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chanzep
04-30-2011, 11:09 AM
I have no butter in my fridge! argh I wanted to make mashed sweet potatos b4 work!, oh well have to find something on the way!, I need to do a proper shop!
sananeko
04-30-2011, 11:13 AM
Well I'm going to a party tonight.. I just hope this headache over with before hand..
Almost Jaded
04-30-2011, 11:49 AM
Contesa - If you no longer live there stop paying the rent. They'll come after you bit ultimately it'll fall on the guarantor. They CAN take you to small claims court. You can defend yourself by proving that you moved out because of his cleanliness/hygiene issues and DID pay your part for a while after leaving.
Are you going to school, or what do you have going on down there? What's to stop you from just disappearing, lol?
Kisca
04-30-2011, 12:42 PM
What do you know...? Im sort of suprised, but I know I shouldn't be.
I dont think I like you anymore. So glad you live far away and considered to like men.
Work tonight, UFC night!!! Break a leg!
4everresolutions
04-30-2011, 12:44 PM
I am on the lease. I pay 1000 for my share, and he pays 700 (Well, his family does...). I agreed to this when his family said "well, we just can't pay more than 700..." and school was about to start and I didn't have any other options. First off, they're fucking terrible people. I'm 19 and I'm paying mine alone, and they were perfectly aware of that.
1000 doesn't sound like a lot, until you realize that I work in Los Angeles.
We're both on the lease, to answer that question. His grandmother is the gurentor. (However that is spelt).
I don't think I should be paying this much because I don't live there... because he overran the apartment with his FILTH. But I can't re-negotioate now.
That's the situation. Pour your advice on me.
Okay, I'm going to look up the specific laws of renting/landlords/tennants for Los Angeles, but here's some general advice in the mean time.
Is it stipulated in the lease that you'll pay $1000 and he only pays $700?
If you moved out because of your roommate being disgusting then just leave. The complex might try to come at your for your share of the rent, but because your have a guarantor they won't try too hard until they go after his Grandmother. I wouldn't feel guilty in this case - you aren't splitting the rent 50/50 and it's HIS junk that's taking over the apartment. The complex and/or your roommates family might try to take you to court, but usually that's pretty costly ~$5000), so people end up eating the costs and forgetting about it in the end.
In case they do decide to go the court route, can you get in your apartment and take pictures of the uncleanliness? That'll help to have to back you up. See if you can time it to go in when your roomie isn't there. What is the leasing office like in that building? Are they accommodating? Would they be willing to take you off of the lease if your showed proof that the apartment is dirty?
From what I'm reading http://www.tenant.net/Other_Areas/Calif/losangel/faq.html the only penalty for non-payment is eviction. That's not good to have on your record, but it's not terrible. I've seen where eviction is only the start, and the management of the building comes after you for the full amount of the remaining lease. So, if the worst case scenario is that you get evicted from a property you're not living then.....*shrug*.
Like AJ said - just go disappear. Sell your furniture (if you have any) and find yourself a little bedroom in a shared house to live in.
Mindy Bares All
04-30-2011, 01:13 PM
His dick.
kaiarose
04-30-2011, 01:18 PM
Ugh, looks like Sylvia is back....
4everresolutions
04-30-2011, 01:47 PM
^I saw that. But this time is under "Curious about being a Dancer", so it'll be easier to ignore.
Mindy Bares All
04-30-2011, 01:48 PM
^^^ I'm still convinced that Sylvia is a manager spying on/ stalking girls from his club...
Could be just a random asshole. Random assholes are to blame for most of what's wrong with the world.
Kellydancer
04-30-2011, 01:53 PM
Could be, thought I suspect "Sylvia" is a perverted customer. The thread where "she" outed dancers was creepy.
kaiarose
04-30-2011, 01:56 PM
I guess we'll know for sure if "she" slips up and gets comfortable and starts making snide comments in threads... *patiently and suspiciously waits..*
sananeko
04-30-2011, 01:58 PM
I love it how people are already on top of this..
Mindy Bares All
04-30-2011, 02:00 PM
Could be, thought I suspect "Sylvia" is a perverted customer. The thread where "she" outed dancers was creepy.
Say what forum was that? :O
kaiarose
04-30-2011, 02:01 PM
Too easy to spot...
kaiarose
04-30-2011, 02:05 PM
Say what forum was that? :O
Yes, I'm bored and took the time to find this...LOL
Kisca
04-30-2011, 02:09 PM
Am I allowed to make a 2nd account...?
