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UrbanOzz
06-20-2012, 05:46 PM
pretty sure he's just taking jabs at me. It's what happens between guys. I'm not offended. it's a salt in the wound kind of thing.

as for trying to understand the fetish...i am too.

charlie61
06-20-2012, 05:47 PM
I wish I had a fetish. I respect people who know their fetishes and own them! Except for ze pedophiles and bestialists, of course.

UrbanOzz
06-20-2012, 05:52 PM
puttying this back on topic...which is no topic at all. INfact, this is what's on my mind so i guess it's on topic of the topic.

*mind implodes*

Su Su
06-20-2012, 05:54 PM
I'm a mildly disappointed girl for the week.
I'll be alright soon enough. No biggy...

Almost Jaded
06-20-2012, 05:54 PM
You have one - everyone does, lol. You'll find it eventually, and if you're lucky you'll be okay with it when you do - most people aren't.

I hate useless days. I feel like I've gotten nothing done - but there's nothing to DO. Or rather, everything I need to do, there's a real reason (financial, health, etc) that I can't right now. Bleh.

charlie61
06-20-2012, 05:56 PM
You have one - everyone does, lol. You'll find it eventually, and if you're lucky you'll be okay with it when you do - most people aren't.


Wrong! Are you the only one on SW who doesn't know that I'm asexual? :)

UrbanOzz
06-20-2012, 05:59 PM
Wrong! Are you the only one on SW who doesn't know that I'm asexual? :)

Hate to generalize, but I think a lot of dancers have a power fetish. They love knowing the control they have over a customer with their body. maybe not everyone, but some feel that rush.

I'm not saying they don't do it for the money, they certainly do. but the money is part of the rush. They know they can control that.

others are miserable and just don't want to be there at all.

charlie61
06-20-2012, 06:01 PM
Hate to generalize, but I think a lot of dancers have a power fetish. They love knowing the control they have over a customer with their body. maybe not everyone, but some feel that rush.

I'm not saying they don't do it for the money, they certainly do. but the money is part of the rush. They know they can control that.

others are miserable and just don't want to be there at all.

No rush for me. No adrenaline. I've never gotten adrenaline from dancing (well, aside from the kind that stems from fear). I think everyone gets a 'rush' from earning money, but that's very different from a sexual fetish.

UrbanOzz
06-20-2012, 06:12 PM
^^what about bums? you must like bums.

charlie61
06-20-2012, 06:15 PM
^^what about bums? you must like bums.

I like looking! I like looking at pretty things--like sunsets and good bums. I also have no desire to touch bums (or the sun).

Almost Jaded
06-20-2012, 07:08 PM
LOL @ touching the sun.

I know Charlie, we've had this talk before. Without meaning to offend you or anyone like you - I tend to think of asexuality as "haven't found what works for me yet". SO my posting that you haven't found yours was actually poking you in a joking way about your asexuality, not a lack of knowing about it. ;)

lestat1
06-20-2012, 07:36 PM
Turned 34. Wasn't fun.

Almost Jaded
06-20-2012, 09:04 PM
My 37th is coming up WAAAY too fast. I feel ya. You ever going to call? :)

Jessie_tinydancer
06-20-2012, 09:10 PM
10 days until Vegas, Miami and new York... Can't wait! Squeeeeeeeee

DesuvsDeath
06-20-2012, 09:16 PM
I tend to think of asexuality as "haven't found what works for me yet".

I'd say that changes person to person... all the asexuals I know literally would rather cut off their hand than have sex... don't jerk off... don't look at porn, ect...
So some of them really just... don't like sex to the point where 'what works for them' is, like, holding hands and pecks on the cheek and that's all that will EVER work for them.

ArmySGT.
06-21-2012, 12:11 AM
I have been fucking around with Hero Machine 3 for 4 hours. Heh. Bedtime!

