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Discuntent
10-11-2011, 12:18 PM
For some unexplained reason many people think because I am still single I need to be desperate and take anything. I have standards and even if it means I am single forever then that's better to me than settling.

"Settling" is only for sand on the ocean floor pretty baby! 8)

Kellydancer
10-11-2011, 12:27 PM
Very true. I refuse to date guys I don't like and am willing to be single the rest of my life if these types of guys are my only choice. People (both online and offline)always ask why I was so hung up on my ex and this is why. He was a never married childless employed man without a lot of baggage. However, he wasn't the guy he used to be who wanted to be a husband and father. Deep down inside I keep hoping he comes back because of these guys but then I tell myself there has to be someone like him out there who is ready to get serious. But then I get depressed and see a bunch of losers who seem to like me, and the guys I want don't appear to. The irony is he's not good looking and has gained weight but because I know how he USED to be I give him slack.

krchab99
10-11-2011, 12:49 PM
I hate my life irealy hate it. O plus I'm starting to miss an old ex u should never of left him

K Sweet
10-11-2011, 01:31 PM
I want to learn how to moonwalk just so next time my club is super dead I can do it on stage.

chanzep
10-11-2011, 03:23 PM
On a health/ fitness kick again after falling off the wagon for a while, no more yummy crispy seaweed or anything greasy,

Enjoying Jersey shore then gona go Kardashains, I love American reality shows!

luscious sadie
10-11-2011, 04:28 PM
Maybelline Lash Stilleto is a good mascara. No more Dior / Fairy Drops for me!

DesuvsDeath
10-11-2011, 04:38 PM
Maybelline Lash Stilleto is a good mascara. No more Dior / Fairy Drops for me!
I gave up on expensive mascara a long time ago... because I live in fake lashes anyway... so you couldn't tell the difference.
Lash Stilleto is pleasing, though. <3 that shit.

Kellydancer
10-11-2011, 04:52 PM
I told a relative about my little experience with that jagoff and she told me I was being picky because of my age. That maybe I would find someone if I wasn't so close minded about dating men who are fathers, losers, etc. Then she told me that I'm still hung up on my ex and would hurt a "nice guy" I'd meet. I told her that first off, "nice guys" don't go up to random women and say things that these assholes say. Second, if I found a guy fitting what I wanted and I liked him I would quit pining over my ex. Third, dating a guy who repulses me or doesn't fit my values (the dad or pervert part)would just leave me depressed anyway.

I sure love when relatives judge me on this. Maybe some of us would rather be alone than be with someone repulsive.

sananeko
10-11-2011, 05:06 PM
I am having a very good day.

firemaiden04
10-11-2011, 05:12 PM
Just had Popeye's for dinner.

Fucking DELICIOUS.

Kelly_Lover
10-11-2011, 09:09 PM
Just had Popeye's for dinner.

Fucking DELICIOUS.

Funny I had that for the first time in my life last week not to bad at all

Kelly_Lover
10-11-2011, 09:18 PM
I hate having to sit back and watch the only person in the world you care about completely destroy themselves. Hurts me more then any words can ever say.

chanzep
10-12-2011, 04:14 AM
Breakfast then salon to get my roots done.

anouk.oui
10-12-2011, 05:05 AM
ill have 4.5 months off school after next month.

im kinda over dancing.

i was thinking maybe dancing twice a week and doing a part time office role that would look good on my resume [though i dont think fashion labels care much] and maybe intern.

but the selection criteria is soooooo long and the jobs are so poorly paid im not even sure its worth it...........

Tinalive123
10-12-2011, 07:55 AM
I am sick today.

Anastasia Foxx
10-12-2011, 08:09 AM
UGH. During the week now, I am the door diva at my club. I also still get to deal with jerkoffs every single freaking night. Two convos last night:

Creepy Old Dude (COD): You married?
Me: I will be in 18 days
COD: Any chance I can talk you into leaving your fiance?
Me: Nope
COD: Why not?
Me: Because he's better looking than you, treats me well and doesn't sit in strip clubs saying stupid shit to women he doesn't know.

