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jack0177057
01-07-2011, 02:44 PM
^I hear ya' but those are not the only two options.
Option 3 is to not spend large sums of money paying strippers for useless lapdances, but to instead pay them for more worthwhile activities in your hotel room. ;)
I don't buy sex (not because of "higher morals", but because I've got a GF and limit my "adulterous" activities to high contact LDs) --- so, I'm not speaking from first hand knowledge.... But, my understanding and impression is that dancers that do happy-ending extras will rush the process to move on to another custie and more $$$, whereas an escort is paid by the hour, so there is no rush (assuming an hour is sufficient).
Also, a dancer may lead you on to think that she will come back to your place after you spend $300 in the SC, and later, she could renege on that promise.
If this is not the case (that dancers will scam and/or rush you),... then I would agree with you that going to a SC to pick out the most beautiful and sensual dancer to be your escort for the evening is better than relying on potentially misleading pics in some adult publication. (Although, there are "provider" review sites for "hobbyists" that are supposed to be reliable and informative.)
yoda57us
01-07-2011, 03:47 PM
I don't buy sex (not because of "higher morals", but because I've got a GF and limit my "adulterous" activities to high contact LDs) --- so, I'm not speaking from first hand knowledge.... But, my understanding and impression is that dancers that do happy-ending extras will rush the process to move on to another custie and more $$$, whereas an escort is paid by the hour, so there is no rush (assuming an hour is sufficient).
There is some truth to this but, as always, it's not really that black and white. A dancer who does ITC extras is generally limited by the amount of booth time you bought or the number of dances you are willing to pay for. In my experience however the heavy extras girls do prefer to keep things moving along. The girls who push a 15 minute booth dance get results quickly and move on the the next guy. The girls who push longer VIP are often, but not always less prone to do heavy extras. Note, this not an absolute but it's obviously more risky the less private the dance area is. Many club do VIP in a room that accommodates more than one dancer/customer. Outside of the club is really more of an agreement between the customer and OTC dancer about what they are going to do, how much and for how long.
As far as escorts go. Again, you can book an hour but there are a lot of lower end "one and done" girls who will get you to pop right away and then get dressed and leave...or kick you out if it's an in call. The real GFE types will give you the hour or whatever you pay for and sometimes more if you are a good regular.
If had seven G's to spend in a few days I would book a week in some tropical local with my ATF escort, sit by the beach, drink umbrella drinks all day and boink all night. The only way I would get anywhere near a strip club would be if we went to one for a night out...
I spend about a grand/month, mostly on LDs with favorite dancers, with an occasional OTC, massage parlor, or escort adventure. It has occurred to me that if I stopped lapping for a few months, I could accumulate a serious fantasy adventure warchest. I've seen ads for what are essentially escort cruises, where guys pay an all-inclusive flat rate to be on a boat with dozens of gorgeous women, all available for sex, anytime. Seems like that would be an OK vacation....}:D
The real GFE types will give you the hour or whatever you pay for and sometimes more if you are a good regular.
Agree with Yoda. I've had some rushed but full monty encounters in the club and they were "OK". This can be difficult in the club and is a challenge for even the most experienced dancers who want to please. I prefer a more relaxed environment (read OTC) but that does not work for all dancers.
FBR
jack0177057
01-11-2011, 11:20 AM
I spend about a grand/month, mostly on LDs with favorite dancers, with an occasional OTC, massage parlor, or escort adventure. It has occurred to me that if I stopped lapping for a few months, I could accumulate a serious fantasy adventure warchest. I've seen ads for what are essentially escort cruises, where guys pay an all-inclusive flat rate to be on a boat with dozens of gorgeous women, all available for sex, anytime. Seems like that would be an OK vacation....}:D
Hot-babe buffet! That sounds awesome! If my GF and I ever break up, that's the first thing I'm going to do! Priceless!
Damn some really high rolling ballers in here....I start to get worried that I'm becoming addicted to SCs if I go more then once a month.
KS_Stevia
01-13-2011, 11:18 AM
I spend about a grand/month, mostly on LDs with favorite dancers, with an occasional OTC, massage parlor, or escort adventure. It has occurred to me that if I stopped lapping for a few months, I could accumulate a serious fantasy adventure warchest. I've seen ads for what are essentially escort cruises, where guys pay an all-inclusive flat rate to be on a boat with dozens of gorgeous women, all available for sex, anytime. Seems like that would be an OK vacation....}:D
Whoa, for some reason that made me really horny. I know the reality wouldn't be quite so fun, but I'd love to be a voluntary cruise ship sex slut...I'm thinking of lots of threesome and orgy opportunities...maybe a dungeon for kinky stuff.
