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Kellydancer
04-20-2011, 10:52 PM
After signing up for a dating site... The first IM I got was from a 50 something year old... REALLY?! Ughh. Makes me want to delete it.
Was it Plenty of Fish? That site has a lot of men like that. I had a Match subscription but got frustrated because most of the guys who contacted me were either MUCH older or dads, or pervs/con artists/married, etc. I'll never understand the guys my age that turn me down to try for a 25 year old. I'm attractive, I'm intelligent, etc yet they often bypass me because of my age. Of course these losers are on the site months even years later. I hate online.
Kisca
04-20-2011, 11:02 PM
^ Yes it was POF!! 2 of my friends had luck with it (now both in long term relationships). I was on a different site way before, OKcupid didnt wok, never tried POF.. So Im giving it a chance... But so far, its not that impressive.
Kisca
04-20-2011, 11:04 PM
^ Im also am feeling like a bitch when I accept their IM and then close it when I see their picture.. Ha }:D
Kellydancer
04-20-2011, 11:10 PM
I tried POF three times and none of those times did it work. My first profile was deleted by them because I kept rejecting dads (and apparently they reported me), my second was a joke profile, but my third one (which is still up) I got one response, from an Indian (I don't date them). So yeah for me it was a waste of time. Way too many guys wanting sex and the ones wanting relationships (or claim they do) never respond to me. I contacted a guy on there who fit what I was looking for (never married, no kids, Catholic man who wants to marry and have kids). He deleted the message I sent him a day after looking at it. It was a let down because he lived about a half hour from me and even worked in the same field as I did.
luscious sadie
04-20-2011, 11:51 PM
I don't even care about my headache and cold or whatever is going on that is giving me the worst headache in the world because I have a man friend who is:
- attractive and takes care of himself
- worships me
- cares about me, compliments me, throws constant good vibes in my direction
- provided me with three straight days of orgasms
- told me that his ideal situation for us would be for me to move to his city and be his girlfriend :)
- doesn't mind me stripping
- has a business degree and has offered to help me with stripping business since I have almost no idea about the business side (some just not enough to really benefit as much as I could)
- is my age (25) and happens to have a house, savings and has a very well paying job in business marketing with people offering him jobs and openly giving him standing job offers in Montreal, Toronto and British Columbia.
- THREE STRAIGHT DAYS OF ORGASMS
I don't really have anything else to say. He is just completely on my mind. I even helped him with his work tonight saving him two or three hours of work. He told me how much he appreciated that a million times.
pegster1490
04-21-2011, 01:12 AM
i would like to know if a naked woman stripper gives a private dance for an hour or so in that room can the scent of her disticnt perume penetrate two layers of clothing. a pair of slacks and boxer.
thank you very much...if interested when i get the answer ill share why im asking
pegster1490
04-21-2011, 01:12 AM
in that room i mean a private theme roomat a specific club
luscious sadie
04-21-2011, 01:14 AM
I always wonder if my pussy starts to smell when I dance for guys. One time a guy was like "I wonder if you're turned on. I can feel how warm your pussy is through my pants!" it was soooooo gross.
4everresolutions
04-21-2011, 02:57 AM
i would like to know if a naked woman stripper gives a private dance for an hour or so in that room can the scent of her disticnt perume penetrate two layers of clothing. a pair of slacks and boxer.
thank you very much...if interested when i get the answer ill share why im asking
Most likely not. It would probably stick to your first layer of clothing (pants, shirt), but I don't think even if she was grinding hard, that it would 'penetrate' down to your boxers.
Why? Scared of getting caught by the wife?
Most smart strippers know not to wear strong perfume.
Almost Jaded
04-21-2011, 04:13 AM
Where are all these amazing gals saying they tried OKC and PoF, lol?
When I had a profile on PoF - still have one on OKC as does MM - I had the same experience, but with women. All these fat, goofy looking, desperate women either my age and NO WAY or older and even more HELL NO.