HandSanitizer
06-21-2012, 01:04 AM
i wish i had a Tempur-pedic bed :D

cherryblossomsinspring
06-21-2012, 03:51 AM
Sick and tired of cam customer's getting jealous. Hellloooooo it's a cam site where I talk to men just like you. Did you really think I was going to sit around and wait on your money? FFS!! I keep getting these guy jump out of the room because I say two sentences to someone else or the asshole with no money that's been staring at me for over an hour decides to open his trap because someone else tipped. Shut the fuck up! Wait your turn bitch and bring some money while you're at it.

Almost Jaded
06-21-2012, 03:56 AM
Jessie - PM us when you're in town!! Is this a working vacation, or just for fun?

Desu - I know, and again - I'm not meaning to belittle anyone's state of being. I just also know people who identified as asexual "until this one time...", and then things changed a bit. :shrug:

UrbanOzz
06-21-2012, 05:50 AM
might have to cut down my epic long bike ride i have planned today to some tranquil falls in a small town down as the it's 8:50am and the humidex values are already in the 40s....sigh

bringing lots of water and hoping for the best.

Jessie_tinydancer
06-21-2012, 11:49 AM
Jessie - PM us when you're in town!! Is this a working vacation, or just for fun?


Its just for fun and its in 10 days baby!!! Hells ya. We are meeting two of our best mates there originally from Tennessee. We taught these kids how to party and now they out party us on the reg :-/ so Im actually scared... Would be fantastic to have local show us where to go. If were not too jet lagged planing on hitting SC the first night. Weeeeeee!

The Six
06-21-2012, 12:30 PM
"Call Me Maybe" is a nice example of a "wait for the chorus" song. Pop songwriting has gotten to the point where nobody even tries to write interesting verses anymore. There's no attempt at a melody or creating interesting lyrics. There verse is basically a formality, an interchangeable almost-lost relic that is included merely as something to stretch the song time up to the requisite 3:00 or so, and take up space before the chorus, or "good part," comes. Enjoyment of songs no longer comes from the entire composition being good, we now willfully settle for the anticipation of the familiar chorus while tolerating the verses. This is also probably why the chorus is repeated, like, 17 times at the end. Might as well hammer it home to guarantee the masses will continue to hum it all the way into the next song that plays (at least until the chorus of that one picks up).

smeca
06-21-2012, 12:38 PM
^ Generic pop songs are popular because of this easily predicatble structure, with a catchy tune. Our brains like it when we can predict patterns. One club I worked in played the same generic club songs every night, when I heard them on the radio I would feel like dancing while consciously knowing I actually dislike the song. Horrible!


On my mind now... that annoying song, grr.

Kellydancer
06-21-2012, 04:09 PM
Money is an aphrodisiac and it makes ugly men look hotter. Think about it as beer goggles for the women who care more about money than anything else. I firmly assert you need to be sort of like this when it comes to dancing, though it doesn't always work outside the club for real relationships. Then you usually need more.

Asexuality to me has many forms. Right now I am celibate and to be honest if I never have intercourse again I don't care. I've never really liked it to be honest and I don't think at this point I would care to do it unless there is something in it for me, ie a husband. Having casual sex with someone doesn't appeal to me, but oral sex is another matter. That I could have with a random hot guy (I have several 20something men who want to give me oral). I will say though I get turned on at the drop of a hat with odd things, like nude paintings or even comments.

I sure hope this company calls me for an interview. I REALLY, REALLY want this job.

_Avery_
06-21-2012, 04:10 PM
My favorite time of day is my kids bedtime.
2 more hours!! Ahhh!

papillonluvr
06-21-2012, 05:06 PM
I like and hate when my daughter is sick. I don't like that she's sick, but it's one of the only times when she'll cuddle with me. :-/

_Avery_
06-21-2012, 05:16 PM
^^lol, I feel the same.
My kids sleep more too when they're sick.

That sounds awful...I fucking hate when they're sick, but I do enjoy them resting and snuggling with me.
Usually they're running around like crazy maniacs lol

caitlin1214
06-21-2012, 05:40 PM
I don't watch that show, so you kinda lost me there.:shrug:


Sheldon (the guy in the picture) is doing an Admiral Ackbar impression.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Gvno2gU89w

caitlin1214
06-21-2012, 05:51 PM
Looking forward to checking out a live band tomorrow night.

charlie61
06-21-2012, 06:02 PM
LOL @ touching the sun.

