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unbeleavable
05-16-2012, 08:24 PM
Watching someone leave this place isn't a fun place...
Bennu
05-16-2012, 08:35 PM
^^ yolo!
marco! :D
Kellydancer
05-16-2012, 10:03 PM
I wish I could post a picture here of one of the women that sent me a 'flirt' or private message or whatever it was. This woman was so hideous to behold, so truly monstrous in appearance, I thought it must have been a joke profile. But just in case it's not a joke I won't do it.
I would post photos of the men who have contacted me but they are real profiles and that would be cruel. All I will say is that there are many Frankenstein/Herman Munster lookalikes in the world. Speaking of characters I was contacted by a few men who looked like Wolfman and Bigfoot too. You know how when people are so fat their faces are distorted? many of those too. Also plenty of what I call mulletmen. And gorilla men too (though offly most of these men are light blonde).
mediocrity
05-16-2012, 10:21 PM
I posted this on my facebook but I'm going to bitch about it here too: I'm waiting for the bus, and this guy comes up, sticks his face in my face and says "So beautiful, so lonely" and starts walking away. I stand up for myself and retort: "Not lonely, I have a great husband to go home to". He then starts walking backwards and goes "I'D EXPECT THAT IN QUEEN ANNE BUT NOT HERE. YOU ARE THAT EXCLUSIVE WHITE TRASH. FUCK YOU BITCH!!" and proceeds to scream insults at me, such as ho, bitch etc FOR HALF A CITY BLOCK.
WHY DOES EVERYONE WANT TO TALK TO ME? Why can't people just LEAVE ME ALONE?
I can't figure it out. I try to send out the most unfriendly vibes ever. I don't make eye contact. NOTHING. For some reason people always want to say shit to me. I don't fucking get it. Either it's stuff like this or they want to tell me their entire life story. I hate it.
mainecoon
05-16-2012, 10:32 PM
wheeee i'll have a new job! (at least until i make enough with camming)
i'll be working in a tanning salon (: so nice!
on my first day i can get my nails done for free!
smeca
05-16-2012, 10:36 PM
^ I don't even respond to crap like that. Like why do people think it's ok to say something like that to a stranger? I look at them weird, ask them why they think they can talk to me/what are they on and tell them to get lost! BUT I swear the next random to tell me to 'smile!' is oging to hear a story about how my dog just died today or whatever, idiots.
Spinnerette
05-16-2012, 10:41 PM
I posted this on my facebook but I'm going to bitch about it here too: I'm waiting for the bus, and this guy comes up, sticks his face in my face and says "So beautiful, so lonely" and starts walking away. I stand up for myself and retort: "Not lonely, I have a great husband to go home to". He then starts walking backwards and goes "I'D EXPECT THAT IN QUEEN ANNE BUT NOT HERE. YOU ARE THAT EXCLUSIVE WHITE TRASH. FUCK YOU BITCH!!" and proceeds to scream insults at me, such as ho, bitch etc FOR HALF A CITY BLOCK.
WHY DOES EVERYONE WANT TO TALK TO ME? Why can't people just LEAVE ME ALONE?
I can't figure it out. I try to send out the most unfriendly vibes ever. I don't make eye contact. NOTHING. For some reason people always want to say shit to me. I don't fucking get it. Either it's stuff like this or they want to tell me their entire life story. I hate it.
Street harassment is about power. He's a piece of shit, knows it, and felt the need to put you down in that moment to make himself feel better. People are damaged and crazy, I swear. Sorry these type of things keep happening to you.
lestat1
05-16-2012, 10:56 PM
Coming home after a week of vacation in Las Vegas feels like getting kicked out of heaven.
mediocrity
05-16-2012, 10:57 PM
^ I don't even respond to crap like that. Like why do people think it's ok to say something like that to a stranger? I look at them weird, ask them why they think they can talk to me/what are they on and tell them to get lost! BUT I swear the next random to tell me to 'smile!' is oging to hear a story about how my dog just died today or whatever, idiots.
I GET THIS CONSTANTLY. Am I supposed to stand there like a moron with a goofy fucking grin on my face constantly? UGH FUCK OFF.
Thanks, Spinnerette. I get this kind of shit everywhere I go. I've had a guy come up to me in a bar, tap me on the shoulder and literally say "I have a big dick". Like no hello or anything- that was it. I laughed so hard I thought I was going to die.
