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sananeko
06-11-2011, 06:01 PM
^^ sadly he expects you to show your body off and flirt for tips or extra drinks. Even in the really nice places I've seen the women still are expected to show something off without looking like their trying..
I'm trying to decide what to do.. I keep thinking I want to make a post about it and see if anyone can think of something I didn't but mostly I just don't want to get hugs.. and I hope it all works out..
I'm also pissing off a friend right now cause I told him his favorite topic to rant about completely bores me..
JayATee
06-11-2011, 07:03 PM
^ I don't look 4 months pregnant. If no one knew me they'd have no clue I was pregnant at all. I need the job. I really don't know what to do anymore. :'(
sananeko
06-11-2011, 07:08 PM
^ I don't look 4 months pregnant. If no one knew me they'd have no clue I was pregnant at all. I need the job. I really don't know what to do anymore. :'(
Try again somewhere else. Just cause hes a moron doesn't mean you can't find a slightly less moron to hire you. Hell if your really good maybe you can open a bartending school if there isn't any nearby. I mean I would love to have one around here since all the bartending jobs are all you need at least 8 months and no they don't train.
eagle2
06-11-2011, 07:11 PM
I'm tired of stupid people. You need a bartender. I am a certified bartender. You need a reliable bartender. I haven't missed a shift in months. And you won't hire me because I'm pregnant? Seriously? You have people behind your bar that can't make a simple cosmopolitan but you won't hire the mixologist because she's pregnant. Fabulous business sense dude.
It might be against the law what they are doing.
http://www.eeoc.gov/facts/fs-preg.html
sananeko
06-11-2011, 08:04 PM
I really want to smack someone..
Almost Jaded
06-11-2011, 08:08 PM
Jay - as much as I get where you're at and what they're doing isn't right or fair, it DOES make business sense. :(
If you ae 4 months preggo, he get's a maximum of 5 months work out of you before you have to take maternity leave - which he is legally obligated to extend to you if you've been there more than 90 days. Which means when you have the child, he's right back where he is now EXCEPT - he also HAS to offer you your job back after the prescribed period of time.
:(
DottieMay
06-11-2011, 08:48 PM
Had a pimp contact me 2 days ago. Tellin me the game was a lonely place, makin all kinds of promises. Then he asks me to come pick him up cuz he doesn't have a car!!! WTF?!? A pimp with no ride!?! lolololololololol I said , " Okay, I'll come pick you up." and left his ass sittin in front of the casino for almost an hour :neener:
JayATee
06-12-2011, 10:29 AM
Jay - as much as I get where you're at and what they're doing isn't right or fair, it DOES make business sense. :(
If you ae 4 months preggo, he get's a maximum of 5 months work out of you before you have to take maternity leave - which he is legally obligated to extend to you if you've been there more than 90 days. Which means when you have the child, he's right back where he is now EXCEPT - he also HAS to offer you your job back after the prescribed period of time.
:(
He's put up with several others being pregnant. He just won't hire a new one. And in truth it really doesn't make sense. It's better than having to have your manager who isn't a bartender cover shifts because the idiots you hire can't be bothered to show up. A month of ONE bartender on maternity leave isn't the end of the business.
RoxyHart
06-12-2011, 10:50 AM
Why are there 3 old men standing in my backyard?
Cause no one respects my f*ckin privacy!!!!
One of those old men is my SO's dad who NEVER calls before coming over and just shows up. Then my old fart neighbors join him and BAM a old people party in my yard!
While i'm minding my own business in my pjs in my house..... WTF!
NOT. F*CKIN. COOL.
LoveGun75
06-12-2011, 10:56 AM
I love to have a girl make fun of my tiny penis, 4.3 inches (11cm) hard, but I never know how to ask without offending them. I like to put it in a toilet paper tube and watch them laugh when it doesn’t come out the other side?
tempest666
06-12-2011, 11:45 AM
I love to have a girl make fun of my tiny penis, 4.3 inches (11cm) hard, but I never know how to ask without offending them. I like to put it in a toilet paper tube and watch them laugh when it doesn’t come out the other side?
gimme some money and I'll humiliate you all you want8)
chanzep
06-12-2011, 01:22 PM
what a long weekend!
please stop raining!
xGigi
06-12-2011, 01:31 PM
I'm sooooooooooooo tired. I hate how i work like 2 days in a row then I'm tired as fuck the next day
princessjas
06-12-2011, 04:49 PM
Ok, think I might be feeling the new guy again! Texted him yesterday and am looking forward to visiting after his visit with the baby.
