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KS_Stevia
09-23-2010, 05:46 PM
I think we're ignoring the "dent" factor. A custy with a ring and a dancer can typically pass for father/daughter. Those who remember it's the 21st century might figure they could just be friends hanging out. But a custy with the "dent" and a dancer.....HOOCHIE ALERT!

Not so much with the guys I've referenced above. They were maybe 15 years older than me max. My one much older gent I regularly saw wasn't married while we were involved, so the ring wasn't an issue. I'm sure people who saw us might have thought he was my dad.

chris91
09-23-2010, 08:43 PM
I'm not paying for her time OTC. If she were to even bring up money during our time together, I'd walk. People can develop a mutual attraction to each and want to explore possibilities.

Are you still paying her in the club? Without knowing you personally, I'd have to guess that she is working you and doesn't give a crap about your wedding ring.

Are you exceptionally good looking or funny? What redeeming quality do you have that makes you think this girl likes you in spite of the fact that you are a filthy cheater?

hockeybobby
09-23-2010, 09:14 PM
^^^Welcome back! I'm glad to see you are still on your A game. ;)

Jay12
09-28-2010, 11:04 AM
I don't care; I wear my ring for dancing, and it doesn't affect how much money I make. So, if a client comes by, and he has a ring, I couldn't care less; I also have a ring too.

Loganx2000
09-30-2010, 02:44 AM
"If she were to even bring up money during our time together, I'd walk." Of course. You have to draw the morality line somewhere. Wouldn't want her to tarnish a perfectly good extramarital affair. Hopefully this guys wife is getting a lot of action on the side herself. It always annoys me when men (and I use the term loosely) justify their cheating by claiming that men are not wired to be monogomous. Fine if you believe that, don't get married. Don't tell someone they are your one and only if it isn't true. I am happily single. Will likely never get married, and am rather bad at relationships, but I am honest about it. I don't tell someone they are the only one for me and then sneak around behind their back. Now swingers and open marriages, well they're being honest with their SOs.

Kisca
10-13-2010, 12:26 AM
^ Thank you!!!!
Dont give me that poly crap for cheating.. You cheated and you're a pig. She doesnt need you, nor does she like you. /rant to the OP.

When a man, can say he doesnt want to be married, have kids, be in a relationship, have a girlfriend.. whatever that is - if he is being honest thats all it takes. Going behind a persons back is the worst you can do. Getting a divroce would be your next bet - not point in being married if you dont want to be. I hope she takes your earnings either way - seems you dont know how to control them nor know the difference with them./ rant

Kellydancer
10-24-2010, 11:45 PM
"If she were to even bring up money during our time together, I'd walk." Of course. You have to draw the morality line somewhere. Wouldn't want her to tarnish a perfectly good extramarital affair. Hopefully this guys wife is getting a lot of action on the side herself. It always annoys me when men (and I use the term loosely) justify their cheating by claiming that men are not wired to be monogomous. Fine if you believe that, don't get married. Don't tell someone they are your one and only if it isn't true. I am happily single. Will likely never get married, and am rather bad at relationships, but I am honest about it. I don't tell someone they are the only one for me and then sneak around behind their back. Now swingers and open marriages, well they're being honest with their SOs.

I like you already and agree 100%. I have no issue with swingers, open marriages, etc though it's not my thing. People cheating on their spouse is where I draw the line. I know many men who are monogamous so I laugh when people say guys aren't supposed to be that way. Guys are all different as are women.