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unbeleavable
07-24-2011, 02:39 PM
About out of here...Leg Day today!
Almost Jaded
07-24-2011, 02:44 PM
miss1dancypants - If you're not "out" as a stripper to your friends and/or family, it's risky dancing at a place where so many people who could recognize you go. It won't matter if it's weekends or weekdays; there will be fewer in there on weekdays but the ones who are there - the club will be slower, they'll have fewer distractions and more time. It's a lose-lose if you want to stay undercover, lol. Be careful!
Oh - and don
't worry about the bitchy girls. It's just what they do. After you've been there a while and shown that you're a steady worker and not a drama maker, they'll start to back off and a few might even start to be friendly. Guys (and women) are the same way in most sales jobs. In car sales and stripping they're just way more blatant, lol.
I disagree FBR. I mean obviously, do what you're comfortable with, but IMO, the older gentleman who know the game are my favorite. You can hold a conversation, you'll tip me for my time (usually quite well), and you really won't push my boundaries. I can't think of a better customer. I was unclear. Jay I would be your customer from heaven since you are calling me out.
FBR
I fell fast for a guy who was only visiting the US for a few weeks. He was the first guy I've fallen for in 10 years. Most of the other guys were just pretty, or wealthy, or whatever, but were totally disposable to me. I spent an amazing few weeks with this guy, and I fell for him. He fell for me too. It was an intense and amazing few weeks. Last Thursday he went back to Australia. I didn't believe in Karma until now. I used men, didn't value them at all, and ran through them like it was nothing. I guess it serves me right that the first guy I fall for in so long lives on one of the furthest points in the world from me, and I'll probably never see him again.
velvet
07-24-2011, 07:06 PM
Why do we have under-aged users on here from time to time, that ADMIT they're under 18? We've got one running around saying "when I turn 18 in October" and people are actually answering her questions.
I have no qualms with 18 year olds joining SW; hell, join at midnight on your birthday. But minors on here freak me out. And the ones who ADMIT to not being 18 freak me out more; they obviously don't have the common sense to be a stripper yet.
Umm that is against the TOS of this site so it should be reported.
Hey don't hate, they're just extra anxious to get the ball rolling....I joined a few months before I turned 18 (different account) because I was convinced I was going to audition on my 18th birthday and I wanted to be as prepared as possible. Though, I also didn't say anything like that in my posts...eh, it's one of the cons to having such an open forum, we get trolls and kids from time to time.
see above
velvet
07-24-2011, 07:11 PM
Giving up clubbing is difficult but at some point you become a caricature of the old guy dancers tolerate but find disgusting.
FBR
Giving up clubs? Really? I agree with everyone else that says your age and experiance is NOT a bad thing in the club at all.
when did you stop being a mod?
4everresolutions
07-24-2011, 07:12 PM
Umm that is against the TOS of this site so it should be reported.
Way ahead of ya.
anouk.oui
07-24-2011, 07:49 PM
bah we recently had a bunch of 18yo girls. like srsly just wait a couple of years if you dont have the maturity n the common sense i seen girls who start in bad clubs really young get fucked up
JayATee
07-24-2011, 07:56 PM
For fucking serious? I just drove all the fuck the way over here to see you after not seeing you for 2 days and you're seriously just gonna sit there and play that fucking game? Seriously? I could've and should've stayed the fuck home. I'm so fed up with him.
anouk.oui
07-24-2011, 09:22 PM
bah this piss-weak hair bleach done nothing on my roots after 45 min
yay i can do it all again tomorrow
Kelly_Lover
07-25-2011, 01:01 AM
When a newly married man looks happy, we know why. But when a ten-year married man looks happy, we wonder why.
If we learn by our mistakes, some of us are getting one great education!
The squeaky wheel doesn't always get the grease, sometimes it gets replaced.
The only knowledge that can hurt you is the knowledge you don't have.
_Avery_
07-25-2011, 07:46 AM
Wow, $50 fucking dollars...I can go FIND $50 in the bushes or something.
What a HUGE waste of time....I can't stand tip outs, house fees and THEN money from our dances....fuck!