2nd conversation:

Young Dude Who Thinks He's Sexy: Why ain't you dancing?
Me (shuddering at the word "ain't") I dance on Fridays and Saturdays
YDWTHS: Ima come back and see you this weekend
Me: Bring cash
YDWTHS: That's funny that you say that. I don't come in here to spend money
Me: :O Then why do you come in at all?
YDWTHS: I know people here.
Me: Then see them outside the club. And thanks for the heads up to not waste my time with you
YDWTHS: I can benefit you in other ways.
Me: No the fuck you can't. I come in here to make money, not friends.

:banghead: :biting:

Where do these people come from? And WHY do they bother me like this?!

bklynbombshell
10-12-2011, 08:21 AM
I kind of don't know what to do with myself at the moment, everything feels stagnant. I just want to make my money and vacation during the winter with a fiiiiiine ass man.

silk55
10-12-2011, 01:53 PM
I told a relative about my little experience with that jagoff and she told me I was being picky because of my age. That maybe I would find someone if I wasn't so close minded about dating men who are fathers, losers, etc. Then she told me that I'm still hung up on my ex and would hurt a "nice guy" I'd meet. I told her that first off, "nice guys" don't go up to random women and say things that these assholes say. Second, if I found a guy fitting what I wanted and I liked him I would quit pining over my ex. Third, dating a guy who repulses me or doesn't fit my values (the dad or pervert part)would just leave me depressed anyway.

I sure love when relatives judge me on this. Maybe some of us would rather be alone than be with someone repulsive.

LoL my mother keeps busting my balls about getting married. I recently broke up with my ex since she went psycho (destroyed my car and blamed it on diet pills). Anyways I thought I would try to date someone outside of the circle of the people I know. Boy has this been a disaster. The online dating sites are fully of nasty ass chix or rejects. Now the ex isn't looking so bad. :-\

Kellydancer
10-12-2011, 02:08 PM
LoL my mother keeps busting my balls about getting married. I recently broke up with my ex since she went psycho (destroyed my car and blamed it on diet pills). Anyways I thought I would try to date someone outside of the circle of the people I know. Boy has this been a disaster. The online dating sites are fully of nasty ass chix or rejects. Now the ex isn't looking so bad. :-\

I agree. My ex was loony, not especially good looking, didn't make a lot of money and a mama's boy but he was a prince compared to the guys I'm finding online. I've had guys who were obviously disabled contact me and tell me what was wrong with them (one had a stroke, another was mentally retarded apparently). I feel for these guys but know it would never work and I hate letting them down.

They aren't the problem though. I've had guys tell me (without having met me)that they are in love with me and can't wait until we marry. Others are obvious women haters and when I reject them call me names and tell me I am just like the others. I've gotten more than my fair share of dick photos. Many unattractive men contact me and when I reject them they get upset. Then there are the dads. Everyone knows my anti dating dads stance and I post this on all my profiles. Does not stop dads from contacting me and when I tell them this is a dealbreaker they get upset. Others keep hounding me and I had to block them. I also get a lot of nasty messages telling me I am picky and should date a dad because all the single men my age don't want marriage or are gay, which is a lie. I thought this would be a lesser problem on the Catholic sites but still getting a lot of the dads.

This is why I want my ex to come back. He would never do any of this. Besides, he is never married, no kids and Catholic. I know he won't and I know he can do better, but these sites just make me so depressed.

Are you getting a lot of comments telling you to be less picky or you should have looked years ago?My mom is doing this big time. When I told her about an obese man I turned down she said I should have gone out with him because he might be nice. Sure he might be nice but that large is something that would bother me.

silk55
10-12-2011, 02:20 PM
I agree. My ex was loony, not especially good looking, didn't make a lot of money and a mama's boy but he was a prince compared to the guys I'm finding online. I've had guys who were obviously disabled contact me and tell me what was wrong with them (one had a stroke, another was mentally retarded apparently). I feel for these guys but know it would never work and I hate letting them down.

