View Full Version : Become a massage girl (FBSM provider)
That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 07:49 AM
WOW! Now I'm really intrested! I'd be waaaay to paranoid about the police though. Luckily there is a massage therapy school near my town. Looks like they have 6 and 12 month courses available. Plus I wouldn't have to pay a dime! Yeah I'll probably do some more research on this topic and if I feel up to it,go ahead and enroll,deadline is August. I have a question though. If you get caught/busted will the license make the situation better? If there's anyone recently doing this kind of work now,would LOVE to ask you a few questions.
TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 09:53 AM
Okay, every city is different, in smaller cities money would be better, but in LA forget about it,
You're asking for trouble and there's nothing I can post that'll help you. Just take sadie's advice.
SexxySadie
05-26-2011, 12:35 PM
I have a question though. If you get caught/busted will the license make the situation better? If there's anyone recently doing this kind of work now,would LOVE to ask you a few questions.
If the cops come in and BUST you having a license will not do anything whatsoever. You will be in more trouble because the board of massage therapy will revoke your license. However, if the cops just come in for a license check which they often do to MP's then you will be safe in that situation.
"No massage therapist, owner, or manager of an establishment carrying out the performance of massage therapy shall authorize or tolerate in such establishment any activity or behavior prohibited by the laws of the State of Alabama or the ordinances of the City of Enterprise, including such laws proscribing acts of prostitution, sodomy, adultery, fornication, or any lewd or obscene act or performance.
Any conviction of the massage therapist, owner, manager, or employee of an establishment performing massage therapy of a violation of such laws or ordinances shall be grounds for the immediate revocation of the license of the establishment or massage therapist as herein provided. " <-- straight from the board of massage therapy website
TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 12:37 PM
Exactly! It would be even worse. What??? Having an actual massage licence and giving hanjobs??? You're going down!! I hope you don't mind sperm on your hands.. hehe!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 12:48 PM
Was just a question. I wasn't talking just about getting busted,I meant if any questions BEFORE getting busted were to be asked,the license would show that I was somewhat legit? I Should have specified.
TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 12:49 PM
You could do sexy LEGIT massages (without hj or whatever else). Hell that would sell but even then I don't know if it's allowed by the board.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 12:51 PM
Don't see why it would matter about what I'm wearing,as long as I'm not nude. I'll have to look it up,Thanks Ladies!
lilmisssunshine
05-26-2011, 01:20 PM
I am a licensed therapist and have been for seven years.
Having a license will not help you in a bust and will actually be worse because you will lose everything you worked for and face further punishment from the board.
Sexy massages are NOT allowed and is why you don't really see licensed therapists offering them.
There are codes of ethics and rules that must be followed. You cannot even work in an adult entertainment establishment as a licensed therapist. It is very frowned upon.
Licensed therapists have done oodles and oodles of work trying to seperate themselves from the adult community and be considered a respectful and legit profession that incorporates healing and wellness. The board in most states will find a reason to pull your license in one way or another if you are found to use it in any erotic or adult manner.
lilmisssunshine
05-26-2011, 01:21 PM
And a license won't help you beforehand either, because we actually deal with worse scrutiny and have state inspections periodically.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 01:41 PM
^^Okay,so let me ask you this: seven years? Are you independent or do you work in a salon/parlor? I would still like to look into getting my license. How much can I expect to make per hr for independent...if you are. Thanks!
lilmisssunshine
05-26-2011, 01:48 PM
I own a day spa. As an indy, it depends on the hour and whether you are doing incall vs. outcall and of course the cost of doing business, but I would say I make about $60-$80 per billable hour before expenses. I make more than I did as a stripper, but less than an escort. I am going by my personal income, and not including money from the spa.
Indy is the only way to go, there is no money to made working for someone else.
And yes, my business is totally clean and on the up and up. I don't do anything fishy.
My work is a combination of Swedish, Thai and Ashiatsu (walking on backs). I also have a cosmetology license and do facials (which don't sell), waxing (manscaping earns a fortune), as well and couples massages and four hand massages.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 02:04 PM
Okay I see. If the minimum is $60,I don't think thats bad at all for legit work. So think I'll still take the six course. Weather I'm adult related or not,the money still seems pretty good. I'd definetly be indy though,legit or not! If I do decide to do adult bodyrubs,it would help if I actually knew what I was doing,they would def keep coming back. Maybe I can still get my own site and stuff. Perhaps being (super)pretty will be enough for me to stay legit. To me its a win/win situation. Thanks for your help Sunshine.
lilmisssunshine
05-26-2011, 02:11 PM
Its awesome money for legit work, but it is hard work.
My mother came to work with me in the business and left after a couple of months because she did not realize how hard it is. It is physically demanding on your feet and back.
You may want to work a few months for someone else in order to learn the business first and then go indy. You will also need clients and obtaining clients is much harder then escorting or bodyrubs.
Bodyrub clients don't care about the quality of your massage and typically are looking for light work.
But anyway, I love love love the work I do. I meet the most awesome and cool people and most of my clients become good friends.
I am including tips in that $60-$80 range, most people tip $10- $20. However, there are non tippers and then there are awesome people who will just leave me $100 for nothing.
lilmisssunshine
05-26-2011, 02:13 PM
I usually do anywhere from 2-4 appts/hours a day and work 6 days a week, so if I do the minimum of 2 hrs a day at $60 that's about $700 a week.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 02:19 PM
$700 a week? Yeah that def wouldn't be my only job! Maybe massage by day,cam by night? Whatever the case,I'd make it work if I ended up liking it.
lilmisssunshine
05-26-2011, 03:00 PM
No I am not saying I make $700 a week. I am saying that is if I do the minimum.
sweet_baby
05-26-2011, 07:30 PM
when does a MP hire girls? how long does the girls usually work there? theres new girls everyday...? how does the girls get the license?