Calbear
05-16-2012, 11:46 PM
'You only live once'... Yea I totally love the sentiment but oh my god. People shouting YOLO everywhere. Footballers with it on their shirts. I've heard drinks toasted 'to YOLO'.
Agh.
Ugg... I live in a nice neighborhood and some (probably rich) kids went around and tagged YOLO on some common walls. Its getting to be a bit much.
Kellydancer
05-17-2012, 12:10 AM
I too have had weird guys come up to me and say/do weird things so I can completely relate and sympathize. I don't get why men do this. I'll be out walking with iPod and my "leave me the fuck alone" face and they STILL do it. A few years ago I was walking to my job a few blocks from the Sears Tower (now Willis Tower)in downtown Chicago and this asshole starts calling me names and hitting me. I hit him back (he was short)then ran to my job. I've had random men come up to me and ask me for dates and they were mostly ugly, fat and much older than me.
Honestly I think these men have a grudge against women, especially attractive women and have to pretend to be big stuff to make women cry.
sammii
05-17-2012, 12:20 AM
I GET THIS CONSTANTLY. Am I supposed to stand there like a moron with a goofy fucking grin on my face constantly? UGH FUCK OFF.
Me too, and it pisses me off. The worst was when I was in retail. I constantly had customers saying "smile, life can't be that bad." It was so condescending and irritating.
mediocrity
05-17-2012, 12:35 AM
Me too, and it pisses me off. The worst was when I was in retail. I constantly had customers saying "smile, life can't be that bad." It was so condescending and irritating.
I've taken to just sort of baring my teeth when they say it now. It's pretty funny.
Naida
05-17-2012, 12:36 AM
What I'm curious about is why you ladies validate these people by responding? Just keep walking like you didn't hear anything at all. These guys get off on knowing that they can get a reaction out of you. What gets under THEIR skin is when you act like they don't even exist.
I lurves Leverage! I actually don't even really mind the guys being stuck on Diablo still, since I get to talk to muh lovely friend in Portland and watch this show!
mediocrity
05-17-2012, 12:40 AM
What I'm curious about is why you ladies validate these people by responding? Just keep walking like you didn't hear anything at all. These guys get off on knowing that they can get a reaction out of you. What gets under THEIR skin is when you act like they don't even exist.
I lurves Leverage! I actually don't even really mind the guys being stuck on Diablo still, since I get to talk to muh lovely friend in Portland and watch this show!
I've tried both ignoring and speaking up and I find either way I get name called so I figure fuck it, I'm saying something back. Sometimes if I ignore them, the person or persons in question continue to circle around me like fucking vultures. Always if I ignore them, I get "WELL FUCK YOU BITCH YOU THINK YOU'RE TOO GOOD TO TALK TO ME?" so either way I really can't win.
For sammii:
miamia4me
05-17-2012, 01:00 AM
I have done the ignoring tactic as well and had guys just stand around me in a circle calling me a slut, whore, stuck up bitch, etc. When 5 minutes before they were trying to go home with me. Typical men you know. Annoy you either way you go about it.
Naida
05-17-2012, 01:00 AM
I get approached probably as often as y'all do and find that ignoring is definitely the best way to handle it. It's hard to do at first but, after a while, the acting like you don't care eventually leads to you REALLY NOT CARING. The only time I bother responding is when they shout back "You think you're too good to talk to me" on a day that I feel especially bitchy- and it's always with a bright smile and an "actually, I am" before I resume ignoring them.
sammii
05-17-2012, 01:22 AM
Haha, love it med. I'm terrible at comebacks, so the list was great.
And wow, I'm honestly shocked that people yell at you guys on the streets. Why are people so rude?
Kisca
05-17-2012, 01:31 AM
Im annoyed by the JBI forum at times... 80% of the females seem to "not" be ok with their SO watching porn.
miamia4me
05-17-2012, 01:35 AM
I always ignore people I don't want to talk to. I don't want to give the other person a reason to talk back. When I was younger I responded just to see what would happen. Now...well I don't care. I sit there and let people talk to the side of my face and continue texting. Trick is to always look busy.
strippername
05-17-2012, 01:36 AM
I feel really bad for googling my boyfriends ex-wife. It feels wrong, but I don't feel jealous at all. I feel weird that she has almost the same stupid tattoo on her back as me. Confessions thread?