WHat do you guys consider "gross older guys"? Deathly curious as I had a girl on OKC call me that when I sent a totally mellow, non-sexual message saying she and MM should meet 'cuz they'd get along, friendship only, lol. I'm 35 and look 25 or maybe 30 (although of course my actual age is on the profile). I was sort of offended and amused at the same time, being as she was 3 years older than MM, LOL.
chanzep
04-21-2011, 05:40 AM
I need to pay my phone bill , which means I need to go to the bank, argh I wanted to stay in today because I have to work later!
kaiarose
04-21-2011, 05:47 AM
I need to pay my phone bill , which means I need to go to the bank, argh I wanted to stay in today because I have to work later!
You can't pay it online??
chanzep
04-21-2011, 06:54 AM
Im not going out anymore, im gonna call them x
your avater looks great x
_Avery_
04-21-2011, 10:08 AM
Better not ever fuck up in the state of Wisconsin, not even once! (not that it matters, because they'll make an excuse to pull your ass over if you're the only fucking car on the road at 'bar time'!)
$225 assessment fee
$900 fine
$200 installment fee
$80 per month IID for A YEAR!
$100 insurance + sr22
$60 per month to upkeep insurance
$50 fee occupational license
oh..and now... $200 fee for a fucking reinstatement of a license after an alcohol related suspension.
Let's see, what else....
$60 to public defender
$600 fine for a charge they decided to charge me with 8 MONTHS LATER (guess this fucking state is fucking BROKE!)
$200 fine for driving while revoked (When I was just trying to get home from work to pay their fucking fine, and THOUGHT I was okay since I installed that piece of shit IID....why do I need to install that fucking device if I technically wasn't able to fucking drive?)
$75 to renew my plates
$3000 IRS took from our tax refund from something that happened 5 YEARS AGO! Then wouldn't let us on a payment plan because they SAID they sent us a letter, a letter we never got!
Oh, $4.00 per gallon gas....(driving around to all these fucking court dates, and recalibrations and paying fines...FUN SHIT!)
FUCK THE GOVERNMENT!!!!!
Let's keep raping the poor folk over and over and over and over again.!!!!
(I doubt fucking goddamn child rapists have it this bad) Can't even forget, learn and move on from my mistake because they wanna constantly remind me of how much I FUCKED UP ONE GOD DAMN TIME!!!!
I swear, I need to move to a fucking island.
_Avery_
04-21-2011, 10:12 AM
Sick of everything. What the fuck is the point in trying to do the right thing anymore?
_Avery_
04-21-2011, 10:14 AM
ugh, deleted...venting
_Avery_
04-21-2011, 11:56 AM
lol, deleted.
Kellydancer
04-21-2011, 12:53 PM
Where are all these amazing gals saying they tried OKC and PoF, lol?
When I had a profile on PoF - still have one on OKC as does MM - I had the same experience, but with women. All these fat, goofy looking, desperate women either my age and NO WAY or older and even more HELL NO.
WHat do you guys consider "gross older guys"? Deathly curious as I had a girl on OKC call me that when I sent a totally mellow, non-sexual message saying she and MM should meet 'cuz they'd get along, friendship only, lol. I'm 35 and look 25 or maybe 30 (although of course my actual age is on the profile). I was sort of offended and amused at the same time, being as she was 3 years older than MM, LOL.
By gross older guys I mean guys basically old enough to be my dad and just disgusting men. For instance I am 40 but often pass for mid 20's. In person I am always hit on by guys who think I am their age (and no, they don't want a cougar experience). When I tell the guys this most of them will say they think I'm hot and most still want to date or sleep with me. I mention this basically to give an idea how young I pass for.
However, when I did online dating I posted my real age and for some reason I got much older guys responding. Most are 55+ and to me that's too old. One guy was 75 who responded! I'll have little in common with a man older than 10 years from my dad. I want a guy around 35-45 or so (though will bend on ages either way). 75 year old men don't appeal to me. Seems all the decent men online my age want 18-25 or so. These aren't even for the most part hot guys, most are average looking. A few would even be considered homely (I love nerds).
