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tuesdaymarie
07-07-2012, 11:59 PM
I cannot for the life of me find Avery's black-to-blonde posts recommending different products. I'm toying with the idea of dying my hair (which is currently black)...just for the hell of it.
Avery, m'love, where are you hiding those amazing posts? :-*
I think she took them down because her photos were in them... But she sent me an abridged version in a PM a while back, so she still has it all on hand. I love her hair color! I just don't love me as a blonde. I'm thinking a chocolate brown is next...
Kellydancer
07-08-2012, 12:02 AM
I don't know all of the people you're referring to, but you attacked loveshooks before she said anything to you. I don't think people are attacking you, you just like to argue.
In other news, started my diet today. Drank a shit ton of caffeine and my legs are shaking, ugh.
Um no, she started on me after I went after a TROLL and no I don't like to argue. I am being tired of being accused of things, like claiming I made a racist rant when I did no such thing.
sammii
07-08-2012, 12:44 AM
Kelly, I honestly don't have a problem with you. I don't think she was calling your racist. Relax.
Kellydancer
07-08-2012, 12:49 AM
I don't have a problem with you or her, but the comment rubbed me the wrong way. I went and looked at that site and let's just say I wouldn't want to post a photo of myself there. I'm not going to post the titles of threads but some are extremely demeaning to women.
sammii
07-08-2012, 12:51 AM
I'm going to pass on even looking at the site. The title turned me off and they shouldn't be advertising here. Can't comment on the site because I haven't seen it, but I probably wouldn't want to.
ChefKitty
07-08-2012, 12:52 AM
I have a crush on one of my dj's.
He is old enough to be my dad.
Don't care. :)
Kisca
07-08-2012, 12:52 AM
What in the fuck, several trolls post meaningless things, I say something, then regular posters attack me. This is disgusting and I don't know why this posters hate me.
If you are writing this towards the thread "Why guys are shallow?", then you should really reconsider of what you wrote and rethink.
Kellydancer
07-08-2012, 12:54 AM
If you are writing this towards the thread "Why guys are shallow?", then you should really reconsider of what you wrote and rethink.
Well, I stand by what I wrote and that is yes men who think they can get hot, though they are fat, old, ugly and poor are delusional. However they will be alone as they age and I will laugh at them. As you get older you will rethink this, I guarantee it.
Kellydancer
07-08-2012, 12:56 AM
I'm going to pass on even looking at the site. The title turned me off and they shouldn't be advertising here. Can't comment on the site because I haven't seen it, but I probably wouldn't want to.
One of the threads calls women whores. Yep, definitely wouldn't recommend a site like that.
Kisca
07-08-2012, 01:13 AM
Well, I stand by what I wrote and that is yes men who think they can get hot, though they are fat, old, ugly and poor are delusional. However they will be alone as they age and I will laugh at them. As you get older you will rethink this, I guarantee it.
By all means stand of what you think, I wasn't remotely close of talking about you on that thread. I was stating an average female over 50 cannot produce kids and men strive to go for younger for that reason you lost it. Are you mad, jelous, upset over something ? You seem to be holding a lot of anger, I dont think you should be calling these men hypocrites, what have they done to you?
Naida
07-08-2012, 05:54 AM
Well, I stand by what I wrote and that is yes men who think they can get hot, though they are fat, old, ugly and poor are delusional. However they will be alone as they age and I will laugh at them. As you get older you will rethink this, I guarantee it.
