View Full Version : Fetish Customers!!!
yoda57us
02-17-2011, 07:59 PM
does foot SIZE matter for foot fetish guys?
I'm sure it does to some...
I don't consider myself a full-blown foot fetishist. I like feet and I don't mind at all giving a nice foot rub but I want any foot play to be part of an over-all experience either in the club or with a P4P partner. That being said I like small girls and small feet. I have large hands and I love it when a gal's size five or six foot fits right in the palm of my hand!
xGigi
02-18-2011, 05:26 AM
I wear a size 4-5... and I'm basically always the girl who gets the foot fetish guys in every club I've ever worked at.
I also have really cute feet... but normally they're just IN LOVE with how "tiny and adorable" my feet are.
I'm sure not all foot guys like only small feet... but it sure seems like a LOT of them do.
yeah...that's what I figured. oh well. the idea of a guy asking to suck my toes grosses me out anyway so I think I'm good without the foot fetishes lol
PrimeRandall
02-19-2011, 11:08 AM
does foot SIZE matter for foot fetish guys? I'm not super tall, but I do have size 9 feet. they're not wide or manly looking. I just have really long feet with semi-long toes and I get pedicures but I worry I might be scaring away any fetish customers with my big old feet!
I think size 9 is a pretty great size. I love both small and big feet. Small feet on girls are very cute and sexy, but there is also something really sexy about a girl with a bigger size like 9 and 10, like the long toes. As long as the feet look good, size isn't that important. I love seeing a girl with a nice pedicure too.
PrimeRandall
02-19-2011, 11:13 AM
Hell yeah! Honestly, I think 99% of the girls on here would LOVE that. I mean, at some point we don't care at ALL that it's a fetish of yours--we just want a foot rub after walking around in 6"+ heels all night! I love, love, love foot fetish guys. It makes my job super easy.
It's one of the few fetishes that doesn't make us work harder for our money.
In fact, if you'd like to keep your fetish a secret, you really don't even need to tell her why you actually want to give her a foot rub. You have a great excuse already: you want to relieve her since she's been putting so much pressure on her feet all night.
Thanks a lot for the response, glad to hear most girls are open to it. I'm guessing foot fetish customers are the most common from the fetish scene?
Laxman
02-19-2011, 03:15 PM
Is there a glossary page where one could look up terms like P4P? I am trying hard to decode but some of the acronyms you folks are using are just too hard to understand.
charlie61
02-19-2011, 04:44 PM
Is there a glossary page where one could look up terms like P4P? I am trying hard to decode but some of the acronyms you folks are using are just too hard to understand.
I know, right? I give you...Urban Dictionary!
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=p4p
(see Definition #2)
Laxman
02-19-2011, 05:02 PM
Thank you Charlie! That was very sweet of you.
charlie61
02-19-2011, 05:08 PM
Thank you Charlie! That was very sweet of you.
I'd be lost on here too without UD! :)
Laxman
02-19-2011, 05:16 PM
I'd be lost on here too without UD! :)
I truly value your sympathetic disposition towards me. :D
KS_Stevia
02-20-2011, 02:07 PM
I've always immediately figured out foot fetish guys because they would call me over and immediately compliment my shoes or my feet before they complimented my tits or ass like most others. Then, I knew..
So, to anyone who wants to know how to approach this, that's how you let her know what you like without being a creeper.
PrimeRandall
02-20-2011, 07:33 PM
I guess that is the best way to approach. Regarding timing, how long do customers usually request to be with a girl (regarding the foot fetish customers). Are most girls comfortable with an hour or less? Also, do girls charge different amounts or is there a set amount for something like this?
TravelGuy
02-21-2011, 08:25 AM
Are most girls comfortable with an hour or less? Also, do girls charge different amounts or is there a set amount for something like this?
The amount a dancer will charge for anything can vary widely based on geographic area, type of club and/or type of hustle within a club or how busy the club is. Even within a club it can vary from dancer to dancer. For a given dancer it can vary based on her mood, is she tired and ready to sit a while or full of energy and ready to hustle. It can also depend on whether she's comfortable with you or creeped out by you or whether she knows you well or whether she has (other?) regulars in the club.
The short answer is no, there's no set price for something like this.
Last Saturday afternoon I was in my regular club sitting with one of my favorite dancers. This is a Virginia based, no lap dance, no table dance, no VIP, low hustle, conversation only, pastie and thong club. I was slipping this dancer twenty dollar bills at a rate slow enough that it would appall dancers from a lap dance environment. This is a small club and there were five dancers working so she was on stage for twelve minutes each hour. She was able to spend close to forty minutes with me after doing her tip walk and whatever each hour.