I want to review a few clubs, but dont want to do it under my main account.
Dont want anyone knowing where I worked under this name.
sananeko
04-30-2011, 02:13 PM
I think you can, as long its not to troll. I would think you would be helping other dancers pick the right clubs and which ones to stay away from.
LuckyLane
04-30-2011, 02:15 PM
Am I allowed to make a 2nd account...?
I want to review a few clubs, but dont want to do it under my main account.
Dont want anyone knowing where I worked under this name.
I've been thinking about that too...I think it's a good idea. Better to have another review up there even under an unknown account than to not have another review at all. That's my :twocents: ;)
ArmySGT.
04-30-2011, 11:18 PM
I wish Hair, makeup, and lingerie were more mainstream instead of fetish.
Its what you can't see right away that makes it a turn on; or a fetish. Ha ha.
Amy Lee
04-30-2011, 11:19 PM
Could be just a random asshole. Random assholes are to blame for most of what's wrong with the world.
lmfao
Insulinshock
04-30-2011, 11:30 PM
I'm so freaking hungry it's annoying but it's too close to bedtime for eating. >.< Damn you, tummy.
pussyinboots
04-30-2011, 11:40 PM
^^^ I'm still convinced that Sylvia is a manager spying on/ stalking girls from his club...
I thought Sylvia was a 'p****d off' manager too.........
maximvsv
05-01-2011, 12:11 AM
I have no butter in my fridge! argh I wanted to make mashed sweet potatos b4 work!, oh well have to find something on the way!, I need to do a proper shop!
Try hazelnut oil as a substitute some time
Juliette25
05-01-2011, 12:12 AM
I'm getting into burlesque. I'm gonna do it, damnit.
Kisca
05-01-2011, 12:19 AM
Awesssssssssome night. I love it there. Its so nice and comfy even for the 1st night.
Some idiot is playing music. I hear the bass.... fucking idiot.
tempest666
05-01-2011, 12:47 AM
hooray hooray the 1st of may outdoor fucking starts today!
sananeko
05-01-2011, 12:53 AM
Oh wow I am sore lol.. I haven't dance like that in a long time. And I met a great guy. Fun dancer and gay, perfect for me.
chanzep
05-01-2011, 02:46 AM
Work was fail boo!, then when I came home SW was not working!, gonna enjoy sunny sunday off!
princessjas
05-01-2011, 09:38 AM
I hate the wind. Repairs are a bitch too! Bleh!
In other news, I'm in a suprisingly good mood considering! Gonna have a pool and got to a bouncy little girl on the trampoline this morning since it didn't blow away....hey, I had to watch the repairmen boarding stuff up and fixing crap anyway, right? How better to do it than from 10 ft in the air?!?!
_Avery_
05-01-2011, 11:39 AM
venting
sananeko
05-01-2011, 11:48 AM
Kiwis yum.
The Contessa
05-01-2011, 12:09 PM
Turkey Burgers. Yum
kaiarose
05-01-2011, 01:41 PM
^I know the singer Monica has ;)
Amy Lee
05-01-2011, 02:11 PM
What the fuck is wrong with some of these chicks giving advice on being borderline-anorexic? This isn't a pro-ana site is it? Urgh, there is nothing more annoying than someone that looks like a fucking lollipop giving advice about how to lost 10 extra pounds. SHUT THE FUCK UP. Urgh.
(this is just what is on my mind, the question marks are rhetorical).
tampadancer
05-01-2011, 03:03 PM
Agreed, Amy Lee. It's frustrating. As if women aren't generally screwed up enough when it comes to body image, dieting, etc. We have enough women here who have formerly battled (myself included) or are currently battling body image/eating disorders.
I find it very frustrating too. However, it does delight me that everyone seemed appalled by the so-called advice.
kaiarose
05-01-2011, 03:12 PM
Why arent we allowed to mention "the other site?" is there some crusade-esque history between this one and that one? It all seems so silly to me.
It's a long story.... basically many of the prominent posters left this site and started "the other site" in an attempt to make a point to the administrators of this site, that they could do the same thing SW does. They did this because some very serious accusations were made about another prominent poster and someone that helps pay for this site(not sure if that person still contributes to the site) and they felt that nothing was being done about it. So they all left and started the other site.. Sorry to be so vague but I'd rather not name names :/
Kellydancer
05-01-2011, 03:14 PM
Agreed, Amy Lee. It's frustrating. As if women aren't generally screwed up enough when it comes to body image, dieting, etc. We have enough women here who have formerly battled (myself included) or are currently battling body image/eating disorders.