Men who think they can get hot are delusional? My boyfriend used to be fat, but now he's pretty much a knockout as far as myself and most other women are concerned. And I don't mean like he lost 20lbs. I mean, we went to school together from the start of middle school until our last year in high school and I didn't know I'd even met him before until after we started dating- it's been seriously THAT dramatic a change. Age can't be changed, but being 50 doesn't mean you're geriatric if you're healthy and still want to have fun! Ugly is a relative term- some guys can clean up simply with a new haircut, a good facial wash, and tweezing their unibrow; more extreme cases can go for cosmetic surgery if they want. Women do it all the effin' time! And never judge a man by his bank statement (unless he's a compulsive gambler, money launderer, all those sorts of ruin-your-life situations) because it should be HIM that matters as long as he can pay his bills- a big paycheck is just icing on the cake. I hung out with this guy from my hometown and last time I SAW him, he was working for minimum wage at some fast food joint. Next time I HEARD about him, a mutual friend informed me that he now lives in a bad ass apartment in my favorite city after getting signed and cutting his first album, while LISTENING TO SAID ALBUM! He went from dirt broke to six figures in a matter of days! The people who are "delusional" are the ones that believe it's not possible to achieve the things you want, because making it to your own version of "the top" is more an exercise of WILLPOWER than luck!
What's on my mind- too damned much. I just wanna sleep...
MyButter
07-08-2012, 06:02 AM
I really want to go to a powwow... I dont have any regalia, though.... nor do I know any natives out here so I'd be all alone, lol.
Some other random ramblings: so this upscale club would be a lot closer to me but I'm scared that they'll say "fuck no".
UrbanOzz
07-08-2012, 06:33 AM
way too excited about a book series.
Just finished reading the Bridge of Sighs by Olen Steinhauer (sp?)
its the first book in a series of 5 called the Yalta Boulevard Sequence that take place during the cold war. WOW what a book! I just eat this shit up. This one took place during 1948 when Berlin had the Soviet Sectors and the American Sectors etc etc.
Love it so much i immediate picked up the second book in the series which takes place in 1950's Hungary.
no, i'm not a sales man for this author lol.
UrbanOzz
07-08-2012, 07:02 AM
One of the key things to one of the employers i interviewed with is mandatory french tutoring.
I think this is awesome as I have almost completely lost my french tongue. This alone, makes me want this job. Believe it or not, being completely fluent in French opens up a lot more doors for you in Canada.
I really hope i get the job as a provided tutor is a hell of a perk.
oh, and by French, i mean Quebecois
unbeleavable
07-08-2012, 07:26 AM
I went out with a woman last night that is getting ready to try to turn Pro in figure in 2 weeks & I don't know how I feel about a woman being harder than me?
Naida
07-08-2012, 07:35 AM
lol, Quebecois French, American English, Mexican Spanish. Dialects make me giggle.
LaurenAus
07-08-2012, 08:01 AM
Naida I don't think Kelly meant special cases like men who are about to undergo thousands of dollars in plastic surgery to become hot or men who are on the brink of landing a record deal. I think she's just saying that guys who have little to offer in terms of youth (putting it mildly), looks, or finance, who are still expecting the cream of the crop need to be more realistic.
The reason I can somewhat understand what she's saying is because my own mom is in her mid 50's and on an internet dating site and she herself has complained that some of the men who are older than her with less than impressive stats are asking for women in their 20's, some still want kids even at that age which is risky imo. That's why I think it's a good idea to either have a friend introduce you to someone at that age or go to singles events.
LaurenAus
07-08-2012, 08:15 AM
I need stop going on forums so much... I hate internalizing other peoples jaded conclusions and opinions and need to do more and get inside my body, this would make me happier methinks.
UrbanOzz
07-08-2012, 10:44 AM
why do people reserve the bench press like it's a damn lounger in a resort....
and another thing, why do people reserve loungers in resorts at 7am!
towels don't hold a reservation in my world...sorry if you find your shit tossed to the side on the floor while i'm using it, bench press or lounger.
how did a lounger get involved in this!
fin
Kellydancer
07-08-2012, 10:52 AM
By all means stand of what you think, I wasn't remotely close of talking about you on that thread. I was stating an average female over 50 cannot produce kids and men strive to go for younger for that reason you lost it. Are you mad, jelous, upset over something ? You seem to be holding a lot of anger, I dont think you should be calling these men hypocrites, what have they done to you?
If I am too old to be having kids (and in fact I am not)then they are too. They are scum.