4everresolutions
06-12-2011, 06:11 PM
I LOVE the movie Drop Dead Gorgeous. It always cheers me up.
princessjas
06-12-2011, 07:05 PM
^ baby?
he has a one yr old daughter from his marriage.... nothing freaky, he just loves his daughter to pieces and the whole world stops when he has her. ;)
RoxyHart
06-12-2011, 07:37 PM
I had to have a epic fit of rage to get it but....
I'll be doing pole dance lessons!
My SO finally understood that I don't have any hobby or thing for just me. Since adult dance classes are lame in this area {FU Zumba} i found a local chick who teaches pole dancing. Hell to the yeah that dick better sign me up. Mommy needs an escape and I've ALWAYS wanted to do this!
JayATee
06-12-2011, 07:45 PM
He absolutely infuriated me earlier. So I went home. Now I miss him and I want cuddles, but I don't want to actually call him and tell him that because he'll just assume everything is ok and it's not. I'm such an emotional wreck right now, I stood in buy buy baby crying over a crib....
princessjas
06-12-2011, 08:19 PM
He absolutely infuriated me earlier. So I went home. Now I miss him and I want cuddles, but I don't want to actually call him and tell him that because he'll just assume everything is ok and it's not. I'm such an emotional wreck right now, I stood in buy buy baby crying over a crib....
Ah!! It will get better, I promise! Its just hormones. PM me if you need too! Also you just gotta forgive once you have kids together......dont give up yourself, but you have to be more flexible than before.
JayATee
06-12-2011, 08:27 PM
Ah!! It will get better, I promise! Its just hormones. PM me if you need too! Also you just gotta forgive once you have kids together......dont give up yourself, but you have to be more flexible than before.
Thanks. I know it's partially hormones which is frustrating in itself. The problem also is how much I let go as it is... but I refused to fight with him which is why I left (a big step for me). I'm trying to find a constructive way to have the conversation... I think I'm just over tired and over stressed right now. I think I'll just go to bed and try again in the morning.
sananeko
06-12-2011, 09:15 PM
I'm missing my tools...
firemaiden04
06-12-2011, 09:23 PM
It's been a rough three weeks, but one more week and I'm nine credits closer to my BA in History. And then a vacation! I swear, this will have been one of the longest months of my life.
Kellydancer
06-12-2011, 10:51 PM
Why are the best shows cancelled early? This is one of the best shows ever and I always recommend it to everyone I know: . I mean can you go wrong about a show set in the 60's with fantastic music? Yet it only lasted 3 years while crap like the Bachelor and worse lasts forever.
Then my old fart neighbors join him and BAM a old people party in my yard!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHSQvz3tdVA&feature=related
sry, it's just what immediately popped into my head.
for a possible live version:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXC8n2qqRe0&feature=related
person
06-13-2011, 05:30 AM
Too rainy to head to the strip club dammit
Kisca
06-13-2011, 08:57 AM
My boyfriend is dicussing a contract deal with MMA!!!
Im mad at myself that I dont eat properly when Im depressed.
I lost 10lbs over this past week now Im at 90 lbs.
RoxyHart
06-13-2011, 09:05 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHSQvz3tdVA&feature=related
sry, it's just what immediately popped into my head.
for a possible live version:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXC8n2qqRe0&feature=related
ROFL. Seriously that's exactly what it looks like!
I just need a guy who looks like Boomhower....::)
chanzep
06-13-2011, 09:42 AM
Yay no rain!, day off doing nothing.
crazybeautiful
06-13-2011, 09:52 AM
Why am I not approved on SM yet? Why do I constantly worry about money? Why haven't I showered my lazy ass yet, and why this town is so gosh darn boring!
Oh! I signed up for a 10K today though in October, very exciting! Except the competitor in me now wants to win the money you get if you come in first............ #notgoingtohappen.
miss1dancypants
06-13-2011, 09:56 AM
mad at myself for being so depressed all the time and having no motivation to do anything with my life... just don't know what to do.