I know Charlie, we've had this talk before. Without meaning to offend you or anyone like you - I tend to think of asexuality as "haven't found what works for me yet". SO my posting that you haven't found yours was actually poking you in a joking way about your asexuality, not a lack of knowing about it. ;)

Love ya AJ, but that is definitely offensive. It's the equivalent of telling a gay woman that she just hasn't found the right guy yet. Yikes. I'm pretty surprised - you're the last person on SW I'd expect to say something like that. :O

It also has NOTHING to do with celibacy, so Kellydancer's way of viewing it is actually damaging to the asexual community. Asexuality is NOT a choice - it's an orientation. Celibacy is a CHOICE.

To further clarify as well, this isn't about having a low libido. I have a very high libido (masturbation), and I'm romantically deeply in love with my partner, but I have never had any desire to be with someone physically for the sake of being with them. My sexuality is completely separate from the rest of humanity - I can't even masturbate in front of my partner without it feeling like a violation of my sexuality. I'm actually currently in therapy because being in a heterosexual relationship as an asexual is so difficult for me (and for my partner). I've tried to date women, too, but it's the same shit. I have never, ever desired someone sexually. And no, I wasn't abused growing up.

UrbanOzz
06-21-2012, 06:27 PM
i think i have heat stroke. cycling for 3 hours in 40degree heat will do that. why did I do that? at least i saw some beautiful creeks, country roads, water falls, and lakes, instead of the usual condo construction holes that Toronto has to offer.

ArmySGT.
06-21-2012, 07:34 PM
Must be improving. I only had to refresh the page four times to reach the end of the thread. :(

unbeleavable
06-21-2012, 07:40 PM
Love ya AJ, but that is definitely offensive. It's the equivalent of telling a gay woman that she just hasn't found the right guy yet. Yikes. I'm pretty surprised - you're the last person on SW I'd expect to say something like that. :O

It also has NOTHING to do with celibacy, so Kellydancer's way of viewing it is actually damaging to the asexual community. Asexuality is NOT a choice - it's an orientation. Celibacy is a CHOICE.

To further clarify as well, this isn't about having a low libido. I have a very high libido (masturbation), and I'm romantically deeply in love with my partner, but I have never had any desire to be with someone physically for the sake of being with them. My sexuality is completely separate from the rest of humanity - I can't even masturbate in front of my partner without it feeling like a violation of my sexuality. I'm actually currently in therapy because being in a heterosexual relationship as an asexual is so difficult for me (and for my partner). I've tried to date women, too, but it's the same shit. I have never, ever desired someone sexually. And no, I wasn't abused growing up.

Education is a great thing, Thank You

LaurenAus
06-21-2012, 08:19 PM
Vegas for the weekend..soooo essited!!!

Kellydancer
06-21-2012, 08:21 PM
Love ya AJ, but that is definitely offensive. It's the equivalent of telling a gay woman that she just hasn't found the right guy yet. Yikes. I'm pretty surprised - you're the last person on SW I'd expect to say something like that. :O

It also has NOTHING to do with celibacy, so Kellydancer's way of viewing it is actually damaging to the asexual community. Asexuality is NOT a choice - it's an orientation. Celibacy is a CHOICE.

To further clarify as well, this isn't about having a low libido. I have a very high libido (masturbation), and I'm romantically deeply in love with my partner, but I have never had any desire to be with someone physically for the sake of being with them. My sexuality is completely separate from the rest of humanity - I can't even masturbate in front of my partner without it feeling like a violation of my sexuality. I'm actually currently in therapy because being in a heterosexual relationship as an asexual is so difficult for me (and for my partner). I've tried to date women, too, but it's the same shit. I have never, ever desired someone sexually. And no, I wasn't abused growing up.