I miss day shifts. :(
Yes, I understand it was a Sunday night and it was slow....but if it's THAT bad I think the club should waive the house fee or something...I know $70 wouldn't have been great either, but it sure feels better to type. Or say. $90 isn't much either, but still better....sucks when the club basically takes half of what I made...what a waste.
lmao, still going to attempt tonight....like it'll be any better, but at least I guess I have to tell myself, "it's $50 I didn't have before...right?" :/ :/
Davey17
07-25-2011, 08:04 AM
Some girls are definitely still doing well in Melbs. My friend went down last wknd for only 2 nights and made over $2k. She said she didnt even have to ask for a single dance... she wouldnt BS me shes a sweetheart.
Shit Babe .....She must be an absolute honey
Everyone ask s ??
Where was she dancing and It was obviously Friday / Sat ?
Kittens is jumping on a Saturday , but the personal room is far too small .
Anyhow , no I wouldn't doubt her either ..thats achievable on a good night ...
Good on you hon .
anouk.oui
07-25-2011, 08:56 AM
i made $40 on a friday not long ago and i just made over $300 tonight on a monday. miracles happen i guess.
in other news, how else was amy winehouse gonna die seriously? i dnt know why people act surprised
unbeleavable
07-25-2011, 10:55 AM
I just cancelled the flight which costs me $90 & a nonrefundable cabin at $600 so...out $700
4everresolutions
07-25-2011, 12:07 PM
^Awww.....they couldn't even give you airline credit for a future flight? Shitty!!!!
unbeleavable
07-25-2011, 12:39 PM
^Awww.....they couldn't even give you airline credit for a future flight? Shitty!!!!
They did but they charged me $90 cancellation fee..sucks oh well...I was so needing this too.
_Avery_
07-25-2011, 06:04 PM
Eh, not going in tonight.
Actually looking and thinking about trying a divier club that is closer....
applied for a waitress/shot girl...last time I did that though, they ended up wanting me to dance. Which I did, and it sucked.
We'll see what happens. I love the current club (well the people), just the house fees...hate how we can only wear dresses, no pole on stage....
doubt the other club will be better. I've just always done better at dive clubs. The club I'm at now is the nicest club in the area....and I dunno...just maybe need to TRY something else. (get back to my 'ghetto', low grade, roots..lol)
No bartending ads in the paper or craigslist. Guess I should just start going into the local bars and saying, "Hey! I'm here! When do I start?" :D
dancing....no beuno anymore. No matter how hot I feel, how confident I feel how motivated I feel....it all goes down the drain. Plus, no fun when I have to worry and about what I'm drinking and stuff...can't relax.
and hearing "You look for for JUST having a baby.." I know it's meant well, but...I just "wanna look GOOD". lol...if that makes sense. :P
_Avery_
07-25-2011, 06:13 PM
Whenever I have shitty nights like that, I don't even try to pretend that "hey $50 is better than nothing," I instead think "well at least I got a fucking amazing workout tonight instead of sitting on my ass eating Carls Jr.!"
I REALLy try to stay positive about it...because it IS money I didn't have. Especially since I went in there saying "Oh, I'll be happy to just make $50"...lol, but then I think about how much I ACTUALLY made and how much the club made...and then it just pisses me off. :(
I suck.
charlie61
07-25-2011, 06:17 PM
^ I would think you'd do better in a grittier bar just because that's your look. I mean, if men walk into an "upscale" club, then they're expecting to see gowns, fake boobs, blondes, etc. It just sets a certain expectation...and you're very different from that look. So I don't think it's that you have a "divier" look per se...just one that doesn't fit with that environment.
i've been thinking about becoming a dancer for a while and i've been lurking on here for a few months and reading threads to see if its something i could do and what would be involved.
i just need to get my self sorted over the next few months before i go to audition. the fact that i'm moving away from where most of my family is to another city helps.
thinking about it makes me really nervous. typing this made me nervous. oh and hi : )
_Avery_
07-25-2011, 07:12 PM
^ I would think you'd do better in a grittier bar just because that's your look. I mean, if men walk into an "upscale" club, then they're expecting to see gowns, fake boobs, blondes, etc. It just sets a certain expectation...and you're very different from that look. So I don't think it's that you have a "divier" look per se...just one that doesn't fit with that environment.