Then there were the extremely obese men who contacted me. I am fine with a chubby man (say 10-20 pounds overweight) contacting me because weight can change. The guys contacting me were often 300+ pounds, and 300 is on the small size.
Don't even get me started on the desperate men online. I had one guy get mad because I didn't contact him within an hour of him emailing me. I've had guys tell me before we met how they thought I'd make a great wife. Those send warning vibes.
The funny thing is offline I've never had this problem. When I've gone to singles groups I had many men interested, including nice looking men. Online though I've bombed out.
unbeleavable
04-21-2011, 02:09 PM
Stressful day but there is always a reason to smile...you just have to look.
tempest666
04-21-2011, 02:50 PM
I'm going out running! No reason to sit around and turn into chubby chasing bait!
DesuvsDeath
04-21-2011, 02:54 PM
Omg I sat on this custies knee last week and he told me he could feel my wetness through his pants! I had no idea...
When I'm in a long CR and my ASS is sweating... customers always think my ass sweat dampening their pants is moisture from my vagina because I'm surely THAT turned on. LOLOLOL
LuckyLane
04-21-2011, 02:57 PM
I'm feeling much better but the whole blocking made me realize I was holding onto a dream that was a fantasy. I don't even know why I held on for so long, and wasted time that could have been used to look for another man. I actually did breakup with a guy in college a week before finals so I can relate to that. It stinks and it makes more sense to do it other times.
I guess he really couldn’t have done much about the timing…but it still really sucked. As much as it hurt that he blocked me, it was probably good in the long run. I probably would’ve spent countless hours fb stalking him, and as you put it perfectly, “holding onto the dream.” But it still is no fun to be blocked!
LuckyLane
04-21-2011, 02:58 PM
I do not understand people "unfriending" on social sites for failing to stay in touch - I use those sites for the express purpose of maintaining a link to people I DON'T otherwise get to see or talk to, sometimes for years, lol.
Yep that’s exactly how I use facebook. I don’t really need fb to stay in touch with people I see every day! I just like that I can keep in touch with people I would likely otherwise lose track of. Oh well, guess if my former friend doesn’t want to even stay friends on fb it isn’t worth my time… ::)
Kellydancer
04-21-2011, 03:07 PM
I guess he really couldn’t have done much about the timing…but it still really sucked. As much as it hurt that he blocked me, it was probably good in the long run. I probably would’ve spent countless hours fb stalking him, and as you put it perfectly, “holding onto the dream.” But it still is no fun to be blocked!
Nope not fun to be blocked. It still upsets me that he did this. In fact this whole situation has made me more angry about men and I have lost interest in many of them, though he was the worst choice possible: ugly, fat and made little money.
LuckyLane
04-21-2011, 03:24 PM
Nope not fun to be blocked. It still upsets me that he did this. In fact this whole situation has made me more angry about men and I have lost interest in many of them, though he was the worst choice possible: ugly, fat and made little money.
I know exactly what you mean. Mine was such a bad choice too. He was in a relationship, though we didn't technically do anything until they broke up but...it was still obviously a terrible idea. Then he went back to his ex. I really need to NOT do that again! But since then I haven't really been interested in anyone, except a guy in a similar situation as before. I'm kinda worried I have a problem :worried:
Mindy Bares All
04-21-2011, 03:51 PM
I got the job at Victoria's Secret!!! HOORAY FOR 20% EMPLOYEE DISCOUNTS!! ;D
4everresolutions
04-21-2011, 03:58 PM
ZOMG! So lucky! I've always wanted to get a job in a lingerie type store! Have fun with the super amazing discount!
4everresolutions
04-21-2011, 03:59 PM
Am I really wrong for thinking that the DJ's shouldn't be making more than the strippers?