I find it very frustrating too. However, it does delight me that everyone seemed appalled by the so-called advice.
Unfortunately, some in the sex industry has this idea that only skinny is attractive, which bothers me. I don't mention this a lot but the one thing that bothered me about the industry is how skinny the clubs often wanted dancers. I'm not talking clubs rejecting fat gross dancers because most guys don't want that. However, I've been rejected for being "fat" because I was 5'7, 120pounds and a size 6 or so. It was fucked up that clubs would tell me I was fat, but in real life I was thinner than most women I knew. There have been several women here who have stated that women above a size 2 or 4 were fatties. I have a bodytype that looks sick at a size 2. I once slimmed down to a size 2 and people would often ask me if I had an eating disorder.
The Contessa
05-01-2011, 03:16 PM
I'm going to roller blade to Venice. I may not have money, but at least I have my blades.
I was on a skate team in the 90's. We called ourselves "Soul Skaters". I was 4. The eldest member was 7.
ArmySGT.
05-01-2011, 04:41 PM
Big fluffy goose feather snowflakes.
Pretty but, not what I wanted on May 1st.
penandink1019
05-01-2011, 05:34 PM
Saw a great deal on DVD-Rs today at RadioShack today and so I bought a package. Only thing is, it seems I don't own a DVD-R drive. D'oh!
Kisca
05-01-2011, 06:30 PM
Such a gloomy day... I just want to cuddle up under the covers and have a tea! :)
tampadancer
05-01-2011, 07:35 PM
Unfortunately, some in the sex industry has this idea that only skinny is attractive, which bothers me. I don't mention this a lot but the one thing that bothered me about the industry is how skinny the clubs often wanted dancers. I'm not talking clubs rejecting fat gross dancers because most guys don't want that. However, I've been rejected for being "fat" because I was 5'7, 120pounds and a size 6 or so. It was fucked up that clubs would tell me I was fat, but in real life I was thinner than most women I knew. There have been several women here who have stated that women above a size 2 or 4 were fatties. I have a bodytype that looks sick at a size 2. I once slimmed down to a size 2 and people would often ask me if I had an eating disorder.
People tend to forget to consider height when figuring what a slim size for a particular woman should be. I'm a size 2, but I'm only 5'4"... your size 6 at 5'7" is probably equivalent to my my size 2 because I am shorter than you.
and 120 lbs at 5'7" = fat?!? yeah, right.
Almost Jaded
05-01-2011, 07:46 PM
GF is 115-120 lbs at 5'5" and she's TINY, lol. The no longer GF#2 was 4'10" and 85 lbs, and they have very similar builds. So... ???
WHYYY do you bother texting me???
If you're so happy, shouldn't you be so preoccupied that you don't have the time to text me and make me aware of this?
OMG - I have an ex from 2 1/2 years ago, the one before I met MM, who still does this. And it's even more relevant because she was doing it while I was reading your post, LMAO!
Kellydancer
05-01-2011, 08:40 PM
People tend to forget to consider height when figuring what a slim size for a particular woman should be. I'm a size 2, but I'm only 5'4"... your size 6 at 5'7" is probably equivalent to my my size 2 because I am shorter than you.
and 120 lbs at 5'7" = fat?!? yeah, right.
Exactly but unfortunately some don't see it that way, which I've never understood. At a size 4 I looked gangly and sick. I have a friend who's 5'2 and a size 4 but for her it works.
mediocrity
05-02-2011, 03:46 AM
I have another interview tomorrow at 10:15am, one on Thursday at 10:30am, and two call backs to do tomorrow.
And I can't sleep.
FML.
Kisca
05-02-2011, 04:51 AM
What a strong headache and I cant sleep.. gah.
Almost Jaded
05-02-2011, 05:00 AM
I taught Desuv some stretches that really help with headaches, jump in chat, lol.
Almost Jaded
05-02-2011, 05:04 AM
I just realized I have court tomorrow afternoon for an old ticket. Grrr.
miss1dancypants
05-02-2011, 06:07 AM
only 24 hours left to get my exam and final project done then i'm free for the summer!!! :)