I feel the same...I have always done the best, and always felt most comfortable at the dive bars. I am not an upscale classy girl..lol...(that probably is coming out wayyy wrong), but I"m sure you all know what I mean. Gowns and dresses....not for me. :'(
charlie61
07-25-2011, 07:20 PM
i've been thinking about becoming a dancer for a while and i've been lurking on here for a few months and reading threads to see if its something i could do and what would be involved.
i just need to get my self sorted over the next few months before i go to audition. the fact that i'm moving away from where most of my family is to another city helps.
thinking about it makes me really nervous. typing this made me nervous. oh and hi : )
Welcome! A good start is to begin posting on here...feeling like you're part of a community is a huge help when you feel so alone. So welcome, welcome, welcome! SW is an awesome resource.
At the end of the day, all we're really doing is making money off of being naked. Not so scary, and not so serious. At least not conceptually scary. :)
kaiarose
07-25-2011, 07:28 PM
Eh, not going in tonight.
Actually looking and thinking about trying a divier club that is closer....
applied for a waitress/shot girl...last time I did that though, they ended up wanting me to dance. Which I did, and it sucked.
We'll see what happens. I love the current club (well the people), just the house fees...hate how we can only wear dresses, no pole on stage....
doubt the other club will be better. I've just always done better at dive clubs. The club I'm at now is the nicest club in the area....and I dunno...just maybe need to TRY something else. (get back to my 'ghetto', low grade, roots..lol)
No bartending ads in the paper or craigslist. Guess I should just start going into the local bars and saying, "Hey! I'm here! When do I start?" :D
dancing....no beuno anymore. No matter how hot I feel, how confident I feel how motivated I feel....it all goes down the drain. Plus, no fun when I have to worry and about what I'm drinking and stuff...can't relax.
and hearing "You look for for JUST having a baby.." I know it's meant well, but...I just "wanna look GOOD". lol...if that makes sense. :P
I'm sorry to read all this :(
I love the club but you're right, it's a pain in the ass to work there. You gotta do what you gotta do though. If you're not comfortable then you're not going to make money. I'm so glad to have met you though :) No matter what you decide you will always be welcome back there..
_Avery_
07-25-2011, 07:51 PM
I'm sorry to read all this :(
I love the club but you're right, it's a pain in the ass to work there. You gotta do what you gotta do though. If you're not comfortable then you're not going to make money. I'm so glad to have met you though :) No matter what you decide you will always be welcome back there..
I <3 you too...and the show will go on... ;)
and I'd REALLLLLY like a girls night...SOON!
but I like working with fat, toothless girls....makes me feel better about myself...lol :)
Gives me the confidence I need when I walk into a club and I'm the skinniest girl there with the best teeth..lmao! but really... :-[
Kat w
07-25-2011, 08:46 PM
At my non-gown club there is a trend amongst a few of the "cool girls". They wear giant half-shirts, off the shoulder 80s style with bikini bottoms and then normal stripper shoes.
Why????
anouk.oui
07-25-2011, 08:55 PM
^ dont question 'cool girl' trends. i stopped considering a long time ago why girls wear ugg boots with miniskirts or luis vuitton bags with trackpants and running sneakers.
im pumped for another dance class tonight!! exercise junkie..
DesuvsDeath
07-25-2011, 08:59 PM
At my non-gown club there is a trend amongst a few of the "cool girls". They wear giant half-shirts, off the shoulder 80s style with bikini bottoms and then normal stripper shoes.
Why????
Because giant off the shoulder half shirts are full of win.
So funny to know that's still a stripper trend. I used to do that one a few years back. LOL
It's sort of one of those "I'm so awesome I can do whatever the fuck I want and still make money" things for me.
Kellydancer
07-25-2011, 09:06 PM
I feel the same...I have always done the best, and always felt most comfortable at the dive bars. I am not an upscale classy girl..lol...(that probably is coming out wayyy wrong), but I"m sure you all know what I mean. Gowns and dresses....not for me. :'(
Upscale clubs aren't for everyone. I personally loved the dive bars because I was always the hottest girl. At an upscale club I would have to compete with a type I am not (the blondes with fake boobs). I probably made as much as my friends at the upscale clubs because my house was usually cheaper (and many clubs gave me free house or paid me to work there).