ShayBaby
05-17-2012, 03:06 AM
I just want customers to say a simple NO THANKS right away instead of chatting me up for ever with no prospect of buying anything. Shhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhh hh! What's wrong with you??? Get a fucking clue.
Had to vent after an entire night of cheapskates
DesuvsDeath
05-17-2012, 04:27 AM
I'm so absolutely fucked.
I HAVE to make $700 tomorrow... and there's like ZERO % chance on that happening.
Jesus Christ... I wish I had friends who actually had money so I could just borrow it... but I don't. So I'm TRIPPLE fucked.
kaiarose
05-17-2012, 06:38 AM
Im annoyed by the JBI forum at times... 80% of the females seem to "not" be ok with their SO watching porn.
Most of the women on there are absolute prudes.
I just did all my house cleaning and it's not even 9a.m. yet... Yay me! :D
Naida
05-17-2012, 07:41 AM
JBI? I can't have a problem with an SO watching porn because I watch a LOT of porn myself.
All I can think about is a Philosopher's Stone and (most likely misplaced, but I don't give a fuck) love.
Siddarth
05-17-2012, 08:36 AM
I woke up late this morning (7am) and felt very depressed. Strange! I think some coffee will help.
anouk.oui
05-17-2012, 09:01 AM
so fuckdolls ex is talking to him again on facebook. i wonder how hard he had to beg her. its so pathetic! how is a 25 year old rocker in a semi-successful band that tours the world gets hung up and misty eyed over an unattractive 16 year old who lives on the other side of the world and wants nothing to do with him? and i know for a fact he cheated on her constantly. with everyone.
im so glad im keeping away from this dude. if i let my feelings develop further it could have potentially been a disaster.
smeca
05-17-2012, 11:27 AM
i am getting some stomach definition from going on the pole so much at this club! :D
Kellydancer
05-17-2012, 12:30 PM
Haha, love it med. I'm terrible at comebacks, so the list was great.
And wow, I'm honestly shocked that people yell at you guys on the streets. Why are people so rude?
I think it's because men are just so angry at all women. I've tried ignoring these assholes yet they keep it up. The funny thing is many times it's when I am working out, wearing workout clothes, no makeup and hair tied up and they still do it.
Sophia_Starina
05-17-2012, 01:05 PM
Peace & Love.
sammii
05-17-2012, 01:45 PM
I think it's because men are just so angry at all women. I've tried ignoring these assholes yet they keep it up. The funny thing is many times it's when I am working out, wearing workout clothes, no makeup and hair tied up and they still do it.
I think I'm just surprised because I never see stuff like this happen where I live. I'm "sheltered," I guess. I don't think you should take it personally. There are the guys who respect women, and there are the guys who are pissed about being rejected and so they lash out at pretty girls for attention.
Spinnerette
05-17-2012, 02:12 PM
I think it's because men are just so angry at all women. I've tried ignoring these assholes yet they keep it up. The funny thing is many times it's when I am working out, wearing workout clothes, no makeup and hair tied up and they still do it.
I think I'm just surprised because I never see stuff like this happen where I live. I'm "sheltered," I guess. I don't think you should take it personally. There are the guys who respect women, and there are the guys who are pissed about being rejected and so they lash out at pretty girls for attention.
Pretty much both of these. I didn't get a chance to go into the psychology behind it, but it does mostly have to do with these guys being REALLY hurt over constantly being rejected (with good reason, obviously) and projecting that rejection onto every attractive female they see. It's like they see a woman, feel lust for her, and then get angry when they run through the most likely scenario of being shot down in their heads. So they go out of their way to punish the girl for it as a preemptive reaction to stroke their own egos. Our ability to arouse them and then deny them infuriates them. They see the very being of femaleness as manipulative. Er...David Wong of Cracked.com wrote a pretty interesting article where one of the bullet points was this. Not that I should be building my world view off the opinion of a comedy site editor. XD
It's so dumb that I can't even wrap my head around it sometimes. My ipod has saved me so much frustration during pedestrian commutes in this department. And I like the comeback suggestions to "smile". I've also taken to baring my teeth or frowning in a threatening manner when confronted with such a command.