I have heard people who are asexual say they are celibate so I do think they can be the same. I'm interested in sex though not intercourse and someone told me that could be a form of asexuality. However as I understand it, most asexual people aren't interested in sex with anyone. I didn't say I was asexual I just said I believe it has many forms.

Kellydancer
06-21-2012, 09:00 PM
Eww, a big spider was crawling over my 20 year old poster of the Cure (bought in college). Spider you got vacuumed and don't EVER fuck with my poster again.

Victoryx0x0
06-21-2012, 10:02 PM
pink doesnt look so bad after all. :)

Almost Jaded
06-21-2012, 10:58 PM
LauranAus - I say this to everyone who hits this town from SW - PM one of us! We LOVE meeting SW peeps!

Charlie - I apologize again, as I did not intend to offend. I understand what asexuality is. I know others who identify as such. I know several who found a specific kink - some of them are incredibly specific - that worked for them. Observation has an effect on personal beliefs, this has caused me to believe that as complex as human beings are, all else aside there is likely SOMETHING out there for anybody.

The ones I feel really bad for are people like my friend T - she LOVES sex, but for some reason orgasm is intensely painful. Like getting shot in the stomach painful. And she gets off very easily and frequently - something many would kill to be able to do. As a consequence of this, she can't even masturbate, NOTHING. She wants sex all the time, but can't stand the thought of fulfilling the desire because of what she knows comes with it. Sad. :-(

sananeko
06-21-2012, 11:14 PM
I just got told I couldn't go to a party cause i don't "play" like everyone else does. Its not my fault everyone there is either ugly or way too full of themselves for me to even want to pay attention to.. The sad part is I have to go cause I drive most of the damn party members there.. So either be respectful and keep mouth shut or not have half of your party there.

LuckyOne
06-22-2012, 01:08 AM
Wow, I used to post on here all the time and I haven't posted in 2 years!!! A lot has changed!

UrbanOzz
06-22-2012, 05:19 AM
welcome back :)

time for a bike ride along the lake! weather is better today, maybe I can push for 80km

Addison
06-22-2012, 06:15 AM
I wanna wait until I get new boobs to debut my new look (new hair color, new makeup, contacts, new style of outfits, etc).. but I'm not seeing boobs anywhere in the near future! :( Meanwhile, I think my new look would probably help me make boobie money faster! But I wanted to rock it all together as a surprise! wahhhh!

Addison
06-22-2012, 06:32 AM
My boyfriend gets mad at me for things I did........in his dream. WTF!

papillonluvr
06-22-2012, 07:23 AM
My boyfriend gets mad at me for things I did........in his dream. WTF!

Lol I do this to my hubby occasionally. I don't really mean anything by it though, just teasing.

anouk.oui
06-22-2012, 11:32 AM
omgomgomgomg
if you havent got into the jenna marbles videos or if you dislike them or love them whatever you HAVE to watch this episode!!!!! fuckin seriously its the funniest shit ive eeeever seen and i was in a fuckin foul mood before but honestly... dont question just watch it

what kids shows taught me:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROZjaxT_0Hw&list=UU9gFih9rw0zNCK3ZtoKQQyA&index=2&feature=plcp

lemiwinks31
06-22-2012, 12:29 PM
pink doesnt look so bad after all. :)


by the time you get that far.....it rarely does.

DesuvsDeath
06-22-2012, 01:01 PM
Every time I look at that pic of my hair in picture post I get so excited.
I can't BELIEVE how long 18" hair looks on me. It seriously looks like the taller girl from my work's 22" hair. lolol

Jessie_tinydancer
06-22-2012, 01:07 PM
^ Im not gonna lie I agree that hair is pretty epic

anouk.oui
06-22-2012, 01:29 PM
WHY am i the most mentally alert at 6am? like 6am before going to bed not after getting up early. seriously i would consider powering thru the day without sleep if it wasnt for the 7 hr shift i have later on tonight with an early start followed by yet another 7 hr shift with an early start the next day. kill me!
once my bills are paid im taking time off...

UrbanOzz
06-22-2012, 01:57 PM
just cycled 80km, i should have carb loaded...and wore sunscreen.