_Avery_
06-13-2011, 12:08 PM
Full moon on Wednesday...maybe Kane will decide to come then! :D
sananeko
06-13-2011, 12:10 PM
I'm glad it stopped raining, maybe now I can get some work done.
princessjas
06-13-2011, 01:51 PM
My water heater caught on fire at about 2am!! Yikes!! Now Ive been waiting to have my dripping faucet fixed that caused it for almost a week!! get over here so I can go swimming already!
penandink1019
06-13-2011, 06:46 PM
Interesting. Looks like I'll be working for a Russian. A Miami Russian. A rich Miami Russian. If you have any advice, shoot me a PM.
Almost Jaded
06-13-2011, 07:17 PM
Advice - don't work for wealthy Miami Russians. LOL.
I am so tired of hurting. Ever research the effects of long term chronic pain on the brain? It's fucking scary. It also explains a few things about my behavior the last few months. Which is pathetic, because I'd like to think I have more self control than that. I try to be aware of it at least.
I want to find the asshole that hit us and take a baseball bat to his neck and lower back. :mad:
penandink1019
06-13-2011, 07:34 PM
Advice - don't work for wealthy Miami Russians. LOL.
Like I have an option.:'( Anyhow, I bet it'll be fun taking short trips to Miami. }:D
The Contessa
06-13-2011, 08:27 PM
Apparently I was wasted last week and spilled to my BF that I wanted to get back into webcamming. He was OK with stripping, but I don't really want to do that anymore. Before this he has said some nasty things about models, but yesterday he said he's reconsidered, and says that if I want to do it he's supportive.
This all came at a great time, because Lush gave me a big, fat "NO WAY". So screw you, minimum wage retail job I'm going back in camming, and even if I only make 100$ a day, I still only work for about four hours AND I don't have to brave the shopping mall.
So my plan of action is to get back on AW (since I'm on DP!!!) to get some funds, then maybe create a whole new personae and go the whole nine yards with a website, clips for sale, selling panties and everything. I got a short black bob wig that I look fabulous in, but I feel like a VERY different person. I think it's for the best.
YAY.
sananeko
06-13-2011, 10:28 PM
Well my big project hit a problem.. I really can't wait til I can update my tools and able to cut men out of my projects..
Vyanka
06-13-2011, 10:46 PM
Ugh, tax shit. I wanna rip my hair out.
4everresolutions
06-14-2011, 07:12 AM
Broken Hearted.
penandink1019
06-14-2011, 07:15 AM
Turned down a pro bono gig. (They would have picked up expenses.) The latest victim of my current circumstances. :(
crazybeautiful
06-14-2011, 12:23 PM
my feet are covered in barbecue sauce............................................. ......... don't ask. but that is all i can think about right now...
princessjas
06-14-2011, 01:54 PM
I am so tired all the time anymore it physically hurts but am putting on a brave face and swimming, running, etc with my boys. This sucks!!
_Avery_
06-14-2011, 01:55 PM
Everything feels like a dream today. I don't like this feeling.
kaiarose
06-14-2011, 02:01 PM
Wearing a red tube dress at work tonight... hoping it will bring me lotsa money!!
Marinating some steaks so I can have a decent meal before work so I don't end up ordering some greasy fast food later..
RoxyHart
06-14-2011, 02:10 PM
Oh manic me, how i missed you!
You care to much about your appearance, crave doing risque things, are over social and day dream. But sure beats being a depressed short tempered bitch who hates everyone and everything when i'm not medicated.
ETA: Listening to Aqua makes cleaning fun! Seriously 90's music makes me happier then a bird with a french fry.
chanzep
06-14-2011, 03:32 PM
^ 90's music is cool !
Why am I watchin qvc?
chanzep
06-14-2011, 03:46 PM
Can't wait to see my friend from Canada next week!
princessjas
06-14-2011, 05:47 PM
Oh manic me, how i missed you!
You care to much about your appearance, crave doing risque things, are over social and day dream. But sure beats being a depressed short tempered bitch who hates everyone and everything when i'm not medicated.
ETA: Listening to Aqua makes cleaning fun! Seriously 90's music makes me happier then a bird with a french fry.
Oh!!! Im manic too and my meds have caused severe depression. If you dont mind I ask, how long did it take of of em to feel better again? Or are you manic when medicated? Mine started at puberty and never stopped....ARRR!!! To fall asleep one night without someone petting my head to put me to sleep! :O