Siddarth
05-17-2012, 03:46 PM
I've tried both ignoring and speaking up and I find either way I get name called so I figure fuck it, I'm saying something back. Sometimes if I ignore them, the person or persons in question continue to circle around me like fucking vultures. Always if I ignore them, I get "WELL FUCK YOU BITCH YOU THINK YOU'RE TOO GOOD TO TALK TO ME?" so either way I really can't win.
For sammii:
I am one of those guys who rarely tell women to do anything. I guess that is why I have very little friction with women in general.
Kellydancer
05-17-2012, 03:57 PM
Pretty much both of these. I didn't get a chance to go into the psychology behind it, but it does mostly have to do with these guys being REALLY hurt over constantly being rejected (with good reason, obviously) and projecting that rejection onto every attractive female they see. It's like they see a woman, feel lust for her, and then get angry when they run through the most likely scenario of being shot down in their heads. So they go out of their way to punish the girl for it as a preemptive reaction to stroke their own egos. Our ability to arouse them and then deny them infuriates them. They see the very being of femaleness as manipulative. Er...David Wong of Cracked.com wrote a pretty interesting article where one of the bullet points was this. Not that I should be building my world view off the opinion of a comedy site editor. XD
It's so dumb that I can't even wrap my head around it sometimes. My ipod has saved me so much frustration during pedestrian commutes in this department. And I like the comeback suggestions to "smile". I've also taken to baring my teeth or frowning in a threatening manner when confronted with such a command.
I think you are right. I have noticed in general when men get rejected they get nasty sometimes. If they have been rejected many times they just start hating women. I don't hate all men for the ones who rejected me, rejection is a fact of life. I actually think part of it goes to this idea that some men have that they can have any woman, then when rejected they take it out on other women. I think in general women can handle rejection better than men.
Kisca
05-17-2012, 05:02 PM
Im kinda jelous of some of the boob jobs on JBI forum..
Some of those ladies went porn-star size that I sorta want to go bigger...
But only to show off at work, I kinda dont get going that big and not showing them off ? /:O
sananeko
05-17-2012, 05:05 PM
Just to add in the current topic. I get it all the time from men and women. I learn ignoring them only makes them try to grab me.. But I have learn the art of picking them apart piece by piece in a calm tone til they run crying or say they are sorry.. I'm really sad about my cousin.. I was hanging out with her a few days ago and wow all the cat to whore calls she was getting was horrible.. after the day was done she thanked me for being with her cause that was the nicest its been for her in her town.... Is there a way to sue a town...
sammii
05-17-2012, 05:21 PM
It's awful that they treat her like that. Your cousin needs to get out of there.
charlie61
05-17-2012, 06:25 PM
Bahaha is it sad that I thought of Mean Girls right away when I read this?: My friend posts on his news feed, "bitches got staring problems. It's Wednesday, so obviously I'm going to wear pink."
Gay men are my sunshine <3
Did you just "out" The Addict???
:D
sweetsam
05-17-2012, 06:40 PM
So still tired, thinking of going to bed any minute now. Tomorrow is Friday..yay. Time to pay more bills. :/ I wanted to cam before the pay period ended on MFC but never was able too. So that really blows....I guess money will just come out of my ass for the bills I wont be able to pay. Argh. Found Suze Orman and Dave Ramsey this week on TV/Internet, going to start learning how to take better control of my debt and finances and start saving for a better future and retirement. I hope I can cam soon. I was put on the generic version of the birth control I used to take, and I called my doctor to call in Loestrin 24 for me. I can't deal with 7 days of womanly issues. Loestrin is 3 days of light and minimal issues, AND it adds a few pounds on me which I LOVE because I hate being so thin. I mean I look alright, but I would rather be about 130-135. Ok....enough rambling. Goodnight. My paycheck will be gone by end of day tomorrow. :(
charlie61
05-17-2012, 07:11 PM
I'm getting laser hair removal (full bikini) next month!! Super excited!
Naida
05-17-2012, 08:13 PM
You're so fucking lucky, Charlie!
Binaural beats and DNA activation. Interesting stuff.
Siddarth
05-17-2012, 08:15 PM
I feel sleepy.
The_Adict
05-17-2012, 08:26 PM
Did you just "out" The Addict???
