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TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 11:16 AM
I didnt ADMIT anything.
i hate girls like you... you hear what you want to hear, very delusional. probably how you ended up being pimped by a studio . And as immature as it IS, im not backing down from a PEON. I wouldn't in real life either. you start a fight , then you better know how to end that shit!
8)
LOL. Why are you telling ME this? I'm about to end it now, ho, since you're trifling, lazy ass couldn't look for the post you claim to know nothing about.
You silly girl...when will you learn that arguing back and forth with me will result in you accomplishing nothing (except getting more attention on the forums, which is what you want, right?).
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 11:17 AM
i'm assuming you desire the attention i get. Heres a clue : stop trying to be heard and seen as the new girl, we will warm up to you, especially if you have anythin gto ADD to the community. SO FAR, you have been a cunt bucket in a half, and nobodys falling for it. You really need to chill out SERIOUSLY.
I am HArmless, really. I just think you want me to feel LESS THAN so you can feel higher up. im to much of a SNOB though, for that to happen. dream on! go get that money...I know I am...I got shit to do .
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 11:20 AM
you STILL aint proved it ya bumb bitch! thread closed.
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 11:23 AM
WTF! How fuckin dare you call me "sweetie"! Retract them damn claws at me cause i sure as hell wasn't even talking to you. I was commenting on the post NOT on your drama. Was your name mentioned? Did i quote you? NO and um, NO. Talk about swinging a innocent bystander. Wow.
BTW I DID read both threads being there the top 2 active ones on the list. I personally don't care who you are, anyone in general who goes and fights with the "veterans" is gonna have a hard time otherwise on the tread. Simple as that. They are the ones who post the most here and if you ever have a problem about anything on here your most likely gonna hear crickets cause the ones who know the answers aren't gonna give you anything. Just sayin.
Who the fuck do you think you're talking to? There are a lot worse things I could've called you than "sweetie," so I suggest you tone it down a notch and stop getting all angry. Claws? You haven't seen me pull out my claws on you yet, and I don't think you want to, so...you're dismissed...
It doesn't matter if you quoted anyone or not...anyone who's been following the thread could see what and who you're talking about.
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 11:27 AM
I just stopped in to say im not going to argue with you anymore. its wortless and pointless. I am acting very out of character and i dont like it right now. Im going back to the HAppy and joyful me. I will never let one of you girls set me off like that again.
Happy camming!
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 11:31 AM
You can try to justify your post by saying you're a blunt person, but being blunt and - dare I say it? - being bitchy isn't the same thing.
Malaya, is this above quote what you were referring to? As strange as it may sound, that wasn't calling you a bitch. I had said that your post was bitchy. I could get into an argument with my sister and think she's being bitchy, but that doesn't mean I think SHE is actually a bitch...do you see what I'm saying?
Just like I know I can act bitchy when I'm cranky and haven't eaten, but that doesn't mean I really am a bitch. Like I said, it sounds strange when trying to explain it, but it does make sense. And I had gotten that impression of you before when you posted this:
WTF Why would you work for ? LOL.. That's streamate! Why can't you just create your own account and keep most of YOUR hard earned money.. Oh and the MFC thing you're talking about.. ya know.. the daily payout..? Sounds like you're definitely working through a studio chica.
Juliette: Well said.
Sn: Now I'm thinking about opening a studio.. like wtf ppl really fall for this shit?!
It was mainly that last sentence that had gotten under my skin and had given me the wrong impression of you. I no longer feel the same way about you though, after talking to you for some time on here and realizing that's just how you talk to people. Thank you for being able to continue the conversation without ridiculous rants every few minutes, unlike someone else... :)
DirtyLittleSecret
09-07-2010, 11:32 AM
Who the fuck do you think you're talking to? There are a lot worse things I could've called you than "sweetie," so I suggest you tone it down a notch and stop getting all angry. Claws? You haven't seen me pull out my claws on you yet, and I don't think you want to, so...you're dismissed...
It doesn't matter if you quoted anyone or not...anyone who's been following the thread could see what and who you're talking about.
Whatever. This is between YOU and the 2. NOT ME. YOU brought me in this by taking MY quote out of context thinking i was talking about YOU which was incorrect and i felt the need to repeat what i was saying so it was clearer. No e-fist to be swinging here.