SweetNaughty
07-25-2011, 09:13 PM
So Kd and I agree, bigger isn't always better! :D
Almost Jaded
07-25-2011, 09:28 PM
I have discovered that I love yard work. Really getting in there and taking care of my trees and plants, researching things and making them grow and look as good as possible in this climate. I have already saved one plant that was basically dead and now I'm watching it recover and thrive; brought another from stagnation to growing so well I have to prune it back regularly, and I'm saving a tree that may or may not make it but would certainly already be dead if not for my efforts.
I have also discovered that just like working on my own cars (which I also insist on doing), it's satisfying, fun, saves money - and is a huge pain in the ass, lol.
Krill_
07-25-2011, 10:49 PM
I have discovered that I love yard work. Really getting in there and taking care of my trees and plants, researching things and making them grow and look as good as possible in this climate. I have already saved one plant that was basically dead and now I'm watching it recover and thrive; brought another from stagnation to growing so well I have to prune it back regularly, and I'm saving a tree that may or may not make it but would certainly already be dead if not for my efforts.
I have also discovered that just like working on my own cars (which I also insist on doing), it's satisfying, fun, saves money - and is a huge pain in the ass, lol.
I think it says a lot about someone when they are capable of some basic handiwork and take care of things reasonably well. Seems like many are discouraged because they think it's too complicated or tools will be too expensive...well you can build a decent tool set from Sears and Harbor Freight for not that much and there's a gazillion model specific forums now to help with the really tricky stuff.
Kellydancer
07-25-2011, 11:06 PM
Ok I've been laughing at this clip of the new Beavis and Butthead show. I always thought they were funny.
anouk.oui
07-26-2011, 12:13 AM
cant wait to cook mexican tonight!
sananeko
07-26-2011, 12:58 AM
Thin toast with fresh ground spices. I have a whole room to fix tonight and a front room to clean. I love my nights.
Redwolf
07-26-2011, 05:35 AM
^ dont question 'cool girl' trends. I stopped considering a long time ago why girls wear ugg boots with miniskirts or luis vuitton bags with trackpants and running sneakers.
Im pumped for another dance class tonight!! Exercise junkie..
TFF :d
RoxyHart
07-26-2011, 09:19 AM
MUTHAF*CKIN SWEEEEEET!:party2:
I don't know how or when it happened but i'm on the list of the most viewed chicks on SDFM & on the main page. I'm clothed and not even remotely as "hoochie" as the other girls next to me.
But heck i'll take an ego stroke if they wanna give me one! Its just enough motivation to get my lazy arse in gear!
4everresolutions
07-26-2011, 09:36 AM
So, my mother logged into my fathers e-mail and found evidence of him cheating (again) and sent it out to my brother and I via e-mail. My folks aren't living together right now, so she's texting me all this bitchy stuff about what a low-life my father is, etc etc. SO not appropriate. I don't want to read e-mails my father wrote to his girlfirends/hookups etc. Gross.
Here's where I'm a terrible daughter: I don't care. I mean, the part about my dad cheating doesn't bother me in the least. My parents have never been faithful to one-another. Mom's cheated, dad's cheated, they've separated several times so it's not like this is a big shock.
What I DO care about is the fact that my mother, who lives in Florida, might try and show up on my door-step suddenly. The idea of that is enough to induce a full on panic attack. I'm sitting here trying not to hyperventilate at the idea of my mother being in close proximity to me. I don't want her anywhere near me.
I feel so sick right now because I'm scared how this is going to end. I'm scared she's going to come and move back to Ontario (becasue this is where my mothers side of the family is from) and she's going to want to see me. I moved to Toronto to get away from her, and I'm terrified that if she leaves my dad for good she's going to try to get close to me. I can't deal with that woman. I don't want her anywhere near me. I don't want her to think I'm going to visit her for weekends or holidays. No no no!!!
It's so bad I've already looked up moving to Australia and how long it takes to get a Working Holiday Visa. I need to be in a different COUNTRY from that woman. I feel light headed. I feel sick.
Welcome! A good start is to begin posting on here...feeling like you're part of a community is a huge help when you feel so alone. So welcome, welcome, welcome! SW is an awesome resource.
