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SSinner
10-27-2010, 11:06 PM
hahaha,

I remember back in the day a guy I knew broke up (got dumped) by his girl. He said they argued and he wanted to keep the sex toys because he had bought them. I tried to point out to him, that much like a toothbrush, ownership would be determined by whose oraffices they had been in, not who's name was on the receipt. He didn't seem to like that answer.

Looking back, I think he just wanted to use them on himself.....

Personally, I get scared if a girl is really into toys, like, wow, you got the living, breathing one right here and you want plastic???? Call me insecure....

Avery90
10-28-2010, 01:11 AM
^^Sad thing for me the living breathing thing is normally finished within 5 mins for me so you think Id be more interested In using toys but no I have 2 toys and I almost never use them last time was 6 months ago...they kinda suck tho I think i got the cheap shitty ones as a gift.

Golden_Rule
10-28-2010, 08:00 AM
^^Sad thing for me the living breathing thing is normally finished within 5 mins for me so you think Id be more interested In using toys but no I have 2 toys and I almost never use them last time was 6 months ago...they kinda suck tho I think i got the cheap shitty ones as a gift.


1) Hitachi Wand

2) Rabbit

3) Bullet

4) Butterfly (with wireless remote - if you are feeling naughty wear it out for the evening with someone you care for, give him/her the remote }:D )

5) If you can afford one, the Sybian.

Elvia
10-28-2010, 06:37 PM
I second the hitachi suggestion. It's a little expensive, but it's built to last. I've had mine for at least 4 years now. Could NOT live without it. Nope.

KS_Stevia
10-30-2010, 11:15 AM
14 years ago, I started dating this guy. I had never had an orgasm. First time we hooked up, he showed me a vibrator he had bought for this girl he was dating. She dumped him before they ever had sex. The vibrator was still in its package, unopened. It was tough to tear the package apart so there is almost no chance it had been used. It gave me my first real clitoral orgasm and changed my life.

Not exactly the same story as the OP, but I just wanted to share, don't be so skeeved out by the thought. I was creeped out at first, until he told me I could have it and all of a sudden, WOW!

Used dildo not wrapped up in something, not so much.

kikiwiki
10-30-2010, 03:01 PM
I understand very well that you can effectively sterilize a dildo and enjoy many uses with it with multiple partners in a casual sex relationship. That's really not the upsetting point of his actions of my post. It was more the fact that he was pursuing my girl with the intentions of a long term relationship, wining and dining her, courting her, romancing, etc. There should never be any mention of an ex wife during bed play. And having a visual such as a toy used on an ex makes the experiences 10 times worse. If he wanted to court her the right way and make her feel special, he should have bought her a brand spankin new dildo. This guy was a millionaire too, he could have coughed up for a huge platinum dildo! LOL

Golden_Rule
11-01-2010, 02:29 PM
I second the hitachi suggestion. It's a little expensive, but it's built to last. I've had mine for at least 4 years now. Could NOT live without it. Nope.

Have you adopted a G-spotter attachment for it yet?

http://www.hitachi-magic-wand.com/shop/images/gspotter.jpg

Or the Gee Whiz?

http://www.hitachi-magic-wand.com/shop/images/SiliconeGeeWhiz1.jpg

[And before any of the guys ask why I know about them: Its because I like to keep the women in my life happy, that's why.]

They even have a silly bit of business called "The Hitachi Love Seat" which turns the wand into a cheap imitation of the Sybian. Though I have no personal experience with it so I couldn't say if it is any good or not.

http://newhealthweb.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/loveseat2.jpg

MargaritaVillain
11-05-2010, 06:24 PM
My girl just told me that a guy she recently started sleeping with asked her if he could use a dildo on her. When she asked were he got it, he said it belonged to his ex. When she questioned him why he would want to use a dildo his ex used, on her, his response was " I washed it with alcohol".
Sounds to me like the guy is the dildo of this scenario