They aren't the problem though. I've had guys tell me (without having met me)that they are in love with me and can't wait until we marry. Others are obvious women haters and when I reject them call me names and tell me I am just like the others. I've gotten more than my fair share of dick photos. Many unattractive men contact me and when I reject them they get upset. Then there are the dads. Everyone knows my anti dating dads stance and I post this on all my profiles. Does nxot stop dads from contacting me and when I tell them this is a dealbreaker they get upset. Others keep hounding me and I had to block them. I also get a lot of nasty messages telling me I am picky and should date a dad because all the single men my age don't want marriage or are gay, which is a lie. I thought this would be a lesser problem on the Catholic sites but still getting a lot of the dads.

This is why I want my ex to come back. He would never do any of this. Besides, he is never married, no kids and Catholic. I know he won't and I know he can do better, but these sites just make me so depressed.


I'm there with you on this. Just yesterday I got a email from a chick that looked semi attractive. By the 4th email she said she was in a wheel chair. I mean I feel bad for her but at least put it in your profile. It just seems all the online dating sites are full of rejects. I also had my fare share of 50+ year old fat chix trying to "hook up". I went on one date with a chick that looked nothing like her pictures.

Kellydancer
10-12-2011, 02:25 PM
Yeah I wish people would put things in their profile but on the other hand I understand why they don't. I know if I was disabled I would want them to judge on me, not disability, but on the other hand being non disabled I couldn't handle someone in a wheelchair. Our interests would not be the same because I enjoy playing sports and working out and someone in a wheelchair can not.

I am getting a lot of old men responding to me. I even had 70 year old men who were interested because women their age were "too old". Apparently many men online (probably women too)think they can get someone out of their league. I've had guys who didn't look like their photos either. Drives me nuts.

chanzep
10-12-2011, 02:29 PM
hair done yay!

lemiwinks31
10-12-2011, 02:48 PM
Anyways I thought I would try to date someone outside of the circle of the people I know. Boy has this been a disaster. The online dating sites are fully of nasty ass chix or rejects. Now the ex isn't looking so bad. :-\


There is probably some middle groung between 'people in your circle' and 'online dating'

I would try meeting them in your everyday life. Gym, grocery store, bar, etc.

I would think the majority of good looking women who make a good 1st impression are meeting men in their everyday lives, and dont ever make it to online dating...(obviously there are some,) but it seems to me that you would have to sift through 50 restaurant dumpsters to find one fresh uneaten apple.......and by the time you find the apple you are all dirty and not really hungry anymore.

Kellydancer
10-12-2011, 03:05 PM
I don't know, I've seen a few good looking people online, but yes most are definitely far below me look wise. I'm not all that shallow but don't want to date obese men. Many though are prizes who have jobs that might make it hard to find anyone. They are definitely harder to find.

I'm trying family friends. My parents have had these friends for over 20 years and the guy is a prize: University of Chicago professor and when they met he was 50, never married no kids and Catholic. I know they have a nephew that is the same way and a few years older then me, I think he is 48. My parents have many friends who have single sons my age who fit what I want.

sananeko
10-12-2011, 03:53 PM
I'm making banana chips... I don't really like them but there is no way I'm going to eat all of them before they go bad.. This is why I'm never getting a banana tree..

anouk.oui
10-13-2011, 03:42 AM
dr seuss eat your heart out
SEX ED TIME
http://nowthatyourebig.blogspot.com/2011/10/blog-post.html

bklynbombshell
10-13-2011, 05:56 AM
Excited about getting my iphone 4s tomorrow. 8) Not so excited for work later. :-\

_Avery_
10-13-2011, 07:02 AM
I'm famous!
My show made it on the Chealsea Handler show!

lmao

(but for the record, anyone who didn't see my actual show, I didn't dance while pregnant..lol lol)

Kellydancer
10-13-2011, 01:08 PM
I'm going to go to a job fair soon. I equate job fairs to online dating because like online dating, there are usually no quality jobs (like quality men online), the few jobs are ones I don't want or don't fit, and I have to screen out the rest. However, like job fairs I keep trying online dating for that one gem that MAY lurk (but usually doesn't).