We had lunch, a few drinks, and eventually fetishes came up in the coversation, not for the first time. After a couple of hours at the club, she went back to the dressing room and returned with a pair of neon green, glow in the dark (under black light) fishnet hose. She used them to tie my wrists together in front. At first I was able to slip them off so she had to retie them as tight as she could. Finally it was clear that there was no way I could get them off without help.
I spent about three hours tied up. When I lifted my beer to my mouth it was pretty obvious to anyone looking that my wrists were tied together. Even walking to the men's room the neon green glow in the dark bindings brought me attention I wouldn't normally get. I even kept on awkwardly placing tips on the stage using two hands tied together. The entire staff and most if not all of the customers in the place knew I was tied up.
The same dancer stayed with me the whole time. After she finished her final stage set and was walking out dressed in her civilian clothes, she stopped by my table and released me.
I think this was all pretty mild for fetish play, but it may it's the most I've ever done in a strip club. I spent more hours and dollars than I intended to, but it was amazingly fun. If the management isn't freaked out then this type of club is more conducive to this kind of thing than most strip clubs. Finally, a point against those who claim we don't have real strip clubs in Virginia.
lemiwinks31
02-21-2011, 02:10 PM
I truly value your sympathetic disposition towards me. :D
see, wasnt that easy? and you didnt even have to point out her flaws to reduce her self esteem in order for her to give you that information for free.
Laxman
02-21-2011, 02:21 PM
see, wasnt that easy? and you didnt even have to point out her flaws to reduce her self esteem in order for her to give you that information for free.
Charlie does not have flaws.
jack0177057
02-22-2011, 09:42 AM
^ Um... You don't mind that she's actually a dude...(or whatever the PC word is)?
charlie61
02-22-2011, 10:01 AM
Charlie does not have flaws.
Doode. Seriously?
^ Um... You don't mind that she's actually a dude...(or whatever the PC word is)?
Haha? /:O
yoda57us
02-22-2011, 04:46 PM
Charlie does not have flaws.
Doode. Seriously?
He's only saying this because we are on-line charlie. Inside the club he would never compliment you like this as it would compromise his ability to try and bargain with you for discounted dances...
Raider
02-22-2011, 06:42 PM
Is there a glossary page where one could look up terms like P4P? I am trying hard to decode but some of the acronyms you folks are using are just too hard to understand.
And this comes from an expert on strip clubs who states he knows more about the clubs and strippers than the majority of those on this board?????
Laxman
02-22-2011, 06:52 PM
He's only saying this because we are on-line charlie. Inside the club he would never compliment you like this as it would compromise his ability to try and bargain with you for discounted dances...
Charlie is an exception. I will never bargain her down. I will actually double her asking price.
charlie61
02-23-2011, 12:12 AM
^Wth dude. You know nothing about me.
Raider
02-23-2011, 06:04 AM
Don't you just know he is either going to ask what ''wth'' stands for or he is linking to his Urban Dictionary and hopes the definition will be there!!
livingdeadgirl
02-23-2011, 07:53 AM
LOL at this last page of posts.
what is the best club to go to for ballbusting??? only ballbusting
Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:34 PM
^Wth dude. You know nothing about me.
Agree. Yet, I am trying to value your lap dances.
j_michaels
02-24-2011, 12:25 AM
how do you go about letting a stripper know youre into her dominating and degrading you without being creepy?
charlie61
02-24-2011, 07:40 AM
^ Babystep her through suggestions. Say "You should (insert something benign)" If she goes for that--and I'm talking about legal suggestions here--then you can gauge whether or not she'd be interested in amping up the energy.
lemiwinks31
02-24-2011, 11:24 AM
what is the best club to go to for ballbusting??? only ballbusting
you can go to pretty much any strip club.....and when a stripper comes up to you and asks if you want a $20 dance........tell her "You're too fat for a $20 dance....how about $7.34?"