That"MODEL"Chick
05-27-2011, 03:52 AM
^^Well the school in my area that offers the program offers placement as well,once you're finished. Maybe you could research a program like that to.
sweet_baby
05-28-2011, 08:18 AM
lol wat school is that? im currently in community college for paralegal degree.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-28-2011, 08:23 AM
Well the name of it has my city in it. ******** School of Massage and Therapy,you have to complete 600hrs in 6 or 12 months. They also give you the options of day,night and weekend classes! My tuition will be taken care of as well. The only thing I have to worry about is gas money and childcare. The same things I have to deal with on a daily basis anyway :)
sunshine16
06-24-2011, 09:05 PM
Know this is an old thread but had a question for you ladies- how do you get guys to understand they CANT touch you. Like, how many ways do we have to say "no other services" ..? The issue is..ok, we screen these guys, they check out who they are that they say they are..but then, how do you control them in that they cant touch?
That"MODEL"Chick
06-24-2011, 10:10 PM
What do you mean how do we "control" them?! They aren't children,they're grown a** men! We don't have to control them nor do we have to repeat ourselves more than once. Once you start your session and they can't seem to follow the rules,just dismiss their a** and keep the cash!
sunshine16
06-24-2011, 10:12 PM
I mean control the situation..not control them. Just trying to be safe.
Layla Diamante
08-08-2011, 07:03 AM
Reviving this thread... because it is AWESOME!
MelissaBlade
08-09-2011, 10:28 AM
Thanks for reviving this thread, I just went back and reread the original and it has some fab advice there. I completely forgot about google voice.
I have been working as an independent body rub girl for the past six months and usually make about $1500-$1800 per week (in cash). I used to be a web cam girl and think doing body rubs is much easier.
I would ad to Kayla's post the option of renting a studio space. I rent one and it's only $260 per month. Previously I worked out of my home but I became worried about my safety and nosy neighbors.
It's a great business in my opinion and I charge $120/hr.
Melissa Blade
www.secretsofawebcamgirl.com (http://www.secretsofawebcamgirl.com)
SupaByoch
08-09-2011, 11:06 AM
Shouldn't this be in "other work" instead of the camming section? lol
Lady Xplicit18
08-09-2011, 02:56 PM
^^^
This was before the Cam area had it's own section last year.
I'm REALLY interested in doing this full time (aside from going to school+cam).
I'm a wild child-risk taker so I might start out at hotels or something (would use my apt but scared of my safety, even if I say that I don't live there). I DON'T want to do escorting since I BARELY even have sex with my SO, so this is a better option.... can you get stds by doing this aside from having a cut in your hand? Do you use a condom? Sorry just really clueless....
Red Velvette
08-10-2011, 07:09 AM
They busted a massage business here in Louisville last week. They charged all the girls with prostitution. Be CAREFUL. : )
MelissaBlade
08-10-2011, 08:26 AM
You can't get an std by giving a guy a handjob. Massage parlors are always a target for getting busting because it's pretty obvious what they do, being independent is much more discreet. To be safe, never discuss illegal things via phone or email, and ask the client to undress before you begin the rub. I'm pretty sure a real cop can't show his penis while on duty.
Melissa Blade, www.secretsofawebcamgirl.com
Lady Xplicit18
08-10-2011, 03:52 PM
^^^
I don't have a massage table yet.... could I still try? Is it safe that I don't have a bouncer or someone to watch me?
and when they get undressed, where do they go; the bathroom?
And how to make sure they have no weapons on them?
7InPleasers
11-16-2020, 01:42 PM
Know this is an old thread but had a question for you ladies- how do you get guys to understand they CANT touch you. Like, how many ways do we have to say "no other services" ..? The issue is..ok, we screen these guys, they check out who they are that they say they are..but then, how do you control them in that they cant touch?
This is OLD OLD OLD, but I've been browsing.
How do you screen FBSM guys? I know how to screen escorting clients, but I know FBSM men aren't going to give references or work info.
Do you just go based on their name, number and email and look that up?
kortneykay
11-16-2020, 11:16 PM
Screen the same. The craiglist strangler killed the lady giving him a massage. No one should be exempt from screening if they're a stranger using your services. I screen them via their social media, work, name, and cc # as I take deposits. It also captures their location, and IP address. No screening? NO meeting.
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gwennny
12-07-2020, 10:40 PM
Any of yall doing FBSM in 2020? I've done it on and off and just started back. I'd love to compare notes! I'm taking incalls at a 2 br apt with another girl. The biggest problem I have is that some of the guys want to finger me. It totally kills the mood when I tell them that they can't... ugh
drnena
12-16-2020, 02:20 PM
Any of yall doing FBSM in 2020? I've done it on and off and just started back. I'd love to compare notes! I'm taking incalls at a 2 br apt with another girl. The biggest problem I have is that some of the guys want to finger me. It totally kills the mood when I tell them that they can't... ugh
Yes I am still doing FBSM. In fact I'm on tour rn. I hate the city I'm visiting now but I'll be in another one soon ^_^
Tiffanysw
03-10-2022, 01:51 PM
I am thinking of being a FBSM provider, I used to be an escort until cancer took over my life, cancer free now.
techqueen
03-11-2022, 05:08 PM
I am thinking of being a FBSM provider, I used to be an escort until cancer took over my life, cancer free now.
Great move. I've done both. Prefer FBSM. Safer. Although you'll find that massage is more physically demanding (or maybe not). Congrats on being cancer free! That is awesome!
Tiffanysw
03-11-2022, 06:05 PM
Great move. I've done both. Prefer FBSM. Safer. Although you'll find that massage is more physically demanding (or maybe not). Congrats on being cancer free! That is awesome!
Thank you :-)