At the end of the day, all we're really doing is making money off of being naked. Not so scary, and not so serious. At least not conceptually scary. :)
thanks for the advice
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYZnkgl1pS8
does anyone know the song playing in the back ground?
its kinda faint but loud enough that its not suck in my head
its so catchy. i must know:(.on her youtube page the girl in the video location is Australia so it might be an Australian band. they might be british as well
sananeko
07-26-2011, 12:49 PM
So, my mother logged into my fathers e-mail and found evidence of him cheating (again) and sent it out to my brother and I via e-mail. My folks aren't living together right now, so she's texting me all this bitchy stuff about what a low-life my father is, etc etc. SO not appropriate. I don't want to read e-mails my father wrote to his girlfirends/hookups etc. Gross.
Here's where I'm a terrible daughter: I don't care. I mean, the part about my dad cheating doesn't bother me in the least. My parents have never been faithful to one-another. Mom's cheated, dad's cheated, they've separated several times so it's not like this is a big shock.
What I DO care about is the fact that my mother, who lives in Florida, might try and show up on my door-step suddenly. The idea of that is enough to induce a full on panic attack. I'm sitting here trying not to hyperventilate at the idea of my mother being in close proximity to me. I don't want her anywhere near me.
I feel so sick right now because I'm scared how this is going to end. I'm scared she's going to come and move back to Ontario (becasue this is where my mothers side of the family is from) and she's going to want to see me. I moved to Toronto to get away from her, and I'm terrified that if she leaves my dad for good she's going to try to get close to me. I can't deal with that woman. I don't want her anywhere near me. I don't want her to think I'm going to visit her for weekends or holidays. No no no!!!
It's so bad I've already looked up moving to Australia and how long it takes to get a Working Holiday Visa. I need to be in a different COUNTRY from that woman. I feel light headed. I feel sick.
It would be easier to just ask a friend if you can visit for a while.. I ran all the way across the connected states when mine tracked me down to "visit"
DesuvsDeath
07-26-2011, 01:06 PM
What I DO care about is the fact that my mother, who lives in Florida, might try and show up on my door-step suddenly.....It's so bad I've already looked up moving to Australia and how long it takes to get a Working Holiday Visa.
TELL her you've moved to Australia instead. <3
Problem solved.
Vyanka
07-26-2011, 03:07 PM
Today I saw a man at whole foods built for sex. Tall, dark hair, tanned, muscular, face of a model. Then I saw the arrogance in his face and quickly lost my girly boner.
CupCake
07-26-2011, 03:19 PM
Heres whats on my mind right now, I feel like SW is becoming kind of clique-esque. Just my opinion.
Djoser
07-26-2011, 03:32 PM
It's always had that syndrome to some extent. The cliques come and they go. To some extent it's just going to happen, we are all human after all.
There are a couple things that can help combat the negative effects of cliquishness though.
One is to take breaks frequently. Take a couple days off now and then. It gets easier if you are a mod or have been here more than a couple years, but it's never a bad idea.
The other thing? Don't be afraid to disagree with your friends, and agree with people you have maybe had trouble with in the past. Some of the best SW friends I have made, I made when we were having a disagreement.
Think about it, how often do you disagree with your real-life friends? Most people do it a lot, though maybe we tend to be more outspoken about it here, brutally honest, etc.
Zinaida
07-26-2011, 03:33 PM
I have just fallen in love with Xenia Tchoumitcheva. What a beauty!!!
sananeko
07-26-2011, 04:32 PM
I love how people keep projecting their problems on me like its my problem and they are just trying to help.. I just smile and let it happen cause my other choice is to beat the shit out of them but I don't want blood on my cute top.
CupCake
07-26-2011, 05:07 PM
Djoser definetly words of wisdom, it's just a bummer that it reminds me of behind the scenes of a strip club and theres the whole alpha female type deal going on. I don't mind disagreements, because I believe in hashing things out as I would in my actual life. It's just saddening because this is sort of like a stripper haven:) Our little getaway..Now that I've come back again I see it's become sort of like high school.
Kelly_Lover
07-26-2011, 05:08 PM
Time to pack up and move out Who's coming with me?
This town ain't what the brochure said it would be.
I want sun surf and sand 24/7 365
_Avery_
07-26-2011, 11:25 PM
lmfao...not even $1!!
I'm bad luck. Hope it got better for the girls once I left.
Dunno when I'll be back....probably just to finish the documentary, and bring my boys by...
Job applying time tomorrow. :)
(wish me luck for THAT!) LOL