Flagg25
03-09-2011, 10:44 PM
Have any of the girls here had a customer into "cuckolding"? I'm not sure if many would understand what that is .. but basically I would love to have a dancer whose feet I would rub while she could "humiliate" me (not physically, I'm not into slapping or anything like that) by telling me how much she loves well hung men and how I could never satisfy her but only pamper her for the real men.. do any dancers have experience with that?
ravenblack
03-27-2011, 09:59 PM
fetish guys are my fav they normally come to me because i have a more hard core look and wear alot of pin up style clothes and leather and spikes and so on so forth the kno im into it more then they know the girl next door type is
ravenblack
03-27-2011, 10:00 PM
ive also done cuckhold on cam and in clubs
Flagg25
03-28-2011, 09:35 PM
Where do you work at, if you don't mind me asking? Do you get a lot of cuckold requests or are they rare?
shynewyorker
04-06-2011, 12:19 PM
The wonders of google and searching for strippers and fetishes! Glad i found this site and this thread, especially. Married New Yorker but have always had a submissive side and lately have been thinking alot about wanting to go to a club. But wasn't sure if it was really possible or how it worked.
I'm into being a sissy and humiliation and will be a bit on the lookout for dancer dressed a bit "domme" and it's also just nice to read that it is possible. I've never been alone to a club - always with buddies, so have to play the jock role - but have wanted to experience some verbal humiliation during dances, or just having her know I'm all pantied up in a bra, etc., then to the VIP room for a spell. Seeing her laugh at me would be enough to make me give her like 80 dollars. Am bringing like $600, so I hope that gets a few dances, some drinks for the dancer if she wants and then at least a bit of time in a room. And sounds like if I'm just not creepy when broaching the subject, most dancers will at least be open to the idea or might have some experience with it. Seems like in NYC clubs there'd be even more dancers perhaps, who are into the domme aspect of it.
Is it bad practice to ask other dancers if she knows if any of her fellow dancers are into the dominance thing, or would it be safer to ask a bartender? Don't want to offend any of them or break protocol. Otherwise I guess I'll just go with feeling my way through it, not literally of course. :) thanks for all the insights here.
creolekitty
04-06-2011, 09:29 PM
I love my fetish customers. I recently had a guy pay me $100 to whisper in his ear and trace his nostrils with a finger. LOL.
The first year I started dancing I found my best fetish customer to date. One night he paid me $1000 to stomp on his testicles in the couch room (where we give our lap dances) while wearing my 8" heels. I'm talking about that "oh my god there's a big-ass spider in my kitchen floor" kind of stomp. Ouch! But he loved it & I guess I can say it was worth the money.
I have two other fetish customers as well.
In my personal experience, most fetish customers will let you know that they have a fetish if they feel comfortable around you or they'll just let you know outright.
mistresscyn
08-06-2011, 08:10 PM
I've tried to lure foot guys into the club via craigslist ads, but it didn't work.
I emailed a few a few months ago and nothing panned out. I was dissapointed 'cause I love having my feet massaged and would like to figure out how to lure them. I don't really think many of them pay women to rub the feets because so many women enjoy it. I think they probably just run the idea by their women friends and most of the women are like "hell yeah " ( regarding a free foot rub ).
I remember a guy in college doing this to my roomate and I . He got access to all kinds of hot coed feet, but never paid . By the time we figured out he was surely getting off on it, we didn't care. He gave a seriously good foot rub.
So basically .... I would LOVE to learn how to get feet guys, but I'm also good at dom type stuff too.
A) Have nice looking feet. (There's only a few into scary looking feet.)
B) Yes, they pay, and some will pay a lot if you have a very particular type of feet. I find that MOST foot guys will pay, and that only about a 1/4th-1/2 are fakes/flakes compared to the 3/4ths that are just flat out fakes/flakes that make up the cuckolding & findomme fetishes.
C) My feet are a commodity. Nobody touches my feet unless they're a licensed nail technician. I don't like my feet being touched which why I charge.
I absolutely love dancers who enjoy being with submissive customers. For some reason, I am hopelessly attracted to a girl who can dominate me in the environment of the club. In my opinion, it is wonderful when a dancer enjoys having me admire her feet or massage her shoulders. In fact, a dancer at Scores in NOLA would make me massage her feet and shoulders while she relaxed with a drink. We actually became friends and I served as her submissive, non-sexual sugar daddy. It can be very exciting when a dancer orders me around, makes me do things for her, and hand her money. A few months ago, a dancer at Rick's ordered me to run down the street to buy her a new pair of stockings because hers were torn. In my opinion, it would be my ultimate fantasy to find a dancer who understands cuckolding or who has experience with a submissive cuckold.
Pity you only go to strip clubs.
Have any of the girls here had a customer into "cuckolding"? I'm not sure if many would understand what that is .. but basically I would love to have a dancer whose feet I would rub while she could "humiliate" me (not physically, I'm not into slapping or anything like that) by telling me how much she loves well hung men and how I could never satisfy her but only pamper her for the real men.. do any dancers have experience with that?