kaiarose
10-13-2011, 01:11 PM
Someone take my credit card away!!! I keep buying dresses for work online.. This is the latest one ;D

Fawn
10-13-2011, 01:48 PM
Are there any SWEET and Caring (I don't mean clingy or "nice" but not actually NICE guys) left out there? I feel like I'm always running from men. I feel like I'm always dodging unwanted advances. And, when I do give a guy a chance, he inevitably ends up acting like a dog always trying to hump my leg. I am so tired of being treated like an object. Like, I'm only good for sex. I'm starting to despise men, and sex actually- except with myself.

This has nothing to do with dancing. I only JUST stareted dancing again, after a 3 year break. This has been my life. Always, except with my very first 2 boyfriends ever. I just want someone sweet. Someone who can just go with the fucking flow and let things unfold on their own istead of having a hidden (or not so hidden) agenda.

I have actually been thinking, because of the way men seem to view me/ how they seem to measure my worth in all kinds of interactions with them- not just in relationships, or at the club, but in normal everyday interactions with males, I'd rather not fucking live this way. like I'm a fucking object. I find myself preoccupied with thoughts of ending my own fucking life because I don't want to live in a world where every fucking little last thing revolves around sex somehow. What happened to geuine niceness?!?!

I can't even articulate properly what it is I'm feeling. I'm disgusted. And desperate for someone to please just be fucking nice to me without wanting/trying/ thinking of how to get in my pants. Are there any fucking genuinely nice adults? Or is this something we lose with age? It seems everyone has a fucking angle, and I'm sick of it.

kdogg247
10-13-2011, 02:26 PM
I'm sure some nice guy will turn up.

DominoDiva
10-13-2011, 06:01 PM
why did i have to be so damn honest with the doctor, this drinking ban is killing me!!!!! that bottle of ameretta looks soooooo damn good, im surprised at my will power right now.

bklynbombshell
10-13-2011, 06:36 PM
Painting my nails Celeb City silver, literally like liquid metal varnish lol. I'm poppin'. 8)

Kellydancer
10-13-2011, 06:41 PM
Are there any SWEET and Caring (I don't mean clingy or "nice" but not actually NICE guys) left out there? I feel like I'm always running from men. I feel like I'm always dodging unwanted advances. And, when I do give a guy a chance, he inevitably ends up acting like a dog always trying to hump my leg. I am so tired of being treated like an object. Like, I'm only good for sex. I'm starting to despise men, and sex actually- except with myself.

This has nothing to do with dancing. I only JUST stareted dancing again, after a 3 year break. This has been my life. Always, except with my very first 2 boyfriends ever. I just want someone sweet. Someone who can just go with the fucking flow and let things unfold on their own istead of having a hidden (or not so hidden) agenda.

I have actually been thinking, because of the way men seem to view me/ how they seem to measure my worth in all kinds of interactions with them- not just in relationships, or at the club, but in normal everyday interactions with males, I'd rather not fucking live this way. like I'm a fucking object. I find myself preoccupied with thoughts of ending my own fucking life because I don't want to live in a world where every fucking little last thing revolves around sex somehow. What happened to geuine niceness?!?!

I can't even articulate properly what it is I'm feeling. I'm disgusted. And desperate for someone to please just be fucking nice to me without wanting/trying/ thinking of how to get in my pants. Are there any fucking genuinely nice adults? Or is this something we lose with age? It seems everyone has a fucking angle, and I'm sick of it.

There are nice guys but they seem to usually be ugly or repulsive of some sort, or are clingy. It disgusts me big time because I'm pretty much convinced they are all gone.

DesuvsDeath
10-13-2011, 06:50 PM
Whenever I see adds for cam sites (which are often side banners on torrent hosting sites)... I always look for any of the SW camgirls. haha.