Kellydancer
07-08-2012, 11:02 AM
Naida I don't think Kelly meant special cases like men who are about to undergo thousands of dollars in plastic surgery to become hot or men who are on the brink of landing a record deal. I think she's just saying that guys who have little to offer in terms of youth (putting it mildly), looks, or finance, who are still expecting the cream of the crop need to be more realistic.
The reason I can somewhat understand what she's saying is because my own mom is in her mid 50's and on an internet dating site and she herself has complained that some of the men who are older than her with less than impressive stats are asking for women in their 20's, some still want kids even at that age which is risky imo. That's why I think it's a good idea to either have a friend introduce you to someone at that age or go to singles events.
Lauren thank you. That's exactly what I mean. I am still very attractive, look better than most men my age (and many women even younger). Yet on these dating sites I see these men who aren't all that, yet expecting more than they deserve, and often blaming women. I mean this 50 year old KFC cook was saying I was at the upper limits of his age range (and no not interested in him). Same with another guy who is my age and looking in the 20s and he has a poor job and not hot at all. When I lower my age (and I have done this)the results explode. I get hundreds when I put my age at 25 or 30. I know women older than me who are hot, yet get no responses at all because these men are trying to pursue younger as well. They claim it's for babies, but if they were so obsessed with this, why didn't they look sooner? because they don't care. I should have looked sooner but I didn't want children then and am ok with adopting kids who need homes.
People say I take it personally, but yes when a poster (mostly male)says women are expired by 30 (as one did)he's saying I better just accept being alone.
Btw, I have met guys off the dating sites and guys offline so I am meeting decent quality men. It's just the online dating is horrendous.
chanzep
07-08-2012, 11:30 AM
cupcakes and mobwives.
strippername
07-08-2012, 03:56 PM
Wish I was eating loads of crap like Chanzep.
I am shopping for a birthday present for myself and I just realized I don't wear necklaces because my hooker claws are too long to to put the necklace on. :( FML!!!!
Kat w
07-08-2012, 04:12 PM
I really want to go to a powwow... I dont have any regalia, though.... nor do I know any natives out here so I'd be all alone, lol.
Some other random ramblings: so this upscale club would be a lot closer to me but I'm scared that they'll say "fuck no".
My freshman year of college this group came to our school and did a kickass powwow demonstration! They like encouraged people to get up and it was so fun, loook into it!
MargaritaVillain
07-08-2012, 08:19 PM
why do people reserve the bench press like it's a damn lounger in a resort....
and another thing, why do people reserve loungers in resorts at 7am!
towels don't hold a reservation in my world...sorry if you find your shit tossed to the side on the floor while i'm using it, bench press or lounger.
how did a lounger get involved in this!
fin
^ This made me laugh!
MyButter
07-08-2012, 08:51 PM
My freshman year of college this group came to our school and did a kickass powwow demonstration! They like encouraged people to get up and it was so fun, loook into it!
Oh sounds like a round dance! Were you all holding hands sidestepping in a circle? Round dances are fun! Two steps are really fun too! Powwows are so awesome!!!
Su Su
07-09-2012, 01:56 AM
I got crazy blazed last week and ate a whole pizza and a few slices more.
I'm surprised I didn't put on any weight, but I felt very guilty.
Although I had a pregnant like belly for a while.
But it didn't stop me from eating more throughout the week, and had to suck my stomach in for work :(
I'm normal again now though, lmao. Now what's in the fridge hmmm..
Davey17
07-09-2012, 03:26 AM
I don't know all of the people you're referring to, but you attacked loveshooks before she said anything to you. I don't think people are attacking you, you just like to argue.
In other news, started my diet today. Drank a shit ton of caffeine and my legs are shaking, ugh.
Look , I think the really important thing is to never take yourself too Seriously , and always understand that Life is many shades of grey .
Unfortunately sometimes individuals for whatever reason Freak Out with those individuals who Call it as it is ..Its nice to think that direct is best ..But my direct ..could be your offence , and really at the End of the day its some words on a Screen .