:D
I'm shocked. Shocked and appalled.
*goes back to reading Elle Decor*
sananeko
05-17-2012, 09:16 PM
It's awful that they treat her like that. Your cousin needs to get out of there.
Well she finally got a job so she is working to getting out but I feel really bad cause she is so happy to see me but if I even take her to do anything the whole family screams about me being the devil and shit like that.. And she is so broken down from childhood she can't walk away like that..
Siddarth
05-17-2012, 10:59 PM
It is late and instead of fighting sleep, I should hit the hay.
Naida
05-18-2012, 02:19 AM
Maybe we can meet again further down the river, and share what we both discovered then revel in the view... I <3 Brandon Boyd...
Anastasia Foxx
05-18-2012, 05:35 AM
I posted this on my facebook but I'm going to bitch about it here too: I'm waiting for the bus, and this guy comes up, sticks his face in my face and says "So beautiful, so lonely" and starts walking away. I stand up for myself and retort: "Not lonely, I have a great husband to go home to". He then starts walking backwards and goes "I'D EXPECT THAT IN QUEEN ANNE BUT NOT HERE. YOU ARE THAT EXCLUSIVE WHITE TRASH. FUCK YOU BITCH!!" and proceeds to scream insults at me, such as ho, bitch etc FOR HALF A CITY BLOCK.
WHY DOES EVERYONE WANT TO TALK TO ME? Why can't people just LEAVE ME ALONE?
I can't figure it out. I try to send out the most unfriendly vibes ever. I don't make eye contact. NOTHING. For some reason people always want to say shit to me. I don't fucking get it. Either it's stuff like this or they want to tell me their entire life story. I hate it.
I'm really starting to hate the general public. WTF ever happened to basic manners and politeness? Day before yesterday I got my sleeve finished and was killing time before picking hubby up at the airport (10 day tour break, SO happy about the monkey sex! WOO HOO!) at Barnes and Noble with my t-shirt sleeve rolled up, reading a magazine, and some random girl - knowing she was within earshot and just loud as can be - tells her friend "girls like that who cover theirselves (yes, she said theirselves) in tattoos are just trashy." So I looked at her and she SAT DOWN NEXT TO ME and told me "You know it's true, no one will ever take you seriously and you're gonna be minimum wage for the rest of your life."
So, since she invaded MY personal space, uninvited, I patted her on her fat knee and said "Thank you very much for your unsolicited opinion of me, I'll be sure to let my rock star husband and wealthy design clients know that according to your little fat self I'm trashy, unimportant and minimum wage." Then I stood up to walk away, turned around and said "Jealousy is a sickness, I hope you get better soon." I thought her friend was going to piss herself laughing while she sat there with her cock sucker hanging open.
I swear to god, there are days when I want to wipe out the general population because they are so mannerless. And you know what's worse, I know she wouldn't have said a damned thing if my husband had been there. These people are like peta - it's way easier to throw red paint over little old defenseless ladies wearing fur coats than it is to go after the big burly biker wearing a leather vest.
Rant over, time for coffee . . .
Almost Jaded
05-18-2012, 03:31 PM
@Lestat1 - *sigh* - another SW I would LOVE to meet fails to contact either of us when in town. I hope you step in dog poop. :P
There isn't much more to be said about the assholes and bitches referenced in this thread; some people just have issues they can't seem to keep to themselves. It's a never-ending source of bemusement to me that these individuals find it easier to project or take it out on strangers than to work on themselves. Personally, I prefer to work on improving myself as a person so I have less desire to lash out. Seems to work well everywhere but on the road. Road rage pwns me, lol.
I am in such a good mood today! I found my ring ("lost" my wedding ring a couple months ago, KNEW it was in our room somewhere, found in the pocket of my seldom-worn pajama pants last night, lol), had a good night with MM, and wasn't interrupted a single time by calls or texts while I slept today (that NEVER happens). On our way to a great gathering of friends this evening before MM goes to the club - hope this mood keeps up!
*Jade*Love
05-18-2012, 06:31 PM
Dropped my dog off today for a board and train program, now I'm all alone. I miss my little golden nugget :(
Naida
05-19-2012, 07:09 AM
It never ceases to amaze me how undeniably gorgeous he is...