Pure
10-13-2011, 06:55 PM
Me so horny

DominoDiva
10-13-2011, 07:11 PM
Whenever I see adds for cam sites (which are often side banners on torrent hosting sites)... I always look for any of the SW camgirls. haha.



i do this too, or anyone i might recognise lol

xx

firemaiden04
10-13-2011, 10:32 PM
So somebody just tried to hack my WoW account. I've never actually had that happen before...moved all my money and stuff to my main, then tried to have my main transferred to another realm. The weird thing was, it would have worked, if they had used the card attached to my account for my subscription to pay for the character transfer...but they tried to use some random Visa card that isn't mine to pay for it, and it got denied since the billing address didn't match up. I reported it and they were all over that shit in like five minutes. I log in, all my gear and cash is sitting in my mailbox with an apology. And I'm pretty sure my main only had like 1500g on her since I've been working on my level 70 priest in Northrend, and somehow my main now has nearly 7k. Don't know where it came from...

Mindy Bares All
10-14-2011, 07:54 AM
My photoset is up for member review today! So nervous.

http://suicidegirls.com/members/Eisley/albums/site/25869/

Check it out. Send me some love! :D

Sia
10-14-2011, 10:42 AM
Started at a new club last night (the smaller dive club in town) and had a blast! The staff don't take themselves too seriously like the other club, and actually they let me play music that I like, gasp!

Jessie_tinydancer
10-14-2011, 11:26 AM
Im shit faced drunk right now... waaaa hate this feeling.. to jump husband or to not jump husband.. that is the question...

sananeko
10-14-2011, 11:45 AM
How hard is it to make one simple plan.. if you don't talk to me your not going anywhere cause I will already have it planned for me.

*Jade*Love
10-14-2011, 12:27 PM
I get home from work last night and my bed is covered in TERMITES! Seriously?! They are swarming in my room. Called the property manager and they're acting like it's no big deal. Um, I don't pay to live in an overpriced apartment to have termites crawl on me while I sleep. If I wanted that, I'd live in a fucking cardboard box. Fix that shit!!!

ArmySGT.
10-14-2011, 04:12 PM
11. List three (3) Colorado Springs residents who know you well enough to provide current and past information about you. Do not list relatives or former employers.

Name______________________________________________ ______________

Phone_________________________

Address

Years known ____________

Relationship


Name______________________________________________ __________

Phone_________________________

Address

Years known ___________

Relationship


Name______________________________________________ __________

Phone_________________________

Address

Years known _____________

Relationship

Ha ha ha ha Can't think of a single person .............

Kat w
10-14-2011, 05:48 PM
I haven't been on SW for a while and reading back in this thread I realized that I missed all of the fanfiction fun! Sigh, those were the days, I used to write some sweet Remus Lupin centered fanfic back in the day.

princessjas
10-14-2011, 05:58 PM
I accidentally snooped and found out something I didnt want to know and went batshit on my guys ass. Now I am tryin to make up for it. Arranging a 3some is my punishment. lol I really think this one might be a keeper!

22lligm
10-14-2011, 07:11 PM
I'm about to have an amazing night with my guy tonight!! Lately we've been not on good terms but I got a text from him at work saying he wants to do 'dirty things to me' .. so now I just exfoliated & oiled everything and I'm looking super hot... lets do this!! hehe ;)

lopaw
10-14-2011, 07:16 PM
I accidentally snooped and found out something I didnt want to know and went batshit on my guys ass. Now I am tryin to make up for it. Arranging a 3some is my punishment. lol I really think this one might be a keeper!


I'm jealous!

When I fuck up (which is often), my SO never lets me arrange a 3some as a punishment! She usually makes me snake out the plumbing, or wash the dog, or perform some other nasty, stinky job.

Can I live vicariously through you? ;D

princessjas
10-14-2011, 08:09 PM
I'm jealous!

When I fuck up (which is often), my SO never lets me arrange a 3some as a punishment! She usually makes me snake out the plumbing, or wash the dog, or perform some other nasty, stinky job.

Can I live vicariously through you? ;D

Sure! I am jealous of you too. You get to live with your girl all the time! I am still looking for a girlie pet!