On other points , Id been reluctant to even bother mentioning where Im at personally . But I was fortunate enough to become a father again at a more senior age , with a beautiful partner much younger than myself . Im a father to three incredible girls now , two who are obviously far Older and the Baby , It was certainly a consious and planned decision that we made and for me ..Well , its just been the GREATEST thing , when I had my first two daughters I was certainly over whelmed , and they were the greatest thing that ever happened to me , they have simply turned out to be incredible girls , successful is so many different ways and more importantly incredible individuals , we talk and laugh about all the things ( stories ) and activities we did when they were young , Sport in the back yard , the Circus , Movies , beach , parties ..the whole thing , It was difficult also , but we got though and progressed , but just was the best thing ever .. I remember and hold fondly all those memories .
But , to be able to plan and produce this simply incredible Baby , was just like ..Wooowwwwww , this is incredible . My circumstance is vastly improved and we will live in a manner that I probably could not have dreamed was possible in Days gone by . So my paradise spot on my favorite Beach , will create our little piece of Magic , with lots of Sport and swimming , Surf , Golf , Tennis ... Its just a delight , to have been able to produce , and assist this delightful little girl . Whom I simply adore . I dont think anything can match being a father again .
As a parent , you do learn a lot about yourself , and goals and priorites change . Its just great that Im able to do it and more importantly enjoy it , and grow with my Baby ..Mind , Body , Soul .....
Delete the Negative , and focus on thoughts that will assist you . ..
Davey17
07-09-2012, 03:36 AM
I need stop going on forums so much... I hate internalizing other peoples jaded conclusions and opinions and need to do more and get inside my body, this would make me happier methinks.
Lauren , I think thats a really good idea , Im not saying for just you personally , but for pretty much everyone . The addiction can really do your head in and Cause you a whole lot of unneccessary Grief . I say ..Mind ..Body ..Soul thought process , and really trying to get inside , causes little pain ..and does Good Mach Mach . Enjoy :)
Davey17
07-09-2012, 03:37 AM
I need stop going on forums so much... I hate internalizing other peoples jaded conclusions and opinions and need to do more and get inside my body, this would make me happier methinks.
Lauren , I think thats a really good idea , Im not saying for just you personally , but for pretty much everyone . The addiction can really do your head in and Cause you a whole lot of unneccessary Grief . I say ..Mind ..Body ..Soul thought process , and really trying to get inside , causes little pain ..and does Good Mach Mach . Enjoy :)
Davey17
07-09-2012, 03:42 AM
why do people reserve the bench press like it's a damn lounger in a resort....
and another thing, why do people reserve loungers in resorts at 7am!
towels don't hold a reservation in my world...sorry if you find your shit tossed to the side on the floor while i'm using it, bench press or lounger.
how did a lounger get involved in this!
fin
Boy ..Do I agree about the Towels . I honestly just throw them in the Laundry ..Try a European Cruise Ship , I told them ..20 Minutes , if you are not there ..sorry , Out .
IsobelWren
07-09-2012, 06:45 AM
I wish that there were more "moods" on the silly little mood display thing. Sometimes I go to set it to something normal only to find that the mood isn't there. The reason I say something at this moment is that you'd think on a stripper/sex worker board there would be the mood option "burnt out".
I could use one of those today.
anouk.oui
07-09-2012, 09:03 AM
ah man tonight was absolutely shocking at work
and i feel so bad making $30 and having the club pay me the $120 retainer component. its better than boing home with $30 but i feel so useless and guilty even if there were 6 guys in the whole night
at least i got two more costume orders. i better figure out how to sew them faster so im not paying myself $90 every week and a half. though im sure theres worse recently started up businesses so i have a feeling i shouldnt be complaining. hopefully ill pull it together for the summer season im sure when the girls have money to spend the orders will be going through the roof =]
Kisca
07-09-2012, 10:02 AM
Boy ..Do I agree about the Towels . I honestly just throw them in the Laundry ..Try a European Cruise Ship , I told them ..20 Minutes , if you are not there ..sorry , Out .