I guess i'll go be "dismissed" now.... ::)
(Oh and "sweetie' to me is insulting, unless your my fiance or my grandma. I highly doubt you were using it in a term of endearment.)
EDIT: I have no beef with you. Hell i wasn't even directing anything to you until you brought me in which i didn't want.
spexyashleigh
09-07-2010, 11:33 AM
omfg guys, think of the money you could be making instead of bitching it up in a forum thats supposed to be positive and shiz. I don't think either of ya are gonna change the others opinion so maybe its best to let it gooo. No one likes seeing this crap, I know its inevitable to get this stuff going on when you have a forum full of ladies, but this stuff CAN be done in pm..just sayin.
k I'm done playing mom lol. Seriously, lets hug it out!:):):):)
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 11:35 AM
you STILL aint proved it ya bumb bitch! thread closed.
BUMB bitch? Yeah, okay, you little hoodrat...
I just posted the post that I promised to show Malaya. So NOW I will go back and find your two lame one-liner posts that you claim you can't even remember. *sigh*
berri
09-07-2010, 11:35 AM
fuck the young and the restless....and all my children...stripperweb officially has all the "opera" i could read for one day....i'm new to this forum...but i've never seen an actual argument on here before...WOW
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 11:39 AM
lol ....lol...lol
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 11:40 AM
im glad your best friends with malaya . =)
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 11:40 AM
Whatever. This is between YOU and the 2. NOT ME.
Exactly. It was between me and the two, so why didn't you just leave it at that? Do you really like to get involved in silly little forum arguments, such as this? I doubt it. You should've just sat back with a bag of popcorn, because this was pure entertainment until it just got plain boring and monotonous.
josiecamgirl
09-07-2010, 11:41 AM
I wanted to look for a good quote for this thread while taking a break from my cam..Hope this only helps. If not, then oh well..
“Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent-free in your head”
_Avery_
09-07-2010, 11:42 AM
Holy freaking DRAMA!
The title of this thread is "Malaya is Valuable", and it has nothing to do with her.
It just seems like a thread to create drama.....
I'm just curious to see who the bigger person is going to be and be the one to just ignore first.
I understand SW can get boring sometimes, and sometimes some feel the need to stir up a little drama, but an entire thread dedicated to it....WOW!
Someone said it in the confession thread before, (won't name names), but the "other work" section has just because a drama, bitch fest!
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 11:43 AM
MAlaya i dont give a DAMN what anyone thinks of you, your MY inspiration to never settle for less and to keep shit classy at all times and overcharge for shit...lol your the shit...I love you, thats all.... !!!!!
also raven, devon, minnie, hustle, MAN all you beautiful ladies have helped me in MANy diff was! but while you are reading this dead ass thread, I have a question to ask?
WHY ISNT YOUR ASS ON CAM?;D
tempest666
09-07-2010, 11:47 AM
What the hell is going on? its total drama island all of a sudden. I like all of you. Malaya gave me some awesome advice and everyone else has been helpful to both me and gothicalien about camming. Anyways I love y'all. I'm about to pull my hair out trying to set up this damn webcam.
malayataylor
09-07-2010, 11:51 AM
I can't keep up :( I'm amazed.
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 11:52 AM
if you make less than 50$ a week on streamate and cant make payout, theres something wrong here.
Thanks for pointing that out, though that comment was just unnecessary and silly.
Nobody said anything about not making payout, so I'm not sure why you posted the above statement.
Sometimes the truth stings a little.
And what truth is that? That I'm an adult capable of making my own choices of what cam sites to work on? Or the truth that you hate the fact that someone is calling you out for the kind of person you are, and you just can't let it go...which is why you're still on here posting.
Truth or not, behaving like a snobby Ms Know-it-all isn't necessary. Most of the women here know how to have a conversation without making rude, snide comments.
And you know what? These obnoxious, petty posts of yours aren't even a big deal! It's the posts that come AFTERWARDS that really got out of hand.
DirtyLittleSecret
09-07-2010, 11:52 AM
Exactly. It was between me and the two, so why didn't you just leave it at that? Do you really like to get involved in silly little forum arguments, such as this? I doubt it. You should've just sat back with a bag of popcorn, because this was pure entertainment until it just got plain boring and monotonous.