Katie Evers
04-21-2011, 04:06 PM
ARRRRGGHHHH I need 44p before I can cash out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kisca
04-21-2011, 04:35 PM
Back to work... I cant get over the fact that I was ditched yesterday! I mean .. why do I get all excited for nothing? Bah... Money mode now!
rickdugan
04-21-2011, 06:50 PM
Avery, I saw your posts here and in the Confessions thread and I'm sorry that you're going through all of this. I have no doubt that you'll pull through. As the saying goes, "This too shall pass."
Remember at the back-end of all of this you'll have two children that you love. Our children are the blessings that we cherish when things seem tough.
Anyway, good luck!
Kellydancer
04-21-2011, 09:25 PM
I know exactly what you mean. Mine was such a bad choice too. He was in a relationship, though we didn't technically do anything until they broke up but...it was still obviously a terrible idea. Then he went back to his ex. I really need to NOT do that again! But since then I haven't really been interested in anyone, except a guy in a similar situation as before. I'm kinda worried I have a problem :worried:
One thing I learned is to avoid men just out of relationships, especially long ones. Many times they just go back to them and I am the rebound. I have a tendency to be attracted to men that are bad for me and not sure why. I've been places with ten men attracted to me and I like the one guy who's not. I wish I knew why the guys that tend to like me I don't like.
Kisca
04-22-2011, 12:24 AM
I admit.. I miss my ex... I think I fucking love him! But Im also drunk as hell now... So ... go away feelings. I called him crying because of my panic attack and he helped me, he even checked up on me 3 times in a row when he was fully busy... Hmmm. He said he will even check with me tomorrow even though I already told him Im fine... Yay for drinks.
I also got an apologize from the guy Im seeing.. Do I always have to be drunk for good days to happen? Ill get a good night sleep today :)
tampadancer
04-22-2011, 01:08 AM
Stressful day but there is always a reason to smile...you just have to look.
indeed. :)
LuckyLane
04-22-2011, 03:07 AM
One thing I learned is to avoid men just out of relationships, especially long ones. Many times they just go back to them and I am the rebound. I have a tendency to be attracted to men that are bad for me and not sure why. I've been places with ten men attracted to me and I like the one guy who's not. I wish I knew why the guys that tend to like me I don't like.
Me too! And I tend to attract guys that are in relationships...not sure why. Last guy I liked I found out after a couple months that he was still with his gf of several years. Looking back I realized he never lied about it, but he definitely didn't say or do anything to indicate that he wasn't single. I guess I need to explicitly ask next time.
I just want to feel attracted to someone that would be good for me - more than anything so I know that I'm capable of it. I'm not in a position right now for a serious relationship, so it's really just cause I want to know it's possible, you know?
luscious sadie
04-22-2011, 03:24 AM
I only needed to sell an extra 7 dances tonight to be able to make a G. Unfortunately, I purely ran out of time. If I had gotten my ass to the club for 7pm instead of 9 I probably would have made that goal. Why am I so lazy!!?!
I think I shall go in for 7pm tomorrow!
4everresolutions
04-22-2011, 03:26 AM
^ OMG! I hate that too! When you're so close but just not there....kinda takes all the fun out of what you already made. Instead of feeling accomplished you're like 'SOOO CLOSSEEEE!". Kinda like being on the verge of a good orgasm and just not getting there....
Good luck tomorrow night lovely! Make mint!
tempest666
04-22-2011, 04:35 AM
He's off work now, shouuld be home @ 8 ttyl later gonna get some dick and shuteye
Mr-Popsicle
04-22-2011, 04:46 AM
I wish people would keep their long winded posts about things like Atlas Shrugged on some right wing site. I don't give a fuck about ayn Rand. I don't like being talked down to either. Please tea party wackos post elsewhere like in your own country. You're opinions are really aren't as brilliant and interesting as you think! People here only tolerate youR extreme right wing views..
mediocrity
04-22-2011, 05:12 AM
It's my one year anniversary! <3 <3 I can't believe how different I am now... all for the better. It scares me to think where I was a year ago.
kaiarose
04-22-2011, 05:40 AM
It's my one year anniversary! <3 <3 I can't believe how different I am now... all for the better. It scares me to think where I was a year ago.