I find it to be more of a North American thing. When I went to Italy for a cruise, none of the people did that... but the thing is they havnt left their chair at all unless they wanted it stolen. When going on regular vaction with mostly north american crowd, it seems to be the norm to place a towel and call it yours
HandSanitizer
07-09-2012, 10:19 AM
I miss him when I'm not with him, but I'm annoyed by him when he's home :\
anouk.oui
07-09-2012, 10:32 AM
why did the new true blood have to be so fucking scary?
great now im either gonna have nightmares or watch clueless till dawn trying to undo it all
ChefKitty
07-09-2012, 10:52 AM
I need to not be so nice.
HandSanitizer
07-09-2012, 12:26 PM
I keep taking a friggin nap! I need to get out of bed & get my day started.
#lazy
maximvsv
07-09-2012, 01:04 PM
I went out with a woman last night that is getting ready to try to turn Pro in figure in 2 weeks & I don't know how I feel about a woman being harder than me?
The possibilty hadn't occurred to you before?
What is the source of your apprehension? You clearly already have some related interests. Do you think that it would provide an unwelcome element of competition? Or is it a question of your sesthetics and expectations regarding women?
Su Su
07-09-2012, 08:16 PM
Every time I'm at home, I always say I'll do cam work but I always end up eating cookies and watching movies.
I'm a terrible, lazy stripper.
Almost Jaded
07-09-2012, 09:16 PM
119* F at my house today. Dropped to a nice 113 when the sun went down. The next person to say "but it's a dry heat" gets tied to a tree in my yard tomorrow. Should hit 123 tomorrow. UV index in the 16-17 range. Dry heat that.
ArmySGT.
07-09-2012, 09:59 PM
119* F at my house today. Dropped to a nice 113 when the sun went down. The next person to say "but it's a dry heat" gets tied to a tree in my yard tomorrow. Should hit 123 tomorrow. UV index in the 16-17 range. Dry heat that.
72 with rain, a torrential down pour for a bit, now pleasantly cool. I am thinking of making some chai. :)
Calbear
07-09-2012, 11:09 PM
Anyone else hate sending eVites? They're convenient, but I wind up obsessively checking to see who has confirmed and I've noticed about 1/3 of people just don't reply. Then, as the date gets real close a flood of yes/no's come pouring in.
LaurenAus
07-09-2012, 11:44 PM
there's baby roaches all over my bathroom in the apartment i just moved into ): my friend was over tonight, used my bathroom and ran out screaming with her pants down to her ankles...eff
sammii
07-10-2012, 12:05 AM
^ OMG, wtf?? Call an exterminator ASAP.
Soo tired. Debating on whether I should watch PLL or go to bed. Hmmmm.
Su Su
07-10-2012, 02:02 AM
I just can't get enough of hard chewing gummies. They're too fucking good!!!
smeca
07-10-2012, 04:28 AM
Whie you're all talking about how hot it is, I just found out it's going to be cloudy and rainy for the next month (as well as the last), maybe even august too. No summer, then! :(
Right now I'm still thinking how OTT some people I know are about sexism/feminism. There's a huge thread of comments after a fb status about a conversation between then girl and some woman. From th einfo given I'd say she was just making small talk/a little joke following on from the tone set by how the girl said her piece, not that she's actually an oppressed 50s housewife. They're all like 'oh it's sad she thinks like that. you show her!' Thankfully one person showed some irreverence and posted a relevant Brasseye link.
unbeleavable
07-10-2012, 08:10 AM
The possibilty hadn't occurred to you before?
What is the source of your apprehension? You clearly already have some related interests. Do you think that it would provide an unwelcome element of competition? Or is it a question of your sesthetics and expectations regarding women?
There definitely wasn't a feeling of competition, I would say more of a lack of femininity. I think there is a line that can be crossed when it comes to that level training, dieting & supplements.
chanzep
07-10-2012, 10:33 AM
Omg can it stop fucking raining here argh!
Can we get a heatwave in London pleasse!
chanzep
07-10-2012, 10:35 AM
Omg can it stop fucking raining here argh!
Can we get a heatwave in London pleasse!