I'm sure its a bunch of gross fucks who just want BJ's, but still, in my mind......
KS_Stevia
01-13-2011, 11:19 AM
Oh yeah, my spending levels. $40-250, once every 6 weeks or so. That doesn't include drinks or cover charges.
jack0177057
01-31-2011, 04:36 PM
Whoa, for some reason that made me really horny. I know the reality wouldn't be quite so fun, but I'd love to be a voluntary cruise ship sex slut...I'm thinking of lots of threesome and orgy opportunities...maybe a dungeon for kinky stuff.
Lol... You've got a wild imagination KS Stevia (I like it)... I found one sex cruise, but it sounds like pretty vanilla stuff. You pick 1 lady or 2, but can't exchange them during the cruise.
http://www.alexisclub.com/vacations-services/caribbean-ocean-cruise.htm
I also found a resort that offers more flexibility - You can have a different escort every day (15 to 30 pretty girls to pick from),... But,... no orgy or dungeon included.
http://www.drnights.com/how-it-works
I like this -
"We Then Rendezvous over to DR Nights Reception area, and kick off your reception party, this is where we will line up 15-30 Girls for you to choose from, each girl will introduce herself and offer a quick lap dance..."
"Your next day, you wake up with your companion, get some breakfast at our all you can eat buffet, throw on some sunblock hit the beach, sail the free sailboat around, or maybe snorkel, read a book, whatever floats your boat. 7pm time for your next girl, stroll on over to the reception house, girls are willing and waiting for you, all 15-30 girls are lined up anxiously waiting on your decision. take your time no rush, mingle, touch and feel all you want no problem here, in fact, they will touch you more than you will touch them..."
"24 hours a day female companionship (rest assured that our hostesses understand the meaning of “full service” adult entertainment experience) for your entire stay, and we don’t mean just one companion every 24 hours: you may add as many girls as you wish..."
Why haven't I ever heard of this before?
If you do find any sex tourism that includes dungeons, let me know. }:D
KS_Stevia
02-01-2011, 08:11 PM
I heard about this years ago and the dirty girl in me considered inquiring about doing a stint at one of those sex islands. But it appears they have many girls from eastern europe and probably pay them shit. Plus, personal safety issues, not being able to say no to someone truly repulsive, etc...
Plus, most dudes aren't creative and I'd probably just spend the days giving blowjobs. ouchie.
I would rather go for a Hedonism type thing instead. That's certainly still a possibility...hopefully before I get too old. 34 is still hot for a swingers resort...not so much at 54, lol.
yoda57us
02-01-2011, 10:07 PM
I would rather go for a Hedonism type thing instead. That's certainly still a possibility...hopefully before I get too old. 34 is still hot for a swingers resort...not so much at 54, lol.
I am at 53 years, 5 months and 20 days...and closing fast...:'(
jack0177057
02-02-2011, 09:05 AM
I heard about this years ago and the dirty girl in me considered inquiring about doing a stint at one of those sex islands. But it appears they have many girls from eastern europe and probably pay them shit. Plus, personal safety issues, not being able to say no to someone truly repulsive, etc...
Plus, most dudes aren't creative and I'd probably just spend the days giving blowjobs. ouchie.
I would rather go for a Hedonism type thing instead. That's certainly still a possibility...hopefully before I get too old. 34 is still hot for a swingers resort...not so much at 54, lol.
I would expect that, unless you're a dominatrix or cater to some particular type of fetish, most customers will ask for the plain vanilla 10-min sex or BJ. Ever considered doing fetish shows?
KS_Stevia
02-02-2011, 06:27 PM
I would expect that, unless you're a dominatrix or cater to some particular type of fetish, most customers will ask for the plain vanilla 10-min sex or BJ. Ever considered doing fetish shows?
No, not into dominatrixing or fetish bullshit. I've had fetish custs as a stripper. I am completely out of sex business. Make more money now with less stress. More hours than stripping, and I cant get drunk or naked at work, but far more satisying.
I don't have a problem w the vanilla sex, but blowjobs can be exhausting and painful on the jaw after a while.