Congratulations!! And happy Anniversary <3
Ahhh!! Tonight is my first night back at work. So fucking nervous :/ Going to get my haircut, nails done and a spray tan (Dr. ok'ed it)... I just hope that every place I need to go isn't closed because of Good Friday...
unbeleavable
04-22-2011, 07:41 AM
I admit.. I miss my ex... I think I fucking love him! But Im also drunk as hell now... So ... go away feelings. I called him crying because of my panic attack and he helped me, he even checked up on me 3 times in a row when he was fully busy... Hmmm. He said he will even check with me tomorrow even though I already told him Im fine... Yay for drinks.
I also got an apologize from the guy Im seeing.. Do I always have to be drunk for good days to happen? Ill get a good night sleep today :)
Sounds like a moment of weakness & we all have them. I will admit when I was going through a rough time I kept some people around to lean on & your ex did that for you last night. Thats what friends do..don't give him any extra points because he was cool.
IDK Kisca about this guy? When I'm interested in someone I don't get to biz or forget, she's always on my mind....like a kid at Christmas with a new toy. I would keep him at a distance until he proves himself.
Kisca
04-22-2011, 10:10 AM
It's my one year anniversary! <3 <3 I can't believe how different I am now... all for the better. It scares me to think where I was a year ago.
Happy 1yr Anniversary!!! Good to hear that have a good one!
Kellydancer
04-22-2011, 11:44 AM
Me too! And I tend to attract guys that are in relationships...not sure why. Last guy I liked I found out after a couple months that he was still with his gf of several years. Looking back I realized he never lied about it, but he definitely didn't say or do anything to indicate that he wasn't single. I guess I need to explicitly ask next time.
I just want to feel attracted to someone that would be good for me - more than anything so I know that I'm capable of it. I'm not in a position right now for a serious relationship, so it's really just cause I want to know it's possible, you know?
I know exactly what you mean. I just want to find a man I am attracted to that's attracted to me. I don't tend to be attracted to attached men, but have in the past. I just tend to like a certain type and they don't always seem to like me. However, the type that seems to love me repulses me: big, fat, sweaty, hairy, gross men. Dads seem to love me too, though I will never date one. I've seriously considered marrying the next guy who loves me who has what I want (ie no kids).
penandink1019
04-22-2011, 01:44 PM
Relatively new gal pal and I are on the outs. Last night I received the "we need to talk" txt. Fine. I've enjoyed her company but we're not all that well matched. Now it's just awkward. Basically, I just hope we can retain our friendship, which predated our dating.
Kellydancer
04-22-2011, 01:49 PM
Penandink, sometimes the friendship dies after the romance does. My last ex was a long time friend. Now because he dumped me the friendship is over too. This happened years ago with another relationship (the guy I lost my virginity to).
penandink1019
04-22-2011, 01:51 PM
Kelly, I know, I know. In general, I'm terrific about staying in touch with exes, sometimes prompting suspicion from new girlfriends. In fact, it's only when I fall HARD in love that I can't stay friends.
Kisca
04-22-2011, 02:16 PM
Erkk Im so happy I can make my own iced cappuccinos at home... yummmmmmmm
Kellydancer
04-22-2011, 02:27 PM
Kelly, I know, I know. In general, I'm terrific about staying in touch with exes, sometimes prompting suspicion from new girlfriends. In fact, it's only when I fall HARD in love that I can't stay friends.
Two of my exes are Facebook friends that I talk to sometimes. They are situations where the breakup was relatively easy so that helped. The one boyfriend was the best one I ever had and he was the one who got me to trust again after getting screwed over. The other was just a bad idea that never should have happened but it did.
Kisca
04-22-2011, 02:36 PM
Is everyone having Easter dinner? ...
I dont get it.. Never did. Never had one. Even though my parents were married in a chruch and my father made my mother get baptised before marriage. I was baptised, but we never really celeberated all of these holidays... People that arent even religious I know are having the easter dinner.