I honestly believe my 1st post was about how i appreciate and thank Mayala and PPG + the other "veteran" girls here. I was merely commented on what the OP was about, how the girls here are knowledgeable and straight forward. Not the previous drama i happen to read before it. I usually just lurk this kind of drama and it retrospect i should have smelled the trail of blood before i posted. My mistake.
I still think anyone, and i mean in generalization who takes PPG or anyone of the other "veterans" the wrong way and "throws down" with them is gonna find themselves in a cage match to the death. Just sayin.
Now i back away slowly.....
josiecamgirl
09-07-2010, 11:54 AM
Not trying to hijack but fuck it, this thread is out of control anyway...I have been trying to navigate thru rude.com, wait on streamate to approve me, work on imlive and talking to my regulars, and figure out how to create my own website (anyone wanna give me some tips i am all ears) I am on a lot of forums and usually by this time the moderator will lock the thread up!!
WHERE IS THE MODERATOR
OH, btw has anyone heard anything about ePassporte yet? I need my mf money...
Again, im sorry for jacking the thread..
p.s. I just edited this to add the fact that I am also wondering when my other cam sites will offer an alternative pay option. and im new on niteflirt, how long does it take for money to get deposited?
thanks for taking the time to read my hijack post
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 11:55 AM
fuck the young and the restless....and all my children...stripperweb officially has all the "opera" i could read for one day....i'm new to this forum...but i've never seen an actual argument on here before...WOW
Welcome to the forum, berri! :)
I consider myself new as well, yet this drama - carried over here from the MyGirlFund thread...wtf - has really increased my post count and I'm a Senior Member all of a sudden. :P
General Hospital is my fave. ;D
malayataylor
09-07-2010, 11:57 AM
Just for the record.. to the outsiders (those that are not in the industry) We're all hoes, whores, prostitutes, sex workers. I am a professional HO and I love it.
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 12:01 PM
Not trying to hijack but fuck it, this thread is out of control anyway...I have been trying to navigate thru rude.com, wait on streamate to approve me, work on imlive and talking to my regulars, and figure out how to create my own website (anyone wanna give me some tips i am all ears) I am on a lot of forums and usually by this time the moderator will lock the thread up!!
WHERE IS THE MODERATOR
OH, btw has anyone heard anything about ePassporte yet? I need my mf money...
Again, im sorry for jacking the thread..
No, it's ok, josie. This sorry thread NEEDS a good jacking! And I said the same thing...this should've BEEN locked the minute the insults started flying.
On Monday when I was expecting to issue payment (I've actually been getting it on Sunday, a day early lately, which is cool), Janet told me via email that they weren't issuing ePassporte payments anymore, and that hosts would have to choose an alternative method. So I chose direct deposit instead, which is expected to take 5 days for funds to appear in my bank account. You ordered the Payoneer card at around the same time I did (for ImLive), so I think we'll both be getting those debit cards right around the same time ImLive pays us...maybe sooner (I hope!).
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 12:06 PM
Just for the record.. to the outsiders (those that are not in the industry) We're all hoes, whores, prostitutes, sex workers. I am a professional HO and I love it.
I like that...lol. No crappy hourly pay, no boss telling me what to wear, when to eat, piss/shit, and I get to be with my son more.
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 12:08 PM
Not trying to hijack but fuck it, this thread is out of control anyway...I have been trying to navigate thru rude.com, wait on streamate to approve me, work on imlive and talking to my regulars, and figure out how to create my own website (anyone wanna give me some tips i am all ears) I am on a lot of forums and usually by this time the moderator will lock the thread up!!
WHERE IS THE MODERATOR
OH, btw has anyone heard anything about ePassporte yet? I need my mf money...
Again, im sorry for jacking the thread..
p.s. I just edited this to add the fact that I am also wondering when my other cam sites will offer an alternative pay option. and im new on niteflirt, how long does it take for money to get deposited?
thanks for taking the time to read my hijack post
Niteflirt does daily pay or monthly pay, and you can set up your ban account and pick your option. usually it takes 3-4 buisness days for you to see it in your account.
rude.com is nothing to navigate as it isvirtually almost dead =( sucks, cause thatsite used to be my bread and butter ALONE.
fro a website, build your fanbase first.... possibly by building a nice pretty little blog =)
josiecamgirl
09-07-2010, 12:09 PM
Well I will not be trusting epassporte ever again in life. IF we get our money back I will be glad and close the account. IF we DONT get our money (and thats a strong possibility) then oh well, i guess im still closing my account.
