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Kellydancer
10-06-2010, 02:15 PM
Good advice.

As for 'Flakey', the fact that you gave him that nickname tells me everything I need to know.

At 39, you can't really rule out guys who have been divorced or have kids without ruling out the majority of men out there. Not that you shouldn't, but if you are going to have such stringent requirements, you must prepare to be alone for a while until you find the guy you will be happy with.

Being alone for a while is not so bad, and it sure beats getting all tangled up with the 'Flakeys' of both sexes out there.

I've dated men with kids and never again. If it means I'm alone the rest of my life it's something I have to deal with. Way too much drama, not to mention way too many questions about why they are divorced (this is one of the reasons I'd very careful about dating divorced guys too, but divorce is mostly a religious view). Luckily I live near a major city with single guys my age.