The only thing I know about cuckolding is that the guys talk a lot of talk, but most of it isn't for real. Cuckolds are right up there for me with guys who are finslaves. They really don't exist, or they just like to watch interracial porn on the internet and pretend.
KING CUSTIE
08-16-2011, 02:04 PM
i have a fart fetish but never acted on it.....yet
subslave
08-16-2011, 05:00 PM
i am also a fetish customer but I've always been interested in something low maintenance like yahoo messenger. Are there any ladies who would like to do a foot fetish session with me where you just show your soles? I'm very serious about this and am willing to tribute. pm if interested
i am also a fetish customer but I've always been interested in something low maintenance like yahoo messenger. Are there any ladies who would like to do a foot fetish session with me where you just show your soles? I'm very serious about this and am willing to tribute. pm if interested
Are you turned on by corns? I need a pedicure BAD, these puppies are barking at ya!
silk55
08-19-2011, 07:31 AM
Are you turned on by corns? I need a pedicure BAD, these puppies are barking at ya!
:smellie_f:crazy:
chris1234
08-19-2011, 12:56 PM
At the club I go to, when I'm with the girls in the private dance area, not VIP, when they take their heels off and start doing their thing, they've had their feet by my hands or face and on occasion, I've thought about just grabbing the foot and start massaging it with one hand, hoping to get an "oh that feels good" reaction, but I haven't acted on it.
j_michaels
08-29-2011, 01:26 PM
any ladies in the nyc area into fetish customers?
lovelydancer
08-29-2011, 03:52 PM
I looooooove fetish customers! :) It's great. The main way I always found out was the guy told me what he liked, or asked me if I'd be okay with fulfilling whatever the fetish fantasy he desired was. I've turned away very few fetishes customers (fetishes that were too out there for my personal comfort), but overall the fetish guys I have encountered have been open, very polite, and always willing to pay :)
KING CUSTIE
08-31-2011, 01:06 PM
any of you girls do fart fetish stuff?
i love it
sephirothX78
09-05-2011, 02:13 AM
for me being a customer I love a girl with nice feet. I like giving foot rubs and being trampled in heels. but that's what turns my crank lol.
Pretty_Penny
09-05-2011, 06:36 PM
I need one of those types of fetishists.. that just want to come to my club... and hand me 2 thousand dollars... for little to nothing. And I need for that to happen this week.
/threadjack
RonBradley
01-04-2012, 06:50 PM
So most dancers seem to be comfortable having their feet massaged, as long as it's paid for of course. Does anyone know if this is ever done in the clubs in Toronto, not just in the U.S.? Most dancers here seem to be from the States, anybody know about Toronto?
Cosima
01-27-2012, 08:24 AM
super subscribed
Random_Pleasure
02-02-2012, 11:58 AM
I never have any fetish customers till recently;
A guy asked me to dance for him, the first was just a normal LD. At the beginning of the second, he whispered that he would like for me to slap him... I was like WTF? I laughed and continued. 3/4 of the way through the song he told me to grab one of the girls that was walking by so I did. She recognized him right away and joked that he wanted everyone in the club to beat his ass. Dumbfounded, I stood there... She smacked this guy in the face so hard that it shocked people around us. She was calling him names and continuing to smack em up. She told me to help, so I cracked him a couple times while telling myself "been a good life, I am going to hell after this"... It went on for an entire song. By the end of the next song his face was red as hell. He was smiling and thanked us for a "good time". He tipped well, and went and sat back by the stage. The girl I called over laughed a second and said it was weird for her at first as well, but he enjoyed it so why not... Still not sure how that can get a guy off or going, but too each their own I guess...
GlamourRouge
02-03-2012, 02:56 PM
I rarely got them in the club, but that's like all I get on cam. In the club, all the ones I had would make comments about something in particular. I got a few stocking fetishists and a couple feet fetishists after they just kept complimenting them over & over and then I knew to draw on that subject. I never got any really weird fetishists in the club because the subject would have to come up somehow and it didn't obviously.
A lot of men IRL are really embarrassed by their fetishes, and never in a million years would tell someone in person. Not even in a strip club. That's why it does so well online.
Leggsman1980
02-05-2012, 08:38 PM
I have a tremendous fetish for sheer stockings (not fishnet.) If I see a dancer in silky, shiny nylon thigh highs - I will *always* approach her first. I usually get a couple dances to start off with, then tip her to rub and massage her legs and feet.