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 12:12 PM
Well of course its not going to die down sweetheart... you keep responding to what ppl are saying so in a sense your adding to the fire. Like I said both ladies are blunt.. and you can either accept that or not. Just saying....
So then EVERYBODY should stop posting, the thread should be locked, and we all go back to talking about MyGirlFund/cam sites like we were before. :)
josiecamgirl
09-07-2010, 12:13 PM
Niteflirt does daily pay or monthly pay, and you can set up your ban account and pick your option. usually it takes 3-4 buisness days for you to see it in your account.
rude.com is nothing to navigate as it isvirtually almost dead =( sucks, cause thatsite used to be my bread and butter ALONE.
fro a website, build your fanbase first.... possibly by building a nice pretty little blog =)
I was just making a blog last week. and I guess it makes sense to build a fan base first...I do actually have quite a following from Imlive. I been there several years and these guys are bugging me weekly about starting a website.
Thanks for advise ladies. I am getting back to work now, and I hope you all have a wonderful evening. Good luck to those of us who have money tied up in epassporte accounts. Gotta go!
:-X
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 12:14 PM
Well I will not be trusting epassporte ever again in life. IF we get our money back I will be glad and close the account. IF we DONT get our money (and thats a strong possibility) then oh well, i guess im still closing my account.
It's terrible what's happening to so many hosts, and I really feel sorry for the girls who have BIG $$$ stuck on their VISA cards and needed it for something important like rent.
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 12:15 PM
Thanks for pointing that out, though that comment was just unnecessary and silly.
And what truth is that? That I'm an adult capable of making my own choices of what cam sites to work on? Or the truth that you hate the fact that someone is calling you out for the kind of person you are, and you just can't let it go...which is why you're still on here posting.
And you know what? These obnoxious, petty posts of yours aren't even a big deal! It's the posts that come AFTERWARDS that really got out of hand.
IS that HONESTLY why you are mad? ....lol::) okay babygirl, then this means your gonna have a TOUGH time on this site. camming isnt a dream world. IF we know of a BETTER way of you keeping your OWN money that im assuming you bust your ass for, why be so nasty about it? ya know? and you dont have to keep taking shots I said I was finished posts ago... this thread lasted for hours, dont you think its time for you to stop?
I really dont think i was being OBNOXIOUS. I felt you where being cheated. and you are. if you where capable of ALWAYS making your own decisions you wouldn't be on a forum hunny.
Im sorry i didnt tell you what you want to hear, but honestly is the best policy and I wasnt being rude.
saying that something is wrong, doesn't mean its YOU as a person, it means that something is wrong PERIOD. if you would have waited a SECOND< im sure we could have helped you get over that BUMP .
from what i READ , it seems as if your in a studio because you cant make streamate payout. that was what i was referring too. but you got this in the bag!:-X so happy camming!
malayataylor
09-07-2010, 12:22 PM
All this arguing is making me hungry! I'm off to a late lunch at PF Changs. Let's all kiss and makeup! I'm outie! *hugs*
josiecamgirl
09-07-2010, 12:25 PM
I swear I'm logged on to 2 cam sites right now!
Speaking of food I made this creamy chicken alfredo with fettuccine last night. It was so effin good. Gonna eat that for dinner tonight.
josiecamgirl
09-07-2010, 12:26 PM
and it had spinach in it. mmmm spinach
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 12:27 PM
IS that HONESTLY why you are mad? ....lol::) okay babygirl, then this means your gonna have a TOUGH time on this site. camming isnt a dream world. IF we know of a BETTER way of you keeping your OWN money that im assuming you bust your ass for, why be so nasty about it? ya know? and you dont have to keep taking shots I said I was finished posts ago... this thread lasted for hours, dont you think its time for you to stop?
I really dont think i was being OBNOXIOUS. I felt you where being cheated. and you are. if you where capable of ALWAYS making your own decisions you wouldn't be on a forum hunny.
