " on going party " ..the better your returns , this is a proven element ..Dont bring these guys home " free drugs " ..keep clean , expect them clean . Make sure they are working ..or at very least attempting to find work , no relationship is easy , and it certainly cannot be simply a one way street ... Set a goal for YOUR money , a good goal ..something you really want , and work with disclipine towards it .

The guys ..you mention ..need a good push in the correct direction ..some Men really need this ..make it clear , its a partnership ...

If they cant see the clear simplicity in this , you need to rethink ..But dont take Crap , and Dont let yourself down ..take it seriously , Work it like a business ( not a party ) , If you cant handle the mental side ..set yourself some time off ..It all works when the goal you are working towards as a couple is a common goal .

Keep it positive ...and keep it Simple ...Speak your mind ..Directly , not in Riddles ... This will tell you if its worth it .:D:-\:-\

lemiwinks31
07-19-2011, 08:29 AM
Avery -

No clue about the details of your situation or if your husband has just always been a dick or its just acting like one recently...but...

The 2 things that put the most stress and pressure on a relationship and the people in the relationship are young kids and money issues. Some people handle it better than others.

_Avery_
07-19-2011, 08:47 AM
Oh, he's ALWAYS been an asshole...lol
but that's just his personality. We've had some HUGE problems in the past, but have worked through them and when we moved out here to Wisconsin, things were great. (They still are)
I was just frustrated because with a newborn, and a 3.5 year old, I feel like I'm doing A LOT more. I get ESPECIALLY frustrated when he is sleeping while I am up 3-4 times a night and up early while he just...SLEEPS.

He DOES work, but he doesn't help around the house and that drives me nuts. (Then again, I AM ocd and have to have everything a certain way.... :/ )
but it would at least help if he could feed the baby, or hold him while I get what I need to do done.

It's frustrating when I am folding clothes, Kane is crying, I stop folding clothes to console him when if he would just remove himself from the computer and pick him up, it wouldn't take me 30 minutes to fold a load of laundry...

He IS a good dad...he REALLLYYY is. He does play with out oldest. Goes outside and launches bottle rockets, plays kick ball, wrestles with him...and I DO appreciate that.

I was just venting on the fact that I am tired too and I don't think it's fair that he gets to sleep just because he works a few days a week. I am going back to work tonight and am pretty darn sure that I will still be getting up when I get home 2am changing diapers and doing feedings...and then up at 7 in the morning. Getting my oldest breakfast, teeth brushed, cleaning the kitchen, laundry, etc...while he is sleeping.

THAT'S what drives me crazy. The fact that our sleep schedules just aren't fair.

On his days off, he's up until 3 in the morning doing whatever it is he does....and says he's too tired to wake up at 7...WELL..DUH!
I'm tired too...it's not like I got a nice continuous sleep like he does.

Yesterday, I took both kids to Wal Mart to get a few things, I come home, and he's just sitting on the computer. The house is trashed. PERSONALLY, I think he could have cleaned up the living room. DID SOMETHING!

but not...the computer is more important than a clean house.

and I admit, I am totally ocd and anal about having a clean house...and impatient.
but when the trash is piling over, I think he could at least take it out to the shed. When he wants to "fluff" up a shirt in the dryer, FOLD THE CLOTHES THAT WERE IN THERE! Don't just throw them on top of the dryer.

When there is 2 drops of milk in the milk jug...JUST USE IT OR THROW IT AWAY! Nothing is more irritating then pouring a bowl of cereal and then having 2 drops of milk!! LOL

When the baby OBVIOUSLY has a stinky diaper, don't hand him to me...just go change it!

When my oldest is asking for a drink, while I'm feeding the baby, and he obviously hears him asking for something to drink...then I don't see why he can't get up and get it..rather than me either carrying the baby with the bottle and one handed getting my other kid a drink.

I've mastered everything one handed....lol

he has become a good guy...don't get me wrong, but he will always be an asshole....that's his personality. He bitches about me spending $20 on hair products, but when he wanted to go out with his friends, THEN it's okay for me to get the rest of the products I needed for my hair?! It's only okay for me to get something when he wants something.....

I can't just treat myself to something just because...

The world will see it in August or September when our show airs...lol

and I know tonight is gonna be an issue. He no longer wants me to dance. (Which, honestly...I don't really wanna dance either) but I NEED to for the mean time to supplement our income.

and just because I recently got back on some meds for my anxiety...I don't need to be called crazy.

It's frustrating when he fights, because he throws low blows. Because of my past, he throws it in my face that he can take my kids from me...(when he has a past too...my ass just got caught! lol)

I mean, it's not bad...it sounds bad....I was just frustrated the other night about him going out because I'd REALLLLLY like to go out. It's been a long time and I really think I deserve it. But whenever I want to go out it's always a huge deal. I dunno, maybe it will be different when I ever the oppertunity to go out again. I guess we'll see.

We're okay today and he's actually helping me clean! He's actually out there cleaning the shed....but...I jus tknow it's gonna be an unfinished project....sooo...yeah...I'm totally rambling with my life story..lol

Basically...what I'm trying to say is that my job is 24/7...no days off. I have ZERO problem cleaning, and taking care of the kids, and cooking, etc when he's at work. (Yes, with me being at home, I have a little more freedom with TV, the internet...but even now, I have a baby and bottle in one hand, typing with the other...gets boring just sitting here..lol) HOWEVER, on his days off, I would APPRECIATE help since I don't really ever get a day off. Being a parent is a 24/7 356 day a year job...for me AND him.

Spinnerette
07-19-2011, 09:02 AM
I love cottage cheese. I'm upset because I don't have anymore and it would make a delicious mid-morning snack (with some grapes in it).

RoxyHart
07-19-2011, 09:03 AM
I feel like my life is that Groundhogs day movie....
every day looks exactly the same....

BLAHHHH!!!:bored:

4everresolutions
07-19-2011, 09:06 AM
Avery - He's not pulling his weight, and that's not right or fair. Next time the baby needs to be changed or hes on the computer, call him out on it! Ask him to pitch him!

Also - show? Tell me moar?!?!