Im sorry i didnt tell you what you want to hear, but honestly is the best policy and I wasnt being rude.
saying that something is wrong, doesn't mean its YOU as a person, it means that something is wrong PERIOD. if you would have waited a SECOND< im sure we could have helped you get over that BUMP .
from what i READ , it seems as if your in a studio because you cant make streamate payout. that was what i was referring too. but you got this in the bag!:-X so happy camming!
Me and Josie are discussing ePassporte...I think everyone here's been done with this dead topic.
And I know I'll do fine on these forums, thanks. There's lots of helpful information here (even when I go back to read really old threads), and I've been reading the forum while being logged into two cam sites today. I'm proud of myself for being online for like 6 hours straight with NO bathroom breaks (and with my bladder, this is just unheard of!). :) I'm gonna force myself to do the same thing tonight after I put my son to bed. Wish me luck!
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 12:30 PM
good! group hugs.
TheBrownFox
09-07-2010, 12:32 PM
I swear I'm logged on to 2 cam sites right now!
Speaking of food I made this creamy chicken alfredo with fettuccine last night. It was so effin good. Gonna eat that for dinner tonight.
Josie, this is gonna be OUR week...the week that we REALLY start working our asses off, and from that point on there will be no turning back! :P
And that food sounds sooo good...can I come over? ;D
roast
09-07-2010, 12:45 PM
I lurk - but really wanted to thank Pussy Playground & Malaya for their advice and work on this forum. I know this isn't exactly an appreciation thread, but I think I always meant to chime into one (maybe it can veer back into that direction for all the other hardcore lurkers like myself? haha).... I've gotten so much awesome advice from you guys, still starting out slowly but feel way more confident whenever I see you guys post. I have a few emails to myself of direct quotes from you guys....
Also, the ladies who brag keep me motivated - I salute a bad chick/fierce hustler whenever I see one... when they stop bragging, I worry about my own market. This field is small enough, competitive already, hard as hell to sustain, socially isolating (let's keep it real) and filled with tons of "insider" info... so when e-sisterhood works & I see women who invest time, I get really excited.
Thanks malaya/pussyplayground.
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 12:47 PM
roast can i know who you are please =) im nosey ...lol
Smurfette
09-07-2010, 03:02 PM
It seems that all flamewars on this forum start like this:
1. Newcomer either asks a question or asks for advice or talks about something they're doing / not doing in their business
2. Veteran replies, either gives advice or disagrees with something the newcomer said, but does so in a way that might be considered harsh or rude.
3. Newcomer is offended and takes the veteran's response as a personal attack.
4. WAR!!
Here is an example:
Newbie: Hi girls, just wondering how much you're charging, I'm charging $1.19/min
Veteran: WTF, is that all your body is worth? Don't be cheap, have some self respect and raise your prices!
Newbie: Oh no you didn't! I'm not cheap your heartless BITCH!!!
...and on and on.
So to sum up, most of these fights are just misunderstandings and I think if we take a bit more time to read through a post thoroughly and make an effort to be kind and considerate and to be able to take constructive criticism, we'll all be better off! ;)
mzdeniro
09-07-2010, 03:15 PM
roast can i know who you are please =) im nosey ...lol
Lol I know I want to know who she is too cuz I like her already... girl come out of hiding lol.
pussyplayground
09-07-2010, 04:47 PM
It seems that all flamewars on this forum start like this:
1. Newcomer either asks a question or asks for advice or talks about something they're doing / not doing in their business
2. Veteran replies, either gives advice or disagrees with something the newcomer said, but does so in a way that might be considered harsh or rude.
3. Newcomer is offended and takes the veteran's response as a personal attack.
4. WAR!!
Here is an example:
Newbie: Hi girls, just wondering how much you're charging, I'm charging $1.19/min
Veteran: WTF, is that all your body is worth? Don't be cheap, have some self respect and raise your prices!
Newbie: Oh no you didn't! I'm not cheap your heartless BITCH!!!
...and on and on.
So to sum up, most of these fights are just misunderstandings and I think if we take a bit more time to read through a post thoroughly and make an effort to be kind and considerate and to be able to take constructive criticism, we'll all be better off! ;)
lmao ;D tHAT WAS SOOOOO FUNNY!